Entitled Parents Demand I Quit College Because My Golden Twin Didn’t Get Accepted in My College, ...
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- Опубликовано: 9 июн 2024
- 00:00 1st story:
AITA for wanting to be away from my twin sister? (u/Soft-You9949 in r/AITA)
07:45 2nd story:
My family wouldn't let me attend my siblings weddings so now I will cut contact with them. (u/Scared_Search_9029 in r/TrueOffMyChest)
14:58 3rd story:
WIBTA For not planning on my niece and nephews coming for Easter? (u/Comprehensive_Mud811 in r/AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC)
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Story 1: OP’s parents pushed for a rivalry between her and her sister, but wanted OP to be there for her sister because they thought she would struggle without OP?
OP was not supported
@@riyadhasan4564 I just couldn’t comprehend the part where OPs parents wanted her to support her sister, but that makes sense that the parents felt that nobody had to support OP. Damn Golden child dynamics.
@@ChaplainRaziel01 when op got something she had to give it up for the twin but if the twin got something she could keep it
Parents can shove it. They know GC will struggle to do as well as OP.
GC needs to accept she can not have her twin fix everything for her. I know in my heart if OP helps GC it's OP who suffers.
TBH separation will be good for these two girls.
I struggled to understand why OP's parents expected her to support her sister, but it's understandable that they felt no one needed to support OP. Golden child dynamics are frustrating.
"I don't think I'll ever forgive you"
Twin Sis needs to get over herself 🙄 as well as the Parents
This OP is not an emotional support animal for twin sister. And when the parents hopefully realize how bad it is it will be too late to fix it.
Sounds like a very interesting relationship. One sister wants to follow the other wherever she goes. The other sister wants to avoid her like the plague.
OP is young and naive, you don't choose your university based on such small childish reasons. You pick the university that specializes in your program.
Some universities have better law faculties than others, etc, etc.
OP and her sister are pretty dumb
OP's parents failed both her and her twin sister in the first story. Can you imagine having a child who has such debilitating anxiety that they can't function normally without their sibling with them and doing absolutely nothing about it? They have one child who can't be independent of her twin sister because of some kind of deep rooted anxiety that makes it impossible for her to do anything.
OP is not her twin sister's emotional support animal. This girl is going to have to get help with that anxiety because if she doesn't get that help and support, she's going to fail at everything she does.
That's not anxiety that's called spoiled
@@JustinAdamson270maybe not. Sister might either really be an introvert and be spoiled, or living her whole life like that made her develop mental illnesses/deepen the ones she already had
@@ritaerror7829 being an introvert being spoiled or having a rough childhood has nothing to do with having emotions and calling it a mental illness for sympathy and attention
@@JustinAdamson270 unless people like you just takes the world that someone is introverted or spoiled, while they aren't. After all, who cares
@@JustinAdamson270how?? She literally has no idea how to function as a separate human being. Codependency issues in twins is VERY real and not just them being spoiled, their brain literally has no idea how to function on its own, much like abusive codependent romantic relationships, they have a deep seated anxiety about being alone, and will do irrational things to try to stop that outcome because of the intense fear. Mental illness is the inability to think rationality, which clearly she’s not
Story #2 - How much you want to bet that OP's father isn't actually his father? Given that his parents both resent him and his siblings keep him at arm's length, and the family's obsession with "image", excluding him from family photos, no birthday parties, no wedding attendance... no big family gatherings where he may encounter extended family or distant friends where he may publicly be associated with the family... I smell an affair baby. That just makes more sense, they're trying to keep a lid on things.
The family deserves a WAG message the day you leave Tell them since you are only good enough for childcare.
You have decided to leave the family.
You will be changing your name, address and telephone number. Let the police know YOU ARE SAFE it's a choice because of emotional neglect and abuse.
Also new FB account but before you super password the old one.
Let it ALL HANG OUT..
I WOULD NEVER have Let the rentals to have a copy of my housekeys THEY could trash the place.
So let landlord know.
I type as listening to OP2
OP3 DOORMAT!!
SIL is too " livid"
Thank GOD for good neighbours who do a LOT better than the Auntie. If the children are neglected at home STEP UP you are not perfect THE KIDS NEED BETTER FROM ALL THE ADULTS.
WHY WHY WHY SNITCH on the neighbours THERE should have been a suprise visit from CPS so kids can't be coached.
Her in laws are about as loving as a serial killer.
Never ever give them a chance to hurt you again.
Trauma babies try to be people pleasers.
We never truly learn to remember we deserve the same grace.
This is another example of people needing therapy when they have twins. They are 2 separate individuals, separate beings.
Last story: OP mentioned that her, and her husband being more well off than the rest of the family. It is very common for members to hate and feel entitled to what family with money have. They will hate you because they don't have the same financial security and disposable income. I'm from a poor family and see this all the time.
Story #3: OP, respectfully, get a fucking backbone.
I am terrified of becoming just like OP in this story. It's not that she's lacking in a backbone or anything, it's the fact that she suffered through horrific abuse at the hands of her bio family and is trying to hold onto any semblance of a family that she had been denied. This is sad. She definitely needs help to get through this because she's opened herself up to suffering through more abuse and manipulation through the family she had found.
Right? I mean, ok, you had a tuff life and all, but Jesus Christ in a montain bike, I got annoyed by how many times she apologized
I don't believe any story on here but i would have zero sympathy. She's literally doing it to herself. Rage baot for sure.
@@blender4464 My view is that these stories may be fake, but there are people out there that will relate to them, and that there are cops and CPS workers who have had to deal with much worse situations. AITA stories can be seen as philosophical exercises in identifying toxic behavior, and learning not to accept it towards ourselves nor enact it towards others.
Story 1: I’ve heard stories like this from other twins. One gets favored over the other, and the parents try to make them compete.
Story 2: truly a shitty family.
Story 3: entitled family members, go NC. Don’t respond to favors, let them parent their own kids… they’re so worried about losing milestones. Also wth op is a doormat, like my god get a grip lady, have some self respect
I hear that too but rather to compete, this one is actually opposite, which caught me by surprise. Parents wanted them to be the same forever. Both types are wrong tho
Story 3: what a doormat, só much work to include toxic people in her life
She is so much of a doormat that she ended up becoming toxic herself
Story 1 and 2 are honestly the proof that not all parents deserve kids, not all parent deserve to breath. They should and will just grow old and try to reconnect one day, just to realize a child's love is not unconditional, much less when they are adults and had to deal with the pain alone.
Story 3: OP absolute lack of anithing even slightly resembling a backbone is resulting in her giving her own children a terrible childhood by contantly exposing them to their terrible cousins
Sure. Just be another person who criticizes her for trying to be nice. You're just like her inlaws.Didn't she say she had a hard childhood? Where is the grace? Smh
@@daniellemitchell3118there’s a difference between being nice and being an absolute fucking doormat. Clearly you don’t know the difference because OP explained multiple situations that had the same outcome. So explain how the original commenter resembles the in laws
@@daniellemitchell3118
You're the type of person who thinks in order to be a nice person you have to be the biggest doormat ever...
She did nothing wrong, so she has nothing to apologize for. By apologizing repeatedly, she is fueling the rest of the family's weird victim complex.
@@daniellemitchell3118another fucking doormat
2nd Story : I just can't fathom being that cruel and vicious to someone whom you're supposed to love. To hear Op still say he still loves such grotesque creatures is heartbreaking.
Imagine having the parents think you’re your twin sister’s emotional support animal? I’m so glad that she has singing, rational people in her life but no, these are two separate people. And your parents calling you entitled because you want to be your own person is a whole level of sick I can never understand.
Story 1: Op, you need to move forward with your life
S3. Don't apologise unless you're actually in the wrong. FFS 🤦🏻♀️
"I don't think I can forgive you"
If I were him, I would say "Did I ask?"
I’d say “tough shit”
Story 1 sounds liked they’re from South Asia and honestly, yeah…it really be like that
People make no sense, how can you love some(one) people called family who just wrongs you on levels beyond forgiveness? Like what mental gymnastics do you have to jump to keep loving them? I dont get it
I had to comment again because the story is so insane that her parents literally wouldn’t let these two people figure themselves out. I want to have any parents that prefer one twin over the other? Tell twin you can’t get better grades and can’t have your friends of your own. I really hope in the future we can take psychological tests before having children. Because so many people with mental illnesses are having children that have no business having children.
I wonder why some of these OP's decide to become a doormat and are oblivious to just how horribly they're being treated...
Story 1: dude, your siblings are as bad as your parents, stop gaslighting yourself
Story 2 you need to just go your own way that's your new theme song and the best revenge is an amazing life..... Go succeed
Wow. Why did OP allow them to drop off their kids for him to babysit? You are allowed to say "No".
@@rolandhansen812 Cuz he's only 19 & was being bullied ..it was his only way to participate in a wedding.
1: I do think they were trying to dim OP to help the shyer twin feel more comfortable but the irony is that in doing so they only made all of the problems worse. The shyer twin isn’t getting more bold bc OP is her crutch, and it’s causing OP to be resentful. I hope the two can be good friends after they’ve gotten the chance to become their own people finally
2: the SIL telling OP she needed to “teach her” what a loving family is only for her and the rest to be absolutely awful to her the whole time 🙄 I’d stop doing anything for them at all and just stay with my own family as much as possible
What a crappy husband.
That last story. Lordy ... My husband would be feral if his family ever treated me like that. The first time a family member of his went after me we werent even dating and he lost his temper. (Which is a very rare occurrence for him, ive only seen him lose his temper a few times in the last decade.)
You should never volunteer to light yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
This may sound bad, but honestly, I really don’t care. I hate OP for saying he still loves his parents, who never loved him and always thought of him worthless than their GC. I always wondered how they could still “love” their tormenters. Because they’re my mom/dad/sister/brother/family is a very stupid reason. Why love someone who never even loved, or cared for you back?
They've been a victim of abuse their entire life. They are still young and don't recognise that their parents are abusive. It took me a long time to realise my stepfather was a narcissistic abuser that absolutely hates me for merely existing. The police and a counsellor through victim services was the one who told me that this man is an abuser, and it was like a light bulb went off in my head.
I wish that I had this knowledge when I was OP's age because it would have made things so much easier for me, but nope, I only found out recently when I am in my twenties.
Idk
Normalized Abuse. Lived with it for so long that he doesn't understand that he is going to suffer for loving them. In these situations, someone needs to drag him away and show him what true affection is.
You don't walk in op shoes so you have no right to hate anything they decide do much less tell them how to feel grow up you pos
(1st Story) Encouraging the quieter twin to mooch off of the other is setting them both up for failure. The OP won't be able to fully grow or commit to anything for years due to having to take care of someone else, who'll likely crash and burn once they're finally separated. A relationship like this can't last forever anyway.
First story; Op isn’t the ahole. She’s allowed to have her own life. She can’t carry her twin her entire life. That’s what it’s really sounding like. Op deserves to have a good life. One where she doesn’t have to piggyback her own twin.
Story 1
The Patents are sabotaging the twins relationship hard by raising one to think she IS entitled to the Other sacrificing her whole life to her and the Other, that her sister IS the Babe of her existance that will Always BE the reason she IS Not allowed anything good in life . . .honestly, how IS having one Always Help and step down Safe the Others Feelings?! She knows that! She knows that the Same level IS forced and she IS Always the one needing Help which only Drives Home how inferior she IS! Just let both Go their own way! They taught their Favorit child helplessness and dependency!!!
All in all IT leaves both Feeling shitty and severly taints their relationship. Leaving both to feel their sister IS the reason for them Feeling Bad and all would BE better If only the sister was Not there or Like she was
It's unbelievable! Parents like that are just too much! 😡
Story 3 Op goofy as hell. Hope she figure it out before her kids get old enough to ask her about ish barely known
I can't stand people that force twins to do the same things at the same pace, they're separate individuals, not a freaking hive mind. I also find people that instigate and fester a rivalry between their kids to be failures as parents
Story 1: OP's parents instigated a competitive relationship between her and her sister, yet they hoped OP would support her sister as they believed she would face challenges without OP's assistance.
The twin story- I’m a twin and in school they split us up so we could be independent. And we turned out just fine lol! Hope this twin is in college of her choice and has succeeded! Her parents are ridiculous!
story 2 - therapy. I always say that first. When people talk about being iggy by there family or treated as outcast. Sometimes these loud things happen for a reason or something we don't get. not that it's right. But I'm saying sometimes that child might "warp the world" or warp events. Or might have outburst that they grew out of during there childhood but family is already sick of it. Blah blah blah. Not saying it's always child fault or always parents fault. But reddit has a habbit of NC up the wazzo instead of simply starting the converstation off with first step seek professional help. Lower contact and seek help. It's like we need be more careful to make that always the conversation since there's a lot more free (non church fake therapy) real therapy option now. Therapy is a lot closer to regularly seeing a dentist for teeth cleanings now then it use to be.
Story 3 - do not "tell" someone CPS was called on them. It's rude and it warns them in a way unhelpful to the childern. Only time you should be doing that is if a parent as cancer and you are offering to help them. Or something that is fully out of there control. Also, stop apologizing after you've given a heartfelt apology. There's a difference between conflict resolution and placation. Just ripping out sorries so someone who isn't acting in a rational way is rational isn't going to work. Offer therapy mediation it's something you have the money to do. Both of you have a lot of unvoice expection and over voice boundry crossing expections. Don't do things for people like that who don't ask for it. By trying to make things happen they may feel like you are embarssing them with your wealth. They may have tons of unresolve issues of shame that they are externalizing on you. again when it's this level of toxic offer therapy mediation so you can "improve" yourself which will trap them into a reality of expection when met with an actual therapist. A lot of people don't realize what they are saying is nuts and people around them will gas them up.
Story 3 is the official definition of a fuking doormat
Story 2 would have never watched the baby I would say I could then the day of wedding leave a message @ 2 in morning and not be home and phone turn off and not speak to them again
The first story the only thing i can point out as YTA is choosing a school and then swapping out because the other kid wanted to go there too. If it had been one of the two the other couldn't get into up front, thats different. I get the avoidance, but it became a little too directly "im doing it to spite you" in my eyes. Past that bit, i dont see issues tho
Story3: OP comes across as desperate and sad.
Story 3.STOP BRING A DAMN DOORMAT.STOP BEGGING FOR INCLUSION WITH A HATEFUL FAMILY
1. I can completely understand why OP doesn’t wanna be in the same uni as their twin sister. Me and my sister aren’t exactly twins but people always assume we are due to our ginger hair and pale skin. However that doesn’t mean we don’t wanna see each other all the damn time. It’s nice seeing people you know (especially if you’re introverted like me and her are) but you always need some alone time and away from people you see literally every passing day. If my sister didn’t want me in the same college or uni as her, I’d respect that decision. We’re going to the same community college because it’s the cheapest option and the economy sucks. I’m gonna probably pick a medical or forensic science class along with the other classes community colleges immediately give you. My sister is going into the theatre department of that college. It offers great programs for both creative and logical types of people. Imma try to get a scholarship but if I can’t, I’m just gonna work until I have enough money for tuition and other expenses for uni because I don’t wanna be in student loan debt.
I’m not too far into the video but I just hope OP’s sister comes to understand boundaries of alone time and privacy.
What the hell is with all these Golden child stories??
“From your sisters” you didn’t mention two sisters, you mentioned one brother and one sister.
Op in story 3 doesn't need to raise kids if they're that cowardly and do the bare minimum to protect them. Had a bad chIldhood? WOMP WOMP! Once you have kids, it's not about you anymore.
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6:35 just because your twins does it mean you’re the same person you are two different people and they should respect that and your sister should see that you would like to have your own life even though you have offered to essentially be there still it’s not like you’re out of the picture
Story 3: OP needs to not worry about her toxic family
Whoever told you parents and sister life should be fair did them a grave disservice
Jesus Christ
I'll be that one guy and aay it
Some OPs at reddit aren't looking for help at all, ive seen time to time that doormats have been there either rage baiting or looking for validation to keep being doormats, in fact, i do recao a couple of threads that have OPs get mas at the replies when they didnt have their way so they end uo abandoning the sub or deleting their posts.
Story 2: You moved to a friend’s house until you could find an apartment but left a spare key for the apartment you didn’t have? Sounds made up now.
I never want to see parents like this.
Walk away from your sister and parents. Those three just want you to take care of them
Story 1- she’s not entitled to spend her entire life with her sister. She’s allowed to live her life on her own.
Another doormat story
So sad that your husbands family are all so awful ! They’re mad because you have more money! You’re wasting you time after this story if you raise a finger for them! They are so hateful, coming to your home and only complaining about everything and didn’t lift a finger to help you! Please go no contact! They’ll complain about that too, have them only talk to your husband and see how he handles it! So sad they can’t get over themselves and be happy for Family get togethers with y’all paying for everything!! They are nuts, they don’t even help you clean up before they leave!! NO CONTACT! Y’all are too nice to these idiots!
Mt husbands family had something similar with one Grand-DIL- she openly complained she didn’t like the food, the drinks, the dessert…etc at every gathering….she brought nothing. They all went no contact and it took about a year of not be asked to things and she finally got an attitude change! They still keep her at arms length but things are much more calm at gatherings! Ugh!
Story 1 is one of the reasons Twins aren't allow in the same class in my city
Easter : Op get some friends of your own. Stop trying so hard.
1st story: If i was her. I would text my obsessive twin. "You know we are two different people, right?"
Story 3: so we're just not gonna talk about the CPS call...?
The last stories OP needs to top trying and go no contact with toxic Sil
Twin sister being dependent on brother is entirely parents fault. Brother made the right choice for himself which also gave her a chance to finally be herself without her brother.
Last story: Stop apologizing and STOP trying to please these people. Nothing you do will EVER please them or get approval from them.
I swear there are so many horrible parents there's no wonder there are so many effed up kids these days.
Get it in legal writing that they'll take care of you financially forever and tell them you won't. Then, secretly, go to college anyway lol
Nta you can not hold yourself back to make them feel better.....
Can you do a story about my 3 reddit accounts and why i spammed posts and what happened after that
1st S. Let your parents know, that the way things are now is because you coddled her everyday and never pushed her to be her own person to make things on her own to be her and they ruin my sister's and my relationship because of whatever reason. You're going to be the one to blame for her not to venture out on her own, being a person who can be on her own. She's going to marry the first guy she meets because he will provide for her but won't
You are from India right I can see it
S2 I am the youngest of 8 with my dad but youngest of 5 with my mum my dad had 3 kids in pervious relationships I am not treated any different treated the same he should have said yes to baby sit by calling her not texting than after she leaves call the police for child abandoned
That last story, is this woman a glutton for punishment? I can understand being a child and being raised up in this and sometimes not being able to get away, but as an adult she can walk away.
Ma'am with respect, we don't need other people to make us happy. We need to work on making ourselves happy with ourselves. You're practically begging for abuse
You have to recieve something to be ungrateful
OP2 is giving me flashbacks
My heart is with OP 2
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NOBODY ! NOBODY ! ENTERS YOUR HOME 🏡. &. NOT ADDRESS YOU ! LADY !THAT IS EXTREMELY DISRESPECTFUL ! ARE YOU CRAZY ! DEMAND RESPECT !
Listening to the video no watching the minecraft video yes
Last story; Don't invite the toxic trash over anymore
I feel bad for the twin sister she probably does need her sister but it is also unfair to expect the first twin to sacrifice herself for the sister. She would've probably known that herself had she been raised properly and parents are really bad. I had once a friend who told me that her parents used to push sibling rivalry by for example buying only one doll so they would fight, I thought it was a lie even though I didn't voice it out of respect, but now I'm not so sure.
They In Germany
MOTHER NEVER ! EVER ! LOVED YOU ! ONLY REACHED OUT 2. MONITOR. YOU &. BE ABLE 2. SABOTAGE LIVING BEST LIFE
Wheres the gameplay from ?
It's minecraft
Story 3 op is pathetic! Grow a ducking back bone
UNROLL is wild. The editor is dumb.
Changed your first and your last name
What is OP
Is it like original poster?
Yes
What is op
Original poster
@@jackv.k.castro3757 thx
as a US citizen that is false. you can literally start any program right out of high school. I don't know why you think that, but you are so wrong.
He's in Switzerland not US
Average American thinking their country is the entire planet.
@@yvonneburns2786 literally stated united states. Ja
Story #3:no offence, BUT GET A BACKBONE AND PLEASEE STOP APOLOGISING IT PISSES ME OFF LIKE BRUH WHY ARE YOU APOLOGIZING FOR THEIR ACTIONS
Do what you want, and allow Grandma to help! Dad and Mom are wrong. My brother was the favorite because he is a boy, and because he's the baby of the family, and because he is adopted, and I'm biological. My mother told me all this when I was still in grade school, and told me I was just going to have to understand. I understood, alright. They didn't want me. For years, I couldn't understand why they had me. Fast forward 40 years, my mother told her friends in church (with me standing right there.) exactly why she had me. It was so she wouldn't have to stay home by herself while my father was at work. Ahhhhh....that explains a lot. Don't be the runt of the litter just because your parents want you to be. It totally sux.
Tell all them to kiss your butt.
Yeah ur not entitled to know her schedule ur entitled to everything arnt u😂😂