My life In Prison | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 67 | Season 3

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  • Опубликовано: 23 янв 2022
  • Guests share how their life of crime made them serve life in prison and how the experience in prison was.
    Studio Guests: Mlungisi Zondi & Vusi Mashilo
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  • @katlehosetebe7889
    @katlehosetebe7889 2 года назад +165

    I love how Mlungisi mentions God in everything he talks about 🥺♥️

    • @portiamailula4706
      @portiamailula4706 4 месяца назад

      And by God's grace look how healthy he looks despite his situation ❤

  • @puseletsomoleko7878
    @puseletsomoleko7878 2 года назад +195

    Mlungisi is also brutally honest, no cap!

  • @siziphiwemazule2488
    @siziphiwemazule2488 2 года назад +766

    Am I the only one who was bothered by Vusi pointing out how he had decided that he needed to be "man enough" and how he kinda invalidated Mlungisi's experience. Yes they may have had different experiences but one can tell his story without trying to shadow the other person's right? And anyway, Mlungisi was way too young when he went to prison.

    • @perfectmoments01
      @perfectmoments01 2 года назад +43

      It got my attention too, but I don't think he meant it like that. I think he was just trying emphasize that he needed to be able to stand up for himself given the circumstances he was presented with - not necessarily to immasculate Mlungisi or invalidate his experience (used in example).

    • @nkosisimphiwe10
      @nkosisimphiwe10 2 года назад +53

      Yah it didn’t come out right. I don’t know but I fe like there could’ve been a better wording

    • @MalindiPearl
      @MalindiPearl 2 года назад +40

      And I think he did realise that yena he was older when he went to prison (27) unlike Mlungisi who was way younger 16/ 18...

    • @siziphiwemazule2488
      @siziphiwemazule2488 2 года назад +16

      @@MalindiPearl Yeah I saw that at the end. My comment was posted mid interview.

    • @patienceikombele9161
      @patienceikombele9161 2 года назад +17

      Yes, but remember Mlungisi was young. Maybe man enough as in old adult.

  • @babssophia3498
    @babssophia3498 2 года назад +198

    Mlungisi God elevated him, everything he says is so touching and his voice u can hear he learned a lot Spiritually, is not him speaking but the voice of God.

  • @GuyFromSouthAfrica
    @GuyFromSouthAfrica 2 года назад +206

    The other chap seems to he hiding his real experience you can see how mlungisi looks at hime when he talks.
    When asked about his experience he changes the answer to lessons. Do this don't do that 🤔 type of vibes.
    Mlungisi told us the truth, nothing but the truth. Respect!

    • @lindelaniratshalingwa7307
      @lindelaniratshalingwa7307 2 года назад +14

      He is hidding something

    • @GuyFromSouthAfrica
      @GuyFromSouthAfrica 2 года назад +12

      @KaHadebe true, but the show is called unpacked for a reason, unpack or stay home ooooo 🙂

    • @ndumiedlamini6428
      @ndumiedlamini6428 2 года назад

      True.

    • @Lmngx13872
      @Lmngx13872 2 года назад +23

      And you can see his health is not okay

    • @marshathomas6422
      @marshathomas6422 2 года назад +11

      Before I watched seeing him on the cover I thought he was the one who contracted HIV .. also him saying people think prison is a hotel 🧐 and I’ve heard stories about leokop prison it is definitely not as smooth as he says it is. How is he even teaching about his experience if he is not ready to share it all let alone coming to this show 🤔

  • @samanthantuli1482
    @samanthantuli1482 2 года назад +68

    Part two with Mlungisi only please

  • @zandimaphaha3943
    @zandimaphaha3943 2 года назад +65

    I feel like Vusi is those kind of men who don't want to be associated with the stigma of convicts and rape in prison,at first he said he never saw any rape in prison then later said it di happen to others but not to him,I didn't like how he said "it's a choice" after Mlungisi clearly explained that he had to join the number to be safe from abuse,I believe that Vusi might also be downplaying his experience and I wish to hug Mlungisi not because I feel sorry for him but I'm inspired by his strength,prison did not break him💛

  • @namisazulu1372
    @namisazulu1372 2 года назад +89

    Mlungisi was so honest. I wish he could come back.

  • @mellonn7460
    @mellonn7460 2 года назад +181

    Nothing in life can ever break Mlungisi. This guy went through all of his life alone. Rehabilitating yourself is the toughest road anyone ever has to take. Big ups to this man! May he go far in life.

  • @nokuthulakhumalo2505
    @nokuthulakhumalo2505 2 года назад +168

    Mlungisi could have done this interview alone ,no cap 🤞🏾 ....very informative interview ...I'm glad they both turned their lives around for the better

    • @lindelaniratshalingwa7307
      @lindelaniratshalingwa7307 2 года назад +5

      True, I started knowing mlungisi from The Agenda Network

    • @napo6291
      @napo6291 10 месяцев назад +1

      So mlungisi wasn't a man enough??

  • @misst1869
    @misst1869 2 года назад +148

    The guy in plain blue has so much to say, He could do this interview alone 🙌

    • @mpume131
      @mpume131 2 года назад +13

      True Ms.T.I just like the way he looks at life now very matured young man

    • @modiehimahlunuku4245
      @modiehimahlunuku4245 2 года назад +3

      What is the name of his book

  • @vanisamantile665
    @vanisamantile665 2 года назад +106

    My heart goes out to Mlungisi. This guy is emotionally intelligent, thank you for interviewing him. I wish him well!

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  11 месяцев назад

      The interview was honestly such a pleasure!

    • @jenniferclaasen-zs1kf
      @jenniferclaasen-zs1kf 9 месяцев назад

      01:41 I wish i can just fold Mlungisi in my arms and give him a warm hug.🙏

  • @princewama3152
    @princewama3152 2 года назад +165

    We really want mlungisi to come back.. He has more to share

  • @mmathaborathete1217
    @mmathaborathete1217 2 года назад +151

    All the best to the Gentlemen...I bought Mlu's Book: LIFE BEHIND BARS ,very interesting

    • @phindilemahlangu894
      @phindilemahlangu894 2 года назад +3

      Where can I get myself a copy

    • @CingwaneElihle
      @CingwaneElihle 2 года назад +2

      @Mmathabo where can I get the book??? I loved his interview!!

    • @musakubheka9255
      @musakubheka9255 2 года назад +2

      I need a copy too where can I get it

    • @mjmeternal2696
      @mjmeternal2696 2 года назад +2

      Where did you get the book?

    • @tinyikochauke5123
      @tinyikochauke5123 2 года назад +2

      Pls share the front page.. I need much info about it. I want to buy it.. Even if I don't have money.

  • @ntombenanimlinda3265
    @ntombenanimlinda3265 2 года назад +31

    Vusi is capitalizing on Mlungisi's story. Everything he says he makes sure is the opposite of Mlungisi's experience. Mxim

    • @tetelomaphila8430
      @tetelomaphila8430 2 года назад +1

      Right?! He tries to turn every bad thing Mlungisi experienced into a "how i made it a positive thing" story.

    • @peellohmhlongo6188
      @peellohmhlongo6188 2 года назад

      He is hiding alot and dojjing questions answering in his own different way, this guy is been raped as well just like he said some off the things even his family dont know some of the things that happened

  • @nonkolo_faith
    @nonkolo_faith 2 года назад +202

    This is the second time I am hearing Mlungisi speak about this on RUclips and it breaks my heart every time! They really took advantage of him.,.. there is an innocence I see in him, may God continue to keep and protect him. I wish him so many blessings!!! As a mom of two boys he is teaching me a lot.

    • @sumeiyaali5663
      @sumeiyaali5663 2 года назад

      Innocence (correct phrase)🤞🤞

    • @lucricia_mokgolo
      @lucricia_mokgolo 2 года назад +1

      😥💔

    • @fananxele8293
      @fananxele8293 2 года назад +1

      Yeah, he was young and he was also scared njengoba esho and they took advantage instead of protecting umntwana

    • @Bongs_97
      @Bongs_97 2 года назад

      where else is he talking about his experience

    • @mulaedzamonica5511
      @mulaedzamonica5511 2 года назад

      From gender network right?

  • @pumyzee
    @pumyzee 2 года назад +194

    I feel like Vusi was not ready to reveal a lot about his experiences in prison and he is somehow playing it down as if it wasn’t that bad for him. I strongly believe there’s more he witnessed and experienced than he is willing to share for whatever reason. Mlungisi on the other hand is really open and honest about his painful experience and is ready to lay it all out, and I applaud him for that. I wish Mlungisi all the best and healing in his new chapter in life and I hope the youth will learn from such stories and stay away from crime 💝 ❤️

    • @mpoetsiramolahlehi7131
      @mpoetsiramolahlehi7131 2 года назад +51

      I honestly noticed that.. after Mlungisi mentioned that he was raped and was forced to join a gang to protect himself Vusi made it look like he didn't go through that because it was a choice and that he had to be man enough....it was rather unsympathetic and condescending

    • @AfricaTekk
      @AfricaTekk 2 года назад +24

      Vusi didn't even tell his family that he was almost choked to death

    • @sisiphoB
      @sisiphoB 2 года назад +4

      I think so too Pumy

    • @zingimazongs274
      @zingimazongs274 2 года назад +2

      Yep yep I saw that he kept talking about how not easy jail is... But on the flip side I think he is here to promote himself rather than sharing the experience which is a shame in a way

    • @dorahkeabetswe7880
      @dorahkeabetswe7880 2 года назад +7

      Yoooh prison is really hectic! Imagine sleeping with a corpse because the prison guard didn't open the door at that time 😱!
      It's a sad punishment to go into prison to correct your ways then all of a sudden u are raped and infected with HIV at that time you are a virgin 🤢

  • @EkhayaNoYayo
    @EkhayaNoYayo 2 года назад +73

    As much as I can say individuals can have a different experience in the same situations I do feel vusi was very reluctant to be honest.
    The way he made it seem like the young man in white brought rape upon himself really is upsetting to watch, at every moment he got he would highlight weaknesses /drugs / not being man enough.
    It’s ok to tell your story without shitting on someone else’s.

  • @hikertravellornatureenthus4816
    @hikertravellornatureenthus4816 2 года назад +92

    Mlungisi’s story is so touching… he accepted God and I wish him protection and a healthy life forever and ever… Amen!

  • @tshepangmotaungmotaung1674
    @tshepangmotaungmotaung1674 2 года назад +82

    the other prisoner (the teacher) his experience with prison sounds like paradise. The real story here is by Mlungisi.

    • @khetimthembu8465
      @khetimthembu8465 2 года назад +1

      Yesss

    • @sibonginkosinyathi7580
      @sibonginkosinyathi7580 2 года назад +2

      Akudlalwa ejele kuyanyiwa akekho ongakuxoxa konke okwenzeke ejele

    • @bekithembasibanda6792
      @bekithembasibanda6792 2 года назад +6

      And he's sick too!!, hiding it coz he's damn too proud of him self fucken nuby!!

    • @tshepangmotaungmotaung1674
      @tshepangmotaungmotaung1674 2 года назад

      And did you see how he kept refering to Mlungisi's rape? Esp the part where one of the students "attacked" him for a question paper.

    • @Lmngx13872
      @Lmngx13872 2 года назад +11

      Maybe he's thinking about how people are going to look at him or perceive him at home once he truly reveals his real prison experience

  • @ntsoakimokotjo2490
    @ntsoakimokotjo2490 2 года назад +49

    I wish the gents got two seperate interviews.

  • @sihleqengqeleka7125
    @sihleqengqeleka7125 2 года назад +97

    Mlungisi, you've been through a lot my brother, but you seem to have emotionally healed... 💪

  • @badiri1475
    @badiri1475 2 года назад +208

    Notice how Vusi kept on invalidating what Mlungisi was saying;
    Mlu: I got raped
    Vusi: I had to be "man enough" (To avoid getting raped perhaps?)
    Mlu: I had no choice. (remember, he was just a kid)
    Vusi: It's a choice. (????)
    Also, I hope everyone else in here also feels that what Vusi shared with us was just a drop in the ocean. Man was hiding a lot of things but made it sound like yena he was having it light in there instead...which is a lie. At least that's how I feel. However, I respect both of these gentlemen very much.

    • @simphiwengwenya4337
      @simphiwengwenya4337 2 года назад +18

      thats so true i feel like vusi was raped too , he just doesnt want to share hes experience ...

    • @rangariraimancube8289
      @rangariraimancube8289 2 года назад +19

      I think he even got HIV from the prison,though he is hiding it.Vusi be blessed and thank you for sharing.
      Indeed he keeps invalidating what Mlu said. My Mom never visited. Vusi my Mom was my pillar.

    • @badiri1475
      @badiri1475 2 года назад +7

      @@rangariraimancube8289 He is ridiculously annoying.

    • @_pandorah._
      @_pandorah._ 2 года назад +9

      True. Vusi shaped his story to invalidate Mlu’s story. I didn’t like that but oh well…Mlu does sound like a strong man, happy how he turned his life around.

    • @rangariraimancube8289
      @rangariraimancube8289 2 года назад +1

      @@badiri1475 indeed

  • @gcinilenkambule2141
    @gcinilenkambule2141 2 года назад +281

    Mlungisi needs his own part 2, he really went through the most💔 and got alot to share

    • @sizaphlox
      @sizaphlox 2 года назад +2

      Yoh I agree. I'd love to hear more of his story

    • @zeb4721
      @zeb4721 2 года назад +3

      You can get to hear alot more on Agenda Network - Mlungisi is there also sharing his experience

    • @thabomgwenya6897
      @thabomgwenya6897 2 года назад +2

      Check "the agenda network"

    • @kelebogilemnculwane6902
      @kelebogilemnculwane6902 2 года назад +3

      I hope Ausi Relebogile can see your comment mtaka baba and do it

    • @montgomerykgatlhane6638
      @montgomerykgatlhane6638 2 года назад +1

      I Stan, I think Mlungisi could have been given the platform on his own. There's still quite a lot that a lot of people could actually hear about his prison experience. I've seen one of his prior RUclips videos, and I can say the history that he has, is just immense.

  • @xolilengcobo9969
    @xolilengcobo9969 2 года назад +18

    Yoooh, I wish I could give Mlungisi a tight hug 😭😭he's been through a lot xem😥

  • @busiswamabaso3957
    @busiswamabaso3957 2 года назад +15

    When he said he is blessed that he went through all those things because if it wasn't him than who😭😭😭 like no man it was never suppose to be you, you were just a child❤️ but I love his spirit God has really worked on him.

  • @mongezimahlangu4544
    @mongezimahlangu4544 2 года назад +24

    Drug addict plus 16 years of age, a mother who's a drug addict, no visitor for 10 years? That's a recepy for disaster...God heal this guy hey

  • @bonniem5963
    @bonniem5963 2 года назад +196

    I didn't like the guy in blue invalidating the other guy's experience in jail. It's clear why they had such different experiences. One day someone needs to do an investigation on Westville prison, sounds like hell on earth

    • @mpoetsiramolahlehi7131
      @mpoetsiramolahlehi7131 2 года назад +35

      His comment was unsympathetic and very condescending, I was really disappointed

    • @mapulalemekoane8375
      @mapulalemekoane8375 2 года назад +35

      Yes I felt like he was blaming him that he got raped because he was not man enough or aggressive enough forgetting that he was child when going to prison

    • @asefika4299
      @asefika4299 2 года назад +2

      Soo true 🥺

    • @sibonginkosinyathi7580
      @sibonginkosinyathi7580 2 года назад +4

      Wonke amajele all over the world 🌎they are hell on earth 🌎

    • @ayandamgiba3912
      @ayandamgiba3912 2 года назад +9

      @@mapulalemekoane8375 I thought I was the only one who noticed the things he was saying

  • @thandekangubane3494
    @thandekangubane3494 2 года назад +170

    I'd love to hear women talking about their experience being incarcerated in South African prisons.

    • @eliannahchrista9301
      @eliannahchrista9301 2 года назад +5

      I was thinking the same thing too

    • @ViweQuza
      @ViweQuza 2 года назад

      check out unpopular facts on youtube...basically they say its easy.

    • @alocraft506
      @alocraft506 2 года назад

      My God is powerful topic I stay where boys and girls 12, 13 😭belong to a gang the guys may God keep and bless thay work

    • @sandisiwemadondo9722
      @sandisiwemadondo9722 2 года назад

      I agree Thabdeka

    • @kellyalexander7347
      @kellyalexander7347 2 года назад

      They have got episodes on RUclips

  • @jeromemoremi8063
    @jeromemoremi8063 2 года назад +32

    I am so proud of Mlungisi as I also got a chance to run his story while he was still Mpumalanga Nelspruit and he changed a lot of youth in Nelspruit

  • @angelsthoko1121
    @angelsthoko1121 2 года назад +19

    Everytime Mlungisi speaks I just wanna cry

  • @lethaboletsoalo529
    @lethaboletsoalo529 2 года назад +141

    I loved this interview. Yoh uVusi was just telling us how educated he is and generalizing every question he is asked. Mlungisi really did well and part 2 of him alone would be nice. @unpackedwithrelebogile can't we have ladies who can narrate to us about female prisons and unpack all aspects involved?

    • @thembiq6598
      @thembiq6598 2 года назад

      Vusi was raped too, too much pride there

  • @samkelisiwezungu3395
    @samkelisiwezungu3395 2 года назад +16

    Vusi for me is like he is making him better than Mlungisi of which he was young. I feel sorry for Mlungisi, He went through the worst may God heal him.

    • @Don-co1ft
      @Don-co1ft 2 года назад

      You judge to much

  • @dakaloentertainment9461
    @dakaloentertainment9461 2 года назад +55

    I don't understand why a good story has to always appear sad. Vusi is also telling his story and that's his story. No pride in it. He was privileged to have a supportive mother, courage and matured. Mlungisi on the other hand has his own story that he owns Up to. So big up to both of them for sharing their story. Blessing as Vusi says and tough as Mlungisi says, we love you guys

    • @redeemedandloved5905
      @redeemedandloved5905 2 года назад +8

      Well said just 2 different men with different backgrounds both found themselves in prison for different reasons .Moral of the story they both agree jail is not a good place.

  • @arnejooste
    @arnejooste 2 года назад +328

    I loved listening to the guy in the white shirts story… it so sad, I don’t know how he went 10 years without having any visitors… that must have been so long and lonely… but he overcome his obstacles. You are strong ❤️

    • @learnwithme322
      @learnwithme322 2 года назад +17

      And he's oozing positivity!

    • @mpumelelontombela589
      @mpumelelontombela589 2 года назад +12

      Can you imagine everyone else has family around and goods to take back to the cell and he's alone

    • @celestenunes6491
      @celestenunes6491 2 года назад +5

      I agree with you too. May God continue to bless him.

    • @zamajobesithole2429
      @zamajobesithole2429 Год назад +1

      Shame painful

    • @sindilembenga1031
      @sindilembenga1031 Год назад

      May Our God continue to give Mlungisi courage and strength to teach our children about life in jail

  • @mpume131
    @mpume131 2 года назад +100

    What Mlungisi says it's so painful but TRUE I have a relative whose a warder when he shares what happens in prisons you realize that no one is safe both the prisoners and warders.When they fight inside the wardes are not sure if it's happening or it's a trap that's why they don't act immediately.

  • @busi889
    @busi889 2 года назад +11

    Vusi is not open n honest with himself..holding back..body language says it all...all off the best Mlungisi u are indeed an ambassadar

  • @NolwaziRNgomane
    @NolwaziRNgomane 2 года назад +35

    Mlungisi being optimistic about his experience is so heart breaking💔 but it brings hope to us all to have a pure heart like him 🔥

  • @thabomoepi7783
    @thabomoepi7783 2 года назад +15

    Vusi is trying to act like a prison cheeseboy, he is avoiding talking about details, School cant save u from real prison experiences. Mlungisi thank you for your honesty and courage to open up, you are the real man in this interview.

    • @martharanchia520
      @martharanchia520 2 года назад +2

      Vusi unamanga nje qha ejele akusi ka Gogo wakho skolo or no skolo age or nor age jail is hell syabonga Mlungi nathi sizofunda kuwe nama teenagers akumamele big up Mlungi God is gonna heal you

    • @thulaneashley9603
      @thulaneashley9603 2 года назад +1

      @@martharanchia520 totally vusi his not letting the truth out, that place is Hell!😒

  • @kingthembabuthelezi
    @kingthembabuthelezi 2 года назад +45

    I love how people are allowed to express themselves in their mother tongue because some shows have brilliant stories but they get watered down by broken English and we lose the purpose of the interview. This interview was refreshing and very much needed 🙌🏽

  • @rennymiyelane570
    @rennymiyelane570 2 года назад +37

    Vusi always brings studying as an excuse to fold the story

    • @ebonyatoti
      @ebonyatoti 2 года назад +4

      That is his expressed lived experience and how he says he focused to survive. It would not be fair to invalidate it. Fact is he was in jail which is obvs no walk in the park. The rest is... just the rest. He is a new man.

    • @ntombiyelangaskylarngcobo8463
      @ntombiyelangaskylarngcobo8463 8 месяцев назад +1

      So annoying...he acts clever but he really knows he got raped or he was a rapist himself

  • @Anele_M
    @Anele_M 2 года назад +61

    God bless Mlungisi! Such a wonderful soul ❤️

  • @thulileblou5386
    @thulileblou5386 2 года назад +88

    I enjoyed watching Mlungisi unpack his story,he did he with a passion for a person who went through all that.Vusi yena had witnessed inmates dying, slept with corpses yet his experience was somewhat good.Worse there are similarities between their stories.I find it hard to believe he was really open.

    • @mpumelelontombela589
      @mpumelelontombela589 2 года назад +12

      I also feel Vusi held back, he wanted to show that he was man enough

    • @nombulelokupa653
      @nombulelokupa653 2 года назад +5

      I'm also doubting his honesty

    • @phushmnyakama16
      @phushmnyakama16 2 года назад +4

      True, he definitely was not entirely honest (the older guy)

    • @lebohangmotsoeneng5412
      @lebohangmotsoeneng5412 2 года назад +7

      I doubt he was being honest everything was easy on him every school everything education AI I didn't buy his story

    • @mantoamamsika6925
      @mantoamamsika6925 Год назад +1

      I don't think Vusi is purely honest. He's holding back

  • @katenhe
    @katenhe 2 года назад +19

    Vusi sounds like he was in a bootcamp , training (studying) and having fun whilst at it

  • @Natasha-yv6os
    @Natasha-yv6os 2 года назад +32

    I agree with Mlu jail doesn't change a person hence why some people come out and still do the same crime it's up to you as an individual to change your life

  • @gwenzozodlams2307
    @gwenzozodlams2307 2 года назад +38

    Served 10 year sentence with no visitors,very Sad😭

  • @zingimazongs274
    @zingimazongs274 2 года назад +14

    Sis Lebo bring back Mlungisi alone so he can share more

  • @blinkym21
    @blinkym21 2 года назад +112

    At 18 and 27 their experiences were always going to be different. Their upbringings also sound like they were so different.
    I wish the other guy was a little more empathetic to Mlungisi’s experience. I am glad Mlungisi survived his painful ordeal and I hope he lives long ,so that his experience can be a lesson to others♥️.

    • @thelmanojova8730
      @thelmanojova8730 2 года назад +2

      True it felt like Mlungisi was supposed to do something off which there was nothing to do

    • @fananxele8293
      @fananxele8293 2 года назад +1

      Very true, that's why they both have different experiences

    • @sarahissa9466
      @sarahissa9466 2 года назад +1

      It could also be because that the where in different types of jails as well i heard a lot of bad things about Westville poison

    • @nomzamozamora1535
      @nomzamozamora1535 2 года назад +1

      Heyi uvusi nje wahamba wayofunda

    • @sethabilenxele8580
      @sethabilenxele8580 Год назад +1

      You know nothing beats the truth because it comes from your heart. Truth and only truth.. That's what Mlungisi has shared with the world. I salute him

  • @zamambomkhize2390
    @zamambomkhize2390 2 года назад +64

    Mlungisi is such an inspiration honestly, we thank you for your level of honesty and in telling your truth you will heal. May god continue to bless you Mlu , you are amazing . Keep going , fall down seven times, get up eight 🤛🏽

  • @tequilamockingbird6734
    @tequilamockingbird6734 2 года назад +35

    Yoh uMlungisi went through so much💔 at a young age he was never set up for success. But look at him thriving & well. I hope God continues to bless both men abundantly ❤️

  • @sizaphlox
    @sizaphlox 2 года назад +37

    I really appreciate how candid mlungisi is.

  • @babalwamdikeli1565
    @babalwamdikeli1565 2 года назад +27

    Thank you Mlungisi for being honest🙏

  • @lucillapodrenik4413
    @lucillapodrenik4413 2 года назад +27

    Sorry to say this U Mlungisi looks more healthy than U Vusi # thank you so much for sharing your honest story Mlungisi all the best in life .

    • @rojamillerover
      @rojamillerover 2 года назад +5

      You are right, Vusi looks unwell

    • @mjmeternal2696
      @mjmeternal2696 2 года назад +2

      Stop telling the truth. I noticed that too. It's like the one who is sick is Vusi. He's hiding something

    • @faith9224
      @faith9224 2 месяца назад

      The truth will set you free😊

    • @philanishange7806
      @philanishange7806 21 день назад

      Anikhulumi jesu

  • @gugushabalala1691
    @gugushabalala1691 2 года назад +20

    I wish Mlingisi had his own interview, he had so much to share with clear insight. I really appreciate his transparency and honesty. His story is heartbreaking, I hope God continues to strengthen him.

    • @mantoamamsika6925
      @mantoamamsika6925 Год назад +1

      He gave us insights of prison. South African men actually hide what's going on in there.

  • @tshiamomoahloli9991
    @tshiamomoahloli9991 2 года назад +29

    I’m so glad that Mlungisi spoke his truth even when Vusi was always trying to invalidate him. God bless Mlungisi, He has a big heart ❤️

    • @carolinechihota8507
      @carolinechihota8507 Год назад

      Proud of you Mlungisi for standing up after all that has happened to u at such a tender age. May God continue opening great and successful doors for u.

    • @shaunmabula8104
      @shaunmabula8104 11 месяцев назад

      He didn't try to invalidate anyone, he was just sharing his story. He couldn't change his story because mlungisi story is worse

    • @sinawomatomane3985
      @sinawomatomane3985 6 месяцев назад

      No he did and its like he wanted to sound superior than Mlungisi. Even though Mlungisi's story was worse but there is a bit of arrongancy on this Vusi guy. He sounds cocky for someone who says jail ain't easy
      @@shaunmabula8104

  • @sds2954
    @sds2954 2 года назад +94

    These guys stories are very inspiring. The fact that they were able to turn their lives around like that. What Mlungisi went through could have broken him but through sheer will and God's grace he has turned his life around and using his life story to inspire others. I hope his story reaches as many youth as possible.

    • @tshepangmoyo9139
      @tshepangmoyo9139 2 года назад +3

      I am not a fan of this is the best 🌟 and a few others are doing it is not the only one who has a very nice to have the opportunity for the first time since I have a lot to learn 🎓 and a few others are doing it is not the only one who has a very nice to have the opportunity for the first time since I have a lot to learn 🎓 and a few others are doing it is not the only one who has a very nice to have the opportunity for the first time since I have a lot to learn 📕 and a few others are doing it is not the only one who has a very nice to have the opportunity for the first time since I have a lot to learn 🎓 and a few others are doing it is not the only one who has a very nice to have the opportunity for the first time since

    • @anehanele4075
      @anehanele4075 2 года назад

      When he says i under wear wayeyithunga 😭that part inghlukumezile Ey shame 😭😭😭

  • @skot_onthebeat
    @skot_onthebeat 10 месяцев назад +3

    Can we just thank Relebohile for asking the right questions , so many people don’t know how to conduct interviews

    • @masiyamothwanga
      @masiyamothwanga 8 месяцев назад

      Especially matters that touch on abuse.

  • @refinedrevolt
    @refinedrevolt 2 года назад +48

    Vusi makes prison sound like he just went Uni 🙄🙄 just study study study. How is that someone's first thought when their going to prison

    • @RayOfLetsatsi
      @RayOfLetsatsi 2 года назад +4

      Literally sounds a university experience👀mhm the lies..

    • @noluthandomqakelana6417
      @noluthandomqakelana6417 2 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣 so true

    • @meet_sinex10
      @meet_sinex10 2 года назад

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tebogothelcy7451
      @tebogothelcy7451 2 года назад +1

      He didn't have any protection but he wasn't raped or beaten up, he jst saw ppl dying in front of him... He's lying tjo

    • @suenyathi1305
      @suenyathi1305 2 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @spykos160
    @spykos160 2 года назад +45

    Though it feels like Vusi is understating his experience in Prison. We simply cannot expect two people from two different prisons to have the same kind of experiences or stories to tell.

    • @Leradennis
      @Leradennis 2 года назад +2

      We don’t expect them to have the same experience, we expect them to show empathy to those sharing their experiences. Vusi kept invalidating Mlungisi’s sexual assault and reasons for joining a gang as if Mlungisi chose those circumstances himself.

    • @spykos160
      @spykos160 2 года назад

      @@Leradennis What you saying makes sense though..

  • @snazom8643
    @snazom8643 2 года назад +43

    I love Mlungisi’s energy and his story telling….

  • @Amand4bee
    @Amand4bee 2 года назад +9

    Mlungusi kept emphasizing he had no choice part of it because of Vusi’s comment! Yoh the rape part by 5 men really is heartbreaking

    • @moitoisephuthe9170
      @moitoisephuthe9170 2 года назад

      I also have a cousin who went to prison he tells it like Vusi I think it all depends on the place maybe it's hard in k.z.n than job Godbless them it's very heart breaking

  • @menniekumalo3276
    @menniekumalo3276 2 года назад +21

    It feels like Vusi was holding back alot,

  • @puseletsomoleko7878
    @puseletsomoleko7878 2 года назад +29

    We could definitely hear Mlungisi out one more time. He definitely went through it, Yoh!!!

  • @muntumanana9671
    @muntumanana9671 2 года назад +42

    Loving Mlungis facial reactions to Vusi's story 😄🤣

    • @tshepangmoroke8068
      @tshepangmoroke8068 2 года назад +8

      😂😂 he's like dude why you lying, why you generalizing why you hiding things 🤔 😒

    • @moiponenogee3540
      @moiponenogee3540 2 года назад +4

      Like “ nigga pls you lying”

    • @sandradube4456
      @sandradube4456 2 года назад +2

      Especially when he said he never saw anyone get raped 👀 😒 . I've never been to prison but even I don't believe that blatant lie!

    • @sinawomatomane3985
      @sinawomatomane3985 6 месяцев назад +1

      I thought I was the only one who saw that! He looked so annoyed at times 🤣

  • @TheRealRovkstsr5
    @TheRealRovkstsr5 2 года назад +3

    Vusi story is normal..... Mlungisi is the one we should be listening the most

  • @mihlalinxasana6734
    @mihlalinxasana6734 2 года назад +25

    Mlungisi! 🙌🏾 what a captivating interview… so sincere, open and honest. We truly appreciate his honesty. Where can we purchase his book or donate to his cause?

  • @nellyginindza927
    @nellyginindza927 2 года назад +72

    Vusi seems like he was living a normal life nje just eating food, going to school and reading 😹😂

    • @chekie458
      @chekie458 2 года назад +5

      🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤔

    • @tanakanyamuzinga9562
      @tanakanyamuzinga9562 2 года назад +6

      😂Tell me about it.

    • @nellyginindza927
      @nellyginindza927 2 года назад +2

      @@tanakanyamuzinga9562 😹😹😹😹he was enjoying life to the maximum

    • @nomawabompulampula8938
      @nomawabompulampula8938 2 года назад +28

      😂😂😂😂😂 Mlu looks healthy ,Vusi it's like he is the one who is sick 😷

    • @tsakaneelihle4846
      @tsakaneelihle4846 2 года назад

      Kwaa eyi futhi

  • @franknolutshungu6802
    @franknolutshungu6802 2 года назад +24

    I enjoyed Mlungisi's part and motivation, he is brave and an inspiration 🙏

  • @sineguguvilakazi6502
    @sineguguvilakazi6502 2 года назад +41

    Mlungisi's story is very traumatizing and touching 😭🥺life is really unpredictable shame and indeed our relatives that come from prison need our full support because WOW🔥

  • @siyabongashangase6385
    @siyabongashangase6385 2 года назад +66

    Mlungisi's story is the story I would like to hear more about in detail since he has been in different prisons in S. A. I wish he could have a tell all interview.

    • @siyabulelaebenezerhezekiah2702
      @siyabulelaebenezerhezekiah2702 2 года назад +2

      Search channel called " The Agenda Network " and look for his videos....thats where he tell his story...

    • @tinyikochauke5123
      @tinyikochauke5123 2 года назад

      I wish to follow him on Facebook page or Instagram.. 😭😭😭

  • @favouredphakoe2750
    @favouredphakoe2750 2 года назад +24

    i personally know Vusi, I did financial statements for his business , what a humble man and very caring , very inspiring as well.

    • @nqobilemahungu5279
      @nqobilemahungu5279 2 года назад

      Stop lying Vusi is still very shady AF. He doesn't even do shit for his kids.. He can't be an honorable man when he was one of people who looted the most during that looting period... Stop lying to people this guy is a piece of shit 🙄

    • @faith9224
      @faith9224 2 месяца назад

      He seems like he has no sympathy for that young man and when you see him again please remind him to add sympathy to his humility 😊

  • @joytaki4210
    @joytaki4210 2 года назад +6

    I feel like vusi is lying about his experience in jail he's not being totally honest and Mlu your the man your sincerely honest and God will continue to bless you that's why you God changed it all from life sentence to 10yrs because of your honesty..much love and respect for you my guy..

  • @NomD05MZ
    @NomD05MZ 2 года назад +18

    Why a 18 year old was placed with adults? Very sad story kaMlungisi 💔💔💔.

    • @tendaishemlambo5930
      @tendaishemlambo5930 2 года назад +2

      Its because according to law adulthood begins at 18, so although you’re still young by societal standards the law regards you as an adult so you get adult punishment.

  • @nonkululekombambo3413
    @nonkululekombambo3413 2 года назад +31

    Can we get part two of Mlungisi's story. He has gone through the most and has a lot to share.

  • @sitakelemswati
    @sitakelemswati 2 года назад +68

    They need to test people that are going to prison for many infections and put them in cells according to their sicknesses because it's really unfair for someone to contract a disease in a place that is supposed to correct your character but rather destroy it, because catching HIV can definitely mess up a person's mind and no one deserves to be infected with HIV.

    • @kehilwemotlhabane7566
      @kehilwemotlhabane7566 2 года назад +1

      Exactly

    • @mphomohlabula8164
      @mphomohlabula8164 2 года назад +1

      I totally support this

    • @sarahissa9466
      @sarahissa9466 2 года назад +1

      Very true this is very unfair 😕 😢

    • @bulelwagantsu3458
      @bulelwagantsu3458 Год назад +2

      1stly that’s discrimination. People should never be separated based on weather they are HIV positive or not. The issue here is not one’s HIV status but rather rape. Life is not fair so I don’t want to talk about fair. But it is not right for one to be sexually assaulted.

    • @mantoamamsika6925
      @mantoamamsika6925 Год назад

      Preps need to be availed for emergency purposes.

  • @madikanaramusi4335
    @madikanaramusi4335 2 года назад +7

    I just feel like the other guy is not ready to share it all.Can we please have part 2 ya Mlungisi a le 1

  • @xolanibhengu6796
    @xolanibhengu6796 2 года назад +12

    Second time watching Mlungisi and you can tell his story is true because his story is the same on both interviews

  • @ireadwhatilike1967
    @ireadwhatilike1967 2 года назад +83

    Lebo thank you for giving us a show that allows us to understanding REAL stories of ordinary people that we would otherwise never hear. There is a tendency in South African television to continue giving us shows that only interview celebrities where we mostly learn that they started singing at Sunday School at 4. The times that you have interviewed celebrities, it is always about their lives outside being a celebrity. I am personally learning so much about the human experience 🌹🌹🌹

  • @mokganyetjimphahlele4551
    @mokganyetjimphahlele4551 2 года назад +24

    Mlungisi was too young when he went to prison. He seems like a good and honest man. May God bless him and give him the strength to do more and help others who are currently in the same situation he was in when he was still a teenager. I'm sorry that you had to endure all you did. I can imagine, as a child stranded in the streets, you would have done anything that the older guys tell you to do. I'm sorry you had to experience what you have experienced.

  • @lebohangmotsoeneng5412
    @lebohangmotsoeneng5412 2 года назад +9

    I thank Mlungisi for being so strong and presenting himself so well, u are strong Nd we appreciate you. The other guy I did not like his interview simply because be had no sympathy for mlungisis story. To him it was easy but for mlungisi was not so next time he should have sympathy for others. Being educated is nothing when u don't have a heart 😉

  • @vuyelwamvandaba7210
    @vuyelwamvandaba7210 2 года назад +14

    I am so touched by Mlungisi 's jail experience. Wish I can watch more of his story.

  • @vuyiswashabani1341
    @vuyiswashabani1341 2 года назад +8

    Vusi just downplaying things..strength to Mlungisi,sending love and light💡

  • @life-agiftthatkeepsgiving8508
    @life-agiftthatkeepsgiving8508 2 года назад +21

    Mlungisi for President!!.. He must definitely come back...

  • @wendy7915
    @wendy7915 2 года назад +6

    Saw Mlungisi's story on another RUclips channel. He has a book out. I bought the book. 💔😭

  • @ayandamgiba3912
    @ayandamgiba3912 2 года назад +9

    I don't know if Vusi is listening to questions or not... Yes we want to know how you are doing after prison but I don't think he's not spitting facts with his experience in prison. But heyy much respect to mlungisi for the honesty.

  • @tebogomazaka1209
    @tebogomazaka1209 2 года назад +12

    I think uVusi overshadows his shame by wanting us to believe that he's not that bad fact is as much as he can say he was lucky all the time he was a prisoner and its a lifetime scar

    • @Dfntombi
      @Dfntombi 2 года назад +1

      Vusi is lying ,,,he was also still young when he got into jail,,,he is defending himself ,im sure he have been raped too ,he is embarrassed

    • @kholofelomagdelinempholwan7434
      @kholofelomagdelinempholwan7434 2 года назад +1

      Rape is a sensetive matter let him be

    • @mpakim5653
      @mpakim5653 2 года назад +3

      Vusi is all promoting himself…. Wanting to shine over Mlu

  • @mandisafst4356
    @mandisafst4356 2 года назад +17

    so much wisdom in Mungisi, thank to both gentlemen for sharing their stories

  • @elizabethleboho9752
    @elizabethleboho9752 2 года назад +8

    Some people are uncomfortable talking about the whole truth about their experiences in jail like rape because the world is very cruel, they can use it against you just to put you down. I am pleased they managed to turn their lives around. Loving Mlungisi he is not bitter, May the Lord bless him abundandly.

    • @tinyikochauke5123
      @tinyikochauke5123 2 года назад

      His accepted hence his so open.. I think he should make an initiative of making money cause wow.. People would pay to hear his story.

  • @nhlanhlakhumaloh
    @nhlanhlakhumaloh 2 года назад +20

    The other part doesn't tell the real truth about his story... I find it hard to believe that he never experienced anything nje

  • @kgomotsosetsio
    @kgomotsosetsio 2 года назад +10

    My heart bleeds for this guy with the white(or light blue shirt)what he went through is too much mann and not having support is way harder to do this alone.Im happy his out and his life is going well.i just wish to give him a tight hug nje

  • @annekhosy2538
    @annekhosy2538 2 года назад +5

    Vusi was claiming a lot...about who he is today and he's wasn't really answering questions!!he was just generalizing everything he was asked and also invalidating mlungisi's experience!!....i'd like to see part 2with Mlungisi....
    And if you going to to read this may Godless you Mlungisi
    You're such a wonderful soul !!

  • @khozamasechaba
    @khozamasechaba 2 года назад +10

    Mlungisi was definitely young and vulnerable. The men who he says were friends groomed him into crime. He had to account and it's great that he changed his life. I definitely loathe how Vusi had no sympathy for him, there was no need.

  • @sthembilenkomo5850
    @sthembilenkomo5850 2 года назад +14

    Eye opener I so wish my kids can watch dis

  • @samewaysuhtv3786
    @samewaysuhtv3786 2 года назад +3

    They both tell their stories from their own experience. Stop the comparison. No one care who you like more. I appreciate and respect both for sharing.

  • @lungileringani2693
    @lungileringani2693 2 года назад +17

    Total respect for these men for doing this interview.🙌🏿

  • @ZenandeNozibele
    @ZenandeNozibele 2 года назад +9

    Wow, just wow. Strength to Mlungisi angadinwa in motivating the youth and staying positive. His story is one of victory, thank you bafo.

  • @ernestinalefebvre5191
    @ernestinalefebvre5191 2 года назад +12

    I appreciate the subtle accent & language differences between the two Zulu men. 1 from Esqauqau the other from GP.

  • @zinhleangel2634
    @zinhleangel2634 2 года назад +20

    I can tell that Vusi once killed someone in prison nje his busy defending himself because of umamakhe ,wife and kids

  • @malaikabanza6094
    @malaikabanza6094 2 года назад +9

    Thank you Relebogile. I am more motivated to visit prison mostly those who don't have anyone to visit them.

  • @matsajeme9277
    @matsajeme9277 2 года назад +10

    I need a channel for Mlungisi alone, there is a lot we can learn from him and his honesty is real. Stay blessed Mlu and I'm definately gonna buy and read your book.