18 Must Have Items Every Gentleman Should Own

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @ryanlee354
    @ryanlee354 7 лет назад +2588

    gentlemans gazette drinking game: take a shot every time Rafael says he has big thighs

  • @bailey9947
    @bailey9947 6 лет назад +1767

    I love using my linen handkerchief to dry my tears from all the money I spent on it

    • @sergiocorrea63
      @sergiocorrea63 5 лет назад +11

      Jajajajaja, you made my day with that comment............

    • @killoffman
      @killoffman 5 лет назад +11

      Legendary

    • @Ultimatebeag
      @Ultimatebeag 5 лет назад +1

      LOL

    • @oliverf.68
      @oliverf.68 5 лет назад +10

      Some of those square pockets are more expensive than the suit itself Hahahaha

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie 5 лет назад +10

      Female here...I have lost so many high quality hankies to men who never seem to have one. Now I just keep an inexpensive men's one in my bag, I got 3 for the price of one of mine.

  • @MarkWilliams-gy9bi
    @MarkWilliams-gy9bi 4 года назад +402

    When you see someone sitting on an umbrella: "Ah, I see you're a man of culture as well."

    • @brucecharlie8613
      @brucecharlie8613 3 года назад +4

      Yes bit of a Dwain Dibbly Vibe lol

    • @kendallevans4079
      @kendallevans4079 7 месяцев назад

      @@brucecharlie8613 Or John Sneed

    • @iDontShareMyData
      @iDontShareMyData 4 месяца назад +1

      @@kendallevans4079 Sneed?
      SNEED??
      (turn in your bowler hat sir.)

  • @stephenlegg262
    @stephenlegg262 7 лет назад +1863

    The 19th item is a wallet full of cash.

    • @shanewright2772
      @shanewright2772 6 лет назад +16

      A gentleman never carries cash

    • @bobbirdsong6825
      @bobbirdsong6825 6 лет назад +83

      Shane Wright
      A gentleman always carries cash. It is far more versatile and accepted everywhere.

    • @shanewright2772
      @shanewright2772 6 лет назад +12

      Hi Bob. Versatile and Accepted everywhere? Maybe amongst drug dealers, but in the real world try getting your leftover South African rand accepted in a cafe in Prague

    • @bobbirdsong6825
      @bobbirdsong6825 6 лет назад +34

      Perhaps you don't understand that different countries have different currencies and that you can't generally use them interchangeably? The point of cash is being prepared and being able to make small, or even large purchases without having to pay them back later. It also gives you a better sense of the money you're spending. Cheers!

    • @shanewright2772
      @shanewright2772 6 лет назад +4

      I understand that perfectly well. I also understand that a gentleman avoids carrying cash - he either has a credit card, an arrangement with the supplier or a valet to do so.

  • @JoostEurovisionFans
    @JoostEurovisionFans 6 лет назад +1091

    What you can also hand down to your children:
    1. Good manners
    2. Respect
    3. Love of a father

    • @patriot9487
      @patriot9487 6 лет назад +108

      And a good beating

    • @JoostEurovisionFans
      @JoostEurovisionFans 6 лет назад +33

      I approve, only if nessecary

    • @Mistraker
      @Mistraker 6 лет назад +45

      If you beat your children, you are trash, and should jump into a running woodchipper.

    • @QS1597
      @QS1597 6 лет назад +5

      Only if your child is willing to take it

    • @folumb
      @folumb 6 лет назад +64

      beating children just teaches them to get more clever at hiding things from you and not getting caught

  • @TJ-cm6pc
    @TJ-cm6pc 7 лет назад +1756

    Nothing says gentlemen like sitting on an umbrella? Lol

    • @slamminsammy941
      @slamminsammy941 7 лет назад +36

      Tyler Jacobs then by all means don't pay money for a custom umbrella that has that added. Problem solved

    • @TJ-cm6pc
      @TJ-cm6pc 7 лет назад +84

      Samwise Gamge Of course, no need to tell me that, I never planned on it.

    • @bandname
      @bandname 5 лет назад +81

      Looked like he was shoving it up his arse.

    • @TomCreedphx
      @TomCreedphx 5 лет назад +30

      as long as you give up your umbrella for chicks if they forgot their sitting umbrella

    • @theapexsurvivor9538
      @theapexsurvivor9538 5 лет назад +9

      @@TomCreedphx only if they appear in need of it or ask politely, a gentleman should never give up his seat for those who act hoonish or unladylike, nor attempt to force it upon a lady.

  • @STNeish
    @STNeish 5 лет назад +149

    I've worked in mens' wear for close to 30 years, and I still find your videos informative and even inspiring. I can't say I agree in every case, but your videos offer excellent insight and advice.
    Bravo!

    • @azy63
      @azy63 Год назад +2

      I also work in men's clothing. I'm less conspicuous that way.

    • @STNeish
      @STNeish Год назад +3

      @@azy63 I've made a similar joke, I work in mens' clothing... because I look silly in a dress.

  • @MegaMagician12
    @MegaMagician12 5 лет назад +1173

    Being a gentleman sounds expensive... (Edit: I did not realize how many people where gonna get serious about this lol. It's just a joke everyone. Being a gentleman is all about attitude and respect. Not about luxuries or expenses.)

    • @_KingOfCalifornia
      @_KingOfCalifornia 5 лет назад +184

      It's the admittance fee, a lot of this stuff won't need replacing for a while

    • @theapexsurvivor9538
      @theapexsurvivor9538 5 лет назад +96

      If it was cheap, everyone would do it.

    • @nafismunandar4275
      @nafismunandar4275 5 лет назад +107

      You would invest in these for a long period of time. At 20 year you buy your first suit, at 21 your french cuff white shirt, and so on. At the end of your life you pass it on your grandson to make it easier for them to start as a gent before they can afford their own.

    • @kennethmitchell6184
      @kennethmitchell6184 5 лет назад +24

      Actually it's not as expensive as you think most of the things mentioned I already own.

    • @burpostockings
      @burpostockings 5 лет назад +23

      Right? I got some snap on tools and a nice Beavis and Butthead zippo, and im out like $400

  • @puppetmaster82
    @puppetmaster82 7 лет назад +495

    'You can use the handkerchief to dry your tears' I guess while sitting on that umbrella seat, right?

    • @BusyBadger
      @BusyBadger 6 лет назад +18

      puppet I searched specifically hoping for a quote making this connection!

    • @prof.dr.sebastianbemeier131
      @prof.dr.sebastianbemeier131 6 лет назад +3

      You are a real genius😂😂

    • @mattil2302
      @mattil2302 4 года назад

      While looking in your wallet after you have all the items you must have

  • @TheJellyfish703
    @TheJellyfish703 7 лет назад +638

    The umbrella handle seat looks a little embarrassing when one is sat upon it....

    • @cristiankaz2264
      @cristiankaz2264 7 лет назад +12

      Jellyfish 703 agreed

    • @mandeepbaweja3021
      @mandeepbaweja3021 7 лет назад +3

      😂 yes

    • @havocproltd
      @havocproltd 5 лет назад +2

      tony - if you're a guy taking a coed to a museum for undergrad fine arts credits lord or not your sleeping alone! well, unless you'er known as Anthony...then not so much a coed as...

  • @terrydrums
    @terrydrums 7 лет назад +1164

    Great. Now do a video for us non-millionaires!

    • @Patrick-857
      @Patrick-857 6 лет назад +19

      terrydrums vintage suit?

    • @user-bl1zt9xg7f
      @user-bl1zt9xg7f 6 лет назад +81

      This guys sense of reality is distorted. Who wants to live like we're all always in a meeting or a party.

    • @Sartonica
      @Sartonica 6 лет назад +75

      The term "gentleman" means different things to different social classes.

    • @rp6699
      @rp6699 6 лет назад +1

      haha exactly my thoughts

    • @doylemurphy152
      @doylemurphy152 6 лет назад +25

      Folks, he telling you something by the term “vintage”. I live in a small town in Oklahoma. You can find some stuff from a Wal-Mart. I found some stuff from a Target in the Tulsa area. I can check a resale shop for “vintage” clothing. Target is really good for some stuff at a great price. Winter tuff is fixing to go on clearance. I can check Ross in Muskogee for items. If you need a new suit, there is a really good place in Tulsa around 41st and Memorial that start at $99.00. It not like a bunch of people around this area knows what bespoke is or heard of Savoy Row in London. Raphael and creative buying here in Oklahoma would impress the mayor or a me,her of the state legislature. The Governor here doesn’t know he should where morning dress for his daytime inauguration. If you live so we like New York or LA or big cities in Europe, follow Raphael to the letter. If you live like I do in Northeastern Oklahoma/ Northwestern Arkansas, people just think you got class cause you are wearing clothing for out on the town that doesn’t have logos for OU, OSU and University of Arkansas.

  • @ArsynZ
    @ArsynZ 5 лет назад +160

    "I'm very important. I have many leather-bound books and my apartment smells of rich mahogany." - Ron Burgundy

    • @richardwebb2348
      @richardwebb2348 4 года назад +2

      once mahogany is french polished it has no smell.

    • @DinnerForkTongue
      @DinnerForkTongue 4 года назад

      "olho os livros na minha estante,
      Que nada dizem de importante,
      Servem só pra quem não sabe ler..."
      - Raul Seixas
      (I'd post the translation but it doesn't rhyme in English"

    • @JustMarilynOfficial
      @JustMarilynOfficial 4 года назад

      ArsynZ that sounds fancy..

    • @tyler5198
      @tyler5198 4 года назад

      I'm kind of a big deal, people know me

    • @lisbetsoda4874
      @lisbetsoda4874 2 года назад

      🤣😂🤣

  • @tessat338
    @tessat338 3 года назад +21

    One of my favorite scores at a department store discount center was a well made lady's short trench coat. I live in a temperate climate and get a lot of use out of it during the spring and autumn. It fits perfectly and wears well. I wear it for casual evening and day wear.

  • @monicawilson896
    @monicawilson896 6 лет назад +17

    I love that my husband and father in law carry a handkerchief. My father in law offered his hankie to me when I was feeling ill and my husband offered his to our lady friend when she was upset. This gesture felt so nurturing to me and my friend. It is also mentioned in the movie Intern by Robert DiNero’s character for similar reasons. Little things can make a big impact.

  • @MichailMantakas
    @MichailMantakas 7 лет назад +389

    19. A Swiss Army knife.

    • @Mike_and_Life
      @Mike_and_Life 6 лет назад +5

      Mihail Mantakas this isn't the boy scouts.

    • @damnson4491
      @damnson4491 6 лет назад +9

      a real gentleman will never use a swiss army knife

    • @dylancurtis7435
      @dylancurtis7435 6 лет назад +9

      they have some real nice stainless steel models. I can see a gentleman whipping out the stainless or the gold ingot cigar cutter swiss army knife out at a party perhaps.

    • @jordanhicks5131
      @jordanhicks5131 6 лет назад +8

      Mihail Mantakas i would not specify the type of knife beyond simply "a good quality pocket knife"
      Leave it open for whatever knife fits their needs best. I prefer a spring loaded single straight blade with a spear style tip. Its small, but fast and sharp and perfect for any chore from cutting threads to cutting a steak.

    • @jojo890xd4
      @jojo890xd4 6 лет назад

      Michael for what ?

  • @thepassionofthegoose5472
    @thepassionofthegoose5472 6 лет назад +20

    I love this channel. I have been looking for a proper men's channel that doesn't cater to trends while trying to sell me cheap watches and questionable skincare. Subscribed.

  • @dragonmaster7841
    @dragonmaster7841 5 лет назад +56

    The classiest men’s “how to dress” channel. Lot of other channels are tacky.

    • @Jessie_Helms
      @Jessie_Helms 4 года назад +3

      RMRS is a good channel once you’re a bit more in the know, but I’d be afraid to recommend him to a new guy cause of some of his more out there stuff.
      Gazette seems to really strike that good balance between “this is what WE like” “this is really good advise” and “this is a fundamental rule” for people starting out.
      HeSpoke is also really good from what I’ve seen so far.

    • @lisbetsoda4874
      @lisbetsoda4874 2 года назад +2

      The best channel is Sartorial Talks - it is phenomenal. This one is also very good and RMRS is great, also.

  • @russianoldschoo48
    @russianoldschoo48 4 года назад +32

    7:38 Random fun fact about that photo, the Soviet’s doctored the photo because the guy who was holding the flag had been looting and had three watches on his wrists

  • @S4SuperStarSteveSavage
    @S4SuperStarSteveSavage 7 лет назад +48

    1) Suit
    2) Lighter
    3) Umbrella
    4) Trench Coat
    5) Corkscrew
    6) Linen Handchift
    7) Fountain Pen
    8) Tool Box with Tools
    9) Camera
    10) Welted Black Cap Toe Oxfords
    11) Signature Scent
    12) Watch
    13) Bottle of Vintage Port
    14) Great Copy of your Favorite Book
    15) White Dress Shirt
    16) Cufflinks
    17) Quality Belt & Suspenders
    18) Signet Ring or Pinky Ring

    • @ForlornFreddy
      @ForlornFreddy Год назад

      19) Subscription to Hustler.

    • @PeterBren
      @PeterBren 2 месяца назад +1

      @S4SuperStarSteveSavage And a army surplus rucksack to carry it all. 😀

  • @Dannyheal
    @Dannyheal 3 года назад +16

    I think a good pocket or pen knife should be on this list as well. It is as essential as a lighter. Nothing big or gaudy, just high quality steel, preferably with a handle made of horn, and no longer than 3.5 - 4 inches in length.
    I personally don't smoke, but I do not leave my home without my wallet, phone, lighter, and knife.
    Then again, my pocket knife was my grandfather's and he carried it into WW2, so it is something I also plan on passing on to my child as well.
    Overall this list is very solid and doable, even if you aren't well off.

  • @tonchito1449
    @tonchito1449 4 года назад +3

    So glad that my grandfather owned most of these items and passed them down to me. Very grateful

  • @thermionic1234567
    @thermionic1234567 5 лет назад +9

    I have a pair of lapis lazuli and solid gold cuff links. They were handed down to me from my great uncle. They are simple and absolutely-beautiful and give me great confidence whenever I wear them.

    • @KeithRichards-o9y
      @KeithRichards-o9y Год назад

      They would not be solid gold as gold is soft. I would estimate 80-90% gold, with enough harder metals to resist marring and scratches

    • @thermionic1234567
      @thermionic1234567 Год назад

      @@KeithRichards-o9y Sorry, I meant 14 karat, ie not gold-plated.

  • @seanwhite1023
    @seanwhite1023 4 года назад +68

    I think think the Burberry toilet paper is another valid addition to this list starting at only $600. You can also buy it vintage at $400 if you are on a very low budget.

  • @oliverfasola19
    @oliverfasola19 4 года назад +9

    The second one being a lighter? That actually blew my mind, I’m 19 and have a fairly good lighter collection going. The fact you mentioned ST DuPont is amazing

  • @dooterscoots2901
    @dooterscoots2901 6 лет назад +66

    5:45 "loved one OR a child"

  • @TheLordbarry
    @TheLordbarry 7 лет назад +12

    Double breasted waistcoat is one of the most difficult thing to fit right nowadays, yours is absolutely on point. Thank you for letting us enjoying such wonderful craftsmanship. :)

  • @theactualnic
    @theactualnic 5 лет назад +16

    Call me crazy but I use a typewriter to write notes and letters to people. With my signature in fountain pen. It looks fantastic, old-world and people never forget it. Definitely a good investment for a gentleman because good typewriters appreciate in value!!

  • @PiranhaJaw22
    @PiranhaJaw22 5 лет назад +36

    2:40 nothing more gentlemanly than appearing to have an umbrella poking out from your a

  • @jacobrogersproctor
    @jacobrogersproctor 2 года назад +2

    I love 14- a great copy of your favorite book. I have loved books my whole life. I love the theme of being a proper gentleman is investing in the things that really bring joy to your life.

  • @markpinwill722
    @markpinwill722 4 года назад +5

    My "pinky" rings are my Mum and Dads wedding rings inside each other that have been soldered together and on the other hand is my late wife's wedding ring that I have had resized. The funny things the "Mum and Dad's" rings always create the most interest.

  • @SilencerM4
    @SilencerM4 7 лет назад +130

    What do you think about wearing clout goggles and a suit

    • @vho8483
      @vho8483 5 лет назад +13

      SilencerM4
      I think a man of culture...

    • @MostafaElSakari
      @MostafaElSakari 5 лет назад +1

      You gave me a great idea

    • @ss_1972
      @ss_1972 4 года назад +1

      No no no

  • @nigelvansuspicioussalmon7824
    @nigelvansuspicioussalmon7824 5 лет назад +132

    how to spot a gentleman i a museum... Its the guy who looks like he has a umbrella up his rear end

  • @Archer335
    @Archer335 7 лет назад +8

    My perfect watch (on a budget):
    Seiko SARB035 (“poor man’s Datejust”)
    It’s an automatic watch that goes with everything.
    332$ on Amazon
    I wear it every day. And it keeps pretty good time.
    I reset it every two days.

  • @cristiankaz2264
    @cristiankaz2264 7 лет назад +300

    The pocket knife and the korkscrew could have been easily solved with just one "quality" swiss multi-tool.... That's just my opinion.

    • @bongXryger
      @bongXryger 6 лет назад +7

      gonna open a nice bottle at the fine dinner party with that? o.o' im gonna stay with my rosewood corkscrew

    • @johnadams8701
      @johnadams8701 6 лет назад +9

      My experience is that the corkscrew on a SAK or other multi tool is adequate for occasional use but doesn't eliminate the need for a proper corkscrew.

    • @JohanKylander
      @JohanKylander 6 лет назад +7

      Victorianox Swiss army knives.

    • @Mike_and_Life
      @Mike_and_Life 6 лет назад +6

      There is nothing attractive or stylish about a Swiss army knife.

    • @JohanKylander
      @JohanKylander 6 лет назад +18

      Michael There isn't, it's just a useful tool to have.

  • @XavieRibeiro25
    @XavieRibeiro25 7 лет назад +3

    As a Portuguese, I invest in vintage Porto so I can drink it whenever I want. We do drink a lot of that at almost every event. Keep up with nice calming videos.

  • @hamiltonhomesguy367
    @hamiltonhomesguy367 4 года назад +3

    There should be more men that dress in style. I really agree with what you have to say. Being in Sales, first impressions are extremely important to be taken seriously by clients and investors....Bravo!

  • @jessicalynnstrom
    @jessicalynnstrom 5 лет назад +6

    All of these videos are super helpful for finding things for my boyfriend, thanks y’all!

  • @briang530
    @briang530 3 года назад +14

    After a recent wedding, I was reminded of just how important it is to always have an umbrella, clean and disposable handkerchiefs, and a fountain pen. (as much as I don't like letting others use my fountain pen). All of the above items were indispensable.

    • @thebespokecyclist3624
      @thebespokecyclist3624 Год назад

      You go to weddings often?

    • @briang530
      @briang530 Год назад +1

      @@thebespokecyclist3624 hopefully done with the 2 to 3 a year routine that hits between about 27 and 37 years old...

  • @rogernobbs6559
    @rogernobbs6559 7 лет назад +11

    Totally agree about umbrellas. I have a James Smith, but also agree that expensive umbrellas are more likely to go missing. Or worse, as with the Financial Times umbrella I was given many years ago, it might get left on a train or bus.
    On dress shirts, I recently heard about someone who only wore cream or off-white shirts because he grew up in a household where white shirts were reserved only for the servants. Not something most of us have to bother about any more, thankfully, but I do think off-white, cream and ivory have a warmer look to them than white, which can look a bit clinical and uniform. I work in an office and white shirts are a bit humdrum.

    • @mnikhk
      @mnikhk 6 лет назад +1

      Ppl with yellow teeth can benefit from the cream color temporarily when their teeth are not white because even good expensive treatments last 3-6 months then you're stuck till you get another appointment

    • @Santor-
      @Santor- 4 года назад +1

      Ever since I was a kid, i always owned a fresh pure white shirt. I agree it should be a staple, for those occasions one dont plan for and similar; funeral, someones confirmation, job interview, etc. Dont get much use admittedly, but still an important asset. It goes with a standard dark suit and shoes. I cringe when i see someone coming to a funeral in old jeans and sneakers. Any grownup should at minimum be able to keep 1 formal outfit.

    • @lisbetsoda4874
      @lisbetsoda4874 2 года назад

      I would say that all depends on the quality of the shirt. Cheap ones definitely do look very humdrum.

  • @leonardgoffe7159
    @leonardgoffe7159 7 лет назад +59

    After the wallet full of cash, I would suggest a high power quality pen size flashlight. I use mine every week.

    • @iLoveTheseRemoras
      @iLoveTheseRemoras 6 лет назад +11

      + pen size Fleshlight

    • @asunoyt
      @asunoyt 6 лет назад +2

      iLoveTheseRemoras LOL

    • @DavidLLambertmobile
      @DavidLLambertmobile 5 лет назад

      I use a Fenix UC35 😉. I'd suggest the newer 2019 2.0 version. A white light 🔦 with a strobe or SOS feature can signal friends or ride share drivers at night 🌃, or help in a attack...

    • @lawrencetedford357
      @lawrencetedford357 5 лет назад

      How about that.

    • @DinnerForkTongue
      @DinnerForkTongue 4 года назад

      @@DavidLLambertmobile
      I'd rather have a Convoy. Much less overpriced and equal quality.

  • @danhelms8134
    @danhelms8134 6 лет назад +2

    I would add a traditional folding knife to the list. Something like a case trapper. I would also add a sidearm appropriate for self defense and a quality holster.

  • @mysteriouskiwi9965
    @mysteriouskiwi9965 6 лет назад +116

    another drinking game: take a shot everytime he says "quality"

  • @captainblackbeard1508
    @captainblackbeard1508 7 лет назад +3

    Raphael, a very good video as usual. A gentleman is always learning, just wanted to point that the Portuguese tradition you mencioned is quite spot one. I'm portuguese and it is indeed a tradition, and the time we choose to open is quite personal, very different opinions on when to do it,
    Thank you for all your great content, greatings for you and your team

  • @dr9683
    @dr9683 6 лет назад +247

    why would you by a $150 cork screw? utterly ridiculous

    • @ryzxn4703
      @ryzxn4703 6 лет назад +26

      D R people who have to much cash to put it in their italian leather wallet or gucci purse.

    • @cavejohnson4306
      @cavejohnson4306 6 лет назад +11

      People who work at 3 star restaurants.

    • @slappy8941
      @slappy8941 6 лет назад +19

      Like the saying goes, if it must be explained to you, then you wouldn't understand.

    • @odinlindeberg4624
      @odinlindeberg4624 6 лет назад +23

      @@slappy8941
      Well, guess pretty much nobody really understands math beyond additions and subtractions...

    • @knpstrr
      @knpstrr 6 лет назад +21

      Essentially everything he buys would hope to be heirloom pieces. Meaning the quality is so fine that generations after you can have them and use them if they'd like -- to remember and talk about you. Not everyone would care to do this and that is their choice. But this man has a business based upon these things so it makes sense for him to make such recommendations.

  • @williamjames8924
    @williamjames8924 3 года назад +2

    Love your shows! I agree with the tool box. I bought a 48 inch Harbor Freight tool box for approximately $378.00 and tool are something you buy only when you need it. However I customized by buying quality tools e.g Kinpex, very few Snap On and Teckton. Teckton is were you want to get the bulk. I am not associated with anybody, but really love this show and I assume really good people that also watch. Built shelves and use only Dewalt & very few Milwaukee. Keep in mind a variety of power tools would meany too many batteries that won't work in all your tools. My tools mean more to me than my Rolex.

  • @ishowyouapple
    @ishowyouapple 7 лет назад +16

    You forgot a good quality Axe, for chopping wood.

  • @Jkp1321
    @Jkp1321 7 лет назад +39

    8. Different brands have their specialty tools and what they make best, so just look around.
    9. Having a good camera is only as good as the photographer.

    • @stevelegge3307
      @stevelegge3307 5 лет назад +2

      it's the glass not the camera

    • @fastfoxblox
      @fastfoxblox Год назад

      The camera quality certainly helps though

  • @Extremmist
    @Extremmist 7 лет назад +49

    It's a good list but I think there's one item that doesn't belong there; the digital camera. No matter what camera you'll buy, within a few years it's going to be worth a fraction of its original price so you should think twice whether you can justify the cost, unless your photos can earn you money. Not to mention that to get high quality photos you need to learn how to use the camera and then process the photos with a computer.

    • @md-lc8gq
      @md-lc8gq 6 лет назад +7

      On the other hand high quality vintage cameras are relatively affordable and will only rise in value. Learning how to film is also pretty easy and if you dont care about the process you can just send them to the lab afterwards and get some nice prints and/or scans that look nice without photoshop.

    • @Jessie_Helms
      @Jessie_Helms 4 года назад +2

      There are digital cameras at Best Buy for less than $500 that, assuming you care about good quality photos of special events, vacations, etc.... would definitely be worth it imo.

  • @NapoleonCalland
    @NapoleonCalland 6 лет назад +4

    Laguiole is pronounced more « lye-olle » (silent g). For info, there's a Laguiole knife next to me, as an aside for those who like good cutlery (or need a good knife for picking their own mushrooms).
    Whether or not you should own all of these is a matter of individual taste and necessity (the pinky ring and and vintage port being my personal exceptions*), and I should stress that I place more value on being a gentle man than on being a gentleman**. I was, however, pleased to note that all of the items are primarily intended for both use and ornament (Utile et Decus for Latinists), meaning that they're practical and serve a secondary purpose into the bargain.
    I'd also like to add two items, 1) a solid pair of walking / riding boots***, and 2) a kilt, either full plaid or the more contemporary form (with a kilt pin, and best worn with flashes and hose, particularly for formal wear), for those whose family has its own tartan.
    FOOTNOTES
    * Less is more where jewellery is concerned, and if you're wearing a good watch, a ring can become superfluous, unless it's a wedding ring or a signet ring (i.e. with your seal for wax-sealing correspondance). As for offering alcohol, port is often an acquired taste, and in any case it's better to check the tastes of the person to whom you're making a gift.
    ** Style is a fine thing, but not if it's at the expense of substance, or becomes an excuse for snobbery (the measure of a man being how he treats his so-called inferiors). Rafael's videos are worth watching precisely because his definition of being a gentleman is about dressing with style as the outward expression of values such as consideration for others (e.g. his objection to wearing a backpack unless it's absolutely necessary being that you can hurt someone with it), showing respect for yourself and others, and being prepared and responsible.
    *** Depending on your budget, background, and form/s of rural exercise.

  • @slothietunion1742
    @slothietunion1742 4 года назад +21

    "18 must have item's every gentleman should own"
    7:38 ah yes. The glorious flag of motherland. A must have for every gopnik gentleman

  • @swelihlenzama7303
    @swelihlenzama7303 2 месяца назад

    I've been watching your videos for quite some time. This time around I've decided to start dressing up. To own up the look I am already known for at work. This weekend I'm going all out shopping.

  • @lucakaiser4135
    @lucakaiser4135 6 лет назад +107

    Everybody knows the most important item is a army issued colt m1911

    • @stephenandersen4625
      @stephenandersen4625 5 лет назад +8

      With ivory handles

    • @offbeatbassgear
      @offbeatbassgear 5 лет назад +10

      @@stephenandersen4625 Everyone know that a true gentleman carries a Walther PPK for everyday use and a handmade Korth revolver for formal occasions and for dueling.

    • @DinnerForkTongue
      @DinnerForkTongue 4 года назад +2

      @@offbeatbassgear
      [laughs in P99]

    • @cadetflamen12
      @cadetflamen12 4 года назад +3

      Wooden handles are the best

    • @amandaschwartz1
      @amandaschwartz1 4 года назад +2

      Mines got mother of pearl grips

  • @SweetieSunflower3
    @SweetieSunflower3 10 месяцев назад +1

    Your video was both informative and engaging. I appreciate how you tackled it such a unique way. I've explored a parallel theme on Illicium London. Keep it up!

  • @USAFAFRet11
    @USAFAFRet11 7 лет назад +5

    I have 4 pinkie rings 3 are 22 karat and other is silver. Can't get used to wearing them as I already wear 2 rings - one on each hand. Wife will take them out of the safe now and then and ask me to wear one, claiming its a waste to have them and not wear them. So I indulge her a few times a year. Being retired military, I tend to have an aversion to the umbrella, but keep one in each vehicle I own. Strongly agree with a good quality umbrella, they will last for a long time. Look for quality on whatever you buy, not necessarily quantity.

    • @MarkWilliams-gy9bi
      @MarkWilliams-gy9bi 4 года назад

      Why do former military have an aversion to umbrellas? I've heard this from multiple people.

  • @boreiphan1899
    @boreiphan1899 7 лет назад +3

    Nice video as always Raphael, i am huge fan. For the signature scent, it don't have to be expensive or very unique like Creed. Ralph Polo Green is a classic gentleman scent that still stays around for more than 30 years for example.

  • @themartinblairproject
    @themartinblairproject 7 лет назад +411

    Five things every man should know how to do: Cook a great meal from scratch, tie a bow tie, ride a horse, change a flat tire on your vehicle and undo a woman's bra in the dark with one hand . . . :)

    • @thomasrichardson5425
      @thomasrichardson5425 6 лет назад +80

      lol why would you need to ride a bloody horse?

    • @ampereira8
      @ampereira8 6 лет назад +23

      Except the horse thing, luckily, I can do the other 4 things. XD

    • @jakobgoodwin9742
      @jakobgoodwin9742 6 лет назад +2

      RockaBilly bow ties with a regular sports jacket is wrong. It’s a little too flashy

    • @jakobgoodwin9742
      @jakobgoodwin9742 6 лет назад +2

      RockaBilly I mean just any navy sports jacket with chinos or flannels. I think a casual enough jacket and a casual enough bow tie like seersucker and something a little more casual in the bow tie would work though. But a black bow tie with a navy sports coat and chinos is wrong.

    • @thisone6600
      @thisone6600 6 лет назад +4

      I am able to do all but the last, and that one doesn't apply to me anyhow. I'm not particularly fast at changing tires though.

  • @stevenreed407
    @stevenreed407 2 года назад

    I love it that you included having a good quality camera. I am a huge advocate of this because taking pictures with your phone uses up precious memory. I currently use a Pentax Q mirrorless camera. The camera is not in production, but I have found that it works great and I only had to spend about $300 for the camera and all of the lenses. Also it is painted brown and not the standard black look of most cameras. Whenever I am out in public, people almost always ask me about it. Not that I am seeking attention, but they always seem curious about it. It is lighter and much more transportable than a 35mm camera.

  • @claymationwaves
    @claymationwaves 5 лет назад +17

    In the future the umbrella seat will be looked back on as a regret..

  • @zzzbetty2915
    @zzzbetty2915 3 года назад +2

    Rafael is correct on the Port for the year of birth. In France it is normal to buy wine for your daughter for the year in which she was born. She can use it for her Wedding/Divorce or Graduation etc. You are laying down the core of her cellar and she will be able to toast your memory long after you have passed. As for the Port, get more than a single bottle. You want them to toast your memory and Port will last long after you die.

  • @Alf763
    @Alf763 7 лет назад +8

    Being a watch collector I have to say a good watch is massive, the amount of people I've been near who have asked me about whatever watch I've got on when they see a nice one and the conversations you get out of it can really break the ice at a gathering or in a work environment even

  • @richardmickelson6026
    @richardmickelson6026 5 лет назад +1

    My one leather bound book I invested in “Rommel Papers”. Never a better purchase on my book shelf

  • @user-tl5fi9lz9z
    @user-tl5fi9lz9z 5 лет назад +7

    Two other items. 1. A quality hat such as a fedora or Homburg. 2. A quality pistol, preferably a Smith &Wesson revolver.

    • @jfox2282
      @jfox2282 5 лет назад

      I prefer my HK P2000sk, but a S&W is definitely something I would consider a "gentleman's sidearm" any day of the week!

    • @JohnDoe-nf7up
      @JohnDoe-nf7up 5 лет назад

      I'd argue a well kept Colt detective special or old production Smith.

  • @Mohan-lj1zx
    @Mohan-lj1zx 6 лет назад +1

    Love the way you organize & present. Even in description you have given details of items with brief desc *with time stamp* !!! Appreciate it... a *detailed* list of very important items. Thank you for this video !! :)

  • @pessolanostudios
    @pessolanostudios 6 лет назад +26

    2:37 OMG lmao, I have nothing more to say I can’t.

  • @Danosauruscrecks
    @Danosauruscrecks 4 года назад +1

    I own everything on list and I'm the button I the bracket. Bring a gentlemen on a budget is tough. I only have one suit lol
    But my umbrella had a hidden blade I love so so much

  • @krusk3544
    @krusk3544 3 года назад +6

    #19; A high quality handgun. A gentlemen will want something capable of handling any risky situation quickly without much discomfort. For suffecient power but comfortable recoil and easy concealment, the best option is a .380acp pistol. A Glock 42 from Austria provides a suffecient amount of ammunition for the size without being too difficult to conceal under a jacket or in a hoster inside your waisteband. Be warned, a waisteband holster requires a quality, stiff leather belt and may not interact well with a tucked-in shirt.

    • @SenhorKoringa
      @SenhorKoringa 2 года назад +1

      unironically if you do own such nice things, you had better be prepared to ward off people who want to take them

    • @cordulam
      @cordulam Год назад +1

      It is illegal in most European countries to own a weapon, let alone carry it around (with few exceptions for hunters etc).

    • @krusk3544
      @krusk3544 Год назад

      @@cordulam Wrong, Germany, Poland, the Czech Republic, the nordic countries, and Italy allow citizens to own and carry weapons, just under stricter laws than the US.

  • @Raaa1111..
    @Raaa1111.. 2 года назад +1

    I use to carry a Fountain pen but worry about a leak in the long run and ruining my shirt too. Now i carry this nice heavy steel victorian engraved pattern self defense pen.

  • @Gingerlemoncola0816
    @Gingerlemoncola0816 7 лет назад +96

    Man, that umbrella is straight up kingsman stuff lol. Great video as always! Watching from Hong Kong

  • @kayrubygladys
    @kayrubygladys 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for the great info! Just ordered an umbrella by Brigg..been looking for a well-made umbrella!

  • @pyroVoid
    @pyroVoid 5 лет назад +3

    This channel's videos are incredibly addictive.

  • @Wongheichi
    @Wongheichi 7 лет назад +1

    Rachael,
    Could you do a video on the safari jacket in the coming spring/ summer?
    (The guide on the blog was very short)
    Cheers!

  • @ihavekalashnikovyoudomath9275
    @ihavekalashnikovyoudomath9275 3 года назад +12

    I'd be interested to see what he would do for someone who's a blue collar worker. A lot of what he uses and his lifestyle are for white collar, and business executives. It'd be cool to see how he would adapt the lifestyle to someone who either can't afford these kinds of items, or can't fit it into the lifestyle they currently have.

  • @andrew1212w
    @andrew1212w 4 года назад +1

    Great well researched and presented video (I live in England and it rains a lot so I own quite a few umbrellas!)

  • @Get_Splooshed
    @Get_Splooshed 4 года назад +30

    The real items that every true gentleman should have:
    1. Fedora: to tip the fine ladies
    2. A good quality back brace: bending over backwards for women can be quite strenuous
    3. A good $5000 cash on hand at all times: always aim to please her
    4. A good portable door stopper: This can really come in handy for when multiple women are walking into the same building you are, just smile and wave as they walk by and maybe tip your fedora for a little extra gentleman points
    5. A quality never used handkerchief: to wipe away her tears after her distasteful boyfriend broke her heart
    6. A nice beard trimmer: to maintain your gentleman perfect neck beard
    7. Deodorant: you know why you need it bud
    8. A second handkerchief for personal use: To wipe away your tears after she says you’re like a brother to her

    • @Fellhat
      @Fellhat 4 года назад +6

      this got more and more ironic towards the end, where i finally realized this was a joke.
      thank you for not making this an actual comment

    • @Get_Splooshed
      @Get_Splooshed 4 года назад +1

      @fellhat what joke? ;)

    • @sorrychangedmyusername3594
      @sorrychangedmyusername3594 4 года назад +4

      M'lady M'rning to you M'am

  • @liamh2001
    @liamh2001 2 месяца назад

    Laco Aachen was my first proper watch but then my Pa gave me his 1970s gold seiko quartz for my 21st.
    It's the emotions and stories that surround these things that make them truly worth while.

  • @killoffman
    @killoffman 5 лет назад +93

    "It doesn't have to be made out of solid gold." Ahh thanks for clarifying that, I was just about to go into overdraft.

    • @lisbetsoda4874
      @lisbetsoda4874 2 года назад +2

      Actually, of all jewellery, a ring should be made out of solid metal whether gold or silver. Gold-plated items simply don't keep the gold finish due to the wear a ring gets. Gold-plated cufflinks, on the other hand, would be just fine.

  • @rozzerYT
    @rozzerYT 7 лет назад +3

    Great video as always :) I fully agree with an umbrella being an essential as I live in a cold climate. I have two umbrellas, both of them are from Fulton. Look forward to the next video!

  • @airborneSGT
    @airborneSGT 7 лет назад +1

    A guide please for US based bespoke suit makers. Great suit you are wearing!!

  • @pranavherani2453
    @pranavherani2453 6 лет назад +3

    The video was great and on point, and I loved the outfit. I’m probably going to get the same. Also I suggest that you try Versace pour homme it is an eau de toilette but it’s a very masculine and robust fragrance.

    • @ardentlines814
      @ardentlines814 5 лет назад

      pranav herani I agree! I own that one and it’s amazing!

  • @gorgoths_ethos
    @gorgoths_ethos 5 лет назад

    I was skimming through the comments and a lot of you are not taking the cost of the items as a heirloom. Yeah these items are expansive... but how many people spend 600$ or more for a new cell phone every year. You buy once cry once. Quality items kept for a life time. Great video. Looking for more like these.

  • @johnnytastetest
    @johnnytastetest 5 лет назад +35

    2:32 - You've got to be kidding me.

    • @edyue1
      @edyue1 5 лет назад +3

      omg, i totally missed that fast forwarding through his verbose video!!

  • @DerLehrer97
    @DerLehrer97 5 лет назад +2

    in Java we are using Beskap & Surjan. It is good

  • @jordentaylor2455
    @jordentaylor2455 6 лет назад +7

    You forgot Craftsman in the tools section. A good Gentleman also needs a good wallet, a good hat, a good pair of everyday shoes, and a good winter coat.

    • @Jessie_Helms
      @Jessie_Helms 4 года назад

      Most need a winter coat but there’s plenty of places in America alone where that’s completely unnecessary, that’s probably why a cost wasn’t on the list.
      But a good wallet and every day shoes absolutely belong.

  • @deadandburied7626
    @deadandburied7626 Год назад +1

    I am a great fountain pen and proper camera fan!

  • @Ade2bee
    @Ade2bee 7 лет назад +6

    I’ve grown to love you videos

  • @BMH1965
    @BMH1965 4 года назад

    I have watched several of your videos, and I have not heard you discuss shooting wear. For example, a Laksen tweed coat and trousers.

  • @sofijeffrey9797
    @sofijeffrey9797 6 лет назад +2

    Many may disagree with this, but I think when it comes to fountain pens, a bolder pen like pretty much anything from Visconti or a Pelikan with green or blue stripes are better choices than the standard cigar shaped Montblanc usually associated with gentlemen.

  • @AMac1978
    @AMac1978 7 лет назад +1

    I'd like to see you do a video on suspenders, types, what kind to wear with types of attire.

  • @SuperATVC
    @SuperATVC 5 лет назад +15

    I'm female and loving these Gentleman videos. Wish there was a proper female version :(

    • @user-jp7hu3jh4e
      @user-jp7hu3jh4e 4 года назад +1

      Me too!

    • @Santor-
      @Santor- 4 года назад

      Make one!

    • @richardsanchez9190
      @richardsanchez9190 4 года назад +1

      That's easy. Just cook, clean and keep quiet.
      DISCLAIMER: THIS IS A JOKE!!!!

    • @claudiayates7621
      @claudiayates7621 11 месяцев назад

      I have run across at least 2 by Gentelmen's Guide

  • @havocproltd
    @havocproltd 5 лет назад

    ANY umbrella is a storm, dorothy! Golfers have on in their car. I got a great huge bumbershoot from home depot that will stop asteroids! LOOKS GREAT in the rain wearing a bespoke suit!

  • @Novasky2007
    @Novasky2007 5 лет назад +32

    I'll stick to my signature Batman Tshirt and Skater chains.

    • @cjosephcoffman
      @cjosephcoffman 4 года назад +2

      You could always pick up a pair of vintage JNCO jeans to complete the ensemble.

    • @Jessie_Helms
      @Jessie_Helms 4 года назад

      You can dress well even while not being dressed formally.
      If you pull it off well and that’s what you love to wear, great!
      Dressing well is dressing appropriately- you don’t wanna out dress the groom at a wedding, you don’t wanna be in a T-shirt and jeans at a funeral, you don’t wanna wear a suit to a skate park.

    • @claudiayates7621
      @claudiayates7621 11 месяцев назад

      Johnny Rotten usually had a plain white shirt...often with French cuffs (no links tho).

  • @vascomanata
    @vascomanata 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you for talking about my Portuguese traditions!

  • @tradedate
    @tradedate 5 лет назад +9

    I had this feeling that something was missing in my life. I just learned that it was a fountain pen.

    • @chrisgraham2904
      @chrisgraham2904 3 года назад +3

      A quality fountain pen (they all leak eventually) is an excellent way to destroy a quality suite and shirt.

  • @noelvelasco5223
    @noelvelasco5223 2 года назад +1

    I live in Los Angeles, What's an umbrella for?

  • @108nighthawk
    @108nighthawk 7 лет назад +5

    What would be the best way to get in contact with you about an order? I am just waiting for the tracking number and am starting to grow just a bit concerned.

  • @gramarson9562
    @gramarson9562 3 года назад +1

    What specific brown swatch is that. Been think about doing a brown suit at some point

  • @chickmagnet430
    @chickmagnet430 6 лет назад +6

    You make quality videos Sven.

  • @ddfann
    @ddfann 5 лет назад

    Lagioule isn't a brand but a style named after the village the style originated from. There are lots of manufacturers of Lagioule knives and cutlery covering every price point.

  • @patrickjames661
    @patrickjames661 6 лет назад +16

    A nice hangun is a must for a home owner imo.

  • @ZeusMegabeard
    @ZeusMegabeard Год назад

    Glad you showed the James Cameron Deep Blue Rolex - I have the very same!