I just divorced my f***boy after 6 yrs. He tried. He did but he just couldn't overcome that adolescent state of mind. And I'm a mom and a wife. I'm raising kids, not men. I want a man already raised...like I'm raising my son. I want a "man". It's so hard to find when there are so many women more than willing to be that mommy for a guy. Guess I'll be single for awhile.
Thank you Ace you're a wonderful young man that looks for the "ROOT" to live instead of just "SURFACE" living. You are indeed an inspiration.......God bless!! 😊✝️🙏🏾
Actually I was with the same person for 7 years and I never thought of someone else during sex. I think it's so messed up to use someone else's body while you're thinking of someone else. and what you said about everyone doing that is the exact reason why I have a fear of being with the same man sexually. So thanks for rubbing that one in don't worry I won't forget it.
Some people just have that toxic part of their brain still intact. It’s men and women who use other people sometimes without even realizing. Some people just don’t come to the understanding some things are not right. Either because they genuinely don’t care or never even thought the behavior was wrong. I will be a big girl and admit, I’ve actually thought about others in that way in my previous relationships which was wrong but a thought is a thought. Acting on it would just be ridiculous however it’s funny because in my current relationship I have never even seen another man lmao they don’t exist to me at all. The love I’m given has made it so I felt full in my heart. So yeah, I think that’s moreso what it is. If you feel fulfilled, you won’t seek. Whether it’s about validation, affection etc.
I never understood why men think I am intimidating and so often some say loosen up a little bit. As high quality women that doesn’t resonate with me. Thank you I learned a lot !
This was so good. I’m serious. One of the best I have seen in a while. Interested in me, man you broke it down I never really thought about that. Very important, everyone doesn’t have your best interest at heart. The multiplication lesson was the best too, I’ve been guilty of not using multiplication. You answered the questions and really brought some different perspectives. 😊
OMG!!! ur multiplication analogy had me laughing outloud. Im not into all the swearing ( to each his own) but aside from that ur content is always on point and ur delivery is "hilariousy" entertaining . God bless you for sharing urself ur opinions ur insight advice.....u rock.
I have cheated in my some of my relationships and I have been cheated on. I am now working on myself and healing. I'm staying away from relationships and sex. I need to heal.
I also know guys in real life who have serious problems but are incredibly attractive, and they purposely go for those "easy" women still, easy for them because they know their appearance will win over a lot of women that aren't quite to the level of their own looks. It's always been bizarre to me when a guy twice as attractive as me goes for women I wouldn't probably even date only to use them. I guess I know women doing the same thing but guys talk to guys so I see if first hand. It's super discouraging.
Been with same man 7 yrs and I don't think about anybody but him. Not to say that with my X I just closed my eyes and wished I wasn't there. Truth!!! Appreciate your honesty ACE but it is kind of F **k up. to be thinking of someone else.
10 year relationship I never fantasised about anyone else...truth.. am I strange! Please tell me I'm not the only person that's never fantasised of someone else!!!
Wow interested in the qualities that I need to fix?! Makes so much sence why when I'm fixing that, no longer put up with it...they leave. Smh at my own self... Thanks Ace for the eye opener!
The response I keep getting is he likes my energy. When I tell u I have not spent more than 5 hours of my life total around this man. But he thinks that's grounds to be handsy eww 🙄 🤢
Ace on a real note , not all women do that . If her man is loving his women right and giving her the up most respect and making her feel she’s special to him. A women won’t lust for another man
This is the very reason why I didn't want to go outside in my youth but my mother insisted on me going outside, knowing damn well, what I wanted to do with my life. However, I tried that shit with my daddy, and he liked to kick my head off 😲. I've always been attracted to marathons / cross country. Like what is your intentions with me because my daddy raised me that way. Thank you for the reminder Ace.
Hitting you up here and there can feel like hot and cold . If it’s too infrequently without any attempt to actually date you , well hey that sure doesn’t make a woman feel that this guy has a long term goal . While he is trotting over the hills and valleys on his marathon somebody with more spreed might beat him to it . How slow is too slow ? To me it seems like you are on their back burner . We keep hearing watch their actions , you can fall asleep if they are moving at a snails pace . Cheers xx
Lmfaoooo it’s funny because in my toxic relationships I thought about other men. Now that I’m in a healthy relationship I really fully would feel stupid even looking at another man fr
Funny that you mention about mommy types I'm technically a mom of two and with this person I started feeling the pressure of raising a third kid when I don't even want more kids , when I felt the expectation of taking him out, buying him stuff ,spend my money my kids money in him I was wtf nope I don't even have a pet because I'll have to choose where do I put my money I wasn't about to spend it on him, seriously we need help to stop been desperate to the point we do all this for people who should be helping themselves 😒😒🤔🤓🙏💙
My precious Darling l love the wisdom God revealed to you , to related to relationships I. ❤ To bring them to truth not foolishness Darling l love putting in my input in your work love later ❤️
Never been in a relationship thought there was a connection with him he got in a relationship with his soul mate I work to get over it we water and oil but he finds a way to ,keep in contact when he wants ,help me help
I used to have reoccurring dreams that I had an amazing sex with someone else . I never had seen that person's face so I could not even imagine who could be . I didn't fantasize about anyone in reality so I always was puzzled why I had dreams of this kind. I wasn't getting any, maybe that's why 🙈🙈
Everyone just wants to be loved. Buttttt some people have real mental health problems that basically cause them to make that impossible, until they deal with and heal from those issues they will continually Make choices that sabotage their REAL wants or intentions. It hurts like crazy when someone cheats and most people would not feel good at all about hurting someone like that, yet they cheat! Like he says cheating has a lot more to do with how they view themselves than how they view you.
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I just divorced my f***boy after 6 yrs. He tried. He did but he just couldn't overcome that adolescent state of mind. And I'm a mom and a wife. I'm raising kids, not men. I want a man already raised...like I'm raising my son. I want a "man". It's so hard to find when there are so many women more than willing to be that mommy for a guy. Guess I'll be single for awhile.
I've been single for awhile and it's annoying to find out you're wasting your time with a man-child.🤨
Thank you Ace you're a wonderful young man that looks for the "ROOT" to live instead of just "SURFACE" living. You are indeed an inspiration.......God bless!! 😊✝️🙏🏾
I am a mommy type and it has been weaponized against me in every relationship to be honest!
I am done with that!
AMEN 😭🙂❤️🙏
Thank you for this well needed therapy lesson!!!🙏🏽
He went after me my ass new mindset changing but dahhh 🤣👏🏾🤣👏🏾✅✅✅✅🫶🏾 I needed this reality check big time thank you
Loving hearing the truth from a man. Thank you!
Ace, you're very intelligent. Surely, you can express yourself better than using the "f" word repeatedly.
I love how you deliver your messages. Raw but so needed!! ❤️
Actually I was with the same person for 7 years and I never thought of someone else during sex. I think it's so messed up to use someone else's body while you're thinking of someone else.
and what you said about everyone doing that is the exact reason why I have a fear of being with the same man sexually. So thanks for rubbing that one in don't worry I won't forget it.
Me either
That's messed up! I'm a guy and trust me that's not all of us
Some people just have that toxic part of their brain still intact. It’s men and women who use other people sometimes without even realizing. Some people just don’t come to the understanding some things are not right. Either because they genuinely don’t care or never even thought the behavior was wrong. I will be a big girl and admit, I’ve actually thought about others in that way in my previous relationships which was wrong but a thought is a thought. Acting on it would just be ridiculous however it’s funny because in my current relationship I have never even seen another man lmao they don’t exist to me at all. The love I’m given has made it so I felt full in my heart. So yeah, I think that’s moreso what it is. If you feel fulfilled, you won’t seek. Whether it’s about validation, affection etc.
You are very entertaining 😂 but at
the same time very real you tell it
without sugar coating. Love it
keep it coming ❤️🔥🔥
I never understood why men think I am intimidating and so often some say loosen up a little bit. As high quality women that doesn’t resonate with me. Thank you I learned a lot !
Hey ace I love all ur old videos!
Thanks for the sound advice Ace!
I love the name of ur podcast Ace of Hearts ! It's so apropos cuz u share with others to help them heal, guard/protect, grow their heart etc..
I love that you use "apropos"! I use it all the time and I never hear anyone use this word!
This was so good. I’m serious. One of the best I have seen in a while. Interested in me, man you broke it down I never really thought about that. Very important, everyone doesn’t have your best interest at heart. The multiplication lesson was the best too, I’ve been guilty of not using multiplication. You answered the questions and really brought some different perspectives. 😊
I needed to hear this 👏🏾ON 👏🏾TODAY!
OMG!!! ur multiplication analogy had me laughing outloud. Im not into all the swearing ( to each his own) but aside from that ur content is always on point and ur delivery is "hilariousy" entertaining . God bless you for sharing urself ur opinions ur insight advice.....u rock.
I have cheated in my some of my relationships and I have been cheated on. I am now working on myself and healing. I'm staying away from relationships and sex. I need to heal.
Thank you for breaking this down.... I learned the hard way..
Ace Metaphor is now one of my most favorite people
U crack me up. Always an educational fun time thanks for this new podcast
This is the most amazing advice I've heard for women in the past few years honestly. God bless you brother! ❤
I also know guys in real life who have serious problems but are incredibly attractive, and they purposely go for those "easy" women still, easy for them because they know their appearance will win over a lot of women that aren't quite to the level of their own looks. It's always been bizarre to me when a guy twice as attractive as me goes for women I wouldn't probably even date only to use them. I guess I know women doing the same thing but guys talk to guys so I see if first hand. It's super discouraging.
This is nothing but Truth 💜
Preach Ace...I’m a work in progress!!! Facts!!!
Been with same man 7 yrs and I don't think about anybody but him. Not to say that with my X I just closed my eyes and wished I wasn't there. Truth!!! Appreciate your honesty ACE but it is kind of F **k up. to be thinking of someone else.
I agree I let my guard down to get married to a narcissist but that shit is behind me now ...ace you have helped me big time and thank you
10 year relationship I never fantasised about anyone else...truth.. am I strange! Please tell me I'm not the only person that's never fantasised of someone else!!!
@Dr. DancingLion's Healing Room nice to know I'm not the only one. Thank you for the comment 🙌
Nope. I haven’t!
You are not strange, i don't understand how to fantasize about another man when am with the man i respect and attracted to it's wierd to me.
I’ve never fantasized about another man while being with another.
Even when I probably should have . 😂
Love the runner metaphor sprinter/ marathon runner
Wow interested in the qualities that I need to fix?! Makes so much sence why when I'm fixing that, no longer put up with it...they leave. Smh at my own self... Thanks Ace for the eye opener!
The response I keep getting is he likes my energy. When I tell u I have not spent more than 5 hours of my life total around this man. But he thinks that's grounds to be handsy eww 🙄 🤢
Ace on a real note , not all women do that . If her man is loving his women right and giving her the up most respect and making her feel she’s special to him. A women won’t lust for another man
Listening in 2020 and this is good for me ! I needed this.
LOL thank you so very much for this video!
Yesss!!! Omg Preach 🙌
Listennnnn you gave me so much life! ❤️
Amen! Preach it Ace Metaphor!!
Ace you officially my bff!
Ace Metaphor Nice video bro can you please do a video on fetishes & if they play apart when it comes to dating and attraction that be much appreciated
I'm here for it! Newly subscribed ✊🏾
🤣🤣🤣🤣He is funny but truth cos I was there with a narcissist in the past 😌And I learned my lessons on hard way but I got more wiser in this sht.
Man... Gems on top of gems 💎😌 you sure are appreciated. Shared as always
This is the very reason why I didn't want to go outside in my youth but my mother insisted on me going outside, knowing damn well, what I wanted to do with my life. However, I tried that shit with my daddy, and he liked to kick my head off 😲.
I've always been attracted to marathons / cross country. Like what is your intentions with me because my daddy raised me that way.
Thank you for the reminder Ace.
Ace I love ur videos from Instagram to RUclips I’m HERE FOR IT !!!
Cold hard facts ‼️
I’m learning if men don’t take God seriously. If you don’t value or fear God I real life don’t want you.
Darling. I'm going for a walk around the building where lm staying Macowon. And Finch 25 Thunder cove
Yes!!! Good question!! 💯 goes back to what u said earlier....
Omgggg really Good context!!
Yess!!!! Speak 🗣 marriage!!!!
Oh yeah, I do. But thinking about and taking action is two different things. Ya know?
Project boy Lmwao! 😂💯
Oooh 😯 i love that ❣️
Yes! So true!
I cant tune it out 😳🤦🏻♀️ and i got kids...
Hitting you up here and there can feel like hot and cold . If it’s too infrequently without any attempt to actually date you , well hey that sure doesn’t make a woman feel that this guy has a long term goal . While he is trotting over the hills and valleys on his marathon somebody with more spreed might beat him to it . How slow is too slow ? To me it seems like you are on their back burner . We keep hearing watch their actions , you can fall asleep if they are moving at a snails pace . Cheers xx
THANK YOU !!!
Ace, the question was "how do you know when a woman is interested in you?"
Wow.... this is good
Lmfaoooo it’s funny because in my toxic relationships I thought about other men. Now that I’m in a healthy relationship I really fully would feel stupid even looking at another man fr
I need some affirmations T-Shirts Thanks for Love & Support In Knowing That Man Dont Really Love Me 🥳
Straight facts as usual
Funny that you mention about mommy types I'm technically a mom of two and with this person I started feeling the pressure of raising a third kid when I don't even want more kids , when I felt the expectation of taking him out, buying him stuff ,spend my money my kids money in him I was wtf nope I don't even have a pet because I'll have to choose where do I put my money I wasn't about to spend it on him, seriously we need help to stop been desperate to the point we do all this for people who should be helping themselves 😒😒🤔🤓🙏💙
Shamar Moore? Heck yes!
My precious Darling l love the wisdom God revealed to you , to related to relationships I. ❤ To bring them to truth not foolishness Darling l love putting in my input in your work love later ❤️
AOH Love it!!!
On point...
Well said babe 💯❣️
Never been in a relationship thought there was a connection with him he got in a relationship with his soul mate I work to get over it we water and oil but he finds a way to ,keep in contact when he wants ,help me help
Facts Ace
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Thats a hard question! 😂😂😂
I was always that girl w the rbf and wondered why I could never meet a man 🤣🤷♀️
I'm now here for a time
Usually these are underdeveloped types who either haven't had a mother or a mother that spolied them
Lmao! So much truth but shit was funny AF! Love it!!
lol lol lol so the truth hurts. i have raised my boundaries. no more mommy type. no more f*boys. wow i giving this video to my girls.
Some sprint to snatch the prize in...My goal's the far horizon, I guess, I'm obsessed with that long slow distance..Michael Franks #science
Big facts💯💯
Subscribed !!!!
Thank you
Good info
Exactly!!!!!!!! 💯😂😂😂😂
Truth
I used to have reoccurring dreams that I had an amazing sex with someone else . I never had seen that person's face so I could not even imagine who could be . I didn't fantasize about anyone in reality so I always was puzzled why I had dreams of this kind.
I wasn't getting any, maybe that's why 🙈🙈
My Darling lm staying with a friend of mine l met ,while l was in the streets and one that l was with
Real talk 💯👍🏾😱😥😣🙄
Thank u!! Interested in what!?
Not necessarily true if my man loves me right why would i think of another man i wouldn’t want to be with a man who-has wondering eyes
I’ve been telling people this for years.
Well said!! I was wondering how u would answer that one 😂😂
Do you think that women get drawn into watching u cause of your looks?
Can you talk about porn addiction in marriage?
Real
What is his real intentions?? 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️💯
Everyone just wants to be loved. Buttttt some people have real mental health problems that basically cause them to make that impossible, until they deal with and heal from those issues they will continually Make choices that sabotage their REAL wants or intentions. It hurts like crazy when someone cheats and most people would not feel good at all about hurting someone like that, yet they cheat! Like he says cheating has a lot more to do with how they view themselves than how they view you.
I just found you❤❤❤
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Love you....I'm grown I'm grown🤣
This shit is real
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