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  • Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024
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    Life is full of beautiful moments. Full of Wins, accomplishments, love, beauty and laughter. And while there are usually many more ups than downs, the downs do exist and can feel downright debilitating.
    Today we are talking about one of those downs in life known as setbacks. The hiccups delays and mess ups that deter you from being who you want to be and achieving what you want to achieve. I want to share 5 easy tips to keep your setbacks from becoming permanent problems and to help you spend less time moping and more time moving forward. Because this is not the end. You can bounce back - you’ve got this!
    * These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease.
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  • @TheFeminineUniverse
    @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +33

    Thanks again to Ritual for sponsoring this video! I love their products because they use high quality ingredients and I can take them any time of day. Remember to click here ritual.com/funiverse20 for 20% off your first month!

    • @Defonotsarahh
      @Defonotsarahh Год назад +1

      Wow, another video in less than a week 😳 👏

    • @missrd395
      @missrd395 Год назад

      Thank you🎉 Do they ship to Europe? X

    • @gabrielleaumont3971
      @gabrielleaumont3971 10 месяцев назад

      So good to hear your calm, well-spoken words of wisdom!
      Many thanks for your work.

  • @Kay-jw8fv
    @Kay-jw8fv Год назад +121

    32 single 2 kids and back living with parents, I was so mad at myself and felt like a loser but I am so grateful to have their help and I am going to get back on track, come out much better than I was before, I needed this ❤

    • @gericurlz
      @gericurlz Год назад +9

      It is a blessing that you still have your parents to help you. This is a blessing not a loss. You’ll be back on track before you know it sis! Blessings to you and your babies ❤

    • @dineodau2838
      @dineodau2838 8 месяцев назад +3

      wow! i am in a similar situation. It's been a tough journey but hey here we are! So grateful for these videos! All the best to you Queen😘

    • @Adrienne.Michelle91
      @Adrienne.Michelle91 7 месяцев назад +5

      I’m in a similar situation and you’re so blessed to have parents to help you. Not everyone is as fortunate

    • @kukisehume8000
      @kukisehume8000 4 месяца назад

      I'm in the same situation as well

    • @nombusongomane5832
      @nombusongomane5832 2 месяца назад +1

      My exact same story. Im so blessed to have such a supportive mother and a beautiful home filled with love. I just gotta work on myself

  • @AndreaPortley
    @AndreaPortley Год назад +87

    As a survivor of childhood trauma and sexual abuse, this video hits close to home! After years of failure, therapy and trying to run away from my problems, I learned to face my reality and refused to allow my past define me. I had to recognize the problem, cut demonic soul ties and learn how to get through situations without the desire to return back to “familiar” surroundings.

    • @Kashmir-lt4cx
      @Kashmir-lt4cx 9 месяцев назад +2

      @AndreaPortley omg same!

  • @mehebubamahnur9963
    @mehebubamahnur9963 Год назад +23

    Moving from the past is the hardest task of life

  • @paisleygarrett1975
    @paisleygarrett1975 8 месяцев назад +8

    if you find your self wallowing and like everything is too much also consider if you’re about to be on your cycle. when i’m ab to start mine, i find myself being more irritable and foggy in the brain. so try taking extra care of yourself during this time. i’m just saying this because i know that when i find myself wallowing, i also get upset with myself for wallowing. so when you’re aware of your body, it becomes easier to give yourself some compassion

  • @Cal_me_lady1
    @Cal_me_lady1 11 месяцев назад +17

    Come back treats
    1. Forgive yourself and release it
    2.Take advantage of the compound effect
    3.Refocus( focus on your future goals than your present distraction
    4.Reasses your plans
    5.Replan( changes or adjustment to your plan).

  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 Год назад +44

    Forgiveness specifically towards myself,is a powerful thing I didn’t know I had .

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +4

      Yes! There's something so amazing about knowing you hold that power to choose to forgive yourself and move on from _anything_

  • @bettyausten9533
    @bettyausten9533 8 месяцев назад +4

    It's been hard ti forgive myself, 32 with no kids and never been married...spent my yourh partying,dating someone who wasted my time and feeling useless .
    I feel really angry with myself
    Thanks so much for this, I really hope am able to do it.,

  • @UltimateAccessory
    @UltimateAccessory Год назад +71

    Thank you so much! My 34th birthday was yesterday and I spent too much time the past few weeks moping over the fact that I needed a reset and the fact I have to do one even with my great progress. I learned to let go of timelines because I was starting to over-exert myself that it caused me to be somewhat depressed. I needed this one.

  • @bookbutterfly2408
    @bookbutterfly2408 Год назад +135

    Wow -- another video in less than a week? You're spoiling us & I'm grateful for this! 🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏼 i needed this video at this stage in my life

    • @ajohonly3721
      @ajohonly3721 Год назад +5

      We’re on fire 🔥 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +7

      So glad this is helpful and appreciated! #comebackseason 🔥🔥

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 Год назад +26

    I can bounce back i' ve got this. Thank you your content is phenomenal.

  • @ChaosToClarityPlans
    @ChaosToClarityPlans Год назад +24

    I so NEEDED to hear and see this video right now in my chaotic life! Thank you! 💃🏿

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +1

      You're welcome! Glad this came at the right time for you, love!

  • @edenfriesen2845
    @edenfriesen2845 Год назад +20

    Thank you for posting! I always watch your videos with my young step daughters while doing face masks

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +2

      This warmed my heart! Love the bonding and that I can be part your girl time 💕

  • @scarlesbarkley9186
    @scarlesbarkley9186 Год назад +4

    It’s ok to cry!! We are human and feelings are fine. It’s part of life

  • @sinemkhize3435
    @sinemkhize3435 Год назад +3

    I have been messing up these past weeks. Moving forward ❤

  • @slayfaee
    @slayfaee Год назад +8

    You have the most soothing and gentle voice which makes me look more forward to your videos!

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +1

      You are too kind! I'm glad you enjoy the content _and_ the delivery. I appreciate you💕

  • @tauqueishachester9844
    @tauqueishachester9844 Год назад +8

    I’m sooo glad that I found your channel may everyone that prays go up in blessing come down

  • @lovecatdog
    @lovecatdog Год назад +9

    OMG! I can't believe it... 2 seconds ago. I thought to myself how do I manage to get over taking a step down in the job I'm in? How do I stop ruminating about it? Less salary, less seniority and then this video pops up. Thank you for the tools.🙏💌

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад

      While it's amazing to know that the content is timely and relevant to what you're going through, I'm so sorry to hear about your setback at work. I hope this helped you either look at the situation differently or come up with a plan to move forward. Onwards and upwards, sis! It's comeback season!! I'd love to hear about how you dealt with this, down the line. Sending you resilient, progressive, decisive energy 🙏🏾✨💕

    • @lovecatdog
      @lovecatdog Год назад

      @@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you! I receive that message and goodwill 💯
      Its been a journey of positive self talk and looking at the "glass half full" perspective..and it does work *nost* of the time...but it was inspiring to have your reminders in the video..💟
      Thank you for all that you do..
      Peace..Love and Light

  • @regiigu960
    @regiigu960 Год назад +7

    Thank you for uploading another video. Its a comfort for me listening to a channel like yours. Its like having a pep talk which i really dont get much in real life and its a breath of fresh air in a social media full of toxicity

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +1

      I'm so glad I can provide some productive and comforting content for you, love! More pep talks to come 💕

  • @Rozallthingsfeminine
    @Rozallthingsfeminine Год назад +16

    Smooches everyone! 💋.... Your setback is a setup for your comeback 💋

  • @BLACKGIRLFINANCE
    @BLACKGIRLFINANCE Год назад +16

    Definitely needed to hear this and send this to a couple of my girls! ❤

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад

      So glad this was helpful for you, love! And thank you for sharing the content. I appreciate you 💕

  • @dineodau2838
    @dineodau2838 8 месяцев назад +1

    As soon as she says "HI LADIES" ahhhhhhh😍😍😍

  • @madelinetorrenueva1594
    @madelinetorrenueva1594 Год назад +3

    I love the way you talk 😊 I downloaded your videos here on RUclips and listened to it in my office. Rooting for more quality life advices from you. Love from Philippines ❤️❤️❤️

  • @josie4789
    @josie4789 Год назад

    I really needed that thank you ❤

  • @jessicagraves8466
    @jessicagraves8466 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this! The editing is top tier!

  • @suzanne1529
    @suzanne1529 Год назад +4

    This is a great one. Thank you! And thank you for making the distinction between setback and loss. Vital, thoughtful, considerate and wise. I love your content and appreciate your partnerships.

  • @ShaySunshyne
    @ShaySunshyne Год назад

    Always giving the best advice 🙌🏾

  • @ChocolateBabe_
    @ChocolateBabe_ Год назад +1

    😩😩😩 dam girl. Thank you ❤. Had an awful day at work yesterday and really needed this.

  • @BasketFullOfRainbows
    @BasketFullOfRainbows Год назад +2

    Really needed this video, thank you so much, also love all the comments sections of your videos, everyone is so kind and uplifting

  • @adamarissoliss
    @adamarissoliss Год назад +1

    thank you for this

  • @thetonishow1817
    @thetonishow1817 Год назад +1

    This video was so in time! I have to refocus and get back in alignment with my goals for the future ✨

  • @nakibirangosylvia8550
    @nakibirangosylvia8550 Год назад +1

    This is what I needed this time. So down girl am in for a reset. Thank you.❤

  • @cherissewilliams8748
    @cherissewilliams8748 Год назад +1

    Another gem💎💎 This advice is so spot on and really helped me really get unstuck with a few things I've been avoiding because I didn't know how to move forward. I'm loving these back to back vids btw! 😊

  • @kizzymulcaster6057
    @kizzymulcaster6057 Год назад +1

    I needed to hear this thankyou for sharing this brilliant video.

  • @lakeisharuggiero860
    @lakeisharuggiero860 Год назад +3

    Thank you so much for this video, This was right on time.😊💕😇🌿✨️🧘🏾‍♀️

  • @lilys_journey
    @lilys_journey Год назад +3

    This video couldn’t of come at a better time for me❤ I love your content so much, it brings me so much hope and reminds me that I’m the master of my life🥰

  • @thebeautyspace
    @thebeautyspace Год назад +2

    No growth at work specifically where I am it hit home....thank u Queen I decided to change direction busy with my PGCE to go teach abroad .❤

  • @seemu2927
    @seemu2927 Год назад

    These videos are a game changer for me they’ve given me so much confidence and guidance. Sometimes I just have your videos on in the background too as your voice is so soothing

  • @missbea5100
    @missbea5100 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you. I don’t know how I found your channel but I am grateful that every and I mean every video resonates with me. I really needed this one too! Much love. ❤

  • @TruthatudebyLindseyServin
    @TruthatudebyLindseyServin Год назад +1

    Perfectly timed video. Needed this little pep talk. ❤

  • @Yellowlouise87
    @Yellowlouise87 Год назад +6

    I signed up for Ritual using your code when you posted the last video, and so far so good 😊 thanks for the recommendation. Congratulations on the sponsorship, your channel has provided such great information and uplifting vibes, I wish nothing but the best for you!❤

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +1

      Yay! Glad you like them. Thank you for your support and kind words. You've been here with me quite a while and take the time comment regularly. I see you and I appreciate you 💕💕

  • @thehopestrategist
    @thehopestrategist Год назад +1

    Great topic!!! Very much needed! Thank you!!! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🤎🤎🤎

  • @omnixoxox
    @omnixoxox Год назад +3

    Love this channel! ❤🎉

  • @sammooh
    @sammooh 10 месяцев назад +1

    I rewatched this video after just recently finding myself into a setback. And honestly, it is beyond comforting and inspiring as it brings light into my perspective to keep pushing forward, nonetheless. Definitely warming for my ears as I barely vent out to people. Looking forward to more videos from you!! ✨

  • @TheeCheleMarie
    @TheeCheleMarie Год назад +13

    This video came just in time. You never disappoint, thank you!! 💗💕🥂

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +2

      Glad you enjoyed it, love! Sounds like a lot of us are bouncing back in our own ways. Cheers to that🥂 #comebackseason

  • @itsneetray
    @itsneetray Год назад

    This one is right on time!

  • @chasitydanelle4850
    @chasitydanelle4850 Год назад +3

    Yet this was so amazing I did not want it to end ❤❤❤thank you so much for this !!

  • @Akuajoy
    @Akuajoy Год назад +1

    I needed this! Thank you so much sis❤

  • @OhThelma
    @OhThelma 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing. I needed that.

  • @evamariatv48
    @evamariatv48 Год назад +1

    You uploaded this video in the right moment for me

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад

      I'm so glad this was timely for you, love! There's something in the air - it's comeback season!

  • @user-sg9ts8lc1d
    @user-sg9ts8lc1d 10 месяцев назад

    Really needed this motivation

  • @yovannamadhere3868
    @yovannamadhere3868 Год назад +1

    Your content is all that!! Love them all.. great job!

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад

      It's so good to know you enjoy the content, love. I really appreciate having you here and getting your feedback 💕

  • @dieketsengmaloisane1165
    @dieketsengmaloisane1165 Год назад +1

    I really needed this video 😊

  • @Naomily
    @Naomily Год назад +1

    Thank you once again for an amazing video, that I just so happen to see at the right time. So, after a rough day (as you said, everything all at once - work, personal…) I am going to get off my bed (that’s right, came home and went straight to sit on my bed with plans of long term moping and despairing any hope for my future) after 5 minutes of meditating, using a timer. Refocus, reassess, replan. Thank you! ❤

  • @nicolefujiwara4847
    @nicolefujiwara4847 9 месяцев назад

    Great video, thank you!

  • @whoislm3344
    @whoislm3344 Год назад +1

    thank you so much for this video ❤

  • @Sweetheart0189
    @Sweetheart0189 Год назад +2

    Thus video was phenomenal!!! Just what I needed to hear! They end had me in tears! ❤ thank you so much ❤❤

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +1

      You're welcome, love! I'm so glad this spoke to you. I truly hope your comeback is infinitely greater than your setback 🥂💕

  • @teeamar
    @teeamar Год назад

    Thanks for the video, very useful advice 🤗🤗🤗

  • @Abigail-ry8fn
    @Abigail-ry8fn Год назад +4

    Oh wow! Two videos in less than 2 weeks. Thankkkkk youuu😊❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @Honey-yp8lp
    @Honey-yp8lp Год назад +7

    This was perfect timing ❤ thank you

  • @crysloves2eat_eat
    @crysloves2eat_eat Год назад +5

    Loved this very motivating 🙌🏽Needed to hear this! Thank you!!🧡

  • @sweetestcandy083109
    @sweetestcandy083109 4 месяца назад

    This was empowering. Thank you 🙏🏾💋

  • @sarahmaitho
    @sarahmaitho Год назад +1

    This is timely advice, thank you!

  • @ssaki5005
    @ssaki5005 Год назад

    This is very practical and great advice thank you!

  • @infiniteroyalty
    @infiniteroyalty Год назад +1

    Fabulous yes to this thank you

  • @jamilareza4916
    @jamilareza4916 Год назад +4

    I literally needed this today. Thank you🌹🥀

  • @deet340
    @deet340 9 месяцев назад

    Really enjoying your content. I am binging on it like a crash course.

  • @tymcrae486
    @tymcrae486 Год назад +1

    I love hearing from you. Your so inspirational

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +1

      So glad I can provide some inspiration for you, love! You've got this💕

  • @carmencatalina9086
    @carmencatalina9086 3 месяца назад

    You always create such good content. I’m overcoming bad habits but nicer to myself when I mess up. Criticizing myself isn’t gone help anything ❤

  • @shanitawalker8861
    @shanitawalker8861 Год назад

    I love your channel it has helped me in so many ways thank you

  • @oshunthagreat
    @oshunthagreat Год назад +2

    Thank-you I was brought out of character recently because I felt a woman sabotaged my great business reviews on purpose started to doubt myself overall. At the moment I'm taking a break and slower pace with productivity but this is a timely video

  • @natashaj5581
    @natashaj5581 Год назад

    Your videos are amazing.❤

  • @yetthieydkuka
    @yetthieydkuka Год назад

    Just what I need

  • @DaniBrianaxo
    @DaniBrianaxo Год назад

    I LOVE THIS CHANNEL! Thank you.

  • @xiomarapena5020
    @xiomarapena5020 Год назад +4

    I don’t know how you do it, but very video comes out with the exact content I need at the perfect time!!🤩 Gracias!🎉

  • @thebutleress7882
    @thebutleress7882 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @youngmama2296
    @youngmama2296 Год назад

    I needed this video ❤

  • @bintokiria5338
    @bintokiria5338 Год назад +4

    Thank alot for empowering me, for the realistic content 🤗🍷🍷

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +1

      So happy I can help, love! This is my exact goal - real, actionable advice for our real lives 💕

  • @soloone5900
    @soloone5900 Год назад

    This is right on time my life is in shambles right now🥺

  • @IreneThomas
    @IreneThomas Год назад

    I live for this Chanel.. ❤️

  • @muslimahdiva587
    @muslimahdiva587 Год назад +1

    Powerful information had to share this with my beautiful daughters and I so needed to hear these encouraging words this morning 🎉Yes Yes 👏🏾 TU ❤

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад

      I love that you pursue your personal growth and put your daughters on. That's beautiful. Keep it up, love! You're comeback is within your reach 💕

  • @The_Absolute_Lady_
    @The_Absolute_Lady_ Год назад

    Wooow came right on time❤❤❤

  • @Simplek1593
    @Simplek1593 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you❤

  • @marymaddy7450
    @marymaddy7450 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this inspiring video. May God bless you.🙏🏾❤️

  • @nwoziukegbu8995
    @nwoziukegbu8995 9 месяцев назад

    I really needed this video at this time. But am coming back stronger

  • @sibylline4676
    @sibylline4676 Год назад

    I love ur voice..Its soothing nd relaxing.

  • @AmoraNoir
    @AmoraNoir Месяц назад

    Sending love and success to all the ladies and fellow subscribers👏💕

  • @QBreezey
    @QBreezey Год назад +2

    My love!! You've read my mind!!! Lately, I've had a few setbacks..Also, I did buy ritual vitamins!! ❤🥰 Would you also consider doing a video on how to establish boundaries and on how to handle needy people without hurting their feelings?? You already probably did and I just don't remember!

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +1

      We're on the same wavelength, love! I hope everything is bigger and better for you as you bounce back from your setbacks. So glad you were able to try the vitamins! Let me know what you think in a few weeks.
      Yes, on the boundaries content! I am working on "how to raise your standards _and_ set boundaries." It will probably be out towards the end of June. Thanks for the suggestion, Qadriyyah💕

  • @barbarahJ.
    @barbarahJ. Год назад +3

    This video comes to me like it fell from heaven. This is a divine sign. Thanks love 🙏🙏💖

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад

      Ah! I'm so glad this was right on time for you, love! Hoping your come back blows your setbacks out of the water 🌊💕

    • @barbarahJ.
      @barbarahJ. Год назад

      @@TheFeminineUniverse With my effort and your tips, I'll make it for sure. Thanks again🙏

  • @THEBOUJEECOIN
    @THEBOUJEECOIN Год назад

    This video is right on time! ❤🎉

  • @zaitoonshahzad9462
    @zaitoonshahzad9462 Год назад

    Oh my God I need this video now and I think whole life

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад

      So glad this was helpful for you, love! May your comeback be so much greater than your setbacks 💕💕

  • @iAmRoyalTay
    @iAmRoyalTay Год назад

    Videos always on time 💜💜💜✨

  • @kairosunltd130
    @kairosunltd130 2 месяца назад

    This is 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯👑👑👑💎💎💎 I love this coz im in that season where im realizing that that loss and setback was setting me up for my powerful comback ❗❗❗🎯🎯🎯😊☺️🥰😍

  • @kishwarshadabshaikh9048
    @kishwarshadabshaikh9048 Год назад +1

    Wow 🤩 very beautifully explained. Love ❤️ from India 🇮🇳

  • @meeunice
    @meeunice Год назад +8

    Much needed. Future goals > present distractions. ❤

    • @TheFeminineUniverse
      @TheFeminineUniverse  Год назад +1

      Absolutely, Eunice! That's been on repeat in my mind this month. #focus 💕

  • @ShoppingwithRina
    @ShoppingwithRina 9 месяцев назад

    amazing

  • @michaelpantuso2288
    @michaelpantuso2288 Год назад

    This is a great video. You said it’s not about loss though. Do you have a video that focuses on loss?

  • @julia.f.farina
    @julia.f.farina 3 месяца назад

    What are some movies or tv shows people recommend for female inspiration (particularly career-related inspriation)? Some of my favorites (some of which had clips in the video) are Younger, The Bold Type, The Devil Wears Prada, Confessions of a Shopaholic, I Feel Pretty, Brittany Runs a Marathon, Being Erica, and Partner Track. I'm always looking for more!

  • @asiaisabellaa
    @asiaisabellaa Год назад

    thank you love

  • @charlowalliset1484
    @charlowalliset1484 Год назад

    Can you make a video on how to beat every set back? Because I experience all of those