Identity Shifting: The ONE thing that changed my life
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Cool if we take a deep dive on how to shift your identity? This concept is a game changer, AND the most requested topic from you when I sent out a poll last week. Lmk if you'd like more tips/breakdowns on this. If you want to go deeper, check out our free training that goes deeper into identity shifting and how to use it to change your life ➡ www.clarkkegley.com/free-case-study . And if you want you want our help creating the 2.0 version of you... apply here for our metamorphic coaching program while there are still slots ➡ bit.ly/METAMORPHIC
More please. This is already happening to me but I didn’t know there was a name for this. Definitely seeking. Thank you ✨
Thanks alot Clark your channel got me right back on track am in alot of pain and am suffering but you brought me back to life and perspective thanks alot
Hey, Clark! Thanks for posting this Vid. This is truly and eye opener when it comes to redefining your life. I do have a question. Are all of our stories necessarily bad? Can we have core stories that are defining moments in our life that changed us for good? Is it good to take the stories and hold on to them even if they were difficult times in life? Or should they be let go?
sad to see this coaching program has filled up :((
Hey, rarely write a comment but this is not your original work and you should give credit to Frederick Dodson's Parallel Universes of Self .. assuming that you didn't know
"Doing as others told me, I was Blind. Coming when others called me, I was Lost. Then I left everyone, myself as well. Then I found Everyone, Myself as well.” ~ Rumi 🙏🌏👁️🐛 💥🦋 💝🔥🕊️ 🙌
C h i l l s 🙌❤️🔥🙌 Thanks for sharing
Currently on that left myself find myself vibe in solitary confinement section of journey. Goodness give me the strength to finish
@@ArcticButterflyWolf It sounds like you're at a crossroads and would do well to embrace the silence and soberly contemplate which direction will serve you best long term.
When we go through DNOTs and having cleared house of all we are not, we find ourselves in the void where it can feel empty and lonely.
It's Spiritual Warfare and having rid ourselves of any demonic strongholds we need to faithfully and fully attune ourselves with God source energies rather than fall back into old, comfy, tempting yet toxic patterns of behaviour we've outgrown or we risk an even worse outcome ...
When the demonic spirits find our house empty of faith, love, peace, gratitude, self control, humility, compassion, good works, ie; the fruits of the Spirit, they invite their friends and party even harder to destroy us if we let them in ...
Matthew 12:45, NIV: "Then it goes and takes with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there.
And the final condition of that person is worse than the first.
That is how it will be with this wicked generation.'
It's the journey, not the destination that matters most. It's our choices, not the risks we take that determine our destiny.
Eyes open, no fear, choose wisely, travel safe and light my friend xx 🙏🐛👁️🦋💞🕊️✌️
Love that lil worm
Theirs something about the islamic sufis really
Just my two cents: I made a big change in wardrobe and the way I looked at myself. I left a lame environment and realized your environment can shape the way you think or feel. Long story short my "friends" and even some family members kept me down. Didn't realize I was playing a role they established for me.
Once I moved to another state I didn't have that on me and over the course of a couple years completely rebuilt myself (gone thru therapy physical&psychological) became an entrepreneur and a dad. Boy did that shake things up back "home" now no one talks to me mostly cause I don't fit that image they had of me. In essence they liked the old me that made them feel good about themselves not if I was doing well in my personal life. Kinda like a stepping stone for their personal well being.
Those ain't your people and success shine a light on the people who grinned in your short comings and now sour to hear I'm doing better for myself.
Put in the work (it's very hard) but eventually you'll see the fruits of your labor 🙂
It still blows my mind that often times it your relatives your family that keep you down and then blow you off when you rise above. Its hard to wrap your mind around even when you see proof time and time again
Heck yeah thats amazing mate! Only you can truly approve of you, and that is the only approval that really matters. From that space you naturally will emanate your best self and other people soon enough will validate you and be magnetized to you, only from this place of authenticity and commitment to self!
This is truth to the bone, is scary to realise even your own family drag you down, even if unconsciously since family is basicaly related to karma, so sometimes the best thing is do like Buddha, leave for good, leave for your self, to go in your quest. Not leaving with anger but as an example of the principle of choosing your self first and your mission in life.
Nice 2 Cents
Thank you for sharing your story. ✨
"The only reason you're taking actions is to WIN & GET EMOTIONS"
this changed my life for sure.
Your thoughts create feelings,
Feelings felt long enough, create plans,
Plans initiate action, actions develop habits, habits practiced long enough, create a lifestyle, lifestyle is your destiny;
Control your thoughts!
i screenshoted this 🙂
@@Adivar-1 same
@Adivar-1 haha me too!
This is the most interesting dude I have seen in such a long time. I've looked for a lot of channels giving life advice, but this is the first dude that actually has good advice!
YOU NEVER REALLY KNOW: You could be shitting in a stall, minding your own business, unwittingly changing the trajectory of a man's life forever.
This comment 😂
What a legend 🤩😂
Lmao
😂😂😂
That shit works. Lost 30 kg in 3,5 month effortlessly. I mean of course I changed my diet, fasted, walked for long walks etc. But all this wasn’t hard. I enjoyefmd the process while before I often tried and failed. The magical trick was that I saw my self in a different light. I was proud about myself about achieving my goals even before it was done. Crazy I know but from now on this is how approach everything in life. Self concept and Law of Assumption for the win 😂🎉❤
Yes this changes everything!
You sounds unique I'll love to know you 😊
I love this video. The hardest part is sticking to the new identity. It’s too easy to slip back into the old identity, even if you’re working hard at adopting the new identity you’ve created.
Clark is right about the dating aspect. After a string of losers I stopped dating completely and worked on becoming a much better and healthier partner for my future partner. I clearly defined what kind of person I wanted as a partner. Then my future husband literally dropped out of nowhere in a game chat, I knew he was the One pretty early on by how friendly and respectful he was with everyone.
We’ve been married over 7 years, and deeply in love. If I hadn’t done the work on myself I would be still attracting shifty losers.
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Hey
Most times you have to go Through some relationship more like a learning process before you can hit the right relationship it a natural process we all have to come across
True we tend to go to what is familiar to us even in our own behavior which we may not like however it really is about establishing new behaviors which in turn will create familiarity the more we practice the new behaviors.
You explained what I had stumbled upon in order to change my life drastically from being an Addict to being disgusted by it. Been clean for years because of my identity shift. Thank you for putting it into words that I could not explain better myself. This type of thinking is truly a life saver.
Me too an addict to my narc ex. Totally quit him like i had quit smoking cigs and drinking alcohol... all while still in a relationship w him lol
Can we talk about how this man is soooo handsome and saving lives most good looking people are not this humble he is so inspiring and I have been watching for a week now to get back on track coz am so lost in life I feel stuck and just in alot of pain
That was brilliant thanks. Iv been scripting my identity every night before bed for 7 years, I choose my human Avatars identity, stories, emotions & actions for the next day as if its already done.. Everything I have written became my reality at quantum speed.
How do you do that? Can you elaborate ?
please elaborate
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Could you give us an update please?
This is what I’ve been doing since 2020 and my whole identity has changed for the better now it’s time to step it up to millionaire status. 2023 is mine and it’s yours we claim it today!!!!
Watching this while vaping, I guess this is my sign 😅
It is
Man ur videos are holy grail for me, thanks for pretty clear instructions. I had already shifted my identity before in some way, but my understanding of the process was not so good. Now i can shift it further and higher
I love the feeling i just got when i realised this kind of real advice is what i’ve been looking years for. I finally found it. Thank you for real.
OMG. My daughter cried over some students laughing at her for some math mistakes she made in the class. I literally was just saying the word like Quote 1. I think the message found a way to come to me.
Hey 👋
I’m using this to quit smoking cigarettes. Thanks Clark!
"Stop chasing the money and start chasing the passion." Tony Hsieh, enjoyed watching your video :) thumb up !
Now I’m not disagreeing with anything you said but fake it til you make it works when you use it correctly. When you “act” like the person you want to be you begin to do the things the like person you want to be and begin to see results, thus really becoming the person you want to be.
My advice is do it both ways, the old way and the new way. Change your identity to change your actions but also change your actions to change identity. Double power!
I feel like that’s still choosing an identity of who you may not be yet but are looking to be so you embody that identity to “fake the act” which ultimately leads to success
You’re a life saver my guy, thank you. ❤️😌
Fake it till you make it does work, just like changing your body posture works to increase your confidence. It's not about lying to others but about helping yourself.
I was thinking of doing a mindset shift but this right here, is deeper and the overall big picture. It's basically self-affirmation of who you want to be
Great visual representation of this concept. Also, your script was very clear. Keep up the great work.
Yes. Do a video on stories. I think that would be a very important one to dig deeper into. Stories are everything!! It's how you bridge conscious to the unconscious.
carl jung!!! make the unconscious conscious so the consious can inform the unconscious!
@@kevji Exactly!!
love the advice. I didnt put words to it but ive been doing this subconsciously for the past 5 yrs or so. 3 yrs ago at 27 i decided to get into real estate and for awhile i had a lot of self doubt. Not even so much about my abilities as it was about me deserving to make money and be successful. After many conversations in my head i realized I DO deserve to be happy especially if Im working hard for it and right then I had this internal identity shift where I was now a millionaire in the making. Didnt matter that i had 4 cents in my bank account. I was a broke millionaire. And thats how i work....I gotta reach that million because thats who i am and thats whats meant for me. Dw i intend to use most of it for charity and my mission in life is to build and sustain orphanages around the world. and i didnt let anyone know about this identity shift ofc, its just a feeling that motivates me to work.
(Wanted to delete this obnoxious sounding comment a few times while writing it but i know how valuable other peoples comments can be when they relate.)
Thanks for the tips man!
-30 yr old single mom in NY
This is so helpful right now at this juncture of my life. Thank you, Clark.
Whoa! 2 bedroom Seattle apartment for $700 a month? Man, that must have been back in the day.
A video on stories would be fire!
I think a video on our inner core stories would be so good. Because I’m not sure what mine are. I think I’m effectively shifting my identity, but parts of me are hanging on to the old
Wow you look so beautiful and so sweet
This is awesome! Also learning about chakras and your shadow self helps with your frequency and attraction. Love your vids!
Most times you have to go Through some relationship more like a learning process before you can hit the right relationship it a natural process we all have to come across❤
This was a 14min ad and I’ve no idea how to change my core beliefs
Loved the idea of doing the work in reverse. Identity, Stories, Beliefs, Emotions and Actions.
Thank you for the video Clark. The "Stories" video would be great.
LOVE YOUR CONTENT! Thank you so much.
This is the most interesting thing I’ve watched so far since subscribing to your channel can’t wait for a part2
Much love from Nigeria
@Clark-Kegley-. 😳😳😳alright ❤️❤️❤️
Done that already sir
I had absolutely no clue Clark was the drummer for Andrew W.K. 😂 this makes me like you 100x even more
Love Clark and his videos! He always speaks truth… I personally made an identity shift, after trying many times and failing, to go from step 5 to step 1.. wish I saw this video years ago. Once I made the identity shift, everything else in my life has just begun to fall into place. I’m getting the things I REALLY want and need rather than the things I thought I wanted.
One thing Clark said though, “our people’s bull shit detectors are so fined tuned this day and age..” unfortunately seems the opposite when you look at how many people fall for the lies of main stream media. Hopefully a shift in the hearts of mankind happens soon. Gotta take the power back. 🙏🏼
Keep pulling up those around you. Fight the good fight. Thank you for these videos!
People who watch mainstream media know their being lied to but they are scared of the truth. There like platos allegory of the cave
Brandon, congrats!!! Do you mind me asking what you did to make the identity shift? What led to it and how did you do it? I ask, because I also did the same years ago. At one point I was stuck in life for four years. Felt lost. I was angry life wasn't going my way and at one point I just got fed up with myself being a whiney baby. So, I made a decision to not be a negative angry dude. I made a decision to be positive and focus on what I can control.....and practice gratitude
And that one decision shifted my mindset
Hey whatsup Brandon, hope you're doing well bro, I'm currently in a fight with my identity...if you can please shine some light on this for me it would be greatly appreciated
Yes. Please do a video on stories. Thank you!
Changing lives my friend!
Love this explanation!!
Hello there
Hello lisa how are you doing, I'm John I'm originally from Puerto Rico but I live in Austin Texas, sorry for texting you here but I had no choice, I just want know you better if you don't mind
Good Morning lisa.Hope you had a lovely night rest?
duuude that’s why in this single moment of me trashing this sushi i was able to has such a massive shift. it was so spontaneous and passionate, maybe these are factors
I would love a video on stories!! 😊😊😊
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Practicing this technique for the past few years has completely changed me. It takes time but it totally works!
Clark!!! The numbers story! Math holding you back, I’m in that boat personally!! That’s why I never enrolled into college BECAUSE of the MATH! Well I’m here to say that will no longer be my story! I’m looking at college at 41 years old to change my story! My friend just told me today that Math may not be the same to me now, that I may see it differently and you just stated that in this video (your experience now with numbers)Wow! It’s a synchronization I cannot ignore! Thanks for sharing
Not only did I not realize you were/are a drummer (me too) but you were touring with Andrew W.K. Haha love it!
Changing my story
Ill make it simpler:
Step one.
Choose the identity you want.
You know what you want out of life.
You know what you like, what you consume, what you are good at, Who you look up to and wish to be like.
The catch is it must be realistic and truely part of you.
After step one 'choose an identity.'
Then Act how the person you made up acts like and you will slowly become them.
Daily goals of actions towards the man you wish to become.
This is what every successful person i respect has told me 🙏
Good luck 👍
I gave up all forms of alcohol 8months back after I took my holy vows ( I am a Hindu). I shifted my identity to a Monk. Never had any cravings after that. Left cold turkey after 10 years of heavy drinking.
I already feel like a billionaire.
The next identity I m gonna create is that of an athlete.
Our entire Perception of who we believe we can and cannot become boils down to the story we CHOOSE to identify with! When we learn to transcend the stories told us by our wounded sense of ego, our limiting beliefs can alchemize into expanding and inspiring beliefs. Our whole world boils down to how we can embody the person we KNOW that we can become through the story we choose to believe in! So epic to hear the timeliness of this message Clark, right as so many of us are expanding our true potential.
yeehaw
thanks for the beautiful articulation!
@@crystallinesurfclub7373 of course! Clark started the conversation!
Nicely said pal
@@psychedelicsalsa8520 jah!
You are the easiest man-crush I've seen in a while. Very impressive! From the way you present with personality, your impressive reading-habits, you have real wisdom and the right masculinity. The non-toxic kind. 👍
Can confirm. Its now "I get to go to the gym" no longer "I have to go to the gym". Keep up the great work brother!
I'm a new subscriber . Really enjoying your content..
What a weird coincidence that you happened to publish a video when I’ve been having this epiphany over the last 24 hours.. thanks for the video!
If a person lives to pick up women, then yes, they will need to exercise more to make it easier. Because there's some pretty heavy women out there!
Clark, i love this video, this message. It really spoke to me and yes, I'm sure we would all love a followup video discussing, more specifically, the blockages in the "stories" Moving from an Identity change, shifting our stories to break through to change and shifting our beliefs, emotions and actions. I'd love to join your identity shifting program when i'm able to, thanks Clark!
I would love to see a video on "stories"... because I struggle with a balance of ... ok.. maybe some of this story is valid? & not wanting to be gaslighted (by my own self & others)out of what I have actually been through.. if that makes sense.. because.. I feel like we all need to feel valid telling our stories but.. I do need to not identify too much with the crap that is the past. I hope it makes sense what I'm saying. LOVED this video!! THANK YOU!!
If I’m being honest I just wish my ex would come back to me. We were together for 4 years and she left me in September on a whim and hasn’t looked back since. I’ve been hurting for so long and to see how she acts when I talk to her hurts even more. She’s already detached from me so quickly it’s so hard to come in terms with.
Move on. She isn't the one, you won't get anywhere going down this path. The right girl is out there, but you'll never see her while you are staring at the girl who dumped you. Its pointless self inflicted mental abuse.
But if you could help me give up smoking on the other hand...
I just saw a video about this topic from this guy last night. Being held up on the relationship is only going to hold you back. Move on king and become an even better you❤️
It’s okay, keep ur head up and remember that the right person is out there and is looking and searching for you too! Not just the other way around, you’ve got this
If you’re SURE you want her back, search manifesting an ex back on RUclips. It works. Try it. Best of luck to you! Wishing you peace and comfort. I know it hurts.
Thank you brothers ❤️
Remember, the concept of identity shifting may resonate differently with everyone, and people may have diverse opinions and experiences with it. It's essential to approach the topic with an open mind and respect the perspectives of others.
I changed my identity and moved closer to my ideal self by changing my beliefs about myself first. In doing so, you can become the person you want to be and live a better life. Your thoughts, words and deeds reflect your true identity!
Create a unique identity!
I'm a guy delaing with very low slef esteem and social anxiety can u help me get over ? How to create a different identity ?
Brilliant guy. Thanks!
You often speak from the viewpoint of male viewers. But there are quite a few women watching. If you’re not interested in female views and this is just your concept, then fine. But otherwise it would be nice to address both or neutral so that anyone can watch
Love this video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Puffing vape while someone is taking a terrible dump in the next cubicle, that cracked me up😂
Reminded me of atomic habits love itttt
To sum up this video. Be the person you want to attract.
I think the STORIES at level 4 , you can call them MEMORIES(good/bad),
This is a weird observation but I noticed this with profile pictures. Whenever i out some generic profile picture, my comments become very generic. But whenever i put a cursed profile picture, like my Kirby one, my comments start to become more sarcastic and cursed. It's really interesting, it's like my online identity is tied to my pfp.
Make a video on stories Clark
Ok I actually really love this RUclips channel, some of these videos have been actually the best advice I’ve seen. I find it funny tho that the relationship examples are clearly directed towards the target population of incels that watch this 😂
Thank you Sir.❤️
I think I speak for everyone. . . please do a video on Stories.
I think that the biggest takeaway from this video is that we're all one big shit away from an identity shift.
PLEASE do a video on core stories! I suspect I’ve got enough of ‘em to fill a library. Help me dig them up, I’m begging you!
Love it 🔥Brian Tracey says it’s important to have affirmations like it already happened. I am…(insert what you want). But that the identity has to change from the inside. It you want to level up, you have to level up from the inside - and on all levels. Now listening to you - this is my wakeupcall! Will check out more of your stuff. Big thanks! ❤
Most times you have to go Through some relationship more like a learning process before you can hit the right relationship it a natural process we all have to come across❤
It's amazing how much truth this video holds!
This is what i was looking for.
Our Core Stories are our subconscious beliefs, they are what affect our day to day life.
Thank you Clark Kegley
Thank you Clark, it all does start from the inside out. My workout routine is finally showing results, and yes, I left my past person to continue growing and evolving into my 10.
As Marisa peer said: the strongest force in all of us is that we must act in a way that matches how we define ourselves..
If you want to be great .. act great adopt greater values and thoughts and keep repeating 😊 and if you want to be a joker 🃏 act like a joker,
How to find out about your thoughts?? Simply you’ve got to start thinking of what you have been thinking over and over then you will realise what kind of thoughts you have and start changing them because your thoughts are yours if they’re not serving you change them…. It is powerful
Clark I just love your approach to life and the way you explain the theory in your videos is so cultivating. I'm learning so much from you and I'm so happy to have found you. I'm wishing you so much luck, love, blessings and all the abundance in the world ♥️
Much love,
Melissa Karagöz from The Netherlands
I am totally with you on your points but your pickup artist analogies are really weird
Dr. Maxwell Maltz and trading psychology by Mark Douglas pioneered these concepts and are well worth reading.
Identity is a powerful autopilot.
Guys - don’t learn lines. Girls just want to be listened to and to connect. If you aren’t interested in what she’s saying, she’s the wrong girl.
My son (23 yrs old) has a rule - anytime a girl talks to him he asks her two questions about what she has told him. Girls adore him. And this method gives him time to decide if she’s his type.
Hello there
Good Morning liz.Hope you had a lovely night rest?
Hello liz how are you doing, I'm John I'm originally from Puerto Rico but I live in Austin Texas, sorry for texting you here but I had no choice, I just want know you better if you don't mind
Can''t, believe you did this one Clark, glad you took this away from you
Hi Clark! I love your videos. Thank you for motivating me to start my own RUclips account.
I just subscribed.👍🏽I like your content. Keep commenting, that’s how a lot of people find new channels.
Go and listen to "Transforming your life from the inside out" podcast by Jim Fortin and thank me later!
Clark, I’ve been following you for years and I must say this is by far one of your best videos :) leveled up in every single aspect. Love watching your journey and how you make your stories so relevant to the people you are coaching. Well done 🎉
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Hello Beautiful, How are you doing?
You sure have a nice smile 😊
Yo Clark, love your videos! I dont know if you'll respond to this but, where do you get your rings? I love them
I’ve been doing the new version of identity change without realizing it this is cool
Did you ever do the video on stories? I'd like to see it. I'm an aspiring author, coach, and transformational tarot reader and stories and how they influence human behavior is a really important topic to me. Thanks Clark!
Hello Beautiful, How are you doing?
You sure have a nice smile 😊
Hello there wow you look so beautiful
I thought I was the only one noticing the amount of Dating advice on TikTok. Twitter also have its own preference topics, writing,creation,copywriting is the Twitter main vibe
Omg u gotta find the guy who took that shit. Imagine his bragging rights when he’s able to tell his friends he took a shit so bad that he was able to make a man quit vaping
6:30 this was the part of the video where i was like :O
Thank you for your videos! And yes, that would be so great if you'd make a video about inner stories :') I love your manner of speaking and explaining things
Self-improvement is about changing behavior. Conscious self-evolution is about re-evaluating perception. Real change comes from perception.
Great video all the content nowadays sucks and doesn’t help people. This HELPS
"Pick-up programs" are holding up a false self. Emotionally healthy women don't fall for these tactics.
Hello there
Another fab video. 👌 Definitely going to reach out for some coaching in the new year :) 😀
Hey 👋
Hello,you look amazing
You say to find the origin of our hurt inside (shadow work ) i did all that and thought I solved it went into a state of pure love and oneness ... But gradually i started loosing that 22.0 version of me and seeped back in the 21.0 version
Now my question is did I miss something in my shadow work cause I slipped back into a mix of the 22.0 i Wonna be and the 21.0 i was 🤔
@@psykoaddict how did you do it?
@@abhijeetaanand2334 well it started with an LSD trip that made me realize what was holding me back all these years and what caused my self-destruction ...
@@psykoaddict what is lsd trip?
@@abhijeetaanand2334 well sir it is a drug you take and it takes you on a trip can go in 10000000 different directions... So I wouldn't recommend it if your not in the right frequencies /state of mind
It makes you hallucinate
❤❤Hello ! Please make video on "Stories" that you mentioned.
It's done. I will change this. This is my commitment to the things I desire. Routine. I no longer smoke. I write music and scripts. And I read. And meditate. I don't want to ever loop again. I'm committed to becoming a 10 and being consistent. I commit myself to becoming the person I was before I said I got sick. I want to love again and I believe I can heal. I will find love again and I will be successful.