How to Avoid a Bad Relationship Before It Happens

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  • Опубликовано: 25 апр 2016
  • It’s pretty much THE question, isn’t it? Instead of wasting months and years on men who treat you poorly, how can you avoid the unhappy ending BEFOREHAND? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to teach you how to use pattern recognition, experience and your gut to make better relationship choices in the future.
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Комментарии • 37

  • @AliKhan-fs3rm
    @AliKhan-fs3rm 6 лет назад +19

    good story. glad you shared. men are messemerized by looks and will make excuses for personality flaws till it blows up; happens all the time

    • @Florida_gyrl
      @Florida_gyrl 8 месяцев назад

      Yes men do all the time! They hate admitting that too

    • @sherriflemming3218
      @sherriflemming3218 4 месяца назад +1

      Romance chemistry and attraction does not create relationship success

  • @fineneighborhood
    @fineneighborhood 8 лет назад +29

    Yes! A relationship shouldn't be hard. If it's not smooth and mostly easy, it's just a bad relationship...unless, of course, there are things going on outside of both your control. I really do speak from experience. My ex and I were on a constant roller coaster that was sometimes fun but oftentimes just hard. My late husband and I didn't have to put much thought into the relationship; it just happened. It was mostly easy. That's what I'm looking for in a significant other...easy, not hard.

    • @LisaGemini
      @LisaGemini 3 года назад

      Yeah. Rollercoasters suck.

    • @miriamalon
      @miriamalon 3 года назад

      Sorry for your loss :(

  • @KatDancingnStretching
    @KatDancingnStretching 7 лет назад +9

    "For lack of a better turd. Hide their crazy." that was the best slip! 15:02 :D

  • @discosphinx
    @discosphinx 5 лет назад +9

    I find that narcissists tend to NOT to be able to give empathy and will greatly put blame on the other because they are acting like a "victim". The reality can also be that this person is expressing vulnerability and is seeking the other to give simple positive reinforcement that is lacking in their life. Everyone is damaged to some extent. A relationship should be healing and loving so that both people can grow and bring out the best in the other. Maybe that lady want just seeking warmth and understanding form her partner and he could not give that.

    • @stylin1188
      @stylin1188 5 лет назад

      Yes girl ! I think un every situation he probably acted that way! I never trust anyone who doesnt acknowledge their part in a relationship.

  • @angelajennings7859
    @angelajennings7859 8 лет назад +15

    Evan....you give wonderful sound advice. You've made me realize that I am a doormat and I need some work. Thank you.

  • @suzettekitselman6914
    @suzettekitselman6914 3 года назад +3

    Hey Evan! This is a great one! Thanks for the sinking ship analogy, and the crazy drama, energy drainer, and well, basically the whole thing. Well done! And yes, this stuff is important for everybody to consider, not just women!

  • @chocolateaka5502
    @chocolateaka5502 8 лет назад +3

    I needed this today. Thanks.

  • @michellefox407
    @michellefox407 2 года назад

    Loving watching your videos, thank you, awesome coach

  • @stephisteti
    @stephisteti 8 лет назад +4

    Thank you for this one.

  • @ninjacat508
    @ninjacat508 7 лет назад +6

    mom says "stfu". That's the best! Moms just know...

  • @dinayando2849
    @dinayando2849 5 лет назад +9

    Your friend was most likely with a covert narcissist ....you should get into that subject a little, as I think it is more common than you know.

  • @jennifercarroll7668
    @jennifercarroll7668 3 года назад +2

    I think you are so wise Evan.
    I love your advice and I particularly loved the story of your date who ran away at the wedding and her other escapades plus what your Mum said
    Priceless 😂

  • @evnomiaiw2244
    @evnomiaiw2244 6 лет назад

    excellent guidance!

  • @dnicolle529
    @dnicolle529 6 лет назад +3

    the last two minutes of this were so applicable to me! I needed to see this bad! Thank you

  • @LisaGemini
    @LisaGemini 3 года назад +2

    Wow, your girlfriend was emotionally immature. It reminds me of some things that happened with my ex, my first real boyfriend/husband. On my 21st birthday, he insisted on inviting his mother to the restaurant with us. I didn't like that idea, I'd already met his mom and never hit it off with her. I remember him throwing my flowers and a cake at me. I cried my eyes out. If only I'd broken up with him then and there. No, I had to marry him four years later. We were only married for 18 months. Enough said.

  • @Shasha8674
    @Shasha8674 7 лет назад +3

    A guy will run if they think you ship is sinking or sick. Can watch them run fast. Sick people need others...can't be in isolation or they get more sick due to being alone.

  • @Vixinaful
    @Vixinaful 5 лет назад

    Good lord, if she found THAT upsetting, wait until she would account a big ass storm and watch her house get destroyed. Then the sparks would REALLY fly, haha!

  • @cloverclover7638
    @cloverclover7638 7 лет назад +4

    Her behavior was worse than her lavendar dress. Actually there was nothing wrong with her dress!

  • @boomerangsruckflug8513
    @boomerangsruckflug8513 7 лет назад

    my mother would never be allowed to tell a boyfriend of mine to break up with me, no matter what happened before. Actually it was your turn to decide and finally break up. But you were in your twenties, which is pretty young 😉

  • @victoriaqueal3266
    @victoriaqueal3266 5 лет назад +2

    Should you accept your spouse masturbating to porn even though it's hurting the other spouse. It seems porn us very popular for men these days. Help I've I left a 22 year relationship because of this, and finding the same theme with many if the men I date. I really don't want a man that engage in this and tells me that ill just have to deal with it by his actions.

  • @stylin1188
    @stylin1188 5 лет назад

    Interesting that you both were making fun of that couple then when she turned it on you she was told to shut up ? So basically she dished it out out you could not take it? She wasnt sensitive to your feelings just like you were to hers . Maybe you two were to much alike ever think of that?

  • @heavenlychase115
    @heavenlychase115 6 лет назад

    11:14

  • @cloverclover7638
    @cloverclover7638 7 лет назад +1

    So when you told her to be quiet and she walks off, you should led bye-gones be bubye gones! LOL! Can't believe you kept going out with her. Sucker.

  • @everomero1164
    @everomero1164 6 лет назад +1

    Wow, could this story be more shallow!!!! Buy her a long flowery scarf, you goof and give her a break.

  • @goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359
    @goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359 6 лет назад +1

    A N.Y. mom..dude u should have known better...😆🤣...u know we don't patty cake

  • @Sharperthanu1
    @Sharperthanu1 6 лет назад +1

    Actually this is ALSO crap:IF YOUR INTUITION SAYS AVOID A CERTAIN GUY YOU SHOULD ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION.YOU COULD VERY WELLL BE SAVING YOUR LIFE BY DOING THIS. THE GUY IN THE ABOVE VIDEO IS OUT TO LUNCH.HE HAS NO BUSINESS GIVING ADVICE ON THIS TOPIC.HE DOESN'T HAVE THE PROPER REAL WORLD UNDERSTANDING OR EXPERIENCE TO GIVE ADVICE ON THIS TOPIC.

  • @stylin1188
    @stylin1188 5 лет назад +4

    FYI! I would of left the wedding as well . you laughed at her sensitive feelings? You were immature and did not acknowledge your part in the relationship break up. your mamma pretty much told the girl that this is how my son is deal with it ??? Maybe your mom should of sat you down and told you how to treat a women? I saw how dominant you were over the other Male counterpart you had on your channel he was another dating coach and you talked over him and interrupted him constantly, and inserted the way you would handle things in every situation. So I can imagine how you were in relationships. She should of dumped you at the wedding.

    • @mctesq
      @mctesq 4 года назад +2

      Omg. She was overreacting.

    • @DH-ts6ho
      @DH-ts6ho Год назад

      Marc, ignore her feedback.

    • @stylin1188
      @stylin1188 Год назад

      @@DH-ts6ho Whatever it was 3 years ago.