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Thank you for this 🥹🙏🏼💛

Needed to hear this today 🥹. Thank you Jillian. 🙏🏼

i'm re-watching the video to genuinely remember that kind people exists.

That’s for sure That’s why doing the simple process of a fact finding facing moral inventory of ourselves we can see how our instincts have run our lives then we end up mainly seeing how much fear we have after all this work, though we find out that any life run on self will and instincts can hardly be a success This has been written about since the 20s and the 30s, but it seems like there’s too much information out there to distract us. I myself was very very confused people that are truly struggling have not got the capacity to listen to all this. They need simple solutions to see how, our instincts have destroyed us. You have to be ready to abandon yourself with this process, but you might have to exhaust yourself some more because most people recover their selves and their soundness of mind at the speed of pain.

Thank you Jillian. You are beautiful

Yes! This!

Awesome conversation Jillian thank you!

So true ❤

Fuckin well said

Thank you for this reminder.I was the one who chose to walk away first 🥲and your words cheered me up just now!❤

I'm scared of both finding this and being this..

Getting a relationship sounds incredibly complicated... I don't think I'll ever develop myself well enough to be able to get a good one :/ Or find someone who's in the same good place!

Thank you

Thank you ❤

Love it! Any change, any transformation, any work starts with YOU. You're in control of how you move through the world and operate in relationships.

Hello from New Zealand. Just had a chance to watch this now. :)

Love this wise words

YES, I am Agreed with you Mrs. Jillian. ❤❤❤🙏🏼💯🌈💫

Wow, you just shared everything that I'd wished I'd know years ago. I didn't know what I didn't know. Now I do.

always inspiring.

My ex went ghost on me about 3 months ago. I’m still not over it even though I’m over her.

Where is a link to this course that’s has been mentioned

You are such an inspiration to me. Thank you for all the knowledge and wisdom that you share with us. I'm in a much better place in my healing journey thanks to your pearls of wisdom 💖✨✨

So excited to see you over RUclips Jillian❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

This was such a great talk! Higher concious approach to dating and life in general is so important.

Ty sooo Much!! ❤❤all your content!!🤗🤗

Hi, Jillian, thank you for such a profound and insightful episode. There was a lot of takeaway. I appreciate your focus on self-awareness and honesty about our strengths, weaknesses, and insecurities, which are undoubtedly crucial. I wonder if there's an opportunity to delve deeper into the vulnerability behind @pomomama’s question, “How to communicate that you like communication, and you like it early and often without sounding like a control freak or needy?” @pomomama seems to be aware of his/her/their own insecurity, perhaps stemming from a need to control the outcome of his/her/their words and a fear of appearing needy. While communicating preferences for directness and consistency is certainly valuable, what do you think about encouraging more open dialogue about his/her/their insecurities and needs to foster even more authentic connections? If I were @pomomama, I would say, "I feel safe when I am reassured. I like to feel connected by you and frequent and a steady flow of communication between us would be great if we can engage in it. What do you think?" By honestly expressing our feelings and needs, we can gauge whether someone is capable of empathizing and validating our feelings and having the desire to fulfill our needs. And those who can't will show their inability and reluctance to do so. IMHO, this openness allows for mutual honesty and understanding between ourselves so that we choose partners who are compatible with us.

Farmington, Utah

Helloooo!!🤗

When you refer to who you are, are you referring to core values, strengths, weaknesses???

Higher consciousness dating

This was such a refreshing message. Thank you.🌹 How true. Totally agree. Appreciate you giving the details as to "how" to have these uncomfortable conversations. Bless you.♥️

nice video

❤️☀️NAILED IT !!!! You have a great mind ! Have an awesome week !

Thank you for this video. I listen to it every time I doubt my decision to leave my ex who was bread-crumbing me. Protect your heart!

Thank you🌹…..this goes for all relationships….protect ♥️and boundaries

Learning from two failed relationships, I've come to understand this crucial lesson: the phenomenon of breadcrumbing doesn't magically disappear even after half a decade of commitment. In my sixth year of serious relationship, I found myself making excuses for my partner's behavior, rationalizing his neglect as we had already woven our lives and dreams together. But while I was pouring my heart into our relationship, he seemed more devoted to his basil plants than to nurturing our connection. Blinded by love, I tolerated the crumbs of attention he sparingly offered. Eventually, he ended our relationship, citing a lack of love. Looking back, I realize I should have had the courage to walk away a year earlier.

Let it go. Let go of controlling someone. Be comfortable with yourself.

Yes, you must start talking about conflict resolution as part of your screening criteria. If they can’t or won’t, they are not a fit. And you run the risk of the person leaving as soon as it happens and it will happen.

Ok so this is all me to a tee. Or what if I’ve slept with a friend who said it wouldn’t ruin the friendship and we haven’t been able to connect since. I asked him to meet and chat a few times and each time he said he was down but they doesn’t give a time or says he’s busy all week and is clearly avoiding me.

Just going through this now, had a moment of second guessing myself and this popped up ❤❤❤❤

Does true love exist?

That was me. I sabotaged a relationship. But I started therapy and made it my #1 responsibility to become a better partner.

I sabotaged a relationship. But she made me look in the mirror and I’m doing the work.

I love this bits of unconfortable facts.

It’s good to see you focus on building relationships for a change. You seem to focus a lot on loving yourself which is good and break ups. Is there content on your channel folks who already love themselves but want to learn to love their partners better and vice versa? Are you projecting your own brokenness onto your audience ? Many of us are in good relationships and want to improve

I notice on your Instagram channel and threads you seem to be hyper focusing on telling people to walk away from relationships. While that’s important for some I wonder if you consider the ramifications of being imbalanced with that content. When someone is sorting out their stuff and are vulnerable your content could send them over the edge to end a relationship that was experiencing minor problems. Maybe you should consider being more responsible. Leaving a relationship isn’t fixing a person’s issue. I agree when it comes to physical abuse or extreme emotional abuse but your threads channel is looking like the trash all relationships channel. Are you even married?

Currently experiencing this right now. Choosing myself doesn't come easy to me but I will do it. This time I will do it.

I needed this, thank you so mucho. Keep uploading videos please

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