How to Stop Men From Walking All Over You
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- Опубликовано: 2 май 2016
- It’s the curse of the nice girl. You fall in love. He seems great. Slowly, but surely, his mask slips and you see his true colors: he’s selfish, stubborn, temperamental, critical and mean. You still love him, you remember him at his best, but you have no idea how you fell so far in this relationship. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to help you enforce healthy boundaries from the very beginning so that you’re nobody’s doormat ever again.
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I like that...“a good person who’s flawed.” So simple! And aren’t we all?!
There are many "I hate you, don't leave me" people out there.
That's because we were acting door-matty.
Gee! This is nothing but a tightrope! Give, but don't give...walk away, but overlook the small stuff. I would rather be alone than have to walk on eggshells as you stated. I am a giving person and I also know if it is not appreciated then I will leave the situation. My gut does indeed tell me, and if I have given the person all the second chances I feel are needed (and this may vary from relationship to relationship), and if I feel awful in a situation then I do indeed leave. My needs may vary depending on the man I am in a relationship with.
For now, I am good on my own, I have no time for games. I am who I am and if I was not appreciated then it is their loss.
Good advice sometimes I can come across as “too nice” something I’m trying to work on thank you Evan!
thanks, this is so authentic, and validation of what problems relationships have.
Quote "A GOOD PERSON WHO IS FLAWED"....she settled for less. Please come up to par for Her. She is so deserving of it.
This is great! my natural setting is kind of "resentful doormat'...and I married a full blown 'steam roller'....Not in a horrible way, but just a ton of energy, and excitement sometimes forgetting that there are other people to consider...Its taken sometime but I really had to figure out how to 'own my space, own my decisions, Not get easily pushed around and be the force that can bring that steam roller to a stop'..lol..or better yet that can take us all to a happy destination :)....And a huge part of that has been very clearly voicing my needs. and knowing my own boundaries in my head, so I can communicate them clearly, and not getting pushed around, these are all very clear and concise tips! That are very helpful. Thanks!
Excellent content here Evan. Thank you for this video.
So many excellent points!!! Great video!
Laughed so much at "this book that once upon a time I read on the toilet"! Too funny!! :D Your podcasts are unbeatable each and every time, best of the best! :)
Very good! Thank you!
Ohhhhh yeah! Thank you!!!
I wish I would have listen to your video!
lol I believe this apply to Man being walk over as well, same type of behavior patterns
After 8 weeks of string me along I have send my "boundries" text today. Its a text which states that i do not care if i lose him. I just state whats important for me and what i expect.
You are a smart man!
In dating, the "hotness factor" has more pull than whether someone is a doormat or not. ...which is not being spoken about much, in this video. He touched on it lightly- about the New York girlfriend... Who "was a personal trainer". I'm positive that him breaking up with his La girlfriend had more to do with the New York girlfriend being far better-looking and not about her style of treating him. Men are more motivated by sexual excitement and attraction. He basically admits that he doesn't mind being treated as a doormat if she is hot enough. So ladies... Don't be fooled into thinking that it's anything different. I'm sure the LA lady had no idea that she was being dumped for the New York lady. He had other "options" and men don't tell you that part. whether she was being "a doormat" or not , had absolutely nothing to do with his decision -and he made that clear.
"He basically admits that he doesn't mind being treated as a doormat?" 100% untrue and remarkable that this was your takeaway.
I’m 10 minutes in and only hear about Evan’s personal stories. BS that he doesn’t talk about his personal life ‘much’.
Be LESS of a doormat.....!
My husband said that I was too nice. What does that mean? He was physically and mentally and emotionally abusive. I left 6 months ago, with broken bones and financially broken.
That's terrible! In my advice, even though I'm young, I would say that he obviously didn't deserve you, and you need to be more cautious in your future relationships. Find out what the patterns are of abuse and try to stop it from happening again. There will 9/10 times be someone who will cherish you and love you when you love and respect yourself.
The first ex-girlfriend you describe sounds like a borderline personality. It's not that she's trying to treat you like a doormat, she has a recognized disorder, and an extremely challenging one at that. Not that you were in any way discompassionate to her, but that person may need psychiatric help- only saying so in the hopes of lending some context and/or clarity to the situation you were in.
I don't think she sounded borderline at all. And regardless that isn't an excuse to stay with someone with toxic behavior!!!
I let him do that to me
Men don't like bitches. They like nice girls with boundaries. In psychology the higher someone is in a trait called "agreeableness" the nicer others tend to perceive them.
Curiously there are many couples who are opposites in this regard; one is high in agreeableness, the other low.
But then what causes sexual attraction? Polarity. In other words the more someone contrasts against your own energy the higher the level of attraction. Yet this is a complex subject in and of itself, as every individual is a unique blend and percentage of feminine and masculine energy.
the tongue clicking into the microphone in these older vids is so annoying
Coach Corey Wayne coaches that men should only pursue 20%-30% of the time and women should be pursuing 70%-80% of the time. Also he coaches that men should not be texting and reaching out to women and to only contact the woman once a week to set up dates. So no wonder why men are not longer pursuing the women and not staying in contact with the woman.
a. I have never heard of Corey Wayne. He cannot be that influential on the entire male gender. b. You get treated the way you allow yourself to be treated. Guy texts you once a week, you cut him loose. Problem solved. Bye, Corey Wayne followers.
Coach Corey Wayne is all over the Internet and on RUclips. He coaches that chasing women is Feminine and Submissive so men should not be pursuing women after the third date. He also coaches that men should not be reaching out or contacting women unless it's to set up a date. Also to not call or respond to texts messages unless it's to make a date. He also coaches men to keep their feelings for women unclear so ir will create more attraction for the men. So to not let her know how much you like her to create more attraction.
So he teaches guys to act like assholes. Didn't think they'd need much help with that.
Hahaha! He has a huge following.
So does Donald Trump. Just because millions of people think something doesn't make it good, true, or ethical.