Why the Narc will never leave you. Share this Knowledge from Ace Metaphor

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 78

  • @cloyewoods
    @cloyewoods Год назад +40

    As soon as I stopped allowing him to control my emotions, stopped acting like I believed his lies, stopped trying to explain myself, stopped trying to find logic in the marriage, HE LEFT!! (Thank God!!). My favorite answers became OK, FINE, and I GUESS. No more emotional back and forth. No more listening to him for HOURS. No more reason for him to stay. The discard IS the blessing!

    • @NS-id7ff
      @NS-id7ff 2 месяца назад

      You're lucky!!

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 Год назад +29

    Leave everything and never look back save ur self only u can

  • @Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD
    @Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD Год назад +25

    THANK YOU YOUNG KING👑💯🥰 I was there November 2022! Finally said " NO MORE" I stayed 32 years, this Dark Triad Narc took my very mind I allowed this Thing' to bring me ITS' trauma! I had to go to save my very mind....I was dying mentally, emotionally anguish every single moment of the day. I LEFT TOTALLY DEVASTED!!!! Arranged marriage and the family turned on me said I should've stayed.....I never left before but I knew once I left I would never ever return! I left like Tina Turner broken emotionally, mentally physically and financially. That Narc took it all. I've learned something I am a survivor, I am strong, I will win I have won 🏆 I AM STILL HERE, I AM BREATHING! I SMILE SOMETIMES

    • @Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD
      @Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@1ofwonAmerican women you have choices " MAKE THE RIGHT ONE" I had no choice.
      *Choose a person that truly will make you a priority
      *Choose a person that will wake up to see your smile
      *Choose a person that wants to bring positive energy to you
      *Choose a person that offers open communication
      STOP CHOOSING EMT' EMOTIONAL MENTAL TERRORIST‼️

  • @sweetgoldenbrown
    @sweetgoldenbrown Год назад +40

    I needed this message. I am fighting for my life right now. He has drained me completely.

  • @LotusFlower732
    @LotusFlower732 2 года назад +22

    They go to their exes so that don't have to start over.

  • @lizp5449
    @lizp5449 11 месяцев назад +2

    Don't let anyone lead you

  • @sandrastubbs581
    @sandrastubbs581 2 года назад +9

    He lead me into the depth of hell...

  • @sandrastubbs581
    @sandrastubbs581 2 года назад +13

    TRUE!!! BEST THING TO HAPPENED TO HIM..WORST THING TO HAPPEN TO ME....

  • @ladyoftheveil8342
    @ladyoftheveil8342 2 года назад +18

    I left him on 12-3-20. I felt relief as soon as I did. Like a big weight! Do It! Leave you will feel better!

  • @annaroselivingherlifeunapo9845
    @annaroselivingherlifeunapo9845 Год назад +7

    It was always about him.!!!!

  • @trinagibson5640
    @trinagibson5640 Год назад +4

    I've learned that evil is as patient as a rattlesnake.

  • @dfwnovelista
    @dfwnovelista Год назад +4

    This saved my life. I'm out! Couldn't figure out why he wouldn't leave. I get it now.

  • @Denise-h3c
    @Denise-h3c 5 месяцев назад +1

    💯 Facts

  • @britneebraylen3398
    @britneebraylen3398 6 месяцев назад +2

    Ladies leave!!! I was in a toxic relationship for 15 years. 3 kids later and broke myself down. Started drinking gained weight insecure and finally walked away and couldn’t be happier!! Currently Actively dating healed men who are ready to pour into me but my cup was empty as hell!!! And I have no problem disqualifying a man; thank you ACE ❤

  • @lolitaavery1828
    @lolitaavery1828 7 месяцев назад +3

    I prayed to God and one day He said he had to leave because God told him. It was a miracle. 😊

  • @Freetobeme8181
    @Freetobeme8181 2 года назад +17

    Yep you are spot on, this video needs to have way more views in the millions and at least the thousands!!! I suffered 12 years before I ran it is the only way to get out!!!! And get your life back, do what you gotta do and if you have children with them God bless because that makes it 1000 times worse.

  • @namdeedesta6711
    @namdeedesta6711 10 месяцев назад +1

    This video touched something in my spirit and my soul. This has been my life for the last four years. It was so crazy between my ex and I that he cheated consistently throughout the four years and once we broke up, he asked if we could be in an open relationship. It really messed with my mind, but I finally understood the entire time it’s always been about him. And yes, I was diminished and I was broken. This video explains why he would say I love you, you’re my soulmate, you’re the best thing to ever happen to me. Blessings to you Ace.

  • @Iridescentlif3
    @Iridescentlif3 Год назад +8

    I’m speechless. What a powerful message. Thank you!

  • @DazeLoka
    @DazeLoka 3 года назад +11

    Wow this is my marriage an life for the past 15 years....im so exhausted...

    • @NKO71
      @NKO71 Год назад

      My marriage in a nutshell.

  • @KessO2424
    @KessO2424 2 года назад +12

    I needed to hear this ❤ …. On repeat 😢

  • @servinasouder8962
    @servinasouder8962 7 месяцев назад +1

    I LOVE YOU ACE. The tears won't stop falling. You have been a true life support in my life & thank you for knowing exactly what to say when going through the different trials of love ❤God bless you ❤️

  • @lisaosborne8635
    @lisaosborne8635 8 месяцев назад +2

    Ride TO die i really felt that

  • @nikkirobinson5718
    @nikkirobinson5718 2 года назад +4

    Agreed!!!! The Narc hit the lottery with me...That's why he stalks me and spy's.
    He will never get to PLAY GAMES with another woman like ME!!!
    Hii D Parker and Becky
    Mauh

  • @emlinc229
    @emlinc229 3 месяца назад

    I've been through this several times with 3 different narcs. It is the most torturous and crushing thing to your wellbeing and spirit. Your wellbeing is sacred. Save your life and RUN. Thank God I finally got out with family and friends support, therapy. LISTEN TO THIS VIDEO. ITS GOD SENT.

  • @NKO71
    @NKO71 Год назад +2

    It’s ALL ABOUT HIM! 😢 I am COMPLETEY EMPTY. Running on fumes. Going back home to my country in a week🎉

  • @LawStudentCali
    @LawStudentCali Год назад +6

    I needed this

  • @vernasmith1108
    @vernasmith1108 Год назад +2

    I have my own, but I have developed an attachment to him. I live in his hometown, where I don't know anyone but him. I don't do clubs and bars, but I do go places. I travel a little and have fun. This hurts like hell. He never makes me feel less than or that I'm not worthy of love. Thank you for the message❤

  • @VictoriaMeeker
    @VictoriaMeeker 2 года назад +6

    I really know that I died inside this relationship and told him that he saw me traumatized yes I stood up for myself and called his ass out but I got crazy .. I’m sure he knew that and what he did 😭

  • @queenie1600
    @queenie1600 Год назад +4

    Blessssss u for this because this is my truth #7 years and I finally opened my eyes slowly but I'm cutting it this time for GOOD#IT'S NOT EASY BUT HE HAS MADE IT SO BAD THAT I HAVE TO LIFT A STANDARD FOR MY DAUGHTER AND WHAT I TELL HER TO NOT ACCEPT AT 19#SHE WATCHING AND I'M NOT BEING A BAD EXAMPLE FOR HER SO EVEN THOUGH I CAN'T DO IT FOR"ME". I'M GOING TO DO IT.... FOR HER

  • @EeshsSweetSpotBakery
    @EeshsSweetSpotBakery Месяц назад

    Whoooo❣️
    Well Said 👏 👏 👏
    Thank You!
    I like to sum it up as:
    Eff The Years!...What about the TEARS?!!!
    Many ppl will stay especially women because of the "years" they've invested 🙄
    Not I...

  • @Peacealways247
    @Peacealways247 Год назад +4

    Glad you're speaking on this! That's why you GOTS to block, etc these folks. Thank the Lord I woke up to see what I needed to see. He started over and married someone else but hoovered me by text 3 months after he got married, when I shut him down, he went into a rage text...BLOCKED FOREVER!

  • @truthseeker5941
    @truthseeker5941 10 месяцев назад +3

    Chile, they have already started with another girl while they are still with you. They are never a one woman man. They need a massive amount of supply to get their energy fix. My ex-narc brought HIV to his marriage bed... I knew he was going to catch it.

  • @kendrariedelrealestateprof2932
    @kendrariedelrealestateprof2932 Год назад +4

    Wow... thank you!!! I knew he wasn't happy so I wondered and asked him why he didn't just leave. And we've been finally divorced almost 4 years, because i lft. And he's still not moving on. 😂 I had no clue, until now. Thanks 😅

  • @tamikahayden2947
    @tamikahayden2947 Год назад +1

    Thank you. I did. I do deserve better and the restraining order is making it possible. Today I’m blissfully happy, and free. May God continue to bless you with these important messages.

  • @kharmasmith8957
    @kharmasmith8957 Год назад +4

    Those ar big factsss

  • @MZ-jo9ru
    @MZ-jo9ru 2 месяца назад

    Thank you! Perfectly said ❤

  • @janeseshakur2598
    @janeseshakur2598 Год назад +4

    Thank You

  • @GC.13
    @GC.13 3 года назад +12

    This is my relationship in a nutshell 😢💔

    • @meaganjones1347
      @meaganjones1347 3 года назад

      I was in a relationship 14 years with my child's father. When I say I was so broken it's not a good feeling at all. I read Ace books and started listening to him and when I say. I wish I would let a man do me wrong again. Baby girl I'm not telling u what to do but Love u more than I love him and when u start doing that OMG It is a good feel. Keep your head up. It's gone be alright.

    • @saraliburd7752
      @saraliburd7752 2 года назад

      I finally did
      Out 6 months
      Thank you Ace ❤️

    • @LotusFlower732
      @LotusFlower732 2 года назад +1

      Yup! Trauma!

    • @Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD
      @Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD Год назад

      Just go!!!!

  • @lawandarutledge6969
    @lawandarutledge6969 Год назад +1

    I'm trying to leave stealth mode but this guy won't leave me alone he won't leave me alone. I'm going deeper into God now and I don't need nobody else in my way of what God has for me.

  • @revlonlucas3225
    @revlonlucas3225 Год назад

    Well said

  • @TT-pb7ml
    @TT-pb7ml Год назад

    Facts

  • @VictoriaMeeker
    @VictoriaMeeker 2 года назад +3

    It’s that bad? Strangulation? Choked? Thrown across the room? Threats of hitting or punching. Dragged me out the room standing up? Cussing degraded me? Threatened suicide once I took him back he addmitted to being careless and abusive he now discarded me. I stood up for myself remember crying all the time.. didn’t care if I died previously had an abortion he left me manipulated my mind controlled me used me I was suposse to be a one night stand cause of his wife across the country they had problems same behavior I got it worse 🥺😭 I did everything I could . Learned new culture I mean jeez. Threatened to punch me blamed me for being in his way and threw me across the room and left bruises on my arm and butt and my elbow I fell into the dresser .. 😭

  • @ayanaalexander9478
    @ayanaalexander9478 7 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @vernasmith1108
    @vernasmith1108 Год назад

    I have to walk away for my sanity. You're right he will not leave me or leave me alone. We have a car together, so I pay my half through Cash App, so I don't have to see him or talk with him, I do have the car it's in my garage.

  • @mariareresutton2859
    @mariareresutton2859 Год назад

    I left in 2022, still thriving......

  • @christinecronk9234
    @christinecronk9234 Год назад

    ❤️💯👍💪

  • @VictoriaMeeker
    @VictoriaMeeker 2 года назад +2

    Well he discarded me already but mentally leave now when is good up for myself and had a whole wife in another country but yeah.. we’re Nothing alike sucks

  • @butterfffly794
    @butterfffly794 Год назад

    Been married to one for 13 years 😢

  • @cherylmull3474
    @cherylmull3474 Год назад +3

    I will be leaving and getting a divorce but how do I avoid contact since we have a 4 yr old daughter.

    • @kellithomas9080
      @kellithomas9080 Год назад

      Low contact, parallel parenting. File for joint legal custody.

  • @nadiaconseillant8616
    @nadiaconseillant8616 4 месяца назад

    I bailed out since he cursed me 2 springs ago. I can't seem to understand how we in this. A zillion times. I am not happy here. I am telling you i will marry and leave him standing. You know what it does not pertain to me. It is all an illusion. I just have not met the person yet to come

  • @heatherbowman9450
    @heatherbowman9450 6 месяцев назад +1

    633 likes🦄🌺🌸❤ 0:22

  • @lolitaavery1828
    @lolitaavery1828 7 месяцев назад

    😅

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 10 месяцев назад

    You are the best thing that happened to them… yes but they have 200 more bests on roaster alongside you… aka Narcs

  • @nadiaconseillant8616
    @nadiaconseillant8616 4 месяца назад

    Correction masons

  • @Cheron-w9j
    @Cheron-w9j 8 месяцев назад

    Mental breakdowns

  • @greysaku
    @greysaku 9 месяцев назад

    Him.....right, like women are some how in capable of being narcissists... some of the biggest narcissists I know are women...

  • @tammyadams-dc3el
    @tammyadams-dc3el Год назад

    Lol 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sinecam3606
    @sinecam3606 Год назад +2

    HOW DO YOU KNOW SO MUCH ? YOU TALK SO

  • @latishaantoine9394
    @latishaantoine9394 3 года назад +5

    I needed to hear this...thank you

  • @evelisisdavis7242
    @evelisisdavis7242 Год назад +5

    Thank you

  • @Michelle....B
    @Michelle....B Год назад

    Facts

  • @ellenringer5236
    @ellenringer5236 Год назад

    Thank you.