10 Dumb Mistakes Smart Couples Make (with Rabbi Bentzion Shafier) | THAT'S AN ISSUE podcast

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @devorahfriedlander9139
    @devorahfriedlander9139 Год назад +10

    This video should be mandatory viewing in chossen and Kallah classes!! Thanks so much for sharing ❤

  • @ronredner6240
    @ronredner6240 Год назад +8

    This is an excellent interview. Rabbi Shafier has addressed very key points and literally has hit the nail on the head regarding the gross misunderstanding of how relationships actually work. Not in theory, but in practice. This is really worthwhile to watch if you want to improve your relationship with your spouse.

  • @buffysummers2929
    @buffysummers2929 Год назад +5

    The rabbi is awesome.
    Please have him back.
    Great episode.

  • @elimak5402
    @elimak5402 Год назад +6

    1:02:10 The Rabbi’s advice summarized. Great stuff

  • @susie5254
    @susie5254 Год назад +5

    "That's strange." (20:05) I'm definitely going to work on thinking that way instead of getting triggered and/or taking things personally. Thank you.

  • @neverscare428
    @neverscare428 Год назад +6

    I read the book THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES by Gary Chapman to determine what my wife’s primary love language is, then I started implementing her primary love language and the outcome was amazing. I was filling up her love tank and I always recommend this book.❤❤

    • @mariaanajsayno
      @mariaanajsayno 5 месяцев назад

      Im reading The Five Love Languages

  • @ac7160
    @ac7160 Год назад +6

    The rabbi is awesome!!
    Wonderful episode. Thank you!!

  • @Konarali
    @Konarali Год назад +6

    Many thanks for this informative and transformative discussion!

  • @MsMuradova
    @MsMuradova Год назад +6

    Wow, I learned so much! Thank you for this interview!

  • @kenjerry
    @kenjerry Год назад +4

    @23:30 - it says in Shulchan Aruch that before yuntif, you have to buy the kids presents and the wives jewelry. In Kesubos, it lays out the responsibilities of the husband in onah.

  • @jonathanpraff9781
    @jonathanpraff9781 Год назад +14

    The rabbi is awesome

  • @ברכהקרצו
    @ברכהקרצו Год назад +2

    תודה רבה על השיעור כבוד הרב!

  • @arturovillalobos336
    @arturovillalobos336 Год назад +1

    Wonderful guest... I'm getting his book today. Thanks and best regards from Mexico City.

  • @LL-mj5ij
    @LL-mj5ij Год назад +3

    The rabbi is awesome and so are you

  • @מנאלופנטה
    @מנאלופנטה Год назад +2

    The rabbi is awesome ❤

  • @tbogle22
    @tbogle22 Год назад +3

    The rabbi is awesome!

  • @susantolle7599
    @susantolle7599 Год назад +1

    The rabbi is awesome and impressed.

  • @vittoriomaximum6548
    @vittoriomaximum6548 4 месяца назад

    The Rabbi is Awesome!

  • @yishaimendelsohn620
    @yishaimendelsohn620 Год назад +1

    Agreed. Spectacular. Thank you all.

  • @Unclesol
    @Unclesol Год назад

    Thank you Rabbi Shafer.
    Gold.

  • @saulm895
    @saulm895 Год назад

    Amazing to hear. Thank you

  • @VioletACordy
    @VioletACordy Год назад +1

    ❤😊WE LOVE YOUR VIDEOS 💜💜Rabbi Bentzion Shafier Is BRILLIANT and we all need his TALMUDIC WISDOM🌈💥💥💥THANK YOU🌷🌷Shalom to you and your beloved Family🌺🌺Violet (Toronto ~ Australia)🌳🌲🎄🦚🌳🌳🌳

  • @kyleliasntini7421
    @kyleliasntini7421 Год назад +1

    My God my God ,praise God.😢😢😢

  • @chanaglanstein4689
    @chanaglanstein4689 Год назад +1

    "that's strange" is one way. "yes dear!" also does it.

  • @farroyossi
    @farroyossi Год назад +6

    Cool fact that a lot of people don't know that the Lubavitcher would have tea with his wife every night!!!
    It usually was sometime around 4am

  • @bentaplin7466
    @bentaplin7466 Год назад

    Great episode!!!

  • @Agapy8888
    @Agapy8888 Год назад +1

    The first item that should be addressed is to keep men intact to make the connection.

  • @לאהכהן-ג2כ
    @לאהכהן-ג2כ Год назад

    The Rabbi is awsome
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  • @b100dr4g3
    @b100dr4g3 Год назад +5

    “Hollywood got it 100% right by backwards” 12:20

  • @FEAdeES
    @FEAdeES 11 месяцев назад

    Commitment, love, and learning to love together.
    Hollywood has it backwards; meaning, love is the glue once the marriage is established based on divine determination of said message.
    “That’s strange…” a good observation to open dialogue to understand the partners reaction/interaction (non-judgmental but just an observation)

  • @swoooooooooop
    @swoooooooooop Год назад +1

    Does there not exist some objective measure of proper / improper behavior such as consideration? It seems that there is a great emphasis on acquiescence based on the gender difference escape clause.

    • @ernazelic5521
      @ernazelic5521 Год назад

      Excellent question which should have been addresses!

    • @hymnodyhands
      @hymnodyhands 3 месяца назад

      He is a rabbi, so there is a whole body of tradition he is working from that has high standards that would address that... however, it is wisdom to understand that if one wants to live happily with a woman, kindness and praise for what is done well needs to be the default, with gentleness the default in conflict. The rabbi knows the Proverbs and Song of Solomon, certainly... so that also would be covered.

  • @DevorahKlein7
    @DevorahKlein7 Год назад +2

    So what can people do before marriage to prepare?

    • @romankocherzhuk5733
      @romankocherzhuk5733 Год назад +1

      In my opinion is working on thinking that the opinion with which you disagree can be also rational and it can be valid

  • @sarahkogan5355
    @sarahkogan5355 Год назад

    Awesome

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    @sshhlisten 2 месяца назад

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    @sshhlisten 2 месяца назад

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  • @benzionlang
    @benzionlang Год назад +1

    Thats guts to say that yeshivas and bais yaakovs educate the wrong way

  • @mosheschweitzman4522
    @mosheschweitzman4522 Год назад +1

    The rabbi is the robbery is awesome

  • @sshhlisten
    @sshhlisten 2 месяца назад

    🎶

  • @salomenunes573
    @salomenunes573 Месяц назад

    🎯🙏😘

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    @amazjunelee Год назад

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    @sshhlisten 2 месяца назад +1

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