Ace Metaphor Talks The REAL Reason You're Single.

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  • Опубликовано: 2 дек 2024

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  • @reneen8443
    @reneen8443 5 лет назад +38

    If sermons were like this at church, I would be there everyday!

    • @princessnalalionsgate5503
      @princessnalalionsgate5503 Год назад

      SO EVERY TIME YOUR PASTOR LIES TO YOU YOU WANT TO BE PRESENT? HE LIED TO YOU THAT DAY AND NO YOU DIDN'T KNOW IT AT ALL. NO YOU ALL DON'T COME TO HIM AFTER SERVICE AND TALK TO HIM ABOUT HIS OR HER SERMONS AT ALL. YOU ALL JUST BELIEVE ALL THAT HE SPEAKS AND PREACHES MINISTER S NO THAT'S NOT A GOOD WAY TO LIVE AT ALL. EVEN THE HOLY BIBLE WRITES US TRY THE SPIRIT BY THE SPIRIT. MOTHER SAID NO DON'T BELIEVE EVERY THING YOU HEAR. YOUR PASTOR IS STRUGGLING ALL BY HIM SELF WITH THE FLOCK AT YOUR CHURCH HE NEEDS YOU ALL TO PRAY FOR HIM! HIS WIFE IS COMMITED ADULTRY AND HE DON'T HAVE ANY ONE ON HIS SIDE AT ALL AND HE'S BEEN JUST AS FAITHFULL TO HIS WIFE AND THE FLOCK. I M KEEP IT 100 YOU ALL DONT DO MENRA FOR HIM AT ALL BELIEVEING AND TRUSTING IN HIS WIFE. PLEASE STOP BECAUSE SHE IS WRONG RIGHT NOW. NO DON'T TELL HIS BIUSSNESS AT ALL.

  • @AuthorJanaeMarie
    @AuthorJanaeMarie 5 лет назад +60

    I'm actually considering going to therapy so I can work on myself and love myself more. So I can stop making the same mistakes.

    • @goldenbeauty3032
      @goldenbeauty3032 5 лет назад +2

      I feel the same way.

    • @Zee-jv1nb
      @Zee-jv1nb 5 лет назад +2

      Reading with Janae Marie I did it after being in a toxic relationship...it opened the door to realising work was toxic too. Everyone should seek therapy at some point....it takes a situation to bring change

    • @aniyacarter876
      @aniyacarter876 5 лет назад

      Me too I swear. I just wanna be the best me for my future husband and family and ik that this small period of time that I'm single compared to the future 40 years I'm going to spend with my husband is time I should work on myself

    • @vlee7217
      @vlee7217 5 лет назад

      Do it!

    • @AuthorJanaeMarie
      @AuthorJanaeMarie 5 лет назад +1

      @@Zee-jv1nb I literally can't believe I'm considering therapy after toxic relationship. I've never been so emotionally and psychologically drained just from being with this one person. I'm a complete ball of emotions. I've never been this emotionally affected by a situation. Either this person was a Narcissist. Or very detrimental to my well-being. Because I feel like I'm going crazy. LoL.

  • @denisemedina3297
    @denisemedina3297 2 года назад +4

    😊..self-esteem, self-awareness and vulnerability.

  • @Axman2024
    @Axman2024 2 года назад +12

    I was just thinking the other day how blessed I am NOT to have found the right woman ( the love of my life) because right now I would've been divorced, paying alimony & child support etc etc. Singleness is a gift...I CONCUR 💯%

    • @loyalandkindsunshine3382
      @loyalandkindsunshine3382 2 года назад +1

      So you're telling the world you know you'll be a terrible husband and father

  • @shaundresherrod2656
    @shaundresherrod2656 Год назад +1

    YOUR SO RIGHT ACE …that was me 🙌🏽🙏🏽

  • @shaundresherrod2656
    @shaundresherrod2656 6 месяцев назад +1

    GOD BLESS YOU ACE , JUST WITHOUT THE CURSING 🤬.IT REALLY HELPED ME , I NEEDED TO HEAR YOUR MESSAGE.

  • @shaundresherrod2656
    @shaundresherrod2656 6 месяцев назад +1

    YOUR SO RIGHT ACE .. ABOUT LOVING THE WRONG MAN .

  • @shaundresherrod2656
    @shaundresherrod2656 6 месяцев назад +1

    THAN YOU.. SO MUCH I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS MESSAGE SO BAD . I FELT LIKE I WAS NOT WORTHY, NOT BECOMING TO A MAN , A CURSE ALL OF THE ABOVE, ABOUT BEING SINGLE AND NOT MARRIED.

  • @sonyajohnson6394
    @sonyajohnson6394 5 лет назад +21

    This video spoke to my spirit so much I watched it twice. I've learned my self love is not where I thought it was and I have grumbled about being alone. But you are so right that God has been blocking the wrong men from me, especially since I tend to give way too much. I didn't see that before. Thank you for your words. They are really making a difference.

    • @beautifulclanton26
      @beautifulclanton26 4 года назад

      This was deep

    • @Lisa-yy7ov
      @Lisa-yy7ov 3 года назад

      Yeess this it home.

    • @nataliedavis4435
      @nataliedavis4435 3 года назад

      100

    • @princessnalalionsgate5503
      @princessnalalionsgate5503 Год назад

      NO SELF LOVE ISN'T MASTURBATING ALL DAY LONG AT ALL. NO JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARARARETH DIDN'T WANT YOU TO WATCH THE MOVIE AT ALL HE SAID NO. NO YOU COULDN'T HEAR HIM YEARS AGO AT ALL.

  • @cassandrahaas2448
    @cassandrahaas2448 3 года назад +3

    Needed this today ❣❣❣

  • @Only1QueenOfEverything
    @Only1QueenOfEverything 2 года назад +5

    Singleness is a gift! Me personally, I love GIFTS! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @latoyahewitt6384
    @latoyahewitt6384 5 лет назад +12

    Thank you!!!
    Omg! When people find out this queen is single some of them manage to after me pity!
    I've never been happier in my life.
    I learnt about who I really am, I grew to love, trust, accept myself COMOPLETELY, I discovered my worth. I know what I bring to the table, and I know what I want. I'm enjoying my authentic self. And I'm patient, My Creator knows my heart, what I want, what I have to offer and who I really am.
    Being Single is my ultimate gift, because I see the mistakes I made in the past because I didn't know who I am and I didn't know my worth.
    Thank you @Ace Metaphor.
    Keep doing what you're doing.

  • @TracieTunison
    @TracieTunison Год назад +2

    I just became aware of your shorts and now your longer videos and you are the real deal! You can make me laugh and then cry in the same video like this one. The tears are an ahha moment shedding light on what I was avoiding or in denial about all these yrs. Just realizing there’s a ding in my armor for the wrong wrong men to get in …wow! This is exactly what I needed to hear. Your rawness is refreshing and so needed. I can’t thank you enough for your wise and honest perspective as a man because us women need this!! You’re a blessing…keep up the great work…you’re changing lives and preventing a whole lot of pain if we really take to heart what you’re saying! Good soul touching stuff!! ❤

  • @elviavasquez8460
    @elviavasquez8460 5 лет назад +9

    Wowww I Felt that you were talking to me...
    that was deep..... your doing a good job...

  • @MsEllee
    @MsEllee 5 лет назад +7

    You talking about me . On and off with a crazy man child but I FINALLY got it changed my number and moved to a new apartment for a fresh start 5 months ago and just found this video ! Look at God. Im getting better day by day.. 🙏🏾

    • @akziq
      @akziq 3 года назад

      I literally went thru this same thing 5 yrs ago....as soon as I stopped dealing with the man child I had a child with.....I got a new apartment....God just opened the blessings right up

  • @shaundresherrod2656
    @shaundresherrod2656 Год назад +1

    I TOTALLY AGREE …. Makes a lot of sense, COMMON SENSE.

  • @sapphirelove314
    @sapphirelove314 5 лет назад +6

    Self love is key 🔑! Then when god blesses you it would be a bonus but always have you no matter what

  • @nicolegailliard6074
    @nicolegailliard6074 2 года назад +2

    You're very anointed

  • @ToniVoncell
    @ToniVoncell 5 лет назад +12

    God I love this man ❤️

  • @coralmccrystal4606
    @coralmccrystal4606 4 года назад +1

    This is so refreshing! I learned the wrong lessons from my parents about love. "All about them" and "No one's perfect" round about summed it up.
    I assumed they loved their children because I'm quite maternal and it seemed just natural that they would, but elsewhere Ace said "YOUR truth is not the Truth" so I'm slowly getting it and Ace is very helpful with his straight speaking videos. My emotionally abusive mother also highly disapproved of my ending my emotionally abusive marriage. It was a question of how do you deal with a narcissist? You DON'T. So that feels very validating!

  • @feleciapowell5792
    @feleciapowell5792 5 лет назад +3

    “if I’m lying .. then I’m lying “ 😂😅 you are so dope ✊🏽 I needed this pep talk

  • @anikeadegoke2112
    @anikeadegoke2112 2 года назад +1

    Singleness is a gift....WORD!

  • @amberlane1960
    @amberlane1960 5 лет назад +1

    Focus on yourself love yourself and don't settle until you find someone that can love you as much as you love yourself.

  • @palesaletseleha9382
    @palesaletseleha9382 5 лет назад +5

    Singleness is a gift!
    it was fire😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @CaliforniaGirl1
    @CaliforniaGirl1 Год назад

    This is a really good channel. I think this channel will blow up more than any other. Keep it up!

  • @angelaknox
    @angelaknox 5 лет назад +1

    Really felt you speaking to me Ace. More than any other video. Ty.

  • @maryyy_1055
    @maryyy_1055 4 года назад +5

    Some people wouldn't have to act jealous if a person you're with acted right from the start and didn't give you a reason to feel insecure about yourself, them, your relationship and other people who doesn't have anything to do with your rel. Sometimes it's not enough for them to say: hey trust me, Imma be loyal to you etc when you see them liking every picture of every idk girl they see on instagram instead of making time to message you instead. And then they say it doesn't mean anything and they just scrolling... and that's also fine...keep scrolling but don't tell me you're busy and don't have time to message me cause instead of going throught instagram you could've simply come to my dm or whatsapp and message me..ask me how I'm doing, what I'm doing, where my ass at, how was my day and other shit. I don't give a shit cause my ex thought I'm jealous or insecure since he was the one to make me feel this way in the first place. Sometimes we act all negative because of their actions not because we're generally like that. I've turned out to be possessive because of his inconsistency, ignoring, no't making time, using just words and showing different actions, his fears and insecurities he placed into our relationship and letting it affect us, and me. Of course I will feel insecure and jealous if I see him choosing everything else instead of me. Priority.

  • @GODSCREATION1025
    @GODSCREATION1025 5 лет назад +3

    Man you are going so hard, Im like he on the bible and know what he talking bout!! Keep bringing the fya content

  • @ChuBarnes9294
    @ChuBarnes9294 5 лет назад

    Our version of being ready is a very far cry from God's version of being ready. We can only note to work on what we have once encountered(our past), but God seeks to work on what we will encounter (our future). Priceless!!!

  • @tamicagle1729
    @tamicagle1729 5 лет назад +2

    AMEN ! Right ! You don't ! Real love is freedom , trust , security and respect ! I had one for 20 years , until he passed away ! He was the love of my life !
    He's been gone 14 years now , didn't move on by choice for 10 years , untill 4 years ago . A Narcissist person came covertly into my life ! No more drama for me ! I'm happy , just me and God again ! God bless !

  • @diamondunicorn2421
    @diamondunicorn2421 5 лет назад +1

    Omg! I knew I resonated with you!! Been watching your videos past few days! I grew up a Jehovah’s Witness as well. I left that mess in my mid 20’s ( I’m now 46 years young 😉) but wow! You are amazing and truthfully! Especially knowing your background and how you grew up! Continue your good work young man! 😘

  • @msmith6049
    @msmith6049 5 лет назад

    Come thru Ace! I needed to hear this. I truly forgot those scriptures. I've been focused so much on adding another person to my life instead of focusing on building & repairing my own self. This hit home. Thank you kindly Sir. #igrewupgoingtotheHalltoo 😊

  • @ZephyrStarchild
    @ZephyrStarchild 5 лет назад +1

    For me it was realizing my Father taught me that this was love. My father would force me to break up with Bfs/GFs when family members died or bad things happened. It taught me that I didn't deserve to be with anyone who treated me right and at the same time my Father would treat me like shit. He would hit me, call me names, leave me alone for hours on end to eat shitty microwave dinners while he went out on dates and ate steak dinners. I was taught I was a burden and that I would be lucky LUCKY to be loved by anybody and because of that I had to deal with two narcs. I'm in therapy now to better and heal myself because I realized due to a wonderful kind friend who loves me ( but I'm making him wait ) that I deserve so much more and I am a queen.

  • @socojaleesa
    @socojaleesa 4 года назад

    Thank you. I am forever thankful to you for coming at the right time in my life. I need these messages

  • @Laatahsaan
    @Laatahsaan 4 года назад +2

    “If you are grateful, I will surely increase you in favor.” [Qur’an: Chapter 14, Verse 7]

  • @CakeFaceDoll
    @CakeFaceDoll 5 лет назад +2

    Love you ace ! I’m always tuning into ur videos!!! Thanks for doing what u do sir ‘

  • @2remyred
    @2remyred 5 лет назад +1

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thank you this resonated with me as a whole from the beginning to the end....blessings..this video on repeat when I start to feel off my square

  • @1WomenScorned
    @1WomenScorned Год назад +1

    i care what you got to say in the beginning, we will get to the questions

  • @krishnabooker4555
    @krishnabooker4555 Год назад

    Hi Ace, I just came across this message/video, and everything you're talking about is true. I'm working on self and letting GOD guide me on my path. Be blessed and take care of yourself, and continue sending LOVE ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 💘

  • @nieshaqueen129
    @nieshaqueen129 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you for this message it came right on time!

  • @ericawhite9430
    @ericawhite9430 Год назад

    Singleness is a blessing, you can focus on making yourself better and be your own best friend, and loving yourself, as long as you have family and great friends and Jesus, you're never alone,plus you can take up a hobby or start a business or,go to college, embetterment is cool❤❤

  • @Lovelylady77
    @Lovelylady77 5 лет назад +1

    Wonderful, wonderful advice!!!❤

  • @dawnspage5091
    @dawnspage5091 4 года назад

    I needed more of ur straight talking today.Thanks Ace x

  • @sykessandra5
    @sykessandra5 2 года назад

    I love you Ace!! Awesome message. Thank you!!

  • @evelisisdavis7242
    @evelisisdavis7242 Год назад +3

    Amen

  • @amsarekhaanbalagan5598
    @amsarekhaanbalagan5598 4 года назад

    Great advice Ace!

  • @ChuBarnes9294
    @ChuBarnes9294 5 лет назад

    This is some major priceless information...thanks Ace!!!!!

  • @anjelica826
    @anjelica826 5 лет назад +1

    I love you Ace! Everything you are saying is so true

  • @luchellycontreras7176
    @luchellycontreras7176 4 года назад

    I’ve been listening to you for a while through IG and I’ve always enjoyed the way you break things down. I loved the way you also break down the Bible verses you would quote. I also grew up JW! Love this pod cast

  • @chishanakazwe8925
    @chishanakazwe8925 4 года назад

    Man you be speaking the truths

  • @mariehenderson5125
    @mariehenderson5125 Год назад

    We love you, so real!!!!

  • @michellecarrington6
    @michellecarrington6 3 года назад

    God bless you for sharing such wisdom and knowledge!!

  • @natashabrickhouse6684
    @natashabrickhouse6684 5 лет назад

    I grew up as a witness too and yes we was always at the Hall. My dad was an Elder. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I love your videos.

    • @valariecarter3859
      @valariecarter3859 4 года назад

      Wait what Ace you was a JW??? Me to 5yrs out! It's so hard to find someone to date because of what was instilled in my childhood.... still feel like I'm yrs behind from being held back from the real world.

  • @trutalk12
    @trutalk12 5 лет назад

    Ace. Why did I never think of you having a you tube channel. Omg. How can you come back to Houston to do another show. I missed it. Your lessons are so amazing, you're a different type of speaker in a great way!!!!! Keep these lessons coming

  • @tiffanyfelicien5862
    @tiffanyfelicien5862 5 лет назад

    Am with you ace 100%

  • @Laatahsaan
    @Laatahsaan 4 года назад +1

    And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.” [Qur’an: Chapter 30, Verse 21]

  • @roshyoutube4856
    @roshyoutube4856 2 года назад +1

    I agree with a lot of this

  • @sapphirelove314
    @sapphirelove314 5 лет назад +3

    King, thank you for those words cause it’s 100% facts. I prefer to be single and be happy and when it’s time god will show me

  • @beautifulclanton26
    @beautifulclanton26 4 года назад

    Whewwwwwwwww...this blocking ..I needed that

  • @gennoh28
    @gennoh28 5 лет назад +1

    Hey Ace, good work. Please advise how to work on my heart. Don't even know where or how to start!

  • @LifeCoachValche2911
    @LifeCoachValche2911 Год назад

    I have been gifted by Jesus Christ the gift of being single. I'm so thankful and I can just focus on my the lord and God, my purpose, wholeness and happiness through the spiritual healing I'm enjoying. I'll thank you God everyday. Until then repel all the unnecessary attempts people make to distract me. Amen. 🙏🏾😇

  • @simonewoodberry5053
    @simonewoodberry5053 5 лет назад

    Thanks Ace , love you!

  • @Beboutit365
    @Beboutit365 3 месяца назад

    Wow!! U had a good foundation u never forgot!!

  • @adriennelarkin8188
    @adriennelarkin8188 Год назад

    Hello Ace Metaphor, You are Too Funny Making me Laugh but you Tells The Truth!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @watchmenchristianfellowshi9821
    @watchmenchristianfellowshi9821 4 года назад

    I subscribed to this channel before I watched ur video. Lol. Ace metaphor is a servant of God.

  • @nickilove
    @nickilove 5 лет назад

    You just happen to pop up in my feed, so I clicked to hear your thoughts....must've needed to hear this...so Thank you (I'm subscribed).....and OH....@28:52 I didnt appreciate you looking at me like that either...putting me on front street!!! lol

  • @ambertierra82
    @ambertierra82 Год назад

    ❤ you're officially my big brother. Adopted. Periodt.

  • @bridgettebianca2318
    @bridgettebianca2318 5 лет назад

    You are awesome 🤗..I love your spirit, energy and character...my 👑King👑 and I must share positive energy and loving, influential qualities...Choosing singleness until I meet my equal soul..#KingdomVision

  • @palesaletseleha9382
    @palesaletseleha9382 5 лет назад

    Thank you Ace ♥️

  • @utpalakaranth
    @utpalakaranth 4 года назад

    You are really good in knowing what god wants for us 🙂

  • @erikawhite6241
    @erikawhite6241 5 лет назад

    Great content ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Julia-kk4jf
    @Julia-kk4jf 4 года назад

    Woooowww talking bout the talents I’m in complete tears God just revealed something to me I’ve been single for everrrr yes I’ve had sexual relationships but nobody wants to keep me

  • @trutalk12
    @trutalk12 5 лет назад +2

    Are these the same lessons on Facebook because I'm not on Facebook like that?!?! Can we get all the lessons here on this platform please

  • @ConversationsWithMsAnonyMs
    @ConversationsWithMsAnonyMs 3 года назад

    Me too Ace......lol. I cuss to much but God is using me too.

  • @laneprince3443
    @laneprince3443 3 года назад

    Yes, fam! I wasted so many years of my life on men that weren’t meant to be in my life!

  • @cadygrubb5086
    @cadygrubb5086 5 лет назад +2

    "Your state of singleness is only enhanced by marriage".

  • @loyalandkindsunshine3382
    @loyalandkindsunshine3382 2 года назад

    I left my daughters dad because he surrounds himself around jealous family members. I knew his sister was jealous of me and she poisoned him, turned him against me I had to move on get a roof over my daughters head and that made them worse because he's at the same place I left him.

  • @tyishafuller2769
    @tyishafuller2769 5 лет назад +1

    Understood💯

  • @dawnspage5091
    @dawnspage5091 4 года назад

    I need this video.

  • @DunnessaAlston
    @DunnessaAlston 7 месяцев назад

    That good question

  • @nataliedavis4435
    @nataliedavis4435 3 года назад

    Yessssssss fire!!!!!

  • @glittersparkle5148
    @glittersparkle5148 4 года назад

    lol lol lol he is explaining truth. i love his channel and using his advise. no build a bae.
    i am gonna wait.
    chicago,il

  • @evelisisdavis7242
    @evelisisdavis7242 3 года назад +1

    Amen!!!!!!!!!!

  • @jujununya9182
    @jujununya9182 5 лет назад

    Dang I'm looking for an Ace in my life!

  • @jujununya9182
    @jujununya9182 5 лет назад

    YES!!! For the bible verses!!!

  • @Fleefromsin
    @Fleefromsin 3 года назад

    Brothers and Sisters,
    don't be satisfied with where you are spiritually. We all can do something to improve our relationship with the Lord.
    We can do more praying, or studying, or just get rid of that certain thing that's slowing you down from having a more complete relationship with your Lord.
    You have to be determined to get as close as you can to God Almighty. When we are content with where we are, sometimes there is a tendency to get a little lazy, and not worship God like we use to do. So I'm asking all of you to do the very best that you can to improve your relationship with the Lord.
    I'm praying that God will continue to bless you all.
    ✍🏽Blanche Munia

  • @sandradiaz2202
    @sandradiaz2202 4 года назад

    Wise man

  • @lizhagaman8442
    @lizhagaman8442 3 года назад

    Just found ya...Love ya!

  • @carrieerickson6659
    @carrieerickson6659 Год назад

    I just ended a relationship that involved a man who had a very controlling and dominating nature. He was constantly having money problems (which i continually solved) and was angry most of the time. I felt unheard and unseen. He seemed to behave like a mid spectrum covert narcissist. I told him i wasn't willing to continue to pour into someone who wasnt willing to pour back into me. I feel better already. Thanks for this podcast.

  • @bonitafrye1554
    @bonitafrye1554 5 лет назад

    My give I'm a powerful strong black⚫ woman👩

  • @jujununya9182
    @jujununya9182 5 лет назад +1

    OH LAWD 8:24-9:47 was for me!!!! 😔😥

  • @DunnessaAlston
    @DunnessaAlston 7 месяцев назад

    True fact,

  • @geebro9737
    @geebro9737 4 года назад +1

    I wasted 25 yrs of my life loving the wrong person ..... TOXIC

  • @shaundresherrod2656
    @shaundresherrod2656 Год назад

    AMEN 🙌🏽🙏🏽

  • @cynthiawalker918
    @cynthiawalker918 4 года назад

    Don't need that Ace no way

  • @TheDeetrini
    @TheDeetrini 5 лет назад

    Facts...amen

  • @evelisisdavis7242
    @evelisisdavis7242 3 года назад +1

    Amen ! Lol 😆!!! Yessss

  • @cashroutemuzik
    @cashroutemuzik 5 лет назад

    U pick your poison and choose who u willing to sacrifice certain shit with... the grass isnt always greener and sometimes u gotta put in a lil more wrk with one than others. U never knw who's right or wrong. If shit was this cut and paste everybody would be married wnd those who been married for years wouldnt have been through more than those who just jump ship. U still gotta work thru shit regardless. I feel it tho to each their own🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @OlderWomenRock
    @OlderWomenRock 5 лет назад

    Oh this is good . How do I deal with a pervert ? Yes I tried ...ok it was a new experience , mind blowing to say the least . Not going to attempt that again . Yes everybody looks, there is a line can be crossed . Cheers

  • @sierrahickland1009
    @sierrahickland1009 5 лет назад

    Period ❤️💯