The Black Cat and Golden Retriever Theory: Truth vs. BS

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @ambergrace2137
    @ambergrace2137 6 часов назад +7

    "Chasing leads to unfulfillment" - Said it perfectly.

  • @kennethshelton5537
    @kennethshelton5537 9 часов назад +17

    This is so important. People approach intimacy and love through a game of strategy instead of authenticity to avoid getting hurt. I’m glad you spoke on this ❤.

  • @IAMTRASHMAN267
    @IAMTRASHMAN267 9 часов назад +11

    This is just sounds like an anxious/avoidant dynamic

  • @TheDWZemke
    @TheDWZemke 6 часов назад +3

    Omg been happly married over 30 years. After listening i am amazed we made it with just being dedicated and loyal to each other, while understanding that we both need to be inquisitive about life and each other.

  • @jaylanmyers2576
    @jaylanmyers2576 4 часа назад +1

    God.... You make this make so much sense. Everything you say is absolutely understandable from my human experience and I love that I can take your teachings and apply them to my own life where it is needed. Definitely going to be watching more of your videos...... Just wow..... Wow...

  • @ArtemisDeer444
    @ArtemisDeer444 4 часа назад

    This story is identical to mine apart from neither of us are in another relationship..... The novelty, uncertainty and adventure is highly addictive for someone like me with ADHD. He's unavailable because he isn't looking for a relationship, and I'm going against my values because to me I'm engaging in low value behavior when I know I deserve more. But everytime I walk away I end up going back because the sx is amazing, and I've never experienced it before to this degree. The struggle is real... Thank you for your clarity and insights ✨🙏🏻

  • @assianeu197
    @assianeu197 10 часов назад

    I love how you hold her accountable and called her out on the bs while staying real compassionate and help her understand herself better. You're great at this

  • @ameliaetienne8521
    @ameliaetienne8521 11 часов назад +3

    Sis you went off

  • @wadeverweire7810
    @wadeverweire7810 11 часов назад

    🌈☀️ Great video !
    I like your thoughts and advice for the person's question at the end of your video .
    Addressing the elephant in the room for sure .
    I wouldn't change a word of your advice, I would have advised them the same way.
    I definitely continue to share your channel and videos with people !
    Have a great day Jillian ❤ ☀️

  • @ashleigh9659
    @ashleigh9659 10 часов назад +2

    If shes in close proximity to him that means shes also seeing his partner and their child regularly...kevin samuels rolling over in his grave hearing the mistress say shes high value...the market apparently disagrees if youre willing to shove yourself into whatever scraps of time this man is willing to give ...that you know is willing to step out on a 5 year relationship where a child is involved. Its all very much the opposite of high value
    ....and a distraction to keep neither of you in a healthy relationship where something might be expected. Block. Look away. Walk the long way. Shop near work.

    • @Novemberrain341
      @Novemberrain341 5 часов назад

      Yep!!! It’s women like her….But remember Karma will always come back to her one day when she least expects it.

  • @ShadeCandle
    @ShadeCandle 4 часа назад

    As a man with the personality of a cat, I'm not sure what to think.

  • @rajmathew6220
    @rajmathew6220 8 часов назад

    I love her style

  • @HustleHabit
    @HustleHabit 4 часа назад

    Good observation. The woman from the letter is actually getting what she deserves. When she is a person of higher character, she naturally won't participate in similar situations. She's right where she needs to be, to learn the lesson she needs to learn.