how to ACTUALLY deal with people that dislike you.

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  • Опубликовано: 17 сен 2024

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  • @daniellashor5350
    @daniellashor5350 6 месяцев назад +558

    can u guys like my comment so I can go back to this video every morning for a reminder

    • @MariamaFLN
      @MariamaFLN 6 месяцев назад +3

      Hahahaha

    • @allegrifan4933
      @allegrifan4933 5 месяцев назад +2

      Gud morning

    • @waitingforlily
      @waitingforlily 2 месяца назад +1

      Hi

    • @Swiftie13love
      @Swiftie13love 2 месяца назад +1

      👋

    • @laura_B24
      @laura_B24 Месяц назад +1

      you can also save the video on 'watch later' or make a new playlist and put it in there, that's what I do when I know I want to watch a video again later on

  • @Killbarte
    @Killbarte 6 месяцев назад +233

    Ellysa 1 - Devil 0

    • @amyD8913
      @amyD8913 5 месяцев назад +14

      Devil 👎👎
      God 👍👍👍👍👍

    • @Howaboutyes11
      @Howaboutyes11 2 месяца назад +2

      AMEN❤

  • @luceroudavee7875
    @luceroudavee7875 3 месяца назад +101

    “People don’t like you because they don’t know you” facts👌

  • @Hba.334
    @Hba.334 2 месяца назад +63

    As a Muslim I genuinely respect and admire how you include Jesus in your videos and remind people about him especially when your talking topics like this

    • @slushyoilers
      @slushyoilers Месяц назад +9

      Me too, a big misconception is that us Muslims do not believe in Jesus which isnt true!

    • @mk.chellie
      @mk.chellie 21 день назад

      If I may ask, where does Jesus stand in your religion?
      ​@@slushyoilers

  • @evelynelyn
    @evelynelyn 6 месяцев назад +62

    This is exactly what i needed. Im very weak and i always tend to please people

    • @ellysayagho
      @ellysayagho  6 месяцев назад +39

      you are not weak, growing up you were probably incharge of feelings that weren’t yours. You are strong and you are kind, you just want to make people happy and when this doesn’t happen it makes YOU said because you probably think it’s your responsibility. I hope this video gives ur mind the freedom it needs❤

    • @evelynelyn
      @evelynelyn 6 месяцев назад +14

      @@ellysayaghoyou really give the best advice and u are the most mature speaking yet funny youtuber, i always learn stuff from ur videos and i hope to stick up for myself in the future🫶🏻

  • @isthatmaysa
    @isthatmaysa 5 месяцев назад +57

    i’ve stopped caring what people think about me, and i think it has made me come very far, because if i were told the things i get told now but two years ago in time, i’d be balling my eyes out. thank you ellysa

  • @weenerdogweenerdog
    @weenerdogweenerdog 5 месяцев назад +36

    ur literally my therapist i love ur videos man

  • @godisgreat982
    @godisgreat982 6 месяцев назад +50

    Absolutely, love this and needed it! For some reason there's a group of girls that collectively do not like me and are recruiting others to as well lol. But it is what it is. My conscience is clear I have not done wrong by these women. My intentions will always be pure.

  • @amandanuculaj5367
    @amandanuculaj5367 6 месяцев назад +33

    you’re so well spoken 🙌🏼

  • @aanaasbs
    @aanaasbs 5 месяцев назад +17

    on the topic of bullying, u are so right
    if someone comments anything at school it will be called bullying and just not accepted at all, like why would you say that?
    But on the internet almost no one moves if they see it, why would it be any different? people still have feelings and we need to be kind to each other, if you don't like someone or their content just move on or give tips on how you think they can improve

  • @giannafelicissimo6081
    @giannafelicissimo6081 6 месяцев назад +33

    I deleted tiktok and I'm SO happy to see your face here on youtube because I love your personality and advice. Thank you so very much Ellysa for this advice!!💝

  • @cutiexx23
    @cutiexx23 5 месяцев назад +10

    im Christian, too! thank you so much for this video and all ur others that have helped me! You are like a big sister giving advice! your words are helping me be more confident in myself and more

  • @abrahamkentton3017
    @abrahamkentton3017 5 месяцев назад +3

    I needed to hear this because sometimes i catch myself desiring love and validation from unnecessary people

  • @ft_dream
    @ft_dream 6 месяцев назад +8

    Lately ive been kinda feeling down because of other peoples opinion and them bullying/annoy me this helped alot i just dont know what to do

  • @zahliatait
    @zahliatait Месяц назад +1

    Ellysa, I absolutely love what you said about the comment section. It changes my perspective on how easy it is to turn comment sections off to avoid this or just move on from it by turning off your phone. Like honestly, imagine a receipt of what people think about you after meeting them. How horrible. Also, love how you are spreading the word of God! Go Ellysa!!

  • @brookes.vlogsss
    @brookes.vlogsss 6 месяцев назад +7

    i love your advice so much. it has helped me be better with myself and i am so much more confident and comfortable with myselfff. thank you so much for these videos! 🙌🏼❤️

  • @user-yc6jr6yh6f
    @user-yc6jr6yh6f 5 месяцев назад +2

    how did you get so well spoken?? i admire the way you talk❤❤

  • @breannamcast
    @breannamcast 4 месяца назад +1

    ellysa u speak so honestly and intelligently, and i appreciate it sm! i love your content bc youre funny, kind, and speak on things that are important. im so happy you have a platform for ppl like me who rlly need a friend like you ❤️ also this video rlly helped me and as a christian i appreciate seeing someone my age navigating this crazy world ily

  • @sarvaepc
    @sarvaepc 5 месяцев назад +2

    Please make more selfhelp videos. Your opinions are rlyyy nice to hear.

  • @oinkyoink1585
    @oinkyoink1585 5 месяцев назад +2

    Gorl I’ve been off tiktok for all of lent and getting my brain back. And I will sometimes think to come check on your RUclips to see what’s new. What I love about your videos is I feel like I’m getting strongk at the same time as you, leveling up and gettin that wisdom and also having days where it’s definitely a wash. But anywya other videos I feel I’m watching other ppl live their life but ur videos have genuinely helped me and inspired me to get good 😤 Thanks dude

  • @ly.meg4
    @ly.meg4 6 месяцев назад +3

    I really needed to hear this Ellysa, thank you for all that you do. ♡

  • @aymanmirza4819
    @aymanmirza4819 6 месяцев назад +4

    this video might change my life. u are so wise thank you for making this❤

  • @derindeniztanaydn463
    @derindeniztanaydn463 20 дней назад +1

    Ellysa idk if u will see this comment but i just want to let u know that i really admire u and ur self growth and just u being goofy. Last night i couldnt sleep just because ur videos were just so inspirational and i havent felt like myself for maybe 2 years and watching u and listening the things that u say is just making me and my mindset grow. and i love you but not just for that. i love watching ur tiktoks too because ure not just smart ure funny too i hope ure doing well and i just wish you the bestest best

  • @iluvpasta55
    @iluvpasta55 Месяц назад

    Please post more of these talks and just chatting with us abt life bc it is truly so inspiring and so uplifting to hear

  • @alainalila5713
    @alainalila5713 6 месяцев назад +6

    VIDEO IDEA lol "how to know if your ready for a relationship" and "how to find good friendships" just ideas because I know I would love to watch them :)

  • @perryionebrooks6002
    @perryionebrooks6002 6 месяцев назад +3

    That was a great one. Yes, I also agree quality over quantity. I’ve been those three words ever since I started college. Now that I’m out, it gives life a new meaning. You’re awesome and stay that way

  • @hridayashik
    @hridayashik 5 месяцев назад +2

    Can you please do a video on how to get over a break up? like all the things with getting over a guy while still having love for him and trying to heal. you are the only person that i can comprehend advice from.

  • @al235
    @al235 5 месяцев назад +1

    So well explained! This is exactly what I’ve been waiting to hear from someone this whole time! ❤

  • @chickenburner2800
    @chickenburner2800 22 дня назад

    I really needed this video. I'm so glad, YOURE AMAZING!!💗💗

  • @soda9835
    @soda9835 5 месяцев назад +1

    I absolutely love listening to these Talks sm

  • @marilouboismenu
    @marilouboismenu 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for your beautiful words. Continue doing what you love to do and thank you for what you are doing💓

  • @sabiachauhan
    @sabiachauhan 5 месяцев назад +1

    i love that you speak your mind and it really resonates with me. We think similarly

  • @vvmqriji1816
    @vvmqriji1816 6 месяцев назад +2

    you're such a kind soul

  • @dreadliy
    @dreadliy 6 месяцев назад +8

    gosh i love her🥹

  • @anonymousflaonymous8956
    @anonymousflaonymous8956 5 месяцев назад +3

    I agree with you. However I personally dislike Charli because she did a tiktok dance that belonged to someone else but she didn’t give them the credit that they deserved and just took it as her own.

  • @shellbyperry
    @shellbyperry 5 месяцев назад +1

    as soon as I clicked on your video, I immediately subscribed. I love your content.

  • @makaylawheelock1334
    @makaylawheelock1334 5 месяцев назад +3

    Love your content so much! Spreading love and Jesus!!

  • @Cobrawolf2024
    @Cobrawolf2024 2 месяца назад +3

    I wish a girl would say it to me. Tbh you’re fucking inspiring. Dude we need women like her. I’m being fucking serious I need a woman like her to motivate me and to support me as I would do it for her.

  • @Ytchannel077
    @Ytchannel077 5 месяцев назад +1

    You are a wonderful person 🤍 may god bless you

  • @kfialkowski1
    @kfialkowski1 6 месяцев назад +1

    you are my favorite person. thank you for this. MORE PLEASE

  • @IAmMega
    @IAmMega 5 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing channel and video, keep it up you’re an excellent speaker

  • @puneet1173
    @puneet1173 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for speaking up about this 🥰❤❤❤

  • @heyyy1325
    @heyyy1325 5 месяцев назад

    OMG. It is so insane how LITERALLY THIS MORNING I was talking to myself about this, how people judge others because they do not know who they are, and how people judge themselves people they do not know how they are. Judgement exists because of a lack of awareness, because of black and white thinking, like 'oh I'm good because I did this' 'they're bad because they did this' this is why cancel culture is so stupid. We all need to be more compassionate, understanding and mature to both ourselves and others- that is the only cure to all the judgement in the world. Judgement and criticism can be constructive, but I would argue that at least 50% of it is not constructive, but rather, destructive. To stop judging yourself, you need to know yourself and treat yourself with compassion. To stop judging others, if you don't know them, then at least have the knowing that they have a story as well, that you shouldn't judge people based off of one thing without knowing their story. Have compassion, understanding, adn see the SOUL and worth in people before seeing only their flaws. If we simply understood this, maybe people wouldn't feel like they have to prove themselves or their worth to everyone around them. I could write a literal essay on this ngl but I don't feel like it rn lol. Great video, keep it up

  • @aaliyahzimmerman8217
    @aaliyahzimmerman8217 6 месяцев назад +4

    i’m obsessed with u tbh

  • @Drkredkitty
    @Drkredkitty 5 месяцев назад +1

    this is so beautiful

  • @MercedezMouton-db4kc
    @MercedezMouton-db4kc Месяц назад

    Ellysa please keep making these videos it inspires me❤and you are really funny😂❤

  • @ravenmariie
    @ravenmariie 5 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you forever. This is amazing ❤

  • @rosalindadennisalvarado5925
    @rosalindadennisalvarado5925 6 месяцев назад +1

    i needed this.

  • @lilym2230
    @lilym2230 5 месяцев назад

    BRO IM CRYING I LOVE HER SM SHES MY THERAPIST

  • @adeeenaaa
    @adeeenaaa 4 месяца назад

    Ellysa you are so gorgeous and u help me sm girly ilysm

  • @TheIronAmericanPatriot
    @TheIronAmericanPatriot 5 месяцев назад +1

    Great video I have a question if someone is annoying you and insulting you or someone talking about you to someone else for example like their friends can you ignore them because I need some advice

  • @xotirhass
    @xotirhass Месяц назад

    she reminds me of spencer hastings in a good way

  • @amyD8913
    @amyD8913 6 месяцев назад +3

    This girl at my school hates me I don't know why she doesn't know me but I think she mad because I had a crush on her boyfriend she called me ugly and people agree with her and she gives me mean looks and she talks when I walk bye to her friends people said she is nice but she is fake and a bully she calls people ugly just because they don't where makeup
    she made me cry 😢
    because I'm sick of people calling me ugly cuz I'm not ugly nobody is because God made everyone perfect ❤️✝️✝️

  • @sophiemarie4413
    @sophiemarie4413 2 месяца назад

    i dont know what i would do without a "god" involved in my healing. i dont know what i believe in, but i believe in something and it has helped me so much.

  • @mk.chellie
    @mk.chellie 21 день назад

    Had to subscribe ASAP

  • @k_g1523
    @k_g1523 Месяц назад

    I fw you HEAVYYYY

  • @brownieblossom8916
    @brownieblossom8916 Месяц назад

    You’re so beautiful!

  • @user-sr7er6zu4q
    @user-sr7er6zu4q 6 месяцев назад +1

    Bro you should start a podcast! And keep going you’re doing great!❤

  • @anmolnaeem6902
    @anmolnaeem6902 5 месяцев назад +1

    we were put on this earth to help and serve others not please, there's a difference! God is the only one we please.

  • @daemon7013
    @daemon7013 4 месяца назад +1

    You got great energy. Make more videos 😊

  • @loveclaudia
    @loveclaudia 5 месяцев назад

    hey ellysa, i really love ur videos smmm. they make get up remembering that there sm more to life. but u struggle w differentiating my religion w psychology? i want to love myself to the fullest extent, but also allow myself room to love god, can you make a youtube video explaining bc i really do wanna get right with him again

  • @Kairos.jesus1
    @Kairos.jesus1 5 месяцев назад

    Oh Jesus. oh Jesus, This is Gold. Blanket Statement, God Won!

  • @ginovellian2711
    @ginovellian2711 26 дней назад

    God Bless you

  • @ft_dream
    @ft_dream 6 месяцев назад

    Came from tiktokk u gained a new subscriber ❤❤❤❤

  • @jesusfreak-o6e
    @jesusfreak-o6e 2 месяца назад

    were here to serve Jesus! Jesus was persecuted and not liked by everyone so this comforts me everyday when dealing with people that dont like me

  • @yuh1597
    @yuh1597 5 месяцев назад +1

    real fans have known her when she was on fire for the lord and making funny christian tiktoks❤

  • @SHASHA-ng6nb
    @SHASHA-ng6nb 5 месяцев назад

    God bless you FR I am not joking ❤

  • @brookes.vlogsss
    @brookes.vlogsss 6 месяцев назад +5

    you look so cutesy in this videoo😝😝

    • @Robertaspsp
      @Robertaspsp 6 месяцев назад

      yeah, like a cute and beautiful anime caracter

    • @eternalworm451
      @eternalworm451 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Robertaspsp What

    • @ellysayagho
      @ellysayagho  6 месяцев назад

      @@eternalworm451 uwu

  • @Minarae98
    @Minarae98 6 месяцев назад

    I loved this message🩷🩷🩷 have a good day girl😘

  • @catcat9582
    @catcat9582 Месяц назад

    What lashes so u use?

  • @jermainelindo6944
    @jermainelindo6944 6 месяцев назад

    best couples (2) supermodel

  • @bobplantukha
    @bobplantukha 5 месяцев назад

    you are so cool! thanks 💋

  • @cashmoney30003
    @cashmoney30003 4 месяца назад

    I love all ur vids

  • @Zoe14252
    @Zoe14252 3 месяца назад

    Where is your neclace from its so beautiful❤❤

  • @ElishaOnsotti
    @ElishaOnsotti 5 месяцев назад

    She cooked (This video is so peak)😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏

  • @ozzycortes
    @ozzycortes 6 месяцев назад +1

    Even if people know you, they can still not like you and you shouldn’t care.

  • @7LILALILA7
    @7LILALILA7 6 месяцев назад +1

    thank you

  • @kayanadacruz777
    @kayanadacruz777 6 месяцев назад

    Amen Ellysa❤

  • @mike-mw6wr
    @mike-mw6wr 6 месяцев назад

    I love you too ❤

  • @skyek2305
    @skyek2305 5 месяцев назад

    amen.

  • @DarlineLobri
    @DarlineLobri 5 месяцев назад

    I don’t know you but I love you ❤😢

  • @jasminemika4427
    @jasminemika4427 5 месяцев назад

    Ellysa PLEASE make a video on cheating

  • @kristabelbond4903
    @kristabelbond4903 4 месяца назад

    For real ❤❤❤

  • @URCRINGE
    @URCRINGE 6 месяцев назад

    W comeback

  • @sabiachauhan
    @sabiachauhan 5 месяцев назад

    ALWAYS DO THE RIGHT THING #obhs2017

  • @sarvaepc
    @sarvaepc 5 месяцев назад

    Please more selfhelp

  • @MARAM2006.
    @MARAM2006. 5 месяцев назад

    How translate your videos to Arabica ¿😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @carla6121
    @carla6121 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @Robertaspsp
    @Robertaspsp 6 месяцев назад

    You are gorg

  • @gabrielakec739
    @gabrielakec739 5 месяцев назад

  • @thiangkim2517
    @thiangkim2517 6 месяцев назад

    Yay you posted

  • @taylorlynn2
    @taylorlynn2 5 месяцев назад

    START A PODCAST PLEASEEEEE🙏🏻🙏🏻🩷

  • @karinxx777
    @karinxx777 4 месяца назад

    why is this video 18 minutes long 💔💔

    • @ellysayagho
      @ellysayagho  4 месяца назад

      ur brain is so fried😂

  • @luccyq
    @luccyq 5 месяцев назад

    ❤️‍🩹

  • @userjoao
    @userjoao 6 месяцев назад

    so basically andrew tate is akin to jesus christ…?
    lol jk i got the overall message and i agree.

    • @ellysayagho
      @ellysayagho  6 месяцев назад +1

      LMAOOO i didnt see the "lol jk" and almost had a stroke

  • @abbylamaria
    @abbylamaria 5 месяцев назад +1

    Wow. The reference to Jesus’ crucifixion and everyone being a hater even though He was the most wholesome nicest human on earth and still went thru all of that just bc they didn’t understand His intentions was deep. Loved this🫶

  • @mira98kkhh
    @mira98kkhh 3 месяца назад

    icl when I first watched her I thought she’s so funny and weird, is her content worth keeping up with though? But recently as I’m watching more of her videos, and this one in particular, she is absolutely one of my favourite influences of this new gen. like myself - she speaks the truth and I love how authentic she is about it, but kind and understanding as well. (ps, I love ur weirdness lmao I wish we could’ve been friends irl but I’m all the way in the uk) xxx 🤎🤎🤎

  • @GayRatFromSaturn
    @GayRatFromSaturn 6 месяцев назад +1

    I LOVE UR VIDS

  • @GayRatFromSaturn
    @GayRatFromSaturn 6 месяцев назад

    YAYAYAYAYA

  • @hridayashik
    @hridayashik 5 месяцев назад

    Can you please do a video on how to get over a break up? like all the things with getting over a guy while still having love for him and trying to heal. you are the only person that i can comprehend advice from.