Great advice thank you. It matters as well where you meet the girl, in what mood she is in and the topic of discussion etc. the ability to read the room is one of the best soft-skills. Or just be a chad and get away with any comments haha.
One of the main 'concerns' some men have about starting a conversation with a woman is that it is a leap into the 'unknown' ! I find it helpful to get some practise in by getting into a conversation with any unknown person ( and this is a good idea even when you are good at it, because you have to keep your abilities up to strength !) I like to get into a conversation with more difficult or intimidating people too for the experience. 'Train hard, fight easy !'
I like your advice videos and just discovered them. So far they're nothing I haven't heard of before, but it's nice to be reminded to practice the good habits. And your presentation style is captivating, especially when you stick your tongue out and roll your eyes, it shows you're having fun in the moment as well.
When i first got around to approaching women, i concentrated on the content/subject of the conversation as if the more clever it was, the better response i would get. But after a time, i realised it really is about your 'demeanour', than what you are talking about. I'm not very attractive, so i had to 'replace' my quiet, un-intrusive, passive, apologetic, fearful, reserved personality with something more effective. I was able to do this, but it required practise and determination !
In general, one have to be present, in the moment, to connect with others, because when you are in your head and constantly thinking about what to say next or how to answer will make the conversation forced and rigid. People will not appreciate talking to you then. And becoming present starts with fixing your confidence. If you are comfortable in your own skin you can relax and be yourself without constanly trying to show off or to give a good impression. And lastly, you gotta be aware of the fact that you don't connect with everyone, thus it's normal that with some people you will just have bad conversation and feel you just don't get along, so you shouldn't beat yourself down for failing to connect with them, just accept it and move on.
@@straightup8302 In the first part of your comment, this is something common to learning any new skill. As with me when i first started, it feels awkward and un-natural, and you have to concentrate on what you are saying. But i found things got better the more i did. One thought that i was able to get in my head was that i 'persuaded' myself that what i was doing was just an 'experiment', that i was going to try different things out and see what happened regardless. I really got interested in it, like a new hobby. I felt enthusiasm about getting out there and having a go. I was acquiring my own 'catalogue of experience' and whether things went good or bad, i had 'stories to tell'. I could tell people that 'I did this, and this is something that i discovered.' I felt that the more of it i did, the more of an 'authority' i was on the subject, which in it's self gave me more confidence.
These are all good tips to know. You are very intelligent matryoshka. I can give a girl a compliment on her earrings and outfit. And I can ask her what interests her. I can do that stuff.
Because nature and reality isn't fair that's why, I never was a fan of how one sided this is either man but sadly we have to live with it, I'm sure it's no doubt been this way longer than we imagine or think it has, I unfortunately like to think that men will always be stuck with this whether they like it or not hence why the forever alone Community will always be male-dominated
Great advice thank you. It matters as well where you meet the girl, in what mood she is in and the topic of discussion etc. the ability to read the room is one of the best soft-skills. Or just be a chad and get away with any comments haha.
One of the main 'concerns' some men have about starting a conversation with a woman is that it is a leap into the 'unknown' ! I find it helpful to get some practise in by getting into a conversation with any unknown person ( and this is a good idea even when you are good at it, because you have to keep your abilities up to strength !) I like to get into a conversation with more difficult or intimidating people too for the experience. 'Train hard, fight easy !'
I like how she says "Matryoshka"
she is beautiful . she is like a movie star
I’d be very interested of your advices. Thank you very much!
I like your advice videos and just discovered them. So far they're nothing I haven't heard of before, but it's nice to be reminded to practice the good habits. And your presentation style is captivating, especially when you stick your tongue out and roll your eyes, it shows you're having fun in the moment as well.
When i first got around to approaching women, i concentrated on the content/subject of the conversation as if the more clever it was, the better response i would get. But after a time, i realised it really is about your 'demeanour', than what you are talking about. I'm not very attractive, so i had to 'replace' my quiet, un-intrusive, passive, apologetic, fearful, reserved personality with something more effective. I was able to do this, but it required practise and determination !
In general, one have to be present, in the moment, to connect with others, because when you are in your head and constantly thinking about what to say next or how to answer will make the conversation forced and rigid. People will not appreciate talking to you then. And becoming present starts with fixing your confidence. If you are comfortable in your own skin you can relax and be yourself without constanly trying to show off or to give a good impression. And lastly, you gotta be aware of the fact that you don't connect with everyone, thus it's normal that with some people you will just have bad conversation and feel you just don't get along, so you shouldn't beat yourself down for failing to connect with them, just accept it and move on.
@@straightup8302 In the first part of your comment, this is something common to learning any new skill. As with me when i first started, it feels awkward and un-natural, and you have to concentrate on what you are saying. But i found things got better the more i did. One thought that i was able to get in my head was that i 'persuaded' myself that what i was doing was just an 'experiment', that i was going to try different things out and see what happened regardless. I really got interested in it, like a new hobby. I felt enthusiasm about getting out there and having a go. I was acquiring my own 'catalogue of experience' and whether things went good or bad, i had 'stories to tell'. I could tell people that 'I did this, and this is something that i discovered.' I felt that the more of it i did, the more of an 'authority' i was on the subject, which in it's self gave me more confidence.
good advice ❤
Great points ❤❤❤
Thank you…
Martryoshka you are soo beautiful ❤❤❤❤
You clearly did not watch and learn from this video...
Privjet Anastasia ❤ Some women like open ended questions, the more mature ones in my opinion
I think you look very good and obviously you are intelligent. 😍👍👏
These are all good tips to know. You are very intelligent matryoshka. I can give a girl a compliment on her earrings and outfit. And I can ask her what interests her. I can do that stuff.
Cool
Just say: Moi
Works like a charm
No one wants to talk with "HER" because we are done with "HER".
💕
Just a pleasure watching you and listening to your voice…
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You are so kind :)
@ My pleasure. You are kind for responding.
Why men need to do all work ? Start doing videos on how to approach men for women
Because nature and reality isn't fair that's why, I never was a fan of how one sided this is either man but sadly we have to live with it, I'm sure it's no doubt been this way longer than we imagine or think it has, I unfortunately like to think that men will always be stuck with this whether they like it or not hence why the forever alone Community will always be male-dominated
Hopefully you are single and how can i go to Starbucks please 😅
You must be hit on 50 times a day. Can you give personal examples of approaches you liked and ones you didn’t?
I always have a Russian poker face, so men are scared to approach 😂😂
I like your cross necklace on you
Just for u beautiful ❤️?
У тивя ест канал конкретно по русски язык?