I spent my 20’s with an old white man and I paid heavily for it. Here is my message to young girls

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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024
  • When Rose “fell in love “with a white man almost 40 years older, she knew exactly what she was doing . She needed the clothes, cars, mansions and the money..but little did she know that this particular choice would cost her almost everything .
    Today, she opens up to us about the heavy price she said and why young girls need to focus on themselves and not on the easy way out
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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  2 месяца назад +372

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    • @lonitenten
      @lonitenten 2 месяца назад +1

      Mentioned how you lived: Bird in a Golden Cage. He will have to pay for his does. Nursed his Mom.The Previous Girlfriends where clever. Caregiver to brother. He did not marry you. So you have no shares from him for the 10yrs.with him. This reminds me of Slavery.

    • @jeniffermuthoni9752
      @jeniffermuthoni9752 2 месяца назад +3

      😊😊😊😊

    • @karehat5241
      @karehat5241 2 месяца назад +5

      The set is beautiful 💯. Honestly I thought u ve not come back from states😆.

    • @Becky370
      @Becky370 2 месяца назад +1

      Watching it later 😮😮but better late than never

    • @namzysims334
      @namzysims334 2 месяца назад +11

      Hi Lynn your loyal Zambian fun here😍 I really enjoyed today's episode after a long time infact I stopped watching your life changing videos/stories because sometimes Swahili is too much and no English sub titles. I loved the fact that Rose is fluent in English and spoke it 99% of the time.❤
      My take home is that there's always light at the end of the tunnel.
      Sorry for the long comment am off to give Rose a ka subscription on her channel 😊

  • @AGNES-jd6hy
    @AGNES-jd6hy 2 месяца назад +865

    After 3 years of graduating from University ( MUK ) I still didn't have a job I went fir a conference in Nairobi, 3 white men I met there were following me up for sex but I rejected all of them. , after the conference one from America followed me and my colleagues up to Uganda with expectation of spending a night with me but I took him to a safe hotel went home and all the days he spent in my country I took him around and when he was leaving, he insulted me of how poor I was without a job but refused him and that no woman have ever rejected him.
    But I told him that when time comes for me to travel to America I will but without complaining my body and faith in Christ.
    As I make this comment now I am in America, Glory to God and forever walking with my Savior.

    • @lovelyone98
      @lovelyone98 2 месяца назад +10

      @AGNES-jd6hy I am happy for you.

    • @donethmiller1963
      @donethmiller1963 2 месяца назад +23

      Stood your grounds girl.

    • @AGNES-jd6hy
      @AGNES-jd6hy 2 месяца назад +19

      @lovelyone98 sweetheart when we honor the great way maker , we have no room for compromise.

    • @one-G-row
      @one-G-row 2 месяца назад +6

      Wow good you kept your values

    • @osuizugbechioma4687
      @osuizugbechioma4687 2 месяца назад +6

      Glorrrrrrrrrry be to God

  • @flaviageki5595
    @flaviageki5595 2 месяца назад +518

    Rose is so pretty Oh My. You cant even tell she is 45yrs old. a beauty to behold and so well spoken and well spirited.

  • @francaneizer7129
    @francaneizer7129 2 месяца назад +447

    I can relate...a dated a white guy. He was 29 and I was 21. I left with nothing after 6/7 years. I was lucky I really educated myself with my own money from the little I was getting from my employer.
    Now, I own my own house, car and 2 master degrees, taking care of 7 orphans by only trusting God with my life.

    • @gentrixkhatenje8907
      @gentrixkhatenje8907 2 месяца назад +6

    • @TheRonoTV2024
      @TheRonoTV2024 2 месяца назад +18

      Because you got into a relationship with a goal of getting material benefits.
      That is where the point of departure was.

    • @shesblack8917
      @shesblack8917 2 месяца назад +2

      Good news is captivating 😊

    • @starj5114
      @starj5114 2 месяца назад +5

      @@TheRonoTV2024she was 21… what were you looking for at 21?

    • @63rambler66
      @63rambler66 2 месяца назад +4

      When dating ends, the normal thing is to “leave with nothing.”

  • @maggiem8869
    @maggiem8869 2 месяца назад +276

    This is the best story i have heard from a lady.She is honest and wants others to learn❤She has a bright star and destiny

  • @vivianhinzano2967
    @vivianhinzano2967 2 месяца назад +190

    She Has Healed Through Accepting Her Mistakes . A Beautiful Soul ❤

  • @EdwardWangechi
    @EdwardWangechi 2 месяца назад +60

    This lady speaks fluently in English. Beautiful and with a good heart.

  • @aggiebaibe6494
    @aggiebaibe6494 2 месяца назад +320

    This lady is so eloquent. God is so powerful. He changed her story.

  • @rahabnganga2793
    @rahabnganga2793 2 месяца назад +662

    I wish our girls would listen to Rose and know that a controlling man is a controlling man regardless of the color

    • @hannahGateru-t5z
      @hannahGateru-t5z 2 месяца назад +34

      That's so true colour doesn't matter !!

    • @WAVELENGTH-tp1tm
      @WAVELENGTH-tp1tm 2 месяца назад +21

      A controlling woman is a controlling woman, no matter the economic situation.

    • @evelynlyimo1557
      @evelynlyimo1557 2 месяца назад

      ,,watch a controlling 😅😅😅 woman in 90 days fiancé, happily ever after,,Angie and Mike, ​@@WAVELENGTH-tp1tm

    • @puritymugo8153
      @puritymugo8153 2 месяца назад +6

      Everyone have their own battles, you can't fight anyone battle,Rose fought hers

    • @p.be.s
      @p.be.s 2 месяца назад +7

      The catch word is 'regardless' of color or age.

  • @shemilaalexander8765
    @shemilaalexander8765 2 месяца назад +148

    The wrong romantic partner can cause mental health issues

    • @maygrantz4426
      @maygrantz4426 Месяц назад +6

      interesting and it affect your self esteem and mental health..

    • @Jackie-lm2sc
      @Jackie-lm2sc Месяц назад +11

      Not only that it can even cause you to look old yet you are young...machoz

    • @maygrantz4426
      @maygrantz4426 Месяц назад +2

      @@Jackie-lm2sc exactly..

    • @missmokwena
      @missmokwena Месяц назад

      Just imagine ​@@Jackie-lm2sc

  • @joknyte8215
    @joknyte8215 2 месяца назад +503

    traveling the world I’m realizing Africa is the most beautiful and truest place in the world.

  • @beatricekinyua3952
    @beatricekinyua3952 2 месяца назад +532

    love how she has owned up instead of playing victim big up for educating young girl may they listen

    • @extremeinteriors
      @extremeinteriors 2 месяца назад +10

      She's a game changer

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 2 месяца назад +12

      That's why I love about listening her story more and more because she own up to it 💯 percent.because there so many women still trapped to such relationship and marriages without courage to step out

    • @ngulubeprincess5009
      @ngulubeprincess5009 2 месяца назад +8

      Its refreshing to lusten to simeone who owns their mistakes. Its difficult to judge a person like that!

    • @inspektasikujua
      @inspektasikujua 2 месяца назад +9

      Exactly, and I think it shows that if you keep doing good and the right thing, the universe will bring you good things. And importantly to keep learning and growing so that you are ready for the blessings when they come

    • @gordonomondi7161
      @gordonomondi7161 2 месяца назад +2

      We came into this world with nothing and shall take nothing after our death. EARTHLY LIFE AND ITS MATERIAL WEALTH IS TEMPORARY.

  • @vivienneadala1429
    @vivienneadala1429 2 месяца назад +67

    Thank you Lynn for not interrupting. Your interview skills are excellent!

  • @AfroKingExplorer
    @AfroKingExplorer 2 месяца назад +276

    The obsession of Kenyan women with the white man is just mind blowing to me. I have no idea what they see in the white man!

    • @Only1Othello
      @Only1Othello 2 месяца назад +52

      It's excessive their obsession. The whole of Africa, especially East Africa, is memorized by their colonizers!

    • @Only1Othello
      @Only1Othello 2 месяца назад +12

      It's excessive their obsession. The whole of Africa, especially East Africa, is memorized by their colonizers!

    • @AfroKingExplorer
      @AfroKingExplorer 2 месяца назад +37

      @@Only1Othello not the whole of Africa or East Africa! Kenya is unique in this. Tanzanians and Rwandans women don’t seem to be that obsessed with white men!

    • @Only1Othello
      @Only1Othello 2 месяца назад +8

      @@AfroKingExplorer I would agree with your statement, however see similar behaviors and actions when I’m in those countries, however on a smaller and short term scale.

    • @sheriamwangala
      @sheriamwangala 2 месяца назад +35

      It’s also an obsession of white men with the black women. It’s both ways

  • @Kangostone
    @Kangostone 2 месяца назад +85

    This lady is soo beautiful,well spoken,with such a calm and peaceful presence!I absolutely thought she was 35 at most!I love her honesty and self awareness. May God open her womb and bless her with a child if she still desires one

    • @greenhouse9833
      @greenhouse9833 Месяц назад

      She is 45 years old. Elderly for child bearing 😢

    • @thandiwemseteka3963
      @thandiwemseteka3963 Месяц назад +2

      What God can not do does not exist. I also pray God opens her womb so that her heart desire is fulfilled

    • @alicehappiness509
      @alicehappiness509 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@greenhouse9833 Nothing is impossible with God,l have ppl who have kids at 46,47...so age isn't an issue.

  • @lifeisthebestteacher
    @lifeisthebestteacher 2 месяца назад +48

    Great how Rose is speaking about a difficult subject with humour, looking casual and with a big smile on her face. You are indeed extraordinary. Wish you well. Cannot imagine how you do what you do Rose. Your courage is frightening. 65 vs 24. Transactional??? If these older men cannot approach young girls in their country of origin, what does that say to our young girls on the African Continent? Selling one's soul for money is the worst form of abuse. But that's just my view. People can do as they please, but consequences of making wrong decisions are eternally traumatic.

    • @monikam9069
      @monikam9069 Месяц назад

      Several million of Black women in United States , they also lust White males. but not old ones

  • @geraldineolubayo2924
    @geraldineolubayo2924 2 месяца назад +128

    The new set is warm and homely

  • @lilberhane3233
    @lilberhane3233 2 месяца назад +207

    Im an 🇪🇷 Eritrean and i ❤ this show alot.thank you dear lynn watched your shows since tuko times ❤❤❤❤

    • @carolineg101
      @carolineg101 2 месяца назад +5

      First time to see someone confess being from Eritrea

    • @lilberhane3233
      @lilberhane3233 2 месяца назад +2

      @@carolineg101 what do u mean by saying dat please?

    • @naomymose1866
      @naomymose1866 2 месяца назад +2

      Thanks Africa we are sisters and we learn from stories shared

    • @lilberhane3233
      @lilberhane3233 2 месяца назад +2

      @@naomymose1866 well said dear Asante sana

    • @angelineowade2650
      @angelineowade2650 2 месяца назад +1

      Wow

  • @catherineusiri744
    @catherineusiri744 2 месяца назад +29

    Am a Zimbabwean abroad and your story has opened my eyes as a single woman. Hugs Rose.

  • @ednawanjiku9808
    @ednawanjiku9808 2 месяца назад +46

    This lady is extra candid, am impressed!! shez not ashamed of her past... God surely looks at the desires of our hearts,she finally got a genuine mzungu husband 🎉🎉🎉🎉it's the turn around by God for me..may God's name be glorified...

  • @euniceketer7676
    @euniceketer7676 2 месяца назад +208

    Its her little cute smile for me whenever she wants to throw in a joke.
    She is so enthusiastic 🌻

  • @reitaEbohon
    @reitaEbohon 2 месяца назад +123

    The family was in on it. They just wanted a permanent free house maid.

    • @bbpersonalpage1613
      @bbpersonalpage1613 2 месяца назад +7

      Yep

    • @bbpersonalpage1613
      @bbpersonalpage1613 2 месяца назад

      And care taker .. it's expensive to hire a nurse and a maid . They all running to Africa to get a poor woman to turn into their slaves . They love freee ish

    • @tannygodisbeautiful9690
      @tannygodisbeautiful9690 2 месяца назад +13

      THATS EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT TOO..... THE MAN GOT USE OF HER BODY AND THE MOTHER GOT HER SERVICE THE KNEW .., THATS OYIBO FOR YOU TRICKSTERS

    • @evelynhephi1889
      @evelynhephi1889 Месяц назад +5

      Yes! They planned it. That why they travelled.

    • @zakwishaable
      @zakwishaable Месяц назад +2

      My thoughts as well

  • @milly_demilla1017
    @milly_demilla1017 2 месяца назад +45

    Very honest - owns the story to the true facts . Not playing victim at all - puts the story as it is . Thanks Rose for your time and honesty. Pure lessons learned. ❤

  • @eunicemoko5272
    @eunicemoko5272 2 месяца назад +549

    You lost your 10 years, but God never left your side

    • @akotheffie8087
      @akotheffie8087 2 месяца назад +20

      She looks 20 years younger though

    • @naturerazzi7shi495
      @naturerazzi7shi495 2 месяца назад +18

      ​@@akotheffie8087True. She's still very pretty for her age.

    • @clementineonami
      @clementineonami 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@naturerazzi7shi495 how old is she

    • @stefane7374
      @stefane7374 2 месяца назад +6

      Our Lord Jesus is every time whit us. Just call him 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @Ubhntu3789
      @Ubhntu3789 2 месяца назад +6

      @@clementineonami 45. She looks 35.

  • @PaulineGatonye-l5u
    @PaulineGatonye-l5u 2 месяца назад +12

    I know Rose from childhood, it's true what she's saying. A humble and resilient girl.. He r heart is the same, jolly and humble.

  • @shesblack8917
    @shesblack8917 2 месяца назад +52

    Just learnt that financial freedom is the best thing any lady can have ...Also respecting ourselves as ladies will help us do away with disrespect from others ...Captivating story ❤

  • @MaryMutegi-j2g
    @MaryMutegi-j2g 2 месяца назад +41

    Rose has such a sweet and kind soul! Her resilience is outstanding and has such positive energy. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @Sweley-hh4fh
    @Sweley-hh4fh 2 месяца назад +39

    Rose is describing a typical Narcissist. She should look up living with a narcissist and she will understand the life she had to endure with the 'narc'. I had to learn the hard way.

    • @Relationshipreali
      @Relationshipreali Месяц назад

      Yes you are right, that man is a typical narcissist, wicked demonic agents

    • @lazuardy1582
      @lazuardy1582 14 дней назад

      Exactly

    • @Waithera-l9x
      @Waithera-l9x 13 дней назад

      @@lazuardy1582 Yes, you are so correct. I have had to learn the hard way too!

  • @jeanineainscough6698
    @jeanineainscough6698 2 месяца назад +213

    My heart goes out to Rose. No judgement. We all make mistakes. She's a smart, strong lady. ❤

  • @JudyWanjiruMburu-kf3pc
    @JudyWanjiruMburu-kf3pc 2 месяца назад +172

    Lynn....you really need to invite Benjamin Zulu to discuss the issue of Narcissistic relationships. These people are do dangerous and are from the pit of hell! I was married to one for 27 years and i cannot say this enough. I bless the Lord for another lease of life. I am now rebuilding my life in the UK and this is not what i envisioned for my life in my 50s. I pray women will open their inner eyes when making important life decisions coz red flags are always there from start but we choose to ignore them

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali 2 месяца назад +1

      😢

    • @wacukaruth5885
      @wacukaruth5885 2 месяца назад +7

      Wah God is great. This narcissist should be kept lead of. I had one for 8yrs now am free from that hell.

    • @princesspink85
      @princesspink85 2 месяца назад +3

      Never look back. God will make up for that time spent ...You will realise, those yrs were never lost. Instead, realise, God has given you freedom🙏

    • @jacqueMush
      @jacqueMush 2 месяца назад +1

      It is well with you Rose,thank you for enlighten8ng our young girls.Wanjiru,siuniconnect na mimi nicome kuhustle huko haki,am a widow struggling with life hapa Kenya,almost your agemate dear.i

    • @Bella_unscripted
      @Bella_unscripted 2 месяца назад +2

      It's really terrible just came out of a relationship with one,I thank God everyday that I'm even alive

  • @Joylynw
    @Joylynw 2 месяца назад +19

    "Nyambura, why are you walking like a man?" 😂😂😂😂got me...
    Rose you are beautiful in and out... The future is bright... We are not defined by who gave birth to us and which tribe we come from because that was not our choice... May God favour and expand you

  • @rose_wangari
    @rose_wangari 2 месяца назад +45

    Omg, why am I crying. Acheni Mungu aitwe Mungu, what He can’t do doesn’t exist 😭😭😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
    To you Jehovah be all the glory, honour and all adoration 🙌🏾🙌🏾♥️

  • @Priscillangaa182
    @Priscillangaa182 2 месяца назад +131

    My take home whoever signs the Cheque, keeps you in check ❤

    • @therese2148
      @therese2148 2 месяца назад +14

      Only if you allow it! I am with a white guy. I am fat, and when he tried talking about my body, I lectured him to size. Never mind that he pays all the bills, gives me about - 3,000 euros spouse allowance monthly. We are all different, insecurities allows bs in a relationship.

    • @merxg.creative
      @merxg.creative 2 месяца назад +2

      Correct 💯

    • @EliananJenny
      @EliananJenny 2 месяца назад

      ​@@therese2148You lucky

    • @James-y7i6d
      @James-y7i6d 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@therese2148 the fact that you talked about it is an issue. 3k euros is not money in Europe but for sure it's a fortune when you convert to KES. Good luck 👍!

    • @LatifaSue
      @LatifaSue 2 месяца назад

      ​@@therese2148gives 3000 euros??? J think you are lieing 😮

  • @blessedassurance4743
    @blessedassurance4743 2 месяца назад +12

    That man can be sued nd pay for that Lady! SHE deserve afair case! Judgment should be set up for her!

  • @njerilinda
    @njerilinda 2 месяца назад +29

    This is the most honest interview av watched, the lady was just young and naive. She fell for the white guy thinking it's her key to success, just like any other young girl would do.

  • @marionmuturi5283
    @marionmuturi5283 2 месяца назад +115

    She's such a good narrator. Thank you Lynn for bringing her to the show. So many young girls get lost along the way. I've seen it here in coast😢.

    • @lilyann4505
      @lilyann4505 2 месяца назад +1

      The English is 👌👌👌👌

  • @cristalclear2499
    @cristalclear2499 2 месяца назад +10

    I feel like wanting to take revenge on her behalf on that taka taka musungu, but l am being reminded that vengeance if for the Lord. Pole sister Rose.

  • @Dee_the_blessed1
    @Dee_the_blessed1 2 месяца назад +53

    I like her voice and how she's narrating the story systematically 👏

  • @teresiamuthoni4650
    @teresiamuthoni4650 2 месяца назад +32

    Whoever signs the cheque keeps you in check ✔️.That hit hard Thank you for the courage of opening up and educating us as awhole.bless your heart .

  • @tytyeric6651
    @tytyeric6651 2 месяца назад +202

    I wasn't financial free until my 40's and I'm still in my 40's, bought my third house already, earn I'm in a monthly through passive income, and i got 4 out of 5 goals, just hope it encourages someone here. that it doesn't matter if you don't have any of them right now, you can start Today's regardless your age to Invest and change your future! Investing in the financial market is a grand choice I made.

    • @stevenaustin3853
      @stevenaustin3853 2 месяца назад +4

      yeah investment is the key to sustaining your financial longevity but venturing into any legitimate Investment without a proper guidance of an expert can lead to a great loss too

    • @CHELSJAMES
      @CHELSJAMES 2 месяца назад

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    • @HarrisonKelly-rs6is
      @HarrisonKelly-rs6is 2 месяца назад

      Absolutely! His approach is so systematic. Have you thought about investing?

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      @ugochihelen6910 2 месяца назад

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    • @hannabas8198
      @hannabas8198 2 месяца назад

      Wow

  • @blessedgirl444
    @blessedgirl444 2 месяца назад +122

    The set looks homely, warm & cosy

  • @mrembo777
    @mrembo777 2 месяца назад +40

    She speaks so eloquently! For once I watched the show in 1 sitting. You are a Mother to many Rose 🥰❤❤❤

  • @Savebygrace-it
    @Savebygrace-it 2 месяца назад +30

    Poverty sends people to those old tired ruthless man.

    • @sukilee2486
      @sukilee2486 2 месяца назад

      Remem. She was a little girl who knew nothing about what she was getting herself into. Remember God gives you a CHOICE,to choose Him or the Devil. She made a decision to be with a Muzungu because of his wealth. She made an unwise decision-

    • @rachelrovner4724
      @rachelrovner4724 2 месяца назад +2

      @@sukilee2486AGAIN, POVERTY WAS THE REASON! if her parents could put clothes n food on the table, send her to school, WOULD SHE FIND HERSELF IN THIS CASE?
      POVERTY.

    • @rachelrovner4724
      @rachelrovner4724 2 месяца назад

      Yes sireeeeee!

    • @cgreen777
      @cgreen777 Месяц назад

      They can't wait to volunteer.

  • @jaywilint.5408
    @jaywilint.5408 2 месяца назад +24

    There is something special about this lady. Bless you

  • @paulinemadiro
    @paulinemadiro 2 месяца назад +29

    She's an excellent orator,speaks good ,very funny and honest we all learn the hard way

    • @liliannakhumicha7952
      @liliannakhumicha7952 2 месяца назад +1

      This is so educational... thank you for speaking the truth which most people are not open to share. Be blessed Rose...you are such a lovely nice person.

  • @izindawo8363
    @izindawo8363 2 месяца назад +70

    Mzungu or not… an abusive person is an abusive person, regardless of the skin. Let’s not make everything about colour.

    • @josephinamokoena6865
      @josephinamokoena6865 2 месяца назад

      You are tru Black and White is the same

    • @Reagan956
      @Reagan956 Месяц назад +1

      Muzungu is muzungu its not about skin colour

    • @Reagan956
      @Reagan956 Месяц назад

      Muzungu is muzungu its not about skin colour

    • @imans264
      @imans264 Месяц назад +2

      So that is the only thing you could come out with from all this deep narrative? It is unfortunate!

    • @st.wilfred8482
      @st.wilfred8482 29 дней назад

      ​@@imans264it's not unfortunate it's the unwillingness to learn

  • @ngatiasusan6954
    @ngatiasusan6954 2 месяца назад +90

    Aki umaskini ni mbaya😢 the kind of entanglement we get ourselves in due to financial favours , God have mercy...mwanamke kuwa na pesa zake na kazi yake ni muhimu sana. No one will take advantage of you..lakini the way Rose is putting her story inabidi msee acheke..a good story teller

    • @Sabrina1977-y
      @Sabrina1977-y 2 месяца назад +8

      POVERTY MATTERS!!!!! AND WE AFRICANS, WE THINK ALL WHITE PEOPLE ARE GOOD AND RICH!!!

    • @tinachris88
      @tinachris88 2 месяца назад +7

      I agree, ladies we need to be financial independent.

    • @Sabrina1977-y
      @Sabrina1977-y 2 месяца назад

      @@tinachris88EXACTLY!!!!

    • @lydianyagucha3527
      @lydianyagucha3527 2 месяца назад

      6😢​@@tinachris88

    • @Sallyskin
      @Sallyskin 2 месяца назад

      @@Sabrina1977-yTruee

  • @hannahrhodah2018
    @hannahrhodah2018 2 месяца назад +74

    Sasa Lynn , I have a story to tell but when time is ripe I will look for you our girl ❤❤❤

  • @blackstallion4857
    @blackstallion4857 2 месяца назад +7

    Its about time these women speak the truth to younger women. If those before her endured such hardships they should've spoken up maybe she could've been saved. All that Glitters isnt Gold! Bless you ❤

  • @Yimishe
    @Yimishe 2 месяца назад +137

    Some of these older men in big age gap relationships exert almost all the characteristics that Rose mentioned: Selfishness, weird sexual proclivities, stinginess, scarcity mindset, cheating, jealousy, ED, body shaming, dream thieving, mental and emotional abuse simply because deep down they know they don’t deserve the younger and more attractive women that they are with! I hate poverty because sometimes it leads people to these horrible situations. Poverty is of the devil and don’t nobody come here and say not all poor people resort to old mzungus to escape it. Each situation is different! Glad Rose found a good man in the end

    • @adoumpmoussah939
      @adoumpmoussah939 2 месяца назад +4

      Love doesnt have rule to follow.
      How many young men and women are in divorce court?

    • @gracekimani9771
      @gracekimani9771 2 месяца назад +2

      The whole truth !! That most don’t want to hear.

    • @juliusnjure
      @juliusnjure 2 месяца назад

      ​@gracekimani9771 look for an old white guy

    • @cutie4766
      @cutie4766 2 месяца назад +2

      Sadly most of our young black men are like this 🤷🏽‍♀️.

    • @gracekimani9771
      @gracekimani9771 2 месяца назад

      @@juliusnjure l have already a few of them aging 97 l can’t be jealous to give you one 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @j.omondi5826
    @j.omondi5826 2 месяца назад +235

    Her exit from her marriage to me is the epitome of strength and grace.

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 2 месяца назад +11

      And walked away empty handed 😢

    • @ekachuks7481
      @ekachuks7481 2 месяца назад +2

      Exactly

    • @DenelsiaWalker
      @DenelsiaWalker 2 месяца назад

      No. She is rich. She walked away with herself, her sanity, and she has creativity in her DNA. 💯
      ​@@bellaolum9768

    • @Sthmohtwenty
      @Sthmohtwenty 2 месяца назад

      Epitome of racist..who light skin kids and think thy will automatically get cuscasian privilege..stick 2 u own..lol

    • @beverleyhamilton4588
      @beverleyhamilton4588 2 месяца назад +3

      Walking away is your peace🎉

  • @kategitau3028
    @kategitau3028 2 месяца назад +6

    May God restore everything that was taken from you. You're so gorgeous mama and you deserve all the beautiful things in life❤

  • @glowtechvisuals6176
    @glowtechvisuals6176 2 месяца назад +116

    I refused an old muzungu when i was 28yr, I desired a man in my age group and I thank God I made that decision. This is very helpful. Such men portray old retired life yet you are young and energetic.

    • @julieryatim7802
      @julieryatim7802 2 месяца назад +5

      Love is what you make it. Its not the age gap but getting that man/woman who is chemically compatible to you. Young and old alike.

    • @Brandiisbeloved
      @Brandiisbeloved Месяц назад +3

      ​@julieryatim7802 it is about age gap. Big age gaps sucks the youth out of the younger person especially as the already old gts older and older. Let's not act like it's not about age. Most of us young women want to be with and have sex with men our age or a little bit oldee

    • @julieryatim7802
      @julieryatim7802 Месяц назад +1

      @@Brandiisbeloved If it was only about sex then many young couples wouldn't get divorce or separate. Yet you find in that age gap many separate. In my 60 years of experience, I have come to the conclusion that it is not about age but about finding a soulmate.

    • @glowtechvisuals6176
      @glowtechvisuals6176 Месяц назад

      @@julieryatim7802 yes, but they leave you early and when you ae older you go for younger men

    • @Brandiisbeloved
      @Brandiisbeloved Месяц назад

      @julieryatim7802 I can't knock you if that's what you came to the conclusion of. And I never said anything about it only being about sex but about young women usually wanting to be with men around or age or a little bit older. That's it

  • @sarahn4468
    @sarahn4468 2 месяца назад +141

    At 45 Rose, people maybe able to get a child with God’s Grace. Don’t completely give up because you are not yet 50 years of age. Be blessed Rose and Thank you Lynn for this purposeful talk.

    • @isabellopes890
      @isabellopes890 2 месяца назад +7

      Amen

    • @joannemuturi_purposecultivator
      @joannemuturi_purposecultivator 2 месяца назад +8

      Best comment ever!!

    • @JesusChristLovesUs4ever
      @JesusChristLovesUs4ever 2 месяца назад +23

      Even with 60, they still have children. My neighbor born her girl at the age of 60... she was so excited, and as a German woman, they believed and told by gynaecologist that 45yrs is limited time.
      And they forgot that God is the father of all creation.

    • @yvonneodul8291
      @yvonneodul8291 2 месяца назад

      People now even get babies at 60 years

    • @ruthn9381
      @ruthn9381 2 месяца назад +3

      Even in the 50s she still has a chance.

  • @dontatme42
    @dontatme42 2 месяца назад +5

    She has it all. Peace, Beauty, Etiquette, and Love. Sister you have everything that God wanted you have. ❤️

  • @JoyceWangui
    @JoyceWangui 2 месяца назад +23

    Her eloquence and her delivery is absolutely incredible…… we go through life’s hardships so that we can educate others…. I am proud of the woman she is because she is using this platform to educate and create awareness….. her honesty is also what has opened other doors for her
    Child abuse should also not be overlooked as I am sure if she received love, her choices would have been different
    I will her more love and success

  • @evagichobi2680
    @evagichobi2680 2 месяца назад +62

    Wow she says she is now 45 but she is still looking so young like still in her 20's..... Her story is so educative. How I wish we learn from her story

  • @brendangonyama
    @brendangonyama 19 дней назад +3

    A beautiful young lady who had seen it all, and managed to pick herself up, I am proud of you my dear, you managed to Rise Above your Storms

  • @jemimahgeoff8892
    @jemimahgeoff8892 2 месяца назад +33

    She is a good story teller 😅😅❤❤ smart gal.. thanks Lynn for bringing her here..

  • @ST_Sandz
    @ST_Sandz 2 месяца назад +160

    Off topic...I love listening to Kenyans and Ugandans speak. The accent is beautiful ❤❤❤ Love it. 🇿🇦

    • @joankidon4626
      @joankidon4626 2 месяца назад +3

      😊😊

    • @MendyNaboy
      @MendyNaboy 2 месяца назад +3

      Sisonke

    • @namatovubrenda3261
      @namatovubrenda3261 2 месяца назад

      Really 😊nice

    • @Rhenadhis
      @Rhenadhis 2 месяца назад +22

      And i'm a Kenyan who really loves hearing South Africans speak

    • @Deby95
      @Deby95 2 месяца назад +8

      We are Africans ,we love each other❤😊

  • @bolaaremu4622
    @bolaaremu4622 2 месяца назад +6

    I admire her speaking prowess and sense of humour. She's a voice and a certified counselor to young ladies. I saw a temple of greatness and embodiment of knowledge and wisdom in Rose❤.

  • @minajose6602
    @minajose6602 2 месяца назад +65

    Rose is ageing like fine wine ❤❤❤

  • @kandisphere8828
    @kandisphere8828 2 месяца назад +28

    Rose, you are beautiful. Well done for educating girls and young women. Do not beat yourself about the mistakes of the past, because we all have done things that we wish we did differently. May God make you fruitful in all you do in life 🙏🏾.

  • @mathengenduhiu1580
    @mathengenduhiu1580 27 дней назад +3

    It's Nyambura's eloquence for me. Nyambura storytelling is your gift. Listening to you tell your story in flawless English I'm tempted to think you went to top tier schools, which I doubt given your childhood challenges. Amazing.

  • @wanjanjubi
    @wanjanjubi 2 месяца назад +63

    Team LNN silent followers ❤❤❤
    Hello Lynn😊❤
    Let me now listen......

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 2 месяца назад +37

    I was ready to cry with a stranger today but I have laughed a lot..Rose is funny and well outspoken
    I am happy to have listened to her story and I have learned a lot of lessons...Thanks Lynn for today's episode

    • @dinnerideas1626
      @dinnerideas1626 2 месяца назад +1

      She is😂😂😂😂 kwanza that part for ‘bibi ya mzungu with only 200 bob’ 😂😂😂

  • @katukat6328
    @katukat6328 2 месяца назад +3

    Her story is a six in one story. So much to learn...amazing

  • @jacqueypatrick4090
    @jacqueypatrick4090 2 месяца назад +17

    How I wish our girls will listen to this,,,it is so awesome the way she talked with confidence and she looks very young

  • @dooshimagbahabo2533
    @dooshimagbahabo2533 2 месяца назад +510

    Whoever signs the cheque, keeps you in check.

  • @doranaomi5724
    @doranaomi5724 2 месяца назад +3

    This was so awesome !! Esp the fact that she mostly spoke English and was so eloquent .
    Such a life changing story . Thank you for sharing and being so open with your life . Takes courage to want to help others lead a different path than the one you led . May God fulfill you Rose 🥰

  • @kainikakidz63
    @kainikakidz63 2 месяца назад +18

    The mentality that mzungu will clear your problem. With a father or not it is good to affirm the kids and instill life principles from a young age.

  • @julietkhamasi535
    @julietkhamasi535 2 месяца назад +27

    Rose is a jewel
    She’s truly beautiful both inside out
    She’s been extremely truthful and encouraging

  • @SweetCaroline10X
    @SweetCaroline10X 2 месяца назад +11

    She was married to a malignant narcissist. So sorry Rose, the best is yet to come!!🙏🏾❤️

  • @user-wr9fn4ny4i
    @user-wr9fn4ny4i 2 месяца назад +56

    Girl, iam kenyan man living in usa, what you have said towards the end of this show is totally true. Let those who have ears hear.

  • @Rhenadhis
    @Rhenadhis 2 месяца назад +31

    I watched her story in 3 parts on her channel and i loved how she takes accountability but cried with her over the pain of her loss and just how poverty can set people up for a bad hand in life.
    Lynn i absolutely love your new set, the colours and interior styling pieces are GORGEOUS. I feel like an area of improvement could be the choice of seats for your set, maybe think about one seaters in whatever form (armchairs or sofas) and the placement of those one seaters that both you and the guests can sit on and relax posibly facing each other as you conversate, you normally don't look relaxed when you sit up straight without being able to have back support; it feels like the conversation needs to happen in a hurry so that you all leave

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 2 месяца назад

      I agree with you she doesn't look relaxed also not leaning properly on the seat

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 2 месяца назад +1

      What's her channel name?

    • @neomoloi1637
      @neomoloi1637 2 месяца назад

      What is her channel name?

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 2 месяца назад

      @@neomoloi1637 Rosy Blogs

    • @Rhenadhis
      @Rhenadhis 2 месяца назад

      @@neomoloi1637 Rose Blogger

  • @miriamkyalikola
    @miriamkyalikola Месяц назад +6

    That old man needs to find you and apologize to you. I hate it when foreigners mistreat Africans from their own countries. And I love that you rebuked his curses over your life, and that you spoke blessings. Words do create. I'm happy with how well your life turned out. Blessings to your kind husband.
    Lastly, I think Africa is the most beautiful place on earth. I only want to leave Uganda just to visit other countries, but I wouldn't want to settle anywhere else.

  • @mystiks1168
    @mystiks1168 2 месяца назад +8

    I enjoyed her a lot. She's soooo real, eloquent, detailed, intelligent & fuuny. Her story shows that God shows up for his children

  • @SAMUELMUNDIA-tc5rz
    @SAMUELMUNDIA-tc5rz 2 месяца назад +18

    The best interview I have watched from lnn. The lady is accountable for her mistake and very educative. I resonate with her as I am in my twenties and at that point where I feel that I messed up in between my high school and college years out of ignorance and it is affecting me right now. I agree with her on the twenties years are the most important on shaping ones life

    • @LwmsMo
      @LwmsMo 2 месяца назад

      Messed up, too, but we must move forward.

  • @NakittoViola
    @NakittoViola 2 месяца назад +5

    Wow,Lynn this reminds of a family here in Uganda the lady got married toablack American who doesn't even allow the lady's mom to visit even if she does and just gets out and came back the man would tell the guard to ask who she was.Lynn these things really happen ,much love from 🇺🇬 Lynn nakupenda sana

  • @roseblogger
    @roseblogger 2 месяца назад +464

    Wow, let me watch first, then I will comment 😂😂, Lynn it was amazing meeting you and your team. Many thanks to Damaris, who helped me find different remedies for my voice🙏🏽🙏🏽 I felt so at home with Lynn and the team, your spirit is peaceful, and your energy is welcoming. I wanted to spend the whole day with you guys.

    • @faithdodger
      @faithdodger 2 месяца назад +19

      You are an equally amazing person

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 месяца назад +66

      Dear Rose❤❤❤
      Where do we even start,…. We had a beautiful day together. Thank you for being patient enough even as we experienced multiple power blackouts… for loving us and for really trusting us with your story ❤❤❤
      LNN loves you🙏

    • @nthulijoan6741
      @nthulijoan6741 2 месяца назад +18

      I have loved the interview...You are such a good story teller Rose, an amazing voice.

    • @roseblogger
      @roseblogger 2 месяца назад +9

      @nthulijoan6741 Lol, thank you but that's not my natural voice 😂😂

    • @itsinesantonio
      @itsinesantonio 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@roseblogger you are such an inspiration to all of us and you continue to smile through it all.God bless your loving heart dear Rose 🌹❤

  • @janewaititu7110
    @janewaititu7110 2 месяца назад +32

    My take home.
    The future is bright but be very careful because the enemy is out here dishing out counterfeit
    Rose Future is bright but the enemy tried to offer counterfeits. Thank God for restoration

  • @mercymusya8701
    @mercymusya8701 7 дней назад +2

    Roses story just reminded me of some moments have passed through and still pushing hard to overcome... thanks Lynn for such lessons

  • @Bitunils
    @Bitunils 2 месяца назад +45

    Rose, you are soo soooo genuine!! I wish everyone is honest as you are!! God bless you girl

  • @inspektasikujua
    @inspektasikujua 2 месяца назад +22

    Terrible beginning, such a nice person and you were treated so terribly. I'm sure Karma has caught up with those crazy people 💯.
    So happy you met a nice man. And you are soo beautiful ❤️😍❤️

  • @Loobygirl1
    @Loobygirl1 2 месяца назад +29

    Vulnerability made you choose this man. You thought he would give you better life. No harm wanting better for yourself and he was a predator who took advantage of a young girl. Pls though don’t make the conversation about race. Race is a social construct. Call this man out for his predatory ways only. There are also black predators too who could abuse you same way

  • @bensongutu
    @bensongutu 2 месяца назад +33

    "Who ever signs the cheque keeps you in check" - so true & so true!!!!... financial independent gives us the freedom to chose..Regardless of the man one gets married to, make sure you reason with your brain, not your heart. " NEGOCIATE THAT MARRIAGE BEFORE YOU EVEN REMOVE YOUR CLOTHES & OPEN YOUR LEGS FOR THAT MAN"....The more reason why ladies must not get married when very young.

  • @anik8204
    @anik8204 2 месяца назад +14

    Love her. Authentic, great sense of humour, easy to listen to and takes accountability where necessary.

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 2 месяца назад +20

    The problem is that she didn't have a personal plan, she made men her plan.. 😢😢

  • @tasneemhayati092
    @tasneemhayati092 2 месяца назад +133

    I saw this story in her channel.. Rose blogger, a good storyteller....eyeopener, ladies be careful out there kuolewa na Mzungu is not an achievement

    • @patriciakabibi2181
      @patriciakabibi2181 2 месяца назад +15

      Being married to anyone is not an achievement. Figure your life out before committing yourself to anyone.

    • @frankie6207
      @frankie6207 2 месяца назад

      Kama wewe ni mjanja unaweza omoka haraka sana.

    • @BB-dk3fd
      @BB-dk3fd 2 месяца назад +1

      Is she married to a white guy and what is the name of her channel?

    • @pheli976
      @pheli976 2 месяца назад

      What is her chanel handle ​@@patriciakabibi2181

  • @EYVAH_INNIT
    @EYVAH_INNIT 2 месяца назад +30

    Finally, Rose Blogger on your show.. Thank you Lynn. 👌
    There's so much to learn from her.
    Her message needs to be heard, and I am grateful since this will reach a bigger audience.
    And Rose, my heart goes out to you. Yesterday's upload was quite something 😢

    • @roseblogger
      @roseblogger 2 месяца назад +3

      Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @abitu47
      @abitu47 2 месяца назад +3

      @@roseblogger you’re such a risk taker. May God intervene for all the evil that was done to you. I love your strength hugs 🤗 💗💗

  • @joycemuiga6648
    @joycemuiga6648 2 месяца назад +1

    Great. The show is such an eye opener.Rose is such a bright lady. May she continue to shine.

  • @ojuoluwanwoo
    @ojuoluwanwoo 2 месяца назад +67

    Rose please adopt a baby and he or she is yours forever. May you find unending peace

    • @okotray4577
      @okotray4577 2 месяца назад

      Adopting a baby is very expensive and requires the permission of the husband as well.

    • @tendanipelaelo6293
      @tendanipelaelo6293 Месяц назад

      Did you listen to he whole story? She said,,"Adoption is a calling" which means it's not not everyone who can adopt not due to financial status but are you going to love and treat the kid like your own even behind closed doors?

  • @jcmoryeige1919
    @jcmoryeige1919 2 месяца назад +12

    The honest and humbleness has really lifted you life Rose.Thanks for sharing your life journey transactions very inspiring 🙏

  • @m.mirimv.r6450
    @m.mirimv.r6450 2 месяца назад +4

    WOW! All I can say is WOW! Loved her testimony! Thank you for sharing.

  • @blackrose8643
    @blackrose8643 2 месяца назад +21

    This girl is so sweet, sincere and breathtakingly beautiful. Such a shame how some demonic people can destroy young people's lives. I wish you the very best. Lynn the whole décor is lovely. Thank you for doing what you do. God bless.

    • @anneanne8822
      @anneanne8822 2 месяца назад

      God will Restore everything to U Rose.

  • @floraselez
    @floraselez 2 месяца назад +22

    Wow ,Rose the blogger finally listening to your story once again, Thanks LYNN

    • @roseblogger
      @roseblogger 2 месяца назад +4

      " Rose the blogger"😂😂😂 I love it🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @lorettalandsberg4579
    @lorettalandsberg4579 2 месяца назад +2

    Watching this from Namibia, girl you are such a beacon of strength, you endured, super proud of you for stil standing tall after all u lost, God has yr back

  • @felisterwangu658
    @felisterwangu658 2 месяца назад +28

    In my mother tongue there is a saying that says, whatever comes easily goes easily... Hope our young girls we can learn

    • @ocheing
      @ocheing 2 месяца назад +6

      They never learn till it's to late , greed for money and fancy lifestyle has led Many to graves and prison

  • @wanguiqariukiqariuki3797
    @wanguiqariukiqariuki3797 2 месяца назад +14

    Its not only with wazungus... even our own men don't us to own anything.... talking ,out of my own experience.......😢😢😢😢

  • @mercymaina8031
    @mercymaina8031 2 месяца назад +17

    She's such a good story teller. Also very educative.