My Lifelong Battle Escaping my Abuser
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- Опубликовано: 24 сен 2023
- Trigger Warning: This episode deals with abuse, suicide and other very heavy topics.
Pinny Taub's life changed drastically when his mother passed away. Unfortunately, someone very prominent in his life took advantage of him. For years, Pinny couldn't escape the abuse. This went on for years. With Hashem's help, Pinny has broken free and is a giant advocate for education for our children in our community.
Pinny, through a lot of pain and searching, finally found himself and his place and is making a giant impact on the Jewish community and world today.
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Email → breakthestigmaofabuse@gmail.com
Phone → 718-207-2183
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When i was young boy 11-12 years old, my mother sent me to a lubavitch sleep away camp for the entire summer. I did not have a father and my mom had no choice but to send me there for the entire summer so she can work freely and save money to support our household. When i got there, i started to get abused physically and emotionally day in and day out by the rabbi there. He use to make me and my friends there feel severe pain by beating us with hockey sticks but with our clothes on so we wouldn’t have any bruises. He use to make our lives a living hell. Take our snacks away, make us stand in the 100 degree sun with our hands up holding a baseball bat for hours, if we ever dropped the bat, we use to start all over. The mental abuse he did to me i still feel to date. Smacking me, twisting my arms, if I wouldn’t listen or take 2 cookies from lunch room instead of 1. When I complained to my mom, he always denied and beat me after she would leave, pull my hair, make me hold my eye lids open for few minutes until i dropped to the floor crying. I will never forget his face, but i wish I remembered his name to pay him a visit.
Pinny was my Counselor in camp 1995 (he actually got engaged that summer if I remember correctly) he was the most Warm, devoted , fun, nice, amazing , best counselor i will never forget that summer he was the best counselor in camp everybody wanted to be in his bunk I would never ever ever dream that he was going through such trauma at the time you hid it amazingly NEVER GIVE UP
Very powerful account! Thank you! We need more people to come forward and share their stories! It helps more victims realize they are not alone and they are not crazy.
I am a survivor of Sexual abuse and this made me cry, I was a killed person for so so many years all day every day I just couldn’t bear to be alive through such pain, and I didn’t know why I was this messed up and this just made me validate myself and realize that It makes sense that it destroyed me the way it did. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for having the courage and strength to be the voice of all the survivors that are in the depths of the darkness and give us strength, hope and understanding and comfort.
I’ve been in family courts in uk, it’s horrific they are giving children to abusers, the hardest part is the how unbelievable it is. Please pray for children’s safety…
Wow, unbelievable how much pain someone can carry in silence. At the same time, a smile is always painted on pinnys face. This episode will probably have the most views
Never give up, Pinny. Thank you for sharing your powerful story. May you continue in your healing and helping our community
One thing I'm unclear about is when the abuse actually stopped. Did it stop when you went to Israel for yeshivah? Did it stop at a certain age when you were physically stronger than the abuser? That part was missed...
Pinny, I do not know how to give up. There is always a way to do something, a new tactic. Shalom from Jerusalem.
Hashem didn't let you go off His Holiness. Sorry for your long suffering however your G-dly victory, and staying righteous all along, is a testimony of true success. I am sure your wife, children and descendants will always honor you with high regards.
Pinny, keep going strong
Thank you so much Pinny for surviving and having the bravery to try to make a difference. I was also abused and I can relate so much to the pain you described. When I went through my suicidal phase, I was so miserable and just did not want to live, I didn’t even tie the events and the emotions together. I didn’t make the connection and didn’t know why I felt the way I did. I was blessed with a baby boy and all of that disappeared. I realized the trauma many years later and went through the emotions again, this time I clung closer to Hashem and it was like He opened my eyes and ears. Baruch Hashem for that and for you! You are bringing people healing!
Pinny, never give up. ❤️💪🏻🙏🏼
Pinny went strong 💪 and the results are his son is my life saver
Thank you for speaking about this!!!!!!
Wow! Pinny thank you for sharing your story and being so open about such an incredibly painful journey. Truly moving and inspirational and so important to hear. Thank you.
I love this ❤️ Thank you so much!
@pinny never give up. Your bravery in doing this podcast helps more people than you will ever know.
Never give up! Thank you for sharing your story and for your strength and bravery! Such an inspiration
NEVER GIVE UP PINNY. A true inspiration!