This is a great list - I guess kinda focused on the dating scene... I meet women who I want to know only in an acquaintence/friendship sense, beyond that I enjoy presenting a friendly face to the world at large and wouldn't want to be responsible for an awkward situation! I have my general rules and considerations that work pretty well... nothing social is a hard and fast rule, there will always be exceptions. 1:) You can't force an unnatural interaction but you can run with a natural one... e.g. a girl outside the cafe with her headphones on and her nose in a book isn't available for interaction. A girl approaching the lift you're in and you hold it for her - a natural interaction is probably doable there. 2:) A guy can prove he's a creep in seconds - but you can't prove you're not one the same way - it's the absence of that that wins the day, and that takes time.. I've been directly told this "I just knew it was only a matter of time until you did something weird... six months passed and it hadn't come, pretty soon I worked out it wasn't gonna!" 3:) No sexual comments (about them or others) - proceed with a lot of caution when it comes to any comment about clothing or physical appearance. Don't ask if they have a partner, roll with it if they mention having one... how you react is a good indication of what you're about! 4:) If they seem to be backing off at all let that work for them - there's a fair chance that's the end of it. If it hits the rocks a bit try to fix it once, if that doesn't work perhaps they don't want it fixing... so we're done! - in short let go of what's gone! 5:) Make them feel important but let them know other people are too... e.g. speak positively of other women - you can do that dramatically e.g. "Briefly Hi, I must go catch up with someone else, see you next time... bye!" 6:) Take what's available, don't push for more - e.g. if it stops at acquaintance have that, if it stops at friendship have that... Some acquaintences become friendships after years! 7:) As a bloke you're a lot less creepy when you're with other girls... their presence often verifies you as someone who can be trusted - so you can do things that rely on a bit of trust (e.g. share a taxi). ... Anyone you want to get to know on any level - make yourself worth knowing to them... 👍 DC
Hi this is the second video i watched on your channel and i think its really cool how you include what actually happed to you as an example at what your talking about.
I don't like easy women, but I am not easy myself. You know how unattractive it is when a woman who you just exchanged a few words with asks you if she can come over to your place??? Instantly, all attraction is gone, no matter how good she looks.
I agree with ernesto. I observed to much men , who literally did all the creepyness mentioned in the video, and all the women wanted him (and he got most of them) , because he was a 10. Men who are a 2 or 3 in the view of a women, and do everything perfect, women put those men in the friendzone. I know, women dont want to hear that. I know it flatters to women, if i would agree with this video. But after third of a century experience and observation - everything women tell and like to think of themselfs, simply dont correlate with real world observation. And i put it a bit further. I was asking myself, wether his is a zeitgeist of women. Maybe only in the last 35 years women are that way. So i asked the generation before me how women were - and how men were - and how they got together. Although women were much more into the character of a men, than in the last 30 years , even in the 60s the ''underlying layer'' was already there back then (but parents raised girls much better back then, than in the last 30 years). So my next question was why women lie about it. Why want they see themselfs as so ''good'' ? Because women would not have any disatvantage in society if they would simply honestly say : ''we are much more into looks, than men... if a man is a 5 , but has a good character, he will always be only friendzone'' ... Sure some incels would be angry about that - but why should women care about incels ? So for me its a bit of a open question i didnt found answer on it: why women like to lie about their taste on men. At this point some women say ''of course looks also matters a bit... but character is also (or more) important'' ... But its not true. Observations speak against this. And the statistics on that are even more harsh than my comment. Statistics show, that women get more and more picky. And i mean 100 times more picky than they was 50 years ago. It goes to a degree where literally mankind could cease to exist with that behavior of women (it only needs 1-2 generations to starve out). Its not a coincidence that even politics of the western world doesnt know what do do about it. The birth-rates are dropping extremely. If we go with numbers , womens behavior in that sense, did more harm to the western civilization than a nuclear worldwar could. Its a global phenomenon.
@@edwinmoya8042 I know you answered to ernesto. But i think he is right. And i am sure, he doesnt only speak from an opinion view like you, but from experience. I furthermore explained how different experiences can occure, depending on masculine values (even "dark triad" ones) can attract women. You are behaving in that sense - judging who is creepy - using the opportunity ''there is a man in front which i can present myself as the better alternative.. as the normal... he is the creepy.. i am the judge'' ... Thats opportunistic, and i saw it so often in comment sections, and even in chatrooms. Its funny how that principle is always there. There is always someone who uses the opportunity. Its related to beeing a white knight (but its not exactly the same). Its so easy to see through. Although: women often doesnt see through those kind of delusions. So its probably the right thing you did - from a standpoint of: position yourself. But its manipulative and not honest, narcisstic, and selfcentered - although most men of that kind try to sell it as ''i only wanted to help him'' (which furthermore belittles the other man).
Let me know what you think in the comments! :)
Thanks Matryoshka, a valuable perspective!
This is a great list - I guess kinda focused on the dating scene... I meet women who I want to know only in an acquaintence/friendship sense, beyond that I enjoy presenting a friendly face to the world at large and wouldn't want to be responsible for an awkward situation! I have my general rules and considerations that work pretty well... nothing social is a hard and fast rule, there will always be exceptions.
1:) You can't force an unnatural interaction but you can run with a natural one... e.g. a girl outside the cafe with her headphones on and her nose in a book isn't available for interaction. A girl approaching the lift you're in and you hold it for her - a natural interaction is probably doable there.
2:) A guy can prove he's a creep in seconds - but you can't prove you're not one the same way - it's the absence of that that wins the day, and that takes time.. I've been directly told this "I just knew it was only a matter of time until you did something weird... six months passed and it hadn't come, pretty soon I worked out it wasn't gonna!"
3:) No sexual comments (about them or others) - proceed with a lot of caution when it comes to any comment about clothing or physical appearance. Don't ask if they have a partner, roll with it if they mention having one... how you react is a good indication of what you're about!
4:) If they seem to be backing off at all let that work for them - there's a fair chance that's the end of it. If it hits the rocks a bit try to fix it once, if that doesn't work perhaps they don't want it fixing... so we're done! - in short let go of what's gone!
5:) Make them feel important but let them know other people are too... e.g. speak positively of other women - you can do that dramatically e.g. "Briefly Hi, I must go catch up with someone else, see you next time... bye!"
6:) Take what's available, don't push for more - e.g. if it stops at acquaintance have that, if it stops at friendship have that... Some acquaintences become friendships after years!
7:) As a bloke you're a lot less creepy when you're with other girls... their presence often verifies you as someone who can be trusted - so you can do things that rely on a bit of trust (e.g. share a taxi).
...
Anyone you want to get to know on any level - make yourself worth knowing to them... 👍
DC
Hi this is the second video i watched on your channel and i think its really cool how you include what actually happed to you as an example at what your talking about.
Thank you so much!!☺️
doesn't matter how socially aware u are have anxiety ppl will hate u
@@skunk9768 😂
The creepier I look, the more they'll leave me alone. Ahhh, got it!!
@@jkmarshall3553 🤣
You are awesome ❤
Being unattractive is being creepy.
Solid advice. Thanks. :)
I don't like easy women, but I am not easy myself. You know how unattractive it is when a woman who you just exchanged a few words with asks you if she can come over to your place??? Instantly, all attraction is gone, no matter how good she looks.
I can guarantee you that I, and many (most, I daresay) guys are not familiar with a woman immediately wanting to sleep with you.
Спасибо, Анастасия!
thank you so much❤
Good Afternoon, Anastasia ❤,
Hope you had a great weekend and great video today. Where are you from if I can ask you?
I am from Russia :) Thanks for your comments!
@@MatryoshkaTips You're welcome! That is awesome that you are from Russia 🇷🇺 and I have friends that are from there 😊
Thank you so much ❤
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I don't have any of the traits you listed, except one...... I have a manifesto. And thats because im a fan of the supreme gentleman.
Summary, never approach her AT ALL COST
If you dont have a model face....you will be labeled creepy inmediately...just because you exist.....
Disagree. I'm about a 5 but a 3 on a good day. However I'm naturally funny. Works for me!
I agree with ernesto. I observed to much men , who literally did all the creepyness mentioned in the video, and all the women wanted him (and he got most of them) , because he was a 10.
Men who are a 2 or 3 in the view of a women, and do everything perfect, women put those men in the friendzone.
I know, women dont want to hear that. I know it flatters to women, if i would agree with this video. But after third of a century experience and observation - everything women tell and like to think of themselfs, simply dont correlate with real world observation.
And i put it a bit further. I was asking myself, wether his is a zeitgeist of women. Maybe only in the last 35 years women are that way. So i asked the generation before me how women were - and how men were - and how they got together. Although women were much more into the character of a men, than in the last 30 years , even in the 60s the ''underlying layer'' was already there back then (but parents raised girls much better back then, than in the last 30 years).
So my next question was why women lie about it. Why want they see themselfs as so ''good'' ? Because women would not have any disatvantage in society if they would simply honestly say : ''we are much more into looks, than men... if a man is a 5 , but has a good character, he will always be only friendzone'' ... Sure some incels would be angry about that - but why should women care about incels ?
So for me its a bit of a open question i didnt found answer on it: why women like to lie about their taste on men. At this point some women say ''of course looks also matters a bit... but character is also (or more) important'' ... But its not true. Observations speak against this. And the statistics on that are even more harsh than my comment. Statistics show, that women get more and more picky. And i mean 100 times more picky than they was 50 years ago. It goes to a degree where literally mankind could cease to exist with that behavior of women (it only needs 1-2 generations to starve out). Its not a coincidence that even politics of the western world doesnt know what do do about it. The birth-rates are dropping extremely. If we go with numbers , womens behavior in that sense, did more harm to the western civilization than a nuclear worldwar could. Its a global phenomenon.
No, but if you think the way you do, that's way creepy.
@@edwinmoya8042 I know you answered to ernesto. But i think he is right. And i am sure, he doesnt only speak from an opinion view like you, but from experience. I furthermore explained how different experiences can occure, depending on masculine values (even "dark triad" ones) can attract women.
You are behaving in that sense - judging who is creepy - using the opportunity ''there is a man in front which i can present myself as the better alternative.. as the normal... he is the creepy.. i am the judge'' ... Thats opportunistic, and i saw it so often in comment sections, and even in chatrooms. Its funny how that principle is always there. There is always someone who uses the opportunity. Its related to beeing a white knight (but its not exactly the same). Its so easy to see through. Although: women often doesnt see through those kind of delusions. So its probably the right thing you did - from a standpoint of: position yourself. But its manipulative and not honest, narcisstic, and selfcentered - although most men of that kind try to sell it as ''i only wanted to help him'' (which furthermore belittles the other man).
@@PygmalionFaciebat ok, this is also creepy, overthinking
My looks are similar to a gargoyle = creep
She’s referring to people that aren’t Chad’s and Tyrone. Never listen to a woman for dating advice. She’s preaching hypergamy what she’s preaching..
My body language is gibberish. 🙃
I don't join women's livestreams, I host my own. #imincharge #thisismyworld