Signs An Avoidant Partner Loves You

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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
  • //Signs an avoidant partner loves you// If you’re reading this, you’re probably wondering: Can an emotionally unavailable partner fall in love with me? I am happy to report, yes! Partners with dismissive avoidant attachment can fall in love. But the signs an avoidant partner loves you can be more subtle, though no less meaningful. In this video we discuss the signs that they love you, including verbal examples of their affection. #avoidantattachmentstyle, #attachmentstyles #signstheyloveyou

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  • @brianamacwilliam.attachment
    @brianamacwilliam.attachment  8 месяцев назад +7

    Have you noticed any of these signs? And other signs that I missed? Let me know in the comments!👇

    • @AlehaDarabaka
      @AlehaDarabaka 5 месяцев назад +1

      Would this be similar signs in a disorganized type? Or do you have a video made how a disorganized type acts in love?

    • @luketimewalker
      @luketimewalker 10 дней назад

      yes. for a month. Then breadcrumbs

  • @christalhardy8771
    @christalhardy8771 8 месяцев назад +30

    I tried to cut back on text messages as he said " I'm over bearing " today he actually texted back more and actually asked if my day was good! That's a 1st in a long time.

    • @Braveheart0803
      @Braveheart0803 3 месяца назад +1

      I’m in this process too. Sometimes I forget 😅

    • @Alixir1228
      @Alixir1228 День назад

      This is bare minimum babes. You're celebrating your own boyfriend not ignoring you like it's a prize.

  • @Shelly-pl2vn
    @Shelly-pl2vn 4 месяца назад +12

    Thank you! I'm an avoidant but I'm not terrible! That's exactly how I express care for someone! 💞

  • @katradiction
    @katradiction 3 месяца назад +7

    My boyfriend does all of these things regularly. He is trying really hard. I wish it was easier to show him how much I appreciate his efforts. He seems to dismiss my "thank yous" as cursory most of the time. He isn't used to people meaning it when they praise him.

  • @MellowBellow1
    @MellowBellow1 8 месяцев назад +9

    That sounds like a secure person too. ….

  • @AndreaLikesMusic
    @AndreaLikesMusic 8 месяцев назад +14

    Thank you 🥹 I am more avoidant than my partner but we both do things like this for each other ❤

  • @sisbou
    @sisbou 8 месяцев назад +12

    Yeey ❤ once you read their love language it's so blissful 😍😍😍💖🌞🙏🏾💐💘💘💞

  • @PatODonnell-gk9sx
    @PatODonnell-gk9sx 6 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you so much for this! I dont hear the words, yet he is consistent, vulnerable, and attentive

  • @paulbooij7594
    @paulbooij7594 4 месяца назад +5

    My wife says, "Here, I made this for you so wouldn't be mad at me." I wish she would say, "Hey, I made this for you because I thought you would like it."

  • @leahhanway3251
    @leahhanway3251 4 месяца назад +1

    THANK YOU FOR THIS INFORMATION .☺️

  • @annapiperal3400
    @annapiperal3400 6 месяцев назад +7

    My partner used to put me the toothpaste on mu brush for like 4 years, until we got kids. Now he just repairs everything at home, cleans, makes it cosy all the time

    • @-Clarence-
      @-Clarence- 4 месяца назад +2

      So he does a lot more and you say “just” to play it down?

    • @faithlilis
      @faithlilis Месяц назад +1

      You got a goood one

  • @ar1079
    @ar1079 8 дней назад +2

    Lil signs are not enough to spend whole life with them..

    • @anonymousnation5235
      @anonymousnation5235 2 дня назад

      Yeah. Avoidants can be really hurtful individuals especially when some pivotal moments happen in relationship

  • @sifublack192
    @sifublack192 4 месяца назад

    Accurate

  • @whiggygirl
    @whiggygirl 7 месяцев назад +1

    He did all this, and yet still kept ending things, and refused to come off the dating site 😢

    • @lsohweldfab6575
      @lsohweldfab6575 3 месяца назад

      Highly Narcissistic type

    • @whiggygirl
      @whiggygirl 3 месяца назад

      @lsohweldfab6575 I don't believe he's narcissistic at all. If he was, he'd have tried to lock me down

  • @dawnstonerock4253
    @dawnstonerock4253 4 месяца назад

    It fits

  • @feelnice33
    @feelnice33 Месяц назад

    An avoidant or a narcissist in disguise, i think even a narcissist may love bomb you through "reaching out more often or other thing", once they reach their desire they go passive aggressive.

  • @Sassy387
    @Sassy387 4 месяца назад +6

    This is more of a secure than an avoidant. Good luck getting this from the DA.

    • @grant9449
      @grant9449 26 дней назад

      Good luck in your healing journey!

  • @amele820
    @amele820 4 месяца назад +13

    Yeah they do that to love bomb and then they get triggered and start to pull away. Just don’t bother to start anything with avoidant and run as soon as you realize they are who they are

    • @ItsAsparageese
      @ItsAsparageese 4 месяца назад +6

      Toxic af attitude, work on yourself instead of blaming an entire diverse group. Many of us have been hurt by DAs without becoming toxic and un-self-aware about it

  • @Fiamma829
    @Fiamma829 4 месяца назад +2

    What about the ones who refuse to call you? They only want to contact you thru texts. Doesn’t feel safe to love and commit to someone like that even though said person said they love me when I walked away. Total mind fart!

    • @ItsAsparageese
      @ItsAsparageese 4 месяца назад

      You're aware there are thousands of reasons someone might be averse to phone calls, right? Like, neurodivergence exists. Not everything is about you

    • @loliipop070409
      @loliipop070409 4 месяца назад

      If it doesn’t feel safe, leave them instead of expecting them to change how they process the word

    • @Fiamma829
      @Fiamma829 4 месяца назад +2

      @@ItsAsparageese yes, I am one of them. I have to fight everyday to have conversations with those I love but I do break thru. Also, it was more than The phone call thing but that’s what puts it over…especially when I know they break thru for work and for others. I worked with him because I know it’s not all about me, and still I must have my standards for living.

    • @Fiamma829
      @Fiamma829 4 месяца назад

      @@loliipop070409 absolutely agree. I have and did walk away. It was not fair for either of us.

    • @ItsAsparageese
      @ItsAsparageese 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Fiamma829 Fair enough I suppose

  • @PoppaRocks87
    @PoppaRocks87 5 месяцев назад +11

    Signs? If there's signs your partner is avoidant, just run.

    • @grant9449
      @grant9449 26 дней назад

      Good luck in your healing journey!

  • @mikyl-fo8rh
    @mikyl-fo8rh 3 месяца назад +1

    An oxymoron.

    • @grant9449
      @grant9449 26 дней назад

      Good luck in your healing journey!

  • @JustMeAndMyBoy
    @JustMeAndMyBoy 5 месяцев назад

    Speak more slowly pls