Sir, this is the best video I have ever seen...I was looking for such type of valuable advice...sir, I can't express in words how much help you have done for me. I watched many clickbait videos, but your videos are clear, crystal and transparent in thumbnail and content. Thank you from the depth of my heart. You are truly fantastic, sir. I feel fortunate to receive such advice from someone like you having a great experience because everyone learns from books, videos and podcasts, but your wisdom comes from experience. 🙏♥️
Because if you fail none, not even your parents will stand behind you. You will be an outcast, abandoned and on your own. That's why crores of youth are wasting their entire youth on government exams just to please their parents. Because these 70-80s parents are happy to spend 10000-20000 rupees each month on their kids government job preparation (when the kid is staying out of his hometown for preparation) but even if he asks a small amount to start a small scale business they will not get it. And if they get it and the business fails it's pretty much over.
Dear Amit sir I am 48 and my daughter is now 21 Many thanks for this enlightening talk which will help me to navigate this role of a parent with diligence and responsibility
Im 28 and even i was unable to choose clothes or even carrer two years ago. I always felt my parents were controlling me directly or indirectly. Now i moved to UK for higher studies and learnt to become independent. I feel very happy.
Honestly, u are like a father many people didn’t have growing up. I mean its like a mirror to the society. I am very sure if parents see this video, they wont be able to last beyond 5mins because the bitter truth would be hard to swallow. “Humare paida krne and paalne k ye sil de rhe ho”….. kisne kaha tha paida kro, kya hum me se koi b apne maa baap ke paas application daalke aaya tha? They gave birth coz unko social acceptance chahie tha of that time ki bacche hogye! But paale kese, ye nai pta. All adults I believe who are 25+ now, have been victims of poor parenting. Thanks, Mr. Sangwan!
Dark video nhi hai bahut clarity dete hai apke videos... Jo society aur family ki reality srf feel hoti thi ap sabko openly bta rhe ho..thats gud fr society... Even my parents.. whenever I tried to take decision about my job... Parents has thrown same dialogue.. kro jo karna hai dekh lena fir..samjhna apna... and this kind of dialogue made me helpless n less confident about my decision..n now m suffering n thinking that Y I did not take decision at that tym.. why I got entangled in that emotional drama of parents...
Uncle I keep sending your videos to friends. In free time, while driving or eating I put your videos and correlate everything you speak and totally agree. Will surely increase👍
I'm a parent of grown up children myself but I agree fully with you. Parents have to be unselfish and secure so as to give support and confidence to the children
Sir, you are giving clarity to youth. Today's parents are not supportive in the name of generation gap, they don't want to change their conventional mindsets and family quarrels and old habbits. The way they withdraw their support and stay to see if we pass or succeed like a judge is shameful!
I've lived through this in 1 of the worst way possible, na inko khud karna hai, na humko kuchh karne dena hai, khudke ke paas na exposure+contacts hai+na bankbalance hai but humko bachho ki Fear mongering karni hai, aajkihi news dekhlo, India has given money printer to Afghanistan, Sri Lanka, Pakistan & Turkey but not its own youth. I've made my decision to change my passport. Its trouble/fraud by design.😇😇
Feels like I rly needed this ryt now. We all can agree that instead of pulling motivation out of thin air like other motivational speakers. Amit sir talks realistic and practical. 🙏🙏
Totally my n my sibling's story . I hav realized much earlier n been in depression since i was 17. Now my sister is much above 30 n still unmarried n she dont accept that our not concerned about finding boy for her after looking for it once 5 years ago. For me they seems to hav zero concern n never asked me. Although i dont want to marry since17 but my sister has been brainwashed in being good girl n she is totally immature.
kheela...yes they did..I am known but irony is they are still not feeling guilt..and they even feel themselves contends by letting me down..I am now too late..in all sphere..but I will fight..to stand myself alone....
My God, if I would have relied on my narcissistic parents for my marriage, they got so non sense alliance, I chose and when I said, they became furious and warned to take my all communication modes. My present husband came and we married in my parents absence.
Thank you thank you thank you soo so soo soo much.. Sir sir.. Aj is video se meri finally ek confusion dur hogayi.... Yes self doubt bht hogaya he.. Decision lene me v daar lagta he.. Ab totally focus hun.. Or clarity agayi... ✌✌✌✌😊😊😊😊😊
one thing is, we are brought up within 4 walls (house, school, college, jobs) all are within 4 walls. people like Edison, Steve Jobs, henry ford, Issac Newton were never in 4 walls, they learned their life lessons in real practical world. also school curriculum esp Maths, IQ, Aptitude is given too much undue importance. I feel economics, social science should be given equal importance as Maths
And previous generations ko yeh syndrome hai ki unse bara tees maar khan dunia mein nahi h. Don't worry about the fact ki unhone kuch ukhara nahi tha and corruption was to the bone.
Sir, the upload frequency is on fire nowadays! Although, I disagree with you sometimes you have always acted as the devil's advocate of my life. Before taking a decision on anything, I generally search if you have a video on the topic. Please keep the great content coming!
Mere baap ne bhi meko apne upar depend kr ke rakhna chaha humesha . Pr hum to apni marzi chalane wale aadmi hai......mere baap ka plan kaam nhi kr paya
And the worst part is इनका attitude " हम तुम्हे पालं के तुम्हारा खर्चा उठा कर तुमपे एहसान कर रहे है!!!"..... "भाई मेरी क्या गलती मे ऐसे समय पे पैदा हुआ? 😂"...... इतना ही था तो abortion करके मार डालते हमे 😂
I think this has to do with increased aspirations among youth and their parents post liberalisation in 1990s. In 1970s and 1980s, expectations were low of life in general.
@@salaar75 1 year parents ko diya... Uske baad unhone kaha... Tum bhi try Karo. Maine ladki jo acchi lagi mere office mein... Usse baat ki... Love hua... Dono families ko samjhaya... Aur ek saal mein shadi ho gayi. Age 25 mein dhundha... 2-3 mahine mein dhundh Li apne office mein.
@@puneetbasson5901 Thanks for your input. Accha hua aapne jaldi try kiya. Bhai aaj kal ka time dekhke possible lagta hai kya kahi pe dekh paye? main almost 29 hoon
I made a very big mistake. After 12 pcm i enrolled myself into BA program. I am in final year now and i have no option other than working in lower strata of private enterprises.
Guru ji m a well settled 27 years girl, found a perfect compatible well settled boy but my father and my cousin brothers are not even ready to meet him.. what should i do??
Sir, this is the best video I have ever seen...I was looking for such type of valuable advice...sir, I can't express in words how much help you have done for me. I watched many clickbait videos, but your videos are clear, crystal and transparent in thumbnail and content. Thank you from the depth of my heart. You are truly fantastic, sir.
I feel fortunate to receive such advice from someone like you having a great experience because everyone learns from books, videos and podcasts, but your wisdom comes from experience. 🙏♥️
Because if you fail none, not even your parents will stand behind you. You will be an outcast, abandoned and on your own. That's why crores of youth are wasting their entire youth on government exams just to please their parents. Because these 70-80s parents are happy to spend 10000-20000 rupees each month on their kids government job preparation (when the kid is staying out of his hometown for preparation) but even if he asks a small amount to start a small scale business they will not get it. And if they get it and the business fails it's pretty much over.
Dear Amit sir
I am 48 and my daughter is now 21
Many thanks for this enlightening talk which will help me to navigate this role of a parent with diligence and responsibility
Im 28 and even i was unable to choose clothes or even carrer two years ago. I always felt my parents were controlling me directly or indirectly. Now i moved to UK for higher studies and learnt to become independent. I feel very happy.
Honestly, u are like a father many people didn’t have growing up. I mean its like a mirror to the society.
I am very sure if parents see this video, they wont be able to last beyond 5mins because the bitter truth would be hard to swallow.
“Humare paida krne and paalne k ye sil de rhe ho”….. kisne kaha tha paida kro, kya hum me se koi b apne maa baap ke paas application daalke aaya tha? They gave birth coz unko social acceptance chahie tha of that time ki bacche hogye! But paale kese, ye nai pta.
All adults I believe who are 25+ now, have been victims of poor parenting.
Thanks, Mr. Sangwan!
Right
Nailed it!
Your kids are lucky to have a father adviser like u
Yeh साक्षात विघ्नहर्ता गणेश का रूप है 🙇
Thanks Guruji for empowering us
Dark video nhi hai bahut clarity dete hai apke videos... Jo society aur family ki reality srf feel hoti thi ap sabko openly bta rhe ho..thats gud fr society... Even my parents.. whenever I tried to take decision about my job... Parents has thrown same dialogue.. kro jo karna hai dekh lena fir..samjhna apna... and this kind of dialogue made me helpless n less confident about my decision..n now m suffering n thinking that Y I did not take decision at that tym.. why I got entangled in that emotional drama of parents...
Excellent speech..
AVERAGE JOB IS BETTER THAN NO JOB
Uncle I keep sending your videos to friends. In free time, while driving or eating I put your videos and correlate everything you speak and totally agree. Will surely increase👍
@@tiscachip 😂😂
I second your thought process. Be your children’s backbone and not the manipulator.
ID
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Very sad state to see that our generation has toxic parents! Almost everyone around complaining...!!
I'm a parent of grown up children myself but I agree fully with you. Parents have to be unselfish and secure so as to give support and confidence to the children
Sir your content is very helpful and logically decision not emotionally with reality in society 🔥👍
Haryanvi tao is new top g from 🇮🇳
Sir, aap itni simplicity se itne pyar se ...kaise sabki dukhti rakh par hath rakh dete hai... 🙏🙏
Sir, you are giving clarity to youth. Today's parents are not supportive in the name of generation gap, they don't want to change their conventional mindsets and family quarrels and old habbits. The way they withdraw their support and stay to see if we pass or succeed like a judge is shameful!
I've lived through this in 1 of the worst way possible, na inko khud karna hai, na humko kuchh karne dena hai, khudke ke paas na exposure+contacts hai+na bankbalance hai but humko bachho ki Fear mongering karni hai, aajkihi news dekhlo, India has given money printer to Afghanistan, Sri Lanka, Pakistan & Turkey but not its own youth. I've made my decision to change my passport. Its trouble/fraud by design.😇😇
खेला हुआ है 🙏👍👏 परफेक्ट बात बोली है सांगवानजी
You would be a very good father
Feels like I rly needed this ryt now. We all can agree that instead of pulling motivation out of thin air like other motivational speakers. Amit sir talks realistic and practical.
🙏🙏
Totally my n my sibling's story . I hav realized much earlier n been in depression since i was 17. Now my sister is much above 30 n still unmarried n she dont accept that our not concerned about finding boy for her after looking for it once 5 years ago. For me they seems to hav zero concern n never asked me. Although i dont want to marry since17 but my sister has been brainwashed in being good girl n she is totally immature.
Goldstandard of Clarity
kheela...yes they did..I am known but irony is they are still not feeling guilt..and they even feel themselves contends by letting me down..I am now too late..in all sphere..but I will fight..to stand myself alone....
Very true sir,lots of self doubts we youth have and u are giving so much clarity
Amit Ji you are the man on ground…. Fully in touch with the realities of the world both past n present….. thank u genuinely so much sir…
Amazing topic . Thank you 🙏🏼 for bringing it up and guidance . Wonderful .
Ek number Sir bang on target 🎯💯 identified current issues
Very truly said, really an eye opener 🙏
Already shared your channel in my family, friends groups
Sir boht bdia,maza aa jata h aapki vdo dekh ke,god bless you
Great Service to youth of present generation. Sharing with my two doctor children ❤
Your videos are a blessing in disguise :) Thank You!
Thank you sir for this type of content 🙏
Thanks sir for your advice 🙏
Dear Amit Sangwan Sir, Kindly make video on social anxiety disorder .
Very important video sir. Thank you so much for bringing such issues.
you are always 100% true as it relates.
Good one , very precious advice 🙏❤️😇💐
whatever you said, is 100% true! Salute to you.
My God, if I would have relied on my narcissistic parents for my marriage, they got so non sense alliance, I chose and when I said, they became furious and warned to take my all communication modes. My present husband came and we married in my parents absence.
Amazing and Brilliant Advice Sir.... Grateful to have this clarity
"The Family Man of India"😀
Acha Laga sir, Makes me see what is happening around!
Thank you thank you thank you soo so soo soo much.. Sir sir.. Aj is video se meri finally ek confusion dur hogayi.... Yes self doubt bht hogaya he.. Decision lene me v daar lagta he.. Ab totally focus hun.. Or clarity agayi... ✌✌✌✌😊😊😊😊😊
can you share which decision so that it may help everybody who is struggling to make some descision
Your thoughts are really exceptional and worth
tau ji, aap mahan ho 👍🏻
Thank you ❤️
Thank-you
You have a lots of courage sir. To touch upon this invisible issue in families
Sir guru g.. Apki vedio muje shanti deti h.. Thanq
Subscribed sir....I thank you for your video....parents too should learn from it.
Aaj meri mummy or meri behas hogyi ki maa baap kyu nhi chhodte bachho ko mene bola lalach ab now she’s behaving strange 😂
😂😂😂
Sir maza aagya i will share it along my networks
बहुत बढ़िया मार्गदर्शन क्या बात है गजब श्रीमान जी ❤❤
Thanks so much
Facts Sirji 💯⚔️👌
one thing is, we are brought up within 4 walls (house, school, college, jobs) all are within 4 walls. people like Edison, Steve Jobs, henry ford, Issac Newton were never in 4 walls, they learned their life lessons in real practical world. also school curriculum esp Maths, IQ, Aptitude is given too much undue importance. I feel economics, social science should be given equal importance as Maths
You are doing something that no RUclipsr is doing. Keep it up sir
Great
And previous generations ko yeh syndrome hai ki unse bara tees maar khan dunia mein nahi h.
Don't worry about the fact ki unhone kuch ukhara nahi tha and corruption was to the bone.
Sir, the upload frequency is on fire nowadays!
Although, I disagree with you sometimes you have always acted as the devil's advocate of my life.
Before taking a decision on anything, I generally search if you have a video on the topic. Please keep the great content coming!
Excellent video !
Sahi kaha sir ji.
Nice. Eye opening video
Yes, I identify this matter
Thank u 💓
Mere baap ne bhi meko apne upar depend kr ke rakhna chaha humesha
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Pr hum to apni marzi chalane wale aadmi hai......mere baap ka plan kaam nhi kr paya
True, jesa type ka ladka parents ko chahiye woh mill nhi rhi... aur jo mil rhi hai woh parents ko pasand nhi 😭😭 am 30 now..
What do you do
Sir dil ki baat boldi aapne.
Exactly ID 🙏
Eye opener
Awesome 👌 👏 👍
Love this video....🎉
This is a very good video sir 👍
True 👍..
And the worst part is इनका attitude " हम तुम्हे पालं के तुम्हारा खर्चा उठा कर तुमपे एहसान कर रहे है!!!"..... "भाई मेरी क्या गलती मे ऐसे समय पे पैदा हुआ? 😂"...... इतना ही था तो abortion करके मार डालते हमे 😂
Seriously, my father used to always make me realise he is doing ehsan for doing things for me which is a parent's duty
True
Tru 🤣
Clarity for Youth, Jaisa naam waisa content
Completely Identifying
Best content Guruji
No one else is making videos like this.Society needs such videos.
I liked nd shared to 10 friends who i think will relate to this🌟
You are god for this genz❤
I think this has to do with increased aspirations among youth and their parents post liberalisation in 1990s. In 1970s and 1980s, expectations were low of life in general.
Loved the video sir ❤️
Perfect for future parents too
One question... How at this age you understand youth and this generation so well?
Through his clients, he is consultant astrologer
100% correct .
True
Sir you are legend 📈
yes i identify.
This video must be Viral
Sir I have tried to get 5 subscribers . I am greatly benefited by your videos .. thankyou.
It was a ray of life in some really dark times
👍👍
Maine yahi Kiya tha 2006 mein... Mom Dad ko kaha ek saal mein aap ladki dekh lo... Uske baad main khud dhund lunga. Finally, mujhe hi dhundhni padi.
@puneetbasson5901 kya main jaan sakta hoon ki aap kaha se dhundh paye, aur kitne age mein dhundha aur kitna time laga dhundhne mein?
@@salaar75 1 year parents ko diya... Uske baad unhone kaha... Tum bhi try Karo. Maine ladki jo acchi lagi mere office mein... Usse baat ki... Love hua... Dono families ko samjhaya... Aur ek saal mein shadi ho gayi. Age 25 mein dhundha... 2-3 mahine mein dhundh Li apne office mein.
@@puneetbasson5901 Thanks for your input. Accha hua aapne jaldi try kiya. Bhai aaj kal ka time dekhke possible lagta hai kya kahi pe dekh paye? main almost 29 hoon
@@salaar75 Bhai, jaldi karo... Nahi to samajhdar ladki nahi milegi. By the way, my marriage is inter caste + inter religion.
@@puneetbasson5901 Ohh, aapne kabhi matrimonial sites pe try kiya tha?
career ki tension thi,
ab single hone ki bhi ho gayi
🙏🏻🙏🏻
I made a very big mistake. After 12 pcm i enrolled myself into BA program. I am in final year now and i have no option other than working in lower strata of private enterprises.
Study ias
Do mba
I had took strong decision long time back for my study so I got good job .
May I know what was that decision
Guru ji m a well settled 27 years girl, found a perfect compatible well settled boy but my father and my cousin brothers are not even ready to meet him.. what should i do??
I love ❤️ you sir