Thank you for sharing this episode, Jillian and Sabrina There were so many takeaways and advice that I resonate with, one in particular is that when we tend to create a narrative in our mind that our partner's behavior or lack thereof is all because of what we said, didn't say, or how we acted or didn't act. Instead, shift the focus from us to what they may be going through that may have resulted in their behavior or lack thereof. I admire Sabrina's courage and vulnerability in assertively and empathetically communicating her need for connection to Ryan, her partner, while acknowledging and validating his need for space. It's wonderful that Ryan also validated Sabrina's need for connection and expressed his empathy for how his lack of communication of his need for space made her feel unseen and appreciated her authenticity as an opportunity for them to honor both of their needs. Finally, our partner is not our enemy or a villain. A couple with a cooperative mindset is a team that works to nurture the relationship and grow together, rather than trying to bend over backwards to meet their partner's needs at the expense of their own, or trying to force their partner to meet all of their needs.
I'm ready to let go of the emotionally unavailable - I'm going to remind myself this every time onwards. 🙏🏼 This podcast is truly lifesaving 🤍🙏🏼. The timing ✨️. Thank you Jillian. Thank you Sabrina. 🤍🤍
Love this episode so much! I've been a constant listener of your podcast for over a year now and you've been a huge help! Thank you very much for all the work that you do to share your wisdom to your listeners and the world ❤
Ill add some thoughts when it comes to the "i am to much" Ive been in a situation where another person was too much for me but that to much was, that we both had different attachment speeds. I am someone who needs to.warm up to people. A date for me is an opportunity to get to know someone and see how i feel about them. You could say before the date i am at 0% attachment and after a date i am at a 10 or 20% and the more i get to know then the more attraction i build and the more i start to invest. But then the other person who dates you after the goes from 0 too 100% Where they want to text you all the time, spend a lot of time, gives a lot of attention, affection maybe even gives you lots of presents. This jump from 0 too 100 can be overwhelming for someone who isnt at that point and for me it sometimes felt like the other person is trying to buy my love by giving me so much and it puts pressure on me to escalate faster than i am comfortable yet
Thank you for sharing this episode, Jillian and Sabrina There were so many takeaways and advice that I resonate with, one in particular is that when we tend to create a narrative in our mind that our partner's behavior or lack thereof is all because of what we said, didn't say, or how we acted or didn't act. Instead, shift the focus from us to what they may be going through that may have resulted in their behavior or lack thereof. I admire Sabrina's courage and vulnerability in assertively and empathetically communicating her need for connection to Ryan, her partner, while acknowledging and validating his need for space. It's wonderful that Ryan also validated Sabrina's need for connection and expressed his empathy for how his lack of communication of his need for space made her feel unseen and appreciated her authenticity as an opportunity for them to honor both of their needs. Finally, our partner is not our enemy or a villain. A couple with a cooperative mindset is a team that works to nurture the relationship and grow together, rather than trying to bend over backwards to meet their partner's needs at the expense of their own, or trying to force their partner to meet all of their needs.
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I'm ready to let go of the emotionally unavailable - I'm going to remind myself this every time onwards. 🙏🏼 This podcast is truly lifesaving 🤍🙏🏼. The timing ✨️. Thank you Jillian. Thank you Sabrina. 🤍🤍
Love this episode so much! I've been a constant listener of your podcast for over a year now and you've been a huge help! Thank you very much for all the work that you do to share your wisdom to your listeners and the world ❤
That means the world to me! Thank you so much for listening.
I just discovered you as well and I am so thankful you are sharing so much knowledge with us!
I hope to hear more podcasts from both of you again. So insightful convo 🤍
God bless you for your honesty and openness, it helps to connect with inner peace. Thank you both for your great work👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Oh Jillian, I’d love to hear more about the differences between a trigger and emotionally unavailable. Maybe even a a short video on that 🙏🏼
Such a good listen ❤
37 minute mark. Really lovely and real.
2 mins in and I already love this. There is nothing wrong with me I just need to heal some things in me. ❤️
Thank you 💞
Thank you
You both say things i agree with and made me feel understood
You are so competent and diwn to earth
Thank you ❤
53:21 wow ❤
Ill add some thoughts when it comes to the "i am to much"
Ive been in a situation where another person was too much for me but that to much was, that we both had different attachment speeds. I am someone who needs to.warm up to people. A date for me is an opportunity to get to know someone and see how i feel about them. You could say before the date i am at 0% attachment and after a date i am at a 10 or 20% and the more i get to know then the more attraction i build and the more i start to invest. But then the other person who dates you after the goes from 0 too 100%
Where they want to text you all the time, spend a lot of time, gives a lot of attention, affection maybe even gives you lots of presents. This jump from 0 too 100 can be overwhelming for someone who isnt at that point and for me it sometimes felt like the other person is trying to buy my love by giving me so much and it puts pressure on me to escalate faster than i am comfortable yet
Here
Hahah you don’t have to do charity work
Oh how I wish I heard that in my early twenties 😬🥴