@@MrLungaho yes. It’s a very important topic that we will dive into more..I think that one needs its own episode actually 😭😂 but thank you for your feedback.. please make sure to subscribe 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Another banger! Such an enjoyable Sunday watch. You guys are a cool duo & this conversation is very interesting, keep it up with the open topics & throwback conversation. 🙏🏾💯
it is not about friendly or authoritative but me as a person almost your agemate am unable to open up to my mother like i feel she does not know me well not that i do bad things. i struggle in relationships right left and centre but cannot open up koz she has not given me that room. But anyway thank you so much for the show i have learnt alot.
@@hadassahayierah6342 hi my love. I hear you. Are you scared of her judgment? Or maybe just maybe, are you yet to accept yourself fully? That you are a work in progress that also needs love and gentleness. Sometimes when we’re not sure of who we are we don’t know who to present to other people..it’s like we’re walking on eggshells. I might be wrong here but what you’re asking for is not crazy. It’s just love and understand and connection. The first thing I did was to understand who I am and I what I need.. love, connection understanding and just saying that I need these things to my mum really changed alot of things. But she told me. First I have to love myself. Thank you so much for watching and please keep coming back and let me know if what I’m saying makes sense 💕💕
@@graceA403 I really wish I could hug you guys. When my mum when no contact with me for 3 months I almost died 😭 so I know it must be hard to not feel seen or heard by the person you need the most. I honestly wish I could fix it for you guys.🙏🏾🙏🏾 have you tried again??
Weee at his rate I think we need to form a group and adult up... Mine I can't even tell her Niko na bf at 30+... And since I grew up experiencing GBV from a tender age... Small things trigger me... Am afraid of loving wrongly...... Thus I have decided to make a career out of it
Yes Gilda I’m that girl you’re referring to lol😅 Now after watching this second episode I feel like I now need therapy like for real real 😂 Because as I had said I wish I could get a chance to have such conversations with my mother but she’s no more. But now my relative let’s name her Y who like took care of me from High School when I was 14 in form one until now I’m 27 done with school is sooo strict and that makes it so difficult to have the conversation with her. Also have been always careful and have always taken care of myself but I feel like she always expects me to be perfect which I’m not and that has even hindered me from sharing with her somethings that I should’ve in real sense. Also she’s so judgmental 😢 And now I don’t even feel that significance of telling her about my relationship because she’s always want things her way-forgetting that I’m the one in this relationship and I’m the one going to be married to this guy one day; she is even judgmental to my bf and she hasn’t met him as yet; can you imagine? Have been thinking about it and thinking of just shutting off and not be saying anything about my relationship but also my bf is someone who values family and even me I would like him and my Y to have a relationship because she’s the one who’s now like “my mother.” Sometimes I really get pissed off but I don’t wanna hurt her because she has been hurt by people she has helped before and I don’t want to be one of those people BUT also I’m not going to jeopardize my relationship for her sake! That one I will not do. Anyways as always very informative conversation Gilda and your mom- you two looks so beautiful and lovely as usual ❤love you all❤️❤️❤️
@@marygoretyawino326 hi hunnn..I’m so happy to see you back.. I completely get you. Some people are just negative and judgmental no matter how hard you try..it’s so tricky to deal with those kinds of people.. yes I think she wants the best for you because she has the responsibility after you lost your mum so she you on a pedestal because of the pressure she has of your responsibility and maybe something happened to her that’s why she’s like that. I think she means well and. It’s that thing my mum said where she wishes she could live my life for me 🤣 because she would do it her way but she has to know that your way is okay. Trust me I also have a therapist myself 😂😂
@@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446Absolutely I did set up my notification button specifically for this!!! And yes so delighted to see you bring more episodes like these and can’t wait for more. I completely agree with you- she always wants the best for me; but also we’re human beings we should be allowed to be ourselves and make our own decisions at some point in life because how are we going to learn if all our decisions are made based on a second party’s opinion? Makes you feel like you’re walking on eggshells; I mean it’s not a must we make mistakes but sometimes we should be allowed to make these mistakes so we learn from them. But anyways I can just imagine if I could hear someone telling me that you can share with me anything the way your mom did; but since I never did; it’ll be my responsibility to say that to my children. I used to say to myself that I’ll be a strict parent but having gone through strict parenting myself; it made me change my mind in how I’ll raise my children. We can’t wait for more convos Gilda and mom ❤❤❤
Sasa niko hapa to follow up with all the uploads where have i been 💔? have learnt alot now I'm ready to have an open talk with my mum nd moreso with my gal she's now turning 7 i want to b her best friend
Hi my love… awwww thank you I’m so glad you’re here…and my goal was to make us have these open conversations with our mothers normal so I’m glad to hear that you want to do the same and I know your baby girl with appreciate how open you are with her. Thank you so much for watching we are gonna be back soon
@@graceA403 it has taken us a long time to reach where we are today..believe me girrrllll 😂😂 I hope it does happen for you tho 💕 but if not keep tuning in we love you over here ♥️♥️
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And Essy your baby gal is so cute, eloquent and not shying off from telling it as it is.The bit of blocking 😂😂😂has made me know I am not alone!
Thank you. It's important when they understand it's normal 😅😅😅
@@eunicenjeru215 thank you Eunice 💕💕 my mum will block anyone even if it’s mee 😂😂 I’ve been there
Now I have something to watch on RUclips, please keep the videos coming.
@@oliviahtawarar2454 thank you so much Olivia 💕💕and welcome to our little community ♥️ hope you’ve subscribed 😀
Warm conversation, made me have some sweet memories. Like what transpired after you guys jumped from the tree😂😂.
@@paulinenthenya7091 Wueh I was beaten 😂😂😂
@@paulinenthenya7091 you know mum😂😂
I can listen to their conversation the entire day, the maturity, the flow, yooooh keep going ghurl❤❤❤❤
@@DencyDee awww. This means so much to me💕💕… thank you thank you.🙏🏾 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Candid, free flowing discussion especially regarding struggles with mental health. Keep going, great job!
@@MrLungaho yes. It’s a very important topic that we will dive into more..I think that one needs its own episode actually 😭😂 but thank you for your feedback.. please make sure to subscribe 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I just love this ... Esther musila and her daughter this is great 👌
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New subscriber here...I love looove this. The bond is great and it's educative. Go gal❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. You and mama look beautiful. She's a cool mum indeed..
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Your set is awesome, warm inviting, sunny, glowing... Your standards are epic🎉🎉🎉
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Learning alot on how to bring up my girls who are in their teen age
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Good conversation girls 🎉much love ❤❤
@@AngelStasy-uy2bs much love to you too hun ♥️♥️
Wow,I don't know how i came across this channel, but good Lord,it's amazing. Being a mum to a teen daughter I've learnt a lot.
@@wangowalydia2128 haha😂 we’re so happy you found us ♥️ we only just started but I’m so thankful that you found us 🥰
Another banger! Such an enjoyable Sunday watch. You guys are a cool duo & this conversation is very interesting, keep it up with the open topics & throwback conversation. 🙏🏾💯
@@imannkigen331 thank youuuu
The bond is unbreakable ❤❤❤❤
@@brendawanyonyi9377 it really is. Thank you for watching 💕
I love it!
@@Lydwild205 I’m glad you go 😅💕
Am loving the conversations ❤
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I love the conversation i wished i had the same with my mum but she will tell me im not your age mate madam
@@josephinestephanie6859 awww… I know.. try slowly slowly 🙏🏾
What an awesome conversation.
@@wangarirose7212 thank you hun 💕💕 keep coming back I hope you’ve subscribed?? 😃😃
Keep it up Gilda and mama Gilda.....episode2 ❤❤
@@wamsufitness3217 aww thank you hun.. welcome back😀😀. Please subscribe 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Good conversations
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Love the conversation.
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The intro is 🔥🔥
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Anyone who has been an immigrant in South Afruca and survived can survive anywhere else in the world.SA is tough for immigrants.Kudos Gilda❤
@@eunicenjeru215 I was there for 6 years.. hardest time of my life. You’re right it’s war everyday 😂😂
Wow, so encouraging indeed keep it up gal and mom. Much love ❤️
@@youngfortuneofficial thank you mama 💕
This was so therapeutic
@@carolotolo7490 wow. What a compliment ♥️ thank you so much carol 💕🙏🏾
it is not about friendly or authoritative but me as a person almost your agemate am unable to open up to my mother like i feel she does not know me well not that i do bad things. i struggle in relationships right left and centre but cannot open up koz she has not given me that room. But anyway thank you so much for the show i have learnt alot.
You are not alone dear
@@hadassahayierah6342 hi my love. I hear you. Are you scared of her judgment? Or maybe just maybe, are you yet to accept yourself fully? That you are a work in progress that also needs love and gentleness. Sometimes when we’re not sure of who we are we don’t know who to present to other people..it’s like we’re walking on eggshells. I might be wrong here but what you’re asking for is not crazy. It’s just love and understand and connection. The first thing I did was to understand who I am and I what I need.. love, connection understanding and just saying that I need these things to my mum really changed alot of things. But she told me. First I have to love myself. Thank you so much for watching and please keep coming back and let me know if what I’m saying makes sense 💕💕
@@graceA403 I really wish I could hug you guys. When my mum when no contact with me for 3 months I almost died 😭 so I know it must be hard to not feel seen or heard by the person you need the most. I honestly wish I could fix it for you guys.🙏🏾🙏🏾 have you tried again??
Weee at his rate I think we need to form a group and adult up... Mine I can't even tell her Niko na bf at 30+... And since I grew up experiencing GBV from a tender age... Small things trigger me... Am afraid of loving wrongly...... Thus I have decided to make a career out of it
Was that xhikd that wd just go tell her regardless and she wd look at me in disbelief
Interesting I love it, new subscriber
@@BossMum37 ahh that just made me soooo happy !!! 🥹🥹Thank you Boss mum.♥️♥️♥️ welcome
@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446 thank you, will be here to support you gal
Yes Gilda I’m that girl you’re referring to lol😅
Now after watching this second episode I feel like I now need therapy like for real real 😂
Because as I had said I wish I could get a chance to have such conversations with my mother but she’s no more. But now my relative let’s name her Y who like took care of me from High School when I was 14 in form one until now I’m 27 done with school is sooo strict and that makes it so difficult to have the conversation with her. Also have been always careful and have always taken care of myself but I feel like she always expects me to be perfect which I’m not and that has even hindered me from sharing with her somethings that I should’ve in real sense. Also she’s so judgmental 😢
And now I don’t even feel that significance of telling her about my relationship because she’s always want things her way-forgetting that I’m the one in this relationship and I’m the one going to be married to this guy one day; she is even judgmental to my bf and she hasn’t met him as yet; can you imagine? Have been thinking about it and thinking of just shutting off and not be saying anything about my relationship but also my bf is someone who values family and even me I would like him and my Y to have a relationship because she’s the one who’s now like “my mother.” Sometimes I really get pissed off but I don’t wanna hurt her because she has been hurt by people she has helped before and I don’t want to be one of those people BUT also I’m not going to jeopardize my relationship for her sake! That one I will not do.
Anyways as always very informative conversation Gilda and your mom- you two looks so beautiful and lovely as usual ❤love you all❤️❤️❤️
@@marygoretyawino326 hi hunnn..I’m so happy to see you back.. I completely get you. Some people are just negative and judgmental no matter how hard you try..it’s so tricky to deal with those kinds of people.. yes I think she wants the best for you because she has the responsibility after you lost your mum so she you on a pedestal because of the pressure she has of your responsibility and maybe something happened to her that’s why she’s like that. I think she means well and. It’s that thing my mum said where she wishes she could live my life for me 🤣 because she would do it her way but she has to know that your way is okay. Trust me I also have a therapist myself 😂😂
@@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446Absolutely I did set up my notification button specifically for this!!! And yes so delighted to see you bring more episodes like these and can’t wait for more. I completely agree with you- she always wants the best for me; but also we’re human beings we should be allowed to be ourselves and make our own decisions at some point in life because how are we going to learn if all our decisions are made based on a second party’s opinion? Makes you feel like you’re walking on eggshells; I mean it’s not a must we make mistakes but sometimes we should be allowed to make these mistakes so we learn from them. But anyways I can just imagine if I could hear someone telling me that you can share with me anything the way your mom did; but since I never did; it’ll be my responsibility to say that to my children. I used to say to myself that I’ll be a strict parent but having gone through strict parenting myself; it made me change my mind in how I’ll raise my children.
We can’t wait for more convos Gilda and mom ❤❤❤
I love the conservation ❤ much love girl❤❤❤ team kupitiana pitieni kwangu tugrow pamoja
@@LydiaKevoi thank you hun ..lemme follow your page😘😘
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Excellent girls
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@@djblue_ke hey mama.. I see you tooo. 😘😘 nice work 💕💕
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Sasa niko hapa to follow up with all the uploads where have i been 💔? have learnt alot now I'm ready to have an open talk with my mum nd moreso with my gal she's now turning 7 i want to b her best friend
Hi my love… awwww thank you I’m so glad you’re here…and my goal was to make us have these open conversations with our mothers normal so I’m glad to hear that you want to do the same and I know your baby girl with appreciate how open you are with her. Thank you so much for watching we are gonna be back soon
Aki iwish we were friends with my mum like this
@@graceA403 it has taken us a long time to reach where we are today..believe me girrrllll 😂😂 I hope it does happen for you tho 💕 but if not keep tuning in we love you over here ♥️♥️