Came across a house like that once. Big tree out front full of crows that would immediately start cawing and escalate to throwing things if someone was in the sidewalk in front of “their house” but literally one step past the front fence putting me technically in front of the next house - they were totally chill. So cool. I’ve always wanted to make friends with crows but I have a dog and I’m worried she might try chasing them or something and then they would go to war against her.
@@QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse I wonder if you brought them shiny treats if they would still bother you when you walked by their house🤔 They are fascinating!
3:03 his ex cheated, got pregnant, went to one of the affair partners and left the country. Yet his circle is telling him he’s the AHole for being sure before he gets attach. No he’s doing the most mature and responsible thing by insisting on the paternity test. That baby deserves to know 100% who their father is.
He needs a new circle. For sure. You are spot on. The fact that this is even questionable a hole activity is questionable itself. What is wrong with the world today?!
10,000 percent this!!! WTF is wrong with all these asshats?? To add to your assessment… she clearly had the affair guy in the dark too on her having multiple partners… she strung him along thinking he was the father, and let him bond with the kid. And when he found out he wasn’t boo dad he left her ass!
What is wrong with OPs mother in the first story?!! Why in the world would she literally go behind her own sons back to give $8k to her ex daughter in law (who cheated on HER son) for a child that’s possibly not his? And some how it’s OPs fault?? I would disown my mother at that point. What a awful person. There is NO justification for this behavior. OP is NOT the a hole in any way. JANE AND THE MOTHER ARE 100% the A HOLES!
Mom lost ANY chance of seeing any grandkids if op or his brother have kids. I wouldn't trust her again especially after she got volante. Edit: fun fact crows can mimic sounds and voice. I would love to teach one to say Nevermore ( makes it more sad/ bone chilling that the raver quoted nevermore to the husband because not only was it his dead wifes favorite quote the raven would most likely mimic her voice too).
My grandma wanted grandchildren so badly that she didn't even care about the guy. Any guy that would make me pregnant would do for her 😅 she had to wait tho, because for me it was an absolute requirement to have the right person and married
@@toxiczombiewolf5692 she actually wanted 12 kids but the doctor told her she most likely will die if she even tried to make 1 due to her poor health. She decided that life is not worth living without kids and she d rather take the chance and made my mom. But being a single mom, if she would die by making a 2th kid, then my mom (as a baby) would be all alone so she decided to not take the chance and took care of my mom instead 😊
Story 1 as soon as the mother blames me for the wife cheating AND ASSAULTS ME, I'd get up and say "this was clearly a mistake, my mother died months ago" and never speak to her again
22:00 I have three kiddos. It took three years to conceive one child, less than month to conceive another, and one we were using two forms of birth control. 😂 It could have been a one nightstand. It could take once or a thousand times.
So op in story one gets called selfish and irresponsible because he wanted to make sure the kid is his before he supports said child? That is ridiculously idiotic. Op getting the test is the most responsible thing... and the mother of said child is the selfish and irresponsible one. Sheesh.
My first born is literally my mini me, my hubby joked about getting a dna test cause how much she looked like me and everyone was saying that too. I told him go ahead 😂. Our sons however are mini versions of him.
2 things: 1. That was low key a great comment by Sam when Sophia said she used to think she could be able to talk to crows, and Sam was like, “Well you still can, they just don’t understand you.” That’s fucking hilarious tbh lol 2. Edgar Allen Crow goes hard af lol
Because of all these stories, i already told my husband when we become oarents. We are both getting tests for paternity. I dont want doubts, and i would be devastated if our baby was switched and we got attached to someone else's child. Its just a win win.
So for the "looking like dad or mom" some people said I looked So much more like my mom and other say I looked more like my dad. It's all about the features you focus on I feel.
Heard that all my life about my dad even from him...he was never my birth father and he knew all along. He simply dated my mother and got me out of foster care...I applaud that I sincerely never felt more loved until I found that out. But also betrayed...it was the hardest thing to get over. He'd already passed away by the time I found my birth mother the first words from his mouth are..."he wasn't yo daddy he stole you from me." Literally the first sentence. 👁️👄👁️ She's a fuqin psychopath and thank God he did "steal me" 😂
@eclecticraeen to me, a parent is the one who take cares of the child. Really hate the "fantasy" people have of bio mean anything. It's the work not the blood that makes a family.
@@marcoagorozco One hundred percent this! If I ever found out I’m actually adopted, why would I even want to search for the person/people who didn’t want me? Our “real” parents are the people who loved and raised us. (This is extremely unlikely, as I look so much like both of my parents.)
I have severe general anxiety disorder and i had similar symptoms when i wasn’t medicated. General anxiety disorder isn’t really well understood as its confused with mild general anxiety disorder. It can cause delusions. I even had visual hallucinations when i was off my meds when i got too anxious.
Our daughter looked a lot like her dad when she was born, and as a young child, but now she is a teenager, people who knew me as a child say that it is as if i am showing them pictures of me when I show them a picture of our daughter. So I guess kids are just a mix of their two parents and sometimes they look more like their dad and sometimes they look more like their mum and it can change over the years.
A whole angel from heaven had to come down and tell Joseph to go with the flow because he was about to divorce Mary. He wasn't going to deal with a child that wasn't his either.
Yes about the misstranslation. The pronouns are basically Det/Den/It and Hon/she Han/he. My husband does this constantly when he talks about children as well as when someone "HAS" a baby. In Swedish, it's "GET" a baby.
Ty for mentioning schizophrenia. This is A LOT more like psychosis. It's a shame he was misdiagnosed. If his brother is given anxiety meds, it'll make him worse
I made my mom a grandma the year that she was 49 going on 50 , and she is Gen X. She claimed she wasn't ready to become a grandma. She seemed to enjoy it , but she didn't get to see my daughter very often. She says she "doesn't have the time." My husband's Gen X mother is also having a hard time adjusting. I'm a Millenial in my late 20s , and it was very normal for me and other kids my age to be living with their grandparents or seeing their grandparents all the time. My daughter's generation is kind of receiving the short end of the stick because she doesn't get to be close to her grandparents like I did growing up 💔 these Gen X grandparents are so selfish , imo. Idk if they're all traumatized or something , but they all seem to hate us and our kids. I am miserable dealing with any of my family on all sides 😭 I have no support system other than my husband , but he is exhausted working as a manager trying to support us on his own. Gen X really said "f4ck ya'll brats, you're on your own" and get so triggered when it looks like we are succeeding without them. We have a plan to leave the US and raise our daughter in Europe. Our ties here are weak.
@@anneliesesenn6726 I "generalized" because everyone I know is going through something similar. I think the reality is harsher. Thank you for your concern , though. I wish it was only my family that was going through this , though, but it's every millennial who I talk to. I think anyone who is a new grandparent needs to stop glorifying the struggle and help their freaking kids.
Hi! Gen-X woman here, age 49. I’m a mom of a 9 and 7 yo. I’m sorry your family sucks. Gen-X is a different breed. That’s not an excuse for their behavior, but it’s a reminder that not all of us are bad. I’m also sad that my kids won’t have the same childhood memories like myself growing up with grand parents and great grandparents. You’ll find your “family”… those that want to be in your life because they choose to be, not because of blood relation. Keep your head up and praise your husband for the sacrifices he’s making to support your family. The economy is tough on a lot of us. I can easily admit it was a lot easier for me growing up than you have it now. Be proud of what you’re accomplishing on your own, because sometimes family will drag you down when you least expect it.
Packing as I'm watching this, suggestion when you guys cuss it would be funny if you use the quack sound, I will be on the floor crying in laughter if you guys did that. 😂
30:50 So there are a couple of mental illnesses that can cause paranoia, not just schizophrenia, these include Paranoid agoraphobia and paranoid personality disorder. If it is anxiety related it may be severe paranoid agoraphobia, as I have that and the classroom thing definitely sounds like something I did in school, to the point I refused to sit anywhere I couldn't see one door and have immediate access as I felt constantly hunted. But there's no way to know exactly what is happening without his exact diagnosis.
31:30 Idk that OP is the reason that there can’t be a mature or serious conversation! The brother _was_ being a complete idiot! There’s no other way to say it! He’s literally mad that Lisa looks like her mom! That’s ridiculous!
My cousin had anxiety and his mind made him think people were following him and wanted to beat him up eventually he lost his mind for a while but now he’s better (I think)
I used to look like a carbon copy of my dad but as I got older I started looking more and more like my mom and now look more like my mom with only my dads hair so sometimes it’s just about time. Especially when it comes to looking like the opposite gender parent as sometimes puberty will make them full 180
I trained my ferret to attack my shitty roommates who wouldn’t pay rent 😂 so every time they left the room I’d tell Haku (the ferret) to “go get ‘em!” And so he would chase them nipping at their ankles as soon as you hear the “Ah!” And the door slam he would come back chittering so proud with himself.
Sam's fighting it that Sophia looks more like their "Brad Pitt" handsome Dad than he does. Lol! He's like, "No! We are the same- equal parts Mom and equal parts Dad! You're not prettier than me!" 😂😂 They're both the Marys. No Rhoda's in that fam.
Growing up, there were some adults that would say I look like my dad. Others would say I look like my mom. Mom would say I had my dad’s family genes but then say I look exactly like one of her cousins. 🤷♀️
I'm the result of a one night stand. Which explains a lot. Those two couldn't coexist peacefully in a city together, let alone date or spend any time together. Also. I inherited my grandmother's nose. Not my mother's, not my father's. That nose literally skipped a generation and popped out on me. Genetics are weird.
I'm the female version of my dad. Both have blue eyes(mine lighter as mine are a mix of his blue and my mom's green). Ppl I've never met before have come up to me and asked, "are you *Alan's* daughter?" "Yes." "I Went to school with your dad. We were neighbors. You look exactly like him." My dad even did 1 of those Gender Swap apps. The female version of him was basically me.
That last lady with the ex who was arrested. Sounds like her ex's mom was a Boy Mom. They're the worst! Even if their son murdered someone, the mom would still think he was her precious little boy who wouldn't hurt a fly. And the other person must have done something to set off their sweet son.
13:40 THE WAY RILEY IS BUILDING HIS ARGUMENT AND THEN JUST LITERALLY GETS HIS MIND BROKEN WHEN SAM’S POINT SINKS IN LMFAOOOOOOO I’m so ded right now 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 13:09 for full context lol
Severe anxiety can cause both delusions and paranoia, so he could just have anxiety if he doesn’t have other symptoms (like manic episodes or hallucinations)
It's kind of funny that the video is censored because of the cursing but there's other videos on the same channel that don't have sensors on them cursing Lol
Sounds like they got his tested. I have anxiety disorder and have done lots of research on it and it sounds like just extreme anxiety to me. Delusions about the intentions of people around you is literally one of the main symptoms of serious anxiety
The caller with a bd in jail, JC or Jaycee, would you let your child have time with grandma? The grandma who lied (or downplayed) about her son’s criminal behaviour?
My dad has jet black hair and hazel eyes. I’m his first child so that also means I’m his first daughter. I have bleach blonde hair and blue eyes. A paternity test was done when I was born. I am his child.
“Everyone says that the first born is a spitting image of their dad”…. Meanwhile, All 3 of my children are my clones. My oldest 2 have a father with dark brown eyes, medium toned skin and black hair.. my youngest is a quarter Vietnamese. Her father has black hair, his eyes are a mix with hazel and bits of orange, and about the same skin tone. But yet all 3 of mine have dirty blonde hair, blue/green eyes, and fair ish skin. I can tan easily but I only get sunburned once or twice in the beginning of the summer. My skin is pretty fair in the winter though. My daughters have my freckles. But my son does not. There’s no denying my genetics apparently. My kids do have some of their father’s features though. So they are a perfect mix.
As someone who has a daughter as my first child and a daughter with a man with strong genetics I can confirm I have never cheated before…. My daughter looks exactly like ME! If anything she looks like she doesn’t have a father and I birthed her out of my own dna and no help.
Genetics are wierd. I, my brother, and a first cousin and 1 of her twin daughters have curly hair. (The other twin has wavy hair) Everyone else has straight hair with maybe a slight wave. Turns out the curls skipped a generation and we got them from grandpa. He got cancer at one point and his hair grew back straight so I was confused for a while 😂 Mom worked with a white guy who married a blonde. Their baby had a full on afro! Wife's grandpa was black and the couple made sure to get a DNA test. They laughed about it! 😅😂😂
Yes. He bonded with the boy everyday for four years. He had a longtime relationship with the child who loves him very much. I think that you can’t stop loving a child overnight. After 4 years, be a man and help her raise the child. You don’t have to stay together with her. Or, be an “uncle” and stay with the child for visitations until she marries a man who will adopt him. This is all about the child.
Sam would be surprised to learn there are a lot of women who do indeed become pregnant from a one time hookup. No, he is not the AH. He has every right to be angry that she stepped out, got pregnant, then never even stopped to think think that he has the right to know it might not be his. He has every right to be angry. Forcing a child on someone who does not want to be a father does more damage than to have a man who thought he was the father to just disappear. It is now up to the mother to tell the kid he is not his father.
72 times...about a month if you're in a monogamous relationship calculating for twice a day plus the odd 3rd time when you both have the same days off work.
OPs mom is so child hungry. If the kid was OPs then why was everyone against him getting a DNA test because he could be recognized as the father and she couldn’t take off with his kid. Don’t accept financial responsibility of a child if you can’t prove it’s yours after they cheated.
@ronamayday I’m curious what country or culture they’re from. Some cultures give grandparents many more rights and expectations than the predominant culture in America. I lived in Central Asia for 3 years and there, the eldest son’s mother pretty much gets custody of the children, not their mother, despite living in the same home. I’ve even seen mothers called by an honorific for auntie rather that mother, as the paternal grandmother gets called mother. My grandmother helped raise me, saw me virtually every day, but would never have thought to countermand my parents. They retained the final authority, they should.
If my partner of asked for a paternity test they would definitely have to agree to go to therapy for me to forgive them for it. Because they better be willing to admit it’s their fault and their insecurities that need worked on and not blame me at all. If you think it’s okay to just ask for one and then move on like it’s nothing your insane
Mother in the first story sounds nuts. Your kids don't owe you grand kids expecting that is kinda creepy. Also jane knew what she was doung she scammed the mother.
First story. If ppl are so concern why not step up anf finance the mother well. They obviously dont care if theres proper paper work so they have no problems helping out "family".
I get that the son loves his “dad” now but if OP is going to resent the baby and hate him I’d think it’s better that OP isn’t in the picture. I would think better no “dad” than a hateful dad
4:30 i do a post detail how many times ex cheated. Hiw many men did she fuck make it look like alot. Tgen say how fuck do i know if kid is mine when she did all that. Then detail how much his mother wants a grandbaby to point she betrayed her son lol
So my dad is Mexican, American and Irish and my mom is all white and when they had me, I was a little white baby that looks exactly like my mom, but I grew up and being a white version of my dad sometimes genetics are just really funky
why is it that when a guy cheats we universally agree he's an asshole but when a woman cheats there are women who back them saying that "if she cheated you gave her a reason for cheating somewhere"
She cheated ran off and reached out when she got dumped. No she's sneaky get a DNA test don't go through mom do it all on your own. That's a HUMAN follow your heart
I really don’t believe the Swedish excuse in story two. I’m Swedish and there’s no neutral word that would translate to “it” The translation “den” eller “det” is not ok to call a person. And swedes are usually really good at English. He was just dehumanising the child.
3rd story is such a mess. Tho I've found that men pressing women to have a paternity test usually are projecting and trying to find a reason to divorce without it being their fault. Like he could've done it without the mother knowing same as the guy from the story before Edit: I was so wrong 😂 it does sound like paranoia tho
John, I'm first generation off The Rez and I have very white-blonde hair and gray eyes genetics are very very weird my father was born on the rez and has black hair and gray eyes that colonizer blood will lay dormant for a long time y'all have read stories about how a baby will come out with a very dark skin tone because a couple generations back they have like a Caribbean grandma. To be fair my black haired dad never questioned if I was his.
There’s a Reddit story where someone created an army of crows that scared neighbors away lol
I was thinking about that since Smosh read that one lol
lol it’s funny because a group of crows is also called a murder which would also be a valid reason to move away.
Came across a house like that once. Big tree out front full of crows that would immediately start cawing and escalate to throwing things if someone was in the sidewalk in front of “their house” but literally one step past the front fence putting me technically in front of the next house - they were totally chill. So cool.
I’ve always wanted to make friends with crows but I have a dog and I’m worried she might try chasing them or something and then they would go to war against her.
@@QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse I wonder if you brought them shiny treats if they would still bother you when you walked by their house🤔
They are fascinating!
A guy in my hometown of London, Ontario had a flock of crows in the 80s and 90s lmao
Jane had this plan all along, she’s a grifter. Nice job ruining this family Jane.
3:03 his ex cheated, got pregnant, went to one of the affair partners and left the country.
Yet his circle is telling him he’s the AHole for being sure before he gets attach.
No he’s doing the most mature and responsible thing by insisting on the paternity test.
That baby deserves to know 100% who their father is.
He needs a new circle. For sure. You are spot on. The fact that this is even questionable a hole activity is questionable itself. What is wrong with the world today?!
10,000 percent this!!! WTF is wrong with all these asshats?? To add to your assessment… she clearly had the affair guy in the dark too on her having multiple partners… she strung him along thinking he was the father, and let him bond with the kid. And when he found out he wasn’t boo dad he left her ass!
Maybe some of the circle are cheaters too
What is wrong with OPs mother in the first story?!! Why in the world would she literally go behind her own sons back to give $8k to her ex daughter in law (who cheated on HER son) for a child that’s possibly not his? And some how it’s OPs fault?? I would disown my mother at that point. What a awful person. There is NO justification for this behavior. OP is NOT the a hole in any way. JANE AND THE MOTHER ARE 100% the A HOLES!
Because she's desperate for grand kids which I always find creepy.
@@toxiczombiewolf5692 100% I do not understand what this desparation for grandkids is
Mom lost ANY chance of seeing any grandkids if op or his brother have kids. I wouldn't trust her again especially after she got volante.
Edit: fun fact crows can mimic sounds and voice. I would love to teach one to say Nevermore ( makes it more sad/ bone chilling that the raver quoted nevermore to the husband because not only was it his dead wifes favorite quote the raven would most likely mimic her voice too).
My dad demanded a paternity test when I was like 3 or something. I was his. NTA, I understand.
My grandma wanted grandchildren so badly that she didn't even care about the guy. Any guy that would make me pregnant would do for her 😅 she had to wait tho, because for me it was an absolute requirement to have the right person and married
Ngl she sound a little crazy she should have had more kids herself lol
@@toxiczombiewolf5692 she actually wanted 12 kids but the doctor told her she most likely will die if she even tried to make 1 due to her poor health. She decided that life is not worth living without kids and she d rather take the chance and made my mom. But being a single mom, if she would die by making a 2th kid, then my mom (as a baby) would be all alone so she decided to not take the chance and took care of my mom instead 😊
Story 1 as soon as the mother blames me for the wife cheating AND ASSAULTS ME, I'd get up and say "this was clearly a mistake, my mother died months ago" and never speak to her again
Yeah, I'd go no contact if that was my mother. Parents are not entitled to grandchildren.
Facts it's creepy when they expect it
22:00 I have three kiddos. It took three years to conceive one child, less than month to conceive another, and one we were using two forms of birth control. 😂 It could have been a one nightstand. It could take once or a thousand times.
Sophia "call the baby they, or anything but IT".....
Then proceeds to call baby Lisa "IT" numerous times. 🤣 Silly worm queen ❤️
So op in story one gets called selfish and irresponsible because he wanted to make sure the kid is his before he supports said child? That is ridiculously idiotic. Op getting the test is the most responsible thing... and the mother of said child is the selfish and irresponsible one. Sheesh.
Couldn’t OP’s mother just have gotten a DNA test to see if she was related to the baby?
she wanted a grandchild, not the reality
Yesterdays steam went crazyyyyyy! It almost started to feel like a 1930's dance till you drop vibe 😂 lowkey dark but fun!
My first born is literally my mini me, my hubby joked about getting a dna test cause how much she looked like me and everyone was saying that too. I told him go ahead 😂. Our sons however are mini versions of him.
Just woke up at 3pm to watch this after last night's stream. Love you guys and hope you all are recovering from last night's stream
Hope you are all resting!❤
AYYYOOOO SOPHIA WITH THE DARK HUMOR!!!! 😆😂
2 things:
1. That was low key a great comment by Sam when Sophia said she used to think she could be able to talk to crows, and Sam was like, “Well you still can, they just don’t understand you.” That’s fucking hilarious tbh lol
2. Edgar Allen Crow goes hard af lol
Because of all these stories, i already told my husband when we become oarents. We are both getting tests for paternity. I dont want doubts, and i would be devastated if our baby was switched and we got attached to someone else's child. Its just a win win.
It only takes one time Sam! Lol
So for the "looking like dad or mom" some people said I looked So much more like my mom and other say I looked more like my dad. It's all about the features you focus on I feel.
Heard that all my life about my dad even from him...he was never my birth father and he knew all along. He simply dated my mother and got me out of foster care...I applaud that I sincerely never felt more loved until I found that out. But also betrayed...it was the hardest thing to get over. He'd already passed away by the time I found my birth mother the first words from his mouth are..."he wasn't yo daddy he stole you from me." Literally the first sentence.
👁️👄👁️ She's a fuqin psychopath and thank God he did "steal me" 😂
@eclecticraeen to me, a parent is the one who take cares of the child. Really hate the "fantasy" people have of bio mean anything. It's the work not the blood that makes a family.
I notice I look like my mother abd I hate it I did a lot to change my look to avoid it lol 😆
@@marcoagorozco
One hundred percent this! If I ever found out I’m actually adopted, why would I even want to search for the person/people who didn’t want me? Our “real” parents are the people who loved and raised us.
(This is extremely unlikely, as I look so much like both of my parents.)
Fueling the fire?😂 We're hoping to see the live stream of the wedding and reception!
I have severe general anxiety disorder and i had similar symptoms when i wasn’t medicated. General anxiety disorder isn’t really well understood as its confused with mild general anxiety disorder. It can cause delusions. I even had visual hallucinations when i was off my meds when i got too anxious.
Our daughter looked a lot like her dad when she was born, and as a young child, but now she is a teenager, people who knew me as a child say that it is as if i am showing them pictures of me when I show them a picture of our daughter. So I guess kids are just a mix of their two parents and sometimes they look more like their dad and sometimes they look more like their mum and it can change over the years.
20:00 best explosion I've ever seen 🤣
A whole angel from heaven had to come down and tell Joseph to go with the flow because he was about to divorce Mary. He wasn't going to deal with a child that wasn't his either.
They need to get one of thoes tiny witch hats and put foil over it for a new tinfoil hat that doesn't crumple up
Yes about the misstranslation. The pronouns are basically Det/Den/It and Hon/she Han/he. My husband does this constantly when he talks about children as well as when someone "HAS" a baby. In Swedish, it's "GET" a baby.
I'm not sure how the censorship works for your show, but I can still hear those f bombs. Haha.
My sister’s first born is a carbon copy of her but her second born is a carbon copy of her husband.
Ty for mentioning schizophrenia. This is A LOT more like psychosis. It's a shame he was misdiagnosed. If his brother is given anxiety meds, it'll make him worse
I made my mom a grandma the year that she was 49 going on 50 , and she is Gen X. She claimed she wasn't ready to become a grandma. She seemed to enjoy it , but she didn't get to see my daughter very often. She says she "doesn't have the time." My husband's Gen X mother is also having a hard time adjusting. I'm a Millenial in my late 20s , and it was very normal for me and other kids my age to be living with their grandparents or seeing their grandparents all the time. My daughter's generation is kind of receiving the short end of the stick because she doesn't get to be close to her grandparents like I did growing up 💔 these Gen X grandparents are so selfish , imo. Idk if they're all traumatized or something , but they all seem to hate us and our kids. I am miserable dealing with any of my family on all sides 😭 I have no support system other than my husband , but he is exhausted working as a manager trying to support us on his own. Gen X really said "f4ck ya'll brats, you're on your own" and get so triggered when it looks like we are succeeding without them. We have a plan to leave the US and raise our daughter in Europe. Our ties here are weak.
A bit of a harsh generalisation but I'm sorry your family is like that.
@@anneliesesenn6726 I "generalized" because everyone I know is going through something similar. I think the reality is harsher. Thank you for your concern , though. I wish it was only my family that was going through this , though, but it's every millennial who I talk to. I think anyone who is a new grandparent needs to stop glorifying the struggle and help their freaking kids.
Hi! Gen-X woman here, age 49. I’m a mom of a 9 and 7 yo.
I’m sorry your family sucks. Gen-X is a different breed. That’s not an excuse for their behavior, but it’s a reminder that not all of us are bad. I’m also sad that my kids won’t have the same childhood memories like myself growing up with grand parents and great grandparents.
You’ll find your “family”… those that want to be in your life because they choose to be, not because of blood relation.
Keep your head up and praise your husband for the sacrifices he’s making to support your family. The economy is tough on a lot of us. I can easily admit it was a lot easier for me growing up than you have it now. Be proud of what you’re accomplishing on your own, because sometimes family will drag you down when you least expect it.
Packing as I'm watching this, suggestion when you guys cuss it would be funny if you use the quack sound, I will be on the floor crying in laughter if you guys did that. 😂
30:50
So there are a couple of mental illnesses that can cause paranoia, not just schizophrenia, these include Paranoid agoraphobia and paranoid personality disorder. If it is anxiety related it may be severe paranoid agoraphobia, as I have that and the classroom thing definitely sounds like something I did in school, to the point I refused to sit anywhere I couldn't see one door and have immediate access as I felt constantly hunted. But there's no way to know exactly what is happening without his exact diagnosis.
Riley's gasp 😂😂
31:30 Idk that OP is the reason that there can’t be a mature or serious conversation! The brother _was_ being a complete idiot! There’s no other way to say it! He’s literally mad that Lisa looks like her mom! That’s ridiculous!
'Let's try to raise some money in an hour!'
Chat: 'that's rookie numbers! Here's that in 4 minutes!'
When the family members were saying that the granny wouldn't say it if she wasn't sure if respond with "I didn't realize Grandma was part 23 & Me."
My cousin had anxiety and his mind made him think people were following him and wanted to beat him up eventually he lost his mind for a while but now he’s better (I think)
'Insinuating' nah, bro, he's went straight to accusing.
Dude needs to have monitored visitation!! He needs to not be alone with that kid at all!
30:26 what a pure coincidence that my daughter does look like a carbon copy of my husband. She looks nothing like me
I used to look like a carbon copy of my dad but as I got older I started looking more and more like my mom and now look more like my mom with only my dads hair so sometimes it’s just about time. Especially when it comes to looking like the opposite gender parent as sometimes puberty will make them full 180
Maybe the parents insistence that it’s JUST anxiety is based on stigma associated with other mental illnesses.
The first crow she trained was her crowtotype *badum tss*
I’m very much considering no longer being polite to in-laws that keep asking about when I’m going to give them a baby. I’m not a human 3D printer.
It only takes one time to make a baby Sam.
21:36 What is happening with Sam’s hands rn! 😂🤣
I trained my ferret to attack my shitty roommates who wouldn’t pay rent 😂 so every time they left the room I’d tell Haku (the ferret) to “go get ‘em!” And so he would chase them nipping at their ankles as soon as you hear the “Ah!” And the door slam he would come back chittering so proud with himself.
Sam's fighting it that Sophia looks more like their "Brad Pitt" handsome Dad than he does. Lol! He's like, "No! We are the same- equal parts Mom and equal parts Dad! You're not prettier than me!" 😂😂 They're both the Marys. No Rhoda's in that fam.
21:56 Lmfao I got pregnant the first time after i had my new born. 3 months after he was born. 😂
Growing up, there were some adults that would say I look like my dad. Others would say I look like my mom. Mom would say I had my dad’s family genes but then say I look exactly like one of her cousins. 🤷♀️
I'm the result of a one night stand. Which explains a lot. Those two couldn't coexist peacefully in a city together, let alone date or spend any time together. Also. I inherited my grandmother's nose. Not my mother's, not my father's. That nose literally skipped a generation and popped out on me. Genetics are weird.
I'm the female version of my dad. Both have blue eyes(mine lighter as mine are a mix of his blue and my mom's green).
Ppl I've never met before have come up to me and asked, "are you *Alan's* daughter?"
"Yes."
"I Went to school with your dad. We were neighbors. You look exactly like him."
My dad even did 1 of those Gender Swap apps. The female version of him was basically me.
I’m the first born and a girl and I look absolutely nothing like my bio dad lol
Come up with a nickname for the baby until it’s born.
That last lady with the ex who was arrested. Sounds like her ex's mom was a Boy Mom. They're the worst! Even if their son murdered someone, the mom would still think he was her precious little boy who wouldn't hurt a fly. And the other person must have done something to set off their sweet son.
The lack of understanding genetics is scary.
Use that and get guardianship of mother and control of her finances! She is not able to make decisions for herself
13:40 THE WAY RILEY IS BUILDING HIS ARGUMENT AND THEN JUST LITERALLY GETS HIS MIND BROKEN WHEN SAM’S POINT SINKS IN LMFAOOOOOOO I’m so ded right now 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
13:09 for full context lol
I wish the people writing the episode titles didn't put blatantly incorrect info in the title. The stories are crazy enough without lying.
Severe anxiety can cause both delusions and paranoia, so he could just have anxiety if he doesn’t have other symptoms (like manic episodes or hallucinations)
It's kind of funny that the video is censored because of the cursing but there's other videos on the same channel that don't have sensors on them cursing Lol
Why is Sophia the Worm Queen
30:06 I'm a first born daughter and I look like a copy of my mum 😅 so much that we look like we could be non identical twins lol
40:24 how do they know? It feels like they just blew off the idea that it could be something more when it’s clearly more than just anxiety.
Sounds like they got his tested. I have anxiety disorder and have done lots of research on it and it sounds like just extreme anxiety to me. Delusions about the intentions of people around you is literally one of the main symptoms of serious anxiety
The caller with a bd in jail, JC or Jaycee, would you let your child have time with grandma? The grandma who lied (or downplayed) about her son’s criminal behaviour?
My dad has jet black hair and hazel eyes. I’m his first child so that also means I’m his first daughter. I have bleach blonde hair and blue eyes. A paternity test was done when I was born. I am his child.
Mom in story one being outright homophobic to the brother lowkey, and then assaulting OP. No contact and maybe press charges to force her to get help.
Edgar Allen Crow 😂
“Everyone says that the first born is a spitting image of their dad”…. Meanwhile, All 3 of my children are my clones. My oldest 2 have a father with dark brown eyes, medium toned skin and black hair.. my youngest is a quarter Vietnamese. Her father has black hair, his eyes are a mix with hazel and bits of orange, and about the same skin tone. But yet all 3 of mine have dirty blonde hair, blue/green eyes, and fair ish skin. I can tan easily but I only get sunburned once or twice in the beginning of the summer. My skin is pretty fair in the winter though. My daughters have my freckles. But my son does not. There’s no denying my genetics apparently. My kids do have some of their father’s features though. So they are a perfect mix.
I’m willing to bet the mom was a cheater too at one point
Guys lol I agree with the it only takes one time 😂😂🤣🤣 trust me.
My brother is proof to a one night stand baby 😂
As someone who has a daughter as my first child and a daughter with a man with strong genetics I can confirm I have never cheated before…. My daughter looks exactly like ME! If anything she looks like she doesn’t have a father and I birthed her out of my own dna and no help.
I’m weirded out the host looks exactly like a young version of my moms fiancée.
Genetics are wierd. I, my brother, and a first cousin and 1 of her twin daughters have curly hair. (The other twin has wavy hair) Everyone else has straight hair with maybe a slight wave. Turns out the curls skipped a generation and we got them from grandpa. He got cancer at one point and his hair grew back straight so I was confused for a while 😂
Mom worked with a white guy who married a blonde. Their baby had a full on afro! Wife's grandpa was black and the couple made sure to get a DNA test. They laughed about it! 😅😂😂
Yes. He bonded with the boy everyday for four years. He had a longtime relationship with the child who loves him very much. I think that you can’t stop loving a child overnight. After 4 years, be a man and help her raise the child. You don’t have to stay together with her. Or, be an “uncle” and stay with the child for visitations until she marries a man who will adopt him. This is all about the child.
Sam would be surprised to learn there are a lot of women who do indeed become pregnant from a one time hookup.
No, he is not the AH.
He has every right to be angry that she stepped out, got pregnant, then never even stopped to think think that he has the right to know it might not be his.
He has every right to be angry.
Forcing a child on someone who does not want to be a father does more damage than to have a man who thought he was the father to just disappear.
It is now up to the mother to tell the kid he is not his father.
72 times...about a month if you're in a monogamous relationship calculating for twice a day plus the odd 3rd time when you both have the same days off work.
OPs mom is so child hungry.
If the kid was OPs then why was everyone against him getting a DNA test because he could be recognized as the father and she couldn’t take off with his kid.
Don’t accept financial responsibility of a child if you can’t prove it’s yours after they cheated.
@ronamayday I’m curious what country or culture they’re from. Some cultures give grandparents many more rights and expectations than the predominant culture in America. I lived in Central Asia for 3 years and there, the eldest son’s mother pretty much gets custody of the children, not their mother, despite living in the same home. I’ve even seen mothers called by an honorific for auntie rather that mother, as the paternal grandmother gets called mother. My grandmother helped raise me, saw me virtually every day, but would never have thought to countermand my parents. They retained the final authority, they should.
If my partner of asked for a paternity test they would definitely have to agree to go to therapy for me to forgive them for it. Because they better be willing to admit it’s their fault and their insecurities that need worked on and not blame me at all. If you think it’s okay to just ask for one and then move on like it’s nothing your insane
Mother in the first story sounds nuts. Your kids don't owe you grand kids expecting that is kinda creepy. Also jane knew what she was doung she scammed the mother.
It absolutely does not take 76 times to conceive.
First story. If ppl are so concern why not step up anf finance the mother well. They obviously dont care if theres proper paper work so they have no problems helping out "family".
Google: millie bobby brown with sticker on face
Sophia looks likes her even has a purple sticker on her face
I can guarantee you that it DOES NOT take 76 times to conceive. It only takes once...
Do you know what an "average" is
@@leslie9951 It isn't even an AVERAGE. It's timing and all it takes is 1 time at the right time..
I get that the son loves his “dad” now but if OP is going to resent the baby and hate him I’d think it’s better that OP isn’t in the picture. I would think better no “dad” than a hateful dad
4:30 i do a post detail how many times ex cheated. Hiw many men did she fuck make it look like alot. Tgen say how fuck do i know if kid is mine when she did all that. Then detail how much his mother wants a grandbaby to point she betrayed her son lol
So my dad is Mexican, American and Irish and my mom is all white and when they had me, I was a little white baby that looks exactly like my mom, but I grew up and being a white version of my dad sometimes genetics are just really funky
why is it that when a guy cheats we universally agree he's an asshole but when a woman cheats there are women who back them saying that "if she cheated you gave her a reason for cheating somewhere"
26:40 I’m imagining like an All American look or something.
She cheated ran off and reached out when she got dumped. No she's sneaky get a DNA test don't go through mom do it all on your own. That's a HUMAN follow your heart
I conceived on my first time with my fiance and now I have a month old 😅😂
When is Sophia and Riley just date? They compliment each other
hai...raily and sophia so cute together😅😅😅😅
Fun fact: my stbxh and I conceived our oldest on the first try but I still agree with Sam the one ex prob was hooking up lots
I really don’t believe the Swedish excuse in story two. I’m Swedish and there’s no neutral word that would translate to “it” The translation “den” eller “det” is not ok to call a person. And swedes are usually really good at English. He was just dehumanising the child.
Sam looks like a trust fund kid with that hair style. Lol but it looks really good 👍
3rd story is such a mess. Tho I've found that men pressing women to have a paternity test usually are projecting and trying to find a reason to divorce without it being their fault. Like he could've done it without the mother knowing same as the guy from the story before
Edit: I was so wrong 😂 it does sound like paranoia tho
John, I'm first generation off The Rez and I have very white-blonde hair and gray eyes genetics are very very weird my father was born on the rez and has black hair and gray eyes that colonizer blood will lay dormant for a long time y'all have read stories about how a baby will come out with a very dark skin tone because a couple generations back they have like a Caribbean grandma. To be fair my black haired dad never questioned if I was his.
Wow! Yea genetics are weird indeed! - John