5 REALISTIC Tips for a Soft Life - You Can Have It! | The Feminine Universe
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- We all want a soft, luxurious, enjoyable life. It’s nothing to feel guilty about. In fact, it’s something to embrace. As more women come to realize this it only makes sense that ideas for creating a softer life have started to take center stage.
Today I want to give you 5 tips to live your most incredible soft life in a way that won’t leave you broke or feeling fraudulent but will still inspire you and remind you that you deserve more. Because it's all possible.
I believe you can have have it and I believe that you’re worth it. You just have to believe it too! 
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My routines have been game changers! My apartment is cleaned by Friday bc I do a little each night. I also shop local and direct so I stop at 2 farms to pick up my food Friday on my way home. Saturday morning I spend 1 hour organizing and 1 hour doing projects. Sunday I meal prep for the week, and pick out my outfits for the week. All of these things have helped me decompress and leisurely hustle. I also have a "uniform" for at home - black leggings and a long black tunic - I can dress it up and down depending on what I am doing. Since I shower at night I have also invested in 3 beautiful nightgowns.
@andrea viola I LOVE this. Thanks for sharing 😊😘
@@Lisa_Fernandezhomeandlifestyle Thanks so much I appreciate it. I have been on a journey for a few months now.
I love this routine for you, Andrea! I'm also going to start using the phrase "leisurely hustle" 🥰
@@TheFeminineUniverse All of your videos have helped me change my life! The biggest AH HA for me was the video you did on style. I got rid of everything that did not match my glam/classic/sexy style. I streamlined everything.! More importantly it helped me stop hanging money in my closet. Now I have a closet full of clothes, coats, shoes and purses that I love and match with everything else I own. I have gotten so many compliments because even casually I look put together and fashionable.
Thanks for sharing, I'll try elements of your routine 💕
Loved "MIND THE BUISNESS THAT PAYS YOU" Loved "A SOFT LIFE IS A SMART LIFE, A PLANNED LIFE". Thank you so much
Yes ma'am! You're very welcome 😊
Absolute truth….
Love yourself
High level of thinking
Be passionate
Be in tune with your femininity
Protect your peace
Do not invite anyone in your space… negative energy
Daily positive affirmation
Be kind to yourself
Pray
Absolutely love this!!
Thank you!🎉
Thank you 🙏🥹
Yaaaaas All the above & add a Gratitude Journal while sipping my ph balanced warm water💯
Words can’t even describe how happy I am that I found your channel a few months ago. You have such a wonderful way of describing femininity. I’ve realised now that it’s not one size fits all and that femininity looks different on each woman! God bless you! You don’t know how much you’ve helped a lot of us❤️❤️❤️
Omg isn’t she the absolute best. It’s just a fresh of breath air. I absolutely love this channel her content is everything. 🤎🤎🤎
Agreed!!! Her channel is very distinct and a cut above the rest! I love TFU’s content so much!! ❤
I totally agree ❤️ amazing content
I am so happy this channel has given you that perspective! No lifestyle is one size fits all. Femininity can be expressed and manifested in so many different ways! Hearing this from you ladies really makes it all worth it 💕💕
I so agree with you!!!!✨🙏🏻
I have many mantras now in my feminine life. One of them is "Life is hard enough already, why make it even harder?" Whatever brings you joy, peace, etc. do it. Whatever brings you sadness, stress, etc. either solve it or get rid of it. Don't accept things or people that will make this journey harder, say goodbye and live guilt-free.
Love this!
@ana wow!
When you get used to getting the maximum from yourself, you are not going to accept or beg someone for their minimum! 😍
Period 😉💕
Yes girl...that part! Let me know!!
Sis! HOW👏🏾CAN👏🏾WE👏🏾 SUPPORT👏🏾YOU? This video was amazing...not gonna lie, I got a little emotional. Thank you for this and everything you do!💖💖
Haha! I love the passion. I really appreciate this sentiment, darling. I appreciate the support. It may not feel like a lot, but every like allows the content to keep spreading. I will be working on ways we can create a more intimate, in-depth system for those who are interested😘
Same!!! I 🥲 because it just resonates with me so.
And the fact that
@@TheFeminineUniverse didn’t blast you with a PaTrEoN or CashApp says a lot and is the reason I’m sticking around to help grow this much needed community. KEEP BEING AWESOME LADIES! 💃🏻
... We were all born with natural nails for FREE-99😂😂😂😂... Now, this was really educational for me. I'd heard the term SOFT LIFE thrown about the internet for the past two years, yet this is the clearest I've heard on the subject. And I've been doing it a little here, and a little there. If you grow up in a home where your grandma, mama, an aunts take the time to pamper themselves now and then, soft life is as natural as leveling up.
Your definition of soft life is what I too envision a soft life to be. "A soft life is a smart life." All these tips are gold. Thank you for the reminder that our life may not be as soft as we like YET but if we are intentional, we WILL get the soft life we desire😌 Here's to directing our energy to things that matter and add to our lives and happiness 🥂
Well said, Zoey! Here, here! 🥂
M'y best decisions : Mind my business/Stay away of drama/Beeing more consistent on my beauté (have more to do but I'm on it)/Start saving money. Love this content 🥰
Love these! Give yourself your best 😘
I TOTALLY agree with your point about social media!! If someone posts a video on YT or IG, you do not have to write an essay outlining 25 reasons why that person is evil!! Exit the video, and get on with your life!
So true, Ivy! There are so many better ways to spend that time.
I love how you have given permission to buying department store bags and drugstore makeup as a single mother means a lot as it gives us permission to treat ourself with luxury. And the options above are considered luxury
Drugstore makeup has some of the BEST makeup selections and varieties. Definitely underrated🤍.
I've learned to do WAY less. It's harsh to have To-Do lists and constant goals. It's a way to guilt yourself and not enjoy the moment. I love this approach to life. Thank you.
That is fantastic.
It's so important to remember to be present and enjoy the people/things/moments in front of us!
Maybe limit the To- does on the list
I limit my list to ten however, five are necessary & 5 can roll over to the next day...I use ten since you may accomplish them out of order! Gr8 that works 2
That part where you were talking about stress. It resonates with me with the quote 'life is hard, choose your hard.'
I know procrastination is something only the individual can fix, but I was wondering if you were able to do a video on that? You just have a way with words that balance encouragement and personal accountability. Your content is everything!
Oh girl, I know the struggle! I can definitely speak on this and share some things that have helped me😊 Thank you for your kind words!
@@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you! I’m looking forward to it!
Yes please that would be great!! ♥️♥️
I ❤️ this! "Stress your body to get them gains! Aka at the gym! Put your mind through stress to get an A at school, at work, or start a business! " 😍😍
For me, automating household things makes a huge difference in a softer life! Using tools for autopaying bills, renegotiating rates for insurance/ utilities, and budgeting is super helpful.
Great idea! What tools do you like?
Automating is such a good, helpful idea to streamline reoccurring responsibilities and take a little something off your plate. Thanks for sharing, Elizabeth!
Tomorrow is my birthday and I chose to book myself in a hotel. I don't exactly have money at the moment but I told myself that I HAVE to treat myself if I expect to be treated soft
Love this video. Im going to the Maldives next year for my 30th. Im already saving and buying my luxury items.
I know you will love it! I love that you're saving in advance and moving strategically 💕
Watching these videos have changed me. I'm in the Army and it's difficult to do certain things but I've prioritized regular plain manicure and hair blow dry at sport clips and super cuts for cheaper
I just found your channel and wow, I am close to tears. Ever since I had my kids I feel like I somehow lost my femininity and your videos have given me my feminine spark back. Very inspiring, very realistic, I love how you’re all inclusive and non judgemental. It’s all awesome! The way you talk is soothing and easy to listen to, you articulate thoughts so well!
I could go on and on honestly. I’m subscribing ❤
Loved the commentary on tip #4. Luxury is not the same for all if us and we would all splurge or treat ourselves to different things and I think this is such an important thing to remember. Luxury items I love to splurge on or treat myself to is luxury sleepwear and underwear, soft, plush towels and beautiful crockery and kitchen items. It's different for everyone.
Absolutely! It really is different for everyone. It's so much more satisfying to buy and do things that _actually_ contribute to your own idea of luxury and happiness. Love your splurge list😉
💜Happy Sunday Everyone!!!! This is everything that I’ve be needing to hear. I’ve been on hustle mode to the extreme, working 3 jobs and not having anytime for myself. I have no idea on how I was going to get back to my stress free soft life. I’m so grateful for you creating this beautiful content. Thank you! 💕 💕
Happy Sunday
Happy Sunday!❤
Oww. How do you handle 3 jobs? I only have one and I'm drained lol. Can't properly keep up to my self care routine do it only on the weekends, You're very strong
@@TheCelmap thank you! I’m not going to lie it’s hard. I’m trying to pay off my student loans, save up for a house and eventually go to grad school. I just have to keep telling myself “this is just temporary”. But I agree it’s definitely hard taking care of yourself when all you do is work.
Ms. Aretha! Much respect to you, love! "This is temporary" - is a great way to look at it. You are doing what you need to, to set yourself up for what you want. Just do your best to make time and treat yourself when possible!
We will talk more about finance _very_ soon and see if we can find your ideas to supplement your income and maybe work less 😉💕
Just binge watching! I invest in health so far. Yoga, stretch labs, cycling...costly but I love it. I want the luxury but I know I will be able to have this with my health activities.
LOL...I LOVED when you said, “We were all born w/nails for FREE99”...HILARIOUS & so true!!!🖤💜💙💚💛🧡♥️💕🙏🏾👍🏾👌🏾
Haha 😂 I'm just saying!
So true - 14:00 Motherhood is the most female job in the world, but still it can affect your feminine energy so hard. I literally don’t know how this is possible.
Moms will understand what I am saying.
Have a wonderful week !
After I had my kids I put money on them for them too look good and have neglected myself. I leave the house with my hair bonnet and baggy clothing.
That last point was 👌 - this is my favourite femininity channel. I actually feel my womanhood being supercharged when I watch (and do) these.
Mine, tooo!!!🎉❤
This means so much! I love that supercharge. Hope to keep providing that for you 💕
1. Protect your peace.
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3. Prepare and plan.
4. Surround yourself with luxury as much as you can and of what you’re interested in.
5. Find balance
Choose beauty! Every morning I wake up, dress up, and go to work….BEAUTIFUL! No exceptions!
Love that! 💕
A soft life is a smart life! Preach, it Queen! You're helping me feel feminine. Thank you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm on my feminine journey and you've been an amazing resource and I applaud you for being so consistent. Thank you sis, all the way from Jamaica 🇯🇲
You are so welcome, love! So glad I can be a resource for you. Cheers to your journey💕😊
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LOVE how none of this includes having or seeking a man
I love love! It warms my heart. But I don't think a happy, thriving or soft life should be _dependent_ on whether or not one has a man 😉
This channel is amazing and theses were things I did years ago, looking back I didn't see how magnetic I was because I was in the wrong place with the wrong people. These tips are life changing, I also recommend getting Dita Von Teeses book; I have been reading it and it goes through all the things related to feeling glamourous, beauty, makeup, etc. Dita talks about her journey of doing many things on her own to create luxury without breaking the bank. Luxury is a feeling and yes there are moments you want to splurge on luxury--many times she said the things people complimented were the things she DIY herself. Her humble roots taught her how to be self sufficient and create the life you want.
Such a great point about not being able to realize your full potential in the wrong places, with the wrong people! Thanks for sharing the information on Dita Von Teese, sounds like it's been very helpful for you! Keep shining, love ✨💕
I take my lunch to the office every day to be able to get my mani & pedi. Lunch on these New York
Streets are just silly. Not doing it
Honestly, if I could like this video a thousand times, I would. Thank you for sharing your feminine wisdom with so much clarity, empowerment and truth. I LOVE your videos!
I LOVE THIS!! Who knew I was living the soft life? I wish I could scream all of this from the rooftops!!
Yes! Live that soft life 💕😊
I was always called an alpha women. I have switch that up in the past 5 years Hunny I’m a woman and want to be treated as such
So so on point. I'm about to listen again. I'm making a firm firm intention to incorporate what I'm learning. InshaAllah
Yes, girl! Absorb it, incorporate it, live it. You deserve it 💕
I wear dressing all the time with heels i change my whole MO!! And I LOVE IT
Do you wear short jackets on the dress?
@@hayaashraf3404 yes hunny. Leather one matter of fact I just ordered one yesterday. I always pair it with my Valentino belt and my hells.
Honestly I'm 37 and stay in shared housing and it's entirely not where I want to be in life but recently instead of just moping whilst saving, I decided to pimp my tiny room. White curtains, fairy lights floral wall decal stuff, an air purifier, a hammock for the backyard and honestly it makes a huge difference. I can spend more time in my room and saving money instead of being out all day because I hate where I live thereby getting me out faster ha. I also dog/ house sit for rich people on the side so that helps too.
I do the press on nails and superglue. Lot cheaper, still nice nails
Dollar tree, family dollar etc
i adore your content, i am working on my soft life and seriously it already brings me so much joy and peace. I started working on my hygiene/ skin care more (i had depression before so it wasn t easy and i was never really taugh how to be mindfull over how to care about myself), i am making my style better more stylish and even more like myself, cutting people off, i upgraded my diet, and i am changing my mindset about absolutely everything... It feels so good and i am 20. Everybody can do it!
"A lot of us ladies treat ourselves subpar and that's why we accept subpar behavior from "relatives"/"friends"/a "man" etc. " - ouch! 🤯😭
"And when you are used to the maximum from yourself, you are Not gonna sit there and wait around, or Heaven forbid, beg for breadcrumbs!" Self ❤️ 😍 💖 💕
I love "softer life" such a beautiful way to put it! In a world where focus isn't on anything soft, but hard, crass ect. What a wonderful concept! Thank you.
No voice soothes me the way yours does 😌 this video was much needed, as per usual 💕
You're so sweet, Noelle. I'm glad this video hit the mark 😊
As a young woman this video really inspires me to work towards my personal goals and a softer life. Thank you!
You should make a podcast, or post these on Spotify if possible! ❤️
Looking into it, Emily! I'll see what I can do 😊
Wow this is all extremely well said - you address the supporters, the haters, and everyone in between all while being unapologetic about your discovered truths. Thank you so much for sharing and I’m excited to continue watching your channel!
Definitely needed this. Simple, to the point, and step by step. I have some adjustments to make and I’m excited to make it. This year is my year of stepping up my self care and maximizing my self love. ❤
Love this!! I felt my inner soft life girl scream yesss!! Lol loved this video. Especially the part about luxury because we deny ourself these things that we actually enjoy. Totally gonna stop doing that especially if I can afford it or find a way to get it done myself.
Perfect timing! Thank you so much. I'm struggling with maintaining the softness while things are now really happening that I planned for. Love what you are saying about balance!
You're so welcome, Kate! And absolutely, finding a way to balance out the more difficult or unexpected moments will allow to stay connected to your soft side. 💕
Awww I am beyond happy I’ve found your channel. I can already tell your videos are life changing. Thank you for being called to do this! You explain things so beautifully. Loved the discussion around extremes- was very eye opening yet inspiring. Will be watching every video of yours- keep it up x
Welcome to the TFU family, love! I'm glad you're enjoying the content. Thinking in extremes can be so limiting - we have to constantly remind ourselves that there is usually middle ground. Thanks for chiming in! I'm so happy to have you here 💕
From the moment I first heard the first step, I immediately knew that this video is legit. I've been trying so hard to let go of unnecessary burdens and protect my peace but it's really hard when the people you love don't understand that and keep putting you in situations that compromises that. I just don't know what to do😩💯💕
What kind of situation do you mean, Linda? Maybe I can provide a few ideas on how to get out of or avoid them. You deserve to lighten your burdens and protect your peace! 💕
I believe I can have it and I worth it💪.
You are so worth it, love!
@@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you 🥰.
Thank you for having the right words to say. I started watching your videos yesterday and they really helped me right away!
THAT INTRO THO ! before the video even started you hit home. love all your videos never stop.
Loooove this. Incorporating luxury doesn't have to mean expensive things, today i saw an ad for discount on flowers. They were so pretty so i bought myself a bouquet of peach roses which mean gratitude. I gave them to myself and i expressed gratitude for myself and recalled the positive things in my life and myself. It was such a beautiful, refreshing feeling and i felt like a princess. Luxury is really just treating yourself with extra care and kindness ladies 🤍🤍
Love that! Luxury is treating yourself with care and kindness. And that looks different for everyone. The peach roses to signify gratitude is such a lovely concept 💕
Thank you so much for emphasizing the importance of planning 💕 I love organizing my mind & life. Something lovely about seeing it all together fitting into the bigger picture. ✨
I adore this channel SO much. 💜You not only inspire ✨but you give great tools and examples of HOW to implement ideas into action. 💐
I love your last point about balance. So key!🤜🏼
You're so kind! I love sharing with you ladies! Balance is so important. It'll help you keep perspective and get you through almost any situation. Love having you as such a dedicated part of this community, Julia 💕
I love listening to these videos while I drive home from work! I always throw on some lipstick and sip my sparkling water and feel my mind embracing the glow up ❤
Love that! Embrace it, babe! 💕
Wow, this channel is everything i was looking for and had no idea. Thank you, amazing work
I can’t help but to comment how amazing this video is. I’ve been binge watching femininity/ self care videos & THIS IS THE ONE!!
Love hearing that, Alaniz! So glad this stood out to you in your femininity/self care binge Cheers to a softer life! Feel free to comment any time, love 🥂💕
im an addict.this is my #1 channel
So sweet! Happy to have you here 💕💕
I recently found your channel and I am so thrilled. I do a lot of these things already but I love the content and I relate and it's nice to know I'm making good decisions and choices. Thank you for what you are doing! You are doing an amazing job, thank you
Thank you and welcome to the TFU family! Happy to have you here💕
Your videos are GOLD! ✨
Thank you so much for teaching me a lot. I found your channel towards the end of the last year and it jas helped me improve my self care and standards
This is why I love your channel, it's honestly uplifting and motivating❤️🌻
I'm so glad! That's my goal, Michaela 💕
I’m absolutely obsessed with your videos! Glad that I came across your channel ❤ Thank you! 💕
Welcome, love! I'm so happy you're here and enjoying yourself 💕
I love this! Your videos are a cut above. I’d love more content about the soft life. I think all of us are feeling called to incorporate a little gentleness.
What a brilliant video. I don't usually watch femininity and/or soft ife videos as they are usually too superficial and surface level for me. However, I found myself nodding, smiling and stopping what I was doing to listen more intently with this one. Well done!!! So many great points.
This is amazing and I’ll be watching this again. Thank you so much for the wisdom. This is so practical. I appreciate you!!
So glad this is repeat-worthy for you! I really enjoyed making it😘
This video alone is soft life !! Content that raises your vibration and doesn’t sky rocket your blood pressure … love this ❤❤❤❤
Love this comment! So glad I can provide that for you, love 💕💕
I love the tips and the way you deliver them. Very soothing voice .. nonjudgmental tone. love this channel
awesome, thank you for doing such an amazing video sis. this topic has been on my mind a lot and I really wanted some guidance in this area ... I have shared this with other females in my family and they love it ... your videos are life-saving..thank you so much xxxx
I'm happy I could talk about something that's been on your mind, Jocelyn! So glad you enjoyed it. I appreciate you passing the content along, love 💕
I love the idea of a luxury mindset ✨️ thanks sis
Thank you love for your time and your consistency on doing good content🥰💙
You are very welcome! Thank you for watching and supporting 💕
I really needed this tonight!!! I love this video because I'm very hard on myself especially because my health is so so and it has affected my life in many ways. I appreciate this reminder to have a soft life. Thank you ❤❤
❤❤❤❤❤ love your content and awareness you’re giving 😊
My favorite RUclips channel! Thank you! As always, your content is 💯
That's so kind! I'm glad you enjoyed it, Lucy 😘
I am glad I discovered you! You are wise beyond your years!
I felt like this wouldn’t relate to me cuz I’m a single mom of 3 and I’m a special needs parent…but then I continued watching and you address people who have had a hard life and how we can do things that help even if they seem minuscule to us.
Thank you ☺️
So glad you found our little tribe - I'm happy to have you here, Domonique!
It really is so surprising how the miniscule things can really add up to our overall well-being! You can take care of your sweet kiddos _and_ make a little time for yourself. Keep rocking it and being a great mama. Don't feel guilty about bringing in softness whenever you can. You deserve it, love! 💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you ☺️
Your videos are always very helpful. Thanks for all you do
Thank you for this. Just discovered your channel today. And I needed this!!
I always love your videos.💕 You're very empowering and encouraging.... And your voice is very soothing to hear. 💆🏽♀️
Thank you so much! I'm so happy to hear that you enjoy all the videos. Empowering and encouraging is my goal 💕💕
You are such a blessing. Just hearing you speak makes me calm.
That's so kind, Tracy! So happy I can have a positive effect 😊💕
My lovely lady, you are great, an inspiration for many like myself. I love watching your channel that's make me happy and relaxed. Thanks for your advices, and God bless you.
This was soooo good. Even those of us who love doing all these things could use the gentle reminder. Some of us are or have been shamed for this.
Love, love, LOVE the tips!! Keep them coming!! 💖💖💖💖💖
More to come, love!
This is the best soft life tips I have seen. These are also very practical. Thank you
New here. All I can say is thank you so much for your channel and for the content you share! Your videos always light up my day!
Welcome to the TFU family, Silvia 💕 So glad you're enjoying the content. Looking forward to hearing more from you!
This was so good, love the details.
I really needed to hear this, thank you! 🙏✨💛
So happy this was helpful for you, love!
Thank you. I recently bought a new flute, one of the best ones out there. After researching what I was looking for & saving, I'm so happy to enjoy this beautiful instrument- & so are my clients. Thanks again
That's so beautiful! I'm glad you can find this little slice of heaven for yourself. Happy playing, love 🎶💕
I love this video so much, great well-rounded advice that hits all the points and is balanced.
So glad you enjoyed this, Susie!
Love how you break it down and make great examples. Love it. ❤
You're so welcome, love! So glad you enjoyed it 😊
I just found your channel ! I love it ! What a lovely powerful message delivered in such a graceful beautiful way !!! Yaaaay !!!!
Yay! I'm glad you're here and enjoying the content! Welcome to the TFU family, Pam! 💕
Great tips! I've been on track my entire life. Working on getting my finances up and stable...it's a process well worth the effort.
So worth it, Nina! We'll be talking more about that very soon!
I love your videos! You are inspiring me to take better care of myself and to bring my own unique feminine style and energy to the forefront of my life! Thank you so much!! 🙏🏼💖
Yay! This is the main goal of my channel, Malia! I want you knowing you are worth the extra care and to be aware that that enhanced femininity is such a unique journey and looks a little different for us all 😘💕
You have no idea how much I needed this video 🥹❤️ Thank you!
Glad this was right on time for you, Lizza! 💕
Yes I really like these tips! They are so helpful.❤️
So glad this was helpful, Cheryl! 💕
Great video! I love your voice. It's so beautiful. I could listen to it all day.