he was too young for that, that age gap could be an issue even with normal dating... still, he should have ended it before all that.... Its not that he brought it up, its where and when.
@@abhabh6896 by seeing how she manipulated everything on someone else's wedding... I don't wanna imagine how she will act for her own... so I'm assuming she gaslighted him till marriage and he saw no escape so just ran for the hills
I'm gonna be honest here: I don't think that marriage will hold either. There's being soft-spoken and there's being spineless and not defending your soon-to-be wife from her family by "keeping out of it" is one of the most spineless things I've seen a fiance do. Your woman is being gaslit and treated like shit and all you can muster is being annoyed at her being so "stiff" at the worst and keeping out of it at the best? And all of this is about YOUR wedding too? What kind of "support" is that supposed to be? Just makes my blood boil... be a man and defend your damn woman.
Yeah, I'd advise OP to tread carefully with her mom and sister from here on out. I cant imagine what stunts their going to pull in the future. What happens if OP has a baby before her sister does? Or gets a job promotion? Or anything that her sister hasnt accomplished?
To be honest the original poster's fiance is such a doormat. He sounds so feminine and such a pushover. I don't know what the original poster saw in him but to be honest original poster I don't see you last in long with him and it wouldn't even be your fault. Honestly she needs to divorce him.
OP’s fiancé needs to grow a backbone. If I need to tell my partner not to CALL OFF our wedding that we’ve planned because he “gets carried away” with other people’s emotions then he’s not the one. Like, he seems like a nice person, he was willing to change the location of what was supposed to be one of the happiest days of their lives. There’s going to be problems down the road.
Getting the family to admit they where wrong was like pulling teeth! Come-on OP's mom, you should be able to see that there are things you can't kick down the street just because life hits a family member hard. This does not give them the right to drag the other child down by having flying monkeys attack!
And they only gave-in eventually last minute essentially because they had to obviously😹Not because they were really all that sorry in fact🤣They would have been so thrilled had she done more what they suggested just minutes before they gave-in no doubt, and pretended that they had a point finally and ground to stand-on to begin with😂They still clearly want her to be as miserable as them and don’t think it’s fair she’s not😆It’s not hard to see why shit isn’t working out for the sister and mother though typically🙄🤷🏻♀️😹
The comment section reassured me I wasnt the only one thinking OP's fiance is weak AF. If my fiance wont get into a petty cat fight for me I dont want him. Thankfully mine is a starved mountain lion that I save up for dealing with customer service. 😂
Not simply spineless, but also disloyal. You don't want someone who will take your family's side over yours unless you are literally showing signs of mentally unbalanced behavior.
Bruh y'all literally don't know him. From the snippet of info the OP gave, you automatically conclude that he's a "Spineless pushover"? if y'all's are that stupid then you're worst than her sister.
@@CardiniPanini He was trying to keep the peace, he wants her to not only have a great day, but a great life, surrounded by friends and family, if possible. If everything was as black and white as youtube portrays it, most people would be alone or dead. No person is perfect, there are no perfect answers to situations like this. only pain and suffering.
Boy sister is doing a power play she will keep doing this for the rest of her life. The relatives will see her for what she is and this will not work as the scales fall off of their eyes and she will be isolated. No one wants this controlling their lives.
The Op is not the bad person, and honestly the first update proves a lot because there is no justification for calling off or altering her wedding simply because her sister wasn't adult enough to deal with adult relationships and the consequences. When she did the "more than one wedding" dig, she had every right. The sister spent more time with her mother than her ex-husband, and that is a HUGE red flag. If the ex-husband had been doing that, he would have been called everything but human. The sister and mother were gaslighting so hard, because they are the ones who were being so toxic. The sister really needs therapy.
@@DungeonsPlayer2312 It's one thing if work prevents you from spending that time without your wife and she seeks companionship while you are at work. It's another thing if she is doing so when you are OFF work. If my future spouse wanted to spend more time with her parents than me in general I'd be out the door.
Sorry, not buying the change of heart for mother and sister. They probably don't want to look like the bad guys by the family members. They showed their true colors.
She didn't ask the question, and that alone shows she is already marrying the wrong person. Any spouse that would taken your families side over yours better have a damn good reason like you just developed a mental illness or something.
I don't like that fiance, he is taking such a soft stance that I was half expecting to find out he and the sister were having an affair in the update after the dinner.
As a man he can't be too strong. You girls would throw he's controlling or abusive if he did or if she changes her mind he's the scumbag who separated the family to isolate her. It's a lose lose game.
@@ihavenonameforyou1 There's a difference between being to aggressive in your approach and just straight up ducking into the sidelines so your fiance can deal with the mess on her own. He didn't even really try, and that's the problem
It might be hard to understand for certain people, and it's not a terrible thing since I don't say it from a point of criticism to you, but there are some people that just try to see the best in others and end up being easily manipulated by it, specially if they're averse to confrontation. What he likely was thinking wasn't that his wife was in the wrong or "taking her sister's side", but that he found it sad that there was a falling out in her wife's family and he just tried to rationalize why. When his wife's mom was crying he probably couldn't fathom that she would be so cynical to do that as a form of manipulation so he just assumed it was truthful. The main problem is he lacks some emotional intelligence in understanding just how deeply this affected his wife... and something else you need to understand is that when people write these posts on reddit, it is hardly reasonable to expect them to give an unbiased account even if they try their hardest. Maybe the OP (The wife) conveyed here she was good at communicating this but maybe in real life she wasn't as eloquent in conveying just how betrayed she felt by her own family.
People get left at the altar or even before that. I would tell the mother that the only way the wedding would be cancelled is if she reimburses all money lost. If the sister isn't happy tell her to suffer in silence. And trust me when I say that they can refuse going to dinner with the family. The mom and her sister should have been in therapy or a mental asylum.
Definitely time to go no contact with mother and sister. You do not need any toxic people in your life. They have two faces and will turn on you when they feel the urge to hurt you. I am glad that I was wrong that the mother was able to put the past behind them.
It's nice to see a post that has a genuinely happy ending. And not some 'OP got wronged by someone, made the most of it and turned their life around, and karma came back to bite the other person' type of way either. I feel like genuine healing in these posts is really rare. If mom and sister chose to stick to their guns, my response would've been "mom and sis, I love you both, but I'm not putting my plans on hold because something didnt pan out for someone"
Thanks for letting me know I could watch the full thing! I've been trying to skip the stories by the "things took an unexpected turn" writer because of how often they leave things on such a frustrating note. I get they're going for the redemption narrative, but more often than not it just comes across as 'so I decided to continue being a doormat'.
Yeah, this one is more than likely not to last (if it is real to begin with which is a stretch lol). Reason why? Groom. Nothing on the bride, if anything she’s the rational one in all of this. The groom however has such a wet noodle for a spine that it will catch up to him and them eventually. Family narcissism is real I’ve had to deal with it first hand with my brother. He wasn’t the golden child, none of us were, we were all treated equally, but it was just unfortunately his human nature to be this way. After my father’s death in 2017 (suicide- he suffered from CTE from a severe brain trauma while on the job back in 2005) not months, or years but hours after his death so when it was still so fresh he walked up to my mom (whom he had a pretty good relationship with until then not going to lie, but he walked up to her in front of everyone and proceeded to tell her that this was all her fault that dad is dead. I get grieving- I’ve had to do it for my dad, favorite aunt (2 weeks after my dad (caught pneumonia at his funeral service actually which made the grieving oh so much worse), my uncle (9 months later), and then my mom in December 2022, so I know everyone grieves differently, but I firmly believe that in his mind which his head stuck so far up his own a$$ that my brother truly deep down believes everything he said, which is truly sad. Now fast forward to today and he’s just insanely jealous that anything/everything of my mom’s is being split 50/50 between my sister and I. He’s more upset about the property lol, as it is a nice 3 bedroom 2 bath house that we’ll more than likely renovate further into one more bed and and bath, in a booming area of the US (rhymes with smashville) and that we will eventually rent (not sell as I know we can get so much more over time with renting givin the area and renting price when if it’s the median number).
6:36 Wrong. He is not being empathetic towards the sister, he is supporting OP. He's letting her know that he's behind whatever she chooses. If it was me, I would wanna continue. You'll never be able to please people like OP's mom and sister.
The only comment that op made that had me scratching my head was "the last week before a wedding is an emotional rollercoaster for women" ..... it's really for both parties. Not just women.....why single it out lol
Why am i so annoyed by the fiance? I know people can be emotional, passive and stuffs but this dude feel spineless. He didn't even defended his partner when she was attacked and chose to be the "neutral".
Not sure I agree. Getting involved in family drama can backfire. How many times have we heard of someone defending one family member against another end in one being the target of vitriol from BOTH aggreived parties? Somehow one can find oneself blamed for things that are nothing to do with you.
Favorites are formed through similarities. I have 2 daughters 8 and 5 years old. My older one is super interested in judo, which I do, while the younger one prefers karate, which my wife does. We swap often but both have their favorites, just like we do. Rules apply to both and no one has more rights.
I'm sorry to hear about your sister's situation, but it's unfair for your mom to ask you to cancel or tone down your wedding. Stay strong and prioritize your happiness!
OP's Fiance SUCKSSSSSS, why's he not taking her side? His responses to everything would have made me even more upset than the mom and older sister cause whattttttt??? He didn't back her up and his backbone to her family was like putting spaghetti in hot water SMH
The elder sister and mother are ill but something about OP screams curious to me. Mainly the way she describes her husband, particularly *how* she instructions him. 😅 And their first argument at home dinner. Sister didn't really say anything too crazy. The first truly wild remark was the "ill only have this event once in my life". I can understand feeling the way OP does. But having justified feelings is not the same as having a justified reaction. I have a sneaking suspicion OP might be her own type of monster. 😅
I can tell you all this, if the RUclips comment section is filled with people saying for the original poster should dump her fiance, you can probably imagine how many Reddit comments were saying the same thing. She'll probably divorce that man after she realized that we are all right about him. Edit: I just realized that both the original poster and the sister have horrible taste in men. So they'll both will probably be divorced and single in the end. What a world. 😂
OP's Sister appears to have a diagnosable case of Main Character Syndrome. Mom is only apologizing because she was caught out by the whole family. Mom knows she better step up and keep her nose clean or lose the extended family relationships that are important to her.
So I don’t buy the mothers change of heart. I think she was shamed by the rest of the family, and she has realized that her oldest daughter will probably not get married and give her grandchildren so she has decided to latch onto OP and her spineless husband.
I'm honestly curious why it was never spelled out that the sister was _only getting married to get at OP_ aka to "be better than OP" Like why was this not put into more emphasis? The fact the sister _suddenly_ wanted to get married after the OP already started the marriage plans, on top of trying to force it on such short notice Also OP's now husband is a spineless moron honestly, he starts listening to the family of OP, the ones that clearly were trying to ruin their important day, and the moment it gets obvious that OP won't take the shit lying down, he suddenly goes "I don't want to be in the middle of it" absolute BS, if you don't want to be in the middle of it, don't fucking be there in the first place
The sheer audacity and envy of the sister... It's not enough she was miserable, she also wants her sister to be miserable as well...The Mom is manipulative as F and the fiancee would benefit from growing a damn spine. The mom is criticizing one moment then crying the next then arguing the next one... Even Socrates said it: "Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will."
Honestly and I don't know if you'll ever see this because I know this is from Reddit but baby girl you got a bigger problem it's called your fiance is taking somebody's outside than yours he is not taking up for you as he should and honestly I think he's a douchebag run this will end in divorce
Throughout this story, at every point, I lept waiting for OP's fiance to be on her side, stand up for her but it never happens. At several points he says he supports her but that only seems to be when there isn't conflict. He takes the mil's side repeatedly. I'm glad this ended well but I hope in the future he grows a spine and actually stands with his wife.
the husband of op, i really don't like him. your telling me that cuz your MIL and SIL said it you will cut down on the most important day in your life and console your MIL for it. Nah huge red flag for me, for my fiance i would no contact my family and tell her that i am with you not against you.
I had family members like this that are no longer my family. The younger sister sounds superficial af and a child that doesn't understand how real bonding works
God im so happy ive no familial connections, like im incapable of loving my family because they are just like every other person on the planet to me If my mom and sister tried this Sorry not sorry but you're all dead to me, lol
I feel OP started attacking her family and assuming things out of no where. I would sit and have a long talk with them first, even if I was not intending to postpone the wedding
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Elder sister's fiance made the right choice 💀
Fr lmao
He dodged one hell of a bullet 💀
he was too young for that, that age gap could be an issue even with normal dating... still, he should have ended it before all that.... Its not that he brought it up, its where and when.
@@abhabh6896 by seeing how she manipulated everything on someone else's wedding... I don't wanna imagine how she will act for her own... so I'm assuming she gaslighted him till marriage and he saw no escape so just ran for the hills
@@phantomz0-X6bullet? He dodged tactical nuke
Sounds like mom and sister had been thoroughly reamed bothering other relatives.
It also sounds like mom still found a way to make it about herself.
I am surprised this ended well. Though I wish the username was put in the description.
9:28
General ketchup?
Sorry ma'am, I only get my ketchup from Walmart 🗣️📢🔥
I'm gonna be honest here: I don't think that marriage will hold either. There's being soft-spoken and there's being spineless and not defending your soon-to-be wife from her family by "keeping out of it" is one of the most spineless things I've seen a fiance do. Your woman is being gaslit and treated like shit and all you can muster is being annoyed at her being so "stiff" at the worst and keeping out of it at the best? And all of this is about YOUR wedding too? What kind of "support" is that supposed to be? Just makes my blood boil... be a man and defend your damn woman.
OP-s fiance needs to get a grip I get caring about others but I don't think you're smart if you put others over your future wife.
OP is NTA and the sister needs to get over it. Her feelings are not more important than your wedding.
Yeah, I'd advise OP to tread carefully with her mom and sister from here on out. I cant imagine what stunts their going to pull in the future. What happens if OP has a baby before her sister does? Or gets a job promotion? Or anything that her sister hasnt accomplished?
To be honest the original poster's fiance is such a doormat. He sounds so feminine and such a pushover. I don't know what the original poster saw in him but to be honest original poster I don't see you last in long with him and it wouldn't even be your fault. Honestly she needs to divorce him.
Honestly, the finance isn’t great. He has the strength and resolve of wet toilet paper
ngl wet toilet paper is strong
we got spongebob in the commentw@@Kninja_Namikaze23
Don’t insult toilet paper. At least tp can handle shit.
Yeah the wedding should have been canceled... so she didn't have to marry such a weak and lame man
@@minutemuseliterally
OP’s fiancé needs to grow a backbone. If I need to tell my partner not to CALL OFF our wedding that we’ve planned because he “gets carried away” with other people’s emotions then he’s not the one. Like, he seems like a nice person, he was willing to change the location of what was supposed to be one of the happiest days of their lives. There’s going to be problems down the road.
Getting the family to admit they where wrong was like pulling teeth! Come-on OP's mom, you should be able to see that there are things you can't kick down the street just because life hits a family member hard. This does not give them the right to drag the other child down by having flying monkeys attack!
And they only gave-in eventually last minute essentially because they had to obviously😹Not because they were really all that sorry in fact🤣They would have been so thrilled had she done more what they suggested just minutes before they gave-in no doubt, and pretended that they had a point finally and ground to stand-on to begin with😂They still clearly want her to be as miserable as them and don’t think it’s fair she’s not😆It’s not hard to see why shit isn’t working out for the sister and mother though typically🙄🤷🏻♀️😹
Screw this fiancé. “I’m not gonna get into the middle of this” after constantly being in the middle? And not taking his future wife’s side?!! Eff him.
That’s your take away ?
that literally pissed me off so bad.
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. So, we don't.
@SirMegaManNeoX nah that dude is a complete tool. An absolute loser. She should have canceled the wedding so she didn't have to marry such a weak man
@@SirMegaManNeoXWhat a weak excuse from a weak man😂
The comment section reassured me I wasnt the only one thinking OP's fiance is weak AF. If my fiance wont get into a petty cat fight for me I dont want him. Thankfully mine is a starved mountain lion that I save up for dealing with customer service. 😂
W absolutely a W. I hope you guys have a long loving relationship.
@@AnimeGamer501st Just took his parents to see our forever home today. He is a Win.
Tell your sister to get over it, and you are going to get married on the date you chose
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OP’s man is a spineless pushover. She needs to ditch him, her mom, and her sister.
Totally!!! Op stands alone and will never get any support from her husband. He will just go with the easiest choice.
Not simply spineless, but also disloyal.
You don't want someone who will take your family's side over yours unless you are literally showing signs of mentally unbalanced behavior.
Bruh y'all literally don't know him. From the snippet of info the OP gave, you automatically conclude that he's a "Spineless pushover"? if y'all's are that stupid then you're worst than her sister.
it was her choice how to handle this, he just supported her decision.
@@CardiniPanini He was trying to keep the peace, he wants her to not only have a great day, but a great life, surrounded by friends and family, if possible.
If everything was as black and white as youtube portrays it, most people would be alone or dead. No person is perfect, there are no perfect answers to situations like this. only pain and suffering.
Boy sister is doing a power play she will keep doing this for the rest of her life. The relatives will see her for what she is and this will not work as the scales fall off of their eyes and she will be isolated. No one wants this controlling their lives.
I think i know why OP sister got dumped at tge alter...
Also... The fiance needs to grow a pair abd defend OP
The Op is not the bad person, and honestly the first update proves a lot because there is no justification for calling off or altering her wedding simply because her sister wasn't adult enough to deal with adult relationships and the consequences. When she did the "more than one wedding" dig, she had every right. The sister spent more time with her mother than her ex-husband, and that is a HUGE red flag. If the ex-husband had been doing that, he would have been called everything but human. The sister and mother were gaslighting so hard, because they are the ones who were being so toxic. The sister really needs therapy.
wait how is it bad to spend more time with your mother than your wife? ive never been in a relationship butstill
@@DungeonsPlayer2312
It's one thing if work prevents you from spending that time without your wife and she seeks companionship while you are at work.
It's another thing if she is doing so when you are OFF work.
If my future spouse wanted to spend more time with her parents than me in general I'd be out the door.
@@DungeonsPlayer2312 Are you 9?
@@NJ-kp3wu nope
@@mnomadvfx ok thnx
She has HORRIBLE communication with her new husband.
To be fair, he just sounds like a people pleaser. Seems like he would sacrifice his and wife’s happiness if it meant doing what others wanted
Sorry, not buying the change of heart for mother and sister. They probably don't want to look like the bad guys by the family members. They showed their true colors.
I wouldn't of married the guy. There was no support from him what so ever. Just saying.
Okay, not the question, but she might want to rethink this groom. He seems a bit…weak.
She didn't ask the question, and that alone shows she is already marrying the wrong person.
Any spouse that would taken your families side over yours better have a damn good reason like you just developed a mental illness or something.
Which? The elder or younger?
@@Seanyboy978 the fiance
I don't like that fiance, he is taking such a soft stance that I was half expecting to find out he and the sister were having an affair in the update after the dinner.
As a man he can't be too strong. You girls would throw he's controlling or abusive if he did or if she changes her mind he's the scumbag who separated the family to isolate her. It's a lose lose game.
@@ihavenonameforyou1 There's a difference between being to aggressive in your approach and just straight up ducking into the sidelines so your fiance can deal with the mess on her own. He didn't even really try, and that's the problem
It might be hard to understand for certain people, and it's not a terrible thing since I don't say it from a point of criticism to you, but there are some people that just try to see the best in others and end up being easily manipulated by it, specially if they're averse to confrontation. What he likely was thinking wasn't that his wife was in the wrong or "taking her sister's side", but that he found it sad that there was a falling out in her wife's family and he just tried to rationalize why. When his wife's mom was crying he probably couldn't fathom that she would be so cynical to do that as a form of manipulation so he just assumed it was truthful.
The main problem is he lacks some emotional intelligence in understanding just how deeply this affected his wife... and something else you need to understand is that when people write these posts on reddit, it is hardly reasonable to expect them to give an unbiased account even if they try their hardest. Maybe the OP (The wife) conveyed here she was good at communicating this but maybe in real life she wasn't as eloquent in conveying just how betrayed she felt by her own family.
@@ihavenonameforyou1 you're brain dead. don't speak
People get left at the altar or even before that. I would tell the mother that the only way the wedding would be cancelled is if she reimburses all money lost. If the sister isn't happy tell her to suffer in silence. And trust me when I say that they can refuse going to dinner with the family. The mom and her sister should have been in therapy or a mental asylum.
Definitely time to go no contact with mother and sister. You do not need any toxic people in your life. They have two faces and will turn on you when they feel the urge to hurt you. I am glad that I was wrong that the mother was able to put the past behind them.
Omg, the dig about planning to only have one wedding had me laughing too hard 😆😆😆
The dinner. Why didn't OP and fiancee just leave? Sister has had almost as much time to get over it as she had to know her guy.
Yeah i wouldnt forgive them 😂
I smelled the AI in the first 2 sentences lol
OP's husband has no backbone
Do NOT send candlelit lanterns “into the sky”. Where I live, which is a semi arid desert, you will get arrested
Wow, not one but TWO women reversed their narcissistic insanity and took accountability for their atrocious behavior? Color me amazed
It's nice to see a post that has a genuinely happy ending. And not some 'OP got wronged by someone, made the most of it and turned their life around, and karma came back to bite the other person' type of way either. I feel like genuine healing in these posts is really rare.
If mom and sister chose to stick to their guns, my response would've been "mom and sis, I love you both, but I'm not putting my plans on hold because something didnt pan out for someone"
Thanks for letting me know I could watch the full thing! I've been trying to skip the stories by the "things took an unexpected turn" writer because of how often they leave things on such a frustrating note. I get they're going for the redemption narrative, but more often than not it just comes across as 'so I decided to continue being a doormat'.
Everyone sucks here
There was so many times in this where I would probably say Womp womp to the fucking womp
Yeah, this one is more than likely not to last (if it is real to begin with which is a stretch lol). Reason why? Groom. Nothing on the bride, if anything she’s the rational one in all of this. The groom however has such a wet noodle for a spine that it will catch up to him and them eventually. Family narcissism is real I’ve had to deal with it first hand with my brother. He wasn’t the golden child, none of us were, we were all treated equally, but it was just unfortunately his human nature to be this way. After my father’s death in 2017 (suicide- he suffered from CTE from a severe brain trauma while on the job back in 2005) not months, or years but hours after his death so when it was still so fresh he walked up to my mom (whom he had a pretty good relationship with until then not going to lie, but he walked up to her in front of everyone and proceeded to tell her that this was all her fault that dad is dead. I get grieving- I’ve had to do it for my dad, favorite aunt (2 weeks after my dad (caught pneumonia at his funeral service actually which made the grieving oh so much worse), my uncle (9 months later), and then my mom in December 2022, so I know everyone grieves differently, but I firmly believe that in his mind which his head stuck so far up his own a$$ that my brother truly deep down believes everything he said, which is truly sad. Now fast forward to today and he’s just insanely jealous that anything/everything of my mom’s is being split 50/50 between my sister and I. He’s more upset about the property lol, as it is a nice 3 bedroom 2 bath house that we’ll more than likely renovate further into one more bed and and bath, in a booming area of the US (rhymes with smashville) and that we will eventually rent (not sell as I know we can get so much more over time with renting givin the area and renting price when if it’s the median number).
Bro i aint reading allat
@@SatvikHunter Bro…. don’t give two fucks whether you read it or not. Also, reading a bit might help as allat is definitely not a word!
@@robertbehof683 still aint readin allat
The last updated was so poetic. Op should write poems❤
that is because it is AI generated.
6:36 Wrong. He is not being empathetic towards the sister, he is supporting OP. He's letting her know that he's behind whatever she chooses.
If it was me, I would wanna continue. You'll never be able to please people like OP's mom and sister.
Sorry, but that is just NC forever on my part. I would rip the letter in front of her and tell them to never show their faces in front of me again.
Im thinking they found the post and were upset they were getting blasted so decided to leave it
“So I’m a 30 year old woman, right?” - 🧔
Made me lol. Had me talking into the screen, "Like..right? If you say you are, then you are. Tf do we know sis?" 😂😂😂
The only comment that op made that had me scratching my head was "the last week before a wedding is an emotional rollercoaster for women" ..... it's really for both parties. Not just women.....why single it out lol
Because Men are emotionless.
I dislike the fiance. Get rid of him, he ain’t even have her back 😂 like bro how you not seeing the bs? 16:51
A good ending 💯 glad to see it ❤️
They will dont have child cuz fiance/husband didnt grow a balls
Why am i so annoyed by the fiance? I know people can be emotional, passive and stuffs but this dude feel spineless. He didn't even defended his partner when she was attacked and chose to be the "neutral".
Not sure I agree. Getting involved in family drama can backfire. How many times have we heard of someone defending one family member against another end in one being the target of vitriol from BOTH aggreived parties? Somehow one can find oneself blamed for things that are nothing to do with you.
His fiance was a gentleman he proboly thought that this was a personal family matter and that he shouldent interfere with his wife family
Wonder why they had a change of heart 🤔
The sister's life is not made better for OPs life being worse
One of the most boring AI generated stories! “…lighting the way for future hopes and dreams”. Oh brother 🙄
😂😂Made me vom a little bit.
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Favorites are formed through similarities. I have 2 daughters 8 and 5 years old. My older one is super interested in judo, which I do, while the younger one prefers karate, which my wife does. We swap often but both have their favorites, just like we do.
Rules apply to both and no one has more rights.
I really want to know what is the name of this game in the background. Does anyone know???
Minecraft ಠ_ಠ
Ai never knows when to stop. It's always so obvious when it throws out the big words.
I'm sorry to hear about your sister's situation, but it's unfair for your mom to ask you to cancel or tone down your wedding. Stay strong and prioritize your happiness!
Dump the finance. You need a real man who’ll defend you.
Yea he keep agreeing to the mom when he knows her and the sister is wrong
@@Miz_Velvet well her last update is discouraging. She’s giving her family a pass for the way they treated her. No wonder they thought they could.
OP's Fiance SUCKSSSSSS, why's he not taking her side? His responses to everything would have made me even more upset than the mom and older sister cause whattttttt??? He didn't back her up and his backbone to her family was like putting spaghetti in hot water SMH
The elder sister and mother are ill but something about OP screams curious to me.
Mainly the way she describes her husband, particularly *how* she instructions him. 😅
And their first argument at home dinner.
Sister didn't really say anything too crazy. The first truly wild remark was the "ill only have this event once in my life". I can understand feeling the way OP does. But having justified feelings is not the same as having a justified reaction.
I have a sneaking suspicion OP might be her own type of monster. 😅
Fake. The description of the wedding gave it away. This is either AI or someone's creative writing project. People don't talk like that.
I can tell you all this, if the RUclips comment section is filled with people saying for the original poster should dump her fiance, you can probably imagine how many Reddit comments were saying the same thing. She'll probably divorce that man after she realized that we are all right about him.
Edit: I just realized that both the original poster and the sister have horrible taste in men. So they'll both will probably be divorced and single in the end. What a world. 😂
Fiance/husband has no cojones... At least he's supportive... Kind of.
OP's Sister appears to have a diagnosable case of Main Character Syndrome. Mom is only apologizing because she was caught out by the whole family. Mom knows she better step up and keep her nose clean or lose the extended family relationships that are important to her.
So I don’t buy the mothers change of heart. I think she was shamed by the rest of the family, and she has realized that her oldest daughter will probably not get married and give her grandchildren so she has decided to latch onto OP and her spineless husband.
I'm honestly curious why it was never spelled out that the sister was _only getting married to get at OP_ aka to "be better than OP"
Like why was this not put into more emphasis? The fact the sister _suddenly_ wanted to get married after the OP already started the marriage plans, on top of trying to force it on such short notice
Also OP's now husband is a spineless moron honestly, he starts listening to the family of OP, the ones that clearly were trying to ruin their important day, and the moment it gets obvious that OP won't take the shit lying down, he suddenly goes "I don't want to be in the middle of it" absolute BS, if you don't want to be in the middle of it, don't fucking be there in the first place
The sheer audacity and envy of the sister... It's not enough she was miserable, she also wants her sister to be miserable as well...The Mom is manipulative as F and the fiancee would benefit from growing a damn spine. The mom is criticizing one moment then crying the next then arguing the next one... Even Socrates said it: "Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will."
Honestly and I don't know if you'll ever see this because I know this is from Reddit but baby girl you got a bigger problem it's called your fiance is taking somebody's outside than yours he is not taking up for you as he should and honestly I think he's a douchebag run this will end in divorce
Throughout this story, at every point, I lept waiting for OP's fiance to be on her side, stand up for her but it never happens. At several points he says he supports her but that only seems to be when there isn't conflict. He takes the mil's side repeatedly. I'm glad this ended well but I hope in the future he grows a spine and actually stands with his wife.
the husband of op, i really don't like him. your telling me that cuz your MIL and SIL said it you will cut down on the most important day in your life and console your MIL for it. Nah huge red flag for me, for my fiance i would no contact my family and tell her that i am with you not against you.
I had family members like this that are no longer my family. The younger sister sounds superficial af and a child that doesn't understand how real bonding works
God im so happy ive no familial connections, like im incapable of loving my family because they are just like every other person on the planet to me
If my mom and sister tried this
Sorry not sorry but you're all dead to me, lol
OP's fiance clearly had the sister and Mother Guilt tripping him behind her back
I feel OP started attacking her family and assuming things out of no where. I would sit and have a long talk with them first, even if I was not intending to postpone the wedding
A story that ends with malicious family turning around? Can’t say I’ve heard many.
Why do I feel like ops fiancée will see the elder sister behind ops back, after a few months of marriage?
Why would you marry someone that wouldn't even fight for you and stand by your side if things went south?
If OP sister cared about her, she would want to see her sister happy and not ruined her day because her life got ruined
Why would she marry him??? He’s terrible just as bad as her family.
Love your solution.... uninvite. Good. The statement of tfb fits the sister.
Even Buddah loses his temper after getting struck 3 times.
golden child saying favor child mother have no right to ask other child to cancel wedding
18:30 you'd have to be a fool to accep... never mind
edit: i bet they'll crash the party.
Respect to the person who did the parkour without falling once🗿
IDK fiance is giving me sus vibes. He needs to grow a spine and put his fiance first not her entitled sister.
An outdoor wedding in December? OP is crazy. I bet it was cold.
There are places in the world where it doesn't really snow and the temperature is like a cool spring breeze.
OP is 30 and her eggs sell by date is coming up, she needs to get married now.
Good.Girl do your wedding the way you want to.Your sister will be married by the end of the year with someone else.
As opposed to planning a wedding with her boyfriend whose going to be the best man?
She only wanted to get married because you were and she told the boy to say that and she broke up with him
The fiancé is so weak, the OP would be better off without all of them.
At first glance seems like sister is in competition hence the fast decision to marry.
Whats obvious is obvious, but damn I kinda hate her fiance
Wow Jesus Christ that’s ruff op has every right to keep the wedding as planned
Sister's having it rough? BOOHOO!
The background video is distracting.
in other words keep your mouth shut and i will do the talking.
Wasn't expecting that ending
Sister wasn't there at the dinner, but then she was there to console mom?
i love drama ❤❤❤❤❤ curses it makes my blood boil 😅
Fiance is a wuss. Support your fiance dude.
Your video part causes motion sickness.