Why women like BAD GUYS?

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

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  • @MatryoshkaTips1
    @MatryoshkaTips1  2 месяца назад +15

    Guys I see a lot of comments that took my message in a way I was not intending, I apologize if I gave the impression that I was advocating for negative behavior to attract women. My intention was never to suggest that you need to act poorly to build a meaningful relationship. Ultimately, being a good, responsible man is what leads to a fulfilling and lasting connection with the right person, and it’s truly the way to go. I appreciate your feedback as I continue to improve my content and learn from any missteps-after all, my channel is still new. Thanks for your support, and have a great day!

    • @musquit0124
      @musquit0124 2 месяца назад +4

      Miss, the dating market is getting more brutal every day, do some research and you'll see, social media have destroyed it.
      Your videos can bring positive vibes, but those guys are living the cold reality.
      Dont be naive thinking that you'll have a audiance of gentlemans, you'll get hate from bitter man on internet.
      I sujest reconsider your goes in this platform.

    • @MatryoshkaTips1
      @MatryoshkaTips1  2 месяца назад +4

      @@musquit0124 That topic def needs a video, my sense is that men have it more difficult now to the point that they feel is not worth dating anymore.

    • @VILLEGAS76able
      @VILLEGAS76able 2 месяца назад +1

      They call me Razor Ramon, and I'm the bad guy.

    • @adrianparker-e9f
      @adrianparker-e9f 2 месяца назад

      @@AnthonyManzio I've not read 'Brave New World' for some time, but i seem to remember that the population just had casual sex without any relationships and the babies are created in laboratories; so the two things are no longer connected. Amazing for 1932 !

    • @adrianparker-e9f
      @adrianparker-e9f 2 месяца назад

      I just wanted to share my observations and experience with you. I am the fourth of five brothers, and we are all quite similar in many ways. I suppose the general description of us would be 'nice guys', and yes, you've guessed it ! non of us have been seen as attractive to women ! We wear glasses, are quiet, well mannered, kind, thoughtful, harmless, timid, intelligent, civilized etc. All these things were praised by parents, teachers and grown ups in general, as being the right things to be, but girls didn't seem to think so. My older brothers never had girlfriends, so i couldn't learn anything off them, and i was also fed the notion that a genuine relationship with a woman is something that happens 'naturally', and that there isn't anything that you can 'do' to make it happen etc. After having no luck in my twenties, i decided that i had to do something, so i set about treating attracting a girl as a skill like any other. You learn things, experiment, discover and gain experience.

  • @davesaenz3732
    @davesaenz3732 2 месяца назад +51

    NEXY video: Why are so many women single moms and the "bad" guy is with someone else.

  • @philaman1972
    @philaman1972 2 месяца назад +22

    Once women lose their bargaining chip (their looks), their egos erode and so does their lofty selection criteria.

  • @edwinmoya8042
    @edwinmoya8042 2 месяца назад +28

    It's simple. Nice guys are predictable and boring but women thrive on emotions and stick to men that provide a wide range of them. So called bad guys understand how women work to make them attracted and don't need to put up an act, they just are.

  • @Trancymind
    @Trancymind 2 месяца назад +19

    Bad boys ruin families, especially to their own kids. Sadly as a man, I am very embarrassed with my father. Because of it, I have no father figure, I permanently disowned him, I have been single for more than 16+ years and I'll will not have a wife/girlfriends nor kids. It is a curse that I accept and have to live with for the rest of my life. Be grateful if you have a quality father.

    • @cristian.ilie.018
      @cristian.ilie.018 2 месяца назад +3

      Respect ! 🔥

    • @lakshminarayanan-ls5fz
      @lakshminarayanan-ls5fz 2 месяца назад +4

      And good father will be divorced by your mother and mother will make sure your good father don't have access to you. Good luck blaming men when source of evil lies in mothers for choosing bad guy or good guy

    • @cocobolooooooooo
      @cocobolooooooooo 2 месяца назад +3

      You can still get a partner - don't let your father define your life now...be a complete force against this effect you feel is stuck to you.

    • @Trancymind
      @Trancymind 2 месяца назад

      @@lakshminarayanan-ls5fz I was 10 years old when I decided to leave with my mother as a homeless family instead of living with my father with his house, cattle (around 35 head), and 3 acres of property land. To this day, I still don't want any of his assets nor money.

  • @andresoteroeirasgranda5870
    @andresoteroeirasgranda5870 2 месяца назад +11

    "Good guys sleeps alone" ( old English Saying )

  • @Gsea101
    @Gsea101 2 месяца назад +6

    Women want to change a bad guy, but if he changes then she won’t want him anymore 😂 women moment

  • @48vfl
    @48vfl 2 месяца назад +10

    bad boy puts himself first. good boy puts the woman first. bad boy's polarity is the opposite of the feminine woman and creates attraction.. good boy's polarity mirrors the feminine woman's polarity and acts as a repellant for a prospective relationship.

    • @adrianparker-e9f
      @adrianparker-e9f 2 месяца назад +4

      Good observation about the 'good boy' behaviour being too close to the woman's. It sounds obvious, but if a man doesn't have the things, traits and abilities, that the woman doesn't have, then he's of no use to her. It would be just like her having another female friend; there wouldn't be any advantage to it.

    • @cristian.ilie.018
      @cristian.ilie.018 2 месяца назад +1

      That is not true in so many ways....

    • @adrianparker-e9f
      @adrianparker-e9f 2 месяца назад

      @@cristian.ilie.018 Tell us about what you think then. In a male and female relationship, should the male be different to the female ? What 'advantages' should the male bring to the relationship ? If the man was the same as the woman, how would that benefit her ?

    • @cristian.ilie.018
      @cristian.ilie.018 2 месяца назад +2

      @@adrianparker-e9f And being bad, careless and emotionally abusive is specificly male, different from female and good for those around you...builds trust, emanates confidence and resilience....And being female is sweet, nurturing, caring, loyal, can be trusted, communicates a lot, sticks to her man nomatter what, doesntmonkeybranch even after a 20 yo marriage, loves him for who he is, is such a good person u think shes an angel.....

  • @michaeljohnson6019
    @michaeljohnson6019 2 месяца назад +14

    Yes you're absolutely right about the reasons why ladies like bad boys. I would probably add that quality healthy women might go for a bad boy in the short term but they can't tolerate him in the long-term. That's why it's okay to be a quality guy with some bad boy attributes if you want to keep her for the long term. spasibo (?)

    • @MatryoshkaTips1
      @MatryoshkaTips1  2 месяца назад +6

      Absolutely good point.

    • @JAYMOAP
      @JAYMOAP 2 месяца назад +1

      Depends. Women want also to know the man care about her. As long as she knows he is genuine these qualities remain attractive.
      Don't confuse with IMMATURE men. You can be mature but still have these qualities. It's actually even more attractive to women because they know you are rational and calculated, not on the whim.

    • @cristian.ilie.018
      @cristian.ilie.018 2 месяца назад +5

      Men, dont go for gurls who say: "ive had my fun, im ready for serious stuff now", like what, with you she will not have fun??? on One side; at the same time the badboy will still be tapping her, while shes with you! Dont forget: she chose that guy !!!

  • @marcin3136
    @marcin3136 2 месяца назад +7

    This is mainly from anthropology- a man had to take risks almost every day to go out hunting and get food (and he had to be physically fit and intelligent and self-confident to make a quick and good decision; otherwise the cow would run away).
    This works subconsciously on women.
    Just look for a smart/ wise man, not a "monkey".
    Good luck!

    • @denflow7788
      @denflow7788 2 месяца назад +1

      Yeah but that's not bad guy as like you said wise willing capable men. I think the boundary is thin but from behaving with not trusty antisocial people and people prone to take calculated risks are two different animals at the end of the day.

    • @adrianparker-e9f
      @adrianparker-e9f 2 месяца назад +1

      @@denflow7788 Yes, i like your observation there. That is something that i've been thinking about myself. The thing is ( and i think someone pointed it out somewhere in the comments ) that it's not really the 'bad' which is attractive, it's the 'effective' traits that they have. In the past, the behaviours and attitudes of the 'good guys' were similar, but just going in different directions ! In recent years, many of these 'traditional' male 'ways' have been watered down and eliminated, and portrayed as 'bad'.

  • @tausif3k
    @tausif3k 2 месяца назад +6

    You summed this up very well. What a lot of guys don't understand is that Women like certain qualities that Bad boys have. Not necessarily bad guys themselves.
    Along with all these things, as you said, some of these signal that the man can provide and protect... so it is this aspect that women like and desire.
    Not that type of bad guy who would use them for pleasure and disappear from their lives.
    They certainly don't want such.
    At least no good girl does.
    Also, villains are I admit, a little bit more smexy 😆
    Heroes can be too predictable.
    This is why a lot of guys like myself like Batman.
    He is unpredictable, and not the usual hero. He is scary. Stays in shadows.
    Almost an anti-hero.
    He is the villain's nightmare.
    So women want a good guy, gentleman, who is also a monster when needed.
    He is dangerous but would never harm her.
    Ok, sry for this long cmmnt xD I do this professionally so... my bad. Its a habit.
    Your vid was so good I couldn't ignore not expressing my thoughts.
    Checked out a few others, absolutely love your content. Keep it up ;)

    • @adrianparker-e9f
      @adrianparker-e9f 2 месяца назад

      Yes, that part at the start about the 'traits' of bad boys, not 'being' bad. I think that in the past there were certain 'thought patterns', 'behaviours' and 'attitudes' that were taught to both good and bad guys. ie; violence, aggression, assertiveness, dominance, toughness and all sorts of other things. Where as in modern times it's as if some behaviours and attitudes are only associated with being bad.

  • @bindervegas8006
    @bindervegas8006 2 месяца назад +3

    There are a few very attractive women I see on a daily basis. I've tried the bad boy routine, they will never approach me. I find being nice, smiling and going over and introducing myself breaks the ice. Chat for a bit. Then, next time I see them, they smile and sometimes throw in a wave. They seem happy to see me. But, they never come over and start talking on their own. Me? I don't chase. I go about my business. I always have the women I'm not interested in finding reasons to talk to me, bump into me, asking me if I'm single in the round about way ("Where's your wife?" or "I never see you with a women here."). SO, good or bad guys, it's a crap shoot.

  • @Theoverthinker81
    @Theoverthinker81 2 месяца назад +16

    They get the bad boy and like it until they start to get treated badly. A bad boy has to act bad, and in the end they get what they signed up for.

    • @ChrisThePlayer777
      @ChrisThePlayer777 2 месяца назад +1

      Bad boys dont treat women bad, bad boys are "bad" because they have strong boundaries, leadership and know how to say no to women's requests

    • @Theoverthinker81
      @Theoverthinker81 2 месяца назад +1

      @ChrisThePlayer777 I was a failed bad boy (didn't have the money or cars) had the women and I didn't treat them that bad, just had too many at the same time.

    • @SenorMarcelo
      @SenorMarcelo 27 дней назад

      And then they start posting messages on social media, like: "Why are all men a**holes?".

  • @123lowp
    @123lowp 2 месяца назад +6

    I disagree. Women like men that are good looking and have status. That is all.

  • @adrianparker-e9f
    @adrianparker-e9f 2 месяца назад

    I've heard it said ( it might be somewhere in these comments !) that it's certain traits, behaviour and attitudes that 'bad guys' have that girls want, not necessarily the 'bad' part ! In the past, 'good guys' were brought up with many of the same traits that the 'bad guys' had, but over the years, these things have been seen as 'negative' and have been gradually 'erased'.

  • @deusvlad2.083
    @deusvlad2.083 2 месяца назад +9

    You likes bad guys? okaaaaaaay then *kicks the dust bin* sup yo *drops glass on the floor* oops my bad, *Picks up 75" TV* [Throws it on the floor] see that strength! no no wait baby where you going? 😭😅

  • @pauljames4905
    @pauljames4905 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for being honest. You know your stuff.

  • @RetroBigCat75
    @RetroBigCat75 16 дней назад

    I see tons of videos on why women like (let alone LOVE) bad guys & it's the same old story. Bad guys are "mysterious", fun, considers an "REAL MAN" (😶😑🤦), roller coaster & biggest protector. That's how I think whenever the question comes up. Nice/decent guys do finish last, unfortunately.

  • @blanky_nap
    @blanky_nap 8 дней назад +1

    Absolutely agree that described behavior is really attractive for women but whether such guys are reliable in regard of long term relationships, not that sure, same for women who are attracted to those guys.

    • @MatryoshkaTips1
      @MatryoshkaTips1  8 дней назад +1

      I agree ☝️

    • @blanky_nap
      @blanky_nap 8 дней назад

      I think it more about what Pushkin wrote: “ The less we love a woman, the more we are liked by her”.

  • @Caparzo_11
    @Caparzo_11 23 дня назад

    Only to replace him with another one when the situation allows it

  • @MarkAble8
    @MarkAble8 2 месяца назад +2

    Do bad guys lie and deceive women? Please clarify? And if they do lie and deceive you, why are you so attracted to that? Can women discern masculine character? Do they even care about the inner workings of the guy?

    • @jeffreyelliott622
      @jeffreyelliott622 2 месяца назад

      In my opinion biblically speaking the bad guys are the devil's minions going around ruining the young women's lives all through the young women's 20's and when they turn 30'ish and want the good guys for true love and starting a family well the good guys just don't care for yesterday's trash or old news papers !! So sad it's pitiful !!! But this all began with Lucifer deceiving Eve in the garden and she took down Adam in the process !! Fast forward in time and here we are !!! Plenty of good guys wanting to be faithful and true but no faithful and true women !!!

  • @SCOTT77100
    @SCOTT77100 2 месяца назад +1

    People are confusing the terms "Bad boys" with "True loyal guys"--Bad boys are narcissistic, players, users and destroyers, they're conquerors with selfish intentions. The only boundries they have is for the female/females to show dominance but have none for themselves. True loyal guys are confident, while still holding onto the head spot he will make her equal and not 2nd class. He is hard working, loyal and does nothing to disrupt or destroy'ruin his family. He has no interest in numbers, he satisfied to going all the way with his 1 partner. He has boundries for all including himself. Don't get the 2 confused. "Bad boys" are deceivers, manipulators, selfish. Women that end up with bad boys usually end up in ruins in some form. When a woman seeks a "Bad boy" for whatever reason, A true loyal guy" will be done with her and walk away, he no longer has use for her and wants nothing to do with her--she will get what she wanted. We see this right now.

  • @robsmith2347
    @robsmith2347 Месяц назад +1

    But I AM a bad boy. I'm a cyberbully. Does that count?

  • @SarthMungekar
    @SarthMungekar 2 месяца назад +1

    Damn, this is exactly how I acted in college that's why I was getting so much attention ig, it's true guys

    • @mattborski
      @mattborski 16 дней назад

      I don't doubt it. Any dude wearing a sleeveless blue top with long blonde hair, talking about how much you like bad boys will get you your fair share of double takes in college. Are you still into cross-dressing, or was that just a phase?

  • @eddygan325
    @eddygan325 24 дня назад

    I suggest the title should change to "why women like this kind of guys?"

  • @khalid.lonewalker
    @khalid.lonewalker 2 месяца назад

    What was said in this video, most of those are actually found in Leo's behavior

  • @derekkase7884
    @derekkase7884 2 месяца назад +1

    If You can fork right you a bad guy the confidence comes from forking right if you can make a woman feel good you know you can have any woman . Hence you a bad guy. Moral of the story learn your fork game.😅

  • @Captain_Commenter
    @Captain_Commenter 19 дней назад

    In my country, bad boys are even in the church.

  • @filani
    @filani 2 месяца назад +4

    I'am a good guy 😋

    • @adrianparker-e9f
      @adrianparker-e9f 2 месяца назад +1

      If that works for you then that is good. If you attract the type of women that you want, then there is no need to be different. My experience of being 'good' didn't get me any success with women, so i had to try other ways of doing things.

    • @filani
      @filani 2 месяца назад +2

      @@adrianparker-e9f Haha ha! Hi ​ @adrianparker-e9f , honestly I am perhaps one of they so-called bad boys, maybe. I’m just teasing Ms. Matryoshka here ✌🙂

  • @russosentowski6113
    @russosentowski6113 2 месяца назад

    Girls love the chase and leaves them growing old and alone

  • @JoaquinPhi
    @JoaquinPhi 2 месяца назад

    Well, good and bad guys take risk every day to survive, since they are alive they do it.
    Both are either workers or boses bcuz it is a matter of skills in different fields.
    The reason why women choose bad guys it's because thrse men behaviour resonate with women's unestable emotions.
    They (women) feel they understand bad guy behaivor.
    However women behaviour come out of their hormons and in the other hand bad guy behaviour come out of his ego and narcisim.
    A mental healthy guy is stable and this is something that confuse women. It is beyond women's natural capacities.

  • @ahmadabulail6185
    @ahmadabulail6185 24 дня назад

    Always I'm trying to be bad as much as bad i can😅

  • @JAYMOAP
    @JAYMOAP 2 месяца назад

    Good list.

  • @jimh527
    @jimh527 28 дней назад +2

    Young women don't know sh't about men.

  • @renegade2853
    @renegade2853 2 месяца назад

    Bad boy = physically attractive men

  • @davidchung2203
    @davidchung2203 2 месяца назад

    That's why the father vets it

  • @denflow7788
    @denflow7788 2 месяца назад

    I think there is two type of bad boys. The evil one and the others...
    Sad but that is why and how women end up with malignant narcissists, psychopaths and serial killers...
    Many women are victim of domestic violence believing that she can pet a wild direwolf into a nice puppy which is never going to happen

  • @erielugo891
    @erielugo891 27 дней назад

    Yes, become a bad guy.

  • @cocobolooooooooo
    @cocobolooooooooo 2 месяца назад

    You look like a supermodel.

  • @huhhuhhuh4069
    @huhhuhhuh4069 8 дней назад +1

    Then they regret it later in life and go back to the nice guy she rejected years prior. They are damaged and maybe a single mom and the sad, nice guy, with no backbone takes her in. Just joking! Hehe.

  • @gusboyle96
    @gusboyle96 20 дней назад

    Well that's me screwed then :/

  • @codananda
    @codananda 2 месяца назад

    Crazy

  • @jeffreyelliott622
    @jeffreyelliott622 2 месяца назад

    There are plenty of nice guys that are pretty confident in their own skin and now they will have nothing to do with the yesterday's trash !!

  • @LAZ77777
    @LAZ77777 Месяц назад

    Maybe the prison visit will be a nice change of pace 😅😅😅😅 at least he's not boring enjoy 😂

  • @mtlicq
    @mtlicq 29 дней назад +1

    "Bad Boys" 💪🏼😎😜🥳, LOL NOT Bad Guys ☠💀🔫👹👿

  • @davidrothchilds2066
    @davidrothchilds2066 2 месяца назад

    Women want to fix bad boy she gets ran through and ends up in👉🗑. So nice guy simp get less action but eventually figures women out and rejects those types of women.. On the other hand the girl realises bad guy is a fake 🌈boy after they made a clown out of her she can't get a real man anymore

  • @problemslayer3538
    @problemslayer3538 2 месяца назад

    And then when she thinks shes changed him, she will discard him 😂 seeya. Then all thats left is a toned down version of himself. He then meets a woman whos looking for a bad boy that he once was 😂😂.

  • @sabahtaha1746
    @sabahtaha1746 2 месяца назад

    bad boys not guys

  • @DaddyCool-gb3fu
    @DaddyCool-gb3fu Месяц назад

    What even is a "bad boy".
    It's a stupid American Teeny bop term who doesn't apply to men in real life.
    People have way too many layers to be categorised in silly terms like these.

  • @samuelrk9000
    @samuelrk9000 Месяц назад +1

    Where are the fathers in these women's lives to warn not to go for bad boys?

  • @JiriBujak
    @JiriBujak 6 дней назад

    I am sorry,but you are talking about GIRLS. Girls like bad guys, real woman likes a man.Its an absolute misunderstanding! And maybe you need to mature to get this...When the real life comes, there are other important things to deal with.Best wishes.

  • @GTHO1970
    @GTHO1970 2 месяца назад

    Why do you dye your hair blonde when you are already beautiful?

    • @problemslayer3538
      @problemslayer3538 2 месяца назад

      What sort of question is that? Like someone saying to you, why do you wear a shirt when you look great in a t shirt. Doesn't make any sense. Girls change hair colour and styles all the time, has nothing to do with beauty. Silly man

    • @mattborski
      @mattborski 16 дней назад

      To make sure the drapes match the pubes. Don't knock it until you've seen it.

  • @rumplewang2814
    @rumplewang2814 2 месяца назад

    im the bad~~~ guy duh~