Me and my boyfriend have been dating for more than a year and honestly I never imagined I would be with someone so OBSESSED with me. We both fell for each other during the senior year of school, when I was graduating as the top of my class and didn’t have a single thought of getting a boyfriend. But he was irresistible, so here we are. And by that I don’t mean that “focus on yourself and you’ll get a boyfriend”. NO. Focus on yourself so you’re happy the way you are and you will ONLY accept things/people that make you happIER. Don’t expect a man to save you. SAVE YOURSELF. A boyfriend should just add up to your happiness, not build it entirely.
@@mars6866 im not from america/europe. We have a different system here. I had straight A’s throughout all 11 grades, got 3rd place in republican olympiad in english, got into the top uni of my country and was the only student in my grade to receive the gold medal (given by the ministry of education) for perfect performance in education.
@@mars6866 Most exams are different so before preparing / while preparing for any type of exam always do research on how to succeed it. You shouldn’t just study as much as you can, you have to study the right way. It sounds obvious but i think a lot of people miss this point. Do a lot of practice tests / use blurting techniques. It helps much more than just taking or revising notes. Always look for feedback, ask teachers/mentors about things you are not confident about. Be self-critical and try to fix as many mistakes as possible. You can never be perfect, but just knowing that you are not making the same mistakes as you used to will boost your confidence and motivation. Might sound toxic, but you should always be aware of how well other people are doing. The key for this trait to not make you insecure is to know YOU HAVE POTENTIAL. If other people are doing better than you - it doesn’t mean you are worse than them. It means you have space for growth and you have not uncovered your full potential. You have the ability to do what they are doing, so just get yourself together and catch up. If you are consistent, take good care of your physical & mental state, rest properly - this will add a lot to creating a healthy study routine. No matter how much you study it won’t be any help if you feel like shit lol. And if you have had a healthy & consistent study routine for months, I would suggest taking about a week of break before the exams to just rest and revise everything while chilling. Most importantly, always remember: you are doing this for your future self, because she deserves all the best in the world🫶
I also got this quote from another yt influencer“ If you spend time chasing butterflies, they will fly away but if you spend your time making a beautiful garden the butterflies will come to you. When you focus on improving yourself, Everything will come to you. You attract based on who you are, not what you want” idk who the writer of this is but props to them
heyyyy i saw ur vid about "winners and losers have the same goal" and it seriously changed my view so much. to be honest im really self critical and i also pity myself a lot without realising and that video really opened my eyes because of the harsher points you made. I really wish i had a friend like you that was real with me and told me what i needed to hear, because that seriously helped me so much. and also i love your religous outlook because even though im not the same religion your belief in a creator lines up with a lot of my beliefs about the creator. i really love your humour and youre so beautiful ❤ thank you ellysa
btw I just wanna say, I come from a religious household but I’m not religious by any means. I just love how confident you are in yourself and the trust you have for your beliefs. It’s nice to see someone being able to talk about it in a such a casual and free way💗
omg. there are 111 comments. girl i know you don't know me but I LOVE YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS. THANK YOU SO MUCH U LITERALLY SAVED ME. I swear there was this guy I was absolutely OBSESSED with like head over heels and I knew it's unhealthy and delusional and making me miserable. This guy is literally MEAN to me okay. and i would still like him?????? LIKE... WTF. OKAY I FEEL LIKE I'VE JUST WOKEN UP FROM THIS SLEEP THAT I COULD NOT WAKE UP FROM. IDK WHERE THE HELL MY SELF-RESPECT HAS GONE IN THIS MONTH, IN FACT IN THESE PAST MONTHS, BUT IT IS COMING BACK OK. I ACTUALLY REMEMBERED MY DAMN WORTH HALLELUJAH. i've literally never seen myself like this, like THIS obsessed with a guy and THIS desperate, but I really understood everything now... like whatever you chase will only run away from you, if a man isn't pursuing you then he doesn't deserve you! literally u have to let a guy chase you. you NEED to know your worth. you're so real for this, i rly needed to wake up about knowing my worth and actually fixing my issues and maturing and working on my insecurity and problems before dating anyone. tysm for ACTUALLY giving REAL advice cuz so many people wanna just say bullsh*t like these tips were genuinely so practical and real and helpful, and i love ur humour too ur so funny and ur confidence just OOZES love ur personality and how confident u are confidence is the most attractive thing- genuine, real confidence. and genuine real confidence comes from not NEEDING anyone's validation cause u actually love urself. keep glowing
She’s back with another banger video! I always wonder why insecure girls always have men like them. How does that go with the loving yourself part of the video?
i will watch this when i finish my finels (1st and 2nd of july) ❤❤ wish me guys a good luck 😮💨😔💝 I'll pray for so long this night ❤ pls pray for me ..❤❤
@@ellysayaghoif there are people who dont love themselves in relationships, then its not a prerequisite. You guys want to act like theres laws to this but if there is then it applies to everyone. Self love only prevents people from settling, thats it.
okay lys i need your help, so i have a boyfriend and hes amazing in person like we have deep conversations about everything. but over text he is very clingy, like every text he sends will say i miss you at the end, he says i want cuddles ALOT... and he constantly talks about when hes gonna see me next and what hes gonna do, but we never have like actual conversations. is this normal?
I want a friend like her I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER ELYSSAAAAAAAAAA
When the world needed ellysa most, she came back and delivered. God bless
atla reference?
“you need to be a problem for him to solve” so real
i already am a problem :)
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for more than a year and honestly I never imagined I would be with someone so OBSESSED with me. We both fell for each other during the senior year of school, when I was graduating as the top of my class and didn’t have a single thought of getting a boyfriend. But he was irresistible, so here we are. And by that I don’t mean that “focus on yourself and you’ll get a boyfriend”. NO. Focus on yourself so you’re happy the way you are and you will ONLY accept things/people that make you happIER. Don’t expect a man to save you. SAVE YOURSELF. A boyfriend should just add up to your happiness, not build it entirely.
YES
How do you get to the top of your class
@@mars6866 im not from america/europe. We have a different system here. I had straight A’s throughout all 11 grades, got 3rd place in republican olympiad in english, got into the top uni of my country and was the only student in my grade to receive the gold medal (given by the ministry of education) for perfect performance in education.
@@tilemis.a do you have any tips or techniques? I’m really curious on how to get better at school. I’m not from Europe or America either haha
@@mars6866 Most exams are different so before preparing / while preparing for any type of exam always do research on how to succeed it. You shouldn’t just study as much as you can, you have to study the right way. It sounds obvious but i think a lot of people miss this point.
Do a lot of practice tests / use blurting techniques. It helps much more than just taking or revising notes.
Always look for feedback, ask teachers/mentors about things you are not confident about. Be self-critical and try to fix as many mistakes as possible. You can never be perfect, but just knowing that you are not making the same mistakes as you used to will boost your confidence and motivation.
Might sound toxic, but you should always be aware of how well other people are doing. The key for this trait to not make you insecure is to know YOU HAVE POTENTIAL. If other people are doing better than you - it doesn’t mean you are worse than them. It means you have space for growth and you have not uncovered your full potential. You have the ability to do what they are doing, so just get yourself together and catch up.
If you are consistent, take good care of your physical & mental state, rest properly - this will add a lot to creating a healthy study routine. No matter how much you study it won’t be any help if you feel like shit lol. And if you have had a healthy & consistent study routine for months, I would suggest taking about a week of break before the exams to just rest and revise everything while chilling.
Most importantly, always remember: you are doing this for your future self, because she deserves all the best in the world🫶
I also got this quote from another yt influencer“ If you spend time chasing butterflies, they will fly away but if you spend your time making a beautiful garden the butterflies will come to you. When you focus on improving yourself, Everything will come to you. You attract based on who you are, not what you want”
idk who the writer of this is but props to them
You don't need much editing and sound effects because you're naturally funny and entertaining. Great advice as always, I love your videos!
heyyyy i saw ur vid about "winners and losers have the same goal" and it seriously changed my view so much. to be honest im really self critical and i also pity myself a lot without realising and that video really opened my eyes because of the harsher points you made. I really wish i had a friend like you that was real with me and told me what i needed to hear, because that seriously helped me so much. and also i love your religous outlook because even though im not the same religion your belief in a creator lines up with a lot of my beliefs about the creator. i really love your humour and youre so beautiful ❤ thank you ellysa
I love her energy so much it's like my mom giving me advice with screaming, arguing, and debating❤😂
you changed me sm ilysm you're so direct and motivating in a firm way
I need you to start a podcast ASAP!! you lit give the best, most real, unfiltered advice ever and I need more please.
" yes elyssa " we all say in unison.
btw I just wanna say, I come from a religious household but I’m not religious by any means. I just love how confident you are in yourself and the trust you have for your beliefs. It’s nice to see someone being able to talk about it in a such a casual and free way💗
*as it feels rare these days
Jesus loves you tho❤
Some dudes need to hear this.
Hi hun ❤
You give advice like thewizardliz lmao I love it
ellyssa ate with this one guys 🥺💗 love you angel 🪽
“They were like this when they were wild, and they were like this when they were cavemen.” Had me rolling 😭
omg. there are 111 comments. girl i know you don't know me but I LOVE YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS. THANK YOU SO MUCH U LITERALLY SAVED ME. I swear there was this guy I was absolutely OBSESSED with like head over heels and I knew it's unhealthy and delusional and making me miserable. This guy is literally MEAN to me okay. and i would still like him?????? LIKE... WTF. OKAY I FEEL LIKE I'VE JUST WOKEN UP FROM THIS SLEEP THAT I COULD NOT WAKE UP FROM. IDK WHERE THE HELL MY SELF-RESPECT HAS GONE IN THIS MONTH, IN FACT IN THESE PAST MONTHS, BUT IT IS COMING BACK OK. I ACTUALLY REMEMBERED MY DAMN WORTH HALLELUJAH. i've literally never seen myself like this, like THIS obsessed with a guy and THIS desperate, but I really understood everything now... like whatever you chase will only run away from you, if a man isn't pursuing you then he doesn't deserve you! literally u have to let a guy chase you. you NEED to know your worth. you're so real for this, i rly needed to wake up about knowing my worth and actually fixing my issues and maturing and working on my insecurity and problems before dating anyone. tysm for ACTUALLY giving REAL advice cuz so many people wanna just say bullsh*t like these tips were genuinely so practical and real and helpful, and i love ur humour too ur so funny and ur confidence just OOZES love ur personality and how confident u are confidence is the most attractive thing- genuine, real confidence. and genuine real confidence comes from not NEEDING anyone's validation cause u actually love urself. keep glowing
NEVER stop bringing up God in your videos!! ♡ ly queen
Giiirl, thank you so much for this advice you a real one. Also, why hasn’t this gone viral yet???
"my parents taught me that my feelings dont matter" WE ARE TWINS SEPARAED AT BIRTH LOOOLL luuuuv u girll
Giirl u dont know how much i love ur videos
She’s back with another banger video! I always wonder why insecure girls always have men like them. How does that go with the loving yourself part of the video?
thank youu I for real needed to hear this 💖
bro ellysa why are you so hilarious
YOU ARE EVERYTHING SIS ! 👑❤️😂
I love ur videos so much Ellysa like ur literally my fav RUclipsr 💗
yk it's a good day when ellysa uploads 🙏
I LOVE WHEN ELLYSA POSTS!! 🎉😊
ellysa never fails to give any kind of advice wow.🔥🎀🎀
I fear ellysa devoured with another video 😔 I needed this
I want to be Ellysa when I grow up 😭I love your videos ❤
i will watch this when i finish my finels (1st and 2nd of july) ❤❤ wish me guys a good luck 😮💨😔💝 I'll pray for so long this night ❤ pls pray for me ..❤❤
That was really good advice. I verify as a single lady who finally learned to love herself instead of bois.
i really needed this thank youuu
i cried watching this, thank you
thank you girl 😘
amennnn i love when she talks about God
She gives Antonio Garza so bad and I love it🤩🤩 also she kinda looks like em…long lost siblings huhhh
YOURE SO ICONIC ILY
i love how u can see she truly loves God and his words flow through her and thats why im never scared to take her advice like😭🤚🏻 THIS IS A WOMAN YALL
women of culture, we gather again
so me not loving myself deprives me from receiving or accepting love given by others? bullshit
hate to break it to you😝
Loving yourself teaches the love you can/should accept from other people 🫶
You deserve to love and be loved at any state
@@ellysayaghoif there are people who dont love themselves in relationships, then its not a prerequisite. You guys want to act like theres laws to this but if there is then it applies to everyone. Self love only prevents people from settling, thats it.
i love you so much ellysa, ur videos can make my day 1,000x times better🩷
I love you sm girl, you’ve helped me so much❤❤
Missed you ellysa ❤ please post on yt regularly 😭
This is SO GOOD. SO GOOD.
616 games audios over your vids make it even more loveable to watch lol
youre so funny!1 "YESS I WILL"
so excited for that book!!!!
I'm obsessed with you girl... love from Australia!
i love the sound effects
It’s a good day when ellysa updates (love from ur TikTok mod) 🥰
I mean I love her 😭😭😭 and hate for humbling me 😭😭😭💕💗🫂🌸💖💖
love love lovedddd this video
You’re so HRH collection 😍🎀 loves it girl
i’m watching this, i have a boyfriend…
Istg this girl matches my freak 😭
This helps thank you ❤
Love you 2 Elly💝💝💕💕
This found me for a reason...
I just started watching you and i already love ur humour bye
It’s giving 2016 Alissa violet
And I love it
okay lys i need your help, so i have a boyfriend and hes amazing in person like we have deep conversations about everything. but over text he is very clingy, like every text he sends will say i miss you at the end, he says i want cuddles ALOT... and he constantly talks about when hes gonna see me next and what hes gonna do, but we never have like actual conversations. is this normal?
No. Don’t settle and find another one, hope this helps.
I want a friend like her I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER I WANT A FRIEND LIKE HER ELYSSAAAAAAAAAA
THIS IS QUEEN BEEEEEEE❤❤❤
can I write you handwritten letters elyssa? YOU DESERVE THEM
Wait… why was this so true😝
ELLYSSSSAAAAA I LOVE YOUYYYY
you inspired me to start a channel pls, you are hilarious
the sound effects😭😭
so wise
Ellysa how about make your next video “Why girls don’t like you” because yk I need the help
I absolutely love this idea
Love this girl
POETRY BOOK?!!!! WHERE DO I PRE ORDERR
can u make a jewelry page on your storefront??
i love you pls don't die
I SEE IT NOW THANK YOU AND I LOVE U
you are so funny, ily😭🤣🩷🩷
thanks bro
Where's the link to your Amazon storefront?
It’s now in the video bio!
Get a podcast pleasseeeeee
I LOVE YOU
u are so lovely
6:15 you eat
Your editor needs 500 pounds of chill for those effects
FIRST BAE
I don’t know if you know this, but you’re changing peoples lives!🫶🙌
love your personality 😂