Follow Your Heart, Use Your Head: How to Know if Your Relationship is Worth Preserving
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- Опубликовано: 17 окт 2016
- If lasting love has eluded you and every Mr. Right turned out wrong, you need to listen to this. Yes, it's a story about how I chose my wife, but it might as well be about your future. Furthermore, it's the most revealing I've ever been and I think it will shed great light on how to make better relationship choices using both your head AND your heart.
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“Don’t evaluate the person, evaluate the relationship!” Wow, that’s good! Thank you Evan!
Aracelis Collazo you’re welcome.
'assess the relationship, rather than the person.'
I laughed, I cried, and you just made my day. ❤️🌟
Viviana V. you’re welcome. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
I love your honesty, I cried and i want to thank you! I am happy i came across your video ❤️
I loved listening to this. Your relationship with your wife is inspirational. Thank you for sharing :-)
Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you so much!
Evan- you are a gem 💎 . Thank you,
This is awesome thanks Evan.
Great anecdote, thanks for sharing because we are so blind following stereotypes we let the good chances pass in front of our eyes
I’ve said this in my past, I love him but not in love with him. I’m currently dating but not in a serious relationship since 2014. I’ve been contemplating about making decisions with my heart or my head. I’ve always been led by my heart and searched for those butterfly feelings, but now as I am a 43 yr old single woman; I’m seeing things a bit differently and considering if we’d match the same lifestyle. At the end of the day I want someone honest, trustworthy, and dependable whom I can build a life with. Thank you so very much for being transparent. This was truly insightful.
So revealing. Thank you for sharing! Grateful.
Sandie Castaneda you’re welcome. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
Thank you so much for sharing your story and being so transparent!!
Coco_Sips781 you’re welcome. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
The best one you've done yet! And one of the best on real and sensible relationships yet! Thank you so very much for sharing your personal life! This video has been an answer to an underlying issue for me. I so appreciate you and your devotion to do right in the world by helping others. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️
Mari Posa you’re welcome. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
I exclusively dated a guy. Since day 1 we move like a couple we did everything together we was always together so after month 6 I ask him why we wasn’t in a relationship he said he wasn’t there yet but he told me that he did not want to hold me hostage and understood if I walk away.
I chose to stay because he was everything I wanted and desire and he told me love me any everything about me. I knew we was going to be in a official relationship.
An additional 4 months pass and i ask him how have things been with me in his life. He said he is happy. I ask “why are we not bf/gf” he said I don’t know… I just don’t feel it. My heart is not telling me that this is it
I had to walk away 😢
Thanks for sharing! Great advice as always.
Debra Kay you’re welcome. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
Fighting the fight for my love against my bfs toxic parents. This is very informative.
Kitty Kat you’re welcome. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
This is an excellent podcast Evan. This really resonated with me. I have maximized tendencies as well but I have recently realized that no one is perfect, not even me, and I don't have to literally check off every single thing on my list to be happy. And, if I were to check off everything, I might not be happy anyway. What matters is the relationship, not the "resume."
TheLauren1113 thank you!
Great story, thank you for sharing!
Thanks for listening!
Thumbs up to you and pray you continue to have a blessed and blissful marriage the first time I clicked on to your podcast i knew you are genuine .l wish you all the best in your career
Georgina Buckle thanks. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
Wow! This is great, Evan. Thanks!
Marie Beau-frere you’re welcome. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
Lovely Evan. Thanks for the inspiration.
Charlotte Wilson you’re welcome. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
That was truly fantastic.
GK_Knight you’re welcome. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
6 months after you were married!!my dude.gonna pause right there to make this comment lmao
BEST EPISODE!! Love the story. Love the message. Love your authenticity and honesty. Super helpful for an impatient, logic driven, and career focused gal like me
Aw, thanks!
wow man great story! i admire you
Hadas Louk thanks. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
This is incredible.
PEACE'S LIFE RECOVERY you’re welcome. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
What an amazing story
Adriana Salazar thank you! Be sure to check out my new episodes.
BEST podcast yet!! Perhaps because it was personal?? I really appreciate the fact that you admittedly weren't sure....because I see this again and again with the men I date; they are never 100% certain about me (even though I'm perfection!)ha....only to botch the relationship, which I normally end, because I find this insulting+demeaning. I would LOVE to hear your wife's side of the story, because somehow, she kept you interested and in love, until you reached your 'aha moment'. SHE very well could have told you to take a hike if you 'weren't sure'! Thank you, this was so insightful....I will definitely change some behavior.
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excellent podcast, maybe your best
Thanks, Linda. Glad to know you're watching!
Thank you.
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Insightful
Tammy Lea Doane Official thanks. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
One of the best podcasts on relationships I've ever followed! I will have to watch this episode again. Re: Working really hard on the relationship vs. it being easeful - does this pertain to conflict and communication too? Doesn't conflict and communication always take some level of work? Or are you suggesting with a good match, it feels more natural - and less like work? Thanks!
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I’m so glad I found this! I’ve been questioning my own relationship because there isn’t the crazy “in love” feeling and because it’s so easy. I’m glad to have received the validation from this video that it’s okay and probably a better outcome long term. Thank you!
Yeah! I was dating someone for 4 months and everything was there but he left me because he didnt have that "in love" feeling. Everything else was there and he totally blindsided me by dumping me but he claims it was my personality indifference because Im more introverted. Doesnt make sense.
Jess Powell you’re welcome. Be sure to check out my new episodes.
This sounds like the story I am in right now...I have a great guy in my life who has told me that I am the best person he has ever had in his life (outside of family). He says that I have taught him a lot and he has grown a lot since knowing me. We have been together over 3 years. He says he loves me, but he seems to lament not feeling "in love" with me. He refers over and over again to a feeling that he had in 5th grade about a girl that was so very strong, that I believe that he is searching for that feeling again. And, like your girlfriend most likely felt at one time, I am feeling that I need to prepare to let him go to search the "other side of the fence" , though that is not what I want at all, because we fit together in so many important ways, and communicate well and get along great. But it is not about me and what I want, and sometimes I feel that I would do him a favor by not making him break up with me and feel the guilt that he would most likely feel about that. This video really helped me, perhaps I will have him listen to it.
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How did it go?
'in love means youve completely lost your rational faculties'
Hi, thank you for sharing your story and being so transparent and honest. I came across this video because I have been dating my boyfriend for a year. I am the only girl, and this is the only and first boyfriend my parents have met. We are a religious family. He is Christian which is great, and he is the best person I have ever known. However, my parents make negative comments about him because he enjoys coaching wrestling. Meanwhile, I am pursuing my Master's degree in Special Education. They expect the guy I am with to have one or be pursuing one as well. Everyone loves him, but the fact that my parents have their strong negative opinions, it's hard. I understand that they do it because they love me. Any advice?
I ended my relationship almost 3 weeks ago because my bf said he wasn't sure about marrying me. I wasn't upset about that admission but it was more so the fact that he totally stopped trying, went 2 weeks at a time without even a phone call and I was the only one making an effort. It sounds like you still treated her with love and kindness even though you weren't sure.
Sounds like you did the right thing
How long had you even been together? Had you even broken the threshold of living together? If not...and you dumped him over marriage...youre a fool.
wow
Do you have any videos on dating within family? Lots a major drama and abuse by my sisters because of it
It says I use my head in romantic love.
Hi Coach Evan Good Night's From Singapore! How Can A Woman Be Sure If A Relationship Is Really Worth Fighting For When It Has Turns Upside-Down Or Did EveryThing's Possible To Sustain A Relatipnship When A Guy Seem Quiet Or Distant? So What Is A Guy Been Thinking?? Should A Woman ReConsider What She Wants In Her Life's Without Having To Worries About Who Is Coming ForWard Eventually?? Or Just Stays Happy Or Positive Always! What Can A Woman Do To Give's An Ultimate Responds Or Keep Wonders???
Whatever you’re experiencing now will continue in the future, and even get worse if you marry. So if you and him can’t get along now, if he doesn’t treat you nice now, leave the relationship. Unless you enjoy the drama. If not, be with someone who is drama-free and treats you right.
Intoxicated?? Sheesh! I wish. Nah....it's been quite the sobering event.
you should NEVER follow your heart! your heart is easily swayed by emotions, even the wrong song can make you feel the wrong way. hence why even biblically it is said to always use your head to make clear and right decisions.
Why does it matter that she was turning 39?
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Evan, follow your heart and use your head, walk away from the liberals.