Forever Maybe's Joy Letlala on infidelity anxiety, rebuilding her marriage and forgiveness: EP3

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  • Опубликовано: 19 май 2024
  • We were introduced to Joy Letlala on the marriage show Forever Maybe where she and her husband went to seek therapy for their marriage troubles. They also went on to appear on the spin-off of that show called Sakha Umendo which followed the couple's lives personal lives more closely. Joy spoke publicly for the first time since we last saw her.
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Комментарии • 54

  • @boniswalekhuleni9267
    @boniswalekhuleni9267 2 месяца назад +22

    Ba re fosta njengo Mzekezeke 😅. Aowa hle this is no longer bekezeling, this is fosting on another level. You guys need to release each other so God can start blessing you, because God does not bless a union he did not ordain. You are not equally yoked to each other. This man won't stop cheating until he finds his own true soul mate. Otherwise, you will continue experiencing the same problems over and over tot 2030 you will come back again speaking about the same thing my sister

  • @nontobekoxwayi7264
    @nontobekoxwayi7264 2 месяца назад +6

    You are such a wonderful host. You provide a safe space for your guests to speak. Keep u the good job sis.

    • @TheHonestHourZA
      @TheHonestHourZA  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much Nontobeko. I appreciate the feedback 😊

  • @zizozizipho9621
    @zizozizipho9621 2 месяца назад +6

    I always wondered were is she. I am happy to see her❤❤

  • @lebohangmoleleki
    @lebohangmoleleki Месяц назад +2

    It's my first time watching your podcast.I must say the interviewer is so calm and humble.She just melts my heart.I have watched several podcasts but you take the cup.Keep up the good work!

  • @Blessed_for_life_2023
    @Blessed_for_life_2023 2 месяца назад +5

    I think there's lots of love between Joy and Thabo, it's just that there's too much brokenness from Tbose, emanating from childhood trauma issues.
    I like that Joy is also acknowledging how she contributed in enabling Thabo to continue his behaviour. There's no perfection in relationship management, continue receiving therapy individually and as a couple and see how far this can go.
    Then u can call it quits when your spirit tells you it's enough.
    And, continue to pray girl and keep on inviting your ancestors into your life, so there can be light,since we saw that you're also gifted in that regard.

  • @kgomorachoene4132
    @kgomorachoene4132 2 месяца назад +10

    Joy joy excuses and excuses for Thabo i pray you guys find your separate ways peacefully

  • @rachelandrews5746
    @rachelandrews5746 2 месяца назад +4

    If it doesn't feel good anymore leave. You will end up contracting illnesses Thabo is not for you Joy. You will get someone who will love and respect you.

  • @dorcramps6779d
    @dorcramps6779d Месяц назад +4

    JOY U ARE ME I PRAY THAT I GET OUT OF THIS THING N FORGET HIM ,HOW I WISH TO GET TO A POINT WERE BY I DONT EVEN REMEMBER HIS CELL NUMBER ,HOW I WANT TO FORGET HIM AND I PRAY HARD TO FORGET THIS GUY ITS BEING THE WORST 2 YEARS OF MUY LIFE ,HOW IM STILL IN THIS MODIMO I DONT KNOW HLE ,I DONT EVEN HAVE ONE RESON NJE

  • @lethufulani9581
    @lethufulani9581 2 месяца назад +15

    Narcisistic people will make you think that shame my sister, hes not praying in secret he wants you to think that so that you can continue being with him even after the things he puts you through.
    Why cant he pray for his cheating ways so that when hes thinking of that God helps him to not do that?😮

    • @mmagobana1488
      @mmagobana1488 2 месяца назад +12

      Shes in denial shame, shes totally finished, she literally made excuses for him the whole time 🤣

    • @nobuhlemhlanga6858
      @nobuhlemhlanga6858 2 месяца назад +4

      I agree with you I don't think Joy is strong, she lacks self confidence and iate it when she keeps making excuses for Thabo.

    • @lungsta3598
      @lungsta3598 2 месяца назад +4

      Yhoo this lady is forcing this union......That guys is wasting her time n by the time she realises that it will be too late😢

    • @lungsta3598
      @lungsta3598 2 месяца назад +4

      And she's still giving him kids on top of his cheatings and he didn't even lobolad her🚮🚮

    • @mamagaseangelique1282
      @mamagaseangelique1282 2 месяца назад +1

      Unknown debit orders Joy need to come back

  • @jbadianyama
    @jbadianyama 2 месяца назад +9

    Ancestors and the Holy Spirit don't mix. Either you're a Jesus girl or you're not. 😢😢😢

  • @ephraimmotho887
    @ephraimmotho887 2 месяца назад +9

    Nelisiwe, you always bring such wonderful guests... people who made an impact in our hearts, and people who we often wonder, "konje okae mang mang?" Well done sisi. Keep doing a great job 👏👏👏

  • @thandekambuyisa2061
    @thandekambuyisa2061 2 месяца назад +4

    Great channel. Please keep them coming

  • @weselinamosieleng8056
    @weselinamosieleng8056 2 месяца назад +2

    She's been thru so much.....I hope both of them heal....they need to work on themselves

  • @lebotsimatsima743
    @lebotsimatsima743 2 месяца назад +1

    Nne ke rata o tsogile wa tsamaya. Joy, well done and not putting up with it, no more. Ebile it seems o ne a go nyatsa ebile gaslighting you ka go bua maaka. Love that you all good, kudos all the way from Thaba Nchu. Thank you for the lessons.

  • @londiwendima2994
    @londiwendima2994 2 месяца назад +3

    Choose your self n kids before choosing others, because sometimes they make u feel guilty in any toxicity that happens or happened in there lives, joy need to pray about her relationship ask god if the boy was made for her or the is a better person out there. I have been in that situation but but manje I'm happy ❤ n loved.

  • @ephraimmotho887
    @ephraimmotho887 2 месяца назад +3

    Joy is beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @masandefuzile2261
    @masandefuzile2261 2 месяца назад +3

    I like Joy

  • @normadunjwa7135
    @normadunjwa7135 2 месяца назад +8

    No cc Joy, Thabo is not marriage material

    • @Blessed_for_life_2023
      @Blessed_for_life_2023 2 месяца назад +2

      He's too broken. He needs therapy to heal because his heart is in the right place, he doesn't know how.

  • @tumisithole8858
    @tumisithole8858 18 дней назад

    36:57 yoo Joy i know what you talking about the anxiety..and that thing is painful

  • @tumisithole8858
    @tumisithole8858 18 дней назад

    Abuse is something else you will linger and protect your abuse...and you will think it is bekezeling kante no you going down

  • @lebomabathwana1458
    @lebomabathwana1458 2 месяца назад +7

    Eyho Joy 😂 o fostile hle

  • @xhobanigalela3133
    @xhobanigalela3133 2 месяца назад +1

    She is still with him 😢😢?

  • @pabidaniels494
    @pabidaniels494 2 месяца назад +3

    Yoh joy he will forever cheat on you mos 😂

  • @masandefuzile2261
    @masandefuzile2261 2 месяца назад +1

    She looks like my friend (Lungas)

  • @normadunjwa7135
    @normadunjwa7135 2 месяца назад +7

    please bring that isiXhosa sisi from that show. I really like her

    • @TheHonestHourZA
      @TheHonestHourZA  2 месяца назад +2

      Hi, sure we'll try reach out to her for an interview.

    • @sibulelesibaya9918
      @sibulelesibaya9918 2 месяца назад +4

      I hope she agrees I also like u Anelisa

    • @Blessed_for_life_2023
      @Blessed_for_life_2023 2 месяца назад +2

      You mean Anelisa neh. I like her too. She's authentic and doesn't hide her feelings and her shenanigans. She's real and strong.

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 2 месяца назад +3

    Hot ke laThabo. Feel sorry for this lady. It's not your fault that he cheats, he should have been supportive of his wife when nursing their child. One girl after another, ndingafa....

  • @mmakomasenoamadi-zz3ye
    @mmakomasenoamadi-zz3ye 2 месяца назад +3

    Today you are one subscriber richer mama 🎉😊

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 2 месяца назад +17

    Joy is not strong, she's not an alpha female. A hard worker I think, but she, like Thabo lacks confidence.

    • @nkhen_c357
      @nkhen_c357 2 месяца назад +3

      Not every female should be alpha and being alpha can be draining too

    • @siphokaziluzipho4197
      @siphokaziluzipho4197 2 месяца назад +1

      @@nkhen_c357 I didn't suggest that, bekusitsho yena. That Thabo maybe can't handle alpha female like her etc. I dnt regard myself as alpha nam, hence I am in agreement not all of us are.

    • @nkhen_c357
      @nkhen_c357 2 месяца назад +1

      @@siphokaziluzipho4197 sorry for concluding.

  • @lethufulani9581
    @lethufulani9581 2 месяца назад +3

    Yoh the 1st born son shame imagine taking long to talk coz you hardley hear your paremts speak 😢

    • @mbongesmith904
      @mbongesmith904 2 месяца назад +1

      Very sad and heartbreaking yoooh

  • @mandisahlabisa7705
    @mandisahlabisa7705 2 месяца назад +1

    She needs to know who she is ans then she will findher powers

  • @samukelisiwemsane4066
    @samukelisiwemsane4066 2 месяца назад +1

    I wish to hear Thaboz side😢

  • @lethufulani9581
    @lethufulani9581 2 месяца назад

    1st

  • @clivencube3951
    @clivencube3951 2 месяца назад +1

    A car has wide windshield in front for the driver to have a clear view of where they aregoing.
    A small rear view mirror to see behind.
    Joy is fixed on the past instead of concentrating ahead.
    Get yourself together & move on with your life and forget about the loser.