Why is Bethany Beal off Instagram? | The Anxiety Inducing Impact of Social Media Reaction
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My win for the week is that last week I gave birth to my first baby and we have just been soaking up all the newborn bliss and it has been amazing! 🥰
Warmest congratulations to your beautiful family. 🫶🏻💛
Congratulations!! How sweet🥰💛
Omg CONGRATS🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
Aww congrats! It’s truly the best time! All the loves and warmth!
Congratulations!!!! Babies are the best! I'm about to be an empty nester. I miss babies! 💕🍼
Win for the week:
I accepted a new job and they are going to pay for me to get my doctorate 💜
Niiiice!!
Congrats!
That's pretty awesome ngl
That's amazing!! Congrats!
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I just dont understand why people "should" pay bethany and kristin instead of a therapist *sigh*
lol yesssss!!
@@scarlettredding. 💯 That's what I've been trying to say.
Why do Kristen's comments about/towards Bethany always seem so shady? 😭😂
The butt fixation had me in stitches lmao. But a lot of those fitness influencers have had surgery, are wearing buttpads or those thong leggings that emphasize the cheeks, are posing right after a glute workout (so they have a pump), and use lighting, angles etc to make themselves look better. Not to mention their entire job is working out/looking good. Normal people with jobs can't compete with that!
My win for the week is getting my pool pass. Now I can swim in my building's pool.
That’s awesome! I hope the pool helps keep you cool this summer 😎
This is a good one I have to agree. Our pool opened for the summer and we’ve been near every day☀️
I love how their message of “we consume uncritically and are shaped unconsciously by SoMe” isn’t solved by “consume critically and reflect” but instead “consume uncritically but the stuff we want you to”.
Also that the go-to example is being open to others being gay and living their life (the absolute horror 😒).
Win for the week: I finished crocheting a dress that I’ve been working on for two weeks and it looks so pretty!
Yay!! 💛 I love crocheted stuff and I bet your dress looks awesome 🎉
I never comment my win for a week because I tend to be a silent viewer but I have to share I just got married!!! He and I have been together since we were in 8th grade and we tied the knot after 7 years together this past week ❤
@@MagnoliaJane Congratulations! Talk about childhood sweethearts! I've never heard of being together since middle school! Glad you gave it time, not rushing into it right after HS graduation. Here's to a lifetime of happiness! 🍾
I think the pressure to be using every moment of your day to be doing something “meaningful” is dangerous thinking… I thought that way for a long time and put so much pressure on myself, and it led to me feeling perpetually guilty for not doing or being enough. It led to complete and utter burnout. Taking moments to rest and let your mind rest is so important (if that is on social media, do it and don’t feel guilty!).
Calling someone “lazy” when they might be in survival mode is just terrible.
I can't possibly agree more! It's ok to not always be "intentional" with your time. We don't need to always be productive. I also feel that the conversation can be a bit privileged, depending how it's approached, as it doesn't take into consideration anyone else's ability level, or unique life situation.
Win for the week: I’m so behind on all Internet related things, because I’ve been there a treatment program for 12 weeks in North Dakota, and while it’s been necessary work, watching your videos, and everyone else is on the subject is something I really enjoy doing, And I have missed one heck of a lot. That said, I just charge from this program this coming Wednesday, and today, since I’ve been in the partial hospitalization program for two weeks after transitioning out of inpatient, I had pizza with my husband today, for the first time in 6-7 years. That’s a BIG deal. My brain is screaming at me, telling me how much of a failure and shameful person I am, but I know that’s the ED talking and I keep doing the next right thing.
You’re doing amazing!! 💕
congratulations that's such a huge deal! best of luck to you on your recovery 😊
It’s such hard work and pizza is extra hard (I know it was for me)! Keep going,your body will be happier. The mental piece is hard, but you got this!! This internet stranger is proud of you!
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Well done! You sound like you've got recovery well in hand, and I'll say a prayer for you tonight -- you can do this!!!!
My win for the week is getting through really bad morning sickness and dizziness while trying to work. Pregnancy is rough sometimes.
Oof those symptoms are no fun! I’m glad you got through them💛
I find the first three to four were hellish! But after that my energy came back! I felt like I was a glowing love goddess!!😅 hope that happens for you too!
@heavenjb the first few weeks weren't that bad for me, but got a lot worse in week 9. I'm in week 10 now. Hopefully I feel better by the end of the first trimester. The fact that I can't eat enough due to nausea is making is worse I think.
@@allthestarsthatshine I'm also 10 weeks pregnant struggling to work and eat enough. It sucks. You're not alone! I hope we both get feeling better soon.
@@abbysc417 me too, but if that's what it takes for a healthy baby, I'm willing to go through it.
It’s a pretty big jump to equate being influenced to buy a stanley and being ‘influenced’ to support gay marriage 🙄
My win for the week is I FINALLY UNLOCKED VIKTOR'S WORKSHOP IN SLIME RANCHER! If anyone has played that game, you know how anxiety-inducing it is to actually grind unlocking the expansion. Tarr in the Far, Far Range is pretty easy to deal with but in the Slimeulation? There's too many, they're terrifying, I'm trying to find the exit whilst splashing tarr and collecting the last flew glitches because I need all these bug reports................... Well, after HOURS of all that gameplay and panic, I did it. I unlocked the Workshop. And now I have about a hundred Tangle/Phosphor slime free ranging it and I gave them party glasses
GD (Bethany) Always grifting. That was just one gigantic ad.
For real. They made a few good points but they plugged the membership like 3 times in a 30 min video. Kinda takes away from the conversation.
I was like 'Why would you be offering mentoring courses when you still have a mentor?' Is that normal??
@@NissaMaezHartmanI don't think there's anything wrong with having a mentor while teaching other mentors...therapists have their own therapists. That's not to say I support what they're doing, I think there's something *very* scammy and *very* grifty and *very* unsettling about these women and everything they do. But there will never be a day where someone knows everything and what to do in every situation, it's always a good idea to have guidance no matter what you do, even as a mentor or teacher.
My win for the week: we are moving across the country and just secured an awesome rental. Excited for our move!
Have a safe trip and I hope you'll love your new life!
My win for the week is that i recently moved back to my home town and was able to get together with my grandfather just in time for fathers day ❤
Win for the week is receiving a $100 tip today at work. In addition I’m looking forward to getting pedicures and facials with my daughter and granddaughter on Tuesday.
I really like Kristen's dress in this video. I'm sure she won't take that as a compliment if she knew me though since I'm just another gothic, tattooed, alternative witch hahaha! My win for the week: I'm starting to figure out more about my spirituality and where I belong. It feels so good figuring that out on my own without other people trying to tell me what to believe and how to be :)
Haha I agree, it’s cute!
And that is amazing 💛 how empowering to figure out your own beliefs on your own time!
Win for the week was deactivating Facebook (very topical for this video!) after fully recognizing how unhappy social media has made me. I downloaded all of my photos, and my volunteering that involved needing Facebook has moved over to someone else 😊
Oh, my stars! Fazolis! I grew up in the Dallas area. There was one in Waco (about 2 hours south), and when we traveled to visit my family in Austin, we *might* stop there. The BREADSTICKS were to die for!
The breadsticks are the main selling point there 😂 they’ve always been top tier!
WFTW: I was patient with my injured brain and gave myself several nights to sleep on a logistical problem. This morning I had a brainstorm, and I figured it out! Whew. I can still think, the process is just slow. 😅
Recent purchase influenced by social media: I bought a crochet pattern for an elaborate butterfly wall hanging. It was recommended by a RUclipsr I had just started following. Do I plan to hang this on my wall one day? No. Might I eventually use the butterfly portion for a tote bag or a top? Maybe. I'll forgive myself for buying it anyway!
I’m so glad you gave yourself time to process the problem and were able to figure it out! That’s such a win💛
Ooh a crocheted butterfly top would be SO cute.
@@BHaney I thought the butterfly motif would be great for a top for a kid in my life, if she ever concedes to wear anything I crochet for her! 😆
Something I noticed in this episode is that the two actually seemed to like each other for once
Work has been extremely busy and stressful and I decided to start meditating for 20 minutes every day to help release tension (it has helped me a lot in the past) and I actually did it every day this week 🤓
My win for the week is I got a haircut, and for the first time in my life I got it dyed too! Love my new look! Also, anytime I watch your videos, My 7mo daughter smiles at you, and it's soo cute!!
Where is that Fazoli's???? I'm not an Italian food fan in general, but those bread sticks are the best!! My win for the week is my PT is helping and I'm walking on my own again. Yay! 🎉
Mesa Riverview! The other one is at the airport lol. But yes, the breadsticks are EVERYTHING!
And that is amazing!! Congratulations on your progress 🎉💛
My WFTW is having my first ever psychiatry appointment! I chose a female nurse practitioner and I had a really good experience. I should have seen one as a child or at least a teen, but better at 28 than never!
Is this girl defined 'discovering' the concept of media literacy 😂 this is also another theme of a lack of self control it appears, and the only way they know how to counteract that is to restrict. Scrolling feels good and is fun, so we need to avoid it. They aren't able to or willing to reflect and think 'okay, why am I itching to pull out my phone in this moment and scroll? Am I hungry, anxious, lonely, or tired?' Which yes, that is the HALT method. I bet they also have a restriction on their favorite foods- especially desserts and rich foods that are 'bad'.
I also want to put out there: laziness is a word often used to make you feel guilty for resting. To make us feel bad for not absolutely milking every second of our waking hours so we are always productive. Idk about you, I'm not here on earth to constantly be productive. I don't believe in an afterlife, so I am going to make the most of this one, instead of evaluating every action or activity with 'does this serve me?' (when the idea of 'serving' meaning being productive or making one more 'godly'). I'm not gonna feel guilty about bopping around and doing fun stuff, or having some brain off time on IG!
Aw I used to go to fazoli’s regularly when I was little. It’s definitely a midwestern staple, I live in the Chicago area. I’m glad you got to go there! I wish there was still a schlotzsky’s deli around here though. That’s my nostalgia restaurant
Same, my family used to go there on Sundays after church so definitely nostalgic!
And schlotzsky’s is so good too! I don’t go very often but we have quite a few in Phoenix.
My last impulse purchase was fabric. I was influenced to make a big cape. The one I saw on Instagram was gorgeous, and I wanted to be the type of person who would wear a dramatic cape. By the time the fabric arrived, I had a more practical plan. I made a skirt instead and wear it regularly. It's cute and moderately dramatic.
I listen to audiobooks constantly. I love having something to keep me company while I wash dishes or work in the yard. Dont feel like it has to be edifying! A lot of books are just for fun!
I get access to both Libby and Hoopla with my library card, so if that's something you want to look into check with your local library.
I love Libby but I’ve never heard of Hoopla! I’ll have to check that out.
my win: pushed myself to go to a potentially uncomfortable social event, and it turned out to be incredible! i have social phobia, but i’ve been making a lot of progress with my coping strategies. i was able to relax and connect with my friends at a deeper level, and it feels awesome!!
Wow! I am so glad you ended up going to that event and having a great time! 🙌🏻
Win for the week catching up with some old friends!
43:49 since leaving evangelical spaces and seeing more clearly how they are high control, the idea of accountability is such a huge part of it. Instead of learning to listen to your body and experiment with how much and what kind of social media is good for you, get an accountability partner. You can’t trust yourself because your heart is wicked at its core 🤢
My win for the week was listening to my formerly non-verbal 7-yr-old grandson with autism tell me everything he knows about his current fascination, marine animals! Thank you, Lord!
Hi from Nashville! Tuning in 9mins after posting 🎉
Hello!! 🎉💛
My win for the week is my new Nephew was born yesterday 😊😊
My win for the week is actually kinda something sad that turned out to be a blessing. My partner and I broke up, but I met someone closer to me who is more in the same stage of life as me and we have a date coming up soon. And I'm really excited! And though I did tell the story kind of fast, I did take some time for myself to get over being basically ghosted by my ex boyfriend.
I have an imaginary swear jar in my home that we all have to put imaginary money into whenever we call ourselves lazy. It's a very ugly word, and it's almost never true. It's okay to rest! It's okay to remember that we have value even when we're merely existing. It's okay and natural to want things to be easier. Thanks for pushing back on that point, B.
GIRL...we have a fazolis an hour away from us and it's became a tradition to pick it up on our way home from vacations ....their bake spaghetti is THE BEST!
Oh I’d be looking forward to that stop on the way home for the entire vacation 😂
I try not to buy a ton of stuff online, but I am a sucker for games. I'll see a new switch game and they'll get me to buy. Especially if it's indie. Influencers can get me to buy board games too but only if I see it in the store.
For those who don't know, Kristen is finally pregnant after struggling with infertility for 12+ years, adopting two boys from Ukraine (I still don't like that she and Zack change their names and aren't allowed to speak in their native language) they're expecting a girl in June but don't get me wrong I'm not minimizing those who struggle with infertility, it must be hard for her when she was raised in an environment where motherhood is in a pedestal due to their religion, and she also said that she's prone to discontentment and disappointment and thought that adoption was going to change her when that wasn't the case at all, and she said that she wasn't feeling attracted to her husband on their wedding day. I'm not gonna lie, still feel bad for the boys, and I'm worried that they're going to be pushed aside or worst rehome them because Kristen and her husband are going to fully give all of their attention to their "Golden girl".
Sorry Kristen is pregnant? Mixed feelings as i find her extremely harmful but of course i wish her the best and her baby to be healthy.
She is! Yeah I disagree with a lot of her beliefs but I am hoping the rest of her pregnancy is safe and smooth.
Did Kristen almost say the B word when she was talking about bag she bought? I swear it sounded like she was going to say bitch, and at the last second remembered to say baby instead. Maybe I’m crazy.
I heard that too!
their video was a masterful example of evangelical advertising. surface-level “insights” loaded with shaming, then offer their newest grift offering righteousness and acceptance.
I get no butts in my social media! What am I doing wrong!! Haha!
I originally heard about Mooncat nail lacquer from my coworkers, but since I ordered some, now I get lots of nail polish on my social media and they all look so pretty I definitely want to order more. I've been doing my nails for a couple of months now after not doing them for years and it makes me very happy!
Me either, we must be missing something 😂
I’ve heard of that brand too! I’ve been so tempted to try it. I’m glad doing your nails is making you happy, that’s awesome!
@BHaney Next time you're in a "treat yourself" mood, try it! The colors are gorgeous and it's definitely higher quality than the drugstore polish I've used in the past. Highly recommend!
OMG your wing for the week made me giggle. It was God blessing you during pregnancy. 😂 I always love to know what, if anything, people crave during pregnancy
He really did bless me with that 🙌🏻😂 I feel like my food choices have been so boring during pregnancy, I haven’t had any odd cravings at all but I have had a lot of Mexican food, cookies, and fruit.
My win for the week is that I just got concert tickets for one of my favorite singers!!!
I was influenced to buy the book Evocation by S.T. Gibson. I was just going to borrow it through the Libby app, but it's such a beautiful book!
my win for the week is my cousin, aunt and grandma arriving and being able to celebrate my grandmas 80th birthday tomorrow (they live in a different country, so we don't get together very often) ^-^
That is so amazing!! I hope you all have the greatest time celebrating 🙌🏻🎉
@@BHaney thank you :)!!
Omgggg Fazoli's!! There is exactly one within a hundred miles of me and my husband brought it to my office for lunch the other day. I'm joining this win with you!
I don't know how to feel about their new content. It's kind of strange to hear them talking about something other than modesty and traditional gender roles. And moving to something that's actually relevant and relatable to most people. It's kind of refreshing? But like I don't know it could still have like a twinge of fundamentalism. I'm being very skeptical about this.
We have a Fazoli’s about a mile from my home.. it’s my kids’ favorite place to go, but I had no idea it was a desired destination outside of where I live lol. Glad you got your breadsticks! They’re sooooo good😂🫶🏼
If Bethany finds it hard to read the Bible, she can always listen to it instead. YouVersion has plenty to choose from.
(Oh! Kristen said that 😅)
Sorry for all the comments; I'm typing as I want to respond to things lol.
Last thing I was influenced to buy was Blueland stuff. Not bad but there were definitely better options out there for sustainable cleaning products 😂
I just googled Blueland and the packaging is so aesthetically pleasing so I get being influenced lol.
I have no idea how these two ever had fans together. Their chemistry is just not there.
Yep my hubby n I are on a 3 month no buy
That’s really cool! How is it going so far?
My WFTW: Getting through my HIDA scan with minimal pain. I was so worried because it was horrendous the first time I had one done. I still might need my gallbladder removed, but that’s neither here nor there.
So glad you made it through your scan 💛 I hope the results are good and give you and your doc answers!
Haven’t bought them yet but I keep seeing the new platform crocs that look like “jellies” from the 90s popping up on my fb. Really tempted to get them.
Hmm they had an interesting talk until she threw getting their membership, up into the mix! 🤭 after leaving abuse and dealing with health issues I got rid of most social media except for RUclips. Most of the things I’m consuming now, are content where I feel like I’m learning something. Even if it’s slow living vlogs or travel. I put my phone in another room at bedtime. I’m very happy with how I consume my social media now. I’m still working on “finding me” again but I know I’m heading the right direction! My win for the week: really focusing on good sleep habits! I was sleep walking for the first time in my life as a grown woman! So I’m very thoughtful now about sleep! My win is that finally this week I’m sleeping well! And this helps me during the day! 💕
I haven't watched the video yet but I'm fr fr thinking about deleting IG :/ too exhausting and draining and soulless...
Sounds like deleting it for awhile might be good especially if it’s not giving you any value.
Please do an episode on Matt and Abby. Everything I know about them was against my will. They blew up my feed a month ago, it's like watching a train wreck, and I can't stop. 🤣
I want to know more! Everything I've seen of theirs is just innocuous and boring
Ice cube tray for my Stanley lol worth every penny
I’ve had my eye on that tray for like 2 months now 😂
I was influenced to buy a vegetable dicer. Absolutely love it. It's the only way I chop onions anymore and it comes in handy for things like chopped salad
I love that!
Ooo my social media influence purchase: A veggie chopper that this nutritionist was promoting as an easy way to make salads. I had just been in an accident and struggling to cook for myself, so I bought it. I used it maybe twice before realizing that cleaning it would be tedious. I let it sit untouched for weeks and then tossed it when I saw it was growing mold 😂
Oh my gosh I have one of those too…I haven’t used it that much for the exact same reason lol. I’m trying to plan out meals so I can chop up a bunch of veggies at once and then not have to clean it as many times 😭
I miss fazoli's! That is amazing!
My win is that my 5 year old spent 4 full days at camp and had a great time!
Aw yay!! I’m glad they enjoyed camp!
the thumbnail genuinely made me think you were interviewing them
I was convinced to buy the Premama pregnancy and post-partum energy drink (caffeine free!!) in about 30 seconds last night because desperate times.
Oh yeah, anything for some energy is worth a try!
Fazoli’s! I so remember that- haven’t had in years since moving! Those breadsticks 🥖 🤤
The breadsticks are too good 😂
I dont think they get what real life is like.
They also talk so negatively about women. The internalised misogyny is strong!
I didn't know you lived in Illinois! I'm in Rock Island 🥰
I live in Arizona but I’m from Illinois 💛
WFTW: I offered to swap shifts so another co-worker could go see their favorite bands this weekend.
Are these two capable of recording a video together that DOESN’T sound like a crappy infomercial?! Has anyone told them how FAKE and annoying they sound?! Maybe they should examine that before they pass judgement on other social media channels!
Caveat: Yes, I bought a “Peanuts” coffee mug with Snoopy grabbing Linus’ blanket, which is actually the handle of the mug. I’m a huge Charles Schulz fan, and it was a must-have for my collection.
They sound so clueless in their “banter”. Holy Nails on Chalkboards, Batman!! I could not be in the same room as these two for more than a few minutes! I’d flee like a cat escaping a dog kennel!
Home Shopping Network of all places, kept showing me this necklace on all the social medias. It's sterling silver with an ametrine stone. Not huge, but not tiny. Marked down to $50. After a MONTH of seeing this thing, I bought it. I've been wearing it nonstop since it came. Super comfortable, I don't even feel it. I feel like I did good! By me at least! LOL
That sounds so pretty!! If you want something for a month AND it’s on sale, I think it’s fate.
I have a fazolis 5 mins from my house. I am truly blessed.
I’m officially jealous 😩
Honestly I had never had fast food italian till i discovered Fazoli's when i moved to Colorado. I'm from the east coast. Fazoli's is ight but it feels sacriligious 😂
My Win For The Week:
Enjoying Quiet Time in a household of 8 people
Am I the only one who finds Kristen and Beth together annoying?
Glad you got some quiet time, that’s super important!!
For those who didn't know, Kristen is finally pregnant after struggling with 12+ years of infertility and adopting two boys from Ukraine, and they're expecting a girl due in June. To be honest, I still feel bad for the boys who were stripped of their culture, and I'm worried that she might push them aside or worst rehome them because Kristen finally got to have a biological child and she and her husband will pour all of their attention on the "Golden Girl".
You’re so sweet because if this was me I’d be yelling about how boring this is. YOU are interesting and fun, Bethany and Kristin are not
Lol I'm influenced to buy silly things like my favorite lawtube streamer will say she's eating donuts with her coffee and I'll think ooh donuts sound good for brekkie. Nothing big ever.
Does anyone think Bethany's voice sounds different?
Wow the butt convo is really lengthy
The whole video is just to plug their paid for content. Typical Christian influencer
You need more commentary in this video. You had huge parts of the original video playing way too long without you saying anything!
I’m sitting here 12:56 in, wondering how much of this has to do with their mother. 🫠
Edit: 17:44 timeout- is that a subtle shot at their one sister that was in the Ukraine?