How To Be Witty In Conversation

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @noahblevins8007
    @noahblevins8007 2 года назад +549

    1: stop caring
    2: expand knowledge
    3: create unexpected associations
    4: Prepare for future scenarios
    5: Be in the moment
    6: Confident
    7: Pay attention to how you make people feel
    8: Remember the good jokes
    9: Be courageous
    10: keep it short and sweet

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 года назад +31

      I appreciate you summarizing the video!

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 года назад +21

      Which one was your favourite tip?

    • @noahblevins8007
      @noahblevins8007 2 года назад +12

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery keep it short and sweet

    • @kiloocal8763
      @kiloocal8763 2 года назад +9

      No. 1, 4 and 5 are contradictory.

    • @aaronniehaus2224
      @aaronniehaus2224 Год назад +7

      @@kiloocal8763 Not necessarily, you can prepare yourself for future conversations while being secure in playing it be ear

  • @jhilmilgil4512
    @jhilmilgil4512 2 года назад +540

    There is this problem that I and many people face and I think this needs to be talk about so badly... We can't seem to come up with a comeback at the moment we need but, when we're out of that situation then all sorts of comebacks, sassy retorts comes flooding in our mind which aren't of any use later on.

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 года назад +45

      You can always prepare ahead of time!

    • @jhilmilgil4512
      @jhilmilgil4512 2 года назад +9

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery How?

    • @HudaHamond
      @HudaHamond Год назад +43

      @@jhilmilgil4512 for me I rehearse every scenerio I possibly can get into so when it comes im ready usualy this happens in th shower

    • @choxomoxxo565
      @choxomoxxo565 Год назад +31

      ​@@jhilmilgil4512 by seeing the future duh

    • @dadical3534
      @dadical3534 Год назад +5

      ​@@choxomoxxo565 I knew you were gonna say that

  • @YeshuaIsTheTruth
    @YeshuaIsTheTruth 11 месяцев назад +112

    "I can assure you, most people would have forgotten you by the time you get home." 😂 Ouch

    • @meepmorp99
      @meepmorp99 10 месяцев назад +11

      I find this actually freeing

    • @saikiran8947
      @saikiran8947 4 месяца назад +2

      Sometime they will and then when they come across you next time they will smile for sure and remember that joke which makes to build a rapport.

  • @Gman0440-Gamer
    @Gman0440-Gamer 2 года назад +92

    Thanks my dude-very analytical and “boring” person here. Thanks for helping me spice up my conversations🙏🏻

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 года назад +2

      Happy to help!

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 года назад +2

      Which tip did you like the most?

    • @Gman0440-Gamer
      @Gman0440-Gamer 2 года назад +8

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery I really liked living in the moment. I feel like generally, I dont have anything funny or clever to say, hopefully this helps ease the pressure and make it easier to say something spontaneous and funny.

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Год назад +3

      @@Gman0440-Gamer Definitely! Hard to be quick-witted if you're mind is somewhere else.

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Год назад +2

      @@Gman0440-Gamer You might find this video helpful: ruclips.net/video/gD3wMCgmxqw/видео.html

  • @Marie-u2v
    @Marie-u2v 7 месяцев назад +13

    Basically....respectfully be care free and curiously confident...let loose and find you humor.

  • @literallydasein8790
    @literallydasein8790 Год назад +48

    I'm perplexed by the fact that I've known/thought each and every point in this video before watching it. The real challenge is to really get into and apply them constantly in different life situations.
    This information right here is pure gold fellas. Work your way with it cause it is 100% accurate.

  • @ethansmith7693
    @ethansmith7693 Год назад +54

    Ugh if only if I could think of witty remarks and comebacks in the moment but then think of so many later, when I’m out of the situation 🤦‍♂️

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Год назад +9

      What's holding you back? Let's see if we can solve it together here.

    • @Carcroven
      @Carcroven 5 месяцев назад +6

      I’m the same way! When I’m in the moment I have NOTHING, but 60 seconds later I have GOLD!

    • @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266
      @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266 5 месяцев назад +3

      Always shower while in a conversation

    • @tomnoel4755
      @tomnoel4755 3 месяца назад

      That’s called Staircase Wit

  • @nathanael_rzf
    @nathanael_rzf 5 месяцев назад +20

    I'll put it there, my e it will help someone
    Some years ago, i realise that i restrected my self too much. Especialy in social situation
    I was very shy boy in class, and i really hated when i got a good joke on my mind and not telling it,
    So one day I decided to improve myself and my social skill, I started work out and most importantly cultivate my wittiness.
    So i read book on make jokes and socializing and watching vidéos too,
    and all of the best tips on making jokes are in this video
    Literaly, Just apply then and you will improve in few months or even weeks
    My best tips is to try to make connection between very opposite things (said in the vidéo)
    And a useful tip is to watch podcast and standups
    Edit: i am the famous Guy on yt comments, Who dont really speaks english ( so be indulgent :)

  • @yustinussetyoyuniarto4816
    @yustinussetyoyuniarto4816 2 месяца назад +2

    Stop caring is the best tip. Basically it's only that you need.

  • @bonobostv1250
    @bonobostv1250 Год назад +15

    Go to work, go home, and play videogames. He just described me, and it makes me think.

  • @rohankore3504
    @rohankore3504 4 месяца назад +3

    Is this the most important video of my life bcoz this applies to all languages

  • @dogguyful
    @dogguyful 2 года назад +8

    You are awesome-the best teacher I've come across👏👏🤝🤝👊👊🙏🙏 You've literally turned me into James Bond 007.
    I'm subscribing right away.

  • @critique4372
    @critique4372 Год назад +13

    Its kinda crazy how there was a little voice telling me this exact thing deep down this whole time that I was neglecting more than I was embracing. Thank you. Christ bless thee

  • @questionable69
    @questionable69 3 года назад +11

    This is what I do all the time, and I think it's a good idea 💡 to pull out these things and be suitable for the discussion.

  • @jFiire
    @jFiire 10 месяцев назад +8

    Can anyone recommend books on increasing knowledge? I don't know where to start and learn new things.

  • @kaylamaddox5082
    @kaylamaddox5082 3 года назад +44

    Thank you so much! as someone with social anxiety this really helps 🙌🏾

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  3 года назад +1

      You are so welcome Kayla!

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  3 года назад +1

      Which tip did you find the most helpful?

    • @dogguyful
      @dogguyful 2 года назад

      Kayla Maddox oh hello lovely Kayla, me too. But I used hypnosis recordings and absolutely overcame social anxiety. I've made quite a big improvement. They are available in RUclips. Good luck out there.

    • @vice2versa
      @vice2versa 5 месяцев назад

      ​what exactly do you think is a good hypnosis recording to improve social anxiety.

  • @sougatabiswas164
    @sougatabiswas164 2 года назад +9

    I know it's irrelevant, but I can't help staring at your hair,..its just great!

  • @vishalchhabra4004
    @vishalchhabra4004 5 месяцев назад +2

    This video is gem for someone who understood each and every word correctly

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for that!

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  5 месяцев назад

      Which tip did you like the most?

    • @vishalchhabra4004
      @vishalchhabra4004 5 месяцев назад

      Most of them can't choose and thanks for the gem although I knew some of them from experience that's why realised immediately how good it is

  • @SocialConfidenceMastery
    @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 года назад

    Watch this other video to help you become wittier
    👉 How to be quick-witted and funny: ruclips.net/video/SJVTBa6mz8w/видео.html

  • @professional2104
    @professional2104 2 года назад +12

    I find the tip that has to do with associations very helpful. For example the chair example you mentioned.

  • @westernartifact4163
    @westernartifact4163 Год назад +8

    One trick is to actually answer questions logically, but in a funny delivery. Sometimes the actual situation sounds funnier than the imagery you can create with said scenario.

  • @DonjaHart
    @DonjaHart 27 дней назад

    The stare at the end of your statements are menacing bro

  • @timpook
    @timpook 3 года назад +10

    Thanks for the video. Very helpful!

  • @paulydltvideos
    @paulydltvideos Месяц назад +1

    This advice sounds like a spiritual journey

  • @pinkitten1712
    @pinkitten1712 6 месяцев назад +2

    Really great advice! I love this video and all the. tips. I’m a very boring so i hope this helps me be less bland with conversations

  • @danila466
    @danila466 2 года назад +5

    I really like this video 😍.thanks

  • @GaryWare
    @GaryWare 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is a great video with actionable insights. A lot of these tips I learned while taking improv classes.

  • @jaxxavier4480
    @jaxxavier4480 5 месяцев назад +4

    If all u do is go to work, go home and play video games… lol bro called me out😂

  • @YG-sd1jp
    @YG-sd1jp 5 месяцев назад +1

    Grass: Weed, Trees, lawnmower, summertime, fun, money, blades, dirt, neighborhood, boogers

  • @Nobleyippe
    @Nobleyippe 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thankyou for such good tips.❤

  • @saumitragautam6579
    @saumitragautam6579 Год назад +2

    Thanks.

  • @gabrielaemiliano6840
    @gabrielaemiliano6840 2 месяца назад

    watching south park has helped me

  • @leslierachellepierre
    @leslierachellepierre Год назад +1

    Thanks I learned a lot 😊

  • @FerreroRashaie
    @FerreroRashaie Год назад +4

    Herro 🤗 so I'm autistic and have this thing when I experience big mental breakthroughs I also shut down verbally. I get more serious. Loosey humor and have a slower speech along with poor mental recall. I'm here now trying to Relearn how to Mask for society. Because these phases really bring down everyone around me. I say this for education purposes and also as a hidden meaning thank you for making these videos. Also do you have specific advice in not over analyzing the situation?

  • @daniellennie6544
    @daniellennie6544 Год назад +1

    Hi, I have been trying to be witty my entire life. I always asked open ended questions, and sometimes this works. But I never get asked any questions from anyone else. I say something to add to the conversation (finally),and the conversation stops cold , noon

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Год назад +2

      Being witty comes down to saying something that's unexpected, positive and relatable.

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Год назад

      If you're having awkward silences during your interactions, that sounds like a different issue.

  • @leonisoleimany
    @leonisoleimany 8 месяцев назад

    Please list all time favorite books ideally, not commercially well known 🙏🙏

  • @wilma.espiritucrowley
    @wilma.espiritucrowley 6 месяцев назад

    I’m generally a funny person and always have inside jokes. I’m one of the funniest in my different circles of friends. But when I moved to the US it seems to have changed and I know some reasons are language barrier and some cultural differences. I’d love to be able to bring that old self back

    • @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266
      @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266 5 месяцев назад

      People who call themselves funny are generally not funny

    • @_showvoid_2428
      @_showvoid_2428 4 месяца назад

      @@hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266humor is subjective so he may actually be funny to some.

    • @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266
      @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266 4 месяца назад

      @@_showvoid_2428 No shit, that doesn't change what i said

    • @_showvoid_2428
      @_showvoid_2428 4 месяца назад

      @@hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266 It quite literally does dumbass
      “People who call themselves funny are generally not funny”
      Which is false because humor is SUBJECTIVE I can say I’m the funniest man on earth while you think I’m not funny just cause I’m making a statement based on myself, but someone among many people would agree.
      Your statement holds no merit because it’s based on your opinion which is irrelevant because as I said
      HUMOR IS SUBJECTIVE 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @SlinkHailX
    @SlinkHailX Год назад +3

    sometimes I feel like I'm a terrible person

  • @pankajkushwaha4323
    @pankajkushwaha4323 Год назад +2

    Great tips bro

  • @1minutefacts952
    @1minutefacts952 5 месяцев назад +1

    U r so underrated

  • @ITS_R4HUL
    @ITS_R4HUL Год назад +1

    I just subscribed your channel after watching 0:20 sec o video 😂

  • @kaizenborntowin
    @kaizenborntowin 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you!

  • @bendis9273
    @bendis9273 5 месяцев назад +1

    This video helped me so muchh

  • @shrimpboy944
    @shrimpboy944 2 месяца назад

    I can’t find any videos on this but what does it mean when I’m always the funny one in every situation

  • @Nakrawedzi12
    @Nakrawedzi12 5 месяцев назад +1

    thanks !!

  • @mr.v1845
    @mr.v1845 Год назад +5

    Hey, If someone can write his personal experience after he listen to this video
    I need something to motivate me, and thank you

  • @mexonclover5408
    @mexonclover5408 2 года назад +3

    Love you 🌙🌟💥⚡️

  • @zahir1016
    @zahir1016 2 года назад +1

    Great video man

  • @Arabiscuits1
    @Arabiscuits1 2 года назад +2

    Do you do any coaching ?

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 года назад

      Yes I do, what's your email?

    • @kiloocal8763
      @kiloocal8763 2 года назад

      Don't do it man. Just like he said, be carefree. Why would you give a fuck about his coaching.

  • @SmileFreestyle-hx2rc
    @SmileFreestyle-hx2rc Год назад +2

    A good wit is a better self defense than jiu jitsu

  • @madi9016
    @madi9016 Год назад +1

    how should i get started on research?

  • @Riderbrudda
    @Riderbrudda 5 месяцев назад

    You look like Tam from the big bang theory

  • @ryancafferty4973
    @ryancafferty4973 Год назад

    being witty is the opposite of this. it’s knowing you’re fucking armed to the strakes in any conversation and sit there and pray nobody drops a house on them. this level of fast genius… it’s cute. y’all cute.

  • @hipsnmusic7617
    @hipsnmusic7617 Год назад +1

    Comebacks😏

  • @smokenojoke8182
    @smokenojoke8182 2 года назад +3

    “Can’t just work and play video game” Ight im a head out

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 года назад +1

      It's hard to be creative if you don't do new things, right?

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 года назад

      Out of curiosity, what other hobbies do you have?

    • @smokenojoke8182
      @smokenojoke8182 2 года назад

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery I get it..sarcasm doesn’t translate well through text. What would a sarcasm emoji look like?

  • @EstNineteen90
    @EstNineteen90 5 месяцев назад

    Guys just watch the UK show 'would i lie to you'

  • @dimitarnikolov7563
    @dimitarnikolov7563 10 месяцев назад

    Is this guy reading from a blog ? I found this same info on some blog and its like hes readinng from it

  • @Dondesku
    @Dondesku 5 месяцев назад +1

    What to do if you find some ppl really boring?

  • @d.o3927
    @d.o3927 2 года назад +1

    Helpful :)

  • @richiestarks6163
    @richiestarks6163 2 месяца назад

    What helped me with Wittness is freestyle rap and writing rhymes with metaphors and punchlines.

  • @Exen88
    @Exen88 4 месяца назад

    I must be pretty evil. I’m only watching this so that I can destroy people better with comebacks.

  • @mitotv6376
    @mitotv6376 2 года назад +1

    Nice

  • @Kheyamhu
    @Kheyamhu 5 месяцев назад +1

    Your face cuts are amazing

  • @Aajkashravankumar
    @Aajkashravankumar 5 месяцев назад +2

    It's natural...you can copy but can't learn

  • @ABC-cw7zv
    @ABC-cw7zv 4 месяца назад +3

    That's seems like a scam. The army will teach you how talk, sing, communicate, analyze, and react. Probably learn a lot of humor from your drill instructor. They're very witty.

  • @ajay7665
    @ajay7665 8 месяцев назад

    5:10 7:30

  • @mrmac3971
    @mrmac3971 6 месяцев назад

    i also want to be Woody

  • @nicholasstefanoski6308
    @nicholasstefanoski6308 5 месяцев назад

    HI.😀 I have to stop over worry and I am learning something.😐 Goodbye.😀

  • @fey879
    @fey879 2 года назад +3

    2:30 a chair makes you think of those?
    Geez man I would hate to hear what you think about a banana.

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 года назад +2

      You might find it amusing at the very least haha

    • @fey879
      @fey879 2 года назад

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery ohhh cmon I know you meant "we"😉

    • @alexshaji6747
      @alexshaji6747 Год назад

      A chair and a rope 🥸

  • @karimk8551
    @karimk8551 2 месяца назад

    I think it's good advice but it will require a lot of work.

  • @Youdidnthearme
    @Youdidnthearme 8 месяцев назад +2

    What works for me is when I smoke marijuana I’m very witty

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  8 месяцев назад

      Good for you!

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  8 месяцев назад

      How often do you have to do that to be able to banter with others?

    • @Youdidnthearme
      @Youdidnthearme 8 месяцев назад

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery I smoke weed invariably

    • @Exen88
      @Exen88 4 месяца назад

      Same! It’s like the weed unlock this special conversational chat bot area of my brain. Bro the speed is unmatched! It’s basically instantaneous.

  • @BENZO_TV
    @BENZO_TV Месяц назад

    0:03 No

  • @parasraina9915
    @parasraina9915 2 года назад +3

    Rule no 1 : Be an asian

  • @magiktrafik6470
    @magiktrafik6470 5 месяцев назад +1

    This video is boring not witty at all

  • @vikasdhere584
    @vikasdhere584 2 месяца назад

    have trauma in your early life

  • @iregretmylifedecisionsiw
    @iregretmylifedecisionsiw 3 месяца назад

    This helped me 😭
    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @antonettecastillo8810
    @antonettecastillo8810 4 месяца назад +2

    I am the type of person who would rather talk about me searching how to be witty than actually being witty myself🫠