Rape is traumatizing. I don't wish it to anyone. I was raped in front of my high school friend in 2010. The most traumatic thing that ever happened to me but I'm happy I've healed and God has been so good to me. I wish her nothing but healing... It's not an easy journey, it has its days where you feel like you should have done some things differently or just blaming yourself for everything.... But God will hold your hand through this process. Strength to you Nompumelelo❤️
Some men are disgusting just because someone didn't greet you back doesn't make you entitled to their body. I really hope this rapists get to also experience what they've made others go through.
Heeban, why are you asking all men as if they are all the same? Lol there are men in the comment section so obviously they do watch. I wish women would stop grouping all men together because that causes division between men and women when we should be fighting gbv as a unit.
Looking at the title, I just know that I'll cry and once again thank you to these souls who are brave enough to share such sad, painful stories😢you're all utterly loved and looked over for by God
This was so heartbreaking to watch, some people are so cruel. They damage people emotionally,mentally,physically and spiritually. I hope she finds healing and peace ❤️ This is the most educational and informative show,with real,relatable and sad stories. The host is amazing,keep up the good work🙏🏻
We are truly suffering.Some men have the audacity to say “don’t speak to him if you don’t want to” when someone is courting and cat calling us in the streets. We are afraid to ignore,speak up at times because we are afraid that they feel offended and assault us.
Why do men feel entitled to our bodies? What happened to her was terrible but we overcome by the power of our testimony. May God heal and give her strength.🙏🏾
Tip for anyone who might face danger in the future , never let anyone take you to a second location ,rather fight for your life in that same place, scream, act crazy, fight with all your might This guy didn't have any weapon, until he took her to his place
This hits home, in 2002 exactly the same thing happened to me, it was in front of my mom and she died with the guilt of not protecting me, not that she could have as she also had a gun pointed at her heard, and forced to watch.
It’s honestly so upsetting.🥺🥺 and usually when a woman is raped . The first question is either what was she wearing or where was she going . As if we are not allowed to live freely
You went through hell..no one deserves to go through this pain. I feel like you have so much you wanna share with us..but you just dunno how, you all over the place (overwhelmed).. you really need help my sister, you not okay 😔 😕 😢 😞 💔 😪
😑😑😑 I always thought I'd like to hear from the rapist what goes on in their minds when they start getting into thoughts of raping 😭😭😭 I was assaulted and the way I'm jumpy (happened years ago)
Imagine being 17 and this happening to you. The trust for men after this would go to virtually 0..I hope the guy was arrested because people like him don't need to be walking our streets. Hope this young lady find healing..
This is so sad😪💔💔 No woman deserves to go through such a painful experience and trauma. I hope you find healing and closure ♥️ Sorry for what happened to you
My repist also did that to me,I was walking with my sister and there comes a group of guys their grep me my sister ren to home to tell the family, to cut the long story short my repist after he finished what he was doing he odared me to jump the walls until he dropped me off at my house ,I made a promise to him that we are dating because I wanted him to live me,I even showed him the house telling him is my house but lieng so that he can live me💔💔😭😭
I cannot believe there was not even a single person who overheared the footsteps or some form of commotion at those houses they were jumping over. Not even a dog bark or something, 😩😩😩
It shows this is how this guy lives. This doesn’t sound like something he was doing the first time. He knows these houses he was jumping into that the owners are either old people who never hear anything going on outside or if there’s teens in those homes they are playing TV loud. 💔
The entire time she was talking she was worried about how other people were doing or how they were thinking about her. I'm super angry at the women in her life that chose to make it about them and not show up for her. Mxm
These stories are so bad and they happen so often...men just thinking they have a right to women's bodies. It is distressing but at least she got away.
I can relate to this story, a very similar thing happen to me in London few years ago, and it was the most frightening experience I ever been through, I was on my way to work early in the morning, must have been 6am in the morning, just as I pass the bus stop, a man was standing there I did not think anything off it, I thought it was just someone waiting for a bus as well, next thing I know I heard him say "Hello Love" immediately i felt something was wrong, that uneasy feeling, like something bad is about to happen, I could feel my heartbeat in my throat and ears, I can remember just as I took the corner, to go to the other bus stop where I was suppose to get my bus, a car came very fast towards me, I realised OMG!!! It's the man from the bust stop following me, Long story short that whole experience changed me, It affected my life in such a way that I had to go for counselling, I was a nervous wreck, up to now I am still scared of going out when it's getting late, or dark I feel violated and robbed of my freedom
@@rebeccarambo2893 , How do you know it did not happen to me, see Rebecca you are to quick to comment on things you dont know, anyway I am not here to argue with you, It is well
My heart dropped when I saw you😢Finding out through a podcast that my childhood friend went through this is heart breaking 😢, I'm so sorry Zaza❤ sending you love and strength ✨.
You can do this well with your own language,just press cc on the top right of the screen,then you will be able to read everything ,sometimes some people can’t express well their feelings in english.
It took me two days, to finally watch this episode....I'm so so angry as a man what have we become? Her story is so sad😔😔. She has a beautiful soul and very powerful.
Feeling a painful lump blocking my throat. Oh wow how does a human being suffer such fate. Am horrified. Am sorry to this young soul for experiencing such a inhumane act. This is just unbelievable 😳😱😭😭😭🤗💔💔
I remember 18.07.2021 when I guy rob me everything but before he rape me a car flash the lights nd I run into a road nd scream, worse no car helped me thy all pass me the God give me power to run till I find a garage
That's really sad story I feel like crying when listening to this story our children are not safe at all .I know that pain as a mother my daughter was raped when she was 9 years old
He was a lowdown dog wtf this really pisses me off how can anyone force there selves on some one then kidnapped them and keep doing it thats so freaking heartless
This world is ruled & controlled from the dark kingdom, we have to accept this truth. Rape is not for sexual pleasure but and advancement of a kingdom, victims becomes powerless & out of mind because of spirits involved at that time.
So sad that woman cannot feel safe around man.I pray that God open mans ears and eyes to see damage they are doing to woman.Treat woman with love believe me we are caring and loving.
I live in America, and crimes against women are very frequent, especially domestic violence. It seems that women are attacked way more in Africa concerning rape cases. Is this true? What are the statistics there for women who are violated?
From latest articles I could find south africa has one of the highest rape statistics and this is not surprising considering we also have one of the highest gbv statistics
Each country is different in Africa but yes, GBV is worse in Africa and there is a lot of unreported cases because its rare to get justice. S.A is one of the worst in terms of GBV.
I couldn't jumb walls with someone who just raped me. He was gonna have to kill me 1st. It was 3 against 1 why didn't they try to fight for God sake and scream. Hayi nooo I'm so hurt
This is why you keep getting into these situations. You never take responsibility for your actions. What about a series of bad decisions she made to eventually get into this situation. Why would you drive around with men and sit on their lap if you not interested in anything.
@@relebogilemabotja215 i don't care what you say Relebohile. Our society fails at taking accountability....if us as youth we had responsibility such things wudnt be happening. She's 17 she sleeps elsewhere without her parent concerned....she stays DT late.... again um truly sorry of wht happened to her. Buh I genuinely think it wudnt have happened if responsibility was taken
Are u DUMB.. u act like she was drunk while she got attacked.. and even if she was.. instead of getting pissed at the actual monster.. your DUMB ass point fingers at the victim.. wauw
It hurts me, those of us who didn’t/ haven’t gotten raped while growing up in SA are actually just lucky. We escaped the reality
Absolutely
Literally 🥺🥺
Rape is traumatizing. I don't wish it to anyone. I was raped in front of my high school friend in 2010. The most traumatic thing that ever happened to me but I'm happy I've healed and God has been so good to me. I wish her nothing but healing... It's not an easy journey, it has its days where you feel like you should have done some things differently or just blaming yourself for everything.... But God will hold your hand through this process. Strength to you Nompumelelo❤️
Strength to you, Siba. God bless you. ❤️
🤗🤗🤗🤗
So sorry you had to go through that . Glad that you are healing, more light and healing to you🙏🏾
May God continue to strengthen you💖💖🙏🏽
Some men are disgusting just because someone didn't greet you back doesn't make you entitled to their body. I really hope this rapists get to also experience what they've made others go through.
She’s shaking so much, she’s so traumatized. This should never happen to any woman.
💔😪😪😪
@@jabulilesithole1866 my sweet friend Jabulile!!! I missed you💋💋💋💋
Her voice, the way it's quivering, just breaks me.... 😭😢
Men! Do you ever watch these shows?
I thot i am the only one who realised....😭😭😭she is still scared and traumatised
I wondered if she'll cry after 9 years
@@Dklady Consider reading "what happened to you" by Dr. Perry and Oprah. It explains how trauma works and why she will or not cry after 9years
Heeban, why are you asking all men as if they are all the same? Lol there are men in the comment section so obviously they do watch. I wish women would stop grouping all men together because that causes division between men and women when we should be fighting gbv as a unit.
Why should we ?
Looking at the body language one can tell the incident is still in her brain as if it happened yesterday.... So sad love and prayers for her
Everything we face is in the subconscious mind. 💔
@@nenesibanda4171 that's true
Looking at the title, I just know that I'll cry and once again thank you to these souls who are brave enough to share such sad, painful stories😢you're all utterly loved and looked over for by God
Same here😥😥
This was so heartbreaking to watch, some people are so cruel. They damage people emotionally,mentally,physically and spiritually. I hope she finds healing and peace ❤️
This is the most educational and informative show,with real,relatable and sad stories. The host is amazing,keep up the good work🙏🏻
the title on its own already shredded my heart . 🥺
As a mother the word rape always break my heart as I always pray God can u protect my daughter jooh the world we are living is so evil nd scary
I am already saddened by reading the title. 😔😩
Felt lost on this story..,but rapist are monsters who not deserve to live.
also got lost on the way
I was extremely lost as well ! Don’t know if it’s because of her trauma or inability to articulate herself.
We are truly suffering.Some men have the audacity to say “don’t speak to him if you don’t want to” when someone is courting and cat calling us in the streets. We are afraid to ignore,speak up at times because we are afraid that they feel offended and assault us.
My friend didn't greet back when a guy ko taxi rank greeted her so he burnt her cheek with his cigarette to "teach her a lesson".
@@malehlohonolo8463 😢
Wtf?? Are you being for real
Why do men feel entitled to our bodies? What happened to her was terrible but we overcome by the power of our testimony. May God heal and give her strength.🙏🏾
Tip for anyone who might face danger in the future , never let anyone take you to a second location ,rather fight for your life in that same place, scream, act crazy, fight with all your might
This guy didn't have any weapon, until he took her to his place
exactly i watch crime documentaries and this is exactly what detectives advice on !!
This hits home, in 2002 exactly the same thing happened to me, it was in front of my mom and she died with the guilt of not protecting me, not that she could have as she also had a gun pointed at her heard, and forced to watch.
I’m sorry for your pain Sisi💔❤️
I'm so sorry, Jabu. May God heal your heart🙏🏽❤️
I’m really sorry sis ♥️♥️ may you heal from that.
The pain in her voice tears my heart apart,no one should go through thi💔
It’s actually so sad that we as women can’t even go out to places without being scared like we can’t even go out to have a good time? Wtf no man
We can’t even go out jogging
It’s honestly so upsetting.🥺🥺 and usually when a woman is raped . The first question is either what was she wearing or where was she going . As if we are not allowed to live freely
The pain, the fear in her voice and body language 😭😭😭
I am so ashamed to be a man. I am sorry my sister
You went through hell..no one deserves to go through this pain.
I feel like you have so much you wanna share with us..but you just dunno how, you all over the place (overwhelmed).. you really need help my sister, you not okay 😔 😕 😢 😞 💔 😪
Look at her body language, she is so defensive. Her voice, she still can't tell the story properly...💔 So sad. It's still new for her
i have always put rapist and murderers in the same categories, they take away ppl's life's. How do u heal from such and ordeal?
Some men are just monsters… the pain in her voice is heartbreaking 💔
Wishing you strength
😑😑😑 I always thought I'd like to hear from the rapist what goes on in their minds when they start getting into thoughts of raping 😭😭😭 I was assaulted and the way I'm jumpy (happened years ago)
I recently discovered that abuse (whether rape, sorry am not a specialist) makes victims jumpy. Because their minds are always on high alert.
Girls should prioritize going to self defense. We are afraid to fight back. One man can't scare 3 women ngamane kufe umuntu.
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This is so heartbreaking. I'm sorry you experienced such horrific things and I pray that you find healing. Lots of love and strength to you dearest!
You can still see fear,sad and trauma in her 🥺
Imagine being 17 and this happening to you. The trust for men after this would go to virtually 0..I hope the guy was arrested because people like him don't need to be walking our streets. Hope this young lady find healing..
We all need to learn self defence and carry a weapon/pepper spray 💔💔 this is heartbreaking 😭
Exactly. Don't hesitate to pull the trigger on a rapist. Eye for an eye
Praying that Nompumelelo will get healing this is very sad, sending you hugs and lots of love
You are so brave for sharing your story! Wishing you peace,protection and love
This is so sad😪💔💔
No woman deserves to go through such a painful experience and trauma. I hope you find healing and closure ♥️
Sorry for what happened to you
My repist also did that to me,I was walking with my sister and there comes a group of guys their grep me my sister ren to home to tell the family, to cut the long story short my repist after he finished what he was doing he odared me to jump the walls until he dropped me off at my house ,I made a promise to him that we are dating because I wanted him to live me,I even showed him the house telling him is my house but lieng so that he can live me💔💔😭😭
This was so heartbreaking. Some people are so cruel. I hope you find healing
The world we are living in is so cruel
😭😭😭💔💔💔
The truth is it will only get worse, we have not seen anything yet.
This is why I don't want kids. What if I can't protect them 😭
@@GK222_ The truth is no parent can ALWAYS be there for their kids.
May God help us and them.
This is so sad😔
So many rape cases in SA🚮
I'm so sorry Nompumelelo may God heal your heart 🫂🙏🕯
I cannot believe there was not even a single person who overheared the footsteps or some form of commotion at those houses they were jumping over. Not even a dog bark or something, 😩😩😩
that's what also puzzles me.
It shows this is how this guy lives. This doesn’t sound like something he was doing the first time. He knows these houses he was jumping into that the owners are either old people who never hear anything going on outside or if there’s teens in those homes they are playing TV loud. 💔
@@faithsdollsville2662 that can still be a possibility 😭
😭💔Iam so sorry for what you went through this is so heartbreaking 😭
The entire time she was talking she was worried about how other people were doing or how they were thinking about her. I'm super angry at the women in her life that chose to make it about them and not show up for her. Mxm
These stories are so bad and they happen so often...men just thinking they have a right to women's bodies. It is distressing but at least she got away.
This is so traumatizing, for some odd reason I felt some heaviness in my shoulder.
I can relate to this story, a very similar thing happen to me in London few years ago, and it was the most frightening experience I ever been through, I was on my way to work early in the morning, must have been 6am in the morning, just as I pass the bus stop, a man was standing there I did not think anything off it, I thought it was just someone waiting for a bus as well, next thing I know I heard him say "Hello Love" immediately i felt something was wrong, that uneasy feeling, like something bad is about to happen, I could feel my heartbeat in my throat and ears, I can remember just as I took the corner, to go to the other bus stop where I was suppose to get my bus, a car came very fast towards me, I realised OMG!!! It's the man from the bust stop following me, Long story short that whole experience changed me, It affected my life in such a way that I had to go for counselling, I was a nervous wreck, up to now I am still scared of going out when it's getting late, or dark I feel violated and robbed of my freedom
Am sorry u had to experience that. Men r ruthless 😩😱😭🤗💔
🤗 🤗🤗
Am very sorry dear hope you will get better in time
Sending love and light. I'm so sorry you had to go through this ordeal. 😣😣
@@rebeccarambo2893 , How do you know it did not happen to me, see Rebecca you are to quick to comment on things you dont know, anyway I am not here to argue with you, It is well
Am traumatised already by the title💔💔
The importance of this channel 🙌🏾
I'm so hurt💔 sad part is the justice system protect criminals then victims 😭💔God please protect all women 💔
My heart dropped when I saw you😢Finding out through a podcast that my childhood friend went through this is heart breaking 😢, I'm so sorry Zaza❤ sending you love and strength ✨.
Hi Relebogile! I hope these poor ladies get counselling/therapy afterward. Great show as always
Heartbroken by what you went through. May God heal and restore you dear sister.
You can do this well with your own language,just press cc on the top right of the screen,then you will be able to read everything ,sometimes some people can’t express well their feelings in english.
Baby Girl, continue to the your story and take your power back. Your feelings of pain and hurt are VALID
Shame man, and she looked so scared as she was narrating this whole ordeal 💔
This show reminds of 3talk with Noeleen Maholwana Sangqu...
Oh I loved it
It took me two days, to finally watch this episode....I'm so so angry as a man what have we become? Her story is so sad😔😔. She has a beautiful soul and very powerful.
💔💔💔 the country we live in 😭😭😭
💔💔
Lebo the way you present yourself 💯%❤❤
Guys...this is so heart breaking😢😢
I am so scared to watch
Feeling a painful lump blocking my throat. Oh wow how does a human being suffer such fate. Am horrified. Am sorry to this young soul for experiencing such a inhumane act. This is just unbelievable 😳😱😭😭😭🤗💔💔
Rape is very common in South Africa
I pray you find healing sister..May God grant u more strength
This is heartbreaking💔🥺some people are so cruel.
Re fitlhile ❤
This story is sad hleng💔💔💔
Rele is Soo Beautiful hleng❤❤
So 😥
I remember 18.07.2021 when I guy rob me everything but before he rape me a car flash the lights nd I run into a road nd scream, worse no car helped me thy all pass me the God give me power to run till I find a garage
I'm so sorry for what you went through, we are survives what did not kill us will make us stronger, 💔
That's really sad story I feel like crying when listening to this story our children are not safe at all .I know that pain as a mother my daughter was raped when she was 9 years old
I’m so sorry. I’m a mother too and that’s so heartbreaking. I hope she finds love and healing
Yoh this title alone is just disheartening 😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖
Yho 🥺💔💔 men will stop at nothing!!
He was a lowdown dog wtf this really pisses me off how can anyone force there selves on some one then kidnapped them and keep doing it thats so freaking heartless
This world is ruled & controlled from the dark kingdom, we have to accept this truth.
Rape is not for sexual pleasure but and advancement of a kingdom, victims becomes powerless & out of mind because of spirits involved at that time.
My heart is bleeding
Soo painful I couldn't listen to the whole story 💔
You went through a lot,when I thought I also went through a lot💔😭😥 you're strong my dear💔💔💔💔
Jesus Christ
Just from the title of this episode
This guy is used to do this. Sickening. 💔💔💔
Jesus... People can be cruel as hell
2:47 in and unfortunately I can’t get myself to watch the show. I’ve never been in this situation but I just can’t bare the thought njheee 😔
So sad that woman cannot feel safe around man.I pray that God open mans ears and eyes to see damage they are doing to woman.Treat woman with love believe me we are caring and loving.
These topics get so heavy at times Yho ,
I'm sorry my love, i hope that the lord grant you peace
Heartbreaking indeed!💔💔💔💔
May Jesus touch u nd tell it as a testimony next tym hun, I pray tht he may heal u permanently frm tht scar
😭😭😭😢😢😢 Bathong ba modimo. Mara keng mara yeeee!
To even think that there are some men who say GBV is "overhyped" on McG's Podcast. Ke mathata fela.
This is very painful 💔
Heartbreaking
My favorite show ❤️❤️🥂🥂
Wee madoda sabelani abafazi bayalila....,..
I live in America, and crimes against women are very frequent, especially domestic violence. It seems that women are attacked way more in Africa concerning rape cases. Is this true? What are the statistics there for women who are violated?
South Africa is the rape capital of the world. A woman is raped/murdered every 4 hours.
countries with the highest rape rates:
Botswana (92.93)
Australia (91.92
Lesotho (82.68)
SouthAfrica (72.10)
Bermuda (67.29)
Sweden (63.54)
Suriname (45.21)
CostaRica (36.70)
Nicaragua (31.60)
Grenada (30.63)
From latest articles I could find south africa has one of the highest rape statistics and this is not surprising considering we also have one of the highest gbv statistics
Each country is different in Africa but yes, GBV is worse in Africa and there is a lot of unreported cases because its rare to get justice. S.A is one of the worst in terms of GBV.
@@precioustshabalala8695 what does GBV stand for?
I couldn't jumb walls with someone who just raped me. He was gonna have to kill me 1st. It was 3 against 1 why didn't they try to fight for God sake and scream. Hayi nooo I'm so hurt
Are you SSSSTUPID?? They thought he had a freaking GUN… who’s not afraid of a gun.. even a whole crows would be scared of just ☝🏾 man holding a gun
😭😭Oh Lord, The world we live in....
You are a strong beautiful woman survivor ❤
This is heartbreaking
Man you are monsters and evil 👿
This is why you keep getting into these situations. You never take responsibility for your actions. What about a series of bad decisions she made to eventually get into this situation. Why would you drive around with men and sit on their lap if you not interested in anything.
@@mduduzibhebhe4268 wow, I can't believe you wrote this. Awunamahloni.
😭😭😭 bathong 💔💔💔
Yoh 😞💔
I don’t think I can’t watch
U brought that to yourself Sisi. Next time be careful and i am honestly sorry.
You cannot be sorry and victim blame at the same time. Shame on you!
@@relebogilemabotja215 i don't care what you say Relebohile. Our society fails at taking accountability....if us as youth we had responsibility such things wudnt be happening. She's 17 she sleeps elsewhere without her parent concerned....she stays DT late.... again um truly sorry of wht happened to her. Buh I genuinely think it wudnt have happened if responsibility was taken
When will people stop drinking alcohol with people that they do not know or know are safe?? ???
Are u DUMB.. u act like she was drunk while she got attacked.. and even if she was.. instead of getting pissed at the actual monster.. your DUMB ass point fingers at the victim.. wauw
God bliss u ur are a survivor not a victim
Women in SA are not safe at all he gents.
Let's give them love and protect them.
Sorry my sister you met the evil animal