When I go pick my daughter up from daycare and she sees me, the smile on her face, her excitement to see me and the way she runs up to me melts my heart. I love that little girl like nothing else in this world.
I’ve been struggling with how to balance technology and faith in our home, and ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ provided some amazing insights that we’ve already started using
I realized a few years ago that I'm completely different with my mom and my dad. I'm silly, fun, open, and "never a dull moment" with my mom. I completely lack these traits around my dad, I'm not myself around him. I think it's because my dad has issues with patience and his temperament, he can go from "normal" to "scary asshole" on the slightest provocation. When you're a little kid that leaves a lasting impression on you. My mom never yelled in my face when I fucked up as a little kid, she never made me cry, she never made me feel bad for asking questions, and she never pushed me away. Instinctively, I'm comfortable being myself around her. If you're a father, keep that in mind.
Damn bro I'm getting emotional reading this because I'm in the same situation I remember when my dad would scream at me and called me a piece of shit when I would make mistakes. I was 10!
Our entire male culture misunderstood the purpose of boot camp is not to make men better, but to make them willingly expendable tools. The survival of a nation depends on traits that are utterly useless once the war is over. Especially in an age where life becomes more safe, free and easy every year. In a world of peace, prosperity and complexity, the traits of aggression, toughness and obedience are worse than useless. They are disadvantages. This is a world where feminine traits work better, where loving your kids prepares them better than toughening them. Men unwilling to adapt to this reality are the reason we elected an abuser to return us to the days when hurting and getting hurt were the stairway to greatness.
Being a dad is the best thing I've ever experienced. I try hard, and I'm not perfect, and I fail. But each time my daughters tell me they love me and don't want me to go to work, and I spend every weekend with them. One of them even said, "You're not like other dads. You play with us. You don't just watch the football game." All I know is I try hard.... jeez, I'm tearing up writing this. I'm at work and just thinking about my daughters.
Man, my son's first word was "daddy". I was not there to hear it(was at work) but my girlfriend had recorded it for me.I came home and all he he said was daddy.He is 2 yrs old now but everytime I see the video or hear him say "come on daddy,lets go play"...I have to hold back tears of joy. Nothing brings more joy to my soul.
I'm an uncle of 40 years . I've raised my nephews to be men. Their dads wanted nothing to do with them. I raised my nieces to be ladies. Thank God they all turned out very successful. I couldn't be prouder.
That's something that all kids need. They dont necessarily need a dad. They need a role model. A good uncle that's there for them can easily take over the role of the dad. It's amazing to hear that you did that for your nephews.
My daughter is by far the best thing that's ever happened to me. She's completely changed my life, changed my whole outlook on life and changed the type of person I try to be. She's just the most loving and most beautiful human being I've ever met... inside and out. Just all smiles, always happy and positive all the time. She's 9 years old now and I've literally never heard anything mean come out of her mouth. I try my best to teach her everything I know but I honestly feel like I could learn so much from her as well... just because of the type of person she is. I'm really lucky I get to be her Dad
My father was the greatest man i've ever met on a myriad of levels. The day he died was the first time i experienced what people mean when they say they feel gutted. I literally felt i'd had my internals emptied
Wow this comment about your dad made me tear up. I know exactly what it feels like to be gutted and feel so sick to your stomach that all your insides feel not there and your limbs go numb. It’s the craziest this mind and body. I’m so sorry for your loss, I hope you find solace with it
"Idk if I'm a good comic, Idk if I was a good fighter, Idk if I'm a good podcaster... one thing I know is I'm a fucking good dad" Probably the most beautiful thing Schaub has ever said. Respect.
So you see one incident and think you know what kind of dad he is? You don't know what goes on behind closed doors. You can be proud he stood up for himself in the moment but later on when its just the two of them teach him that maybe the whole situation could have been avoided if his acrions were different...and maybe im wrong and he teaches his kid to always fight.... Point is, you dont know shit my dude. You just seem like someone who loves to judge
A. H.: Yeah, that fucken guy loves to pat himself on the back, and LOVES to use the latest buzz words or phrases from pop culture: “Beast,” “I get it, I get it.” 🧻
"You might be an amazing dad with the right woman, but with the wrong woman you might be so frustrated with the relationship that you're not as good a dad as you are right now. There might be chaos all the time..." There it is.
Not going to lie, I knew early on in my teenage years, that I was called to be a dad. I really feel like it's a calling for me. Or that it's my purpose in life. Once I had my son, held him in my hands, it was confirmed what I had felt when I was a teenager. Being a parent is a gift, cherish it! Here's to all the great parents in the world!
The way these guys talk about constantly appreciating their kids and cherishing every good moment with them is completely alien to me, pretty cool to see since my father was very reserved and quiet
I've noticed I became more emotional since I became a father. It's a different level of love you experience. Your defensive mechanism gets to another level also. It motivated me to be a better human being...I love it.
I get my daughter once a week.., that’s the arrangement. When I pick her up from her moms just to see her face light up as I arrive it absolutely melts my heart. Having a daughter is such a blessing !
@@HiiiGHLIFE1 I didn’t feel excited like everyone expects you too, but now that my daughter is 4 months I get it. I’m excited for you! Best of luck on your journey and I’m sure you’ll figure something out! 👊🏻
Just had my daughter a week ago...craziest feelings ive ever felt and i watched her come into this world. What a blessing, such perfection from God. I hope youre doing well 1yr later.
The part when they discuss if your father was mean to you as a child it stays with their child is 100% true. My dad was loving and good provider but he was always angry. I never knew why he was angry and that put allot of fear into my brother and I. Fast forward 25 years and Im a father of 3 wonderful kids! But Im angry and I dont know why.. I changed allot and learnt to be more patient but its true. So all I wanted to say was patience is truly a virtue that will resonate with your children. Children will become angry and spiteful to their peers in school and especially at home to their parents and siblings. A happy home means happy kids.
Are you adjusting? You might think of yourself as a bad father but please promise me one thing: be who you are. As a dad, as a friend, as a professional. It might not be perfect but don't get angry my brother. Be who you are, take your losses and laugh.
I thought I knew what love was, I thought I knew how much I loved my husband. Then we had our two little boys, that's when I really knew what love was. Now I see my husband when he's taking care of them and I love him even more. My boys make me a better person. I count my blessings everyday for my family and the love we share.
Katherine and Dannie, I wanted to say congrats and enjoy the gift of life! My wife just gave birth to our firstborn (son) last month. I’m blown away daily how selfless and dedicated she is to our dude. We were plenty in love before the baby, now I’m head over heels for her amazing motherly instincts. Motherhood is a bond like no other and I’m sure you two are doing amazing. Congrats again!
@@katherinep708 All the best. On a random note, read 'Jaws: The Story of a Hidden Epidemic' to save your son's facial development and his health. It's well worth the read.
I just had my first child two days ago, a daughter, I can already feel everything they're talking about and it has only just begun! Such an amazing feeling, within the matter of minutes my entire perception of life and goals have changed! #girldad
UPDATE 11/1/23: Expecting my 2nd son this month. ❤️ Holding my new born son laying in bed watching this. I’m definitely a changed man and it’s only been 6 days. This experience is another level. I feel it’s a mandate for me to grow up and grow strong not for me but for him, my wife and my legacy.
@@humanbeing-001 yet here I am... 2 years after this was posted, caring. I'll remember this comment for a while as its good motivation to me, you on the other hand will be forgotten about the second I hit post.
I don't know if I'm a good comic or a good fighter. But I'm a beast of a dad. That is easily, the manliest thing I've ever heard. Absolute respect for this conversation.
Love my daughter more than anything on the planet. Thanks for this video joe. Really helps keep trucking a long when things get rough. This one really hit home.
My wife is due with our first child(son), in the next couple days or so. Im gonna be a dad! Ive never been more excited in my life! Great advice from these guys.
Makes me cry...being a good dad is my greatest and most recently achieved goal. And continues to be my most hard working goal to this day of my life...
Thank you for being dedicated. You're not just doing it for your little one, but you're restoring hope in others who do not have good parents. Your good parenting makes waves if you think about it.
I'm 22 years old and I love being a mother. Some days I miss my profession and chasing MY dreams. But my daughter's dreams and future is so much bigger than my dreams could ever be
Well if you miss your dreams sometimes maybe you can find some time in the day to take some you time and just work on the things you love and want! I think it's important to care for one self so you can care for others with all your heart. And it makes you a great role model cause youre building something for your children and show them that they can do anything they want in their life. Don't put things off for to long - my mom did that and when I was getting 11+ she could not wait for me to just be independent so she can do her thing... I'd just wish she would have done that earlier cause then it wouldn't be so rapid and weird. And you're a really young mom so all energy and love is on your side, living the dream 😊
Fire Shine yes I plan on returning to the vet tech world when our girls are in school. Until then I’m a stay at home mom and our wedding is planned for next year.
New dad here: I devote my Father’s Day to my wife. After all she went through, still going through (1mo last week), there’s no way I can compare lol. The dedication a woman puts into raising a child is unreal and beautiful.
Both of my daughters were my students in my 4th grade class. Game over! I won the best prize in the world. Spending time with them and teaching is without doubt the best thing a father can do!
Hearing joe talk about watching a film with his daughter is so sweet. My mother was never involved in my life and going to the movies was and still is such a big part of me and my dads time together
I just had my first child on April 25th My gosh what a game changer. My life flashed and that little child become the absolute light of my life. I would do anything for him and my wife.. I can’t wait to see him after work. I love holding him and talking to him. Just being near him is the greatest thing ever.
I am a father of two beautiful, kind and loving daughters, it’s the best thing ever. Me and my 1st daughter (3 years old at the time) used to travel across Bangkok for 2 hour journeys everyday, by bus, then boat, then walk/carry her for 20 mins to the school in the blistering heat/tropical thunderstorms. I was working at an international school and she was a student there. This was such a bonding experience and we are inseparable. I feel truly blessed and feel less scared of death as a result feeling I have fulfilled part of my purpose on this earth However, I of course need to make sure I leave something for them before I’m gone. Having a child is a blessing, some people go to extreme extents just to have one so if you do then please love them all you can as you are really lucky.
As a 40yo mom who had two dads who didn’t give one shit about me I’m eternally grateful for the father my husband is to our daughters. Secondly, I’m in awe of all the wonderful fathers in here. Make no mistake, you’re changing the world!! ❤️
@@kenlucas7025 I'm sure, with the near limitless potential for knowledge that is Google and the internet, you can find at least one example that can enlighten you.
i am one of those kids who grown up with an ass father, but when he die i realise in the end how much he did wrong to me deep down i want him to acknowledge me not just something unwanted, and now all that left is regret cuz i never really confront him with our problem
Not worth it. My dad stole money from me and beat the shit out of me and was never home. I confronted him on it and he made it like he was the victim. It's like a rapist blaming the girl who were the mini skirt that caused the rapist to be a rapist. AHoles will be Aholes and they take no personal responsibilities. Haven't seen or talked to my dad in over 20 years. I don't even know if he's alive or dead, and I don't care to know.
Glad you put this interview up on here. It's important for dads to hear that your goal can be to be the best Dad or a Boss of a Dad. These few years that you have with your kids while they're young are far more important than the bump up the career ladder or personal life goal achievements or whatever else is out there to chase. You've got a lifetime to pursue everything else. Try to let go of some of this stuff until they're older. It's a short inconvenience of putting things off compared to regrets for the rest of your life and wishing you could connect with your child.
Choo Choo TV some kids live in cities with shitty weather where they can’t go outside all the time. I highly doubt his kid sits in front of a tv all day
@@sasuke20989 You think because you're different, you're better lol That's the correct grammer, you can thank me later You obviously spent to many days of your childhood watching garbage on TV Learn the language before stepping to me!
Listening to this really makes me appreciate my Parents and Grandparents, I sometimes catch myself taking it for granted and fail to realize what other people may have had to deal with.
I married someone with kids..and we couldn't have any together. I helped raise them and now have a grandchild from one of them. It's the best thing ever ❤️
I've had 4 boys and one daughter and a daughters love is very different than boys, daughters when still young, pre teenager, just adore you. They'll run around get your slippers, make cuppas and they always give big hugs and kisses. Then they become teenagers and they are a very different beast
I had a great bond with my dad as a child, but then turned on him like crazy as a teenager. Poor man. Teenage girls are a handful. I pulled myself together at around 18 and now we have an amazing bond again, but sheesh..
Hit the nail on the head ....I don't think people understand how hard it is to have and keep a happy family. Keep on keeping on brother . Cheers from Canada 🇨🇦
Children absolutely NEED their fathers. Absolutely. I see it on my 1 year old son’s face every morning and every time my husband comes into the room. Absolutely.
Im 43 my wife is 34 after 16 years together and using no protection she got pregnant for the first time in her life. To me family is everything. Thankfully im a disabled veteran and on disability. This will allow me to be mr mom while my wife works. Since i cant work im going to make it my mission to be the best father ever. Im glad to hear that you guys feel the same way. Wonder if its because we are gen xers?
The most important job that you can have in life is to raise a child to become a good man or woman. Becoming a parent definitely changes you, it changes the way you look at life. Loved this content!
I was in subway the other day with my boyfriend and there was a dad and his daughter. I wished that I had a dad that was present. It touched me in such a weird way, I just witnessed something that a dad and daughter had, that I never had with my dad.
my boyfriend has 3 amazing children. holy shit i’ve never met such gifted, once-and-only in a lifetime kids in my life. the way they move and create in this world is just ASTOUNDING. i can’t wait to see where they go in life. their natural optimism, presentness, and joy is a beautiful example to us all. they bring me back to center when i snap out of my stress spells. the most powerful part about it, is that no matter what we go through, we love each other unconditionally. it makes me tear up writing about this. it’s been such a rocky journey getting to know them & get used to living with 3 small & wild kids in a tiny townhome. but they push me to work harder financially, emotionally, spiritually, and socially. i forgave my parents a while after learning what it’s like to raise 3 kids. they had a hard marriage and therefor a hard time with 3 of us. so yeah. kids are powerful. i wonder often if i want my own someday. but ours are just perfect. i love them so fucking much. phew.
Thankyou guys!! I am going to be a father for the first time!!! in 4 weeks my daughter will be here😁 my lady is huge but were so happy!!!! Thankyou guys👍
I’ve been fortunate to accomplish a few things here and there during my life. At about the age of 30 i realized, and still believe to this day, that about 95% of it didn’t have anything to do with me, just was due to the fact that i had great parents.
As a "kid" 27 years old I think unconditional love goes both ways: kids love parents just as much as parents love their kids. No matter what they do, you will always love them. There are exceptions of course, like psychopathic parents or whatnot. Unconditional love is very real, its a trip.
My daughter is autistic. I don’t get the typical dad experience. It hurts. But she’s my princess and I’m damned proud of the fact I’m involved in her life. Most parents would’ve gave up by now…yea she’s that bad. But I’m never giving up. I just pray she improves.
Lemme just say she’s not as bad as the super low functioning autist. She clearly knows things, she just can’t vocalize. She’s made improvements. But what hurts is the lack of love I get from her. And the tantrums of course. Those won’t probably ever stop.
Honestly, they are speaking so much wisdom rn. Coming from me, someone who married a deadbeat who abandoned us when my son was born - I wish my husband was half of the father these guys are.
As soon as I clicked on this video I was knew people were gonna somehow find a way to relate it to this Conor Mcgregor shit. And you said the one I first thought of haha
I think one thing a lot of people don’t do is try to be down to earth sometimes with their kids. It’s okay to be vulnerable in front of your kids and give them explanations.
I know this was 4 years ago but hearing you guys talk about what it takes to be a father and the characteristics between the good and bad parents really does make me pity my father. There was sooo much and still is so much that he missed out on. I have 2 of my own now, 3 year old and a 5 year old. Watching them learn everyday and seeing them just be happy about everything gives me the greatest feeling I've ever had. Thanks you guys 🥲💙
This happened to me. When my kids started to grow up, i had a life changing mindset. Priorities that once was overwhelming now is an ambition and something done out of love.
My son was just born last week, our first child. I feel like a completey different man...from now on everything I do is for my wife and the little guy! I was a bit depressed for years, sort of stuck in a funk... it's amazing how quikcly that fades when you watch your wife give birth. The most beautiful thing you will ever experience in life.
I’m happy to say I’m child free and will continue that lifestyle but if you’re gonna have kids being the best possible parent is an absolute must. Too many people have kids because of pressure from the family and society. It’s ridiculous the pressure people put on each other to have kids.
Man does this hit home. Had a son. First born child. 3 months now. I would literally give up 3 lifetimes for him. Growing up with an absent dad, growing up a piece of shit that I was. Very bad decisions…. But now being responsible for another human that’s super vulnerable, literally changes your life….
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When I go pick my daughter up from daycare and she sees me, the smile on her face, her excitement to see me and the way she runs up to me melts my heart. I love that little girl like nothing else in this world.
David Yvonne damn man, u ended his life.
@David Yvonne lmao you killed that guy
@isingsongsonvent Daycares are great for kids. Social development at a young age is crucial for a person to be successful and happy in life.
David Yvonne right on. Daycare has been great for my kid it’s more of a school actually plus me and mom are working parents.
Daycare is good if it's a good daycare. And terrible if it's a bad one. Most are good.
If you are cruel to your children, they’ll never forgive you for it when they are grown. He’s 100% right.
You can forgive but you can't forget.
@@95tillinfinity23 unless they do something completely outrageous
I forgave my dad. as I got older I realized it wasn’t all his fault he, was abused as a child. It turned the hate I had for him in2 understanding.
Yup
@@benji1583 doesn't excuse any of his behavior
I’ve been struggling with how to balance technology and faith in our home, and ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ provided some amazing insights that we’ve already started using
Just raise the warriors! Fuck technology
@@tb6364 tech is a must but you need to learn how to see it as a tool
I realized a few years ago that I'm completely different with my mom and my dad. I'm silly, fun, open, and "never a dull moment" with my mom. I completely lack these traits around my dad, I'm not myself around him. I think it's because my dad has issues with patience and his temperament, he can go from "normal" to "scary asshole" on the slightest provocation. When you're a little kid that leaves a lasting impression on you.
My mom never yelled in my face when I fucked up as a little kid, she never made me cry, she never made me feel bad for asking questions, and she never pushed me away. Instinctively, I'm comfortable being myself around her.
If you're a father, keep that in mind.
Damn bro I'm getting emotional reading this because I'm in the same situation I remember when my dad would scream at me and called me a piece of shit when I would make mistakes. I was 10!
seems like you have some deeper ties to your mom...you pervert.
@@looch1ner500 I think your missing the point
Looch 1ner is that was what you got out of the comment, you’ve got real problems mate.
Our entire male culture misunderstood the purpose of boot camp is not to make men better, but to make them willingly expendable tools. The survival of a nation depends on traits that are utterly useless once the war is over. Especially in an age where life becomes more safe, free and easy every year. In a world of peace, prosperity and complexity, the traits of aggression, toughness and obedience are worse than useless. They are disadvantages. This is a world where feminine traits work better, where loving your kids prepares them better than toughening them. Men unwilling to adapt to this reality are the reason we elected an abuser to return us to the days when hurting and getting hurt were the stairway to greatness.
Being a dad is the best thing I've ever experienced. I try hard, and I'm not perfect, and I fail. But each time my daughters tell me they love me and don't want me to go to work, and I spend every weekend with them. One of them even said, "You're not like other dads. You play with us. You don't just watch the football game." All I know is I try hard.... jeez, I'm tearing up writing this. I'm at work and just thinking about my daughters.
This is #Goals
Respect bro
respect sir 💯💯
Awesome Dad!
Respect bro👌🏽💪🏽
My 14 month old daughters first words were "HI DADDY" It melts my heart every time.
Dwain Ellsworth thats precious man💚🙏🏼
Please forgive me but I just misread this as you're 14 year old.. was confused #staywoke
thats awesome dude
Man, my son's first word was "daddy". I was not there to hear it(was at work) but my girlfriend had recorded it for me.I came home and all he he said was daddy.He is 2 yrs old now but everytime I see the video or hear him say "come on daddy,lets go play"...I have to hold back tears of joy. Nothing brings more joy to my soul.
@@chrisrichardson9263 that's frowned upon and illegal
these are real men with real discussions
@submalevolent grace actually the other kids were older and apparently one of them took his toy which led to the left hook
grace depends on the scenario but I do agree that violence should only be used as a last resort but then again they are toddlers
My niece does not love her dad LOL
Glutamate Sulphate l
submalevolent grace my kids are gonna know how to throw a left hook but it depends on the situation on how I will reprimand them
I'm an uncle of 40 years . I've raised my nephews to be men. Their dads wanted nothing to do with them. I raised my nieces to be ladies. Thank God they all turned out very successful. I couldn't be prouder.
You’re a beast man. Respect 🥲
That's something that all kids need. They dont necessarily need a dad. They need a role model. A good uncle that's there for them can easily take over the role of the dad. It's amazing to hear that you did that for your nephews.
Respect
❤
How dare you continually reaffirm their gender and make them successful
My daughter is by far the best thing that's ever happened to me. She's completely changed my life, changed my whole outlook on life and changed the type of person I try to be. She's just the most loving and most beautiful human being I've ever met... inside and out. Just all smiles, always happy and positive all the time. She's 9 years old now and I've literally never heard anything mean come out of her mouth. I try my best to teach her everything I know but I honestly feel like I could learn so much from her as well... just because of the type of person she is. I'm really lucky I get to be her Dad
Beautiful brother
1:00 Children love their parents. Eventually they come to judge them. Rarely do they forgive them.
-Oscar Wilde
Damn, there's a Wilde quote for everything.
F E for real lolol
i saw this quote in Tekken 7, I respect Harada even more.
Where does that quote come from? Would love to look more into it
@@Bronymetalero500 wit and humour of oscar wilde book is where i saw it it's on kindle
My wife and I just found out she was pregnant yesterday!
SgtManiak Congrats!
Good for you!
My wife too 2 days ago
... crazy we probably conceived around the same time
Sydney black me too same time enjoy
Congrats man, I wish you and your wife have a smooth healthy pregnancy
My father was the greatest man i've ever met on a myriad of levels. The day he died was the first time i experienced what people mean when they say they feel gutted. I literally felt i'd had my internals emptied
Me too. Luckily he implanted a road map as how to move forward.
Antipodean33 may god rest your sweet fathers soul i eternal peace
I’m sorry for your loss. God bless you, your family and God rest his soul.
Wow this comment about your dad made me tear up. I know exactly what it feels like to be gutted and feel so sick to your stomach that all your insides feel not there and your limbs go numb. It’s the craziest this mind and body. I’m so sorry for your loss, I hope you find solace with it
Antipodean33 I'm sorry, may there be a reunion in heaven. God bless you.
"Idk if I'm a good comic, Idk if I was a good fighter, Idk if I'm a good podcaster... one thing I know is I'm a fucking good dad"
Probably the most beautiful thing Schaub has ever said. Respect.
A. H. - Lmao, did you not watch the video? Some kids twice his age took his toy. They deserved every smack they got. 👋🏼
So you see one incident and think you know what kind of dad he is? You don't know what goes on behind closed doors. You can be proud he stood up for himself in the moment but later on when its just the two of them teach him that maybe the whole situation could have been avoided if his acrions were different...and maybe im wrong and he teaches his kid to always fight.... Point is, you dont know shit my dude. You just seem like someone who loves to judge
A. H.: Yeah, that fucken guy loves to pat himself on the back, and LOVES to use the latest buzz words or phrases from pop culture: “Beast,” “I get it, I get it.” 🧻
Making aggressive assholes is the best way to parent tho. Nice kids get their teeth kicked in
Chanandler dude what? Please take a look at what you just said, because they may been stupidest RUclips comment I’ve ever seen.
I may be a terrible dad, employee, coworker, friend, and son. But one thing I am is a beast of a nephew.
kittenmachinegun me too
Same
Lmaoooo
How is this a beautiful saying? A terrible dad but a great nephew? What a piece of shit. Get your priorities straight and be a better father
LMFAOOOO!!!! 😂😂😂😂 Hilarious! Lol
Being a parent is the hardest thing you will ever do in your life. And it’s worth every bit of it.
But have you ever beat Through The Fire and Flames on expert?
@@PabloCruise91 or played it on an actual guitar
Sorry this job is NOT for me!
Absolutely, non-negotiable job 247365
please elaborate on how it's worth it? :)
"You might be an amazing dad with the right woman, but with the wrong woman you might be so frustrated with the relationship that you're not as good a dad as you are right now. There might be chaos all the time..."
There it is.
True
What does it mean
@@spodergibbs5088 find the right woman otherwise u and rhe kid will suffer
Tr0nzoid 💯 true
COUNTRYBOI *you’re and *affect bro
Not going to lie, I knew early on in my teenage years, that I was called to be a dad. I really feel like it's a calling for me. Or that it's my purpose in life. Once I had my son, held him in my hands, it was confirmed what I had felt when I was a teenager. Being a parent is a gift, cherish it!
Here's to all the great parents in the world!
@Bobby Lee I can tell you're not a parent.
RyanJS08 damn dude, go easy on yourself.
I feel the same way about being a mom.
To all the real ones 🍻
I never thought about having kids and I had a son at 40. I’m loving it, it’s a lot of work but very fulfilling
The way these guys talk about constantly appreciating their kids and cherishing every good moment with them is completely alien to me, pretty cool to see since my father was very reserved and quiet
At lesst he was there
I've noticed I became more emotional since I became a father. It's a different level of love you experience. Your defensive mechanism gets to another level also. It motivated me to be a better human being...I love it.
Me too bro
I get my daughter once a week.., that’s the arrangement. When I pick her up from her moms just to see her face light up as I arrive it absolutely melts my heart. Having a daughter is such a blessing !
You need to tell her that. Your daughter needs to hear but more importantly she needs to know that. She’s very lucky.
Keep at it brother, make sure you let her know that. Use her smiles as fuel to be the best version of yourself.
Dude you need to do everything possible to have your child 50% of the time. Don't believe children need their mothers more. Your child needs you!
why once a week out of 7 days??? how is that fair?
My daughter will be here in a month. Can’t wait 🙏
My daughter just came 1st child it’s amazing
Blessings to both your families! I am also waiting for a double blessing in about a month, Lord willing 🙏🏾
Mine will be here November 5th.. Don't feel excited, but don't really know what to expect. Not financially stable so I'm super stressed...
@@HiiiGHLIFE1 I didn’t feel excited like everyone expects you too, but now that my daughter is 4 months I get it. I’m excited for you! Best of luck on your journey and I’m sure you’ll figure something out! 👊🏻
2 months for me good luck brotha
My daughter was born 2 days ago. I can't explain how happy and thrilled I am for this new chapter of my life. Feels great
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Just had my daughter a week ago...craziest feelings ive ever felt and i watched her come into this world. What a blessing, such perfection from God. I hope youre doing well 1yr later.
I just figured out we pregnant any tips for these 40 weeks ??
Your daughter is 2 years old now damn hope you and her are doing well
The part when they discuss if your father was mean to you as a child it stays with their child is 100% true. My dad was loving and good provider but he was always angry. I never knew why he was angry and that put allot of fear into my brother and I. Fast forward 25 years and Im a father of 3 wonderful kids! But Im angry and I dont know why.. I changed allot and learnt to be more patient but its true. So all I wanted to say was patience is truly a virtue that will resonate with your children. Children will become angry and spiteful to their peers in school and especially at home to their parents and siblings. A happy home means happy kids.
Incitatus wow. Hit close to home
That has been my experience.
Are you adjusting? You might think of yourself as a bad father but please promise me one thing: be who you are. As a dad, as a friend, as a professional. It might not be perfect but don't get angry my brother. Be who you are, take your losses and laugh.
dennis de vulder he’s being who he is and that’s someone that’s angry sometimes. No harm in that as long as he’s being a good dad
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I thought I knew what love was, I thought I knew how much I loved my husband. Then we had our two little boys, that's when I really knew what love was. Now I see my husband when he's taking care of them and I love him even more. My boys make me a better person. I count my blessings everyday for my family and the love we share.
I'm pregnant with my first ever child, a boy, and I'm very worried that I won't be a good mother. I really hope I can raise my son well
@@katherinep708 love him, it will turn out alright.
Katherine and Dannie,
I wanted to say congrats and enjoy the gift of life!
My wife just gave birth to our firstborn (son) last month. I’m blown away daily how selfless and dedicated she is to our dude. We were plenty in love before the baby, now I’m head over heels for her amazing motherly instincts.
Motherhood is a bond like no other and I’m sure you two are doing amazing. Congrats again!
@@katherinep708 All the best.
On a random note, read 'Jaws: The Story of a Hidden Epidemic' to save your son's facial development and his health. It's well worth the read.
@@fishofgold6553 who is the guy joe had on who talked about that and wearing the head thing for his teeth?
I just became a father this week. To a girl as well.
Congrats brotha
U sure the baby's yours? Get a dna test just in case
Being a parent is hard but so rewarding. Takes patience and understanding but every day is beautiful watching your kid grow and learn about the world.
Damn... never realized how fatherhood really is a one of a kind feeling. Made me appreciate my parents beyond more!💯
Joe " snuggle bunny" Rogan
Best one yet
Marwan Mansaye lmao
I just had my first child two days ago, a daughter, I can already feel everything they're talking about and it has only just begun! Such an amazing feeling, within the matter of minutes my entire perception of life and goals have changed! #girldad
Please give an update on your fatherhood journey.
UPDATE 11/1/23: Expecting my 2nd son this month. ❤️
Holding my new born son laying in bed watching this. I’m definitely a changed man and it’s only been 6 days. This experience is another level. I feel it’s a mandate for me to grow up and grow strong not for me but for him, my wife and my legacy.
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I hope you and your son are well! :)
Spot on man, spot on
@@LDAEIB thanks! We are blessed ❤️ expecting his brother this month 😃
@@thepeoplesartist2863 💪
My son is 15 months old and im better at being a dad then anything ive done my whole life, this little boy has really made me a man
And the love for i have for his mother/my wife has grown exponentially
No one cares.
Thats beautiful!
@@humanbeing-001 and no one asked you
@@humanbeing-001 yet here I am... 2 years after this was posted, caring.
I'll remember this comment for a while as its good motivation to me, you on the other hand will be forgotten about the second I hit post.
Joe Rogan is my spirit human.
Sameeeeeee
I don't know if I'm a good comic or a good fighter. But I'm a beast of a dad.
That is easily, the manliest thing I've ever heard. Absolute respect for this conversation.
Love my daughter more than anything on the planet. Thanks for this video joe. Really helps keep trucking a long when things get rough. This one really hit home.
My wife is due with our first child(son), in the next couple days or so. Im gonna be a dad! Ive never been more excited in my life! Great advice from these guys.
DJ Burton congrats, how old r u and your wife?
*me consoling my kid* Applesauce it's okay, Joe doesn't know what he's talking about
Hey Duck Butter, come laugh at this guy with daddy. He named his kid applesauce! Lol what an asshole!
Tyler Allen - HA 🤣 I laughed way to hard at this.
Tyler Allen lol!
Lmao bro
Yeah, thats right before XÆ A-12 walks into the room
A little late ( 35 ) but my son is on his way, can’t believe I’m learning how to be a dad through Joe! Love it
i'm 47. still not a dad
Nah that’s not too late at all, very normal throughout history, many congrats mate :) you are blessed!
@@samchezthomasino2331 thank you very much Thomasino
@@TheBillaro 47, you’re just a kid smh
@@lucasarnquist3329 why so?
Makes me cry...being a good dad is my greatest and most recently achieved goal. And continues to be my most hard working goal to this day of my life...
8 has.
Thank you for being dedicated. You're not just doing it for your little one, but you're restoring hope in others who do not have good parents. Your good parenting makes waves if you think about it.
Me too brother. Right there with you. The greatest thing that’s ever happened to me
I'm 22 years old and I love being a mother. Some days I miss my profession and chasing MY dreams. But my daughter's dreams and future is so much bigger than my dreams could ever be
@Solid Water I agree! You can't buy a family, you can only make one. Baby #2 is on the way in August!
Well if you miss your dreams sometimes maybe you can find some time in the day to take some you time and just work on the things you love and want! I think it's important to care for one self so you can care for others with all your heart. And it makes you a great role model cause youre building something for your children and show them that they can do anything they want in their life. Don't put things off for to long - my mom did that and when I was getting 11+ she could not wait for me to just be independent so she can do her thing... I'd just wish she would have done that earlier cause then it wouldn't be so rapid and weird. And you're a really young mom so all energy and love is on your side, living the dream 😊
How much ??
Brr23 how much do I love our daughters? (Btw we just had baby #2 in august)
Fire Shine yes I plan on returning to the vet tech world when our girls are in school. Until then I’m a stay at home mom and our wedding is planned for next year.
My daughter took over my heart the first time I held her. That moment changed me in so many ways. Women don't make men out of boys. Your children do.
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A man who doesn’t spend time with his family, can‘t ever; be called a Real Man
Straight Facts!!
Godfather.
just do anything a real man would do
Same thing goes for a woman who doesn't spend time with her family
Agreed! Real men DONT walk out when they get a girl pregnant!!!!
0-7 Mum 7-14 Dad 14-21 Neither 22 and beyond Both
So in the end you're saying you attatch to both the most together.
A child gives birth to the parent.
This is actually profound as fuck 🧘♂️
Louis van Zyl Truth
Louis van Zyl that’s pretty clever
Out of context, this would sound really wacky right now, lmao
- but with context, super profound indeed 😉
Dang that’s deep
New dad here: I devote my Father’s Day to my wife. After all she went through, still going through (1mo last week), there’s no way I can compare lol. The dedication a woman puts into raising a child is unreal and beautiful.
"Why were you a dick when I was 12?" lmao
Bro really like what the fuck
Not even funny.
@@NeroAngelo616 I'm sorry if you had a troubled childhood
When he said that it hit home for sure 😂
He's got a point though, switching up around the late game doesn't fix anything
Being a good dad is a lot harder than it sounds. Always good commentary.
27 with the 3 boys
5,3, and 1 years old
A beautiful headache 😭
joseph franco “A beautiful headache” I’ve never heard a more perfect description of parenthood 😂 Thank you!
Im 30 with a 4 year old boy and man i have mad respect for you how do you do it haha
There’s no other way to put it 🤷🏽♂️😭
i still haven’t finished I’ll get back to u in about 16 years I’ll lyk if I’m still alive 😂
joseph franco I feel you 😒 got two girls under 3 years old
Both of my daughters were my students in my 4th grade class. Game over! I won the best prize in the world. Spending time with them and teaching is without doubt the best thing a father can do!
Hearing joe talk about watching a film with his daughter is so sweet. My mother was never involved in my life and going to the movies was and still is such a big part of me and my dads time together
I just had my first child on April 25th
My gosh what a game changer. My life flashed and that little child become the absolute light of my life.
I would do anything for him and my wife.. I can’t wait to see him after work. I love holding him and talking to him. Just being near him is the greatest thing ever.
Mbn
The absolute hardest days can be cured when you walk through that door and see your little one light up. Pure bliss
My daughter has same bday lol good luck
And that new baby smell 😻. Its better than drugs
How's things going with that 3 yr old? 😂 😂 My second daughter is now 3. Boy she's fire 😂
I am a father of two beautiful, kind and loving daughters, it’s the best thing ever.
Me and my 1st daughter (3 years old at the time) used to travel across Bangkok for 2 hour journeys everyday, by bus, then boat, then walk/carry her for 20 mins to the school in the blistering heat/tropical thunderstorms. I was working at an international school and she was a student there. This was such a bonding experience and we are inseparable.
I feel truly blessed and feel less scared of death as a result feeling I have fulfilled part of my purpose on this earth However, I of course need to make sure I leave something for them before I’m gone.
Having a child is a blessing, some people go to extreme extents just to have one so if you do then please love them all you can as you are really lucky.
Having a daughter is the best.
As a 40yo mom who had two dads who didn’t give one shit about me I’m eternally grateful for the father my husband is to our daughters. Secondly, I’m in awe of all the wonderful fathers in here. Make no mistake, you’re changing the world!! ❤️
The kids never forget how you treated them, I know I didn't. Now they want to think they are SO great. Some kids forgive easier than others.
There are so many bad dads out there, it's nice hearing from the good ones.
whats a bad dad?
Yeah. Please elaborate
@@kenlucas7025 I'm sure, with the near limitless potential for knowledge that is Google and the internet, you can find at least one example that can enlighten you.
Joe Rogan is a GOOD DUDE
Joe "there's a difference between hot and beautiful" Rogan
These comments are just old and stupid now
djwestbrook36 😂😂
djwest "these comments are just old and stupid now" brook36
@@andrewwilson803 lmao
All you cats are tripping...there is a huge difference. Maybe you should spend less time behind a keyboard
i am one of those kids who grown up with an ass father, but when he die i realise in the end how much he did wrong to me deep down i want him to acknowledge me not just something unwanted, and now all that left is regret cuz i never really confront him with our problem
Not worth it. My dad stole money from me and beat the shit out of me and was never home. I confronted him on it and he made it like he was the victim. It's like a rapist blaming the girl who were the mini skirt that caused the rapist to be a rapist. AHoles will be Aholes and they take no personal responsibilities. Haven't seen or talked to my dad in over 20 years. I don't even know if he's alive or dead, and I don't care to know.
Glad you put this interview up on here. It's important for dads to hear that your goal can be to be the best Dad or a Boss of a Dad. These few years that you have with your kids while they're young are far more important than the bump up the career ladder or personal life goal achievements or whatever else is out there to chase. You've got a lifetime to pursue everything else. Try to let go of some of this stuff until they're older. It's a short inconvenience of putting things off compared to regrets for the rest of your life and wishing you could connect with your child.
Watching this video as I watch my new born sleep. He’s such a blessing to my life and the push to be the best version of myself is consuming me.
"Im a beast of a dad" names his his son Tiger
Modest can’t stand this guy .
And allows his child to watch garbage like boss baby 9 times
I have 3 children and they don't watch shit on TV
They go outside to play
@@VirtualAnomly you think cause your diffrent your better lol
Choo Choo TV some kids live in cities with shitty weather where they can’t go outside all the time. I highly doubt his kid sits in front of a tv all day
@@sasuke20989
You think because you're different, you're better lol
That's the correct grammer, you can thank me later
You obviously spent to many days of your childhood watching garbage on TV
Learn the language before stepping to me!
Listening to this really makes me appreciate my Parents and Grandparents, I sometimes catch myself taking it for granted and fail to realize what other people may have had to deal with.
I married someone with kids..and we couldn't have any together. I helped raise them and now have a grandchild from one of them. It's the best thing ever ❤️
Being a dad is one of very few things that have kept me going. That little girl saves me life every day .
Children are a gift! What a blessing.
I didn’t have any purpose and I was selfish before,but my son gave me a fire inside myself to provide him the best possible life I can.this is facts
I've had 4 boys and one daughter and a daughters love is very different than boys, daughters when still young, pre teenager, just adore you. They'll run around get your slippers, make cuppas and they always give big hugs and kisses. Then they become teenagers and they are a very different beast
Antipodean33 No one cares about your gay kids.
I'm holding on to my daughter's remaining early years
Liberalism is a Mental Disorder where you looking to get likes being edgy no one here is impressed by your comment
what?
I had a great bond with my dad as a child, but then turned on him like crazy as a teenager. Poor man. Teenage girls are a handful. I pulled myself together at around 18 and now we have an amazing bond again, but sheesh..
Getting married, having children, then then fighting to keep my marriage together.. Hardest thing ive done. Best reward tho
Hit the nail on the head ....I don't think people understand how hard it is to have and keep a happy family. Keep on keeping on brother .
Cheers from Canada 🇨🇦
@@bsac8991 Thank you! Wish you the best from New Jersey
Children absolutely NEED their fathers. Absolutely. I see it on my 1 year old son’s face every morning and every time my husband comes into the room. Absolutely.
This advice can really help future parents. Can’t take those little things for granted
Im 43 my wife is 34 after 16 years together and using no protection she got pregnant for the first time in her life. To me family is everything. Thankfully im a disabled veteran and on disability. This will allow me to be mr mom while my wife works. Since i cant work im going to make it my mission to be the best father ever. Im glad to hear that you guys feel the same way. Wonder if its because we are gen xers?
Progressive Tech House Mixes congrats to her and the father Tyrone
Thanks for your service to your country, best of luck in parenthood!
tf? did you just pull out all those years?? no birth control pills?
Marc M it’s a lot harder to have kids than people think. There is a lot to it. Not everyone can just pump out children.
Start meditating my friend
The most important job that you can have in life is to raise a child to become a good man or woman. Becoming a parent definitely changes you, it changes the way you look at life. Loved this content!
I was in subway the other day with my boyfriend and there was a dad and his daughter. I wished that I had a dad that was present. It touched me in such a weird way, I just witnessed something that a dad and daughter had, that I never had with my dad.
my boyfriend has 3 amazing children. holy shit i’ve never met such gifted, once-and-only in a lifetime kids in my life. the way they move and create in this world is just ASTOUNDING. i can’t wait to see where they go in life. their natural optimism, presentness, and joy is a beautiful example to us all. they bring me back to center when i snap out of my stress spells.
the most powerful part about it, is that no matter what we go through, we love each other unconditionally. it makes me tear up writing about this. it’s been such a rocky journey getting to know them & get used to living with 3 small & wild kids in a tiny townhome. but they push me to work harder financially, emotionally, spiritually, and socially.
i forgave my parents a while after learning what it’s like to raise 3 kids. they had a hard marriage and therefor a hard time with 3 of us.
so yeah. kids are powerful. i wonder often if i want my own someday. but ours are just perfect. i love them so fucking much. phew.
@YellowMeadow Spirituelle she is present. she’s an amazing mother & person. they co-parent together very well :)
Thankyou guys!! I am going to be a father for the first time!!! in 4 weeks my daughter will be here😁 my lady is huge but were so happy!!!! Thankyou guys👍
I have two daughters.
They have changed me forever!
I've got 5 weeks to go. First kid. Don't know how it's gonna go but I'm gonna do my best. 🤙
Wondering how its going
TFJ how’s it going?
TJF I've got now myself 5 weeks to go, and I'm going to give it all I've got and try and do my best know the feeling. How's it going though?
Have you messed up yet?
Joe has so much self-awareness.
He must have good parents, DMT and Elk meat is a bonus 😂😂😂
I’ve been fortunate to accomplish a few things here and there during my life. At about the age of 30 i realized, and still believe to this day, that about 95% of it didn’t have anything to do with me, just was due to the fact that i had great parents.
As a "kid" 27 years old I think unconditional love goes both ways: kids love parents just as much as parents love their kids. No matter what they do, you will always love them. There are exceptions of course, like psychopathic parents or whatnot. Unconditional love is very real, its a trip.
Boys lean more toward the mom cause there loving and the girls go to the father cause they give them structure
Brendan "I've watched Boss Baby nine times" Schaub
Brendan „I‘m a beast of a parent“ Schaub
I would lose my mind if I do that.
My daughter is autistic. I don’t get the typical dad experience. It hurts. But she’s my princess and I’m damned proud of the fact I’m involved in her life. Most parents would’ve gave up by now…yea she’s that bad. But I’m never giving up. I just pray she improves.
Lemme just say she’s not as bad as the super low functioning autist. She clearly knows things, she just can’t vocalize. She’s made improvements. But what hurts is the lack of love I get from her. And the tantrums of course. Those won’t probably ever stop.
Honestly, they are speaking so much wisdom rn. Coming from me, someone who married a deadbeat who abandoned us when my son was born - I wish my husband was half of the father these guys are.
I took the year off to be with my baby. Work wasn’t happy. I truly don’t care. Best decision I made.
"it's like that Avatar horse"
Mike H 😂
Conor didn't change when he became a parent!
Suoh Mikoto he became a cunt
I would suggest for the maximum positive effect when having kids one shouldn't also develop a massive cocaine habit. Lmao
Lol
I was waiting for this hahahaha
As soon as I clicked on this video I was knew people were gonna somehow find a way to relate it to this Conor Mcgregor shit. And you said the one I first thought of haha
35 years old and I found out January 1st I’m going to be a dad. I’ll come back when my child is born. 😊
Turning 35 this year too I just found out my wife is pregnant after 2 years of trying. I'm excited and terrified at the same time!
Congratulations to the both of you! My son was born 2 weeks ago. It's an amazing feeling and I wish you men the best!
Yo whats up, its July now, hows your misses going?
Congrats, brothers. I had a May baby. How’s the little one doing?
Congrats man. I was 36 when I had my 1st. Enjoy the ride
The biggest present you can give your children is to love their mother,from there the positives will flow into their lives
This brought me to tears because I just had a daughter and I felt everything they discussed. I love you Jasmine🥰🥰🥰
I was always a liberal before having children but then I became conservative after having children. It is funny how that works.
musicluv80 I was a liberal before having children. Now I am a communist.
@@Maverick.D. 😂😂😂
It’s weird because I turned satanist after having a son. Brown eyes, maybe.
I think one thing a lot of people don’t do is try to be down to earth sometimes with their kids. It’s okay to be vulnerable in front of your kids and give them explanations.
I know this was 4 years ago but hearing you guys talk about what it takes to be a father and the characteristics between the good and bad parents really does make me pity my father. There was sooo much and still is so much that he missed out on. I have 2 of my own now, 3 year old and a 5 year old. Watching them learn everyday and seeing them just be happy about everything gives me the greatest feeling I've ever had. Thanks you guys 🥲💙
This happened to me. When my kids started to grow up, i had a life changing mindset. Priorities that once was overwhelming now is an ambition and something done out of love.
My son was just born last week, our first child. I feel like a completey different man...from now on everything I do is for my wife and the little guy! I was a bit depressed for years, sort of stuck in a funk... it's amazing how quikcly that fades when you watch your wife give birth. The most beautiful thing you will ever experience in life.
I have an amazing dad He’s a dad to four daughters and I don’t believe that I could have asked God for a better father.
Expecting my first child- a son- next month :)
Jose Pereira I’m the dad :)
King Havoc congrats!
So he healthy my guy?
C D yes sir! 6 weeks and is doing great.
Congrats! It will truly change your life.
I’m happy to say I’m child free and will continue that lifestyle but if you’re gonna have kids being the best possible parent is an absolute must. Too many people have kids because of pressure from the family and society. It’s ridiculous the pressure people put on each other to have kids.
Man does this hit home. Had a son. First born child. 3 months now. I would literally give up 3 lifetimes for him. Growing up with an absent dad, growing up a piece of shit that I was. Very bad decisions…. But now being responsible for another human that’s super vulnerable, literally changes your life….
I love being a mom 🙏🏻☺️