Even though I disagree about depression not being real, I agree heavily with a lot of points you made. People have made depression their identity, which in itself causes issues to not want to attempt change. You’re wise to be aware of this.
"Lazy people are privalged" such a clashing but extremly real statement. Great video. Also if youve ever thought about starting a podcast, go for it. You are extremly well spoken and never afraid to say whats on your mind. 🖤🖤
You’re so smart combining a grwm with good advice, so people who only watch your self help videos can now also see ur other side and they’re forced to watch it since you say your advice/opinion during your make up routine.
Depression can be real. Depression isn’t always a case where ur room is messy or ur heartbroken. For some people like me, I’m very productive and know what am doing but deep down I’m depressed. Depression can occur in different ways, but I understand your opinions.
It starts in the mind. Yes of course it’s real but you choose to be depressed or not. So it’s not actually “Real” Because it’s not reality and it’s only negative thoughts and feelings that you’ve created for yourself.
I think that what she meant by “depression isn’t real” is that it isn’t reality but rather something your mind has created and that clashes with reality.
thank you so much for this reality check. i recently started watching your channel and my perspective on life has changed. i also love how you’ve reference the Bible in this video and others!
oh my goodness Ellyssa. you have such a way with words. like, i'm being so fr, you make me feel like i just hacked out life. u don't know how much your advice did for me last month, my mindset is so much healthier and i'm so much happier. pls never stop, thank you so much Ellyssa 🥰
i was rearranging and cleaning my room while playing this video and thought you sounded a tad bit aggressive at first, so then i started to listen and in reality, you were just telling the truth and giving the reality check my parents haven't given me in a long time. thank you for this ellysa. im so ready for senior year and doing my best all because of these 19 minutes and 26 seconds of you preaching.
I was actually sitting in bed rotting when i can go to the gym and work out. After this video I went and did my work, then went to the gym and made myself busy. Thank you so much for motivating me Ellysa! ❤️
I watch self development videos since a long time and it's often the same but your tips are so true and so "original", i love how you say things very clearly and that you have your own energy . I love that you are yelling at people for them to realise. Althought i'd find it very interesting to make a video abt how to be charismatic and magnetic like you are, give us all your tips and tricks. Sorry if i made grammar mistakes, i'm french
Some people do just genuinely have depression and no one makes them food and that’s not for all but depression is real and it’s the result of abuse most of the time it sucks when you don’t know how to get out and are scared of the repercussions if you leave not everyone’s parents love them but sometimes still keep them there for show and I think that’s one thing people get wrong about American kids. Also with the teacher sometimes people already been through too much to fight through the day but sometimes people need that kick in the ass it’s just so hard to tell but I guess my point is just because you have one resource doesn’t mean you aren’t limited to other resources
I have been taking antidepressants for almost three years, but I have had head traumas and now my country is at war, so even my shrink told me not to stop the treatment till the war ends. But sure, it's not enough, people should think positively, no drugs/alcohol, work, study, and do sports
what the wow, im so like wowed, the way she yelled scared me and dude guess what, im seriously feeling it all, and she said “you work harder”, guys im starting to work harder now. thats it. WE WORK HARDER
I’m so glad you make these videos 😁,I have a quote tho sacrifice for your dreams or your dreams becomes the sacrifice,I’m proud of you you are so strong and intelligent,stay strong and keep conquering everyday,you keep making these amazing videos your gonna conquer the world 💪😎🥰
i love this video. i definitely disagree with depression not being real as being diagnosed with it myself, but you made such good points with this. Even with depression, anxiety, etc. , you still have to work hard and move forward. this was a very eye opening video and youre very wise with your words ellysa. my idol for a reason🫶🏻🫶🏻
Ahhhhh I love you so much at the beginning of every one of your vids and say something I’m like oh ur so wrong but then you explain and I learn I love how much I learn and grow from your videos
I think depression is kind of really only true if you had a tragedy happen in your life where there’s a ton of stress you don’t feel hopeful. Like when you’re trying to do EVRRYTHING to make something work or be happy or get out of your tough situation and you’re not enough. Like i guess abusive parents, abusive partners, financial issues, etc
girl i watched a vogue makeup tut before this 😭😭, also I love your advice, as a catholic teen trying to go through life and trying to sin less your videos give me motivation ❤. also i would like to ash if you are catholic, orthodox, greek-catholic or other?
Why is everyone praising her? Ellysa and everyone in the comment section obviously doesn't have depression bc if they did they would see it as something bigger and not just be "lazy." Personally I have high functioning depression. Which means I can still get things done that I need to and I can even smile and everything on the outside but inside we really do struggle. I also am a super positive person too! I try to tell myself I'm fine and I'm doing well even if I'm not. So while your mindset does determine a lot it can't fix depression like she was talking about. She was also being super stereotypical. People who have depression are labeled as lazy and sometimes even "lucky" because we "don't do much." But saying that it's my fault that I have depression is completely put of pocket!!!! The minute she said this she got unfollowed. Because I just don't need that negativity in my life and it's not worth waisting energy over. I just wanted to put this out there in case anyone else with depression saw the comments and felt like being hard on themselves for being "lazy." Just a peice if advice if you haven't gone through it then shut tf up because you aren't educated enough to talk about the topic so just don't!!!
Also I am a Christian btw and instead of telling people with depression that they are lazy I believe God would be understanding and ask them to come to him "come to me all who are weary with heavy burdens for my yolk is light!"
As someone with severe clinical depression and many attempts under her belt, I will tell you right now she is RIGHT 😭 you’re obviously not actually listening to her
I think she meant that there are people who use depression as an excuse when they don't actually have it and maybe they should have a positive mindset and be honest to themselves for a healthier mind. I think she should've been more careful when saying she thinks "depression is not real". I understand what you are saying tho cause it can be infuriating when people don't acknowledge that mental illness is real and depression can be detrimental for people who suffer from it. But i also don't think she meant any ill intentions. Hope you are doing better
I agree with you, it’s actually sad and ironic that she didn’t have it in her to acknowledge your msg at all and just hopped over to heart someone who’s going against you lol. I understand how frustrating it is to hear “you’re just not trying hard enough” when you’re absolutely giving it your all. Like yes, there’s absolutely some truth to what she’s saying but if changing your mindset and thinking more positively and putting more effort changes your mood/depression, then u might just be depressed and/or have situational depression and not major depression. They don’t realize that people having this conception of depression is actually doing immense harm to people who struggle with it. It’s like studying for a test all day every day but still consistently failing and then the people who studied a fraction of how much you did and pass, tell you “you just need to study more”. Anyway girl, don’t fret too much over uneducated people who have only their personal experience to go by and completely negate the fact that people have different experiences. I see you trying your absolute best, u’ve made a stranger incredibly proud. keep going
i think I'm afraid I have to disagree with the part where u said if get bad grade ur fault i feel like its not just like that I'm sure everything cant be ur fault. i just like its not that simple but I learned something and u really made me realize a thing or two ur like the most real person I ve ever met.im not even kidding like actually
I have depression. I work my butt off every single day. Never lay in bed doing nothing. I have so many hobbies and I'm taking advantage of them to make more income. Also, I’m learning two more languages in addition to my mother tongue and English. I can’t fathom how other people with depression sit and rot all day TBH.
Even though I disagree about depression not being real, I agree heavily with a lot of points you made. People have made depression their identity, which in itself causes issues to not want to attempt change. You’re wise to be aware of this.
i love how you disagree but yet open minded enough to see the other points!!!❤❤❤❤ thanks for watching and sharing:)
"Lazy people are privalged" such a clashing but extremly real statement. Great video. Also if youve ever thought about starting a podcast, go for it. You are extremly well spoken and never afraid to say whats on your mind. 🖤🖤
thank you🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️
yes, please start one!
I read a book and I saw this quote: “If you try and fail, it’s not your fault. But if you don’t try and fail, then it’s all your fault.”
May i ask what book is it?
You’re so smart combining a grwm with good advice, so people who only watch your self help videos can now also see ur other side and they’re forced to watch it since you say your advice/opinion during your make up routine.
Depression can be real. Depression isn’t always a case where ur room is messy or ur heartbroken. For some people like me, I’m very productive and know what am doing but deep down I’m depressed. Depression can occur in different ways, but I understand your opinions.
It starts in the mind. Yes of course it’s real but you choose to be depressed or not. So it’s not actually “Real” Because it’s not reality and it’s only negative thoughts and feelings that you’ve created for yourself.
I think that what she meant by “depression isn’t real” is that it isn’t reality but rather something your mind has created and that clashes with reality.
If you want , you can slowly stop being depressed so yeah
@@nusaibamahbub1965 it doesn’t work that way buddy
thank you so much for this reality check. i recently started watching your channel and my perspective on life has changed. i also love how you’ve reference the Bible in this video and others!
me in my bed scrolling on my phone then forcing my self to get up because scrolling won’t do anything beneficial for me 😭
Ellysa 🗣🗣 speaking factssss rn. Love the content girl !!!
Hey Ellysa,
I am a big fan of you and I love all your vids and esp the one about confidence
You are gonna grow so much
she’s so real for this.
she's my fav I love her pov on things it rly opens our minds to different ways of life
oh my goodness Ellyssa. you have such a way with words. like, i'm being so fr, you make me feel like i just hacked out life. u don't know how much your advice did for me last month, my mindset is so much healthier and i'm so much happier. pls never stop, thank you so much Ellyssa 🥰
im so happy i could help you, comments like this is why I never quit making videos
this actually healed me omg
Thank you Ellysa. Its hard but I needed to hear this.
Thank you so much for being real and for caring ❤❤
i was rearranging and cleaning my room while playing this video and thought you sounded a tad bit aggressive at first, so then i started to listen and in reality, you were just telling the truth and giving the reality check my parents haven't given me in a long time. thank you for this ellysa. im so ready for senior year and doing my best all because of these 19 minutes and 26 seconds of you preaching.
This girl is underrated fr she deserves like 1Mil subscribers, love you Ellysa keep it up (also post more on youtube its good for you and uss 💗💗"
getting ready in the morning and seeing you posted literally makes my day
Love it!!!!!! Thank you & God bless
I really enjoy your videos there so entertaining and fun and all the advice you give actually help thank you ❤
I was actually sitting in bed rotting when i can go to the gym and work out. After this video I went and did my work, then went to the gym and made myself busy. Thank you so much for motivating me Ellysa! ❤️
I watch self development videos since a long time and it's often the same but your tips are so true and so "original", i love how you say things very clearly and that you have your own energy . I love that you are yelling at people for them to realise. Althought i'd find it very interesting to make a video abt how to be charismatic and magnetic like you are, give us all your tips and tricks. Sorry if i made grammar mistakes, i'm french
Some people do just genuinely have depression and no one makes them food and that’s not for all but depression is real and it’s the result of abuse most of the time it sucks when you don’t know how to get out and are scared of the repercussions if you leave not everyone’s parents love them but sometimes still keep them there for show and I think that’s one thing people get wrong about American kids. Also with the teacher sometimes people already been through too much to fight through the day but sometimes people need that kick in the ass it’s just so hard to tell but I guess my point is just because you have one resource doesn’t mean you aren’t limited to other resources
it’s a mental thing but please some of us have lived in fight or flight for years and it’s hard to get out :(
Your so wise I think everyone needs to hear your messages
this is what makes affirmations work
I have been taking antidepressants for almost three years, but I have had head traumas and now my country is at war, so even my shrink told me not to stop the treatment till the war ends. But sure, it's not enough, people should think positively, no drugs/alcohol, work, study, and do sports
I hope you’re doing better 🥹❤️
Idk if it’s God that lead me to this video but this video resonated with me so much! Thank you for posting! ❤ this content is amazing and fulfilling 👏
what the wow, im so like wowed, the way she yelled scared me and dude guess what, im seriously feeling it all, and she said “you work harder”, guys im starting to work harder now. thats it. WE WORK HARDER
YOU are what motivates me to get out of bed , thank you❤
Love the confidence you have🙌 you're very pretty btw!
I love your videos, they helped me a lot❤
I’m so much older than you but this video really hit me hard😅 it was like a slap on the face thank you❤❤
she’s so naturally pretty !
Current favourite person who posts on yt frrrr
I love you so much!!💗
Mind over matter.
When was this video when I thought that I was “depressed”? had a bad day and choose to be lazy for weeks 🤣
Ellysa your words are so powerful 💞💞 thank you for this and God bless you xx
Thanks for this video, I listened to it while lifting at the gym. I vehemently disagree with everything you said, so I hit a new PR out of pure anger
You ate AND I will take accountability , thanks Elyssaaa, sometimes we really need to scream and be hard to get the message across lolll
I’m so glad you make these videos 😁,I have a quote tho sacrifice for your dreams or your dreams becomes the sacrifice,I’m proud of you you are so strong and intelligent,stay strong and keep conquering everyday,you keep making these amazing videos your gonna conquer the world 💪😎🥰
U’re like one of my most favorite content creators, hope ure doing great🫶🏼
girll yourr soo pretty with no make up on tf
i love this video. i definitely disagree with depression not being real as being diagnosed with it myself, but you made such good points with this. Even with depression, anxiety, etc. , you still have to work hard and move forward. this was a very eye opening video and youre very wise with your words ellysa. my idol for a reason🫶🏻🫶🏻
Wise words. You should make a podcast I would love listening to you preach more lol
Imma show this video to my kids so they understand
Ahhhhh I love you so much at the beginning of every one of your vids and say something I’m like oh ur so wrong but then you explain and I learn I love how much I learn and grow from your videos
finally an influencer who doesn't just talk about trends and brands and stupid stuff like that
omg, you word your sentences so so well! I really hope you make a podcast one day.
I love ur videos sm❤
This is the most inspiring thing I’ve heard in a while. How do I play this in my head 24/7? Thanks queen slay Barbie boo boo 💘💞💖🍬💌🍓💐
Girl, you hurt me with your words, I felt offended, and that means my ego goes down. I love you❤
2:18 i love you bruh LMAO same
THIS VIDEO MADE ME GET OUT OF BED. I STOPPED BED ROTTING. IM ABOUT TO GO AND DO MY LAUNDRY RN
I like how real you are. Very good! You just earned a new sub!
Preach 🙌
this video went perfect with my breakfest
I loved this!❤️ thank you so much
i loovveee youuuuu pookie literally the only one i go to for inspiration & advice
I think depression is kind of really only true if you had a tragedy happen in your life where there’s a ton of stress you don’t feel hopeful. Like when you’re trying to do EVRRYTHING to make something work or be happy or get out of your tough situation and you’re not enough. Like i guess abusive parents, abusive partners, financial issues, etc
girl i watched a vogue makeup tut before this 😭😭, also I love your advice, as a catholic teen trying to go through life and trying to sin less your videos give me motivation ❤. also i would like to ash if you are catholic, orthodox, greek-catholic or other?
Why is everyone praising her? Ellysa and everyone in the comment section obviously doesn't have depression bc if they did they would see it as something bigger and not just be "lazy." Personally I have high functioning depression. Which means I can still get things done that I need to and I can even smile and everything on the outside but inside we really do struggle. I also am a super positive person too! I try to tell myself I'm fine and I'm doing well even if I'm not. So while your mindset does determine a lot it can't fix depression like she was talking about. She was also being super stereotypical. People who have depression are labeled as lazy and sometimes even "lucky" because we "don't do much." But saying that it's my fault that I have depression is completely put of pocket!!!! The minute she said this she got unfollowed. Because I just don't need that negativity in my life and it's not worth waisting energy over. I just wanted to put this out there in case anyone else with depression saw the comments and felt like being hard on themselves for being "lazy." Just a peice if advice if you haven't gone through it then shut tf up because you aren't educated enough to talk about the topic so just don't!!!
Also I am a Christian btw and instead of telling people with depression that they are lazy I believe God would be understanding and ask them to come to him "come to me all who are weary with heavy burdens for my yolk is light!"
As someone with severe clinical depression and many attempts under her belt, I will tell you right now she is RIGHT 😭 you’re obviously not actually listening to her
@@madibricker820 I love you!! And i’m so proud of you
I think she meant that there are people who use depression as an excuse when they don't actually have it and maybe they should have a positive mindset and be honest to themselves for a healthier mind. I think she should've been more careful when saying she thinks "depression is not real". I understand what you are saying tho cause it can be infuriating when people don't acknowledge that mental illness is real and depression can be detrimental for people who suffer from it. But i also don't think she meant any ill intentions.
Hope you are doing better
I agree with you, it’s actually sad and ironic that she didn’t have it in her to acknowledge your msg at all and just hopped over to heart someone who’s going against you lol. I understand how frustrating it is to hear “you’re just not trying hard enough” when you’re absolutely giving it your all. Like yes, there’s absolutely some truth to what she’s saying but if changing your mindset and thinking more positively and putting more effort changes your mood/depression, then u might just be depressed and/or have situational depression and not major depression. They don’t realize that people having this conception of depression is actually doing immense harm to people who struggle with it. It’s like studying for a test all day every day but still consistently failing and then the people who studied a fraction of how much you did and pass, tell you “you just need to study more”. Anyway girl, don’t fret too much over uneducated people who have only their personal experience to go by and completely negate the fact that people have different experiences. I see you trying your absolute best, u’ve made a stranger incredibly proud. keep going
You are actually my favourite TikToker and now RUclipsr Fr much love from Vancouver ❤
i think I'm afraid I have to disagree with the part where u said if get bad grade ur fault i feel like its not just like that I'm sure everything cant be ur fault. i just like its not that simple but I learned something and u really made me realize a thing or two ur like the most real person I ve ever met.im not even kidding like actually
I'mma tell you what being depressed feels like. It's like being absent in your own self. As simple as that. :D
You deserve 1m subsucriber
My grade went up from a f too. An a after doing what u said in the video
Your content is top tier
would totally go for a TED TALK by you if there was one😌🙏🏼
I'll definetly watch this video every time i feel unmotivated
How to love working hard? It feels like a heavy stone that makes me feel horrible.
Can u do a video about that?
Thanksss ❤
a literal online older sister ilysm
called me out so bad I need this wake up call
you speak so much like my bsf its acc so entertaining watching you, REMEMBER ME WHEN YOURE FAMOUS 🤯🤯
A confident girl who became confident after faking it till they make it 🎀🎀🤭
i live for your channel dude tysm
please do video how to stop caring about what others people think and talk about you,i love to hear true from you
I HAVE AN EXAM IN 4 HOURS AND I AM GOING TO STUDY FOR 4 HOURS STRAIGHT. I WILL GET 97% OR ABOVE BECAUSE BELOW 97% IS FOR LOSERS AND I AM A WINNER.
YES GIRL LOVE THIS ENERGY
im a bit late but tysm for posting this i love ur vids😭😭❤️❤️
thank you for this. i love you too❤
I agree 100%
this was the fattest reality check, thank you for this
thanks queen
Girl you need to make a podcast
Keep reading your Bible girl. You are very wise.
thank you.
I have depression. I work my butt off every single day. Never lay in bed doing nothing. I have so many hobbies and I'm taking advantage of them to make more income. Also, I’m learning two more languages in addition to my mother tongue and English. I can’t fathom how other people with depression sit and rot all day TBH.
everything you said is so right i love youu 💞
start a podcast fr
future preacher fr🗣️
Oh they not gonna like this one💀
What shade is your concealer.
I think genetic dopamine imbalance is possibly more common than you say, this video is great advice for the average person tho 💯
What is the mascara you’re using
BEEN WAITING FOR THISS
Fax after fax after fax💯💯
love everything about this
podcast now.