Situations: 1) Mother complaining too much about her own marital life problems to her daughter. Daughters begin to despise the concept of marriage. 2) Ranting against reservation too much. Gives youngsters and escape route to not work hard. Many avenues to earn money. 3) Corruption: Crying too much about corruption and pollution in India. Kids go to Western countries and don't come back. Corruption is everywhere. 4) Negative views of boys about girls that they entrap them in false cases. Don't badmouth girls too much. Don't paint all girls with the same brush. 5). Negative views about 9-5 jobs. Be pragmatic.
आप लड़कियों की मां को समझा रहे हैं, अपना बुरा अनुभव न बताएं। लेकिन उनकी आंखों से भी तो वो देखती है ना। झूठ नहीं बोल सकते हैं। अठरा बीस की होते होते लड़कियां सब समझने लगती है। जिन कारणों से अपनी मां को रोते हुए देखती है, वो गलती अपने जीवन में नहीं होने देती है। पुरुषों को महिलाओं के प्रति अपने व्यवहार को जल्दी से जल्दी सुधारना चाहिए। नहीं तो समाज व्यवस्था बिगड़ जाएगी।
Correct!! Agar maayein naa bhi royein....par betiyan andhi thori hain! Unhein bhi to dikhta hai ghar me kya chal raha hai...baap ka abusive aur controlling behaviour. Many times to domestic violence bhi dekha hai hote hue. Agar maa ne rona band kar diya, to kya ye sab dikhna bhi band ho jayega?? Sir ka ye point mujhe bilkul samajh nahi aata, kai videos me keh chuke hain!
yes ma'am....or society ne hi housewife kai work ko itna bura smhjte hain ki pucho mat but bcoz of housewife ghar managed reheta h.... also my mother never complaint about anything but have seen all the nonsense which she went through bcoz of her sweet simple behaviour...and finally after 25years of marriage i am happy she speaks for herself :)
Leke prabhu ka naam. Corruption pe video bna dijiye Sir. I'm 25 year old, I used to listen western English podcast until I realized I know very less about Indian issues. Thanks to RUclips algorithm, now I listen your show everyday. Keep up the good work sir.
I’d love to hear your insights on the entrepreneurial part. Not just the negative “impossible” chatter but everything . Because a lot of us want to make it work . The 50k we’d make from a 9-5, we want to make it working for ourselves. It’s not about buying a porsche or a ferrari or travelling the world, it’s a lot of just making ends meet but in a way that doesn’t wreck us mentally and physically. I’d love to hear ur advice on how this path can work for us, what things we must do correctly to make our life in it.
It's wishful to think you can make entrepreneurship work without paying any cost for it - emotional, mental, financial. There are no such guarantees in life - in order to play a probabilistic game, always make careful bets. Even a high probability move can fail - be mentally prepared for it. Job grants security & certainty, being self-employed gives freedom & time - understand the trade-offs and make the trade knowing when to switch between the two.
I agree with the below comment .. I am a single woman - working and divorced and in my 40s .. i did try for getting married but more prospects i met and understood their thought process, approach and attitude - more i reached to a conclusion that I am better off single .. also, i do not have any support from my parents - my mom believes if she couldn't achieve things in life then I shouldn't be benefitted from them either .. and she is a typical woman who belives son is everything .. I have good friends but honestly feel it's better off single than getting misearable in a relationship .. please make a video on singlehood
To arrive at 'Do what you like/love", you should always do what you don't like, till you are in a position of wealth and strength to do what you like/love.
Sir, Great job!!! Very practical and important lessons of life you are sharing knowledge that will help this generation to clear unwanted exaggerations of marriage, 9-5 jobs etc-2. And again- You said following too much passion makes you compensate case 👌👌 Last year I shared a thought on social media .... "Follow your passion to do compassion." Looks like something in me is similar to yours in terms of thoughts pattern!!
Sangwan ji ek video ncr ki vehicle scrap policy par bhi banaye... RC par 15 years aata hai diesel vehicle me and tax bhi 15 years ka lete hai toh 10 years me scrap kyu hoti hai
Jo parents bolte hai reservation nahi hota toh unke bacche IAS, PCS banjate wahi parents apne baccho ke low caste girlfriend ya boyfriend se shadi ke khilaf bhi hote hai irrespective unka girlfriend ya boyfriend highly educated hai like engineer doctor or working on high package, on one side these people are apposing reservation but on otherside they are supporting casteism in one or the other form
@@deepshikhasonkar8370 nahi bilkul justified nahi hai it is their right to marry his daughter wherever he want noone can force him afterall we are living in a free world democracy why anybody should be bothered about their personal decision on which they have all the right to do so
It’s always a pleasure to listen to your perspectives sir. Please make videos on family planning, and how society pressurise a married woman to conceive right after marriage because it creates unnecessary mental pressure on so many women. Would love to hear your thoughts.
Respected sir *( Girlfriend banana achi baat hain kya Agar hain toh kese banaye )* Mujhe pata hain sir ki yeh question thoda alag hain par main aapse yeh sawal puch raha hoon kyunki aapne duniya dekhi hain .
Sir the most unique thing in ur videos is as u claim urself u r realist, yes u r.. u serve things as it is not as public wants to listen. That "kadve pravachan" is the USP . Keep it up. I'm also a person with similar kind of thoughts.( not comparing with u). I like it. Thanku
Very practical videos! Such fresh and realistic content to bring clarity Sangwan ji. Ur a true researcher! I hve my cousins who hve settled down in Canada n US, wen i nw luk bk hearing frm u...yes their parents narrative was always anti India for no reason!
Sir ek baat bataiye... Agar maayein naa bhi royein....par betiyan andhi thori hain! Unhein bhi to dikhta hai ghar me kya chal raha hai baap ka abusive aur controlling behaviour. Many times to domestic violence bhi dekha hai hote hue saamne se hi, nahi to baap ka cheekhna chillana to lagbhag sab gharon me hota hi tha. Agar maa ne rona band kar bhi diya, to kya ye sab dikhna bhi band ho jayega?? Apka ye point mujhe bilkul samajh nahi aata, kai videos me ap keh chuke ho.... I understand most of your points in your videos but not this one!!
Summary 1. Parents apni shaadi ko kaisi dekhate hai(khusiya (kush ladai and matbhed) ya dukh yaha nahi hoti kuch karrahihoti(for house wife mother to daughter) 2. Corruption 3.reservation (ka rona)nahi hota toh sab ias nahi honge(not selected because of reservation) 4. sab ek jayse nahi hote 5. Naukri khrab nahi (usse sikho) Yeh nat socho tum passion hi follow karoge
Sir, please make a video on interfaith marriage. Nowadays, young Hindus are marrying in different religions. They say that love conquers all. But they don't think long term. When one has problems, common religious faith can help you overcome challenges. Both spouses participate in the common festivals. Most importantly, how will they raise kids? 50 - 50 religion?
also would like to hear about the future of plot/land prices in India. I know prices are area specific but still if you could share your perspective/analysis on this.
Sir please make a video on corruption and pollution. My dad wants me to go to dubai n work but i am against it. My dad earned money but sacrificed his health in return i dont want to be the same. I am seeking for balance in life. "My balance"
Sir ajkal polygamy pe bohot charche ho rahe hai, 2-4 polygamy marriages social media pe dikhi jaha logone iske support kiya. Is vishay pe aapki raay janna chahti hu.
Polygamy is stupidity dear frd. Better think practically are you happy with your papa having multiple wives or your mom only. What's shown on social media is just exaggerated and not the reality of life.
Im 34 yrs..divorced..shes worried abt my marriage.. And mostly neg talk she does and tells coz I'm not married since they are retired, they can't travel around the world.. Wat will people say.. Wat bull shit?? I told that has no connection.. U want to go you go!!
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Situations:
1) Mother complaining too much about her own marital life problems to her daughter. Daughters begin to despise the concept of marriage.
2) Ranting against reservation too much. Gives youngsters and escape route to not work hard. Many avenues to earn money.
3) Corruption: Crying too much about corruption and pollution in India. Kids go to Western countries and don't come back. Corruption is everywhere.
4) Negative views of boys about girls that they entrap them in false cases. Don't badmouth girls too much. Don't paint all girls with the same brush.
5). Negative views about 9-5 jobs.
Be pragmatic.
And hence giving rise to pseudo feminist which later on see everything from lens of comparison and Want all adhikar without kartavya
आप लड़कियों की मां को समझा रहे हैं, अपना बुरा अनुभव न बताएं। लेकिन उनकी आंखों से भी तो वो देखती है ना। झूठ नहीं बोल सकते हैं। अठरा बीस की होते होते लड़कियां सब समझने लगती है।
जिन कारणों से अपनी मां को रोते हुए देखती है, वो गलती अपने जीवन में नहीं होने देती है।
पुरुषों को महिलाओं के प्रति अपने व्यवहार को जल्दी से जल्दी सुधारना चाहिए। नहीं तो समाज व्यवस्था बिगड़ जाएगी।
Correct!!
Agar maayein naa bhi royein....par betiyan andhi thori hain! Unhein bhi to dikhta hai ghar me kya chal raha hai...baap ka abusive aur controlling behaviour. Many times to domestic violence bhi dekha hai hote hue. Agar maa ne rona band kar diya, to kya ye sab dikhna bhi band ho jayega?? Sir ka ye point mujhe bilkul samajh nahi aata, kai videos me keh chuke hain!
yes ma'am....or society ne hi housewife kai work ko itna bura smhjte hain ki pucho mat but bcoz of housewife ghar managed reheta h....
also my mother never complaint about anything but have seen all the nonsense which she went through bcoz of her sweet simple behaviour...and finally after 25years of marriage i am happy she speaks for herself :)
Leke prabhu ka naam. Corruption pe video bna dijiye Sir.
I'm 25 year old, I used to listen western English podcast until I realized I know very less about Indian issues. Thanks to RUclips algorithm, now I listen your show everyday. Keep up the good work sir.
कृपया,कंवारा रहने का नुकसान और फायदा होना - इन दोनों पर भी विडियोज बनाएं।
Hmm
Nuksaan hi hai
Agree, pls make video on this topic
Yes please
Mko bhi shadi ni krni .
I’d love to hear your insights on the entrepreneurial part. Not just the negative “impossible” chatter but everything . Because a lot of us want to make it work . The 50k we’d make from a 9-5, we want to make it working for ourselves. It’s not about buying a porsche or a ferrari or travelling the world, it’s a lot of just making ends meet but in a way that doesn’t wreck us mentally and physically. I’d love to hear ur advice on how this path can work for us, what things we must do correctly to make our life in it.
Yes I would like to hear too.
It's wishful to think you can make entrepreneurship work without paying any cost for it - emotional, mental, financial.
There are no such guarantees in life - in order to play a probabilistic game, always make careful bets.
Even a high probability move can fail - be mentally prepared for it.
Job grants security & certainty, being self-employed gives freedom & time - understand the trade-offs and make the trade knowing when to switch between the two.
Thank you for making these videos Sir. I am 24(F), and these videos are reallyyyy making my life better.
Sir मैंने आपको गुरुजी मान लिया।🙏🙏
I agree with the below comment .. I am a single woman - working and divorced and in my 40s .. i did try for getting married but more prospects i met and understood their thought process, approach and attitude - more i reached to a conclusion that I am better off single .. also, i do not have any support from my parents - my mom believes if she couldn't achieve things in life then I shouldn't be benefitted from them either .. and she is a typical woman who belives son is everything .. I have good friends but honestly feel it's better off single than getting misearable in a relationship .. please make a video on singlehood
To arrive at 'Do what you like/love", you should always do what you don't like, till you are in a position of wealth and strength to do what you like/love.
Sir, Great job!!! Very practical and important lessons of life you are sharing knowledge that will help this generation to clear unwanted exaggerations of marriage, 9-5 jobs etc-2.
And again- You said following too much passion makes you compensate case 👌👌
Last year I shared a thought on social media .... "Follow your passion to do compassion." Looks like something in me is similar to yours in terms of thoughts pattern!!
Sangwan ji ek video ncr ki vehicle scrap policy par bhi banaye... RC par 15 years aata hai diesel vehicle me and tax bhi 15 years ka lete hai toh 10 years me scrap kyu hoti hai
Jo parents bolte hai reservation nahi hota toh unke bacche IAS, PCS banjate wahi parents apne baccho ke low caste girlfriend ya boyfriend se shadi ke khilaf bhi hote hai irrespective unka girlfriend ya boyfriend highly educated hai like engineer doctor or working on high package, on one side these people are apposing reservation but on otherside they are supporting casteism in one or the other form
Bullshit argument
Khud upper class ke hote toh khud bhi kurte ...everybody is selfcentered
@@akhillamoria3481 ha toh phir reservation justified hai na, as you said everybody is self centred
@@deepshikhasonkar8370 nahi bilkul justified nahi hai it is their right to marry his daughter wherever he want noone can force him afterall we are living in a free world democracy why anybody should be bothered about their personal decision on which they have all the right to do so
@@YuvrajSingh-zz3bq baat samajh mein na aye toh comment mat kiya karo
Great topic sir.
It’s always a pleasure to listen to your perspectives sir. Please make videos on family planning, and how society pressurise a married woman to conceive right after marriage because it creates unnecessary mental pressure on so many women. Would love to hear your thoughts.
Already made. Pls see
Such good clarity. Your video makes one to shed all the negativity and helps to focus our thoughts on progressive ideas.
Respected sir
*( Girlfriend banana achi baat hain kya
Agar hain toh kese banaye )*
Mujhe pata hain sir ki yeh question thoda alag hain par main aapse yeh sawal puch raha hoon kyunki aapne duniya dekhi hain .
*You are THE BEST SIR Ji*
Sir the most unique thing in ur videos is as u claim urself u r realist, yes u r.. u serve things as it is not as public wants to listen. That "kadve pravachan" is the USP . Keep it up. I'm also a person with similar kind of thoughts.( not comparing with u). I like it. Thanku
Very good video, is type Ki videos ko to govt ko promote karna chaiye taki logo k dimag m kuch gyaan ghuse
Very practical videos! Such fresh and realistic content to bring clarity Sangwan ji. Ur a true researcher! I hve my cousins who hve settled down in Canada n US, wen i nw luk bk hearing frm u...yes their parents narrative was always anti India for no reason!
Please make a video on Corruption.
Many people have commented Sir. Take this up now please.
No need u don't do corruption that's all
Its been uploaded
Great clarity ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
nice video sir. plz make video on corruption
Thx a lot Sir
Variety of topics and content is very good .
Grateful
Kuwara rehne ke nuksan bhi bataiye plz
Please tell more about "kunwara life", living single for lifetime. What are the pros and cons? @7:06
Oh my god its been only 2 min..but this is our house story..exactly same
Sir ek baat bataiye...
Agar maayein naa bhi royein....par betiyan andhi thori hain! Unhein bhi to dikhta hai ghar me kya chal raha hai baap ka abusive aur controlling behaviour. Many times to domestic violence bhi dekha hai hote hue saamne se hi, nahi to baap ka cheekhna chillana to lagbhag sab gharon me hota hi tha. Agar maa ne rona band kar bhi diya, to kya ye sab dikhna bhi band ho jayega?? Apka ye point mujhe bilkul samajh nahi aata, kai videos me ap keh chuke ho....
I understand most of your points in your videos but not this one!!
Really an eye opening session for youth.
Perfect said sir. I am impressed.
Speaking very true, thanks
Sir aap kitna sahi hooteen hoon… sab ka muh band
Summary
1. Parents apni shaadi ko kaisi dekhate hai(khusiya (kush ladai and matbhed) ya dukh yaha nahi hoti kuch karrahihoti(for house wife mother to daughter)
2. Corruption
3.reservation (ka rona)nahi hota toh sab ias nahi honge(not selected because of reservation)
4. sab ek jayse nahi hote
5. Naukri khrab nahi (usse sikho)
Yeh nat socho tum passion hi follow karoge
Love it. Thank you.
Mere husband hmesha coruption ka rona rote h..😆 maine unko bola ki konsa tumhe roj lut te h😆😆
Ye video dikha de.. unhe publicaly insult kyun kar rahe hai.. Guruji ne ispe bhi video banaya hai..
बहुत ख़ूब सच कहा..🙌
Ur suggestion wonderful and beautiful
We cannot make anyone happy and understand if they aren't intrested.
Sir, please make a video on interfaith marriage. Nowadays, young Hindus are marrying in different religions. They say that love conquers all. But they don't think long term.
When one has problems, common religious faith can help you overcome challenges. Both spouses participate in the common festivals.
Most importantly, how will they raise kids? 50 - 50 religion?
no need to follow any religion - just be respectful to all religions
There is nothing called hinduism.
Yes some people follow something called caste
They are called Brahman baniyas etc.
A video can be made on them
Badhiya hain jee!
Arrange vs love marriage
Sangwan ji aapne correct rondumal situation pehchane
Very well said
प्रणाम
Sir please NPS par best experience share karo. High time and really needed.
Please, Corruption pe video banaiye.
video on corruption please
Sir, pls share your thoughts on corruption in a separate video
Need video on corruption
Great sir.
Ji sir please corruption per bhi video banaye
also would like to hear about the future of plot/land prices in India. I know prices are area specific but still if you could share your perspective/analysis on this.
Kunware rahne ke kya disadvantages hai sir is per video banaye
very good and very nice
Plz make a video about real estate around Chandigarh. You always make around Delhi, Noida ,gurugram . So plz .
Can you please make video on how to avoid friends who uses for their benefits and toxic friends
I dont speak hindi, so i wanted to ask what is Rondumal?
Is it miserable?
Please make a video on people who can't socialize because of social anxiety disorder
I born with social anxiety disorder
Pl make videos Corruption & Pollution.
Very good
Sir please make a video on corruption and pollution. My dad wants me to go to dubai n work but i am against it. My dad earned money but sacrificed his health in return i dont want to be the same. I am seeking for balance in life. "My balance"
Sir nice video
Superb 👌 👌
We want a video on corruption in India
Veg non veg per videos banaye
Sir do u know that kuk University mein 4semester mein,2sub pass ho to kya sare dobara dene padenge.
Corruption par video sir g
Corruption wale video me mazaa ayega
Please make a video on corruption.
Time frame please in video 🤟🏻🙏🏻❤️
"Dusro ke mahel se acha, apni jhopdi achi" define over daughter .....
Nice vdos. 😍😍😍👌👌👌👌👍
Rondhu ho b aik habitat hai humain every time thank God kerna chahiy
Please make video on corruption.
Sir corruption ke upar please banaye
Pehle wala meri bahen ab dikh raha hai she dont want to marry before 33
Video on corruption plz
Please make a video on corruption 😊😊
Sir please apna introduction par ek video bana dijiye.
Its there. Pls.see it
🎉🎉
sir please make video on corruption 🙏
video on corruption please 🙏🏼
I love this idea -- Roundumal Syndrome. It's so true. Also the Jhoota case Syndrome 😅😂
make video on corruption in India
Who is this man?
Make video on cruption
🙏
जब मौका मिलता है तब यही रोदुमाल लोग बेईमानी करते है
Sir ajkal polygamy pe bohot charche ho rahe hai, 2-4 polygamy marriages social media pe dikhi jaha logone iske support kiya. Is vishay pe aapki raay janna chahti hu.
Polygamy is stupidity dear frd.
Better think practically are you happy with your papa having multiple wives or your mom only. What's shown on social media is just exaggerated and not the reality of life.
Make the video on not Marriage
Corruption video required
Corruption
Yessss
Super accent sir…😅
corruption pe video amit bhai!
video on corruption.
Upsc
Im 34 yrs..divorced..shes worried abt my marriage.. And mostly neg talk she does and tells coz I'm not married since they are retired, they can't travel around the world.. Wat will people say.. Wat bull shit?? I told that has no connection.. U want to go you go!!
😀
Wory hard and earn money in your own country.