Why Men Should Court Women Again
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Chivalry is not dead, but in some circles, it is on life support. While women lament the lack of effort men make in dating, most men are either clueless about chivalry or fighting against it. On this episode, I’m going to give you a compelling argument as to why courtship is good for men and what women can do to encourage better male behavior.
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Love this! It is such a great informative video of exactly what my inner and biggest wish is, of what I wished guys could hear and understand :D Thank you Evan!
We understand and we got smarter... We're not your meal ticket anymore, you just want to manipulate us.
S 333 -They are going to try, and try and try to get MORE guys back into approaching women . . . .
@@Suspect333 I don't want or need a meal ticket, dude. Just some respect.
Courtship only benefits Women why would us guys even bother?
@@LisaGemini This Courtship thing does not benefit men only women
@9:38 is gold. "Courtship isn't about laying it on thick. It's about making just a consistent effort to call, plan, pay and follow up instead of being passive or lazy. That's masculine energy. Masculine energy is doing, not just sitting back and saying 'Well, if she likes me she'll give me a call. That's not how it works.'"
"It's about making just a consistent effort to call, plan, pay and follow up instead of being passive or lazy."
Sure. But, only AFTER sex has taken place.
@@nofybn7794 - Sorry! I think you missed the boat.Welcome to 2019!
Courtship is about treating women special and getting nothing out of it.... Pointless.
Best advice I heard on here regarding something so old yet so obvious to generations before us. Love wasn't meant to be gamified, and now that we got online stats, strategies, and corrupt testimonials to societially compare ourselves to, we forgot it only took being nice, persistently interested, and if you had to knowing when to stop and move on to someone you knew could appreciate you. All the humans before us traditionally did it happily this way, offline, and without cynicism.
Women don't like nice guys
Most women like decent stable and trustworthy men.
I am a 26 year old woman, and my personal reaction to a guy who would court me, would be that I would get blown away, only have my eyes on him, invest into serious dating and to anything in my power to keep his interest! I would see him as gold!
But if he did that, with no connection to his true intensions and feelings, did that when he wasnt sure that he had a serious entended interest for me, or did it only to get sex or sex with benifits. It would break me so hard, I dont know what to do! Scar for life! Because I would never be able to trust a guys words or actions. ever!
Men are done with this shit hands off my money
I've seen it over and over again men who let women chase them and end up used with low self esteem women. I hope it's not that way for most men but it's what I see. Either that or the woman who chases gets treated like garbage. Quality high self esteem men chase quality high self esteem women usually best results I'd say. Nevertheless dating is quite a challenge these days.
L - . . .or the man who chases women gets treated like GARBAGE. . . . but that's OK with you . . . .
Every woman is different and every man is different. Just because a few women don't appreciate it doesn't mean that's always the case or will always be the outcome.
God what a breath of fresh air! There are a lot of dating coaches out there that coach how to manipulate the women how to get sex from them and to get women to chase the men! I said time and time again we need to get back to old fashioned courtship of the man making the effort to contact women and to plan dates.
.Ms. Magpie - . . . and men getting NOTHING in return . . .
Thank you for talking to us men and it was helpful info! I seen your Ted Talks and was curious to see what else you had to say about dating or getting to know someone since I recently started online dating and wasn't getting much interaction so it was a good place to start.
I have no problem with the first date being low cost. Then we can see if we are even attracted to each other in the first place. If not, we can easily part ways. Back when I tried dating using the internet, I went on many dates where I had zero attraction for the guy that I met. If a woman is not attracted to a man’s personality or appearance, courting won’t change that. But courting can be great when there is attraction on both sides.
Thank you!
Im 40. No kids. Divorced.
My ex of 20 years started as a one night stand. It ended in a really crappy divorce after a really crappy last 9 years or so of marriage/slavery.
The first lady I took out after 2 years of being single again told me how i impressed and surprised her.
I didn't even try to initiate physical contact.
No end the night with a kiss, no hand holding, nothing for 5 dates. Just eye contact, smiles, generally being me.
After the 5th date, *she grabbed me for a kiss.
Still didn't sleep together for several dates.
She would later tell me I was driving her crazy. She knew I wanted to. She knew I was confident that we were both attracted to each other. She knew I was being a gentleman, but I could be an animal if I decided to.
It wasn't nerves. I *knew I could have her. All I had to do was take her, but she knew that I wanted more.
I wanted to know how she wanted to be taken. She knew thats what i wanted.
Still driving her crazy, 4 years later.
Don't let her see the bill? How is she going to know what her share is?
You're so on point Evan!!! Yes it's effective and worth it!
This was really good! I hope men listen to it so they can learn. Sadly I have to pass up lots of guys because they take on this attitude. For a little while my self esteem had taken a dive because of progressive arthritis and other hardships but now I'm getting much better so I see myself passing those characters that don't wanna do anything on to whoever. Yes courting is much worth it men!!! Please start it again!
+Canadiandude I disagree but that's your experience and opinion
I disagree. Everything Evan said is true for men who want a good woman not a crappy anything goes woman. Its your choice. Good luck!
No, EMK isn't saying that any and every woman will fall for a man who does this. The problem with PUA and game blogs is that they seem to think that they can *make* a woman want them when their own stats show that the great majority of women still reject them. That's manipulation, which is not what this is about. This advice is not how to make any woman want you. It's about how to develop a good rapport and ongoing relationship when the inherent potential is already there. And whether there is that potential will vary from woman to woman. If a man does this and it doesn't work out, no it's not the courtship that failed, it is that he did not have the right woman.
EMK said very clearly that a woman who is not responsive to or appreciative of a man's efforts is the wrong woman. I also said that clearly. What you seem to be attacking is the fact that courtship can't make the wrong woman the right woman, and that is completely beside the point of the podcast. This is not about how to game women, it's about how to initiate an actual relationship.
And yet women don't have to learn a damn thing its all men and you wonder why we gave up
Hey guys keep doing this courthship thing yes i know it wont get you anywhere with her but as long as she gets what she wants its fine.
Maravilloso, gracias
Great vid Evan!! Welcome to RUclips!!
Thank you so much. This is very helpful :)
Evan I think you have the right idea it's so pathetic with average men who really have nothing on the ball for them but think that I'm going to call them back. It's ridiculous that's why I date men from overseas in England Italy Germany any place than here Canadian men
here mare pathetic that's the only word I got for here . right now it's it's really it's laughable
You women have it easy
Even the thing about this is courtship only benefits women
If giving less gets you more results then why wouldn't a guy do this? It's just logic
I think you should coach men! Most of them don’t have a clue and they desperately need your knowledge
BS
Most dating rules are ridiculous. I want a guy to show he's interested in me by calling the day after a date. However, I don't want a love bomber, either. Guys should talk to their dads, uncles and granddads to get advice on how to treat a lady. Yes, some women aren't gonna appreciate it, they have various issues they need to work on. But the right woman will respond with appreciation. You know what they say, you've gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you get the prince (or princess). Be patient, it's worth it to find the right partner.
Lol so we have to keep getting rejected until we find the right one? That sounds like a ton of fun
@@Closedeyewilly Anything worth having in life is worth waiting and working toward with perseverance. Whether it's a good career or a healthy relationship.
Ha! Ha! Chivalry is dead and feminists killed it.
No men killed it
jrmetmoi Once feminists got their way, there was nothing left to kill.
Why are you watching this if you hate chivalry? You must realize that you need dating help.
We know this. Men dont.
You’re a breakdown of how a woman can be a great date is example of what it means to be in feminine energy and receptive.
split the fucking bill
This is good - talking to men shows us what we can expect. Thank you.
I wanna instantly marry the guy you just described hahahaha
1. We meet.
2. We have sex.
3. If we like each other, THEN we date.
I guess i'm not alone to think this way. lol
Why would you have sex with someone if you don't like them in the first place?
@@SuzannaKiraly Because it’s fun. Not everyone has to be “relationship compatible” with a person to enjoy having sex with them.
hmm....basically saying its more important to work on your game/confidence/demeanor than to do all the extras....which is what those men are doing...they are either working on their game or refusing to change themselves into a false persona to please women...nothing wrong with courting...but it also doesnt need to involve spending resources
The women you get for free will never satisfy you or fulfill you long term. She will disgust you the moment you nut.
Everything you said in this video is completely wrong. You're teaching guys to remain simps.
He’s happily married and you’re an incel.
@@TuffLuv1984 lol typical shaming
@@TuffLuv1984 and no, I'm not an incel... Sorry. And even if I was, who cares. Still doesn't change the fact that men do way too much and don't get nearly as much back from women
@@Closedeyewilly good, you should be ashamed.