When she asked a question "why I am here?" (26.29) I know how she feels, because I was there myself for meny years. Until I allowed myself to sink as deep as I could, to go down to the bottom of that feeling of extreme sadness and helplessness. In one split second the answer came, just when I completely relaxed and allowed to feel what I was feeling. The answer was " this is why I am here. To experience this feeling". I totally accepted that feeling and with curiosity observed how it makes me feel in every part of my body. I knew that I chose to come as a human to experience pain and suffering, because I will never experience that again. In that moment I saw how my depression changed the meaning.it was not what I thought it was. I created it myself to experience it. And when I felt it through by observing, it became just a sensation without any attached label. I was free. I observed the pain in my chest, I observed the sadness, I was observing how I feel. I said to myself:"hmmm...that's interesting". It was OK. It is just an equal feeling to any other feeling, no less important than feeling of happiness or joy. All is equal. That feeling is not who I AM but I am to feel it and experience it because I chose so.
I am liking Teal's approach. She doesn't come off as if she has the answers. Instead she asks the person she's talking with questions to help them find the answers within themselves.
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This girl talking about having no sense of self in the first part, struggling with finding a meaning and a purpose reminds me so well of the old me situation when I first started watching Teal's videos in 2016. I was exactly in the same state of emotions, and only now I actually understand all this journey purpose was to get that there's no standard, nore expectations about where I need to be now and how long it will take to be in the next desired state. It is just working on myself, trusting, and watching my path unfolding freely. I'm now working on enjoy life and everything around me is completely different from the beginning. Don't know how to thank, I've learnt so much from Teal, she's sharing treasures with her teachings. THANK YOU
She keeps asking for Teal to tell her what to do, instead if thinking for herself. She began to say that she grew up with parents who kept telling her what to do. She got so used to her parents telling her what to do and only focusing on living up to what her parents expected her to do, instead of being encourage to keep doing what her heart wants her to do. It's like she has never practised really listening to herself and her needs, that she keep asking people outside of herself to get the answers - which is her programming, instead of asking herself and what SHE really needs and wants to do in life and thereby feel what makes her truly happy. Try to ask yourself what you need, ask yourself about anything, and listen in silence, until the answer comes through your intuition!
Exactly!! Well said! I had the same problem. Now in my 22yo I learn to love myself and listen to me and only me. All the answers are inside us. A lot of parents' mistake is that they are controlling and kill their kids' intuition. Self-centered, narc parents create these kind of people. It's so sad because growing up the kids learn to find validation and answers outside of them
Getting to this point that you understand that there's no one else to ask but your self, is also a part of the healing process. I don't know how lost she may feel at this moment, so I really appreciate this girls effort to go to teal's seminar and stand up and ask what's the next step in the process... to me this 'mother and father' to my self' happens naturally through life,, but I can't say I haven't been affected by modern day' therapy internet accounts (and books), I am very grateful for this understanding of asking myself what I want to do in order to feel comfortable, but this means being a good friend to your self,, and not everyone can have this.. some people they get stuck in a story of alcohol or eating, or exercising just to move focus to somewhere else. when you exercise you should feel nice in your body stuff like yoga or workout with your own body and time.. but gym (or pole dance, as I did) just makes your body sour, ache,, so this must be an unfriendly version of you doing stuff to fit in the societal norm of activity .. any way, I believe the secret is in balance in everything and being kind (on somekind of a distant way(?)) to yourself, even if you don't feel like it (I used to do self harm for more than ten years, but then a shift happened, first time I thought it was because of lsd, but it was just induced by it, because at age 25 I had another shift, but it just came naturally, and it was not so naive as this earlier one, because I thought oh everything is love, and then started to feel love and meditate and stuff, but life happens in between and you quickly realise things' are not butterflies and cakes all of the time (although, once you feel love you never forget that feeling, true love never hurts!), hm, so then this shift happened recently, (before corone time, corona made me just go a step back but it's cool, ).. now im just getting rid of things that really harm me in my life .. but to get rid of them, I have to understand what *coping mechanism makes me go to those harmful things, and deal with it.. i guess that's what teal said in one other talk about' facing your hell' .. to me it's not really hell, its' just cute, looking at this version of me doing nasty shit, but leaving her behind, bc she is now like a loud teenager, I don't want to always be around her.// right now, I smoked a little green heaven (if it's too much of it then its green hell) , and told my self, don't think of your responsibilities for couple of hours, relax, do whatever, so here I am writing a long comment(who I doubt anyone wil read to this point:D ) and holding a speech of... me being grateful for my life process and defending this girl I guess?? :D :D if you are reading this, have a great evening/day!!
As someone who struggles with this all my life I can agree with you wholeheartedly! It’s like a block. Your awareness is so limited that you don’t even realize that that’s what’s happening! You’re totally cut off from yourself that you’re desperately search for answers outside yourself! You can’t function otherwise! You feel lost and useless! It’s hard to see the pattern!
this sweet girl that asked the first question, ohhhh my heart broke when she started to speak... her sweet voice you can hear her pain it is so palpable. I am her and she is me "I don't know how to be happy... i'm so depressed... I cry all the time" WOW "I feel like I have something to offer but I can't bc i'm so dysfunctional" OH MY GOD "I don't know what to do" TEAL IS A GOD SEND!!!!!!!!!!
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It's funny how Teal never gives them the answers they're looking for, she just directs them in the direction of solving that within them...she isn't a God who is going to give them the answers, not even God would do such a thing...the answer is always within, but it's about listening to it and understanding what's best for you
Honestly I don't think it would have helped of she did. I think they were in a state of helplessness. And people giving them answers would be like Ok I got that Time to go into a state of helplessness again because I'm not comfortable with solving things for myself because it's painful to struggle
This is the first time she truly realized she hadn’t been thinking for herself, literally!!! So much of her natural senses had been desensitized causing tremendous blank. Her flat affect & puzzled questions is quite perplexing. She is trapped in a codependent mind seriously needing attach to function. This is 2023 & I hope she had seen a professional somatic therapist & doing well. Teal actually shone a light to her complexity. Teal tried to help bring awareness.
I realized watching this seminar that.... I don't like being the bad person in a situation, I need to be the good one...the one who is right because I was always told I was the good one.... I realized this last few years I have been leaving that role.... But I'm still scared of what could happen since my brother had a bad time being so... I don't want to go through that too, (tough I have been in some way before)
by finishing this video I realized I'm also scared of people, I will start the positive focus but... I also realized that wanting to be always good it's not an ego thing for me, or well it may be, but it's not because I feel some kind of ... the rush of power or something like that is because I was so gaslighted by people and my mother mostly, that many things I was doing were wrong that I don't know what is right anymore, it was so random and for such stupid reasons, I don't understand, it was all manipulation. right now I don't want to hurt people, but I have been working on doing things because they feel right for me and actually make me improve and keep going. I started to see things more through a subjective lense, understanding that some people won't like what I do and that's ok, you can't hurt people sometimes, they're in charge of their feelings I'm in charge of mine.
What an amazing spiritual teacher Teal is....she shares in this video the reality that 'developmental trauma' is something that if not understood, you are bound to get 'stuck' in that emotional trauma, regarding what age it occurred in, even though you have physically grown, developmentally, you may be 'emotionally stunted' in childhood, because as Teal mentions, what was missing and not given in childhood, is what the inner child inside of you really needs, so the inner child inside can developmentally grow...and break the pattern that as an adult we may find ourselves in, time and time again, trying to get those needs met, and without awareness that this is what we are really reaching for....
The girl is in a compleatly dissociated state towards the end. I know how this feels. Everything starts to feel confusing, like youre a ship in a stormy ocean. People speak to you, but you cannot hear them. Things are happeniing around you but you are numb. Good therapy helped. I hope she gets the help too.
Wow, the first girl talking about her "twin", and then we find out she means her bf who abuses her and who she has "broken up with 24" times in the past 2 years and "nobody else would have him"... that's her idea of a twin flame!? I can only imagine how horrible her relationships were growing up for her to think that is what love looks like! No wonder she struggles with happiness! Anyway, aside from feeling a bit sorry for her, I'm glad Teal picked her as a subject as I think there are elements of her issues in many of us!
At first she was like "why can't I be happy?" I think she wonders why can't she be happy if a terrible relationship ended...truth is seems si she hasn't fully process the break up... And just wants to come back because she misses him ir what he meant to him.... Maybe she believes she needs to be with someone to be happy...
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My answer personally to the question " when I was happy what happened?" : .people thought I was weird.(why is she excited why is she being silly) I got disappointed soon after being happy. Something imes I'm sure not always but that was my initial memory. I grew up in foster care so my childhood is fragmented. Every home was like a completely different life. And I was in many. It's like I was living in a different world ld in every home and I was a different character in every home. I remember the person I was emotionally. I stayed the same for the most part...I was shy, silly, a singer, an actor, an excellent face reader, outgoing yet scared. I had many faces and too many emotions to handle. I still deal with this today. I feel like I've lived so many lives. It's crazy. I wish I could speak with someone personally and get help, but when I try to answer these questions about my past I want to ask Teal..which year which age bc even tho I remember myself as one child, I'm too many to answer honestly. Even when asked your first memory...it's hard to know. First memory of that home? Or that home? Bc each home was to ME a different life.
They were all you. I wonder if the following exercise would help you, from whatever age you entered foster care imagine you in the home of that family with the dynamics you entered into. Say hello to that little you, have a conversation about what she learned about living there. What hurts did she experience, what ways did she have joy. Then do this for every home you can recall living in. All of those little you's are so precious and valued. Even if the world you lived in many times over did not validate your value to you.
@@Goldrefinedthrufirea different life for each home, or in different words, a different mask for each situation? Btw, cool screen name. Has an alchemy feel to it. I dig it
I’m in love with the girl with the pink shoes. She’s me, but emotionless 😅. Yet everyone said she was difficult in the comments? 😂 you all can’t see lol. She’s great.
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Moving away from my mom after my dad passed really helped me learn to trust myself, I think I felt a little like her at one point in my life cuz I was so use to following my family and my grandma always inviting me over if I was bored. I understand her, it’s really interesting to watch these types of videos.
I can’t watch this, but I know was exactly in her position. I had the same mentality. Teal is absolutely right. This girl needs experiences that fulfill needs she missed out during childhood.
Basically she's just a baby, in an adult body, asking mommy and everyone around her to fix her life and tell her what to do, she never learnt to meet her needs herself. It's so off-putting a person like that. I also was wondering why she was so exasperating haha she cannot think for herself because she never learnt, she is crippled in self reliance.
I been abused my hole life consequences have been so bad hurt so deep no longer know how to be happy cause I never was I struggled to cope with hunger and an abusive family my hole life n am depressed my entire life from all the trauma n negative events I've gone thru
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Wow.. I like the analogy or role play whatever you call that. That was deep. You don't get to the next level of growth unless you are able to break the trauma.
Teal is like one of the few teachers that understands the importance of experiencing the opposite to heal and also the importance of understanding what childhood trauma is. Too much of our society is built around this damaging model of: just push yourself through and be strong. The problem is that doesn't work long-term and is even more damaging since its avoiding the root issue of childhood trauma which created a developmental problem which inhibits growth altogether. Also our society doesn't even understand what trauma even looks like since its so dysfunctional in nature. Too many people associate trauma as something purely physical like sexual abuse or violent abuse. It's in fact more subtle and can occur very early on and as such we don't have any memories that we can recall; its the subconscious(?) way we stay protected from those painful emotional experiences. In general though, our societies approach is just horrifyingly bad. Then everyone preaches this ridiculous idea that you can just 'will' yourself to feel better or 'beat' addictions. How could that even be possible? In order to feel good about something that is functional we have to have some kind of reference for it in the first place. Our associations with love just happens to be typically that if we suffer we can get 'love' from others. It's a self-destructive pattern that most of us just have no awareness that we're doing. And in respect to addictions with that said? How can a person even desire a change that feels good because - again - the problem is we have no reference for what that experience that feels truly good looks like.
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Wow, what that girl said at the end about being destroyed over and over again by that guy is exactly where I'm at today. I'm listening to this on the couch while he is happy as a clam that he just threw my love away like garbage. I feel no hope in life.
Sounds like you're angry about the injustice which is completely normal. If it makes you feel any better, people like that are never really happy. Though they appear so, they're empty which is why they behave that way. How do I know. Strange on and off 5 year relationship with a psychopath and grew up with Cluster Bs. They can not love. You can. Don't let people take that away from you. People like that try to break in you what they lack. Work to get back what you lost and try to understand what in you that you lack that you thought that was who you deserved? Why don't you think there will be better for you out there? Your love was wasted on that one person and it hurts because you didn't show love to the most important person, yourself. If they didn't reciprocate love, it's their issue, their loss. Not yours. When you see that you will be set free. Surround yourself with people who reciprocate. Or take time for yourself. When these types of people leave your life, it's a blessing which is only seen in hindsight. If you don't heal the wound you will meet more people like. If you change who you give to, value yourself more then when you do meet people like this you will choose you.
@@jesssss12 Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. I posted that 5 years ago. I'm thankfully able to say that after another 3 years of being sexually and psychologically abused and left for dead in the hospital I found a way out. Most people don't understand how someone gets to that point until they're in it themselves. I never would have imagined I would put up with one second of that kind of BS. He left a trail of women like that. One woman got admitted to a psych ward because of him and he actually laughed about her suffering. So to the guy who commented on my post about why he shouldn't have been happy, no one should be narcissistically happy about abusing women. I hope he gets help. Today, I'm in a very healthy and peaceful space with no man in my life, except loving friends and family 😊. Through time, I learned to purge the trauma and love myself again and it's wonderful! ❤️
To the first girl: imagine yourself as a baby in your own arms as adult and give yourself-baby as much love as you can manage. When your baby-self is happy, you can see yourself as a toddler with yourself adult, and so on... If you look for other people to do it for you, you will never heal. Others are preoccupied with themselves. And don't waist your time on that guy, all he does is re-enforcing of old wounds. You are attached to him, because your parents did that to you, and you want more of that, because as what Teal said: this is your idea of love. Give yourself new idea of love - it can only come from you.
I feel like this works but wouldn't for her at least not in that state. She needs a partnership while doing the exercises. A partner that can be her new adult example. They will have to be very patient with her and help her validate herself. Constant validation will help her develop a sense of self and then she can pin point when, where, who, how, and the why's she's looking for.
I've noticed over many years that a lot of the people who are convinced they have found their twin flame to the point that they will argue about it or almost fanatical about finding twin flames seem like they often have deeply rooted abandonment issues. Of course many people would love to have loving relationships, so I'm not saying it's wrong to desire a connection with someone, but in cases like I've mentioned, there seems to be an obsessive quality to it. I know this footage was shot three years back, though my heart still goes out to this young woman, and I hope for her that she has moved through this and gotten to a better place with herself. The alternative is repeating the pattern, and each time the message contained in the pattern will become more blatant and "louder" until it has our full attention.
I wish someone knew who the first young woman because the way she perceive and process her search for happiness WAS TRULY DEEP! Wow. She made me realize I’m struggling as well. I couldn’t put it into words but she did it effortlessly. I’d like to watch videos by her!
People keep looking for happiness and success but seem unable to define what these things are for them - for me I seek to be satisfied with myself, with my day, with my life. I think part of it is to let go of expectations and desire and suffering and just enjoy the small things in each day. I have no time for all this psychoanalysing that just ties people up in knots.
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I notice with Teal's seminars, the "fill in the blank" style of answer intimidates a lot of people to think there is a "right" answer they need to know already instead of talking freely. I understand why she does it, but these people are not confident enough to be sincere in the first place. It comes off like they are trying to be accepted by her before leveled to listen or accept themselves. I like Teal, but the patience for the hivemind unwinding seems so draining.
I think Teal is helping to construct the self-questioning technique for self-reprogramming... So she's sticking to those tools, to give them experience points and upgrade via experimentation... It's obviously flawed, as it is in a state of growth... it's nice to see her own ego objective coming out, showing structures of the code she is operating on...
MakiUbermach everyone there is there for their own sake and reasons. It is a safe environment there. Safety is percieved by you and me, it can not be put upon anyone else. You are trying to protect people on the stage - no one went there to be protected and cradled and to never find any answers. Because some is doing that for everyone else....
At around 55:00 when she’s telling the girl to go back to spiritually 101 Teal then goes on to explain 2.0 version of spirituality she teaches & a HUGE lightbulb went on for me. I feel a lot better about my mental state now realizing that after my true spiritual awakening after a lot of 101 level stuff over the decades. She said u go from the realization u create your reality & boy have I had a lot of fun with that (my life is so abundant now) but then u get flipped on ur ass with a plunge into your shadow work. I’ve been digging into shadow work for some time & I know I’m slaying it but, it was really nice to hear that what I’ve gone through is textbook awakening. Thank you Teal 🥰
In spiritual comunities twin flames became very popular concept. I was right away wondering wait is it actual twin or twin flame, and it was strange to me that Teal didn't ask her right away.
Teal, you're keeping clients in their heads. I also see very little happening in the way of relationship between you and the client. You're psychoanalyzing, which creates no new neural pathways in the brain, no internal shift, no missing experience. I recognize how gifted/talented you are, which is why I, a somatic therapist, watch your videos. I learn a lot. But on the flip of that, I strongly recommend that you take Somatic Experiencing training or learn The Hakomi Method (also somatic depth work) and learn how to experientially show your clients what you keep trying to tell them--but you're making them (or at least the first client here) feel WORSE about themselves! Rewatch this video and imagine you are the first young lady. Can you imagine what she leaves with? You belittled her. Some of your behaviors towards her felt narcissistic to me (and I do believe empaths are capable of exhibiting that, by the way). It was painful for me to watch. Please be careful. It pains me to see when healers with positive intentions end up harming clients unintentionally. You have skills I do not have, and vice versa--and I see clearly here (and in a video you did with a client with chronic fatigue) how you are adding to their feelings of minimal self-worth by the way you work with them. By the way, the first lovely lady does NOT need spiritual 101 or spiritual ANYTHING. She needs someone to hear her, feel her, tell her it's OK to feel unhappy, BE WITH her in the unhappiness (while holding your vibration), go into the SHADOWS and meet her inner child there and tell her in a language that makes sense to the child what she needed to hear when she was little--maybe even say, "It's safe to feel happy and see what this elicits emotionally), then bring her out of the shadows to reintegrate into the whole self. You teach something so similar--why aren't you practicing it? Also, please stop telling clients what they need. Elicit it from them by going into the shadows and speaking to the inner child. And please don't keep asking them questions that puts them into their heads. I as an empath could feel them trying to give you the right answer. Could you? They put you on a pedestal. You HAVE to create a level field first before they'll give honest answers. You're not meeting them where they are. You're working hierarchically. I normally don't take the time to comment on RUclips videos or even critique other healers' work. Because I'm not perfect. But you have an enormous following. I admire your courage and ability to obtain such a wide audience. I DREAM of doing the same one day, and I watch you to be inspired. But jeez--these sessions? The people watching? There is harm occurring here, just like what happened when I used to hate myself for not being able to change my reality the way Wayne Dyer said I could when I struggled with suicidal ideation. I felt like a failure, and I think that first young lady on here left feeling the same after this session. I've read that you require potential healers you train to be able to hold space and not be affected by their clients' strong emotions. But I see you doing this to the extreme. A true healer has to be willing to get dirty, to sit in the muck with people because you know your way out and aren't afraid of the dark. I see you not wanting to get dirty. Honestly? I would not feel safe in a session with you AT ALL. It makes me sad to say that. I also believe you could be one of the most powerful healers out there if you stopped separating yourself from clients. BE WITH vs talking to.
I find this workshop confusing as well, even though i like teal swan. I think that the work from byron katie would have helped better the girl in white pants, because teal used a lot of metaphor which increased the overthinking state. I, myself was confused as well at the end of video. A feeling that nothing had been resolved, just talks.
yes, i absolutly agree with your words. i also consider myself an empath and i was cringing through the whole session...only hoping for it to come to some final aha- moment... but it was painful to watch. i felt so strongly for the first women, i would have felt ingnored, belittlet, spoken over...she never build rapport with the women on stage, both of them... i watch teals videos since years, and i have to say i have learned so damn much through these videos, intellecutally and many concepts and exercices that are tremendously helpful to me, that even changes the way i see myself an the world. and I do think she is highly intelligent and eloquent. but i don´t see emapthy showing through at these sessions at all. to me she seems impatient for letting the clients finish to speak, she assumes she "knows" what´s going on in their lives after them only saying 3 words... deciding this womans brother is a narcissist...after ONE story from her with no background, no context...and i agree with you that it´s dangerous when she is doing that on a stage. people are not capable of critiquing others hyped humans, or anyone who is perceives higher in hierarchy ususally, this is a status of immense power especially workring woth individuals whi are so vulnerable and open. i think teal has a lot to offer, but i don´t think it´s a good idea for her to work with vulnerable people if she can´t empathize with them. she basically told a woman that stated she was suicidal when she said "there is nothing else but suffering in life" "yes, i know". i mean... i´m not for sugarcoating, nor am i for taking away the option of suicide from people in an honest therapeutic conversation, it is their choice after all, but to not give her any silver lining or hope in that moment seems very dangerous to me. and then after this horrible farce on stage trying to talk sense into someone who to me clearly was troubles immensly by cognitive dissonance and having a very hard time conceptualizing what teal said, she tells her she needs spirituality 101, that she is in kindergarten, whil teal teaches college here?!either teal is not being aware or not caring how that translates to ANYONE with self worth issues or even suicidal thoughts and trauma....i mean...this whole session does seem very narcisstic to me. unloving and impatient at least. and no, safe is definitly something very differerent for me.. i mean, i personally could go up on this stage, but i am so damn eloquent and able to dissociate very quickly, that i could talk about my trauma intellectually without being emotionally available. but this is not a standard. or an ideal healing setting AT ALL. :D so i´ll continue to watch teals videos, but i strongly advice everyone to seek help with people that feel SAFE to you, that respect what you say, that let you finish your sentences, that "vibe with you", mirror your emotions, and built rapport, people that feel loving and safe. yes, you can take intellectual insight from someone who you don´t agree with, but this does seem dangerous to me, that she hold that position of power and doesn´t exercise that with much compassion or love, and still the most liked comment on this video "How patient teal is"...
I’m a licensed therapist and I completely disagree... she is trying to get them to see how their own thinking impacts the way they feel... basics of cognitive behavioral therapy .. and understating your own emotions. A therapist or spiritual leaders job isn’t to make you feel better about yourself .. it’s to help challenge and change your core beliefs to realize how your unhealthy thinking patterns are negatively affecting your emotions and life .. that’s like saying it’s mean for a physician or nutritionist to tell a 500 lb person that they are obese and need to look at their diet and write it all down and understand how their diet is harming them.. learning isn’t all sunshine and roses people.
@@evynnjohnson6946 sure, heavily traumatized people need to learn that it´s not all sunshine and roses. because obviously they didn´t experience that before. what an empathetic statement! :D they further need to do that in a session, on a stage with hundreds of ppl. watching while they are completly dissociated to a degree that they cannot follow the conversation. and they need to learn that by a celebrated public figure, they most certainly admire, who is doing both, providing a weird kind of therapy on stage AND entertaining an educational event format with underlying monetary interest at the same time. (no room for any ethical interest conflicts there, i assume?) i´m all about honesty, brutal if necessary, but before brutal i´d try kind honesty, gentle honesty, blunt honesty. before i push people into their abyss i´d try to connect, built rapport, understand them. empathize. and i don´t ridicule them for being confused while i dive deep into their cognitive dissonances. also, as you are a licensed therapist, i feel safe to assume you know accessing the frontal cortex, which is required to process any "conscious changes of your core beliefs", is not possible at all, when your fight or flight response is triggered? so, yes, being obvioulsy impatient when my client who already doens´t understand me cognitively, seems like the only competent thing to do here. :D go, therapy. go! self protective saracasm off: i´d like to tell anyone who is treated like this by a therapist, licensed or not: RUN FOR THE HILLS and look for someone with empathy. ESPECIALLY if you are dealing with unresolved trauma and cannot access your own core beliefs or are unaware of your dysfunctional patterns at large. you NEED someone who is gentle, competent and trustworthy. then - yes, only then - they should challenge your beliefs and help you gain further understanding of your problems in a radical way. but not via pushing you over the cliff without teaching you how to fly first!!! so, evynn, if this is really your idea of good therapy, you unfortunatly further my bad opinion about therapists. with all due respect: oh boy am i grateful that i have achieved the confidence to never ever be impressed by a job title alone again. i´d rather go find someone who went through the same shit as i did and made it through the trauma and came out on the other side stronger. she knows her shit and has no fiancial gain in my suffering. sad reality in consumer capitalism. not to say there aren´t good therapist out there. but thea are rare. maybe my standards for my mental health are too high and i need to lower them to fit into therapy? :D so we are both lucky, that i am not your client, or else we both would be very dissatisfied. ;) i value teal´s work tremendously, i think she has an extraordinarily brilliant mind, i cherish her rhetoric and bluntness and her out of the box thinking. and i owe her a lot of my understanding of certain psychological or psychospiritual methods and concepts. i will continue to watch her content. but i honestly would not recommend anyone who is psychologically unstable or even vulnerable to work with her one on one. and i say that as an unlicenced empath with a personal history of abuse and loooots of trauma work with quite a few therapist behind me. one of them studied with watzlawick himself. she was licensed as hell. many years of experience. beautiful office, and imo her therapy was utter bullshit. so, please people: do seek help if needed! but don´t trust someone just because the could afford the formal education. or because they stand on a stage. that doesn´t make them good therapists or councelors. life experience, empathy, self reflection and own resolved trauma does.
I really hope the woman needing help has been able to stabilize her mental space enough to create something positive. I feel the confusion around not knowing how to be happy, I was there for a long time. The transformation can only happen when the inner conditions are, at the very least, infused with the DEVOTION to the practice of mastering the direction of thoughts first. This step has to be established with devoted, patterned practice that is just as important as putting on makeup, eating a meal, getting dressed. Foundational. Only then, like Teal explained, one can start working with shadow challenges and deeper transformation. But first, she must create a sense of well-being from her own thought experiences. I can feel her heavy resistance to the idea that she needs to put her energy into HER. But if she can, she will begin to create an emotional grid to return and hold on to when the waves of negative patterns start to sweep her away. And if she can commit to devoting her attention to ONLY her well-being, and choosing people who are supportive of her well-being as well, then she can develop the conditions from which happiness arises. But if she allows people to continuously pull her into pain, it will elude her.
The fact that this girl keeps saying "twin" is throwing me off. My first thought went to a twin sibling that she hadn't met until later in life. Every time I watch Teal's live seminars I am struck by the small mindedness and lack of maturity and development of the people who attend and are pulled on stage.
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I think i didn't properly do my spirituality 101 kindergarden positive focus things. Like i've noticed that i could bring stuff into my reality but it was never my thing. I didn't like the whole "my world is perfect, let's come together, light scented candles and think positive" stuff so i just skipped it because it felt bullshit. I went into the more hardcore stuff like shadow work or disidentification, kundalini work and advanced reiki stuff only to find out things about me which i didn't yet manage. The baby in the womb talk really gave me some answers. Thanks.
I agree! The twin flame bs keeps so many people stuck in abusive or one sided relationships. I am glad teal told her that he isn’t her twin and is just a narcissist.
Wow, this is brilliant. My childhood is black with a few fragments of memories. My mother was emotionally abusive/neglectful to me, in addition to being physically abusive to my brother. I have come to the conclusions most of my "issues" stem from toxic shame and trauma.
Last night I saw videos of those who tried to destroy Teal, and I'm wondering did they ever realized how wrong that would be if they did. This woman is rare quality of this world. Whatever is rare, it's worth millions.
Suppressed, scared, lonely, guilty, wrong, hated, unsafe, fearful, abandoned, hard, suffocated, shamed, disconnected, isolated, ignored, overwhelmed, unearthed, not allowed, unwanted, a burden, living in a daily nightmare = mychildhood. I m scared of myself of my capabilities. Strange,
@laila linuza exactly like u explaind. Et when I was at the bottom, There to be I was so affraid, I saw and feld that everything was ok. I was was Feeling good and finally I understud my purpose. And I saw the power I habe to chose my life,and I start to chose every singel thing in my life. Emotional,Friends, Time I spend doing things, I get more free with every singen designen I do in purpes. And Im happy
This is so real💗💗💗💗💗 my I feel a sense of wholeness🙏🏽 but at the same time it's awkward cause being open and authentic ...this is all so new to most people in society and this shows in this room along within myself and I'm projecting a smidge. - @56:20 ish I need 101a little bit more to master it thank you
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Mayee Monroy The way she handled the first girl was completely off- like don't be in a healing session and laugh in someone's face because of them not turning a mic on immediately and then tell them they are not evolved enough to hear that they are stuck in a dysfunctional relationship pattern. I always admired Teal's work but just lost respect for who she is as a person because of how she treats others. Being a healer should not get to one's ego to the point that you minimize and trivialize someone's being so much! Not to mention her white privilege is showing like crazy..outraged at how she treats this young lady as if she is DUMb
i agree with what you write...i watch teals videos since a very long time and think she is brilliant, intellectually in destilling down informations and conceptualizing it, but in this video...i am not seeing any emapthy for the women on stage at all. it was creepy and painful to watch. narcisstic it seemed to me, but well. who am i to decide. i only will decide to never get on stage with her. :D could you do me a favour and pinpoint where you saw her exercising white privilege? do you mean generally because she belittled the first women? i am genuinly asking, i am white and am learning... so i´d be interested if there was something specific. the whol einteraction was just...cringy and painful to watch for me as an empath. if i would have been on that stage in that vulverable position i probably would have commited suicide afterwards. and this is not a cynical joke but my honest opinion.
Thank you for the inspiration.
Wow. Just wow.
When she asked a question "why I am here?" (26.29)
I know how she feels, because I was there myself for meny years.
Until I allowed myself to sink as deep as I could, to go down to the bottom of that feeling of extreme sadness and helplessness. In one split second the answer came, just when I completely relaxed and allowed to feel what I was feeling. The answer was " this is why I am here. To experience this feeling". I totally accepted that feeling and with curiosity observed how it makes me feel in every part of my body. I knew that I chose to come as a human to experience pain and suffering, because I will never experience that again. In that moment I saw how my depression changed the meaning.it was not what I thought it was. I created it myself to experience it. And when I felt it through by observing, it became just a sensation without any attached label. I was free. I observed the pain in my chest, I observed the sadness, I was observing how I feel. I said to myself:"hmmm...that's interesting". It was OK. It is just an equal feeling to any other feeling, no less important than feeling of happiness or joy. All is equal. That feeling is not who I AM but I am to feel it and experience it because I chose so.
The simplicity of this is what makes it feel genuine and true for myself as well
Thank you for sharing. I felt everything you said.
Yes,exacte like this!
This is beautiful
@Rebecca The Great thats the Problem. It only hurts because you resist it
I absolutely get her! Cry a lot, sad everyday. I know I have a lot to give, i try try try im exhausted
I am liking Teal's approach. She doesn't come off as if she has the answers. Instead she asks the person she's talking with questions to help them find the answers within themselves.
YES 🙌... I was stuck because I was bullied by a controlling step parent... I had no self belief but now I am studying to be a Yoga Teacher ❤
So Yes I am coming through it ❤
I found this somatic experiencing with Soul Tribe ❤
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I am finally feeling seen
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This girl talking about having no sense of self in the first part, struggling with finding a meaning and a purpose reminds me so well of the old me situation when I first started watching Teal's videos in 2016. I was exactly in the same state of emotions, and only now I actually understand all this journey purpose was to get that there's no standard, nore expectations about where I need to be now and how long it will take to be in the next desired state. It is just working on myself, trusting, and watching my path unfolding freely. I'm now working on enjoy life and everything around me is completely different from the beginning. Don't know how to thank, I've learnt so much from Teal, she's sharing treasures with her teachings. THANK YOU
So how did u become happy
the lady dressed in purple is such a pure soul
I adored her!
I love her ♥️
She keeps asking for Teal to tell her what to do, instead if thinking for herself. She began to say that she grew up with parents who kept telling her what to do. She got so used to her parents telling her what to do and only focusing on living up to what her parents expected her to do, instead of being encourage to keep doing what her heart wants her to do. It's like she has never practised really listening to herself and her needs, that she keep asking people outside of herself to get the answers - which is her programming, instead of asking herself and what SHE really needs and wants to do in life and thereby feel what makes her truly happy. Try to ask yourself what you need, ask yourself about anything, and listen in silence, until the answer comes through your intuition!
Exactly!! Well said! I had the same problem. Now in my 22yo I learn to love myself and listen to me and only me. All the answers are inside us. A lot of parents' mistake is that they are controlling and kill their kids' intuition. Self-centered, narc parents create these kind of people. It's so sad because growing up the kids learn to find validation and answers outside of them
Getting to this point that you understand that there's no one else to ask but your self, is also a part of the healing process. I don't know how lost she may feel at this moment, so I really appreciate this girls effort to go to teal's seminar and stand up and ask what's the next step in the process... to me this 'mother and father' to my self' happens naturally through life,,
but I can't say I haven't been affected by modern day' therapy internet accounts (and books),
I am very grateful for this understanding of asking myself what I want to do in order to feel comfortable, but this means being a good friend to your self,, and not everyone can have this.. some people they get stuck in a story of alcohol or eating, or exercising just to move focus to somewhere else.
when you exercise you should feel nice in your body stuff like yoga or workout with your own body and time.. but gym (or pole dance, as I did) just makes your body sour, ache,, so this must be an unfriendly version of you doing stuff to fit in the societal norm of activity .. any way,
I believe the secret is in balance in everything and being kind (on somekind of a distant way(?)) to yourself, even if you don't feel like it (I used to do self harm for more than ten years, but then a shift happened, first time I thought it was because of lsd, but it was just induced by it, because at age 25 I had another shift, but it just came naturally, and it was not so naive as this earlier one, because I thought oh everything is love, and then started to feel love and meditate and stuff, but life happens in between and you quickly realise things' are not butterflies and cakes all of the time (although, once you feel love you never forget that feeling, true love never hurts!), hm, so then this shift happened recently,
(before corone time, corona made me just go a step back but it's cool, )..
now im just getting rid of things that really harm me in my life .. but to get rid of them, I have to understand what *coping mechanism makes me go to those harmful things, and deal with it..
i guess that's what teal said in one other talk about' facing your hell' ..
to me it's not really hell, its' just cute, looking at this version of me doing nasty shit, but leaving her behind, bc she is now like a loud teenager, I don't want to always be around her.// right now, I smoked a little green heaven (if it's too much of it then its green hell) , and told my self, don't think of your responsibilities for couple of hours, relax, do whatever, so here I am writing a long comment(who I doubt anyone wil read to this point:D ) and holding a speech of... me being grateful for my life process and defending this girl I guess?? :D :D if you are reading this, have a great evening/day!!
Yessssss!
she's completely lost her inner compass due to severe baby trauma
As someone who struggles with this all my life I can agree with you wholeheartedly! It’s like a block. Your awareness is so limited that you don’t even realize that that’s what’s happening! You’re totally cut off from yourself that you’re desperately search for answers outside yourself! You can’t function otherwise! You feel lost and useless! It’s hard to see the pattern!
this sweet girl that asked the first question, ohhhh my heart broke when she started to speak... her sweet voice you can hear her pain it is so palpable. I am her and she is me "I don't know how to be happy... i'm so depressed... I cry all the time" WOW "I feel like I have something to offer but I can't bc i'm so dysfunctional" OH MY GOD "I don't know what to do" TEAL IS A GOD SEND!!!!!!!!!!
The brain craves novelty. When we don’t get novelty, we get depressed. That’s why the lock down was so bad for us all. We needs to go on road trips, visit museums, try new things. We also crave reconnecting with the earth- hiking or swimming. Jump start our brain out of our routines.
Amazing her brilliance is superb...
Flawless flow ...
I seen like 5 therapists, interviewed a few and None come close to this
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It's funny how Teal never gives them the answers they're looking for, she just directs them in the direction of solving that within them...she isn't a God who is going to give them the answers, not even God would do such a thing...the answer is always within, but it's about listening to it and understanding what's best for you
Great point!
Honestly I don't think it would have helped of she did. I think they were in a state of helplessness. And people giving them answers would be like
Ok I got that
Time to go into a state of helplessness again because I'm not comfortable with solving things for myself because it's painful to struggle
This is the first time she truly realized she hadn’t been thinking for herself, literally!!! So much of her natural senses had been desensitized causing tremendous blank. Her flat affect & puzzled questions is quite perplexing. She is trapped in a codependent mind seriously needing attach to function. This is 2023 & I hope she had seen a professional somatic therapist & doing well. Teal actually shone a light to her complexity. Teal tried to help bring awareness.
I realized watching this seminar that.... I don't like being the bad person in a situation, I need to be the good one...the one who is right because I was always told I was the good one.... I realized this last few years I have been leaving that role.... But I'm still scared of what could happen since my brother had a bad time being so... I don't want to go through that too, (tough I have been in some way before)
by finishing this video I realized I'm also scared of people, I will start the positive focus but... I also realized that wanting to be always good it's not an ego thing for me, or well it may be, but it's not because I feel some kind of ... the rush of power or something like that is because I was so gaslighted by people and my mother mostly, that many things I was doing were wrong that I don't know what is right anymore, it was so random and for such stupid reasons, I don't understand, it was all manipulation. right now I don't want to hurt people, but I have been working on doing things because they feel right for me and actually make me improve and keep going. I started to see things more through a subjective lense, understanding that some people won't like what I do and that's ok, you can't hurt people sometimes, they're in charge of their feelings I'm in charge of mine.
Home for me growing up seemed fine as long as I could entertain myself within my own little universe and not disturb anyone!
What an amazing spiritual teacher Teal is....she shares in this video the reality that 'developmental trauma' is something that if not understood, you are bound to get 'stuck' in that emotional trauma, regarding what age it occurred in, even though you have physically grown, developmentally, you may be 'emotionally stunted' in childhood, because as Teal mentions, what was missing and not given in childhood, is what the inner child inside of you really needs, so the inner child inside can developmentally grow...and break the pattern that as an adult we may find ourselves in, time and time again, trying to get those needs met, and without awareness that this is what we are really reaching for....
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The girl is in a compleatly dissociated state towards the end. I know how this feels. Everything starts to feel confusing, like youre a ship in a stormy ocean. People speak to you, but you cannot hear them. Things are happeniing around you but you are numb.
Good therapy helped. I hope she gets the help too.
Wow, the first girl talking about her "twin", and then we find out she means her bf who abuses her and who she has "broken up with 24" times in the past 2 years and "nobody else would have him"... that's her idea of a twin flame!? I can only imagine how horrible her relationships were growing up for her to think that is what love looks like! No wonder she struggles with happiness! Anyway, aside from feeling a bit sorry for her, I'm glad Teal picked her as a subject as I think there are elements of her issues in many of us!
At first she was like "why can't I be happy?" I think she wonders why can't she be happy if a terrible relationship ended...truth is seems si she hasn't fully process the break up... And just wants to come back because she misses him ir what he meant to him.... Maybe she believes she needs to be with someone to be happy...
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the first girl w the pink sneakers is SOOO ME when she made the joke on the chair and nobody laughed hahaha!!!
My answer personally to the question " when I was happy what happened?" : .people thought I was weird.(why is she excited why is she being silly) I got disappointed soon after being happy. Something imes I'm sure not always but that was my initial memory. I grew up in foster care so my childhood is fragmented. Every home was like a completely different life. And I was in many. It's like I was living in a different world ld in every home and I was a different character in every home. I remember the person I was emotionally. I stayed the same for the most part...I was shy, silly, a singer, an actor, an excellent face reader, outgoing yet scared. I had many faces and too many emotions to handle. I still deal with this today. I feel like I've lived so many lives. It's crazy. I wish I could speak with someone personally and get help, but when I try to answer these questions about my past I want to ask Teal..which year which age bc even tho I remember myself as one child, I'm too many to answer honestly. Even when asked your first memory...it's hard to know. First memory of that home? Or that home? Bc each home was to ME a different life.
They were all you. I wonder if the following exercise would help you, from whatever age you entered foster care imagine you in the home of that family with the dynamics you entered into. Say hello to that little you, have a conversation about what she learned about living there. What hurts did she experience, what ways did she have joy. Then do this for every home you can recall living in. All of those little you's are so precious and valued. Even if the world you lived in many times over did not validate your value to you.
@@sharayahsunshine11 good idea. Thank you 😊
@@Goldrefinedthrufirea different life for each home, or in different words, a different mask for each situation?
Btw, cool screen name. Has an alchemy feel to it. I dig it
Thanks to these two sweet, beautiful, brave young ladies and Teal... Awesome info as always.
A TwinFlame experience is a Divine experience, never abusive. She thinks abuse is true unconditional love.
I’m in love with the girl with the pink shoes. She’s me, but emotionless 😅. Yet everyone said she was difficult in the comments? 😂 you all can’t see lol. She’s great.
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Moving away from my mom after my dad passed really helped me learn to trust myself, I think I felt a little like her at one point in my life cuz I was so use to following my family and my grandma always inviting me over if I was bored. I understand her, it’s really interesting to watch these types of videos.
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I can’t watch this, but I know was exactly in her position. I had the same mentality. Teal is absolutely right. This girl needs experiences that fulfill needs she missed out during childhood.
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The girl in the white pants tested my patience. Teal is sooo patient with people. It shows how caring she is
Basically she's just a baby, in an adult body, asking mommy and everyone around her to fix her life and tell her what to do, she never learnt to meet her needs herself.
It's so off-putting a person like that. I also was wondering why she was so exasperating haha she cannot think for herself because she never learnt, she is crippled in self reliance.
@@juniperstardust5549 Why does it sound like you are mocking her? Didn't Teal explain it well?
When she is talking about the wall what does she mean so the person sitting in the chair has a wall up against what?
Phew. This is what I need. The pill is hard to swallow. Thank you for uploading this!!
I been abused my hole life consequences have been so bad hurt so deep no longer know how to be happy cause I never was I struggled to cope with hunger and an abusive family my hole life n am depressed my entire life from all the trauma n negative events I've gone thru
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Wow.. I like the analogy or role play whatever you call that. That was deep. You don't get to the next level of growth unless you are able to break the trauma.
Teal is like one of the few teachers that understands the importance of experiencing the opposite to heal and also the importance of understanding what childhood trauma is.
Too much of our society is built around this damaging model of: just push yourself through and be strong. The problem is that doesn't work long-term and is even more damaging since its avoiding the root issue of childhood trauma which created a developmental problem which inhibits growth altogether.
Also our society doesn't even understand what trauma even looks like since its so dysfunctional in nature. Too many people associate trauma as something purely physical like sexual abuse or violent abuse. It's in fact more subtle and can occur very early on and as such we don't have any memories that we can recall; its the subconscious(?) way we stay protected from those painful emotional experiences.
In general though, our societies approach is just horrifyingly bad. Then everyone preaches this ridiculous idea that you can just 'will' yourself to feel better or 'beat' addictions. How could that even be possible? In order to feel good about something that is functional we have to have some kind of reference for it in the first place. Our associations with love just happens to be typically that if we suffer we can get 'love' from others. It's a self-destructive pattern that most of us just have no awareness that we're doing.
And in respect to addictions with that said? How can a person even desire a change that feels good because - again - the problem is we have no reference for what that experience that feels truly good looks like.
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Wow, what that girl said at the end about being destroyed over and over again by that guy is exactly where I'm at today. I'm listening to this on the couch while he is happy as a clam that he just threw my love away like garbage. I feel no hope in life.
Laura Conn is your purpose in life attached to someone wanting you? Can you find a way to want yourself?
Sounds like you're angry about the injustice which is completely normal. If it makes you feel any better, people like that are never really happy. Though they appear so, they're empty which is why they behave that way. How do I know. Strange on and off 5 year relationship with a psychopath and grew up with Cluster Bs. They can not love. You can. Don't let people take that away from you. People like that try to break in you what they lack. Work to get back what you lost and try to understand what in you that you lack that you thought that was who you deserved? Why don't you think there will be better for you out there? Your love was wasted on that one person and it hurts because you didn't show love to the most important person, yourself. If they didn't reciprocate love, it's their issue, their loss. Not yours. When you see that you will be set free. Surround yourself with people who reciprocate. Or take time for yourself. When these types of people leave your life, it's a blessing which is only seen in hindsight. If you don't heal the wound you will meet more people like. If you change who you give to, value yourself more then when you do meet people like this you will choose you.
Laura Conn how do you know, really know, that he is happy? You don’t. Also what if he is really happy? Why not? What’s your beef with his happiness?
Know there’s lots of fish in the sea. Take your time to make a decision. Stay calm. Analyze yourself. Be safe. And find happiness 😊❤. Lots of love.
@@jesssss12 Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. I posted that 5 years ago. I'm thankfully able to say that after another 3 years of being sexually and psychologically abused and left for dead in the hospital I found a way out. Most people don't understand how someone gets to that point until they're in it themselves. I never would have imagined I would put up with one second of that kind of BS. He left a trail of women like that. One woman got admitted to a psych ward because of him and he actually laughed about her suffering. So to the guy who commented on my post about why he shouldn't have been happy, no one should be narcissistically happy about abusing women. I hope he gets help. Today, I'm in a very healthy and peaceful space with no man in my life, except loving friends and family 😊. Through time, I learned to purge the trauma and love myself again and it's wonderful! ❤️
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To the first girl: imagine yourself as a baby in your own arms as adult and give yourself-baby as much love as you can manage. When your baby-self is happy, you can see yourself as a toddler with yourself adult, and so on...
If you look for other people to do it for you, you will never heal. Others are preoccupied with themselves. And don't waist your time on that guy, all he does is re-enforcing of old wounds. You are attached to him, because your parents did that to you, and you want more of that, because as what Teal said: this is your idea of love. Give yourself new idea of love - it can only come from you.
Izumruda I've done exactly that and it works for me!
I feel like this works but wouldn't for her at least not in that state. She needs a partnership while doing the exercises. A partner that can be her new adult example. They will have to be very patient with her and help her validate herself. Constant validation will help her develop a sense of self and then she can pin point when, where, who, how, and the why's she's looking for.
Thank you.
I've noticed over many years that a lot of the people who are convinced they have found their twin flame to the point that they will argue about it or almost fanatical about finding twin flames seem like they often have deeply rooted abandonment issues. Of course many people would love to have loving relationships, so I'm not saying it's wrong to desire a connection with someone, but in cases like I've mentioned, there seems to be an obsessive quality to it. I know this footage was shot three years back, though my heart still goes out to this young woman, and I hope for her that she has moved through this and gotten to a better place with herself. The alternative is repeating the pattern, and each time the message contained in the pattern will become more blatant and "louder" until it has our full attention.
I wish someone knew who the first young woman because the way she perceive and process her search for happiness WAS TRULY DEEP! Wow. She made me realize I’m struggling as well. I couldn’t put it into words but she did it effortlessly. I’d like to watch videos by her!
People keep looking for happiness and success but seem unable to define what these things are for them - for me I seek to be satisfied with myself, with my day, with my life. I think part of it is to let go of expectations and desire and suffering and just enjoy the small things in each day. I have no time for all this psychoanalysing that just ties people up in knots.
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was i the only one who was so confused when she kept saying “twin” cuz i thought she was talking about like an actual sibling twin
Nope!
This was a great lesson on The Happiness Trail. You are such a precious teacher. Thank you Teal!
Thanks for this playlist!
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I notice with Teal's seminars, the "fill in the blank" style of answer intimidates a lot of people to think there is a "right" answer they need to know already instead of talking freely. I understand why she does it, but these people are not confident enough to be sincere in the first place. It comes off like they are trying to be accepted by her before leveled to listen or accept themselves. I like Teal, but the patience for the hivemind unwinding seems so draining.
manekimaki I was thinking the exact same thing.
I think Teal is helping to construct the self-questioning technique for self-reprogramming... So she's sticking to those tools, to give them experience points and upgrade via experimentation...
It's obviously flawed, as it is in a state of growth... it's nice to see her own ego objective coming out, showing structures of the code she is operating on...
Like a cult?
MakiUbermach everyone there is there for their own sake and reasons. It is a safe environment there. Safety is percieved by you and me, it can not be put upon anyone else. You are trying to protect people on the stage - no one went there to be protected and cradled and to never find any answers. Because some is doing that for everyone else....
Yes but that's everyone's problem hahaha why should you be intimidated by those questions
At around 55:00 when she’s telling the girl to go back to spiritually 101 Teal then goes on to explain 2.0 version of spirituality she teaches & a HUGE lightbulb went on for me. I feel a lot better about my mental state now realizing that after my true spiritual awakening after a lot of 101 level stuff over the decades. She said u go from the realization u create your reality & boy have I had a lot of fun with that (my life is so abundant now) but then u get flipped on ur ass with a plunge into your shadow work. I’ve been digging into shadow work for some time & I know I’m slaying it but, it was really nice to hear that what I’ve gone through is textbook awakening. Thank you Teal 🥰
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Thankyou ❤️💋💃! I even used to also connect with horses the same way and Namaste
Wow this one is pretty deep
omg i literally have been thinking that she meant her actual twin the whole time,,,,,
Lolls me too...x
Me too I was like, why did she say doing it with her twin? 😂😂
Yep, it's like the lady said everything she could to obscure the problem.
lmaooooo me too i was sooo confused.
In spiritual comunities twin flames became very popular concept. I was right away wondering wait is it actual twin or twin flame, and it was strange to me that Teal didn't ask her right away.
Good episode
If only we could all have a session with Teal!
Teal, you're keeping clients in their heads. I also see very little happening in the way of relationship between you and the client. You're psychoanalyzing, which creates no new neural pathways in the brain, no internal shift, no missing experience. I recognize how gifted/talented you are, which is why I, a somatic therapist, watch your videos. I learn a lot. But on the flip of that, I strongly recommend that you take Somatic Experiencing training or learn The Hakomi Method (also somatic depth work) and learn how to experientially show your clients what you keep trying to tell them--but you're making them (or at least the first client here) feel WORSE about themselves! Rewatch this video and imagine you are the first young lady. Can you imagine what she leaves with? You belittled her. Some of your behaviors towards her felt narcissistic to me (and I do believe empaths are capable of exhibiting that, by the way). It was painful for me to watch. Please be careful. It pains me to see when healers with positive intentions end up harming clients unintentionally. You have skills I do not have, and vice versa--and I see clearly here (and in a video you did with a client with chronic fatigue) how you are adding to their feelings of minimal self-worth by the way you work with them. By the way, the first lovely lady does NOT need spiritual 101 or spiritual ANYTHING. She needs someone to hear her, feel her, tell her it's OK to feel unhappy, BE WITH her in the unhappiness (while holding your vibration), go into the SHADOWS and meet her inner child there and tell her in a language that makes sense to the child what she needed to hear when she was little--maybe even say, "It's safe to feel happy and see what this elicits emotionally), then bring her out of the shadows to reintegrate into the whole self. You teach something so similar--why aren't you practicing it? Also, please stop telling clients what they need. Elicit it from them by going into the shadows and speaking to the inner child. And please don't keep asking them questions that puts them into their heads. I as an empath could feel them trying to give you the right answer. Could you? They put you on a pedestal. You HAVE to create a level field first before they'll give honest answers. You're not meeting them where they are. You're working hierarchically. I normally don't take the time to comment on RUclips videos or even critique other healers' work. Because I'm not perfect. But you have an enormous following. I admire your courage and ability to obtain such a wide audience. I DREAM of doing the same one day, and I watch you to be inspired. But jeez--these sessions? The people watching? There is harm occurring here, just like what happened when I used to hate myself for not being able to change my reality the way Wayne Dyer said I could when I struggled with suicidal ideation. I felt like a failure, and I think that first young lady on here left feeling the same after this session. I've read that you require potential healers you train to be able to hold space and not be affected by their clients' strong emotions. But I see you doing this to the extreme. A true healer has to be willing to get dirty, to sit in the muck with people because you know your way out and aren't afraid of the dark. I see you not wanting to get dirty. Honestly? I would not feel safe in a session with you AT ALL. It makes me sad to say that. I also believe you could be one of the most powerful healers out there if you stopped separating yourself from clients. BE WITH vs talking to.
I find this workshop confusing as well, even though i like teal swan. I think that the work from byron katie would have helped better the girl in white pants, because teal used a lot of metaphor which increased the overthinking state. I, myself was confused as well at the end of video. A feeling that nothing had been resolved, just talks.
yes, i absolutly agree with your words. i also consider myself an empath and i was cringing through the whole session...only hoping for it to come to some final aha- moment... but it was painful to watch. i felt so strongly for the first women, i would have felt ingnored, belittlet, spoken over...she never build rapport with the women on stage, both of them...
i watch teals videos since years, and i have to say i have learned so damn much through these videos, intellecutally and many concepts and exercices that are tremendously helpful to me, that even changes the way i see myself an the world. and I do think she is highly intelligent and eloquent. but i don´t see emapthy showing through at these sessions at all. to me she seems impatient for letting the clients finish to speak, she assumes she "knows" what´s going on in their lives after them only saying 3 words... deciding this womans brother is a narcissist...after ONE story from her with no background, no context...and i agree with you that it´s dangerous when she is doing that on a stage. people are not capable of critiquing others hyped humans, or anyone who is perceives higher in hierarchy ususally, this is a status of immense power especially workring woth individuals whi are so vulnerable and open.
i think teal has a lot to offer, but i don´t think it´s a good idea for her to work with vulnerable people if she can´t empathize with them. she basically told a woman that stated she was suicidal when she said "there is nothing else but suffering in life" "yes, i know". i mean... i´m not for sugarcoating, nor am i for taking away the option of suicide from people in an honest therapeutic conversation, it is their choice after all, but to not give her any silver lining or hope in that moment seems very dangerous to me.
and then after this horrible farce on stage trying to talk sense into someone who to me clearly was troubles immensly by cognitive dissonance and having a very hard time conceptualizing what teal said, she tells her she needs spirituality 101, that she is in kindergarten, whil teal teaches college here?!either teal is not being aware or not caring how that translates to ANYONE with self worth issues or even suicidal thoughts and trauma....i mean...this whole session does seem very narcisstic to me. unloving and impatient at least. and no, safe is definitly something very differerent for me.. i mean, i personally could go up on this stage, but i am so damn eloquent and able to dissociate very quickly, that i could talk about my trauma intellectually without being emotionally available. but this is not a standard. or an ideal healing setting AT ALL. :D
so i´ll continue to watch teals videos, but i strongly advice everyone to seek help with people that feel SAFE to you, that respect what you say, that let you finish your sentences, that "vibe with you", mirror your emotions, and built rapport, people that feel loving and safe.
yes, you can take intellectual insight from someone who you don´t agree with, but this does seem dangerous to me, that she hold that position of power and doesn´t exercise that with much compassion or love, and still the most liked comment on this video "How patient teal is"...
Body Talks Therapy, I would love to have a session with you. I couldn`t agree more with what you have said. Please let me know how to reach you!
I’m a licensed therapist and I completely disagree... she is trying to get them to see how their own thinking impacts the way they feel... basics of cognitive behavioral therapy .. and understating your own emotions. A therapist or spiritual leaders job isn’t to make you feel better about yourself .. it’s to help challenge and change your core beliefs to realize how your unhealthy thinking patterns are negatively affecting your emotions and life .. that’s like saying it’s mean for a physician or nutritionist to tell a 500 lb person that they are obese and need to look at their diet and write it all down and understand how their diet is harming them.. learning isn’t all sunshine and roses people.
@@evynnjohnson6946 sure, heavily traumatized people need to learn that it´s not all sunshine and roses. because obviously they didn´t experience that before. what an empathetic statement! :D they further need to do that in a session, on a stage with hundreds of ppl. watching while they are completly dissociated to a degree that they cannot follow the conversation. and they need to learn that by a celebrated public figure, they most certainly admire, who is doing both, providing a weird kind of therapy on stage AND entertaining an educational event format with underlying monetary interest at the same time. (no room for any ethical interest conflicts there, i assume?)
i´m all about honesty, brutal if necessary, but before brutal i´d try kind honesty, gentle honesty, blunt honesty. before i push people into their abyss i´d try to connect, built rapport, understand them. empathize. and i don´t ridicule them for being confused while i dive deep into their cognitive dissonances.
also, as you are a licensed therapist, i feel safe to assume you know accessing the frontal cortex, which is required to process any "conscious changes of your core beliefs", is not possible at all, when your fight or flight response is triggered? so, yes, being obvioulsy impatient when my client who already doens´t understand me cognitively, seems like the only competent thing to do here. :D go, therapy. go!
self protective saracasm off:
i´d like to tell anyone who is treated like this by a therapist, licensed or not:
RUN FOR THE HILLS and look for someone with empathy. ESPECIALLY if you are dealing with unresolved trauma and cannot access your own core beliefs or are unaware of your dysfunctional patterns at large. you NEED someone who is gentle, competent and trustworthy. then - yes, only then - they should challenge your beliefs and help you gain further understanding of your problems in a radical way.
but not via pushing you over the cliff without teaching you how to fly first!!!
so, evynn, if this is really your idea of good therapy, you unfortunatly further my bad opinion about therapists. with all due respect: oh boy am i grateful that i have achieved the confidence to never ever be impressed by a job title alone again. i´d rather go find someone who went through the same shit as i did and made it through the trauma and came out on the other side stronger. she knows her shit and has no fiancial gain in my suffering. sad reality in consumer capitalism. not to say there aren´t good therapist out there. but thea are rare. maybe my standards for my mental health are too high and i need to lower them to fit into therapy? :D
so we are both lucky, that i am not your client, or else we both would be very dissatisfied. ;)
i value teal´s work tremendously, i think she has an extraordinarily brilliant mind, i cherish her rhetoric and bluntness and her out of the box thinking. and i owe her a lot of my understanding of certain psychological or psychospiritual methods and concepts. i will continue to watch her content.
but i honestly would not recommend anyone who is psychologically unstable or even vulnerable to work with her one on one. and i say that as an unlicenced empath with a personal history of abuse and loooots of trauma work with quite a few therapist behind me.
one of them studied with watzlawick himself. she was licensed as hell. many years of experience. beautiful office, and imo her therapy was utter bullshit.
so, please people: do seek help if needed! but don´t trust someone just because the could afford the formal education. or because they stand on a stage. that doesn´t make them good therapists or councelors.
life experience, empathy, self reflection and own resolved trauma does.
I hope the first girl doesn't read these comments. God damn. Everyone handles trauma differently. She's suicidal and people are slating her. Wtf.
I really hope the woman needing help has been able to stabilize her mental space enough to create something positive. I feel the confusion around not knowing how to be happy, I was there for a long time. The transformation can only happen when the inner conditions are, at the very least, infused with the DEVOTION to the practice of mastering the direction of thoughts first. This step has to be established with devoted, patterned practice that is just as important as putting on makeup, eating a meal, getting dressed. Foundational. Only then, like Teal explained, one can start working with shadow challenges and deeper transformation. But first, she must create a sense of well-being from her own thought experiences. I can feel her heavy resistance to the idea that she needs to put her energy into HER. But if she can, she will begin to create an emotional grid to return and hold on to when the waves of negative patterns start to sweep her away. And if she can commit to devoting her attention to ONLY her well-being, and choosing people who are supportive of her well-being as well, then she can develop the conditions from which happiness arises. But if she allows people to continuously pull her into pain, it will elude her.
Emotions are temporary feel em , understand them, know their source and move to the next, and you can control your emotions too btw
The fact that this girl keeps saying "twin" is throwing me off. My first thought went to a twin sibling that she hadn't met until later in life. Every time I watch Teal's live seminars I am struck by the small mindedness and lack of maturity and development of the people who attend and are pulled on stage.
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It's not okay to be happy when I'm with someone.
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Where is the rest of it? I need the steps
Where can I connect with someone where it’s safe?
Lucid Dreams...
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I think i didn't properly do my spirituality 101 kindergarden positive focus things. Like i've noticed that i could bring stuff into my reality but it was never my thing.
I didn't like the whole "my world is perfect, let's come together, light scented candles and think positive" stuff so i just skipped it because it felt bullshit.
I went into the more hardcore stuff like shadow work or disidentification, kundalini work and advanced reiki stuff only to find out things about me which i didn't yet manage.
The baby in the womb talk really gave me some answers. Thanks.
"twin" *eyeroll*....part of the problem. That rediculous fallacy needs to end.
Tanya S. Yup!!! I'm not gonna . ever.
Totally it needs to end
I agree! The twin flame bs keeps so many people stuck in abusive or one sided relationships. I am glad teal told her that he isn’t her twin and is just a narcissist.
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This is goooooooooood!!! This should be Life 101!
Wow, this is brilliant. My childhood is black with a few fragments of memories. My mother was emotionally abusive/neglectful to me, in addition to being physically abusive to my brother. I have come to the conclusions most of my "issues" stem from toxic shame and trauma.
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This is how we have learned how the the body, soul and spirit function and not how it is inside of us for real...
We are not our thoughts we are our body, soul and spirit here and now...
Last night I saw videos of those who tried to destroy Teal, and I'm wondering did they ever realized how wrong that would be if they did. This woman is rare quality of this world. Whatever is rare, it's worth millions.
42:30
Suppressed, scared, lonely, guilty, wrong, hated, unsafe, fearful, abandoned, hard, suffocated, shamed, disconnected, isolated, ignored, overwhelmed, unearthed, not allowed, unwanted, a burden, living in a daily nightmare = mychildhood. I m scared of myself of my capabilities. Strange,
I also feel like I can’t function. And recently got connected to someone I knew slightly in the past and he’s my twin
@laila linuza exactly like u explaind. Et when I was at the bottom, There to be I was so affraid, I saw and feld that everything was ok. I was was Feeling good and finally I understud my purpose. And I saw the power I habe to chose my life,and I start to chose every singel thing in my life. Emotional,Friends, Time I spend doing things, I get more free with every singen designen I do in purpes. And Im happy
i knew so many afab people acting like horses in elemenatary and middle school, by the time high school came along
we were all secret horses
shout out to kay ur the best
Me and my childhood best friend!
This is so real💗💗💗💗💗 my I feel a sense of wholeness🙏🏽 but at the same time it's awkward cause being open and authentic ...this is all so new to most people in society and this shows in this room along within myself and I'm projecting a smidge.
- @56:20 ish I need 101a little bit more to master it thank you
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This was helpful. Thanks for the share. Girl in white pants was really hard to work with, Teal did a great job.
Mayee Monroy The way she handled the first girl was completely off- like don't be in a healing session and laugh in someone's face because of them not turning a mic on immediately and then tell them they are not evolved enough to hear that they are stuck in a dysfunctional relationship pattern. I always admired Teal's work but just lost respect for who she is as a person because of how she treats others. Being a healer should not get to one's ego to the point that you minimize and trivialize someone's being so much! Not to mention her white privilege is showing like crazy..outraged at how she treats this young lady as if she is DUMb
i agree with what you write...i watch teals videos since a very long time and think she is brilliant, intellectually in destilling down informations and conceptualizing it, but in this video...i am not seeing any emapthy for the women on stage at all. it was creepy and painful to watch. narcisstic it seemed to me, but well. who am i to decide.
i only will decide to never get on stage with her. :D
could you do me a favour and pinpoint where you saw her exercising white privilege? do you mean generally because she belittled the first women?
i am genuinly asking, i am white and am learning... so i´d be interested if there was something specific. the whol einteraction was just...cringy and painful to watch for me as an empath. if i would have been on that stage in that vulverable position i probably would have commited suicide afterwards. and this is not a cynical joke but my honest opinion.
Exactly how i feel. Gonna have to watch this everyday