How much is the coaching, why do I have to go through everyone's stupid funnel to find a price? I've already invested 10,000s of dollars into coaching why will this one be different?
Hey Clark, great video once again :) Have you heard of the book boundary boss? It is a great book, I think if you could do one of your top 10 ideas many people would appreciate it.
This reminds me of that quote by Jim Carrey about how he wishes everyone could have money and everything they desire so then they could see its not the answer. Love it.
So true, so true. My favourite point is about allowing yourself to shift and dare to become your own dream. Thank you, Clark. Love your work and vibe 🙌
Another confirmation Clark! 4 yrs ago, I called the realtor, listed the house, packed up & left 3 weeks later to hit the road...2 weeks later, found the right house in the right place & started a whole new life. Looking back at pictures of the old me & the new me...I look 15 yrs younger, love my new life and life has mostly been good to me inspite of all the trauma I went thru the year before! GOYA and do it!
Love this video. It reminds me of a saying I just heard. "If you want something different for yourself you need to start thinking differently. Old keys don't unlock new doors."
The part about looking back at old pictures and thinking, 'wow, I'm not that person anymore' is so true! I've lost around 25 pounds and kept it off for years now without struggle 🙌🏼 Also, your bookshelf is very impressive Clark 📚
@@1updad WOW, that's incredible! 🤩🤩 Its such a liberating feeling knowing that you'll no longer go back to that because that's the old you, and the new you has healed from past trauma and false beliefs 🤗🙌🏼 Sending positive vibes ✨
I work from home and my lease ended 3/31. My work gave me the authorization to move outside of Indiana. That's all I needed, the green light to follow my dream to live near the Ocean. I signed the new lease 3/29 in Florida.
It's so funny that you mentioned the person who has lost weight, because I basically said everything you did! I had bariatric surgery over 3 years ago & have lost 170 pounds. And I do look at my previous photos & say, "Wow.... I'm not that person anymore in anyway," because the mind shifts as well as the body. I had also made the quick decision. I had some very painful complications after the surgery & I said to myself, "This was crazy; but I chose to have this done to myself. So if I'm gonna be in this much pain today, I better make it worth it tomorrow & stick with it." And I have not gained the weight back, despite being told I probably would. And I agree wholeheartedly to let go of your past. You need to drop that chain or you can't move forward. The weight of the past can just be too damn heavy.
Great video Clark! Agree with you...if you think too much you will be stuck in your thought loop. Just because we are conditioned to see a specific type of beauty as beautiful, doesn't mean that only that specific type is beautiful. If you genuinely see yourself as beautiful from the inside out, others will look at you in the same way, because the world reflects your perception back to you. Peace, love and joy to everyone reading my comment❤️❤️❤️
Great informative and insightful video Clark, so glad I came upon your channel. You touched on some major points of emphasis here 1. Identity Shift 2. Making Decisions and Adapting As You Go 3. Get Over Analysis Paralysis. 4. Give Yourself Permission 5. What is the next version of you you want and what gaps do you fill to get there
That's a great book and Maxwell Maltz was a great researcher. These ideas are actually present in Yogic culture, where identity (Ahankara) is one of the four dimensions of the mind. Whatever you identify with is what directs the intellect (Buddhi) to work towards its survival. The intellect is merely a survival tool and is a slave to the identity you've taken. Sadhguru talks a lot about this.
The high school reunion analogy makes perfect sense! I moved across the country a couple of years ago because I knew that I couldn't redefine myself where I had lived all of my life. People will (unintentionally) DRAG you back to who they defined you as from knowing you for decades. It's like the movie "Best Friends" with Ryan Reynolds. Lol!
This is so helpful because I feel like I have been conditioned to ask for permission on several things but now I say instead of “can I do this, may I do that … etc” I say “I am doing this, I will do that” and in doing so I always get what I want 🧜🏻♂️🌊🐬
I have a problem with quiting weed. I have a good job and weed doesn't interfere that much in my life, and worst of all, it's legal now (canada). I really want to quit smoking it. Thank you I will follow your advice.
You can do it if u really want to. It’ll happen if you really want to. I couldn’t even eat or go on with a regular day without weed. I haven’t smoked weed in almost 2 years. I quit before that but started back bc I was hanging with people in no longer hang with. I wanted to quit and it weighed heavy to the pin t I just…. Quit. Don’t miss but I’ve thought about it. Tell yourself aloud that u want to quit. Tell God. Keep it in mind even as u smoke. You’ll find yourself without. You can start small by smoking half now half later. Puff one time and put it out. Put water in place of the thought. Either way if u really want to it’ll happen.
Something I learned in my own journey (including quitting weed) was to figure out the main PROS & CONS of quitting vs smoking. If you figure out that list of reasons, and maybe even keep it as a reminder for yourself to stick to your goal/values, you might find it easier to remember WHY you’re quitting and why that’s important to you. Good luck :)
You gotta watch out for people dragging you down, period. Past, present, future people who feel insecure will often subconsciously and consciously work to hold you back. Misery loves company, so be keen to surround yourself with positive people who want the best for themselves and those at round them.
Hey love!!! So happy to see you have 700,000 subs!! You definitely deserve them and more!! Thank you for all of your videos! They have helped me a lot!
My problem with making decisions is im a people pleaser and my children who are adults always get mad if I say I'm not watching their children so I give up all my plans to make them happy....I dont know how to say no to them without the anger they display...I watch 4 of my grandchildren 5 days a week from 11am till 5 pm im 50 years old and im tired ...I haven't made a decent meal for my husband in almost a year....
Kelly, you said it first what you need to do. Now you need to make that decision. You think they won’t love you anymore. You need to let go and just do it. Resentment will start to set in because it is the right thing to do. You need to make decisions for your life not the other way around.
Identity shifting can be very uncomfortable and emotional. DON"T GIVE UP! Once you get good at this you can do it more and more and improve at an exponential rate.
I made the shift and moved across country away from crappy Seattle this summer. Most stressful and expensive experience of my life. It cost $10K for movers. Too damn expensive to move these days.
When you realize 1. you have too much stuff and 2. It's cheaper to buy new stuff than to move it ! I've moved 5 times in the last 6 1/2 years. My costs were never over $1,200.
Young man, the product you are selling, will change and develop to something better tomorrow. You can think hard to do it now, but all will happen at the precise time.
I moved countries by myself 3 times. I just decided and did it. I didn't overthink. Never had a problem with finding good jobs and living. I now live in Hawaii. 🤙🌺Legally. I manifested winning GC lottery 🥇
This is so true I use to smoke and try to quick for many years until I stop seeing my self as a smoker that is when I was able to quick for good because I no longer see myself as someone that smokes.
My favorite video if yours so far bro!! Your spot on with decision making.. best decisions usually that I have ever made was when I didn't take too much time to overthink them every decision I overthink I'm still waiting to decide lol smh wow alot hidden gems here
I was thinking about you last night, and was wondering if you were okay. Hadnt seen you post in almost a week. But this was a really great video. I truly do love your videos, and advice.
I wish I could join your program!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I deeply enjoy hearing your voice and watching your videos! One of the 1st videos I watched from you was on music notes and chakras!!!!! I was hooked from there! You continuously impress me! 💋 Arizona is beautiful btw!
I would say there are lots of barriers for some people that want to move from their current home with a mortgage to a different home like I have been trying to do since my husband died in the current one in 2014. I have been making steps to get there like clean up debt and work on my mind set
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Made up my mind to do just that, even changing my name; my daughter just heard someone say, “This is my mother, (name) !” The name was the same one I had chosen. It is not a common name at all and I don’t think that any woman would have chosen that name. In comes your video regarding changing identities. Sign ???? I’d say. Thank you 🙏🏻
Moving as a young, single adult is A LOT easier than moving later in life with a family. One can do it, but there’s a lot more that will have an impact on life.
Well if you had a family and decided to make the decision instantly, the decision you will make will be to not move, because you have a family. He's saying don't ponder too much, you already know the decision you are gonna make.
re: making decisions quickly. I do that. People say that I am too impulsive and should be on ADHD meds for it. I think a lot of the time there is no wrong answer - as long as I'm picking something that I find to be ethical and feasible, no problem. If I'm picking something from a menu at a restaurant, I might ask a couple of questions: What do you have that's non dairy? Is there a fresh fish option? By then it's narrowed down to one or two options anyway. Most of my decisions are made instantly because something is either consistent with who I am (or believe myself to be) or it isn't.
Greetings my deary Freind Heartiest thanks for sharing this beautiful message I'm so grateful for everything Much love and light Many Blessings Amen 🙏❤
Holy Cow I just realized I think Ive meet you long ago in Seattle area.... I grew up there.... Hey thats cool!! Keep up the Great work!!!! love your content!
I had changed so much I cringe when I watch old version old video of me from three years ago...I felt like I had been slipping back though after my daughter turned one ..
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How much is the coaching, why do I have to go through everyone's stupid funnel to find a price? I've already invested 10,000s of dollars into coaching why will this one be different?
great video btw
Thank you Clark. I think this is really helpful
Hey Clark, great video once again :)
Have you heard of the book boundary boss?
It is a great book, I think if you could do one of your top 10 ideas many people would appreciate it.
Hey what college did you go to? You give off Western/Woke UW vibes
This reminds me of that quote by Jim Carrey about how he wishes everyone could have money and everything they desire so then they could see its not the answer. Love it.
So true, so true. My favourite point is about allowing yourself to shift and dare to become your own dream. Thank you, Clark. Love your work and vibe 🙌
I love you and I Trust you🙌🙏😊😂😉
Another confirmation Clark! 4 yrs ago, I called the realtor, listed the house, packed up & left 3 weeks later to hit the road...2 weeks later, found the right house in the right place & started a whole new life. Looking back at pictures of the old me & the new me...I look 15 yrs younger, love my new life and life has mostly been good to me inspite of all the trauma I went thru the year before! GOYA and do it!
Love this video. It reminds me of a saying I just heard. "If you want something different for yourself you need to start thinking differently. Old keys don't unlock new doors."
The part about looking back at old pictures and thinking, 'wow, I'm not that person anymore' is so true! I've lost around 25 pounds and kept it off for years now without struggle 🙌🏼 Also, your bookshelf is very impressive Clark 📚
100 lb lost here brother... I know exactly what u mean
@@1updad WOW, that's incredible! 🤩🤩 Its such a liberating feeling knowing that you'll no longer go back to that because that's the old you, and the new you has healed from past trauma and false beliefs 🤗🙌🏼 Sending positive vibes ✨
Life is easy for those with money. Money opens up worlds of opportunities and possibilities for people.
Permission is a big thing. I give you permission to leave that abuser, to change jobs, to be the true you.
I work from home and my lease ended 3/31. My work gave me the authorization to move outside of Indiana. That's all I needed, the green light to follow my dream to live near the Ocean. I signed the new lease 3/29 in Florida.
It's so funny that you mentioned the person who has lost weight, because I basically said everything you did! I had bariatric surgery over 3 years ago & have lost 170 pounds. And I do look at my previous photos & say, "Wow.... I'm not that person anymore in anyway," because the mind shifts as well as the body. I had also made the quick decision. I had some very painful complications after the surgery & I said to myself, "This was crazy; but I chose to have this done to myself. So if I'm gonna be in this much pain today, I better make it worth it tomorrow & stick with it." And I have not gained the weight back, despite being told I probably would. And I agree wholeheartedly to let go of your past. You need to drop that chain or you can't move forward. The weight of the past can just be too damn heavy.
Yes yes yes!!! We have to start acting and thinking like the person we want to become in order to get there ✨
To be what we must we must give up what we are
Great video Clark! Agree with you...if you think too much you will be stuck in your thought loop.
Just because we are conditioned to see a specific type of beauty as beautiful, doesn't mean that only that specific type is beautiful. If you genuinely see yourself as beautiful from the inside out, others will look at you in the same way, because the world reflects your perception back to you.
Peace, love and joy to everyone reading my comment❤️❤️❤️
Changing habits requires you to replace it with a new routine.
Better yet one that keeps you too engrossed or busy to think about the bad habit.
Great informative and insightful video Clark, so glad I came upon your channel. You touched on some major points of emphasis here 1. Identity Shift 2. Making Decisions and Adapting As You Go 3. Get Over Analysis Paralysis. 4. Give Yourself Permission 5. What is the next version of you you want and what gaps do you fill to get there
That's a great book and Maxwell Maltz was a great researcher. These ideas are actually present in Yogic culture, where identity (Ahankara) is one of the four dimensions of the mind. Whatever you identify with is what directs the intellect (Buddhi) to work towards its survival. The intellect is merely a survival tool and is a slave to the identity you've taken. Sadhguru talks a lot about this.
The high school reunion analogy makes perfect sense! I moved across the country a couple of years ago because I knew that I couldn't redefine myself where I had lived all of my life. People will (unintentionally) DRAG you back to who they defined you as from knowing you for decades. It's like the movie "Best Friends" with Ryan Reynolds. Lol!
The moving hit me 100. I’ve been wanting to move for 3 yrs now. I think it’s seeking permission to do this as well.
This is so helpful because I feel like I have been conditioned to ask for permission on several things but now I say instead of “can I do this, may I do that … etc” I say “I am doing this, I will do that” and in doing so I always get what I want 🧜🏻♂️🌊🐬
Yes! We moved to Arizona from Idaho. It’s wonderful. I am so excited I’ve found you.
I have a problem with quiting weed. I have a good job and weed doesn't interfere that much in my life, and worst of all, it's legal now (canada). I really want to quit smoking it. Thank you I will follow your advice.
You can do it if u really want to. It’ll happen if you really want to. I couldn’t even eat or go on with a regular day without weed. I haven’t smoked weed in almost 2 years. I quit before that but started back bc I was hanging with people in no longer hang with. I wanted to quit and it weighed heavy to the pin t I just…. Quit. Don’t miss but I’ve thought about it. Tell yourself aloud that u want to quit. Tell God. Keep it in mind even as u smoke. You’ll find yourself without. You can start small by smoking half now half later. Puff one time and put it out. Put water in place of the thought. Either way if u really want to it’ll happen.
Something I learned in my own journey (including quitting weed) was to figure out the main PROS & CONS of quitting vs smoking. If you figure out that list of reasons, and maybe even keep it as a reminder for yourself to stick to your goal/values, you might find it easier to remember WHY you’re quitting and why that’s important to you. Good luck :)
Identity Shift… Good point. I’ve experienced what you’re talking about and couldn’t agree more.
Literally if you squint your eyes he looks like “Mac” from it’s always sunny in Philadelphia ☀️💕
You gotta watch out for people dragging you down, period. Past, present, future people who feel insecure will often subconsciously and consciously work to hold you back. Misery loves company, so be keen to surround yourself with positive people who want the best for themselves and those at round them.
🥺🥺💞 Don't know why I'm emotional. Thank you.
I DECIDED TO ALLOW MYSELF TO CHANGE
Thank you for inspiring me to stop smoking. I didn't know I needed to hear that
Ender’s Game by Orson Scott Card. That’s a great book to have read.
That's it GIVING YOURSELF THE PERMISSION
To be what we must we must give up what we are
Hey love!!! So happy to see you have 700,000 subs!! You definitely deserve them and more!! Thank you for all of your videos! They have helped me a lot!
Feeling like you have to be consistent to who you think you are is definitely a major blockage to being free!
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My problem with making decisions is im a people pleaser and my children who are adults always get mad if I say I'm not watching their children so I give up all my plans to make them happy....I dont know how to say no to them without the anger they display...I watch 4 of my grandchildren 5 days a week from 11am till 5 pm im 50 years old and im tired ...I haven't made a decent meal for my husband in almost a year....
You have to let them figure it out the hard way. If you need a break then take it.
Kelly, you said it first what you need to do. Now you need to make that decision. You think they won’t love you anymore. You need to let go and just do it. Resentment will start to set in because it is the right thing to do. You need to make decisions for your life not the other way around.
A video on how to dissect big ideas from books would be great 👍🏼
Identity shifting can be very uncomfortable and emotional. DON"T GIVE UP! Once you get good at this you can do it more and more and improve at an exponential rate.
I made the shift and moved across country away from crappy Seattle this summer. Most stressful and expensive experience of my life. It cost $10K for movers. Too damn expensive to move these days.
When you realize 1. you have too much stuff and 2. It's cheaper to buy new stuff than to move it !
I've moved 5 times in the last 6 1/2 years. My costs were never over $1,200.
I have been interested in motivational speaking forever, you are really good at this!!!
This is true. I moved in 30 days from one state to another Start to finish
I don't know how to explain but the way you talk is pretty good.
I think your advice is clear while detailed and it's awesome and I appreciate it very much :)
Young man, the product you are selling, will change and develop to something better tomorrow. You can think hard to do it now, but all will happen at the precise time.
Great, Enlightening, really great for me, thanks so much
All change is an identity Change
I think your great! so glad I found you! As a stay at home mom I have found your chanel to be so helpful!
Your efforts are respected by your subscribers !!!!
Man you have no idea how much I needed this tonight! Thank you
I moved countries by myself 3 times. I just decided and did it. I didn't overthink. Never had a problem with finding good jobs and living. I now live in Hawaii. 🤙🌺Legally. I manifested winning GC lottery 🥇
Everytime I watch your videos time flies. 😮
Yesss. Love it! Stop placing yourself in a box!
This is so true I use to smoke and try to quick for many years until I stop seeing my self as a smoker that is when I was able to quick for good because I no longer see myself as someone that smokes.
My favorite video if yours so far bro!! Your spot on with decision making.. best decisions usually that I have ever made was when I didn't take too much time to overthink them every decision I overthink I'm still waiting to decide lol smh wow alot hidden gems here
This video is really powerful. Keep making content like this man 💯💪🏻
I love your content. I watch often. Question? Has anyone ever told you you look and sound like MrBallen??
I was thinking about you last night, and was wondering if you were okay. Hadnt seen you post in almost a week. But this was a really great video. I truly do love your videos, and advice.
I get audible books just to explore whatever someone mentions.
So inspiring, thank you ✨
I wish I could join your program!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I deeply enjoy hearing your voice and watching your videos! One of the 1st videos I watched from you was on music notes and chakras!!!!! I was hooked from there! You continuously impress me! 💋
Arizona is beautiful btw!
So relatable and so on point, thanks for sharing from the bottom of my heart ❤
Awesome video! Definitely going to read that book 🤓
I would say there are lots of barriers for some people that want to move from their current home with a mortgage to a different home like I have been trying to do since my husband died in the current one in 2014. I have been making steps to get there like clean up debt and work on my mind set
Powerful and inspiring....yes giving yourself permission to embrace your Higher self....thank you for creating and sharing brother 🙌🙏
Listening to your video while I drive-through Scottsdale Arizona. That was a fun surprise! Thank you for the content.
This is such good advice! All of it. I shared it a bunch. Thanks for posting.
You’re helping me so much bro... Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou . I can’t say that enough
Nuro-Assosiative conditioning systems. NACS
I've seen old pictures and was surprised, not the same person
Make quick decisions I like that!
Amazing explanation Clark. Thank you so much.
Another great vid 😃
Best email tip I ever heard! 👏👏👏🏆🏆🏆🔥🔥🔥🙏🙏🙏
Scottsdale here too!! Love ya brother
Love your channel Clark. You helped inspire me to start my own RUclips Channel. Even though it's amateur and just for fun.
Thanks I have psycho cybernetics very interesting indeed!!🙏❤️🇬🇧
I'm also from Seattle and moved to Arizona!! New to your channel and I love your content. Thank you for the awesomeness!
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Made up my mind to do just that, even changing my name; my daughter just heard someone say, “This is my mother, (name) !” The name was the same one I had chosen. It is not a common name at all and I don’t think that any woman would have chosen that name.
In comes your video regarding changing identities. Sign ???? I’d say.
Thank you 🙏🏻
Moving as a young, single adult is A LOT easier than moving later in life with a family. One can do it, but there’s a lot more that will have an impact on life.
Well if you had a family and decided to make the decision instantly, the decision you will make will be to not move, because you have a family. He's saying don't ponder too much, you already know the decision you are gonna make.
Great presentation, Clark! Thank you so much. Very inspiring.
I just started reading it!
Thank you for your reminder!
Tony Blobbins is so good. Love Tony Blobbins
I'd love to Listen to the subjects that you talk about in your videos but in a long form content like a podcast .
Very empowering. Thank you.
Your videos always make me calm and motivating 😌😌
Great stuff Clark!
re: making decisions quickly. I do that. People say that I am too impulsive and should be on ADHD meds for it.
I think a lot of the time there is no wrong answer - as long as I'm picking something that I find to be ethical and feasible, no problem. If I'm picking something from a menu at a restaurant, I might ask a couple of questions: What do you have that's non dairy? Is there a fresh fish option? By then it's narrowed down to one or two options anyway. Most of my decisions are made instantly because something is either consistent with who I am (or believe myself to be) or it isn't.
Here in Seattle, refusing to settle!
This was my sign!!
I had such a big shift today and I’m following the flow and my goals! Also I just came to Seattle but the outskirts!
Greetings my deary Freind
Heartiest thanks for sharing this beautiful message
I'm so grateful for everything
Much love and light
Many Blessings
Amen 🙏❤
Psycho Cybernetics is a very good book. I read last week, very informative and practical.
Powerful video bro 💪🏼🌞
What about vaping only pure weed no tobacco?
Thank you Clark notes have been taken and I’m sitting here overlooking at them pondering what I’ve decided and glad to get my gears going
Very useful info, thanks Clark for another great video...
Damn man. Really glad I found your videos. 🙏
Holy Cow I just realized I think Ive meet you long ago in Seattle area.... I grew up there.... Hey thats cool!! Keep up the Great work!!!! love your content!
I had changed so much I cringe when I watch old version old video of me from three years ago...I felt like I had been slipping back though after my daughter turned one ..
The way the the thumbnail says use only for good means I will definitely b using it to b an evil baddie
I appreciate the perspective, thank you
So true about the email.
I’m glad I follow you
Thank you for you!!!