Finding love in prison (Part 1) | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 24 | Season 2
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- Опубликовано: 30 июн 2021
- 3 Inidviduals share their stories on how they managed to find love in prison.
Studio Guests: Tshidi Mokoe & Elijah Sikhosana
Zoom Guests:Lerato Moche
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Ms Relebogile, would you please consider doing a story on workplace bullying. While many acknowledge that bullying is rampant in schools, there is little awareness of the extent to which people are bullied at work. In some workplaces, e.g. institutions of higher learning and other workplaces where there are plenty of characters with massive egos, things can get very bad.
Come to think I have been there though I left but I still have flash backs
Search Dr Fundile Nyathi, he tapped on that and it's very sad.
@@sibongisenitawoni4671 I will look Dr Fundile up.
@@lebogangdlaminilebogangdla1691 100%. One can literally develop diagnosable PTSD!
I agree toxicity in a work environment is always overlooked
Relebogile looks great. This look works so well on her.
Elijah's story simply means u must be careful of your circle..
I love how you ALLOW your guests to tell their story in full. I thoroughly enjoyed this.
The lady dating the guy who killed “a crime of passion “ has a liver ,doesn’t she ever think the guy may do the say to her, that thought would always be in my mind 24/7/365.
Imbokodo is undisputed when it comes to having a liver.
once a person kills even once they go to a darker level that can never be undone. Imagine killing two! ladies never learn yazin.
Too much liver
Liverfied
The people we dating were dumped for some dodgy reasons but we date em anyway
Currently the best show in SA!! Life changing🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
This Chanel is life changing! I judge people a lot and I'm honestly learning not to. Thank you Relebogile🙏
I judge a lot as well, but open to unlearning it and be open minded about things
So true. These interviews change our perspectives of others to better understand them
Same here. Eish I started ka part 2 , I was blown away
Me too hey ... and I'm finding myself through this channel ...
Good for you., in the process you save yourself, because who will if you don’t.,
The friend “Kagiso” 🙌🏾wherever you are my brother!!! May you achieve all you desire. You are a real friend.
Our justice system neh… imagine doing hard time while innocent, being tortured by police and police bribing girlfriends yuuuh the ghettoness of it all! I just can’t!
Imagine falling for someone who killed his partner, hasenna yoo. Lerato bathong sebete sesekana?!!!!
🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼 your no one fan from Zimbabwe is up watching at 00:05am...love your interviewing skills and how you articulate the English language Lebo
A year later at exactly the same time a number one fan from Zimbabwe is also watching this episode😁
Your topics/content is mind blowing. I never thought of this one 😃😃😃😃
Right☺️and this is why we keep coming back to this channel
Glad to hear that!
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I'm waiting patiently for Tshidi to write a movie. You such a good story teller, when you talk I can already visualize hai no watata. Elijah on the other hand dropped valid points especially at the end....was so hooked in this show part 3/4 please we need time like they had ka family day visits 7am-2pm
Patiently waiting for part 2.......
I do not know how she keeps herself composed without showing any judgments or rolling her eyes. Wow Lebo shout'out to you gal
In January i was electricuted for something i ddnt do, when Elijah said he thought it's better to die than to risk being tortured again i felt that. I almost threw myself out of a moving car because i didn't wanna risk being electricuted again, this whole experience messed me up psychologically. I now have little faith in the justice system and im a third year law student.
So shocking to hear of people suffering in custody under the hands of the police
That's hw messed up our justice system is
I'm so sorry about your ordeal. Be strong and bring about change when you done with your studies
Thank you sesi...dats the plan
Please continue with your law studies so that you can save others in your situation. My ex boyfriend is a lawyer facing false rape charges . I advised him to keep on with the case and his work these things are there to make us stronger , keep strong sthandwa
i dont think i am open minded enough to date a prisoner.
For me it will be a moral dilema, because they all say they are innocent- but fact is they broke the law that is trying to protect society to get in there.
Tebogo, I think Im open minded but too much of a fixer. The situation would frustrate me
@@AllThingsLindo i get you
@@nomxhosapekani7966 not all though. the other did admit he was guilty.
@@tebogomaupa_ I hear you but stats speak louder.
Tshidi you have a good friend bathong. Well I did the same thing for another candidate, it was just the two of us for that interview. We had a little chat before the interview, I thought she needed the job more than I did, I asked the panel to give her the job instead.
Tshidi's voice and tone reminds me of Moshidi Motshegwa.
Spot on 👌
Even the looks alil bit
So,I heard inmates are charming and they can even have multiple relationships😊.I respect these ladies who are open in dating prisoners😊!
They have all the time to themselves to think of how to fish for ladies, they make a lot of money out of those relationships. They never run out of cash never. Those multiple ladies provide for them differently,
Now that Dr Magudumana and Thabo Bester makes a lot of sense.
This is VERY interesting!! I can't wait for part 2.
TshidX energy n narrative 😍😍😍 Lerato's Street accent😂😍😍
First of all, can I express how beautiful and gorgeous Relebogile is🔥🔥🔥
Your content is appreciated, so real and deep.
Your topics 💯 thank you so much, your content is truly eye opening!
Imagine going to prison for 35 years for something you didn't do and then i can say "someone you trust and love" rat you out for R20 000. World is a crucial place indeed
I belive that the police somehow did threaten thr girl.
Elijahs story💔💔💔💔💔yoh
You always deliver my dearest. Thank you
So nice of you ❤️
i am so proud of your guest. i am also in love with a prisoner who are we to judge. i dont have kids and he has 3 kids. My house was on kasie living hosted by Siyabonga so he saw me on TV. he was looking for me until he found him. when he told me that he is in prison i said o lesole. i love him so much . i will wait for him until he comes. i even went to visit him. we look alike. god bless you my sister
Wow you are in Love Moghel 😍😍😍😍💗💗💗💗💗
Alina ngoaneso,ke ho lakaletsa botle le mahlohonolo.Modimo a be le wena on this love journey😊.Lerato le monate neh😁!!
Girl you had me at "We look alike" 😂😂😂😂
Wow Alina. This is such an interesting story
How's it going?
This episode gave me whiplash. From the the innocent getting sold for change to friends giving up opportunities for friends. My heart's been broken over and over already I'm only halfway through.
She’s dating a murderer 😭😭😭😭I’m not judging...I’ll go with the other lady who said murder is a deal breaker for her 😭🌚
Sis I'm not that open minded period,
A murderer will never change killing someone is not a mistake,I call it desperation am not judging
Dating someone who killed his girlfriend and best friend don’t you worry about his short temper and him killing you. Or you pride yourself in never cheating? Mina, ah neva! Ngeke I’ll never date such
It's not even about cheating, what if you make him angry 😭😭😭😭😭
Didn't she say he was sentenced for 2 life sentences???
So he isn't coming out anytime soon.
@@nkosingiphilethabethe4853 exactly! They are short tempered
@@nondumisomhlongo exactly, what’s even the point
Ingathi ucc akakho mandi up stairs hayibo .. sana one wrong move uyafa moss nawe
Ke emetse Part 2 . 👀 love from Botswana 🇧🇼
I'm loving the content
Tshidi your story relates to mine some men becomes threatened nd start abusing emotionally nd physically We are the one always trying to save marriages for the sake of children but God has a reason for everything
The lady in love with the guy who killed his lover and his friend has a problem. There is nothing wrong with supporting someone who is in jail emotionally and spiritualy especially someone who killed intentionally.look within you sis and find what caused this to become a romantic relationship. He needs anger management from proffesionals, from himself, he needs to forgive himself, the people he killed and getting a cleansing.Then he can become a typical motivational and that's where it ends. No dating for him!!!!!
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Lol no dating for him😅😅😅
Love love your content, this channel is long overdue. Love you Lebo
Working on it!
Certainly watching part 2. Interesting topic. Learning alot. Thank you Relebogile 🙏🏽
I love this show so much. Your flowers are ready❤️❤️
Very touching heartbreaking narratives and thank you for their narration from prison love and other guests, I have learnt a lot because gender based violence and femicide and children abuse is a another pandemic in our society or communities in south Africa and the world at large🙏
Big up Kagiso. What a heart❤️
So love your show, i bee3in a similar situation where i fell in love eith a guy who was sentenced spent 5 years with him whil he was jin pridom the perfect guy so i thought everything a woman wants, but as soon as he was out on parole everthing changed the abuse emotionally financially and physically, he completely changed and so did his family,
These inmates tell u exactly what u want to hear they use u they control you but ee so blinded by there love. They do have a woman for everything while in prison one to buy expensive takkies one to buy airtime and one to send money
But im glad im out of that life im at peace and im happy.
13 yrs now still strongly in love with my partner while he was in prison serving life sentence now he is out we run a manufacturing business together for the past 13 yrs God is good 🎉
"Call it a crime of passion" then she smiles 😢 this made me so uncomfortable, my heart literally skipped a beat in fear.
I respect her boldness in telling her story. We are truly not to judge.
I found that disturbing. Personally I wouldn’t stomach it more especially a murderer, but to each it’s own. Yooo kuthafu.
Looking beautiful Lindo...
Yhooo aowa a murder
Lebo as usual looking beautiful. back to the topic these ladies are brave I guess their story complete the saying of finding love in a hopeless place
You look amazing sis Relebogile😍
Thank you!
Personality disorder, is also something that we as black people need to read, learn, look for characteristics around people whom we interact with, our colleagues, fall in love with, there are many types. Awareness saves lives, self help is paramount. Help yourself to help others to help you. Self identity, resilience, focus, independence.
Kele is so good with interview questions...big up Sis❤️.
Watching you from China and I never miss a show❤️❤️❤️
I'm also ko china...😂
Where are you ko china
Number 1 fan of Unpacked♡
Very good content im addicted to unpacked
Relebogiles laughter is soo charming, lol
The Elijah story reminds me of my younger brother ordeal. He was in a group of bikers and apparently they severely assaulted some people in a road rage. One person almost lost his life.. and I still remember vividly that day that I was with him at the hospital to visit his girlfriend and immediate when we arrived at home he got a call that there his crew was involved in a road rage and assaulted and Aliya killed other people.. and his crew were being incarcerated. I tried to advice him not to go there immediately because it was already late astound 23H00 .. but he insisted that he has to go to police station to find out what was going on and if his friends are ok.
Well to our surprise during that chaos, there were some witnesses called in to identify/ witness potential suspects..
And now in his bikers crew there was a friend of his, known to be violent and they look alike.. even almost their body shape. You would mistaken him to be my brother if he’s faving other side.. they were calling them twins.. now sad part is the very same guy was involved in the fight and manage to escape when they heard police are coming ..but unfortunately other crew members manage to escape. And were in custody.. immediately when my brother step at the police station to find out about his crew. One witness pointed him out that she’s adamant that she saw my brother assaulting a man who was fighting for his life at the hospital that day.. and immediately and violently he was arrested and put in custody .. and as his sister I was trying to tell them that could be a mistake since I was with him the whole time. Was also frighten by other sergeant .. that I will be incarcerated with him since I was trying to defend ends of justice or something like that.. I was so mad and knowing that , ion our family no one was ever be at the wrong side of law and we were trying hard to be loyal citizens that are always living by book of law..that day I notice there are indeed lot of innocent people serving life there. My brother was in prison for 6 months for absolutely the crime he didn’t commit. Somehow our lawyer manage at least to convince us to beg those problem to drop charges and instead compensate them.. and we had to pay huge amount of the money for that man that was assaulted . Medical bills, maintaining his wife and three kids. It’s was like we got a dark cloud over us.. 💔💔.. it was hard since the our lawyer told us TTS gonna be difficult to be proven innocent since there were witness and were adamant that my brother was the one of of the groups members that assaulted people there. Sad is we were early at the chess nyana and they are wearing same outfits. Hence it wasn’t very easy to be proven innocent . Matter were worse cos he went to the police station with his bike and gear on.. so he was just as guilty as charges. today my brother abandoned that biker group and want nothing to do with the guys he used to call a friend .
Since he even refused to confess.. keep on telling my brother that he shouldn’t be a coward and take this a a man and he will be out soon..and that he should look prison in a positive note that he will be more stron..mxm. As sisters we have always discourage him to befriend that guy.. it was a lesson for him.. till today. He listens when we warn him about any friend he brought home..🤞🏾. By Gods craze he still got his job back and is doing well now with his wife and kids too..
This guy was not a real friend, he is so selfish and evil how can he even say that.
your facial expressing is so intimidating on this episode Lebz or maybe its the hairstyle. uMuhle oe
Prisoners are good listeners and very compassionate especially those willing to change their lives.
I have never spoke to one 🙉🙈. In my bubble life I believe one should be humbled by their circumstances and be desperate for change.
😂😂😂 Very vivid imagination Lesego. Although each person is different, I have a cousin who was in prison for a while and this is true in his case as well.
I think it's because they have all the time in the world 🤣😅how the personalities change when they are out it should be expected because they get to experience more than just prison visits.
That's because they have all the time 😂💀
They have all the time in the world
Imagine being sold out for R20,000🤦♀️ people can be so cruel.
Part 2 & 3 - please Ree. Thanks CC
Relebogile that hair looks so good on you 😍🥰🥰
Thank you
Tjooo when she said murder, crime of passion, I was like ruuuuun.
Interesting topic
Wow what a topic👏👏👏👏
Part 2 please😭
Bathong, ous Relebogile. Waitse o montle gore! 😍🌺 poised, well-spoken as well... I mean... That's all really. Thanks for this show, keep at it 🙏🏽
I'm learning alot from this show.
From Kenya malindi.
Interesting topic.
'What do you do?'I serve time, lol
I was looking for this comment 😂
😂 😂 😂 😂 They all missed it
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I can relate to Tshidie's experience, however, the attention and "ideal" partnership diminishes once they are out.
absolutely, I agree. Ladies must be careful.
Chesa blue lagoon!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😃👌🏾
You're my Lebo, creative content deep buddy thumbs up always. Please come
Mind blowing streaming, i hv bn there... Wish I cn share my experience
Finding love in hopeless Place ❤🙏
Isn't it just powerful.
Ausi Kele would make an incredible psychologist 🌸
My brother right here honestly honestly Elijah
Love this show gore galore
Wola Blue Lagoon 😂😂😂😭 ay cha
Your work is amazing ❤️
Kuthiwa if the background is white wall or tiles in his pics, you must know... He is behind ||||||
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This might be interesting 😜
Great discussion! Seems Elijah wasn't included in the ongoing discussion it looked awkward with him sitting there and not being asked questions or opinions.
I'm sure we'll hear more of his story in part 2. Also she started with him.
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Chesa wena Blue lagoon 😹😹🤣🤣 Hhay lantso 😂😂💀💀💀😅😅
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I'm listening man
Wow Ousi Lerato yhoooo
I don't know but I feel lyk history might repeat its self xuld xe do anything wrong..but ke "we don't know"
Tsidi's? Man must come back. This women is passionate.
Tshidis story is so familiar
oh i worked with Lerato Moche some years ago...such a lovely girl
She's the best
How long until you upload part 2
Tomorrow on SABC3 at 17:00 CAT and then at 17:30 on RUclips
2nd tym watching about tshidi story. I could say never say never
Notification gang
M lost for words. Waitse we think some things are undoable that we NEVER think that ANYONE could do them. M mind is in explosives
What do you do for a living....i serve time 😂😂
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Gang gang 🤗
I went to jail for killing, and you are not scared? Yoh
😂😂😂 I know right!
Ausi Tshidi is so beautiful
Thank you
Tjo criminal friend😢 I am not strong enough to date a prisoner. I am not too open minded. The friend is really a great person. Passion of my crime no thanks entering a relationship wit fear.
"A woman's role in a relationship/marriage should be that of a helper, not a provider. That is a man's role"-Mokoe, T. (2021)🤞
No one has a role if nothing. Equality
@@kSubscribersWithNoVideos-ly8wm Everyone is entitled to their own opinion🙂
@@sontomtolo473 I do agree with that but I also stated my opinion cause it is subjective too. So I don't understand your respond
😂😂😂Harvard referencing girl.
Which centuary do you live in?
To like before watching🙃
Thank you 🥺
No other way!
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Blue Lagoon!!!
Ausi Tshidi men in jail are like that! I swear I went through the same thing ... the only difference is that I blocked him after I googled what he was in for 😂😂
Lol. Your story sounds interesting. What was he in jail for?
@@lebogangratale5731 yoh girl .. that was living soft in jail ... he is probably out and I don't want any trouble. 😂😂
I'm glad you blocked him before he persuaded you. Yoh Haye we woman need to stop being naive and gullible!!!
@@bongiwemasoka almost became a Dr Nandi girl 🤣💀
@Nobuhle Njinga Kube manje you are trending. I'm happy it's not you ☺️
Guys this channel ke becha ka yone
Nooo man, please go back to uploading full episodes here. Gape now o kare re ko TV with half episodes and it is getting a bit boring now. Upload the full episode once, even if that means not uploading them daily.
Hectic
So painful to watch!
Do people on prison have phones? How did that one have a profile on a dating site
They sneak them in
Yes they do...they sneak them in