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The Spitzer Study of Ex-Gays: Flaws and Abuse
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A study of gay conversion therapy released by Dr. Robert Spitzer in 2001 sent shockwaves through the American media despite serious methodological concerns. This video examines those concerns and goes on to examine how the study has been abused by anti-gay political organizations such as James Dobson's Focus on the Family to promote anti-gay public policy.
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Видео

Greg Quinlan Alleges Threats by Wayne Besen
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On October 7, 2011 Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays (PFOX) President Greg Quinlan was interviewed on News-Plus with Mark Segraves. (WDCW-TV). Truth Wins Out and Wayne Besen have filed a law suit against PFOX for the accusations in the clip above. Quinlan also works for the New Jersey Family Policy Counsel, njfpc.org/ goo.gl/Imt7Q (Fair Use clip 17 U.S.C. § 107)
Scott Lively Fanning Anti-Gay Flames in Uganda
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Scott Lively describing his scale of how homosexuals are skewed from the norm either to the effeminate or the masculine. He mentions Nazis and claims they were "super macho" homosexuals. Also, this is where he mentions Rwanda as an example of the kind of evil gays are prone to commit. Note that he interjects some connection to historical societal ills from African history. This is clearly meant...
Martin Ssempa with a Twist
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Uganda's anti-homosexuality bill proponent Martin Ssempa shown in the absurd light he deserves. (Fair Use clip 17 U.S.C. § 107)
Scott Lively misleading Ugandans on sexual orientation
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Scott Lively confusing sexual orientation with paraphilias, and misquoting from the DSM-IV. Homosexuality Seminar in Kampala, Uganda.
Scott Lively complaining about the SPLC
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Scott Lively does not like being one of 11 (currently) anti-gay hate groups as tracked by the venerable Southern Poverty Law Center. His depiction here greatly mischaracterizes their work. The SPLC shows considerable restraint when listing such groups, with only 11 anti-gay hate groups as compared to over 900 racist ones. If they did as Lively suggests, there could well be thousands of the former.
Scott Lively on causation in Uganda
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Scott Lively explaining his view of causation to Ugandans in third day of Homosexuality Seminar in Kampala, Uganda.
Scott Lively recommends NARTH in Uganda
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Scott Lively recommending NARTH to Ugandans in third day of Homosexuality Seminar in Kampala, Uganda. It should be noted that references to Lively have been removed by NARTH from their website.
Matthew Manning and Alan Chambers on Joni
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Matthew Manning and Alan Chambers appear on Joni in 2007. (Fair Use clip 17 U.S.C. § 107)
Stephen Langa Teaching from Richard Cohen's Book
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Stephen Langa of the Family Life Network in Uganda teaches from Richard Cohen's book, Coming Out Straight. Read post: tinyurl.com/cztz89
Michael Swift Satire Used as Fact
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Stephen Langa speaks to a group of about 60 in Kampala, Uganda. He presents the Michael Swift satire from 1987 as fact, and claims that "homosexuals are after your children." Read post: tinyurl.com/dj47wj
History of the Modern Gay Movement
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Stephen Langa speaks to a group of about 60 in Kampala, Uganda. He uses the holocaust revisionist book "The Pink Swastika" by Scott Lively as a basis for his information here. Read post: tinyurl.com/dj47wj
Alan Chambers Supporting Prop 8
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Exodus President Alan Chambers speaking on simulcast to help pass California's Proposition 8. Personal historical portion not included. (Fair Use clip 17 U.S.C. § 107)
Greg Quinlan Misquoting Francis Collins
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Ex-Gay Activist Greg Quinlan attributes a false quote to noted geneticist Francis Collins.
Ex-Gay Guru Richard Cohen
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Ex-gay guru Richard Cohen demonstrating his reparative therapy techniques on CNN, May 2006. (Fair Use clip 17 U.S.C. § 107)
Joanne Highley
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Joanne Highley
Jayson Graves on Conversion Therapy
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Jayson Graves on Conversion Therapy
Charlene Cothran (clip #2)
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Charlene Cothran (clip #2)
Charlene Cothran (clip #1)
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Charlene Cothran (clip #1)
Dr. Nicolosi at "Love Won Out" Phoenix
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Dr. Nicolosi at "Love Won Out" Phoenix
Philadelphia Eleven (clip #1)
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Philadelphia Eleven (clip #1)
Philadephia Eleven (clip #2)
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Philadephia Eleven (clip #2)
Dr. Joseph Nicolosi in a huff
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Dr. Joseph Nicolosi in a huff
Exgay Alan Chambers On Ted Haggard's Heterosexual Conversion
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Exgay Alan Chambers On Ted Haggard's Heterosexual Conversion
Phoenix Gay Press Conf. Opposing "Love Won Out" - PART 2
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Phoenix Gay Press Conf. Opposing "Love Won Out" - PART 2
Phoenix Gay Press Conf. Opposing "Love Won Out" - PART 1
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Phoenix Gay Press Conf. Opposing "Love Won Out" - PART 1
The Spitzer Study of Ex-Gays: Flaws and Abuse - PART 1
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The Spitzer Study of Ex-Gays: Flaws and Abuse - PART 1
The Spitzer Study of Ex-Gays: Flaws and Abuse - PART 2
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The Spitzer Study of Ex-Gays: Flaws and Abuse - PART 2
Ex-Gay Therapy Doesn't Work, I Tried It
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Ex-Gay Therapy Doesn't Work, I Tried It
Does Exodus sanction forcing kids into exgay programs?
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Does Exodus sanction forcing kids into exgay programs?

Комментарии

  • @nicholasterranova8084
    @nicholasterranova8084 9 месяцев назад

    I actually went to this lady for counselling many years ago. How could I have been so deceived ???

    • @exgaywatch
      @exgaywatch 8 месяцев назад

      She may have presented as a normal counselor at first. Did she seem off when you went to her?

  • @captainlorres7001
    @captainlorres7001 Год назад

    it worked I am healed

  • @stanbily9416
    @stanbily9416 Год назад

    Weirdo

  • @dougfredricks2017
    @dougfredricks2017 Год назад

    Nuttier than a salad bowl of Chex Party 🎉 Mix

  • @flamingrobin5957
    @flamingrobin5957 Год назад

    notice THE EXGAY WATCH cut the whole interview out of its context to frame it negatively.

    • @exgaywatch
      @exgaywatch Год назад

      In what context do you see any of that making sense? Copyright prevents us from legally showing more than a fraction of the original, so we showed the parts where he demonstrates what he does.

  • @hustler212
    @hustler212 2 года назад

    Confirmed... He is gay... I am here from stephen fry documentary

  • @TheMorado777
    @TheMorado777 4 года назад

    ruclips.net/video/U6Dxtf_xZDI/видео.html EX GAY SHARING 5 PROVEN FACTS WHICH MAKES US GAY

  • @gtrot6649
    @gtrot6649 4 года назад

    Saw you on the Steven fry documentary about your transition from gay to straight .. I then googled your name and found this !

    • @TheMorado777
      @TheMorado777 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/U6Dxtf_xZDI/видео.html EX GAY SHARING 5 PROVEN FACTS WHICH MAKES US GAY

  • @eroceanos
    @eroceanos 4 года назад

    Yeah, well, here’s the thing: some people did change and are happy about it… so it can be effective and healing for some people. That is just the truth also. I am baffled by this topic, and unable to form an opinion, due to the variety of experiences by people…

    • @crossroads670
      @crossroads670 3 года назад

      The available studies which measured penile arousal response show that none of them changed. Why rely on peoples claims?

    • @eroceanos
      @eroceanos 3 года назад

      Because I rely on people, when they say they are very happy with their choice. It’s not up to me to judge. Honestly, for one thing, penile arousal is such a silly measurement... I mean... running after your dick is usually not the best way to achieve true happiness. That would be the same case against marriage... or for the most perverse of sexual things... or even mass murderers who get penile arousal.... and I am not saying that it is a crime in sé... I am all for gay people being gay when they are truely completely happy with that! But there’s more to life than penile arousal. For an example, the wish to have natural kids and be a mom and dad, can also be a very strong biopsychological desire... and people can be really happy that they maybe even sacrificed some penile arousal, when they look in their kid’s eyes.... that’s the kind of testimonies I have heard... and than I say: well, if you’re happy, I think it’s awsome!

    • @buttermepancake3613
      @buttermepancake3613 6 месяцев назад

      No. You if you are gay you are gay. Being brainwashed to believe who you are is wrong, and being made to feel deep shame for something you have no control over is abusive, not healing.

  • @biruss
    @biruss 4 года назад

    She needs a holy ghost enema!

  • @PeterShieldsukcatstripey
    @PeterShieldsukcatstripey 5 лет назад

    Try Dr Nicolosi. Worked for me.

  • @mikemudimba5531
    @mikemudimba5531 5 лет назад

    I swear those reactions would be scripted if the country wasnt Uganda

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor 4 года назад

      ANYWHERE IN Africa the reactions would be like this. The whole of Africa doesn't tolerate gays. Trust me I've worked with a few africans over the last couple years.

  • @sapienology9606
    @sapienology9606 5 лет назад

    Love is a continual belief in the variable choice as Hope (not its result) for Happiness as inner peace. Selflessly, (Exclusive E.O) www.amazon.com/-/e/B07H133CL5

  • @danielj.nickolas
    @danielj.nickolas 5 лет назад

    NARTH, when will you stop forcing ideology, and start embracing the Bible?

  • @edwardmiessner6502
    @edwardmiessner6502 5 лет назад

    Powerful testimony!

  • @caldelt
    @caldelt 5 лет назад

    Googled you after seeing the Stephen Fry video. Glad to see you aren't still living a lie.

    • @TheMorado777
      @TheMorado777 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/U6Dxtf_xZDI/видео.html EX GAY SHARING 5 PROVEN FACTS WHICH MAKES US GAY

    • @mrsweetscottyd7890
      @mrsweetscottyd7890 3 года назад

      Me too!

  • @admortor
    @admortor 5 лет назад

    This video made me cry. It represents a lot of my feelings.

    • @TheMorado777
      @TheMorado777 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/U6Dxtf_xZDI/видео.html EX GAY SHARING 5 PROVEN FACTS WHICH MAKES US GAY

  • @Tyrik73
    @Tyrik73 6 лет назад

    It doesnt feel like satire

  • @davidbosch5079
    @davidbosch5079 6 лет назад

    That's so horrible. I can't believe my ears. ARE THE HOMOSEXUALS THE NEW JEWS- The people guilty of everything!!!

  • @texasproud1721
    @texasproud1721 6 лет назад

    I know my comment is long, But our time is short…. The days are coming faster and faster as evil increases richly day by day..The time for sitting back as Christians and saying "We still have a long time till the judgment." is OVER. The Lord is almost at the door. … Remember Matthew 25: 1-13 and story of the young virgins waiting on the bridegroom. At that time the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom. 2 Five of them were foolish and five were wise. 3 The foolish ones took their lamps but did not take any oil with them. 4 The wise ones, however, took oil in jars along with their lamps. 5 The bridegroom was a long time in coming, and they all became drowsy and fell asleep. 6 “At midnight the cry rang out: ‘Here’s the bridegroom! Come out to meet him!’ 7 “Then all the virgins woke up and trimmed their lamps. 8 The foolish ones said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil; our lamps are going out.’ 9 “‘No,’ they replied, ‘there may not be enough for both us and you. Instead, go to those who sell oil and buy some for yourselves.’ 10 “But while they were on their way to buy the oil, the bridegroom arrived. The virgins who were ready went in with him to the wedding banquet. And the door was shut. 11 “Later the others also came. ‘Lord, Lord,’ they said, ‘open the door for us!’ 12 “But he replied, ‘Truly I tell you, I don’t know you.’ 13 “Therefore keep watch, because you do not know the day or the hour. An evil deception will befall the Earth and will fool the very elect (it if were possible)….I used to say It's coming! The Great Deception!!! BUT IT’S HERE…CERN is in full gear and demonic possession, the spread of satanic belief, dehumanization, gender fluidity.. EVERYTHING that purports itself to be the opposite of what God intended is becoming widely accepted around the world. People the Lord is getting ready to gather his sheep! The New World Order plan is about to be placed into action. The Antichrist spirit is alive and well in the world! ISLAM is growing and Christians are being shut down. Their plan is for all religions to eventually come to together as ONE replacing JESUS CHRIST with worship to Lucifer or Satan (Antichrist) THEIR MESSIAH/MAHDI/WATCHER/STARMAN/ promising peace if we deny JESUS CHRIST and accept their God. Their plan to eradicate those who do not fall in line with their Order. Transhumanism is coming! Accepting robotic implants into our bodies willingly! They will make it seem really cool by telling us how cool it will be to have a chip or implant in our bodies that will hold all of our personal information; be able to start our cars; open our doors; buy groceries; check into hotels… basically use for our everyday transactions both physically and financially.. who knows. Maybe even mentally. They will be able to control our DNA…… Think I’m nuts??? Just look at all the movies right now! How many involve DNA splicing and/or human/robot themes???? How many are about alien life???? The way to make society accept a new way of thinking/or life is to slowly introduce it to them through tv, film, advertising… Do some research….Figure it out yourself…. WE ARE IN THE LAST DAYS Matthew 24: 36-38 - “No one knows about that day or hour, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father. 37As it was in the days of Noah, so will it be at the coming of the Son of Man. 38For in the days before the flood, people were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, up to the day Noah entered the ark.…” Look around folks…… EVERYTHING that is going on NOW is EXACTLY THE SAME as it was in the days of Noah before he boarded the ark. We are marching on like sheeple to the slaughter of the New World Order. Just blindly following our government and the world; not asking questions relying on our cellphones, our iPods, our reality TV, our sports teams… Every cool little “distraction” from the WORD of GOD. The music of this world is luring our youth into the realm of demonology through the use of BINAURAL BEATS and BACK MASKING on everything we buy! The music industry is extremely satanic. According to John Todd, a former music executive, and practicing ex-satanist in the 1970’s, the music industry takes the master of an album to a satanic high priest who then, along with a coven of witches, pray demons into the master. These demons are told to follow every tape, album, music download and take over its listeners! If you don’t believe me then RUclips John Todd and listen to his tapes.. (He was killed for exposing the truth)…..WAKE UP PEOPLE.. Satan is also using party drugs such as ecstasy (X, E, Mollies), Ketamine (K), and other mood-enhancing drugs to alter the minds of our youth. The mixture of these drugs at electronic dance parties such as TOMORROWLAND and other big dance events where a DJ plays his “mix” of music of electronic and trance which alters the mind and promotes an “ethereal” experience resulting in forbidden sex and the acceptance of a lifestyle that does nothing but cause the user to want more and to “party all the time.” I KNOW… I went to these parties all over the world and immersed myself in the designer drug culture.. The bible even warns about the use of pharmacaea (I know I’m spelling it wrong) but the bible even states to beware of drug usage as it leads to satanic control You can mock me all you want.... God promised that there would be people who would mock him in the last days.... 2 Peter 3: " Above all, you must understand that in the last days scoffers will come, scoffing and following their own evil desires. They will say, “Where is this ‘coming’ he promised? Ever since our ancestors died, everything goes on as it has since the beginning of creation.” 5 But they deliberately forget that long ago by God’s word the heavens came into being and the earth was formed out of water and by water. 6 By these waters also the world of that time was deluged and destroyed. 7 By the same word the present heavens and earth are reserved for fire, being kept for the day of judgment and destruction of the ungodly. 8 But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day. 9 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. 10 But the day of the Lord will come like a thief. The heavens will disappear with a roar; the elements will be destroyed by fire, and the earth and everything done in it will be laid bare.[a] 11 Since everything will be destroyed in this way, what kind of people ought you to be? You ought to live holy and godly lives 12 as you look forward to the day of God and speed its coming.[b] That day will bring about the destruction of the heavens by fire, and the elements will melt in the heat. 13 But in keeping with his promise we are looking forward to a new heaven and a new earth, where righteousness dwells. We are relying on EVERYTHING OTHER than the one who craves relationship with us. God created you to know him personally. Psalm 139:13-14 "You created every part of me and put me together in my mother's womb." John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son so that whosoever would believe in him would not perish but have everlasting life." Jesus Christ is God's only solution for our Sin.. For the wages of sin is death. He died in our place Romans 5:8 "But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while were till yet sinners." He rose from the dead: 1 Corinthians 15: 3-6 "Christ died for our sins.. he was buried, and he was raised from the dead on the third day...He was seen by Peter and then by the twelve apostles.. After that he was seen by more than five hundred" Through Jesus alone we can know God personally and experience God's love. HE IS THE ONLY WAY TO GOD... John 4: 6 "Jesus said to them, ' I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." We must believe in and receive Christ. John 1:12 "to all who received him, he gave the right to become children of God. All they had to do was to trust and believe in Jesus to be saved." We receive Christ by FAITH God promised eternal life to all who receive Christ 1 John 5: 12-13 "Whoever has God's Son has life; whoever does not have His Son, does not have life. I have written this to you who believe in the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life." 16 Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. 17 And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: People we need to memorize scripture THE SWORD. There is coming a time when the bible will be outlawed and the Christian persecution will begin (it’s already beginning), so we must memorize scripture as fast as we can so that we can be strong and comforted in these coming times.

  • @texasproud1721
    @texasproud1721 6 лет назад

    You're too young to make a decision about your "Healing" once again, another Gay man who 'tried" to be healed who is under 30.... REALLY???!!! Your expaeectation of healing time for God is ridiculous! Anyone who puts a time stamp on their healing is not a Christian. I have struggled with Homosexuality for over 30 years.. NOT CURED.. But I KNOW God has brought me out of the life and I live for him now. It's a cop out as a Christian to say to God, "Sorry, I tried you and just didn't work for me," SHAME ON YOU. I pray that you find the Lord and that you truly have an experience where you meet the real Jesus in the midst of your sin. Then you will know the LOVE and ACCEPTANCE of Jesus who "Loves you just the way you are as a totally accepted and loved child of the King." NOT AS A GAY CHRISTIAN.. There is no such thing.... God hasn't evolved.. He is the same, today as he was from beginning; never changing... People that believe that lie are listening to Satan himself.. I KNOW because I did for about 20 years of my gay life. I believed I could be gay and Christian... God showed me that was a lie. sI will pray for you man. I will pray that the scales fall from your eyes and that you see the truth before it's too late for you.

  • @divatraining2947
    @divatraining2947 7 лет назад

    It's impossible for ex gay therapy to work it goes against any science logic you can't brainwash someone into being attracted to the opposite sex

  • @flamingrobin5957
    @flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад

    EXGAY WATCH? I THINK SOMEONE SHOULD START AN EXGAYWATCHERWATCH to monitor those who deny exgays the right to promote their exgay agenda. lets force the whole culture to believe EX GAYS ARE BORN EX GAY. (sarcasm intended)

  • @michaeljones7916
    @michaeljones7916 7 лет назад

    Well I pity this guy, from the weird attempts to pray himself straight (or maybe it was a magic genie wish) to his failure at therapy, ( it happens quite a lot regardless of issue) he seems to be pretty miserable. It works for some doesn't work for everyone your results may vary big whoop. What is interesting is that he dedicated his life to try to prove that no one else can do what he failed to do. That is some fucked up maladjustment right there. I mean he had cemented his failure into the core of his being and made it the focal point of his life to make sure he watched in case anyone else doesn't live up to his projected ideal. This guy is pretty disturbed.... (might I suggest a refund and perhaps way way more therapy?)

  • @chrisshook8471
    @chrisshook8471 7 лет назад

    I think in the future there will be away for science to change sexual orientation however for now it's impossible to change.

    • @danielj.nickolas
      @danielj.nickolas 5 лет назад

      Perhaps, but I think (hope) humanity wouldn't want it. Imagine if, tomorrow, a "cure" for Down Syndrome was discovered. Would we (humanity) embrace that cure; or would we say, "no thanks, we don't think of Down Syndrome as a deficiency anymore." I would hope the latter.

    • @buttermepancake3613
      @buttermepancake3613 6 месяцев назад

      There is no need for such a thing

  • @flamingrobin5957
    @flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад

    Jesus is the way the truth and the life, no one comes to THE FATHER buy through HIM. you dont need therapy as much as you need to be born again.

    • @GodCreatesGays2
      @GodCreatesGays2 7 лет назад

      Being born again will only make him gay all over again, because that's how the Lord made him and wants him to be.

    • @davidssubwaycookies190
      @davidssubwaycookies190 7 лет назад

      +GodCreatesGays2 how do u know jesus was gay?

    • @flamingrobin5957
      @flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад

      "he appeared that he might take away our sins and in him is no sin" gay is not an identity it is a orientation and a choice of behavior.

    • @GodCreatesGays2
      @GodCreatesGays2 7 лет назад

      Ted, being gay is no more a "choice of behavior" than being black is. Being gay is an innate part of a person's identity, as bestowed upon him by God, and cannot be chosen, consciously altered, or discarded.

    • @danielj.nickolas
      @danielj.nickolas 5 лет назад

      @@flamingrobin5957 Ted, a year after you called homosexuality a "choice of behavior," I'm curious to know what you now think.

  • @Jackie-hl9tu
    @Jackie-hl9tu 7 лет назад

    Nice angles

  • @flamingrobin5957
    @flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад

    you say it doesnt work? thats your experience......You can't say it doesnt work for everyone and you can't say that just because it doesnt work doesnt mean that homosexual behavior is still beneficial or healthy

    • @patrickmc4851
      @patrickmc4851 7 лет назад

      We've had the ability to accurately and affordably test people's sexuality in a lab setting since the 1950s. And in all that time, not one person has ever been able to show that their sexuality changed during the course of their lifetime. Not from gay to straight, not from straight to gay, not even from gay to bisexual. Not through theraputic means and not through religious means. Also, there have been plenty of studies done on homosexuality - if it was a choice there would be precursors to that choice leading someone to want to be attracted to the same gender or leading them to actually having attraction for the same gender - yet not one study has ever found any precursor or cause.

    • @flamingrobin5957
      @flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад

      sexuality is not fixed and it is not identity....your lust and desires you are not bound to..."gay" is a choice you choose to act on your temptations or not act on them. if a heterosexual man lusts after women he is not a fornicator until he acts on his desire. he is not an adulterer until he cheats with a married person. the proclivity to have "illicit" "innapropriate" or "perverted" sex does not mean you should act on it or make it your identity. to assume that people are biological machines that have to live according to their nature is to deny the fact that we are moral beings and moral agents. we make choices to act or not to act according to our conscience. I may fantacize about robbing a bank but i know its not right and therefore i don't do it. Also i know that actions have consequences. i'll go to jail. this lie that you are "gay" or "straight" or "bi" is rediculous. labels do nothing but enslave people into a prison of identity that they can never escape. rather we should leave ourselves open to find our identity in something deeper than our sexual desires. I don't believe people can choose their desires but they can choose their actions and they can choose how they label themselves. I desire chocolate cake but i feel sick when i eat it and choose not to. therefore i do not label myself a "chocoholic" and give myself permission to act in ways that are unhealthy or deadly. I dont walk around calling myself a "heterosexual" im a person...not defined by my desires but by who i am designed by God to be.

    • @flamingrobin5957
      @flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад

      ex gay therapy is not about making you "ex gay" or fixing you so you can wear the label "heterosexual" or be "cured" its about dealing with shame and masculine insecurity that keeps you bound in cycles of acting out sexually from what i understand about it. i'm no expert but i have watched joseph nicolosi's methods and they help and apply for more than just people with same sex attraction.....they work for anyone caught in a shame cycle that leads them to act out in addictive patterns instead of brining their pain to relationships with safe people and being aware of and processing their grief they feel it and allow themselves to take it to safe male therapist. people who say ex gay therapy "doesnt work" show that they dont understand what ex gay therapy is....its not a fix me program...its learning patters of brining shame to relationship instead of supressing it and then acting out sexually. homosexuality is a false assertion....a way to attempt to build male relaitonship that actually leads to more shame and insecurity around "manly men". if you believe you are "gay" then you make it your identity and it becomes a shameful pattern you must act out. same sex attraction is a symptom of a deeper problem the problem is not your sexuality or the label you wear the problem is shame......which if ungrieved will lead to a pattern of acting out shameful behavior. many people claim they have had their same sex attraction healed or greatly diminished......so who are we not to believe them. just because it didnt "WORK" for you doesnt mean people dont or can't benefit from it. perhaps you expected to be fixed so you received the dissapointment because you had the wrong understanding and the wrong expectations of what it was about... its not about fixing its about healthy ways of relating emotionally, physically, and relationally. rather than the pattern of withdrawal caused by shame which leads to acting out sexually. SURE THERE COULD BE BAD THERAPY ALSO...the label "ex gay therapy" may mean different thigns to different people. ive watched joseph nicolosi's model for reparative therapy and its seems logical beneficial sound and i've also heard the testimony of people who claim it helped them. even if it doesnt fix someoen or make them "straight" 100 percent. that doesnt mean its not beneficial to some or life changing to others.

    • @GodCreatesGays2
      @GodCreatesGays2 7 лет назад

      Rational and educated people know that innate, natural, benign characteristics like sexual orientation don't need "repair," and do not need justification to exist. What left-handed or red-haired "behavior" benefits society?

    • @patrickmc4851
      @patrickmc4851 7 лет назад

      +Ted Myrrh - Your argument is ridiculous. You're saying heterosexuals can partner and date and find someone to spend their lives with as long as they don't have premarital sex or cheat. But you're saying that homosexuals have to be lifelong celibates...unless you're actually wanting them to date or marry people they aren't even attracted to. That's nuts.

  • @stevenduvall2549
    @stevenduvall2549 7 лет назад

    Dan: Isn't there some way we can have Dr. Nicolosi prosecuted by the state for continuing to use his "repairative therapy" on minors? I have seen him boast about breaking this law right here on RUclips. I think the state would have a strong case, as I'm sure he's breaking the 2012 law. Have you considered this?

  • @FabianArtist
    @FabianArtist 7 лет назад

    Fake and gay :v

  • @lubabe699
    @lubabe699 8 лет назад

    Where did this bitch get blood from someone that supposedly lived 5000 years ago, she's a bit focused on sex and genatals. The church sure makes a person crazy as hell.

  • @eternity828
    @eternity828 8 лет назад

    totally true .Nicolosi is right .

  • @BearLite
    @BearLite 8 лет назад

    This is really a great video. Well stated and quite factual. It's an informative and concise tool to explain the main problems of anti-gay religious beliefs and teachings to those that are unaware of the issues and cannot imagine what it's like going through puberty, realizing that you're gay and simultaneously being spiritually, Biblically and emotionally abused by your church home and the spiritual leaders you trust and look to for guidance (the one place you should be able to take refuge in such a tumultuous time in your life. His experience echos mine - and ALMOST every gay and lesbian I know that grew up in conservative or semi-conservative religious homes.

    • @TheMorado777
      @TheMorado777 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/U6Dxtf_xZDI/видео.html EX GAY SHARING 5 PROVEN FACTS WHICH MAKES US GAY

  • @daryaionesco2634
    @daryaionesco2634 9 лет назад

    You can't do anything with only three weeks of counseling

  • @petersmythe6484
    @petersmythe6484 9 лет назад

    Says the man who has destroyed his irreparibly reputation.

  • @suvariboy
    @suvariboy 9 лет назад

    Graves is a scam artist and a grifter. There's no such thing as an "ex-gay." You can't change someone's sexual orientation. This kind of "therapy" should be banned.

  • @NeilInPhilly
    @NeilInPhilly 9 лет назад

    I just love Joanne, and her husband Ron (who has passed away). They were so real in their faith and loving, like parents that made you feel secure.

    • @biruss
      @biruss 4 года назад

      Manipulative woman

  • @djbethell
    @djbethell 9 лет назад

    She's still at it today. Sad.

  • @MySensualWorld
    @MySensualWorld 9 лет назад

    So, basically she is saying that they will cleanse you of semen with the blood of Jesus!

  • @CeeBee781
    @CeeBee781 9 лет назад

    Ludicrous. How did I get to the insane domain of RUclips? Delusional lady. You'd think the consistent failure of these kinds of "therapies" would prove to these people that it doesn't work... But evidence has never had much of an effect of religious fanatics.

    • @jamesbon1
      @jamesbon1 6 лет назад

      Cee Bee, you seem to only hear about the failures. Did it occur to you that some of “these” ministries are not godly or biblical at all? Or that perhaps the folks who failed at it, simply gave up the good fight. I can attest to her ministry...it’s biblical and so it works.

    • @btdfw
      @btdfw 6 лет назад

      Holy shit, James. There is not one documented case that show's exorcism can cure anything. Besides, sexuality is what it is and one thing it's not is an illness.

    • @biruss
      @biruss 3 года назад

      @@jamesbon1 you are bi or pan

  • @centralfloridaenthusiast7254
    @centralfloridaenthusiast7254 9 лет назад

    Christianity will make you miserable be gay. be happy.

    • @flamingrobin5957
      @flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад

      thats a lie. one of the fruits of the holy spirit are love joy peace paitience kindness gentleness mercy faithfullness self control. gay doesnt make you that way. only being born again by JESUS CHRIST can make you a new person with the nature of God. labeling yourself a "christian" does nothing but having God in you and putting yourself in God through JESUS makes you born again.

    • @GodCreatesGays2
      @GodCreatesGays2 7 лет назад

      Jesus was gay and born to a surrogate mom. He was a big defender of the homosexual community. People often call themselves "Christian," but if they reject homosexuals, they are not followers of Christ.

    • @flamingrobin5957
      @flamingrobin5957 7 лет назад

      christianity will make you holy.......happiness will make you selfish. hedonism is empty. been there done that. Only perfect love saves the day. JESUS TORTURED IN MY PLACE to free me from my selfishness.....and now im on mission to share the love and truth with other people......."this is love, not that we loved God but that HE loved us and gave HIMSELF up for us"

  • @firewalker117
    @firewalker117 9 лет назад

    im sorry if this offends any one but it needs to be said if daddy and mommy loved you like you needed to be loved you wouldn't even be worrying about it...much love to everyone btw. not trying to offend

    • @realniqqa101
      @realniqqa101 9 лет назад

      Assuming that all gays where not properly nurtured in their youth is ignorant. Many straight people have dysfunctional families. I for one had a very nurturing childhood yet I am an homosexual.

  • @brendencontreras4270
    @brendencontreras4270 9 лет назад

    Um wow! Suicide attempt by trying to lite yourself on fire?! That's the most hardcore brutal shit I've ever heard!

    • @guiafb99
      @guiafb99 7 лет назад

      Brenden Contreras why? Maybe he was feeling so guilty, he wanted to suffer and feel the extreme pain...

    • @williamfranklin9660
      @williamfranklin9660 4 года назад

      He perhaps, believed, that due to his sexual orientation, he would be damned to burn in hell for eternity, thus he wanted to die in such a way; preparing himself.

    • @gameshowguy2000
      @gameshowguy2000 4 года назад

      @@williamfranklin9660 Yeah right. You know the real reason for his suicide attempt is the pain and suffering he endured with the so-called "therapy". He has done much better NOW.

  • @joeydreams5
    @joeydreams5 10 лет назад

    Lol. I'm dying of laughter because this is so fucking fake.

    • @orene3241
      @orene3241 Месяц назад

      This is a real conversion therapist* and the "therapeutic" techniques presented in this clip are actual practices used by conversion therapists. You can look Richard Cohen's name up, he's a real person. If you want you can also search for interviews with David Matheson, he's a former conversion therapist and likewise confirms that conversion therapists use cuddling under the thought that it somehow "cures" gay people". *I'm somewhat uneasy about using the word "therapist" to refer to people like Cohen. After all, what he and his ilk are doing isn't worthy of being referred to as therapy. That being said "conversion therapy" and its derivatives are commonly known terms of art so I use for convenience.

  • @eugenekoshanof7328
    @eugenekoshanof7328 10 лет назад

    yes, therapy my fail. Our own efforts fail But the good thing is that Jesus works all the time, and none who comes to him returns the same. I know that to be true myself

    • @GodCreatesGays2
      @GodCreatesGays2 7 лет назад

      Yes, turning to Jesus for the truth will help gay people realize that they were born that way, as per the Lord's design.

  • @Noniksleft
    @Noniksleft 10 лет назад

    I wonder if the supposed successful conversions are simply people that are *just* far enough on the scale bisexual, that they manage to focus (and perhaps build) on their natural (partial/limited) attraction to the opposite sex, so it's enough to settle to be with someone of the opposite sex. So in a way they are still being true to themselves but only denying their same sex attractions. (If that makes any sense)

    • @itbarthur4u
      @itbarthur4u 9 лет назад

      Makes perfect sense! The only people who personally feel like sexual attraction is a choice are bisexuals. It is easier for them to adapt to heterosexual marriage. As long as they are faithful to their spouse they will appear to be heterosexual. Even if an occasional same sex thought may cross their mind. No one knows about this unless they admit to it.

    • @angelaf3005
      @angelaf3005 9 лет назад

      I believe Arthur is right. I think most of the ex gays are bisexual but prefer men and find being with men more exciting. I do believe they are wrongly identified as homosexual. I believe there are a tiny number of exclusively gay people who become completely abstinant after going through the conversion therapy and I do not consider that to be "converted". Virtually all exclusively gay people who go through the therapy except of the extremely guilty ones who become abstinant find the therapy does not work. I don't believe any conversion takes place at all in anyone except perhaps a religious conversion. Religion seems to be at the heart of this therapy regardless of whether or not one seeks a supposedly secular ex gay therapy organization such as NARTH or not.I have not seen one single case, not one, where an individual seeking to "cure" themselves from their being gay for non religious reasons. It is always about religion. NARTH is larded with social and religious conservatives.

    • @moneymanifestations2944
      @moneymanifestations2944 8 лет назад

      +Noniksleft We all have different kinds of thoughts, some good, some bad but acting on choices is MAKING A CHOICE. I like the way people seem to have such fun when they're all coked up. Does it mean that I should go against nature and snort it? For me NO. Just bc something looks fun, or seems like it'll feel good doesn't mean we have to try it. Peer pressure is a mofo.

    • @nykerianash1590
      @nykerianash1590 5 лет назад

      Money Manifestations Except being gay isn’t bad for you like drugs. Also, drugs are not a part of your identity. Some people can force themselves to be straight and deep down be miserable. Yet if a person stops doing drugs their health will improve.

  • @MontreBible
    @MontreBible 10 лет назад

    in the same sense ..heterosexuals get in relationships for the same reasons

    • @TheMorado777
      @TheMorado777 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/U6Dxtf_xZDI/видео.html EX GAY SHARING 5 PROVEN FACTS WHICH MAKES US GAY

  • @notapplicable8136
    @notapplicable8136 10 лет назад

    Wow! I am soooo turned on right now!

  • @superstubes
    @superstubes 10 лет назад

    GREAT VIDEO.

    • @TheMorado777
      @TheMorado777 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/U6Dxtf_xZDI/видео.html EX GAY SHARING 5 PROVEN FACTS WHICH MAKES US GAY

  • @ANameInHeavenMin
    @ANameInHeavenMin 10 лет назад

    Dan, My heart is breaking after watching your video. Please check out my book A Name In Heaven and my videos on RUclips. I see so much hurt and pain within you brother. There is a life full of love and joy waiting for you out there. The only things keeping you from this glorious life is you and Satan. Love Rickie

    • @ANameInHeavenMin
      @ANameInHeavenMin 10 лет назад

      Eugene, I totally get that brother. I do realize when something has hurt someone so deeply they never want to have anything to do with it again. Should you ever feel the need for A Name In Heaven Ministries you know where it's at. I teach God's Word without the Gay hating to please the masses. I created these shows for those spiritually hungry for God's truth. So sorry about your experience, sending my prayers and Christian love. Love Rickie