It's Time to Get Everything You Want | Prioritize Yourself | 5 Easy Steps
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024
- Go to drinkag1.com/thefeminineuniverse to get started on your first purchase and receive a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3+K2 and 5 travel packs. Thanks to AG1 for sponsoring today's video!
AG1 is a comprehensive, nutrition drink engineered to fill the nutritional gaps in your diet and support your body’s nutritional needs across four pillars of health: Gut health, Immune support, Energy and Recovery! It’s packed with 75 vitamins, minerals, whole-food sourced ingredients and combines the perfect amount of micronutrients, absorption and taste to jumpstart your daily routine. AG1 is available in the US, Canada, UK and Europe.
Our lives are filled with priorities from family, to love, to health and finances. And we have to find a way to put them in order based on what phase of life we’re in and what’s most important to us at the time. Since our lives are different the way we order our priorities will be different - but one thing that we should all have in common is putting ourselves first! With so much going on it’s so easy to put ourselves on the back burner or lose ourselves completely which will impact us negatively long term. So today I want us to have a real talk about why we should always put yourself first and how that will actually make everything else in our lives better. 
Хобби
most importantly… PRAY ladies 💕 sometimes we need guidance from God to see where we’re at and who we are.
So true ❤❤❤
Always 😊
Yes we do, AMEN ❤️🙏
We always need God's guidance above all else.
I was widowed 4 years ago ..my children are 31 and 29 and I'm living by myself.😊 I've got to learn to take care of me and prioritize me. Im going to my first concert Tony Tony Tony by myself! Almost 60 yrs young in December and i feel like i have reinvent myself. Choosing to do what I want . And not feel guilty about it💜
Wish you the best ❤❤❤
I salute you 🙏🎉
Wonderful! I went to the Yanni concert by myself!
You go girl!
Blessings to you we lost my dad this July and I feel for my mom. ❤
Raising 4 children for the past 15years as a single mom, I have effectively learnt to put myself last everytime. Recently, I've prioritised taking a 'good' shower everyday(no hurrying), getting a pedicure once per month and having my tea time without interruption every evening for 30 minutes (except an emergency).
It's not a lot right now but I'm a work in progress .
I ❤ that for you!
Love this 🎊 🙌
Good for you! ❤
Alright now mama ❤😂 👏🏽
That's a start buh I hope you go and treat yourself to a message mommas, this parentin is hard on our bodies 😮💨🤣😊.
LOVE the point about not needing to act busy or "hard to get" when you create a great life, hobbies, relationships that actually take up your time! Gem💎
I feel you just spoke to me. My name is gem 🥲
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤you are amazing I am single man from west Africa the Gambia 🇬🇲
Every other weekend I do a "Self-care Saturday"! I allow my husband to take care of things at home, and I go to the gym, have breakfast at Panera, go get my hair and nails done and take myself out to lunch. Sometimes I will go get a facial to. I love my Self-Care Saturday!
As a special ed teacher working in a trauma-sensitive environment, I do NOT bring my laptop home. I've enforced this boundary for one year now, and experienced a huge benefits in terms of my mental health. (Yes, I stay late or come in early some days to keep up but I'd rather this than to come home and my mind still be on work 😐)... As a married woman, I had to put a boundary in place with my husband, that I need the first 30 mins of me being home to be ME time - to give myself a chance to decompress in wtv way I choose (candle light shower and meditation music, take a nap, sit and pray, stretch or deep breathe)... After 30 mins, I am available to cook and hear about his day 😉😛😇
My sweet little pumpkin seed! I already thought you were a darling, knowing what you do only compounds that. I feel like educators don't hear it enough, so, thank you! I love that you do work where you have to pour so much of yourself but also realize the importance of disconnecting and refueling yourself in order to keep functioning at your highest level. Cheers to also having a hubby you can communicate with and who respects your needs. Keep taking care of yourself, the people around you need it as much as you do 💕💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse thank you 🙏🏽😭💯 this made me tear up! and lol @ sweet little pumpkin seed, i feel the loving mother energy 🙌🏽😘
Great ideas!
Love this!!!
Some ways I put me first is by nuturing my friendships, getting my mani /pedi/facials. Going for massages once in awhile. Reading self improvement books, cleaning out my space and making it look nice, or sometimes just taking time off from everything to completely rest and recharge in the comfort of my home, oh and once in awhile I'll buy myself flowers 😊❤
This is so me. Manicure, pedicure, hairdo every 5th week and flowers every week. Certainly feel like a better version of me.
Enjoy keeping my space tidy at all times.
This in turn gives me the drive to be present for others at their point of need and above all being less judgmental and confrontational.
Prioritizing myself (recent development) offers lots of positive energy.
I’m a single mom to an 8 yr old boy and I struggle with constant mom guilt. I wfm but use my lunch hours to pick my son up from school and then have to rush back to finish my last two hours. Not having a break during the day has taken a toll on me. So the way I’ve prioritized myself is to send (pay for) my son to after school care 2-3 times a week so that I can have a lunch break, have lunch with friends or go to the gym. Some days he wines about going but I decided to breath through the mom guilt and I put myself first.
I have ZERO mom guilt.
I do everything I love... Have always approached motherhood that way.❤
By spending time in yourself, you tell yourself you’re important. And then you move through the world like you’re important.
Glad that stuck with you, love!
Wow
This hit hard!
As a single mom and just tapping into this type of lifestyle of prioritizing my self I feel amazing 💜
Same.
Me too... 🥰
With yall
Same sis!🫶🏾
❤Yes
Now this video is for me. I have been on a party for “ONE” Journey. I have learn a lot about myself my likes my dislikes. My non-negotiable. I am a priority not an option.. AND I LIKE ME.. ❤❤
Well done 🥂
@@DivineFeminine_01 Thank you I appreciate that. I lost a few girlfriends along the way. My Birthday is tomorrow and it usually a big to do and guess what it still is a BIG TO DO IM ALIVE IM HEALTHY IM CUTE HEHEHEHE. And I will Celebrate my Life . Thank you Lord for your mercy
❤❤ AND myself‼️
@@rashimasimmons8716 Yes congratulations I’m proud of you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@miag6211Happy Birthday!!
Put yourself on your weekly calendar (no matter how insignificant the activity you choose to do may seem) and then protect those appointments like you protect your other appointments
This is such a great tip! Thanks for sharing, Julie.
I’ve learned this recently! You can not take care of anyone else if you don’t take care of yourself first! Love this video!!
Yes! We can't pour from an empty well! Glad you enjoyed this one, love 💕
I've kept the Shabbat/Sabbath holy for the past 26 years. (New job requires I work every other Saturday!)
The seventh day is the day that Lord God rested. I lounge hard, read, study, catch up on sleep, correspondence and telephone calls on Shabbat. This is Commandment #4. This works!
Ladies, whenever you feel guily taking care of yourself, always remember thay you can't pour from an emoty cup
Yesss! Realizing that _before_ we are drained and resentful is key! 💕
❤
I commend you for posting this video. Having dysfunctional parents meant my self-worth was destroyed in childhood so I became a people-pleaser, always seeking to make the lives of others easier/happier at the expense of my own then wondering why I felt so resentful. The betrayal of being abandoned by my ex after my father died cured me of all that: now I am putting myself first (scary!). Ladies - don't leave it as long as I did. Make a life for yourself and with YOU as the focus and let a man become an addition to it, not the centre OF it.
Im in the same boat! Haha
Please tell me more about it have been a people pleaser all my life
Hi everyone 😊😊
Hey!!❤❤❤❤
Hello ❤❤
Wussup
Hello
This is how I take care of myself:
Deciding not to do too many activities keeps me from getting stressed. Every so often I write down a typical daily and weekly schedule so I can see that I don't have time to learn Japanse and join a knitting club.
And I don't feel bad about it.
This is such a great point! Not "overbooking" yourself is absolutely a great way to prioritize your peace and avoid stress & burnout.
As a registered nurse, daughter and sister, I always put others first before me. I’ve been on the putting myself first journey for the last2yrs and it’s the best decision I made for my wellbeing 🥰
Good to hear, keep it up, you deserve it, we all do! 💖💕 Nursing is so important, you need to treat yourself well!
I have recently learned to prioritize myself by not giving 10 access of myself to people who only have 3 responsibility. I am so much happier! I learned this concept in a book called Good Boundaries and Goodbyes by Lysa Terkeurst.
I enjoy the baseline and the indulgent side of the presented list. I know my self worth operate as a confident woman. I thoroughly enjoy my pedicures, hair salon appointments, body scrubs, and my signature scent of perfume. The indulgent side and the baseline sometimes overlaps..I enjoy brunches, girls trips, monthly massages and I give myself a facial every other month. Professional facials 3 times per year is a needed treat. I have been raised to know that you can not be good to others until you good to yourself! And this system works well for me.. it teaches others how to treat you! ❤❤❤I like this channel and enjoy the tips of how a feminine woman should portray herself and exude confidence..this is my cup of TEA!🎉🎉
I feel Amazing when I prioritize myself.
I rarely leave comments but I have been following your channel for some time. Your content and how you develop it is very welcoming. The idea of being feminine is not always presented in a positive manner with practical guidance on how to achieve such goals without talking down to the viewer. You present the information very direct yet positive and achievable. The things you say are things that most know do but have not felt that they could grate themselves permission to do. Thank you for the content!
I like spending time by the mirror, just I few years back I fled them. Viewing myself in my stunning antique piece and doing some work is great. Just gazing at myself is very good for my confidence.
Sometimes, reading one of my very beautiful editions of Jane Austens works with a nice treat i my favourite. Take some space off all stress. Other times it is dancing and connecting to my body.
Forcing my self to stop running around.
My big but little thing that i do for myself is getting sunlight every day. I've found that it really helps my mood. Also if you get it when you first wake up it's good for your circadian rhythm. Which i haven't noticed yet but my sleep is horrible anyway. 😂😂😂
Yesssss! Getting sunlight is huge! Since I’ve started walking, or taking periodic breaks to step on the porch, I feel a massive difference. My sleep is terrible too😅. One thing at a time🫠
Yes! Sunlight is natural medicine! (plus it's free) ☀️☀️☀️
Whenever you feel ready, try adding in 30-60 minute of physical activity 3-4 days a week. There are many reasons for having a rough time sleeping, but sometimes, exerting some extra energy can help increase the body's need for rest, making it easier to fall asleep 💕
You're videos are very therapeutic. Well done young lady ❤
Thank you! I'm glad you're enjoying the videos!
My favorite thing about this channel is how you teach us to look inward and realize how much power we already have. But you guide us on how we can realistically tap into in and how to use it, which I think is what is missing a lot of the time. You give changes small enough that anyone can do but big enough to make an actual difference. Thank you queen!!! ❤❤❤
*Also I'm really looking forward to Fitness 2. I've lost 8lbs since the first video by just doing phase one, the fasting has been huge! Looking forward to more tips and a meal plan!
How I put myself first is saying "No Thank You" without another word. No explanation. I have also cultivated the leisurely hustle. I break from my work every 1/2 hour to do the small mindless tasks that pile up. Its a 10 minute break. It keeps me super organized making the hard look EASY. I have also scaled down my make up to only things that look great on me (you will know this because people will tell you you look pretty. It makes getting ready super easy. I also did this with perfume. I only have 3 scents now and I LOVE every one of them. Its making the hard decisions based on the life I want to live that I have come to love.
Your elegant voice is so soothing.
Thank you for generously sharing your knowledge.
Keep thriving💖So much love for you and for the people who is watching this channel from Japan✨
Thank you for reminding me that my kids follow by examples. ❤
You're welcome, love! Living it is the best lesson you can give them 😊
I’m trying to get there again. I’m a pretty woman but have been dragged down with SA, jealousy at work, slander, stalkers it never stops. I needed this video.
DV survivor here and it has taken me years to get back to “me” after leaving. Therapy, maintaining my looks and pursuing the hobbies I love while nurturing my child’s hobbies have really helped us come a long way as a family. My house may be a lot smaller, but I honestly couldn’t be happier. There is nothing worth your self respect and the sanctity of home for you and your family.
Thank you for your content, I’ve followed you for awhile now and I always get so much out of your words! 🖤
This channel helps me so much! She’s always on point and her advice when implemented works! Just love her channel
Love having you here, darling! So glad I can help 💕
Putting myself first with a newborn is prioritizing taking a shower. I know this might sound small, but with my first daughter I would wait until it was “the right time” to take care of myself and that time never came. I always feel so fresh, renewed, and like I did something for myself every day that I get my shower in and put perfume on.. even if I’m in the house!
Loving your content always. Thank you for sharing your gift with the world ❤
This is so true!
My girl thanks for your empowerment to woman. I love how smooth you are and straight forward. The man who has you better know you are a gift. Love from the virgin islands. Your helping alot of ladies. Jah bless you. I'm sure you are just as beautiful as your personality. All the bes. Keep up the extraordinary work thank you for your time and energy to help others in these vital areas.
Thank you, darling! These are such sweet sentiments! I will do my best to continue to create content that helps my sisters understand their power and improve their lives! Sending lots of love your way💕
I love this concept, I believe its so essential to our society for women to look after themselves and feel like it should be easy but find it incredibly hard.
I love you videos! They’re a great message and reminder. Thank you 💗
As a single mom who works full time, I have one day a week that I dedicate to whole body care, such as exfoliating, my face mask, and maybe a bubble bath. Day to day I keep it very simple and wash my face, apply coconut oil as my body moisturizer, use simple products before going out and going to bed. I only really wear mascara most of the time.
Also, RUclips has some intense 20-30 min workouts you can do everyday without scheduling a trip to the gym.
♥️
Growing up, my mother was and is a covert narcissist. Then I moved out with someone I thought was a friend. Nope. Just another manipulative, dysfunctional, crazy narcissist. So now that she is gone, in the last nearly 8 months I have learned to care for myself and my body. I needed this. Thank you!! I’m naturally giving, so it’s hard for me to prioritize myself. But I’m learning. Especially now that I’m also living by myself.
This is why I am focus on me myself and I. I believe in self-preservation. It's nothing selfish about it. If you are not taking care of yourself first how in world can you help others? I am the top priority in 2024 so I can help my family. I have no kids not married and not dating. I am just focus on my goals and achieving my goals.
Thank you for this timely message ❤
You are so welcome 💕
Love you all take care of your self 💜 ❤️ 💗
Love your videos. They’ve helped me a lot 🥰💕
It makes me so happy to hear that, love! Keep learning, growing and shining 💕
All I can say is that you're the best...❤❤❤
Just watching your videos has changed my life for good.
Comments like this are all I can ask for! I'm so happy I can help, Norah 💕💕
I thank God for you❤
I'm glad I can help, love! Great to see you - hope you've been well💕
I love your channel so much I wish I encountered it early on😢😢. It's been 3 months I started listening and practicing what is here. I bet you I have seen a massive improvement and not just myself, people around me have realized that too. Thank you so much for your contents. Much love ❤❤
This was the perfect reminder for me. Going through dark times have caused me to forget about this important piece of life. So thank you so much for your time and dedication in creating this content. I have been watching your material for about 2 going into 3 years now and your videos have not only become a blessing but a staple in my life.
Hi!!
I’m new here and absolutely love your content. This weekend I took the entire weekend to put myself 1st. This is a time I planned to reset and reflect on myself in totality. I didn’t take any calls or make them. I’ve NEVER done this but plan to do it quarterly. Taking time to commit and appreciate self is just as important as giving time and committing to others.
Thank you for taking time out of your day and life to give to the world.
Know that you are appreciated!!
Hello, darling! Welcome - I'm so happy you're here! I'm thrilled that this inspired you to do something you've never done and completely put yourself first for a weekend. Taking care of you benefits both you and everyone you love. We are better moms, wives, friends, employees, etc when we are rested, cared for, happy and rejuvenated 😊💕
I put God first! but I do understand the that you can only love your neighbor as you love yourself!
I keep hearing great things about AG1, so I’m going to try it. I noticed Atomic Habits in the background, I finished that book earlier this year, but I may need to read it again. I made a lot of plans for 2023, but I didn’t necessarily execute. But I still have just under 2 1/2 months left so I’m definitely trying to make me a priority.
Same! I had heard so much about AG1! Really glad I tried it; I have my sister hooked on it now too. Let me know what you think! Girl, yes! If you buckle down, you can get sooo much done in 2.5 months. From fitness to personal development and mindset to any sort of project you want to tackle. You can still put a major dent in your goals. I have 4 to 6 books I re-read every year and Atomic Habits is definitely one of them! Cheers to making yourself a priority - you got this! 🥂💕
Thanks so much for this ❤️
I always use the plane reference as a reminder...I still struggle but I'm more motivated to push myself to take care of me. Very good points.
Love the way you framed this very important topic in a straight to the point & calm way. I recently made it mandatory for me to hit the gym at least twice a week no excuses. Also to distant myself from people both personally & professionally that do not resonate with my journey. *Self care* The detached too cool point hit home lol thank you 💖💎
Thank you so much in All this valuable teachings.
Thank you for your videos- you always help me to slow down and remember to be kind to myself and why it’s important
Your videos always hit in the right moment!
This is something I’ve struggled my whole life I am now 24 years old & I’m now learning myself little by little I’ve been documenting my process in a self care planner 🙏🏻 to really motivate myself & really focus on myself for so long I put others before me & go above & beyond for others but me I realized in the end of doing that it left me drained & unsatisfied. I now know how important self love is & I’m happy I recognized that even early on I just never understood the whole principal of self love & why it’s important but now I know & I’m happy to be in this journey 😌
A small way that I prioritize myself is by taking a candlelit bath and or taking myself on a date
Love both of these! Keep taking care of you 😘
❤❤❤ Love love, love this video. Thank you so much.!
Thankyou so much for this video its really for me ive been neglecting myself putting everybody else first❤
Inspiration on a Wednesday! Perfect! 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Hope you enjoyed it, my love! 💕
So much! You are my source for daily inspiration for a beautiful life! Thank you! @@TheFeminineUniverse 💝
Thank you for sharing 🙏💜
Love this channel. You're teaching me all the things my mom left out.
I'm happy you're here, love! And I'm so glad I can help 😘
another great video as always ❤❤ thank you ❤
You're welcome! I'm glad you enjoyed it 💕
Wow 😯 this channels never fails to motivate me into indulging in my self care. Love it 😍
Thank you soo much (1 Year Supply for free)🙏🏽☀️
I just ordered AG1.. it’s just what I was looking for ironically 😅
I enjoy all your content! ❤
So glad I can provide some value to you, love! 💕
You are good! I don't care for a lot of wetted and no practical application. Every coach needs a coach! Love it!
I so needed this video, thank you so much. As of right now I'm not feeling like the woman that I want to be, so I'm going to start taking steps towards becoming that woman.
So grateful for this channel
I love it here 🫶🏾
Love having you here, darling! 💕
Thank you for the video.. learning so much always
Love ❤️ 💕 love 💗 this video…🎉🎉🎉exactly what I have been looking for
I'm so glad! 💕
I appreciate this video so much, I lost my self so much, so I truly appreciate you for this I took some screenshots where I felt needed ✨🌹
You're so welcome, darling! I'm glad this was helpful. Cheers to you getting back to yourself. Can't wait to hear more about your journey! 🥂💕
AMAZING video--everything I need to hear right now! Thank you for sharing! 💖
You are so welcome, love! I'm glad this was helpful 💕
You feel like a big sister to me! Love all your videos🥰
Not me nearly not clicking on this gem of a video because ‘nahhh I don’t need to prioritise myself!’ 🙈😂
Glad you clicked! You _deserve_ this 💕
THANK YOU SO MUCH. I AGREE WITH YOU 100%. I AM A WORK IN PROGRESS MYSELF. I DO THE BEST I CAN, WITH WHAT I HAVE.
this video is super helpful for me
Carrying for our selves in little & in big ways 🎉🎉❤️ is taking time to love on our self 😍.
When we are filled up with what we need 😴, then gives us enough to pour into others. We will get depleted if we don't schedule time weekly for spiritual physical mental health care 💅💋🎉.
I Always Put Myself First ❤
Great advice 😊 thank you ❤
I had to learn this lesson. But I did and life feels much BETTER!
Cheers to that🥂 I'm so happy for you, love!
Woohoo!!🎉❤ thanks for another video😊
You are so welcome! 😘
Thank you ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for these videos ❤❤ real advice
You are so welcome, love! 💕
TOTALLY AWSOME VIDEO AND EDUCATION. THANKS FOR SHARING. I LEARNED SO MUCH.
Thanks!❤
I recommend this channel for anyone that’s seeking self love and self care 🥰
Love this video
As usual, I needed to hear this ❤
A free supply what I will look into this Thanks Sis
Great Work Sis!!
Thanks for watching! 💕
❤I love! Thank you.
Great video, self care is so important!
would LOVE to try some of these AG1 goodies though I'm in South Africa. Also, i just LOVE this channel😍😍😍has changed my life!!
😍😍😍 I’m loving this topic 💯💯💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️
Right on time ❤🎉
Thank you ❤
You're very welcome 😊
I take hot baths & alternate doing a hair or face mask while soaking. I never used to allow myself this kind of relaxation, but it definitely makes a difference on the day-to-day!
Love your content ❤
Keep going please
More to come, love!
Wonderful video as always! ❤
I do hope you're taking care of yourself though, you sound under the weather. ❤ Get well soon 😊
Eunice! If you aren't just the sweetest (and quite observant!) The change in seasons is always rough on me😭😭 I literally had no voice for daysss, so I was glad to finally be able to record! I'm feeling much better, thank you! You are so appreciated 💕💕