RELATIONSHIPS: the NO B.S. guide to masculine & feminine ENERGY
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- Опубликовано: 20 апр 2021
- In this video - we're talking about masculine and feminine energy. The main principle is that we need BOTH masculine energy and feminine energy to make a relationship work. You'll usually be attracted to your counterpart via polarity. That's what keeps the attraction alive and your relationship work - this video will explain WHY that's the case and HOW to tap into divine masculine or feminine energy. Not understanding the polarities dynamics within a relationship is the cause of may relationship problems, fights, and confusion.
NOTE: These are universal and transcend gender and sexual orientation. There are dude's with a very feminine energy, and women with a very masculine energy. And everything in between. We ALL have BOTH masculine and feminine energy.
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this is exactly why i unsubbed from you. energy manifest BS. very little actual value anymore. just mumbo jumbo
Great video but next time spellcheck it’s spelled balance………
So true!! 💕💕
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Hey can you please tell me wgat inner work and waht it includes and how to do it ?
God bless you😇🤍🧿
Women who have been through trauma or didn’t have a nurturing mother growing up have learned more masculine behaviors. Ex: staying stuck in defense mode, fighting for power/control, having trouble submitting to authority, etc. it’s a defense mechanism and if a woman becomes loved and nurtured the right way (feeling safe esp) she will naturally evolve into her authentic self.
what happens to men growing up without a father and more feminine?
This holds true to having an inconsistent father or no father as well. Especially if their mother had to be both
soooooooooooooooo true! I didnt have a nuturing mother and I never knew until the last two years that I was acting in a wounded masculine and wounded feminine energy. My ex husband was in a wounded masculine state so I had to pick up his slack by being the masculine energy in our relationship. It was doomed to fail because of that
That’s mostly a sexist remark mate. Many women have a dominant masculine energy and it has nothing to do with their mother. Same for men with feminine energy it’s a personality trait.
Perfectly said
I am very feminine in my looks and the way I present myself, but I have a very masculine demeanor. My partner looks very masculine but has a more soft, gentle energy to him. I am very business orientated (work in sales) he’s a creative and a free spirit. We balance each other out perfectly even if not in the traditional way
That's so me lol. People always presume I'm frivolous, spoiled and weak when they first see me. But as soon as they get to know me they kinda get scared, i know how to be feminine but most of the time I'm blasting masculine energy.
It’s all about balance, wish more ppl understood this!
Sameee
No one asked
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BALANCE is key🔑
Smooth!!!
No need to comment further here.
Thank yooooou. 😆😁
FOR SURE
I thought I was the only one who caught that lol
A long time ago, my mom told me “the things that first attract you to someone will often be the things that you can’t stand later on” ...she was so right!! I have seen it time and time again too with friends.
I'm not agree with it. The sense of humor of my partner attracts me a lot because I have the same sense of humor. This would never be unattractive for me
What first attracted me was looks and she is still good looking, the second was her touch and I still like her touch.
So I dunno that I agree
I really do agree with it.
Sense of humor? Beauty? Intelligence?
Maybe because these are things you seem to THINK you lack within yourself so you attract what you think you’re lacking and you start hating because you think you don’t have these parts of yourself within you !
> THAT I agree , but this is why.
I fell in love with how sensitive and “ connected “to his emotions my ex was and then it start pissing me bc he would manipulate me this way. Anyway this was before my healing journey) but yea this could be why. But I realized I’m as caring and nurturing 💟☮️☯️. I wasn’t seeking him I was seeking me IN him.
I already had these parts just didn’t notice or acknowledge bc my self hate.
“With your women, don’t try to fix, change how she feels.” Now that is life changing my good sir
Yup, may even save you the cost of a divorce lawyer.....
I shouldve heard this earlier, mindblowing.
Cody, why?
I agree 💯% being feminine mostly
I hear this, but what if the issue keeps coming up? How can you actually “fix” it instead of ignoring it
“Change her mood not her mind” is a great quote. Didn’t even think about that but once you say it out loud you realize how accurate that is
A relationship is a place you go to to give, not a place you go to get ~ I'm gonna remember that.
this sounds good
You attract your person by simply being you. Remember this always. Many change themselves for a brief period of time to impress/ obtain a love interest. Those relationships never work. If they do, there ends up being a ton of secrets with toxic energy transmitting to both people. Stay you, Boo!
Yes. Thank you!
This made me tear up. Thank you 💖
Absof******lutely 👏👏
very true, however is important to know this, just like the video says... sometimes to please your partner you will stop being yourself, and this video explains how and why
Best Advice
I’m a woman with more masculine energy but I am not attracted to males with more feminine energy. It’s a turn off and I feel like I can walk all over them. I feel most attracted to males with high masculine energy even though we do tend to butt heads but if they’re more masculine than me it works out because I tend to not fight back as much.
so in your relationship you may project more feminime energy
You may give off more feminine energy in your relationships than you think!
That's not your true nature you have a wounded feminine core so your Feminine wounded core feed wounded Masculine as a survival mechanism to keep from getting hurt but it's Imbalanced
Why would any real masculine man want to butt heads with his women. You are attracted to masculine men but do the exact thing that would turn him away
I am the same way! I'm not as emotional and "feeling" as other women I know. I can be nurturing, but it's kind of fend for yourself as well sort of thing, lol. I really can't stand men with lots of feminine energy, I tolerate them. I need them to stand up for themselves and be a protector etc... can't have a shy guy with no backbone!
Change her mood not mind. Damn this hit me. I hope i will remember that and use in life.
I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems
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remember to use it bro
Its big time the truth, you cant reason with a being that moves based on feelings, its like trying to fight fire with paper LMAO xD
This is so helpful! FEMININES.... peel your energy off of him. Laws of nature say that he chases you. Mind your own, become the most delicious version of you. He is the hunter. He will find you when you are aligned and the time is right. Trust!
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He is too feminine to chase anything fuck him lol
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Wow, I just realized how crazy accurate this is. The last relationship I was in the guy had a very feminine energy as do I. So we both butted heads all the time.. now I am with a man with a very high masculine energy & we just flow so well together. I am also trying to unlearn all the masculine energy that I had to learn in that relationship that didn’t serve me well.
Hey 🤗 any examples of how you brought back and practiced the feminine?
It really true about everything he says dear how are you doing
This explains perfectly why I'm so attracted to the guy I'm currently dating - he's very work oriented, focused, driven, always decisive and in charge. It makes me feel like I can let my guard down and let him take the lead, and I like it. I am the eldest in my family so I previously had to be in charge and solve a lot of problems at home - constantly being in masculine energy mode was exhausting. But now I'm so in my feminine energy around him and its the most wonderful feeling.
Yin and Yang ☯️ Polarity is important. I am a business owner and so is my boyfriend. Being a boss and having the responsibility to make decisions and actions necessary to get results, but my boyfriend’s masculinity makes me feel comfortable and confident to allow him to lead our relationship. So, I love being feminine with him. It’s so much fun to be feminine. He loves it and my spirit is free to express. It’s an awesome connection. However, I had to wait to attract the right masculine guy. I was not going to change and lower my standards. The right energy will work. He proves that he can be alpha in the relationship. I get to chill and watch him lead. ❤
It really true about everything he says dear how are you doing
“relationships are a place you go to give, not a place you go to get”. yes!!
The feminine energy of being present and the masculine energy of focusing on the future is interesting. Never thought of it like that
Honestly before marriage I would have totally disagreed, but after 4 years of marriage I can tell you that this is KEY for a happy marriage and is really true!!
The more I've healed, the more unhappier I've become in my relationship. Ive come to realise, we put up with so much when we are broken. Fix ourselves and we no longer accept it.
I was in a year long relationship whereby the first six months i was emotionally unavailable (and very masculine) - she wanted me to be more open - and once she started pulling away towards the end I clung on (freaked out) started crying, being emotional, showing i did love her - I think I did what you said around minute 11 where I was trying to open up and be vulnerable, but went overboard and freaked her out causing emotional detachment. It’s been two months, 1 month since we spoke last just working on myself. Whether it’s her or someone else, I’ve learnt many valuable lessons for my next relationship and you helped flesh that out here. Thank you!
Good awareness. I wish you well.
Goodluck man
The reason why you started to freak out was because your abandonment issues. You were scared that she no longer wanted to be there so you started freaking out and doing everything in your power to be more vulnerable and showing her that you truly were “changing “
I went through the same thing with my ex. 🤕. So talking out of experience)
Omg this is happy and sad. You actually learned from it and that’s really admirable.
Wow I went thru the same thing. I can relate so much. Happy for your change in perception and transition. Hopefully she sees your change and that you could be great for you in this newer version. Good luck man !!!
Let me just say to everyone. If you are attracting a partner that has a wounded masculine or feminine, THAT IS YOUR MIRROR. it IS WHAT YOU Need TO HEAL within yourself. The person is not the problem. YOU have to heal these parts of yourself !
ALSO you can’t do “less or more “ of either energy. It is a balance of energies.
Wether you are a WOMAN or MEN.
You need to BALANCE these two energies.
Look in the mirror there are two sides of you. Say hi it’s both your MASC AND FEM side.
ANYWAY.
If the man you are attracting is too “controlling “It is because your Devine masculine is WOUNDED.
Same goes for feminine.
You are your own Devine counter part. Heal yourself and you will attract the balance you seek within you & then outside of you. ☯️☯️
All is a mirror. As within so without. As above so below.
I would love for you elaborate more on this with other examples 🥰
Wow thank you so much for this!
this is so good , you're right.
thank you
What if I don’t attract anybody?
But seriously thanks for this
I have watched and listened to many programs on this theme. You have given me the best summary and detailed explanation thus far of on a subject which at first glance appears mysterious and complex. Probably because none of us have previously been taught about such energies and our true inner selves. That is now all changing thanks to these transformative times. Thank you.
As a woman, this is one of the best videos I’ve seen on masculine and feminine energies as well as relationship advice. So many channels project this insane hyper-masculine solution as the way to “get girls” without ever really even trying to understand us.
I think it would be beneficial for both genders to communicate with one another and listen to figure out where the miscommunication is stemming from. Most of the time we have good intentions for one another, but are approaching the situation in an unhelpful way due to our lack of understanding of the other person. For example men trying to fix women’s issues when we just want them to listen or women trying to communicate passive aggressively which men don’t understand as well.
Open, vulnerable communication is hard for both genders, but extremely necessary. Great video
“Change her mood not her mind.” Excellent!
Owesome talk! It's really unfortunate soo many of us grow with masculine/feminine wounds. But the process of creating balance within self is really beautiful!
I have watched several of your videos & must say : 1st of all thank you for all your hard work on spreading the word-i see u have been working on ur pineal gland, it really shows. I dub thee “one of us”....welcome to the rabbit hole my brother
dude this is soooo refreshing to see! U are basically the only guy ive seen who brings amore holistic view in place. Your views also confirmed my assumption about myself and the world. Very clarifiying and helping video! You helped me in more than one way.
I really needed this, thank you! I think a lot of girls are told early on that masculine energy isn’t okay but you’re right, both are good just in different ways and balance is key!
Omg i found your channel and i love it so much, needed this, perfect timing
I really love how you explain everything!!
Absolute GOLD - you have nailed this Clark - I have been searching for a good explanation to share with my clients and this is it!! THANK YOU!
Clark, you are my relationship goals. Thanks for all your videos!
Omg !!! His advice is gold !!! He hit it right about females wanting to change their mood ! I will try out your advice ! Thank you ☆☆☆☆
I’m sayin he explained it so well
So it's all about how u feel whether it's factually wrong or not
Dude greeting from Colombia, it’s awesome that I can be one of the first person that sees your content, Thank you for being a guide! I appreciate you and your job!
Colombian here too! 🙌🏼
Best explanation I’ve heard of this! Thanks Clark! Been binging on your videos and love your clarity of thought and warped humour 😊
Yes! Thank you! So much, it is really important.
This was such a great video. I’m going to put it in my watchlist folder I have called “How to raise a balanced, productive human”. I don’t have kids, but if I ever have one, I would want my teenager to watch this.
As a 17 year old girl who just started college, going through a rough breakup and truly has no idea what she’s doing with her life I find the advice on this channel very helpful ❤️❤️
Clark, I really like who you are. I like how you think. Thank you for sharing yourself with all of us.
This video is One I really needed right now. I now understand alot of things why they did work and now don't and vice versa.
This is a incredible video full of important information. Whomever comes across this video is on the right track, keep it up.
I love this. I recently started doing a deep dive into the energy balances (ying/yang) within us all. There are a lot of parallels with other mammals as well like the energy types within wolf packs (alpha vs.betas vs omegas ETC.) I agree with people naturally gravitating towards those who would compliment and balance them and serve to fill their inner deficit. Humans naturally seek homeostasis and balance at all times. That is within ourselves and externally as well. I think the main reason why relationships fail is definitely because individuals do not do the self work to become their most natural/organic and complete selves before they search for their partner. Thats why a lot of relationships fail because they "grow apart," but actually the majority of the time, people are growing into their true selves and the relationship balance is being thrown off because that wasn't the partner you were meant to be with in the first place. Intriguing.
This video is so spot on! Thank you 😊🙏
thats literally all I want is to be listened to, because I am super feminine I always attract super masculine guys who always want to control and dominate me 🥲 I don’t want to be controlled I want to be loved✨ like this video thanx
That's like my ex who always went out with guys who ended up controlling her. After being with me she realised she couldn't handle being 50 50 and left me because she attracted to that strong masculine that just wants to control her. Quite sad really.
You are attracted to super masculine men too. Its not that they are picking you, you are picking them.
Super masculine guys are not controlling. Controlling men are inherently insecure and needy, which is not a masculine trait. You are confusing masculinity with fake alpha males
Hope you find the one who makes you feel like you can be yourself. No one is perfect. All we can do is the best we can. Like anything that is worth doing it takes work. Even finding someone to make you feel loved takes work. They don't normally just drop from the heavens into your lap. Hope you find that one that lifts you up and makes you feel like a queen. Much love. Hang in there and keep looking.
Thank you so much for this video. Its the first time I have heard about masculine and feminine Energy. Thank you!!
If anyone wants more about this topic, everything he’s referencing in this video is from the book ‘The Way Of The Superior Man’
Thank you
Great book! Have the audio.
Have you read it yourself? Do you recommend it for women to read it?
Everything he references is someone else's theory.
gold
I totally had a shift from feminine to masculine energy when I became an entrepreneur but never understood that until now. Amazing video!
I feel that!! ive had to really intentionally practice bringing feminine energy back in!
I can relate to this. Entrepreneur and STEM (nontraditional) College student. It's strange to realize.
My friend and feminine energy coash Jessica Scott talks about this often. She's an alpha and leaning into femininity
Parenting is also incredibly masculine but husband wife relationships shouldn't be
Working and running businesses does that! Even when you’re a stay at home parent; organising, teaching, cleaning, day in day out, that changes your energy even tho the nurturing parts of you will come through from time to time.
One of the finest video I've seen so far!
This video is amazing. Extremely eye opening. Love the content!
This video! Empowering.Especially when speaking about 'Toxic Masculinity'. Men are not the problem as you greatly pointed out. It's the imbalance of energy that is. Growing up I had a a lot of men around me operating in their masculine energy who were feminists! Also, a divine moment for me happened when you mentioned about when women are sharing about their day, they don't want a solution... They just want to be listened to! That's major for me and makes complete sense why I want that! I have a lot of masculine traits and operate in the masculine a lot. However, this video helped me see how much feminine energy I have and how I can bring both into balance. Appreciate your content. It has been impactful for me!
Thanks a lot
I listened to this when I really wanted to change my self from a heart break
And it was just the thing i needed
One of the best videos on masculine and feminine energy, so well explained and balanced
omg this was so interesting LOL so relatable i was just talking to my bf last night complaining about my job and he was trying to fix it and not really listening wow it all makes sense now lol thank you for explaining this :)
I love the art work as a hearing impaired I am visual person so I love it!
This was the best breakdown I have ever seen.
Thank you for this. I appreciate your knowledge🙏🏻
Great video! Excellent and extreme valid points you made and I couldn't agree with you more!! 🔥🔥 Riddle me this; why are these such abstract concepts scoffed by the masses??!! I'm working on myself and loving myself enough to be secure & single by choice, very confident in divine timing and not eager to rush through my first real solo bit of time in 40 years. Everyone I know is constantly trying to pair me up, like I'm sad, weepy and pathetic or a leper! I like being single, why can't my family deal with it?
Thank you for this Clark, just sent it to my partner bc we both can benefit from balance the opposite energies within us for our relationship to thrive. I trust he is ready to receive the message. Thank you! 🙏🏾☀️
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This is amazing information ❤️
Thank you for your dedication 🙏🙏🙏
Thankyou so much for this means a lot. I got to learn about many aspects of importance of feminine energies
I’m late but WOOOOOOOHOOOOO!!!! Yesssss. This is something my lover and I get into A LOT and I am often the one left hurt.
I’m black, he is Hispanic so cultural difference is huge but as well as, my life background. 😬 yeeeesssh. And things only became worse after I became a truck driver -.- I have been needing some tlc in this topic. And from someone I trust.
You are right in time brother.
Thank you!
MASCULINITY is GREAT! The world today is messed up, not because of masculinity, but because of the shadow side of masculinity. Real masculinity is generous, takes care of the ones they are responsible for, contains, grows for others, builds great structures, envisions a great future and puts energy into it... There are so many traits of masculinity the world now is craving. Also on the feminin side. The passive agressiv, manipulative version of feminity has not brought us to a healthy place. Truly living the feminin is powerful, nurturing, creative, loving, inviting, networking, connecting, bringing the best out in everyone, creating (not just kids, but that one is quite impressive, too ;-) ... so: YES Masculinity and Feminity have their powerful part in an integrated, healthy world!!!
I came across your videos and they are so insightful. Thank you so much for what you are doing, more people need to learn about this!
It really true about everything he says dear how are you doing
Gotta be honest I was mainly drawn to your channel because of how pretty you looked in the thumbnail but I absolutely love your content, right up my alley.
As a mamas boy, I naturally have this more feminine side to me deeper down, but I have this more tougher masculine edge on the outside and just how I rub people off generally. I’ve always bashed the feminine side because I wish I was more masculine so I could “dominate” and be “more of a man”, but I’ve recently grew an appreciation for it and I’ve embraced it because it makes more balanced of a human being.
This is a great video Clark 😊 I agree with so many points you touched on. I appreciate the Sun/Moon and Venus/Mars symbols, as these are the Classic symbols of Masculine/Feminine Polarity. I like equating them to elements, Feminine energy is like water 💧 (Yin) and Masculine energy is Fire 🔥 (Yang). Where the Feminine energy is still, cool, calm, and collected. At its worst, it’s chaotic. It can be a bubbling brook, or a tsunami. Whereas the Masculine is active, energetic, fiery, and passionate. At its worst, it’s aggressive. It can be a cheerful fire where you warm your chilled bones, or a raging inferno burning everything in its wake.
I also agree that men in particular aren’t the problem. It’s society as a whole, who sees Feminine energy as weak, and therefore lauds only Masculine energy. Feminine energy is needed now to restore balance. One day we’ll stop trying to figure out who’s fault it is that we’re here, and focus on where we go from here. Great content 😊 keep up the growth
Great video Clark, really clear & very accurate
Oh my, this is of much help! Great video! 💪
Ah Clark, it's been a while man! Feel like I've been on this journey of discovery too and everything you said in this vid hits bang on. Love the flipchart
I was just researching this exact topic. Great video, definitely sharing 👍. We need to clone you x1 million 😆.
Absolutely amazing video. Thank you 🙏
Heartiest thanks for sharing this motivating message
I'm so grateful
My wife and I help our clients (entrepreneurial couples) see these crucial differences: the masculine asks “What am I made of?” while the feminine asks “Who am I?” Basically the same question, but not!
Yeah the masculine journey is outward, like the odyssey. The feminine journey is inward. Different but the same
My husband has always been feminine and I've been more masculine. . In this last couple years he has manned up so to speak. It's been an interesting transition. But I'm learning to recieve more and hes learning to be more manly. Its been hard but good and more balanced. 😌
Love this! Thanks for sharing this information in such a concise, easy-to-understand way.
You're reasoning just flows so nicely - women worked on their masculinity in the eighties.
Aaahhh! THIS is so good! Awesomeness as usual! ⭐️🌞
This was so good! I remember one day I was telling the guy I was dating "I want to go home," as a way to vent and he told me "then go?" I felt so unsupported and misunderstood. I just wanted him to comfort me and understand I was feeling a little home sick.
So u didn't actually wanna go home u just wanted him to comfort u
I did want to go home but I was halfway across the world so it was not that easy - I was just venting and needed some support to feel better. I did just want him to comfort me. I hope I do not sound crazy, lol
This video is amazing! Thank you for making this. 😃
"Change her mood, not her mind." that was GOLD right there brotha!
The way of the superior man is a book that I read recently that covers exactly this! Really interesting
Thanks Clark. Your explanation for blaming men for everything is spot on. Masculinity itself is not the problem. We need MORE strong masculine figures who have balanced energy in order to provide our children with love and balance they need to grow and heal our world.
Perfect comment. Its all we need and nowadays, that lacking in the world.
Fantastic work Clark! Love your channel
Thanks for all your content 🙏🏽
I'm experiencing this in my current relationship and they truly meant it when they said, "the things that first attract you to someone will often be the things that you can't stand later on". My boyfriend is 80/20 feminine energy and I'm 80/20 masculine. At first this was sweet because he was able to show me to tune more into my feminine energy and having a partner that was able to be gentle was a huge change. 15 months later I'm practically bald from ripping my hair out lol (100% sarcasm). It's different for women, depending on the circumstance, to be driven when it comes to business and goals but when you have a male counter part that lacks that to a significant degree it's a HUGE challenge to say in the least. For the women who WANT feminine boyfriends, keep the 80/20 balance for your sanity and thank me later. And if you're a male with feminine dominant energy, it's not a bad trait, but creating balance is key to success. Thank you Clark for this video! It was great :)
I think I have both. Yin and Yang. Balance.
Appreciate the art work❤️❤️❤️.. lovely video.. thanks❤️❤️❤️
I really liked how you said, “Change her mood, not her mind” This is so important and makes a lot of sense 😍😎
I just had this thought. I think it’s interesting that we, as a society, have coined the term “toxic masculinity” however is there such a thing as “toxic femininity”? I personally think there is, but I’m not sure how that would be described...
Yeah its called feminism. Its made women more masculine.
toxic means that it yields toxic behavior that genuinely harms others. femininity has been looked down upon for centuries as weak and powerless… so it doesn’t contribute to anyone’s ego or makes a person do harmful acts. masculinity on the other hand (due to our society being closer to patriarchal) results in *some* violent behavior as *some* men try to prove themselves to be tougher or emotionless. E.g. most women don’t look down on tomboys or women who are more masculine but many men look down on feminine men or gay men. It’s just that femininity does not praise violence, toughness, nor anger. It’s just how society has split the gender binary unfortunately
Yes toxic feminine exists and its talked abt a lot on RUclips but it's not as popular as toxic masculinity
Hyper femininity
Toxic femininity might be manipulation or being a pick me
I love the comment about comparing how masculine and feminine energies grow. Where did you find that information?
❤️ your style stud .. keep up the great work.
Your videos are so deep and easy to watch!
I’ve always been very masculine. Growing up a tomboy I didn’t really care about looks, until my 8th grade year when I realized I wanted to be liked by the opposite sex. Years later I’m tired of being so masculine I finally want to be a women I want peace I want patience. I was vulnerable with the wrong guy. I was finally letting go of always wanting control and always being the one who took course of action. Well he cheated on me had nothing to do with me more so him. The cheating definitely didn’t have me feeling safe anymore emotionally mentally or physically. I reverted back to being masculine because I had to protect myself again. i have a mortgage that needs to be paid utilities and a son I have to take care of. I learned he was very feminine and of course I attracted him due to my masculine tendencies. I believe I do need a masculine driven energy male because man finally being vulnerable and he stopped working stopped caring and just was emotionally driven. He broke up with me because i was “crazy, obsessed, and loud” everything he loved about me he suddenly hated.. so everything Clark says here is true i lived it. I’m diving into my feminine energy now that I am single and really want to create a balance for me. I have always felt lost and finally I am finding myself. My feminine was crying to be seen and when i finally let my guard down he of course reverted back to his feminine ways. It really wasn’t the cheating that messed me up it was the fact that finally my intuition was right and he made me believe i was wrong. Ladies if someone is trying to make you believe YOU ARE WRONG they aren’t for you. You only have you at the end of the day and someone telling YOU ABOUT YOU IN UGLY WAYS isn’t love it’s manipulation. Believe yourself and believe your intuition it’s always right! Only the wrong person for you will tell you these things to keep playing games with your mind. The best lesson I’ve learned is be you and always BELIEVE IN YOURSELF! Let the people that don’t love you for you go even if it hurts in the long run the people meant for you will love you always! 💕
when you’re a female with a more masculine energy 😭
You aren’t , just haven’t experienced a real masculine man
An alpha male should be able to handle it. I feel you.
There is nothing wrong with you having more masculine energy, as long as you’re being authentic to yourself and doing your best to operate from within the healthy spectrum of both your masculine and feminine energies. You’re good.
Also, don’t listen to anyone that tells you what you are and aren’t based on your gender. No man will change your natural balance. It is what it is. But overcompensating to fit a mould that was never meant for you, to appease a man (or anyone), will eventually have you be miserable. People can only wear masks/ project personas for so long before the mask cracks.
Be true to yourself and the right types of people will appear in your life and value you for it, as you should value them for their authenticity too.
Dude i you just safed my relationship with this video
love it, embrace your energy!!
Can I just say THANK YOU for mentioning different sexual orientations on this video. With so many relationship and spiritual videos out there, it always seems they're strictly focused on male and female relationships which sadly, as a gay woman it's difficult to stay connected to those videos. Appreciate your versatility! Loving the content, as always!
I felt that. I only talk about problems if I’m looking for a solutions. I actually get annoyed at my girlfriends when they just sit there and it seems like as if they’re pitying me so I feel like they’re underestimating me which makes me go out there and fix my goddamn problem
I can refer you to the same person that helped me get my ex lover back within the space of one week
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This literally the way of the superior man cliff noted. Good stuff.
This was so amazing, thank you so much and this is the 111sr Comment!!!