I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 46 | Season 3
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
- A guest shares her story on how she ended up having a child in hospital without knowing that she was pregnant.
Studio Guest: Keletso Ntlekoana
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She is so articulate. Praying for employment over her life.
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🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen
Amen
I hope God opens up her paths❤
How i wish this miracle could happen for me😞...I'm 38, suffering from hormonal imbalance. The last time I saw my periods was in February 2021, even before then, it had been almost a year since i got them...i get them once a year if I'm lucky...I'm not on any medication anymore because i have accepted and wish to adopt a new born when I'm 40...🥺
She is so blessed, even under unfavorable circumstances 🙏🏽
God is listening to your prayers sis 🙏🏼
Strongs .
Try Yoni Steaming SA
Their products worked for someone I know.
Als try fenugreek tea.
My prayers go out to you...may the grace of Almighty God shine on you..may he remember u in Jesus mighty name..Amen
It might be premature menopause. It happened to me. I had irregular periods from the age of 37. At 39 they had completely stopped and I started experiencing hot flashes that lasted 4 years. I'm now 47 and have never seen my period
Isiah 60:22 babes ❣️
This lady explains herself so well.
Very smart
Yes. I like the way she expresses herself. Clear and very real.
When she says she would have left the child at hospital, that broke my heart, unemployment is painful
She is such a personable person, hope somebody gives her a job.
Imagine going to hospital with constipation and then coming home with a baby
just imagine !!!id die shame
Hectic !!!
😁😁😁
simz, i have always been fascinated by those stories then i found out i was born the exact same way too. i was about the size of a grapefruit when i was born and my dad told me that my mother got dizzy , long story short i was born 6 hours later. my mother is really petite and skinny. i still cant wrap my head around the fact that she didn't even see a lump in her stomach and i know my mom likes twirling and checks her body whenever she spots a mirror.
Such a beautiful and articulate young lady. We honour the dad who stood up and rose to the occasion.
I’m o😅😊
"I didn't know I was pregnant", I always feel like this will be my story, I believe too much in miracles.
Amen sis🙏🙏❤️
Me too
Our very own -I Didnt Know I Was Pregnant -
🤣🤣🤣mara landlord
I am here to give the bells and say hatt off for the baby's father.
i'm a med-student and I just got an eye-opener interms of how to treat people. as the humans they are
uRefilwe, girl , you can be a people pleaser but be one sparingly. people act a fool . they finna walk all over you if you are sweet.
Keletso is very beautiful, loved how she share the story. I’m sure people ask all the time because stories like this are once in a life time
Her baby face, her hair lines it's dope.,so beautiful.
She's very beautiful hle 😍
I really liked the voice tone of the guest. She seems sweet
Take care of that miracle baby. One day you will realise that the was a reason for him to be born in the conditions you found yourself. I have what is called after lammetjie not planned . Thought of abortion but today he is the star of the family. Taking care of everyone in the family.
🤣🤣 When she imitated the Doc who said she couldnt have kids....'Congratulations'. I felt her emotions as she was telling the story. We are grateful for baby Hope.💕
Killed me😂😂
She killed me shame 😂
She killed me😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm 21 years and suffering from hormonal imbalance but with faith I know God will make a way.
Wow miracle baby, big up to daddy for being supportive. It's just full of great things. Glory glory 🙏🙏🙏
I like this lady tlhe, there is something special about her...don't know what it is 🤗😍
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This goes out to everyone who feels entitled about people's conditions. Friends who get offended about certain aspects of their friend's life. Know your place and everything has its own time and place.
I am actually praying hore Keletso a thole mosebetsi, she's got such a beautiful personality and she's so well spoken. I wish her and her son a beautiful and blessed journey ahead.
😳😳 only see such stories on TLC, Thank God the journey was safe and the baby was born healthy. And also Thanks to the father of the baby for believing and coming through when he was most needed.
My fav u are here
@@SimzRight 😊😊Yes Mntase ❤️
@@SimzRight ❤️❤️you’re also my fav and you’re here
It's true dear such stories we only see them on TLC but GOD can do things in his own way and timing
I can attest to her testimony. Im 25 from my teens i went to the doctor cause i only saw my 1st period at 23 .and from my teens was told i can't have kids one would say i dnt have a womb , one would say i have no ovaries but my period is on and off but i do get it i dont know if its cause of contraceptives i take but i think wen it comes to having kids miracles do happen. Im at a point wereby i don't know if i will have kids but hearing her testimony and her doctor's diagnosis im hopeful i will also carry my own
Keletso is so positive . She’s such a grateful person.
Whoa!!! I have only heard such stories coming from abroad. This one brings it closer home. I cannot imagine the shock of finding out you are pregnant at the same time you are in labour!!!
I still remember hearing this lady from the US narrate her story of how she actually gave birth at a gas station toilet. She was on a road trip with her boyfriend when she started feeling off and like she needed to use the bathroom. Then she goes in, and has this sudden urge to push. She thinks it’s just a ‘difficult’ number two. She pushes and hears something fall into the toilet bowl, then a cry!!! I am still not over that story, years later after hearing it.
Now this??!!! And the POV of being unprepared, worrying about how you did not take care of yourself because you didn’t even know you were pregnant, worrying about what effect that would have on the kid… My goodness!!! This lady is made of steel!
Also, the judgement people gave her because her story sounded far fetched must have made it triple as hard.
That doctor who had given the you’ll-never-have-kids-again report needs a come to Jesus awakening. The laissez-faire manner in which he handled the situation even after realizing he had made a mistake, was horrendous considering the hell this lady went through with the mockery from people at the hospital she delivered in.
As the silver lining, this should be a reminder to any woman with any negative report regarding fertility… any health issue for that matter. God has the final say! The doctor’s may have told you it will never happen for you - whether out of their own negligence, ignorance or just their truthful, knowledgeable assessment - but now you know it won’t be the first time doctors were proven wrong 😉
Me too ey, lol there was a show on TLC *I didn't know i was pregnant* and i thought the stories were just scripted but yhoo wow so it relly happens🙆♀️
@@innocenttebogo502 yes!!! That’s the one. That’s the show whose name I was struggling to remember 😅
There is something so beautiful and authentic about how Keletso tells this story. What struck me the most is how judgemental/not open to alternative truths our communities can be. But stories like these exist. I'd also love to hear her speak on other issues or give a 2 year update on her bonding journey with the baby. And I pray she gets employment/business opportunities.
Yes 🙌🏽 let’s unpack. My mom had 2 pregnancies that she didn’t know she was pregnant. I was like mom twice, how? But it’s very possible.
Wow Leyley!! I'm still shocked as she is 😲.
Yoh I my period has been lighter than normal for the past 6 months, I have all the pregnancy symptoms I even picked up a lot of weight since May this year till now. Did pregnancy tests 4 times still it's negative. I just told myself God knows
Visit the doctor. What if your not pregnant your just sick? Be safe mama❤️
@@lethabom1738 the shocking part for me is that she was not getting her periods prior to the pregnancy. But it’s possible that the hormone medication made her body ovulate without a periods.
@@luciateffu9608 I’m sorry you’re going through this. If you can, visit the Dr and get it checked out. And if confirmed you’re not pregnant, ask them to check your thyroid, hormones, or PCOS sending you positive vibes.
she killed me when she said " You know it's shocking when you have somebody come out of you and you don't know that person' LOL. I wish her well
This lady has a beautiful heart and may God bless her more
I’ll Be Back To Watch: Jog Time☺️
Edit: I Applaud The Father For Being There From The Moment He Knew.
Relebogile may you please connect me with this lady, I had the same exact experience pregnant March gave birth in October I also ddnt know I was pregnant, I also have a no relationship with my mother and my partner is very supportive. I have been struggling with accepting the child, I would love to speak to this lady because she sounds matured. This is my first child. It is shocking how similar our stories are, I thought I was the only one who went through this. Thank you.
I hope you two connect!
Try sending her ( Rele) a DM as well
I hope you 2 connect tlhe...
@@nolusizodlalisa5573 thanks cc
@@tebogotebzmuchena4464 thanks Tebo
I only find out when I was 34 weeks and the only symptoms was back pain. People judge but it does happen, my daughter is now 21years.
I have experienced hormonals imbalance as well and had four discourages, but now blessed with 3 kids. My experience of hormonals imbalance It felt as if I was pregnant all the way. I fully understand what you went through. May the same Lord that surprised you with a healthy baby boy, surprise you with a good paying job and all that you need for your kids
Amen she will definitely find a good job in Jesus's name
Story of my life
I was staying with my sister wen l got pregnant but didn’t know
Had my normal periods every month
Wen they called an ambulance they asked me are you 😷 sick because l didn’t even show l was pregnant nothing no sign
My sister asked me wat did you eat l said l went to a friend’s party they might have poisoned me or something 😂😂😂
Two hours later my boy came out his name is Surprise because he was a surprise
Called his father while in hospital to bring him clothes and he did
He never doubted that it’s his baby they look alike
The guest speaks soo well😊
This channel is indeed an eye opener.👌
Big up to Sis Rele and her team♥️
Re ithuta gole gontsi gotswa mo lenaneong le♥️♥️♥️
I can't say I relate 100%, but I also had no idea I was pregnant until I was 6 months pregnant and I also suffer from hormonal imbalances so I basically couldn't tell due to periods. I didn't even experienced a single symptom that comes with being pregnant. My baby is also healthy and I thank God every day
Did you get your periods during those whole 6 months?
@@kagontleserutle5775 when you suffer from hormonal imbalance, you can spend months without seeing your periods
Glory to God
She is really well articulate, I enjoyed listening to her.
No one noticed my cousin was pregnant, only heard a baby crying in the bedroom. She gave birth on her own
I am a miracle baby myself 😍❤mom found out in labour that she was about to give birth
Hence the name Simangele right :-)
@@nonkumonkoe yes Dear
Nami ngingamangala.
Same named Karabo
I believe you sisi I had the same experience, thank God your bundle of joy is healthy and happy 😊
I went to school with 3 people that this happened to. They came from very loving homes and where I live people aren't as judgemental of single mothers so it wasn't possible that they would've been trying to hide the pregnancy from anyone regardless of their age. I mean it when I say they had actually good relationships with their parents. One girl she was on a drinking holiday only a week before she went in to labout thinking she just had cramps. She want in and less than an hour sis came out with a baby and they then now had to go do shopping. She didn't look pregnant at all. She was a smaller framed woman, in UK sizes she was around a size 8 or 6 and she still had a flat stomach and everything. The rest whom this happened to were also surprisingly smaller women as well. Typically they say its easier for a larger woman to not know they're pregnant because there's room for baby to hide but they were the odd ones in the statistic. There's a TV show called I didn't know I was pregnant if you guys wanted to hear more stories like this.
Thanks the guy did think positive about it because the pregnancy was the cause of separation I mean to conceive may lead to unnecessary fights
Give that man a Bells👌
Baby daddy ke skhokho....💪
I salute him, we need fathers n men like him.
Baby daddy ke KING 👑
I love how calm and well spoken she is.
This episode taught me not to trust anyone but God
@Basadi Bontsi I couldn’t agree with you more💯I was told I would never have kids but God said yes you will, yes you can…
This right here 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 very true
@@LeyleS
This gives me so much hope . How I long to have a little human grow inside my womb . I yearn for you baby 👶
@@jeanetseanego4802 it will happen. Don’t ever lose that faith and hope. My first one was a miracle baby. Sending you positive vibes 🌸
Yoh 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I just love today's guest💞. Great show.
Ndiyakbona Somi👀
Somi 🙂❤️
What a beautiful soul Keletso is. Ga a re she had Hope that things will go good from there... The strength and power 🙌🏾I stan a Queen
Literally my worst nightmare. But I’m glad that she got an unexpected gift., I love seeing people who thought they couldn’t have kids fall pregnant truly amazing 😻
I literally cried when she said he's naughty handsome healthy God bless you and your boys soon or later you will get a job ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
That’s a lot to adjust to in a few hours, wow. Incredible!
Wooow i just love how honest she is about her feelings. Good luck sister hope someone will help you. Big up to the dad
"What did you say to the baby?" I said : "Where do you come from?"🙈🙆♀️but I understand shame, she was in shock
They would have had to revive me at the hospital. My heart would stop. I can’t even imagine how you would wrap your mind around this
Me too sana. I'd legit have a heart attack 💀😂💔
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I'd be in a morgue!!!!
@@mpoimakhetha9345 😂😂😂
My cousin found out exactly the same way and for a while I didn't believe her because she already had Bokang 14-15 months ago, but afterwards when I saw her struggle in trying to develop a bond with the baby it made me believe her when she first said she didn't know cause she was so hands on with the first baby, with the second one she was just confused and everyone in the family was just playing mom to that boy for quite some time until she somehow got out of the shock.
I stopped those medication, for yrs still no periods. Then the Dr changed me to implant that's when I started my periods normally. The implant expired then again I didn't go back to my circle. I went to the doctor, he told me not to worry about not getting my periods till now. Watching this makes me wonder, aware and be careful not to fall pregnant. Coz this lady's Dr told me exactly that. Am gonna save this episode just to show him, coz he told me I have no chances to fall pregnant becoz of my hormones.
Beautiful story! Her miracle baby will be a President one day! 🥰❤️
It can only be God my daughter. I thank God for both of your kids. God is good all the time.
Poor lady she was in shock & going through soo much , and she had to deal with people looking through her curtains ..saying ‘things🙁 i wish those nurses watch this show and learn also teach eachother kindness, professionalism & not always judge patients. I’m happy her bf came through for her , that made me cry tears of joy 😊 , Now she speaks fondly about her son, soo nice to see , i wish her all the best 💝 .
21:53....... I'd wake up ke mo lebelle, I felt like she'd say, I'd look at him and wonder why he's still here. I want to laugh but not in a mocking manner..... she's very articulate, I like her and hope all goes well for her. In fact I hope she and the baby daddy makes up and lives happily ever after
Oh my goodness, this is exactly what happened to me - twice!! My boys are exactly a year apart one born 14 November 2011 and the other 13 November 2012. I never thought it would be possible to have kids consecutively but, stuff happened. They are 9 and 10 now.
Wooow that's the goodness of the Lord
Did you have any symptoms?
@@quanishaable no, for the boys, I did not. I only expected and had symptoms for my first pregnancy in 2010 and gave birth to a girl that October
We thank God for Baby Hope, Thank you Ausi Keletso for sharing your testimony, Wishing you all the best and more blessings to you and your babies .....may God open that door of opportunities and bless you with a job or some sort of financial assistance ...Nna I saw God's hand in your story and I am hopeful that good things are coming your way.🙌💕🤞
How I wish to assist 😭🥺🥺evn a R10 wud go a long way...baby hope is a blessing...
Thank God u updated..I just missed it now at SABC 3..thank u
I used to be obsessed with shows like this episode on TLC
I wish she can attend counselling this was so traumatic
I just love her! She seems so sweet. She's also so well spoken. I hope Hope is the greatest blessing of her life..
This story is making me so warm inside.. I feel like the lady is blessed. Praying that you get a good job mama ❤❤❤❤
Its a miracle baby, and he came to this world for a purpose
Such an awesome guest. Loved listening to her, Keletso did an amazing job telling her story. Hope someone offers her a job 🙏🏾
Miracle baby 🍼 i would name him Miracle 🥰❤️
i love you keletso and im so proud of you for your courage and also for sharing these powerful profound message (dont make someone feel small ,try to be professional...... } we believe your story and may god bless through journery of your life to find work and to provide for your kids
I love her hoarse voice 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
From today on, since this happened in South Ah, then I will believe these stories going forward. I used to watch these overseas programs and think to myself there's no way one won't know they are pregnant but from this lady, I believe it. This can only be God's grace that the baby came out alive because at 17 weeks onwards you are advised not to sleep on your back because that sleeping position can restrict blood circulation to your fetus and they can die, she may have slept in that position a numerous times. Thanks be to God and his continuous GRACE. 🙌
We need more men like Hope's father.👏👏👏👏👏
My school friends it's happened to her, we said goodbye on Friday by Monday at school we find out she gave birth on the weekend. We were so shocked she had flat stomach no sign of pregnancy at all. Others were so judgemental. Even her first child she gave birth at 7 months and second 7 months she didn't know even I didn't took serious until I watched TLC I'm like this happens. It really shocking, I saw a episode in Steve Harvey she didn't know she was pregnant with 3 babies the Dr explanation was the baby sit at the back. I also was diagnosed with Polystic Ovary syndrome (PCOS) you don't ovulate so you can't get pregnant naturally. I can stay without period for 6 months I guess she has PCOS it can be frustrating to have. I definitely know it's feels to be told you won't have kids. I am going for a second opinion but I have grieved and accept. I've realized if that is journey of my life I accept. It does take away the joy because if I do get to have a child it will a journey to feel excited about it as I have let go of that dream. God love an RED Carpet sometimes He love the grand entrance so you are blessed mom. Sometimes He love to show us how out of control we are, we have no control over our lives, our lives journey is his hands. Congratulations 💞💞💞 appreciate sharing your story.
PCOS doesn’t mean you can have kids naturally. Your gynaecologist has to prescribe a pill to promote ovulation when you are ready. Other women fall pregnant after changing their diet and incorporating exercise into their lifestyle. I also have PCOS but I’ve grown a better understanding of it
@@thuliendlovu719 PCOS has level my one is the extreme one, I've done the clomid and Femara for 2 years my Gnaecologist send me to Fertility Clinic that where I find out how damaged my tubes were and I need to go straight to IVf. There is more diagnoses my love I wish it was that easy. I was refer to specialist by different Gnaecologist as I was trying to get second opinions. Diagnosed with Natural killer cells which the meds I took never helped as It didn't take. I recently was diagnosed with adenomyosis which on top on 4 diagnoses it is a huge issue to me now. I will see another specialist next year which has been recommended but that is the end to me if it's doesn't work I've done all I can. Maybe it's not timing for me but these diagnoses are really frustrating.
Sizakele do you mind texting me?
I might have something for you.
No money needed.
A gift from me , to you.
@@Yassmiinn. no I don't mind, Thank you. Can I have your contacts.
She is so intelligent ❤️ I love how honest she is. Hope you find a job soon
You gave him my name🥰🥰🥰and indeed sons are soo sweet ,he is a blessing
I used to watch "I didn't know I was pregnant" and I used to say nah this is scripted, there is no way 😅. I believe it now
Medical professionals should be aware of this possibility, so I don't understand why they made fun of her and judged her. How rude.
She is real and sincere. Very touching story.
"O tswa ko kae "😭😭😂😂
This story sounds like an American fiction hey and this lady is do beautiful and well-spoken.❤👌
She is so articulate and has such a calming aura. The Dr is right, he is a miracle and I love that you have hope because things will definitely change.
I feel u sis public hospital nurses and female doctors are horrible😡
And it is TOTALLY unnecessary
This reality for women in South Africa is so awful
This is obviously not a laughing matter but that "Otswa ko kae?" cracked me. "Hee Keletso, o imile?". Felt so sad when she said she would have left the child at the Hospital. I'm also hopeful that good things will come her way. I BELIEVE YOU.
Dear i laughed my lungs out that question "where do you come from"staring at him😂😂😂😂but seriously it's a miracle baby
@@thandindlovu9088 Lol and you can't help but imagine her staring at him and asking that question. Hope really is a Miracle baby
This happened to my mom with my baby sister 13 years ago...she had zero symptoms nor a baby bump, mind you my mom's a petite size 30...this can happen to anyone
“When the time is right, I, the Lord, will make it happen." The LORD Our God is Faithful and True Always. He will perform the counsel of His WORD accurately because He makes All Things Beautiful in His Time. 🙌
I pray that baby daddy doesn’t stop supporting the child, may God also bless this lady with a job.
I thought my sister was lying when she said she didn't know she was pregnant that time she had a 1year old, we all said there's no way. Now I feel bad unfortunately the baby only survived for few months 💔💔💔
Yhooo sesi. What a shock
"Yhoo bathong" 🤣🤣🤣 she kills me when she says that, as she looks at the baby.🥰🥰❤❤❤
2nd opinion yes but when God says yes it happens through it all Hope is the right name❤️
I used to watch such stories on Tv
Yes, nna I love these kind of stories 🙃🙃
I've heard a couple of stories about miracle babies. We thank God that she and baby are okay and healthy.
The response of the Dr ...... its a miracle 🤣🤣🤣🤣 nhanha is he a medical practitioner for rea?
Keep your head up high lots of love and blessings .... you are such a great storyteller nhanha
Keletso I’m so happy for your “Surprise “.....i wish to share my story its way different from yours but it Depressed me in a very bad way...it broke me in a way that i tried multiple times to abort the child but the Doctors couldn’t find anything to adopt...But Thanks God i came out stronger now i want nothing that could harm my Son.
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This happened to one of my pts. Exactly like this lady. These suprize babies usually happen at the wrong time...after a breakup
Your Dr was interpreting results. God chose your son to come for a purpose.
I can’t imagine the shock 🤯
It happens so much more often than people realize! There is a whole tv show called "I didn't know I was Pregnant" and they have several seasons of people who never new till labour. You are telling the truth through and through
Let's unpack!
Her honesty is a blessing from nature🤞❤️🙌
She is such a beautiful person, with such a positive aura. May her situation change for the better, she is such a loving mother. God bless you my sister❤❤❤
My gynecologist said I have PCOS and said I must go on a low carb diet and eat like Keto diet or Banting diet. That really helped to lower my high insulin levels as high insulin caused by high carb diet we Africans eat contributes to PCOS.
I have also been diagnosed with PCOS two years. A lot of Dr's do not understand and really do not know how to deal with PCOS. Their first suggestion is always diet and exercise. However PCOS management is way more than that. It messes everything up, including mentally. I eat maize, sorghum and millet - - which is African. I'm both gluten and insulin resistant. Banting / low carb wasn't sustainable for me. Also, getting gluten free and low GCI foods in South Africa is a marathon. I wish we can have many PCOS platforms in South Africa.
PCOS is Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome?
@@ncaminxumalo6765 Yes
@@bellindamashoenemonyela3718 a gynecologist also diagnosed me with it. I know nothing about diet stuff🥲. He put me on contraceptives. Cause I went to him with a non stopping period and got diagnosed with PCOS
To the baby daddy we thank you sir
There is a show called 'i didnt know i was pregnant'