MUM at 30 vs ME at 30 ( DEAR MAMA BY GILDA NAIBEI )

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  • Опубликовано: 14 янв 2025

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  • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
    @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +55

    DEAR MAMA EP 1 DROP A LOVE EMOJI

    • @kakisap
      @kakisap 2 месяца назад +3

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @AsdSd-pn2rh
      @AsdSd-pn2rh 2 месяца назад

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @funkejames7482
      @funkejames7482 2 месяца назад +3

      17 i was pregnant .....take your time dear ....i never enjoy my childhood...because i was young mum knowing nothing...my son is 19 and am not planing for another child

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +1

      @@funkejames7482 I hear you. I think one is a good number for the times we’re in ❤️ you have the rest of your life to enjoy. The best thing with having a mum who was young is that we got to be friends as well ❤️

    • @FaithWanjiku-z4j
      @FaithWanjiku-z4j Месяц назад

      Hi gilda i know that no parent hates their child but you have to realise that there is passed on trauma and i dont think it si fair on how this mother is treating the child yes there are healthy mother daughter relations but you have to realise its not always the childs fault . i truly dont get why the mother would compress the childs emotions even though situation the mother should be reasonable and raise a child who has a healthy self esteem not apologising to the boyfriend and poke her head she should be atleast supportive at times how you guys responde to this was kinda leaning on the parents side wat about the child who was made fun of and raised herself

  • @esthermusila1970
    @esthermusila1970 2 месяца назад +45

    This was a good conversation. Can't wait for more episodes

  • @serahmwaura6781
    @serahmwaura6781 2 месяца назад +10

    Waoh! Interesting conversation mummy n daughter

  • @mercychepngenoh4029
    @mercychepngenoh4029 2 месяца назад +13

    Sometimes being surrounded by negativity can really have a huge impact. I grew up with people that constantly commented negatively on my weight and it really affected my esteem. I finally met a partner that constantly assures me and complements me and I feel like a heavy burden has been lifted off my shoulders. I am still going through therapy to forgive the trauma that all the negativity caused to try and forgive them but it's hard.

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +1

      @@mercychepngenoh4029 it sucks that we enter adulthood having to heal from our childhood and no one ever tells you that. If you’re lucky you figure it out on your own and do the work. If not you repeat the cycle. I feel like our generation is the generation that will break the cycle. And that means more work. You just need one person in your corner and I’m so glad you have that in your partner. That’s a blessing because as ladies we know most men are horrible. So don’t stop pouring love into yourself your very worthy of that love ❤️

    • @carolinenerima9023
      @carolinenerima9023 Месяц назад

      Pride,you are suffering from pride, pray for deliverance,then you won't hurt anymore, ppl hurt us severely, very close people,but its all for our own growth

    • @carolinenerima9023
      @carolinenerima9023 Месяц назад

      Dear girl,you need to be delivered from the curses of your mother, getting pregnant while at parents home, marrying the wrong people,you must break away from that and look unto God for directions

  • @ruthnyamisi8476
    @ruthnyamisi8476 2 месяца назад +3

    Thanks, Gilda & Esther for the insight...This generation needs such.

  • @gladysglado7074
    @gladysglado7074 Месяц назад +4

    Thanks have liked it very inspiring episode new member

  • @DencyDee
    @DencyDee 2 месяца назад +9

    This girl is very respectful,she was raised well❤need more of this ❤❤❤

  • @peninahcher3130
    @peninahcher3130 Месяц назад +2

    This is beautiful! Great lessons ❤

  • @swtlady499
    @swtlady499 Месяц назад +1

    This poped while scrolling 🥰🥰🥰 i love this conversation... Esther my role model..you got a new subscriber babygirl 😘

  • @Glowreeyah29
    @Glowreeyah29 2 месяца назад +4

    Such a beautiful conversation. Loved watching every bit of it. Thank you Gilda. Much love from 🇺🇬

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +1

      Oh wow. Thank you 😍 much love to Uganda and much love to you ❤❤ I really appreciate you 💕

  • @mims36
    @mims36 2 месяца назад +14

    I kept saying "Exactly!" To all your points Gilda 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 such an informative discussion from both mom and daughter. I've learned alot.

  • @Allhairbymercy
    @Allhairbymercy 2 месяца назад +7

    Thank you for sharing your story especially when you said you sacrificed your career to be a stay at home mum ❤❤

    • @martharinebiseko1457
      @martharinebiseko1457 2 месяца назад +1

      I too hv sacrificed since 2012....my last is 11yrs now.

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  Месяц назад

      @@martharinebiseko1457wow you are good people. I know that is a huge sacrifice. I hope your children realize how big that is ❤

  • @ronnahwandera6679
    @ronnahwandera6679 2 месяца назад +16

    Mama you are 54?? Wow!! 54 looks phenomenal on you!! Who else here is pleasantly surprised by her age? Mama you have done great taking care of yourself. Please share mama’s health lifestyle.

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +3

      @@ronnahwandera6679 she really looks great. She loves herself and takes care of herself and doesn’t like stress. She does Rhumba and drinks a lot of water and most important she really minds her own business and enjoys life to the fullest. From my observation that’s what I think it is ❤️

    • @esthermusila1970
      @esthermusila1970 2 месяца назад

      You got that right 👏🏻👏🏻

    • @martharinebiseko1457
      @martharinebiseko1457 2 месяца назад

      She is about positive vibes. I love her. Has inspired me bigtime

    • @faithmwaili3240
      @faithmwaili3240 2 месяца назад

      ​@@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446she loves God

    • @faithmwaili3240
      @faithmwaili3240 2 месяца назад

      ​@@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446she is real

  • @summerrose8439
    @summerrose8439 2 месяца назад +2

    Esther what a wonderful woman of God. Gilda baby girl congratulations.

  • @victoriamurugi6758
    @victoriamurugi6758 Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful conversation

  • @irenekawiraithanya6507
    @irenekawiraithanya6507 Месяц назад +1

    What a nice conversation ,,keep up girl

  • @roxysunshine641
    @roxysunshine641 2 месяца назад +3

    Lovely mother daughter convo❤

  • @youngfortuneofficial
    @youngfortuneofficial 2 месяца назад +3

    Woow 😍 This is so educative 👏🏾👏🏾
    Need more of these mammah❤ as we wait to arrive there😊

  • @lydianyambura3118
    @lydianyambura3118 2 месяца назад +3

    I really feel you girl. Most of the points you are making, it's like you were asking them for me.

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад

      @@lydianyambura3118 thank you!! I’m noticing that a lot of other women can relate which feels good to know I’m not alone. We can make it a safe space for us ❤️

    • @swiftright3059
      @swiftright3059 2 месяца назад

      I feel the same too

  • @lizwatakashow
    @lizwatakashow Месяц назад +2

    Good job Gilda......@esther I love the way you respond❤ tuned in for more episodes

  • @miriambogeta272
    @miriambogeta272 Месяц назад +2

    Here I am have already watched episode 2,, waiting for episode 3😊😊

  • @marymackori-wd3hz
    @marymackori-wd3hz 2 месяца назад +5

    I love this conversation. I just quit my 8 to 5 to be a Stay at home mom...and I couldn't have it any other way. I appreciate my husband for having to take up all the bills as i stay home and raise Our baby. No regrets. Bring esther again.

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +1

      @@marymackori-wd3hz see, this is what I want. And thank you for sharing that it is achievable in this day and age. Having a supportive husband is key. I’m sure it allows you to be a more present mother and I love that for you 💕 my mum will be on all the episodes. 😀😀 it’s something we’re doing together to talk about our life ❤️

  • @lorineodawa4005
    @lorineodawa4005 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks so much for the wonderful conversation, i have learnt a lot and looking forward for more ,as a person who grew up without a mother ,this will help in the near future.

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +1

      @@lorineodawa4005 thank you so much for watching. When I thought about starting this podcast I really had you in mind. I thought how tough it must’ve been to do this life without a mother and sometimes you just wanna what your mother would say or how you would interact so thank you for tuning in and you are always welcome back I’m so happy you’re here ❤️

  • @janekairu3768
    @janekairu3768 2 месяца назад +3

    Very educative 💯

  • @annmwongeli2486
    @annmwongeli2486 2 месяца назад +3

    Very good conversation. well done Gilda

  • @wamsufitness3217
    @wamsufitness3217 2 месяца назад +7

    Wow wow wooow!!!!!
    Good job Gilda...mom daughter episode....
    Good job mama G for supporting your daughter ❤
    I'm inspired by this keep it up 🎉❤

  • @peninahcher3130
    @peninahcher3130 Месяц назад +6

    From that short story of mother and daughter, the mistake that the mum did was comparing her with others and having greater expectations! We should never compare kids to their friends, cousins etc.

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  Месяц назад

      Yes.. that comparison thing is painful.. it puts the idea on their head that you prefer to have someone else as your child.. that’s when insecurities about not being good enough start to form

  • @mwangiloise7164
    @mwangiloise7164 2 месяца назад +4

    Exactly,,,most young people live in the future and with so much fear,, negative expectations, negative projections and so much pessimism,, i bet we don't really see ourselves aging well!!!

  • @evamacharia7348
    @evamacharia7348 2 месяца назад +2

    Such an open convo.
    I love it🥰🥰
    Keep up.

  • @corazonejane2596
    @corazonejane2596 2 месяца назад +3

    i love this Amazing mum and daughter i have learnt alot woooooow bless you😍😍

  • @moureenmbira9461
    @moureenmbira9461 2 месяца назад +1

    I love her thoughts

  • @officialjourneywithsarahk
    @officialjourneywithsarahk Месяц назад +1

    Nice conversation, i have change the way of thinking 😮thsnks for hosting your mum

  • @janecasey5177
    @janecasey5177 2 месяца назад +3

    ❤ beautiful mom daughter conversations.

  • @elizabethnzioki7627
    @elizabethnzioki7627 Месяц назад +1

    Good conversations ❤❤❤

  • @winfredmuendi9839
    @winfredmuendi9839 2 месяца назад +4

    Wow 😅😅😍 such a sweet video

  • @jacquelinemuthoni366
    @jacquelinemuthoni366 2 месяца назад +2

    I love how this family relates❤❤❤

  • @Waenifmbwika
    @Waenifmbwika Месяц назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤we want more of this

  • @chepkoriragnes2784
    @chepkoriragnes2784 Месяц назад +1

    Very educative and interesting conversation ❤

  • @Daniellagat-js5lt
    @Daniellagat-js5lt 2 месяца назад +2

    Great and candid conversation, congratulations Esther 👏👏 you have done a great job trough this girl life ❤

  • @puritynelima5616
    @puritynelima5616 2 месяца назад +2

    This is so great Gilda 👏👏

  • @kakisap
    @kakisap 2 месяца назад +3

    Wow,,,,,nice talks 😊,,,, waiting for more 🎉

  • @celestinebabu68
    @celestinebabu68 2 месяца назад +3

    good vibe indeed

  • @rickiejohn9251
    @rickiejohn9251 2 месяца назад +2

    Very true, Esther. we did not look hard enough ,we followed the flow.

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад

      @@rickiejohn9251 I’ve seen that following the flow has not been a bad decision for my mum im just scared that for me kitaniramba 😂

  • @faithkarimi3904
    @faithkarimi3904 2 месяца назад +2

    Waow mum and dota... good conversation 🎉🎉

  • @DEE_AMUNGA
    @DEE_AMUNGA 2 месяца назад +3

    Love the conversation....do more of this

  • @zippyvaati1450
    @zippyvaati1450 2 месяца назад +2

    I Love Gilda

  • @estherndunge4696
    @estherndunge4696 2 месяца назад +2

    So proud of Esther and the daughter.

  • @rosejaypy7846
    @rosejaypy7846 2 месяца назад

    Am loving this

  • @EuniceAnyangu
    @EuniceAnyangu 2 месяца назад +1

    This is nice conversation, have learned something be blessed

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад

      @@EuniceAnyangu thanks Eunice I really appreciate that! Keep coming back you’re welcome here 💕💕

  • @charlesmarando4520
    @charlesmarando4520 2 месяца назад +9

    Doing well, Gilda. Occasionally you're interrupting before mum finishes. Listen more and interject where and when necessary, gal. Keep up as you grow in the same.
    More grace

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +3

      @@charlesmarando4520 thank you so much for your feedback. Im not doing it intentionally. My mum knows the way I communicate. When I have a thought sometimes it’s hard for me to not say it then and there or I lose it. I’m chaotic because my mind runs a mile a minute.but with her I’m free to have faults around her.
      That’s the beauty of having a parent that accepts what others would deem “flaws”.The reason why people cant talk openly to their parents is because barriers and boundaries are put up. You have to approach them in a certain way or a “right” way. When I talk to my mum she lets me be myself and she listens. The last thing I would ever be is disrespectful to my mother. In the description you will see I said I’m not perfect and I’m not trying to be. I’m understood and accepted and I’m being my authentic self. We don’t judge in girl talk 😄

    • @charlesmarando4520
      @charlesmarando4520 2 месяца назад

      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446 I get it. It is well. Keep winning.

  • @kelenetsimzheri4951
    @kelenetsimzheri4951 Месяц назад +2

    New subscriber fron Guardian Angel

  • @doughtykola7188
    @doughtykola7188 2 месяца назад +3

    Nice topic

  • @marykitemeoloo6033
    @marykitemeoloo6033 2 месяца назад +1

    I love your bonding ❤

  • @EliananJenny
    @EliananJenny Месяц назад +5

    Shida ya watoto wadosi,ati at 30 you think you are still a child weuh okay
    Much love❤

  • @shelmithmuthoni3841
    @shelmithmuthoni3841 Месяц назад +2

    Am 32 had my 3kids by 30 i work it all depends on what you can handle as a person

  • @josephmaina5850
    @josephmaina5850 2 месяца назад +4

    Do a episode with guardian angel??

  • @vivianawour1941
    @vivianawour1941 2 месяца назад +8

    At 30 young but not a kid hehhehehheh .....hii generation people are too babied till they are afraid of responsibility my take.

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад

      @@vivianawour1941 I have other responsibilities in my life. My work, my home and well-being but I will admit I was spoiled a lot so maybe that’s why I don’t mind being happy alone. I’m loved at home

  • @Britneymutheu-n5w
    @Britneymutheu-n5w 2 месяца назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤Good job gal

  • @mutukuivy1686
    @mutukuivy1686 2 месяца назад +4

    My Mum talking "Vumilia."😭

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад

      @@mutukuivy1686 😭😭😭😭😭 my mum says that knowing very well my next move is to crash out 😭😭

    • @mutukuivy1686
      @mutukuivy1686 2 месяца назад

      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446 I feel you Hunny, I wish they were much outspoken, koz they have lived more than us, thus have more knowledge of what exactly is coming hence preparing our little minds... Poor us...😭😭😭

  • @Zz-cx3nd
    @Zz-cx3nd 2 месяца назад +3

    Me and Gilda same WhatsApp group, in my head in 3rd floor I’m still a child 😂😂😂😂
    You have represented many of us, we’re going through similar scenarios 😅

  • @Naishoi98
    @Naishoi98 2 месяца назад +1

    New sub here...... Love your mum🥰

  • @faithmuisyo758
    @faithmuisyo758 2 месяца назад +2

    I gave birth at 19 years,am always very sacred to get another baby.

  • @dorineatieno8223
    @dorineatieno8223 2 месяца назад +3

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @djblue_ke
    @djblue_ke 2 месяца назад +3

    Awesome Conversation😍... Cant wait for the next episode...🔥🔥🔥

  • @estherndunge4696
    @estherndunge4696 2 месяца назад +2

    🎉🎉🎉

  • @immahpraize6267
    @immahpraize6267 2 месяца назад +3

    The baby sounds like a Ugandan.
    Beautiful interview

  • @nanadeechannel7276
    @nanadeechannel7276 2 месяца назад +19

    Am 33...na sina haraka,,i feel like am 13..the thought of a kid gives me soo much anxiety,,lemne take my take,,hata kitovu bado haijapona,,😂😂😂

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +5

      @@nanadeechannel7276 ati kitovu haijapona 😂😂😂😂 I’m stealing that because fr. Im just a baby. 😂 thank you so much for watching ❤️

    • @nanadeechannel7276
      @nanadeechannel7276 2 месяца назад +3

      I relate to you 100%...we millenials came at a time where everything we touch,,its danger,,so we developed a protective mechanism to scrutinize everything and if we sense abit of danger,we out!!.....its worrying yes,,but what do we do and its the men who changed us...i guess we should pray more and believe that there mayb good guys left and ask God to guide us to them especially if as a woman,you a good person..
      I really waited for this interview,,have really enjoyed it,,thankyou so much finally its here...and yes dear,,vitovu bado havijapona..😂😂😂😂

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +3

      @ I hear you. I cannot afford to be casual with anything in my life because the repercussions are too high. Not the same as it was for our parents. It feels like they had a lot of protection from God. Or maybe fortune favors the bold and we should be more bold. Im definable trying to try 😂 but let me know what other topics you would like to see I want to create a small community for us through this forum

    • @nanadeechannel7276
      @nanadeechannel7276 2 месяца назад +1

      Thats so true....okay dear,,i hope one day i will share my story too,,its a bitter sweet but guess thats how it is for everyone..waiting for more conversations,,your mom is soo witty and i would love to learn more from her and you guys as a family....Thankyou so much .

    • @annkariuki1108
      @annkariuki1108 2 месяца назад +1

      Pata katoto my dea.imagine Mungu huwezesha mtu kulea

  • @kenstoudamire7366
    @kenstoudamire7366 Месяц назад +1

    The difference in mentality is just bewildering....we are cooked

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  Месяц назад +1

      @@kenstoudamire7366 the difference in men is also bewildering. Adapt or die 😂

    • @kenstoudamire7366
      @kenstoudamire7366 Месяц назад

      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446 we are trying 😂...but i love the Gems you were dropping on the young lady.

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  Месяц назад +1

      @@kenstoudamire7366 this is the young lady 😂😂 this is my account😀😀. But I’ll pass the message on to my mum 🙏🏾

  • @MyJOSE2013
    @MyJOSE2013 2 месяца назад +4

    Esther is right. men dont want to commit. i have a man over 40, never married, no babay mama but mgumu kama mahindi imekauka. mko tu hataki uende ukae nayeye, hataki uende kwao. uselezz

  • @winfredmuendi9839
    @winfredmuendi9839 2 месяца назад +5

    😅😅❤❤❤

  • @VictorineTv
    @VictorineTv 2 месяца назад +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Rakel-d9v
    @Rakel-d9v Месяц назад +2

    Im 24 and im ready to have kids 😅,

  • @Rinahandle13824
    @Rinahandle13824 2 месяца назад +5

    Gilda at 30 you are grown!!!

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 2 месяца назад

      30 yr old wemen bilieve they are still 20. i have a 30 yr old childless and husbandless cousin who is on my neck ati zaaa uko 35. beach thinks she very young

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +4

      @@Rinahandle13824 I’m grown yes. And I have grown responsibilities but I’m don’t think I’m at the stage to take on the physical and mental load of a child. I want to be the best version of myself first

    • @shelmithmuthoni3841
      @shelmithmuthoni3841 Месяц назад

      That's very good but imagine you will be shocked your mom is still finding new things about herself .you stop growing oupon death
      ​@@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446

  • @chogonyadendi1857
    @chogonyadendi1857 2 месяца назад +6

    As much as you support the men, don’t stay behind. Build you as you build him

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +1

      @@chogonyadendi1857 yes, thank you. I’ve done the building thing before once and I won’t do it again. Everybody comes built then we move from there 😅😅

    • @chogonyadendi1857
      @chogonyadendi1857 2 месяца назад +1

      @ let’s all meet built! And thank you for this wonderful insightful thread with your momma. In our era, we just fell in love and lived together.

    • @annwambui2909
      @annwambui2909 Месяц назад

      If you build a man make sure the properties are under your name otherwise mmh

  • @marygoretyawino326
    @marygoretyawino326 2 месяца назад +3

    The fears and concerns Gilda mentioned are my exact ones too😢😢 But this 2024-2025 I said that let it be- kitachafuka hapa mbele 😅I have to risk it😂

    • @marygoretyawino326
      @marygoretyawino326 2 месяца назад +2

      The only thing I differ with Gilda is focusing on the negative while getting into a relationship. I agree with your mom- just get into a relationship with an open mind and see how it plays out because if you focus on the negative you’ll end up out looking the little positive sides. Because is like coming out of a breakup and getting into a relationship but assuming that the person is going to do the same things that were done to you earlier/ breaking you.~~~But I also understand what you mean at the same time 😊

    • @marygoretyawino326
      @marygoretyawino326 2 месяца назад +1

      I also don’t agree with your mom when she says that “if you have a child with someone by mistake “ you shouldn’t see the child as a mistake. Well children are blessings from God but honestly even me every morning I pray that I’m so glad I didn’t have a child with a particular person because if I ever did; I would have been miserable right now. So yes you can see a baby and the baby ends up reminding you of your worst mistake you ever did and that will greatly affect even how you raise that child and the emotions towards the child and at the end of the day that will also psychologically affect the innocent child. So yes I agree Gilda I’m glad too I never did.😅

    • @marygoretyawino326
      @marygoretyawino326 2 месяца назад +1

      I LOVE YOUR MOM THOUGH!!!
      You guys are having a real honest Mother - Daughter conversation and I’m jealous 😢I wish my mother was still alive 😢so I could have such conversations with her 😢

    • @marygoretyawino326
      @marygoretyawino326 2 месяца назад +1

      But I must admit you two are so beautiful 🤩 The convo was beautiful 😍 I just subscribed and can’t wait for more 😅But you’re so funny when you ended by telling your mother that atleast I know that you’re worried now 😅❤😅

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +3

      ⁠​⁠@@marygoretyawino326I’ve loved all your feedback. It’s true i need to stop entering things looking for red flags nuts someone killed that innocence in me I really wish I could have it back. Also about the children thing I’m glad you feel the same. I’m so sorry you to hear about your mum. I know how much we need our mothers when we get older I wish I could give you a hug. But she lives through you. You keep her alive everyday ❤ thank you for subscribing we have a lot more to talk about ❤❤

  • @winniendinda8435
    @winniendinda8435 2 месяца назад +1

    When you look at this generation " i think guardian is included in this generation 😅😅😅

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +2

      @@winniendinda8435 with your common sense you gathered that when we’re talking about women of our generation he was included??

    • @esthermusila1970
      @esthermusila1970 2 месяца назад +1

      @@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446 😆😆😆😆😆😆

    • @winniendinda8435
      @winniendinda8435 2 месяца назад +1

      @@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446 😆😆😆😆😆

  • @jacklinemukudi5417
    @jacklinemukudi5417 2 месяца назад +3

    Gilda my daughter stole 75k from and she still goes round saying I don't understand her

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +1

      @@jacklinemukudi5417 us children can be so selfish at times. There are things I’ve done that I’ve come to regret. I know this is so painful and I’m sorry on her behalf. I hope she comes to realize how much she needs you in this life. There’s no replacing the love of a mother. Even material things will fade.

  • @faithgatwiry
    @faithgatwiry 2 месяца назад +13

    At 30 we are young we are still children 😅😅

    • @judymulewa9302
      @judymulewa9302 2 месяца назад +1

      Done nipitie pia

    • @annkariuki1108
      @annkariuki1108 2 месяца назад +1

      Please turembo let me be honest with you ,,you are not young imagine..pateni tutoi ..mambo huflow tu ..don't again wait for too long aki juu you don't know about kesho

    • @faithgatwiry
      @faithgatwiry 2 месяца назад +1

      @@annkariuki1108 another fact. Thanks but if a man does not come your way

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 2 месяца назад +1

      until you hit 33 within no time, without husband and children. utakaskia

    • @faithgatwiry
      @faithgatwiry 2 месяца назад +3

      @@MyJOSE2013 sa zingine you dont blame yourself for not having a partner.. it's not an achievement as much as your soul reminds you to have one.. we have divorcees at 25 and we have happily married at 40

  • @judymulewa9302
    @judymulewa9302 2 месяца назад +1

    New sub

  • @ntmasishi692
    @ntmasishi692 2 месяца назад +4

    Girllll, I am 32 and kids are SOOOO scary :'D - I am still a child hahahaha

  • @MyJOSE2013
    @MyJOSE2013 2 месяца назад +5

    wimin of 30 yrs today bilieve they are so young, until you hit 33 husbandless and childless. Start accepting men now kama huna

  • @hannahmutasia1550
    @hannahmutasia1550 2 месяца назад +1

    Gilda is Naibei name a maasai name?

  • @salomeorina3579
    @salomeorina3579 Месяц назад +1

    The generation of now they don't want process

  • @gracemelegance6623
    @gracemelegance6623 Месяц назад

    School fees,rent and family expenses and car 🚗 the man.

  • @mercykainyu378
    @mercykainyu378 2 месяца назад +2

    No introduction?

  • @JoyceAndeyo-m5o
    @JoyceAndeyo-m5o 2 месяца назад +1

    Msichana ako sawa but huyu mama tawe

  • @Rinahandle13824
    @Rinahandle13824 2 месяца назад +1

    The makeup makes Gilda look old otherwise great content less is more

  • @nimosupdates4364
    @nimosupdates4364 2 месяца назад +2

    Tell your mother to leave guardian for you😅😅

    • @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
      @gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446  2 месяца назад +2

      @@nimosupdates4364 don’t bring this nonsense to my page. If God has blessed you with a low IQ find some pages that you can relate to my dear. This one is not for you!😊

    • @martharinebiseko1457
      @martharinebiseko1457 2 месяца назад +2

      Too many nuggets to pick from the conversation and you are bringing yr personnel issues here which is a proper reflection of YOU

    • @SallyKer
      @SallyKer 2 месяца назад

      Stupid .they are in love.why are you bitter?

  • @hadassahayierah6342
    @hadassahayierah6342 Месяц назад +1

    you have acquired a new follower @gilda this is nice

  • @faithbisach669
    @faithbisach669 2 месяца назад +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @carolkioko3354
    @carolkioko3354 Месяц назад +2

    ❤❤❤