Sir me shuru se hi dosto or faltu k reletives me interested nhi thi and now after watching your vdoes i realised i was right at my place and people use to tell me ghamandi akdu introvert and what not
Finally someone speaking the hard truth. I used to run to parents house everyday help them clean or host guests, I wasted my prime years on running around and they never once said focus on your life. Until I turned 35, I realised I didn't give enough time to my husband and my job. When I stopped going daily then they said I'm selfish.
at least you r 35..I am more older than you and I same waste my life ..to pleased parents and other...today I am in guilt for living life for the sake of other..and above a they are happy for putting me in such condition..
Excellent video 🙏 That's the problem with putting other people first. You've taught them you come second. Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm.
sach hai. Meri pathological lab thi. , to enta time nikal nahi pati. but I used my extra time in lab to study financial planning, Mutual funds & stocks . so I was called selfish . I was not in any gossip issues. but actually I am proud of myself because mere bacche aachi tarah se padhe., time pe shadi kari aur settle bhi hai.
Very well put....my MIL is like this...she always offer food, clothes to people with this sense of doing a favor...and then expect things in return...and always ruing dat people are selfish...
Sir, there are people who call you when you are sick to say" take care aa" as if we don't know ,but expect us to run to them n look after them ba kaida if they are sick and when you do the same to them as they do ,they say " oh u r selfish"
You are amazing sir, I was suffering with self guilt you have liberated me from that burden. I was thinking that thinking about ourself is selfishness and such a people you mentioned do exactly know how to capitalise such situation specially in the name of help and charity.
Awesome video 👏👏 very well said ... aur ye aapne sahi kaha jo actual mai aise hote hai vo ye video dekhna pasand hi nahi karte hai kyuki usme unki reality bahar aa rhi hoti hai.
One needs to set one’s boundaries and expectations right and one will be sorted for life . Neither will one be called selfish nor call others so ! You are your own best friend and help !
Most of the relatives and friends are like that .5 Rupees ka sukh deke 100rs ka jhanjhat dete hai . 100% agree senior citizens do have this habit their extra friendly concern is so time sucking and more of emotional trap . 🙄😥😵🤔😤😱
Sir, wonderful of you to separate the grain from the chaff. Self preservation, self conservation and safe guarding one's interest is being wrongly branded as selfishness. That too by ppl who's agenda failed. It's high time ppl understood this difference and thanks to you for making ppl aware. Sar the very least we will not put chaap on someone wrongly.
Can't wait till the end of the vdo to comment. This is so liberating. Thanks so much.. I hv been called not only selfish but also anti-social for not not helping such people
The more you give the more they will expect. At the last moment when you say no to them and people won't appreciate it. But people don't understand it, everybody's top priority is their own work and you don't know what is happening in another person's life. Might be he really need help but he is not asking for and you kept demanding from him/her. We all are self-centred but feel embarassed when someone refuse us to do something for us. Right we are selfish and expecting from other rather than solving our own mess ourselves.
Awesome subject & clarification given. Well said with perfect words. Their was an old issue which was on my mind. Now released completely. Thanks Hats off to you Sir👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Log ek to zabardasti kam karte hain! Time ki maang karte hain jisme ham bhi unki tareefe karein or hase unke sath... And agar ham kuch or direction me apni growth kar rahe hain (issey bhi jealousy hai inhe) and time nai de rae.. to kah dete hain... Ye Ahsan nai lena chahte na kisika! Bade log hain! Kanjoos h! etc etc
Sir, I have been watching your videos for last couple of weeks and I do find valueable nuggets of gold in each of them. Maybe you have mentioned it in one of your videos but if you haven't please make videos on which health insurance to take for long term. I am stuck in my job and I want to quit it but I am still doing this job because of its (still) good medical reimbursement.
Everyone is selfish, it is good to be selfish , give importance to your own priority ,but we should not be inhuman also because once u require someone's help others can also be selfish upto inhuman level if u never helped anyone .
Please make a video on the below - it will help many people. I think you need to listen to your inner voice and intuition...It's an inbuilt GPS at birth... Personally almost always when I have gone against my inner voice thinking it is the best option available at the time... It has not resulted something good.... This comes from our Indian upbringing with a scarcity mindset and fright driven decisions...
Sir can u make a video on attitude of NRIs when to come back to India. My neighbor is NRI. they even clean their toilets when they are outside India. But in India they treat maids too low.
Ajkal ye business bHi sahi chl raha hain .. happiness course kharidlo ye le lo wo le lo apki zindagi achhi ho jayegi ... ☺️☺️☺️ Inti bhi kharb nahi hain society but ye video dekh k jarur ho jayegi
Sir please correct your pronunciation of the word content. The way you pronounce it is for a feeling but for material or ingredient the same word is pronounced as Kaun tent. Hope you won’t mind. I live watching your videos.
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Sir me shuru se hi dosto or faltu k reletives me interested nhi thi and now after watching your vdoes i realised i was right at my place and people use to tell me ghamandi akdu introvert and what not
Finally someone speaking the hard truth.
I used to run to parents house everyday help them clean or host guests, I wasted my prime years on running around and they never once said focus on your life. Until I turned 35, I realised I didn't give enough time to my husband and my job. When I stopped going daily then they said I'm selfish.
at least you r 35..I am more older than you and I same waste my life ..to pleased parents and other...today I am in guilt for living life for the sake of other..and above a they are happy for putting me in such condition..
@@jyotigupta2889 ☹️
@@jyotigupta2889 You means your parents are happy to see you in bad situation 😊... please ask you parents about your real parents...
Excellent video 🙏 That's the problem with putting other people first. You've taught them you come second. Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm.
sach hai. Meri pathological lab thi. , to enta time nikal nahi pati. but I used my extra
time in lab to study financial planning,
Mutual funds & stocks . so I was called
selfish . I was not in any gossip issues.
but actually I am proud of myself because mere bacche aachi tarah se padhe., time pe shadi kari aur settle bhi
hai.
I am 17 years old and i love your videos. I hope you keep making such videos. i am glad i found your channel at such a young age. Thankyou sir.
न किसी से लेना न किसी को देना ।
Very well put....my MIL is like this...she always offer food, clothes to people with this sense of doing a favor...and then expect things in return...and always ruing dat people are selfish...
Agar dus saal pehle aap youtube par hote .. toh is youngsters / or common man plus senior citizens ki life ki raah kuch aur sudrdh ho gayi hoti ..
Same feeling here,Buddy.
True
Better late than never…
True bro .. yaar Kahan hum faltu motivation walon ke chakkar me jindagi barbaad kiye
@@mrnayak6112 ha yar, but aab finally shi track pe aye h
Sir, there are people who call you when you are sick to say" take care aa" as if we don't know ,but expect us to run to them n look after them ba kaida if they are sick and when you do the same to them as they do ,they say " oh u r selfish"
New Prespective on word “ Selfish “. Fresh air to this word
You are amazing sir, I was suffering with self guilt you have liberated me from that burden.
I was thinking that thinking about ourself is selfishness and such a people you mentioned do exactly know how to capitalise such situation specially in the name of help and charity.
Awesome video 👏👏 very well said ... aur ye aapne sahi kaha jo actual mai aise hote hai vo ye video dekhna pasand hi nahi karte hai kyuki usme unki reality bahar aa rhi hoti hai.
One needs to set one’s boundaries and expectations right and one will be sorted for life . Neither will one be called selfish nor call others so ! You are your own best friend and help !
Sangwan Ji .. please ignore the haters, they are backward narcissistic people, who cannot live and let live.
Pranam, u r giving very authentic analysis of every topic...🙏🙏🙏
Sir aap agar 2013 pe RUclips pe aathe toh pakka nera life toh bahut different hotha ❤
अगर जाट समाज आपकी वीडियो देखें तो बहुत फायदा होगा।
इस भटकते हुए समाज को आपकी बहुत जरूरत है।
Sir, you have an excellent idea of common problem of life, again as you always says giving best clarity giver
YOU ARE !
Best Regards
Your thoughts are absolutely right
Thank you so much Amit Ji for sharing crystal clear explanation 🙏💐🙏
Most of the relatives and friends are like that .5 Rupees ka sukh deke 100rs ka jhanjhat dete hai . 100% agree senior citizens do have this habit their extra friendly concern is so time sucking and more of emotional trap . 🙄😥😵🤔😤😱
United Nations Special Envoy to India on Clarity
Awesome sir. Please start writing books. You will be the number one international best seller
Sir, wonderful of you to separate the grain from the chaff. Self preservation, self conservation and safe guarding one's interest is being wrongly branded as selfishness. That too by ppl who's agenda failed. It's high time ppl understood this difference and thanks to you for making ppl aware. Sar the very least we will not put chaap on someone wrongly.
Being self reliant is the way forward. 🙏
Can't wait till the end of the vdo to comment. This is so liberating. Thanks so much.. I hv been called not only selfish but also anti-social for not not helping such people
Absolutely right. You can do donation to orphan if you want to do something to others, as there is no judgment or expectations
Very good explanation sir
I am totally impressed with your work...plz keep it up🥰
This video is very excellent especially for middle class people...
The more you give the more they will expect. At the last moment when you say no to them and people won't appreciate it.
But people don't understand it, everybody's top priority is their own work and you don't know what is happening in another person's life. Might be he really need help but he is not asking for and you kept demanding from him/her.
We all are self-centred but feel embarassed when someone refuse us to do something for us. Right we are selfish and expecting from other rather than solving our own mess ourselves.
Sir I fully agree,
India needs counsellors like you ❤
Excellent sir ji 👍👌👌👌👌👌how you bring such topic. Your comments really makes a difference in many people lage raho
Great regards from dr Heera Lal dayma MBBS dausa raj ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Well said said. This is happening in the society
Aap bilkul sahi bat rakhte hai uske liye aapko thanku
Excellent video and explaination Sir.
It is actually very liberating for me. Got the Clarity 👍🎉🙏
Awesome subject & clarification given. Well said with perfect words. Their was an old issue which was on my mind. Now released completely. Thanks Hats off to you Sir👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Log ek to zabardasti kam karte hain! Time ki maang karte hain jisme ham bhi unki tareefe karein or hase unke sath... And agar ham kuch or direction me apni growth kar rahe hain (issey bhi jealousy hai inhe) and time nai de rae.. to kah dete hain... Ye Ahsan nai lena chahte na kisika! Bade log hain! Kanjoos h! etc etc
I like your original content and way you explain it
Sir, I have been watching your videos for last couple of weeks and I do find valueable nuggets of gold in each of them. Maybe you have mentioned it in one of your videos but if you haven't please make videos on which health insurance to take for long term. I am stuck in my job and I want to quit it but I am still doing this job because of its (still) good medical reimbursement.
You can resolve your problem with taking top up helath policy with 1 Lkh deductable. Search more about it, You will get your answer.
Everyone is selfish, it is good to be selfish , give importance to your own priority ,but we should not be inhuman also because once u require someone's help others can also be selfish upto inhuman level if u never helped anyone .
Talked sense
Please make a video on the below - it will help many people.
I think you need to listen to your inner voice and intuition...It's an inbuilt GPS at birth... Personally almost always when I have gone against my inner voice thinking it is the best option available at the time... It has not resulted something good.... This comes from our Indian upbringing with a scarcity mindset and fright driven decisions...
guru ji ... aap dronacharya ho mere
You have changed the way of thinking .thank you very much
very good and very nice
Sir, your thoughts are very original and resonate with every thinker. Keep it up.
Sir, Please Upload more videos, Weblike these type of videos
It’s very true sir ji very true definition in Iron Age and in material world d
Aap ki thought is right
Happy Happy N Happy.
Ek Chup So Sukh! 🎉 Build in silence🤫
Sir can u make a video on attitude of NRIs when to come back to India.
My neighbor is NRI. they even clean their toilets when they are outside India. But in India they treat maids too low.
Well Explained 👍
True
Bilkul sahi hai sir kabhi ase logo ko ans. Kya kare? Now take gyan from GURU I feel get true mental power for give ans. now.Thank you sir🙂
Ha ha video r the best source of information. Donot write book . Speech along with explanation expression is very worth
Amit sir - Want a video on "What is Love? And Love finds no age
Well justified. Super addicting content
GOOD, BIG BROTHER
👏👏👏 awesome
sir tag to pehle hi mil gayya hai per kab tak bura na lage akhir hum bhi pareshan hote hai...thanks
Super simple.....very clearly explained video
You are right sir.
You showed a different perspective 👍🏻
True sir ji...
wonderful talk
धन्यवाद सर
Excellent Sir 🙏
Excellent content..
🔥🔥
Nice video
Thanks..
Practical video….
In fact all your videos are factual.
And the humour in between 😅.
Sir, please include English subtitles. It would be helpful for anyone who doesn't speak Hindi.
Sir parents emotionally blackmail kare to kya kare
Nice
Sasural Vale ( ladke vale) akser selfish hote hai...ladki selflessly unka kaam karti hai...per hassil kuch nhi hota
Lekin fir log kahte hain... Samajik vyavahar to rakhna padta h!
MAG
Sach Hi
Nice 👍
I have seen so many selfish peoples in our society. After all those people are still unhappy in their lives. Why ?????
bhai inko pm bna do pls
Rishtedaaron ki help bol rahe ho aap lekin wo bhi expectations (selfish) rakh kar help karte hai .
Free gifts are flying
My husband earn so many times same tag😌
How to join happiness course?
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Sir aapse help chaiye . Kaise mil sakti hai?
Send him your query on his whatsapp number he will respond your query don't worry
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Sir make videos on selfish inlaws also
Ajkal ye business bHi sahi chl raha hain .. happiness course kharidlo ye le lo wo le lo apki zindagi achhi ho jayegi ... ☺️☺️☺️ Inti bhi kharb nahi hain society but ye video dekh k jarur ho jayegi
Please give some clarity about PK Movie in your movie series
Sir no.5 ,8 and ,9 ke bare me batao please please please please please....
Sir please correct your pronunciation of the word content. The way you pronounce it is for a feeling but for material or ingredient the same word is pronounced as Kaun tent. Hope you won’t mind. I live watching your videos.
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6:20 hahahahahahha