The Indians choosing not to have children
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- Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
- “I’m not good with children. I don’t know what to say to them after five minutes.”
In India’s largely family-oriented society, having children is the norm.
But most Indians are having fewer children now and a growing number are choosing to never become parents.
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As someone who wants to be childfree. Trying to find a partner can be very tough.
Yes, I wonder when I share my thought in this regard how she act.
We should build a community or matrimonial for those who don't want kids.
@@adwaitvedant3297 yes we need this kind of matrimonial site
The best is to stay single like Ratan Tata, Lata Mangeshkar, Abdul Kalam, Vajpayee, Mamta Banerjee, Mayawati, Jayalalithaa, Ekta Kapoor etc.
There was a subreddit. It's called childfree India. I hope it still exists.
Me and my wife have decided to stay child free.
Good decision. 😉
You deserve an award and reservations from the government. IMO everyone who chooses to be childfree deserves some reservations
Good decision every man should be like you you are a hero
@@sonireddy6696 thanks
Indian government should give you padambhushan for your selflessness.
Not having a kid is the greatest devotion you can give to the planet.!!!!
In India, many people have or want to have children just because everyone around them has children or their parents or relatives force them to have children. When parents can't guarantee their child's happiness in this world after being born what's the point of having a child? Why do parents want to see their precious children suffer?
kids are a the greatest thing that can happen to you... its a shame you will never understand that.
Yes. 👍No need to make an innocent life suffer in this cruel worst hopeless world filled with worst people(devils)
@@shashankganesha5620 bro these are called "Anti-natalist" and again this nonsense has come from West and Indians love following west blindly.
@@Roopa_Roohika6796 True
@@shashankganesha5620 It's a crime bringing new lives to suffer in this world
My life was painful, full of suffering. I don't want any one to experience that.🙏
Ki hoisil tumar jibonot ?
I wish my parents never gave birth to me
Same
Same.
Same
same
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1:20 as a gay man it is very relatable. We want that our marriage should be recognised and we adopt children. But....as we are gay couple society would mistreat our child, bully him/her by asking "whose your mom? You have two dads etc." And may threat them also. Nah! For our parental desire we can't risk a child's life.
You are a real man
Otherwise people are always like " hm apne baccha ko strong bnayenge , ab chahe uske liye use kuch bhi sehna padhe"
@@dikshasuman thanks bro🙃🙃.
Btw! Your name reminds me my painful 12th board exam as I was also PCB student.
ever looked up the rate of sexual abuse of children in the LGBTQ community? stop blaming everyone else for your problems.
Being a gay man.... I can validate its true.
My wife and I are childfree too. This was something I told her on our first date itself. Luckily, she was cool with it too. The idea is to be transparent about these things from day one.
It's been 1.5 years of marriage, and we're a very happy couple.
*touchwood*
🎉
I also want practice that
Ur relatives r woke
Coz indian relatives love making others miserable
How did you guys meet?
@@sarojsaharan9670 On a dating app.😜
I am an antinatalist also. 👍
Same
Wow! I felt so happy after seeing the video. Quite relatable
"Suffering and misery r the unavoidable parts of life" stated by Buddhism a long time ago...
And not bringing another soul here is the wisest thing indeed...
But it's human nature, misery loves company & that's why this gigantic population...
True, bringing up somebody to life, yet not providing all their human needs (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual) is unfair to them.
It's truly noble to provide all the needs of your kids, or not have kids at all if you think you don't have the commitment to do so.
True bro
@@clemensquinones4863: The need of a kid is not wanting to die because death is painful. Parents cannot avoid this. For every child that is created, he is born to die. He is born to get old and decay.
I'm just like the very first woman in this video. I would make funny faces at kids, high five them, behave like a clown & make them laugh but, at the end of the day, I'm contented living a life without having my own.
It's different when you take full ownership of raising/caring/playing, vs spending few minutes playing with kids.
Definitely should create matrimonial site for childfree by choice people
So hard to find a partner in india who don't want children and right for you. It's like a battlefield and end look's like staying single 😂
Yes its like a double edged sword if we select a wrong partner and things dont go as we thought before getting engaged. Really tough to find a good pair
@@logan13b so true
married couples jinhone bachcha paida Kiya hai wo bhi kaha se khush hai😂😂 wo bhi tho suffer kar rahe hai..
Yes I have been trying to find one and is not successful yet. What should I do
@@Hrudayagalavishaya there is a child free in india community on reddit, insta and telegram.
try finding there.
i have seen some guy's post there. didn't find someone suitable to me but may be you will find. good luck girl
Good for them. The world is already terribly overpopulated.
As a gen z, i have the faith that my generation will be open minded to be child free
I think people should be asking themselves... are you sure you're prepared to raise a child in this kind of a world? And raise them well?
I’m not Indian but my friends and extended family is and alot of them are shamed because it goes against the expectations set by their “cultural must haves.” I will be showing them this video since I believe it will bring them comfort knowing there’s others out there like them 😊
I actually have met some muslim anti-natalists 🌚
😂😂😂 nice joke
This was nice to watch and listen to, it's always nice to see childfree people all over this world since we share this in common and I'm very happy and glad that they're speaking up 👍🏻🥰
I wish them all the best
I really want to appreciate the speakers and the makers of this video. Finally some Indians talking about going childfree by choice. Loved the fact that there are both men and women talking about the idea. ❤️❤️
Usually, it's the women who carry the burden of raising kids (from pregnancy, to cooking for & feeding the kids, tutoring & disciplining them, etc, etc). And many of these women are also working to help husbands in livelihood! In short, many women/ mothers are unequally yoked to martyrdom.
Most women today see this vast difference in physical, emotional & mental burden. Can't blame modern women not wanting to have kids.
having kids = martyrdom... what a horrible way to look at loving children.
True, it's not a good situation for a woman to do it all, help husband financially, rear kids .. they are superwomans who do that, but many of them become bitter also afterwards, just cuz they have to juggle it all, and then they bring up bitter children like me in this world. 😅 , sad frustrated women being up sad children
Great to hear from these people. Very relatable.
I don't want kids but then my bf wants kids, atleast 1
& he thinks eventually my mind will change & I'll stop thinking like this.. He always takes this thing lightly.. I have always clearly said & discussed with him but he just doesn't get it & we broke up because of this..
& I think I'll never get marry to anybody ever because I don't want kids.😔 I want a partner just like me😊
No girl. I understand why you feel that way. I too have been in that place. But trust me, there are many men too who do not want to have children. Because we are not the majority people, it might be difficult to find, but trust me, there is an increasing trend. I am sure you will find one who does not want to have kids.
@@Wolfie8989 Yeah I hope there is someone for me..
The Bible says it's better not to marry, and thus better not to have kids.
It's each person's personal choice. Respect their choice.
No it's not a personal choice. It's not a personal choice because it involves a third person, the child. Does the child not have a say in its birth? When did it give it's consent to be born? Who gave us the right to assume that the child wants to be born? And if we assume that it wants to be born, how did we assume that he will want to continue his life? What provisions do we have for him in case he grows up and doesn't want to continue anymore? Have we legalised the euthanasia yet? Then what right do we have to give birth?
@@religionofpeace782: Only those who exist have a say. A child does not exist before birth.
remaining childless is a word wide trend in modern countries, nothing wrong with not having children
Even I also feel like that I don't want kids in the future and I don't have intrest in marrige because as far I have seen most of married couple these days fall a part after sometime after marriage and even in my family also my father always used to scold me for small things when I hit puberty and my mother and father always fight and even my father was fed up of the life he was going and later he was gone in depression and later he died that was the worst thing for our family since I have seen my father like this I am just really don't want to end up like him since it always scares me that my life can become like hell and I can also face the same thing in future.
I am an Indian and I don't want kids. Ever
What a wonderful video, got inspired. These kind of videos are needed more and more, its just creating awareness, thank 👍👌🥳
Anti Natalists are the true freedom fighters of the world...we are witnessing lot of parents and children are suffering all over the world 😢..its a brutal hidden truth.
The first form of slavery is procreation. The first form of slavery is created by the parents.
ohooooooo, thank god i was no the only one thinking about it. It feels really relaxing when you see some crowd on the spot where you are heading to.
We as a couple had decided long back not to have children. Have met so many people who are not happy with the parental life. In india a lot of couples have kids because of societal expectations, or one of the partners wanting child and forcing other one to go with it leading to unhappy parenting. Dont forget the increasing cost of living and unsafe living conditions of the modern world. We both earn well and pamper ourselves with the money which would otherwise have gone towards ridiculous education costs of today. Period
" what I want to be is the cool hip aunt "
LOVE IT
Child free is wise decision in India
I think is the greatest thing Indians can do especially for Muslims.
Now marriages r decided by wealth. Nearly 40 only getting wedlock. So i agree DINK.
NO HIPPOCRISSY IN TELLING I SUPPORT CHILD RIGHTS AND ALSO SAYING I WANT OT BE CHILD FREE AND HAVE NO CHILDREN IN MY HOUSEHOLD!
All my love, respect and admiration to Indian people who decide not to have children. If humanity ever have a chance to survive climate change, it would be thanks to those who decide not to reproduce. Saludos desde Mexico ❤
WISH I CAN FIND THE RIGHT PERSON WHO WANTS TO BE CHILDFREE...
THERE ARE MANY BUT IN INDIA WE ARE OBLIGATED BECAUSE WE OWE IT TO OUR PARENTS
For old age there are socities which work like apartment with old age services. So u get the best of both world, u have your own house and a community who will take care of you. Obviously you pay maintenance charges for such apartments, but then by not having kids i am sure you have saved enough.
I don't think it's easy to have kids these days and even getting married in india it's a big problem shadi karne ko log yaha career option se relate karte hai I think it's should be choice whether we don't know ki humari married life utni achi Hogi bhi ki nahi .
Great video, I’d date the cartoonist if he’s single lolol, although I do live in Sweden. 😂 It’s so hard to find childfree men to date.
This is amazing. Thanks for sharing
1:53 so true
I am glad that there are so many people who think like me😍
2:17👌🔥
I congratulate on everybody that does not want children 👍💗
I lso don't want to have kids.
But only concerned about when I'll get old, who will look after me n my Wife.
Can anyone suggest me if I choose a childfree life, what to do in old age when I will be helpless? Who will take care of me??
Any suggestions??
So selfish you are
Bro what is your age
@@strm319726. Y?
@@RAJSHARMA-ft6ww i am 26 too.. koi mili like minded ladki? Mujhe ek mili thi like minded lekin toxic
@@strm3197 Yes. Mili. N we love each other very much.
Child free by choice. Many people are choosing to be child free and it is nice to see. Actually there is a great chance of finding a partner who also wants to be child free because many people around us are choosing to be child free.
It feels like people who are in creative fields and kinda travellers and have so much aspirations have this idea. I am not generalising in any way its just my observation.
I am from kerala. Need a partner who should be an anti natalist
Maybe now there is hope for India
Anti Natalist should be encourages because indias population is exploding
Child free thinking partner ko search karna mushkil hai.milta
Nahi.
I think We should make a WhatsApp group for single people searching for partners.
if anyone knows such group do let me know
Don't worry all poor are still there. Muslims poor don't go less than 5-8 and other poor communities don't go less than 2. That's different in that they can't even eat without govt support, and forget about feeding kids.
Aside from feeding, there is schooling also sky high expensive. Then again sky-high universities and colleges. And they are all worth not a penny. Because you can't monetize the majority of the education.
Then property prices are insane. Wages are still low.
Jobs are nowhere.
Rat-race, cut-throat competition.
Govt didn't stop those between 1980-2000 from breeding like pigs.
But there is no law protecting those poor kids. Who is stopping those who are mentally ill socially ill and economically ill. No one.
They pop out kids to feel good and save their face in society. Then ask the 17-year-old that we have fed you- send you to the school, now treat us like god for this bare minimum.
There is no law punishing those who throw their kids on the streets and orphanages.
When youths are in bad conditions then who cares about kids
I love sleeping 😂
we will be overrun by jhadi
Education and exposure are the key. Surprising people still believe in Ram Allah Yesu Yesu and all the rest of the imaginary cartoons in this day and age :D No jehad hindutva crusaders then
Who gives a fuck man jindagi jandddd hai India me Muslim Christian hindu nahi fark padta being born in this shithole fuck this country life is hard here shant se soooooo bhi nahi sakte
You don't want to be a parent in Gaza right now so yes it's not fair for kids to bring them in this world
This is cool
Well done
I think women is more happy with dink no 9 months problem
Only the lady in yellow at 4:20 gave the most sensible answer
Gg , childfree.
Meanwhile I wish to have 5-6kids.
And no I am not backward villager, I am 30% IT paying urban middle class.
All of them had bad reasons not to get kids and then they will be crying later when society collapses cause there are no new kids and nobody to work and take care of them...
So for your selfish reasons, you want to bring in slavery? You want to enslave a human to work for you and take care of you??
Their reasons don’t have to be justified to you or anyone else. I don’t want to do it is good enough for an adult to decide this.
@@tanya292 Yeah maybe in your delusional dream world. xD
@@jonashuovila9287 you seem to be having too many emotions about something that doesn’t concern you by people who are strangers. Are you ok?
@@tanya292 It concerns everybody, but sure keep living in denial. xD