Struggling with COMPARISON & JEALOUSY? Watch this
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Firstly, you look amazing at 7 months pregnant. Congratulations to you and your husband. Secondly, I grow as a person, and a woman, every time I watch your channel. Love your 'one - on - one' approach. 💖
Your insights have helped me heal my anxious attachment so much. I used to have cheating dreams (for no good reason) that would haunt me the whole day, and I’d get so insecure towards my partner. The other day I had one and it did NOTHING to me. Realized I’ve gotten to a place where I’m secure, confident and unbothered. Thank you!!!
What is your partner's attachment style?
More more!! I need more of this topic but broken down for anxious attachment jealousy versus what avoidant attachment jealousy looks like
my "cheating dreams" were true..maybe you are seeing something in your dreams that your physical eye can't see? :)
@@angelslove13 my anxious attachment would tell me this too. Unless I can prove it, I will choose my happiness
@@christinakala5612Is Lizzo jealous of Oprah because she can buy more food?
'"In a way you've already won in this world, because you're the only one who can be you." -Mister Rogers
"You cannot stop them from doing anything. You can only be the best version of yourself." BOOM 💥
PLEASE DO EXTENDED VIDEO ON JEALOUSY AND INSECURITY IN a marriage/relationship more on the self development and ways to overcome that deep insecurity and hyper vigilance
What has helped me is to actually talk to the people that you’re jealous of if you can. Usually you’ll find out flaws and realise they’re not as “perfect” as you think they are. I’ve had it a few times that they’ve revealed they’re actually jealous of me too and usually for things I’ve not noticed or taken for granted.
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I feel like it would be really great to see you do an emotion series - so episodes on bitterness, passion, contentment, fear etc :)
that's a great idea!
Thank you, Margarita for talking to us, esp women. You don’t know how much comfort and encouragement you give to the world. I’ve been broken up with and it was a 5 year relationship. I was in pieces and your videos really helped me to pick myself up and realize my self-worth. God Bless you and your family. Always looking forward to your new vids!❤
the way she GETS TO THE POINT!!! Bless
Hi Margarita. I have had to go through a lot in my life ever since I was a kid. I was extremely anxiously attached and very reactive and emotional. I have always been in my masculine energy. But, your content has helped me become the best version of myself. I have stopped chasing people. Realized my power and constantly focusing on myself. Guys listen to her. It works for sure!
Really? I want to believe😊
About people leaving, just today I was trying to decide if it was the biggest mistake I ever made or the best thing that ever happened to me that he left. 2 hours later you tell me I have no control over it and to let it. I will do my damndest, girlfriend!
You are now part of my morning routine...❤I exercise and motivate my mind with you😊thanks
Thank u , I am currently suffering from jealousy,,, she’s gorgeous and I know I’m pretty but she’s literally a model. She posts a picture and within ten minutes he likes it. Never misses a beat. I am so jealous I need out of my brain I need serious help 😰
That’s a natural reaction babe. Your man should NOT be liking other girls pics. It’s so highly disrespectful
@@MariaMaria-rw8ui I agree, it's a conversation I had to have with my bf too, he didn't get it, but I had to explain that's not ok...your bf might not think it's harmful but I feel like it's giving that woman too much attention and validation and not thinking about your feelings...but Margarita might think differently and to be un-bothered...after all we girls like other girls pics and it doesn't mean anything, but then again I wouldn't go like a man's pic, but that's just me..
He is the problem, not her. Get rid of him.
Wow the end really hit me I never realized how much I’m living in my head and you always bring me back to reality ❤
Wow I hadn’t experienced jealousy recently but this video really hit so deep, made me tear up. Thank you 🤍
I love that you touched on the two types of jealousy. Margarita you’ve helped me and many others, more than you know. Thank you for everything you do ❤
I needed this advice so bad... I love how you deliver your message, cause you're not talking too fast nor too slow. You're not shouting and you know when to pause and breathe. The way you talk is so comforting. I feel better after I watched your video. Thank you! You just gain a new subscriber! ❤️
I just love to hear your take on everything... while i really don't need a confidence boost, most things you say resonates with me deeply.
Your videos always feel like I'm getting honest/compassionate advice from my wiser big sister.
Thank you 🙏🏾
This video on dealing with comparison and jealousy is a game-changer! It provides practical advice and a fresh perspective on a common struggle many of us face. Learning to focus on our own journey and celebrate others' successes is so important. Thanks for sharing these helpful tips.
Once again Margarita, you hit everything right on the head!
This is so incredibly validating and beautiful! Thank you! ❤
Impeccable timing as always 🤩❤️
Este video se ha convertido en mi terapia en las dos últimas ocasiones en que me he sentido ansiosa y celosa con mi pareja. No te puedo explicar lo bien que me hace. Logra que cambie mi mentalidad y deje de enfocarme en él y ponga toda mi atención en mí, en mi crecimiento personal y en mi valor como mujer. Gracias por existir margarita
great video 🩷 i see a lot of people destroy their relationships because of unchecked and uncontrollable envy. it’s like a self fulfilling prophecy. best thing you can do when you feel envious is to keep that inside and use it as a guide towards your path and purpose. the second you start acting up over a beautiful woman walking by your man the prophesy begins to unfold. stay aware ladies 🙏🏼
it's definitely true...the instinct in the moment, especially if they look is to get hurt and pissed off, like it feels like disrespect and you want the man to recognise this and behave better/only have eyes for you...but one camp is oh they're a man, they can't help themselves bless them, and then the other is they're not the man for you/me- but I agree, getting visibly pissed off only gives them more power and also makes us feel worse, less confident and less attractive in the eyes of the man
Divine timing! Just had a trigger with this!! Your so right! Need to write this down so I remember when that old wound comes up!
Margarita, you are the best!!! Seriously, one hour of your videos or podcasts every day twisted my mind 360*!!! in a couple of days!!!
You have a video for everyone one of my problems! 😭 I’m so grateful ! Thank you for doing the work and being able to explain!
I have gotten so much out of your videos! Thank you! Would love to see a video on dealing with friendships when you’re in a relationship and have many friendships with opposite gender friends. I find boundaries are blurry here especially when he takes a long time to open up emotionally but has many long standing and even more recent female friendships. I feel it allows him to keep emotionally distant in this intimate relationship, but with female friends he can keep them at arms length, he can control the level of connection. And not acting jealous but knowing what your needs are and communicating that in a confident way. I feel like there’s some unacceptable behavior, but we disagree. Makes me feel like his priorities are online “fake” ish relationships and not the one with the woman who is present, showing up and wanting to do the work together.
Wao amazing video, especially first 2 to 3 minutes I badly needed to hear that ❤. May god bless you and your family 🥰
Such a necessary conversation! The comparison trap is so easy to fall into, especially in today’s world. I’ve been talking about this too in my recent video, and I think you might find it insightful. 💫 Keep up the great work-love how honest and real you are! xx
Ive been watching you for over a month now and how much I have changed and my life just by tapping into my feminine energy, every time i am anxious i start listening to you and my anxiety goes away 🥹 I am truly really grateful. You are so genuine and amazing telling women what they really need. You are my Guru by all means now.❤ so so much love for you. I am 22 and you're the best thing happened to me in my 20s. Thank you💗 Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰 ❤
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Very wise and powerful words. Thank you.
Everyone needs a Margarita in their life! Happy pregnancy, you look amazing. Please do consider some kind of face to face workshop for women one day.. I'm in, thanks xx
im 15, you saved me. forever grateful my god
We love you lots too! 🥰 I’m totally hooked on your podcast.. I often listen to episodes multiple times, and learn something different after hear it for the second time. You have a great voice and a quick humour and I love that Margarita 👏🏼❤️
I am so happy I found you. You are not trasy or mean like some other female lifestyle/dating creators. We are probably same age but I feel like I never had anyone talk about these things in such reason so it's like I am learning from the begining :D
Your videos help me so much to think about myself in relationship and wow. I got work to do. Thank you so much!!
Just made my day seeing you post ❤
I woke up this morning looking for this video..Thank youuu!! You’re like my own personal therapist that I carry around and pull out my pocket as needed.❤❤❤
You are very talented in speaking, I can see you are putting a lot of effort in sharing this. Thanks! Also what a lovely name Margarita.
I really appreciate your existence and your wise words! You look amazing ❤
Thank you, this video was exactly what I needed to hear at this moment in time. Wise words. ❤
I needed to hear this thank you for putting it in this perspective 💕 tired of being in low vibration mode
Thank you for sharing this. I will live in my relationship with the attitude of just “letting it be”, and whatever happens, happens. I can only be the best and most confident version of myself.
Thank you for this video Margarita
Congratulations Margarita. Also, thank you for your amazing content. You're such a beautiful and smart person. I am so glad I found your channel.
This video made my soul breathe. Thank you for this. You reminded me of who i actually am.
Thanks!
You just gained a new subscriber, margarita!❤ My name is Flourish and you are thar big sister I have been looking for 👌🏾🥺
you give big sister energy, love it
The way I deal with jealousy/envy personally is that I end the friendship. If someone's situation makes me feel anxious, unhappy or bad about myself - why keep that person in your life. Let them move on and you move on with your life. That can be a great solution.
No it isnt. Youve rejected someone who didnt deserve it thats evil so your envy James 3v16 got in the way. The other person did NOTHING wrong
There will always be people who have more or different things than you do though. Are you going to run away from everyone?
I needed this today! Thank you ❤
Wow..... This met me exactly where I needed it. As much as I beat up on myself, and feel less than - I would not trade places. I think I might have just started to love myself. ❤✨
This is exactly what I needed and I’m so thankful you make these videos because they help me so so much ❤️
This might be a different video request but are you able to talk about moments or relationships where you may have been the “toxic one” due to your codependency/anxious attachment?
I say this because so often the anxiously attached are labeled as the good guy/victim when sometimes anxious/codependents can confuse healthy/secure people as avoidant/playing games and can become draining/controlling/emotionally abusive as a result.
You look good today.
Thank you for this video😊
Have a good one❤
Thank you for your insight
Congratulations on the pregnancy!!! Wish you all the best beautiful one xx
You are amazing and inspiring.. and congrats for your pregnancy.. 🩵🩵🩵
Margarita you are an absolute vision. I have enjoyed every video you've put out. I am on a journey of becoming a secure and self loving woman in this difficult dating world, and your words are so encouraging and soothing to my soul! Please continue sharing your thoughts and words of wisdom! ❤
I love it whenever you do a video I’ve learned so much from you. I always attract cheaters and I’m not sure exactly why. But I’m gonna be a lot more careful in my future.
Love you lots I’m starting the becoming her podcast today .I love your videos on detachment I’m trying to detach from someone but I can’t get passed the reason why they treated me the way they did after telling me I was the person they wanted to be with . The answer must be simple he never really loved me ….harder to get over the lie then the truth . XoXo
I love the way ur vdos r recommended to me at right time with right topic tht I need🤍
Needed this reminder, post break up. Thank you. 🙏
Just thank you from Brazil 💓
Hi Margarita, thank you for speaking on this topic. Can you please share you experience with betrayal and being cheated on; how you moved on and how you handled the aftermath. ❤
I'm binge-watching your content Margarita because i find it awesome! Keep going :3
Thank you!!!! so much for this video, I’m so grateful you take the time to make them. Also I really appreciate you look straight into the camera I fell like your looking at me and talking directly only to me.
Focus on yourself can help too and remember all the things youve done and had and gone
Thanks for this Margarita! ❤
I don’t want to take away from this message but you are soooooo stunning. Absolutely beautiful 😍
Margarita, I needed this!!! Thank you❤
You crack me up! 🤣🤣🤣
You have been instrumental in my self-development journey of late. Recently, I had to take a hard look in the mirror and say, "Right, this is enough, but where do I start?" and then I found you. Since then, I have been unpacking all my childhood traumas and past relationships. Thank you for holding my hand virtually while I open the crate of canned worms. 🤣
One question: if your partner looks at women in front of you, why is that a red flag? More specifically, if there is a level of trust in the relationship and cheating is ruled out, is it something to worry about? If so, what and why?
How tf are you reading my mind. I’ve been watching your videos for a while and just realized this one is new and exactly what has been happening with me lately.
I’ve been struggling with seeing everyone around me getting married & having babies. I’m 25 and I feel behind which is crazy because I never felt this way before. But I feel so far from that ever happening for me and I crave it so much. I have to delete my social media every so often because every other day there’s another peer having a baby or getting engaged. I’m so happy for them but when is it my turn? Why can’t I manage to find that?
Comparison truly is the thief of joy
Kids are expensive, you'll forever broke.....My god with all the inflation nowadays.
Oh my god it's so true about the jealousy thing , when i was little and saw a girl that's so beautiful or has something that i want for myself , i always thought to myself even though i really want to be LIKE her , i don't want to be her , i want to be me that have what she has .
that was great❤ Can we please have a longer detailed videos about the jealousy for a partner? you're really helping us lots and changing us! thank you💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎
I'm having such a hard time with this bc I'm a twin. I am so jealous of partners and I'm realizing it stems from being constantly compared to her growing up by other children. It was brutal. How do I feel unique and move past this pain that is so deeply rooted. It's destroying my relationships and it's also quite exhausting.
You are amazing . Like an older sister to me.s wise words. Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️
I was going through this. Until I finished watching this.
I love your teaching's girl ... thanks alot!
Love your content. Thank you ❤. And you are so beautiful! May I ask what skin care routine you have and what makeup you use!? Thank you hope all is well 😊🤍🙌🏻
Margarita❤️ I truly love all the information you have blessed us with. Lack of education can make a significant difference in our journey. That being said, do you have any advice or tips on staying in your feminine as a single mom? I know you were raised by a single mom so you might have some insight but I truly struggle with being responsible and taking on that empty male energy to make sure my own is taken care of but I find it hard to employ femininity in my dating life when I’m constantly having to “put out fires” and redirect things
I hear you and I truly understand. Motherhood really pushes you into masculine energy. But it doesn’t have to. Anyone who isn’t in your life to make it better shouldn’t have a part in it. I’ll make more content on it in the future
Hi Margarita! Thank you so much for talking about envy/jealousy in that context and giving insights and reframing thoughts for it. I do have a follow up question: how does one know if the envious feeling is telling something about what you desire vs peer pressure in a sense that one think one desires it because one feels envy/jealous but looking at it deeper one actually doesn’t want that experience, thing or whatever the other has?
I’ve dealt with my envy feelings for a long time trying to understand it and there are times i end up blaming myself “only” for feeling it. i am aware that it’s only my side of the equation that i can control or respond with, but where can i draw the line between “okay this is probably my self esteem speaking” vs “oh this dynamic is just constantly making me feel envious feelings for some reason maybe this is just incompatible”? Oftentimes, i find myself envious of things or experiences that i think i should be desiring because majority desires it. so yeah my question is in that sense. Hope to hear from you! maybe it’s something you can cover in your upcoming videos. Thank you so much for your helpful contents! 💖☺️
Thank you ! ❤
Can you please make another video for people who are being envied of, & how to deal with jealous frenemirs..?
I like that you touched this topic from a soul perspective too. But most people are not that lovey dovey anymore. They take pride in being a "dark soul" lmao. Very few people are bothered about what is wrong and what is right. All they understand is convenience.
Beautiful content anyway. 💜🌸
exactly!! most friendships today are not grounded in genuine love it is all transactional
This was soo good 🙏
These hand gestures are so triggering for me 😢 anyway love your content 😘❤️ learned a lot
CONGRATULATIONS ❤
Needed this so much :)
You deliver angelic lessons.
I needed this.
How has this lady just beefed me up so big? I feel like I'm the only girl in the world.
🥹🥹 so needed this ❤
you are the best o the best ❤❤❤
Every time I come across "There's no other person in this world like you" my mind goes "Thankfully"
Im not sure this applies to my case....I feel this way about the girlfriend of the man I love and I work with since one year, he left me and went with her and she's very beautiful like a model (even tho a bit shallow, maybe...) and younger...how can I not wish I was her, when I see him taking her on trips, loving her, giving her everything...it hurts so much
🫂 hang in there
Block them for your own mental sanity, you're worth more than to cause your own suffering (I talk from experience) block so you don't see it and focus on you now ♥
Wow I can totally relate. Going through something similar. ❤️
Either he's doing this deliberately to get back at you or he's only with her because he needs to get something out of his system something that a shallower girl than you can provide. Just know that shallow people aren't meant to last in a relationship. Sometimes love itself is tiring when you're not ready for it's intensity and aren't mature enough. One of the many reasons people break up. if he seriously sees her as more shallow than you and he left you for her then know for certain that he's fighting his own demons that's why he's with her. He didn't deserve you. People chase fun times when they can't face challenges healthily. Maybe he's just as shallow a person as her. Who knows. Don't wait for him to come back that's for sure. That game sucks. Find someone better. Plenty of men in the sea😂😂 hope this helps in the meantime whilst we wait for a new video