age gap gay couple here too...21 year gap...35 year relationship/marriage, now 85 and 64. Many aches and pains but basically both healthy. Older was super worried about gap at first, younger was not. Younger had big midlife anxiety in late 40's and 50's and was very promiscuous, older stuck with it and did not give an ultimatum. Lived apart for several times for couple of years, mostly due to jobs...actually helped in maintaining relationship as we could get a break from each other. Now, younger looking at retirement and assisting older in final years, older concerned about leaving the younger alone after passing. So many changes over the years, many experiences, property, animals. Mike was super cute in the video...clearly uncomfortable about having the camera on him, nervously played with feet, but a good sport.
We've been together 11 years, and we're having an amazing life together! We're lucky that we have a very supportive family and friends. It sounds like you guys are really working at making things work :)
I lost my husband of 33 years on 7/10/24 it's very recent and raw still for me. I've been approached by men socially younger than me I'm 62 well preserved lol and these men are younger in their 30s and 40s i was flattered but let them down kindly and they were very sweet and understanding. I'm attracted to men of all ages but the age going forward will be a factor so I enjoy hearing your perspectives about on your relationship it's inspiring for when I'm ready to invest into a new relationship if ever. Your both lucky to have found each other loves never easy but it's worth it, build your life memories together, my memories keep me going. God bless and be well.
Thanks guys. There are only 3 years difference in my partner and me. Many of the same concerns but we handle them similarly. After 36+ years and many changes we are still there for each other. Life is good, and best wishes to both of you. Just always remember mind set and determination will always prevail over everything else.
MIKE is very handsome. Mike does NOT Look Old At All ! He looks wordly, sophisticated, intelligent, humorous & charming in his own comfortable,laid-back comfortsble in his own skin kind of way.
As a gay man, marred w/2 sons and dated younger men, I’m familiar with your situation. Appears you have things worked out. Your husband and I (in our 60’s) are direct and no longer care what people think. Most couples don’t make the same amount of money and your husband understands that. You’re in your 30’s and are where you should be in maturity. Live and enjoy. As they say in CA-it’s all good.
This was a very interesting video. TBH I don’t think I could do it. My exhusband was only 7 years older than me. Even with that, he did earn significantly more than me and we split things 60/40. This allowed me to afford things that I couldn’t usually afford. It didn’t bother me and now he pays me alimony and that’s also fine. Also we went to 70 countries and we got the bed thing a lot, just like you guys, you just deal with it. We even had once an obviously gay guy in Peru at a Hilton make a big deal about it. We got told all the time that we were brothers, even though we don’t look anything alike. You guys seem to make each other happy and I do wish you all the best and just keep enjoying each other. My family lives in the Villages, so hopefully everyone is ok with the Hurricane, stay safe!
This video just came up in my feed at random. My husband and I have 11 years difference. We’ve been married 11 years in Dec. it’s refreshing to see age gap relationships presented in a positive light. The channel name fits. The vid felt authentic. I look forward to watching more vids of your and Mike’s life experiences. Wishing you both the best.
Great having Mike come on the show!!! Mike does NOT look 60!!!! Very young looking!!! I believe that an age gap relationship is a good thing!!! Nick, get out of your head!!!! People will ALWAYS talk!!! Do what you can when you can!!! Mike seems quite alright with that arrangement!! Do not put EXTRA pressure on yourself!!! You do not need it and ya'lls relationship does not need it!!! I failed to mention the Grinder app photo of Mike, he was looking damn handsome!!! Love the hairy chest!!! Yes, Nick, love your hairy chest also!!!! I think seeing you two together on the couch and Pearl laying between you two, ya'll have a loving relationship!!! Keep up the excellent work!!! Love you guys!!! Peace ✌️
I’m only replying because I love these guys! Your connection is strong and makes this video authentic. Thank you for sharing your part and we look forward to your future content. 🤗
Would not even attempt a relationship with a "recovering" person. More power to you if you have the strength to do it and God bless! 29 years living with an alcoholic who ultimately succumbed to the disease...stuck it out and didn't abandon him; even to the end...love makes you do the strangest things...miss him so much; even after 14 years...
I hope you all get to experience what we did. Despite our 14-year age difference, I’m the younger one, and over time, as my career progressed and my partner moved towards retirement, our financial contributions shifted. But at this point in our relationship, it no longer matters, as everything goes into our joint account and we share it all equally.
I think the percentage is the way to go. Like Mike said he doesn’t want to sit in coach he wants you there with him. Gold diggers have a whole different life on the side. Their own friends, activities and they usually disappear for a few days with a vague story. Gold diggers have no guilt, embarrassment and definitely no shame at being a user. The relatives, don’t let them bother you it’s really not about them regarding your relationship. Oh I knew you’re being your real self in your videos because you’re so kind and true
Excelent video. I could tell from previous videos that Mike doesnt like being on the spot. Can you please thank him (and you) for the effort of filming this one? It helps a lot. I myself am 31 and i drawn mostly to guys older than me. Experiences like yours make me feel validated and less lonely. Thank you.
I just discovered your channel and as a guy who’s also in an age gap relationship (26 and 44) and dealing with addiction myself, I feel like I found this channel for a good reason. Thanks for just sharing your storyand experiences, look forward to see what you do in the future❤
Hey thanks so much for the comment ❤️💯 definitely check out my 8 part series if you haven’t about my entire drug addiction and coming out story - Much Love brother
wow.. their chemistry is incredible. Thank you for sharing this incredible unconditional love between the two of you! I feel like I am headed into a similar situation.
Nick- I loved your age gap relationship video. My name is Andrew I am 61 years old. My partners name is Matthew he is now 23 this January will celebrate 4 years together. We talked for 6 months before we even meet, we dated long distance for 1 year, I was seeing someone and had a full life. The beginning of our second year he said he was NOT seeing anyone else. I had a thousand reasons to not go “all in” with Matthew, just like you mentioned in the video. But I wanted to, I loved him. I was just scared. So after some soul searching and a little bit of what the hell! We became boyfriends. That same year he came on several trips with me. It was amazing, he moved in with me 2 years ago this coming November and our life together has been pretty amazing. Yes like all the things you said in your video are 100% - I wanted to thank you both. I will watch more of your videos to catch up.
I couldn't have a gap bigger than 10 years. Congrats to the two of you, anyway. Glad that people are different and are able to live their lives the way they want to.
I’m in an age gap relationship and I appreciate you two doing this video. I am 12 years my husband’s senior. Yes, Mike is a hottie and looks far younger than 60 years old
Liked the video so much that I just subscribed! First, let me start by saying that, as an 'older' gay man, your video gives me hope of still finding my soul mate. I love how the two of you seem to truly accept and respect one another's differences while focusing on (and celebrating ) the many positives in your relationship. You're both truly lucky to have found one another but you seem to know that already. Secondly, let me also say that, speaking solely for myself, I i am especially glad to see two gay men who don't fit the 'stereotypical' definitions of what gay men are supposed to look and sound like. One if my 'problems' is that although I am a gay man, I'm still just a regular guy... meaning that being gay isn't the ONE THING by which I define myself. It's a part of who I am, but I don't make it THE thing by which I define myself as a human being. I'm also naturally masculine, which is not meant to cast any aspersions on my more-effeminate brethren as I have just as much love and respect for them as for anyone else. But as a 'masculine' gay man I have found that I often find myself feeling a bit out of place when I am in the company of other gay men. For example, one of the things I love is to do my own automotive mechanical work on my cars whenever I can. Yet I also can decorate a home like nobody's business too! But, unfortunately, because I am what i consider to be just a 'regular' guy, I find that this is often an impediment to meeting other men because I'm so often perceived as being straight. Anyway, I particularly enjoyed watching your video as it appears to me that you are two regular guys who also happen to be gay - to which I can strongly relate. And I especially like the candid way in which you both discuss your relationship issues in a way that makes your message universally relatable - regardless of one's sexual orientation. Looking forward to your future videos. Hoping that Helene and Milton were kind to you guys! Keep up the great work. ❤
Why is it so difficult for people to just simply wish happiness for people without throwing in their brand of negative personal judgement about other people lives. Community, but with plenty of gay shade. I knew the biggest thing people would automatically assume is Nick is a gold digger. But I have been noticing how age gap relationships work for quite sometime now. And I understand that they are usually the same 50-50 life as any gay couple lives. Now, I know that Nick had his past issues and clearly wasn’t making money to travel all over Asia as they did. And I noticed the places they stayed were 5 Star, 4 Star minimum. So obviously Nick wasn’t affording this from what I think I know about him. But I also know that Nick is a very honest person when it’s important to be honest. Now, I won’t count any time under the addiction period. Because drugs clearly distorts reality in a way that isn’t necessarily conducive. This is the fair thing to do to eliminate this period and not use to it decide the character of a person. But I noticed how Mike appeared to have an open mind about these issues. And it appeared that Nike felt lucky to have such an understanding individual in his life. Some people can’t imagine how that feels. I’ve been there in my past. Not drug related, but a different flaw of mine that isn’t important here. Nick is a committed type of person that, if anyone was not so quick to judge a person, could see him as the person he is actually. Mike is a beautiful soul that knew Nick from the past, had an attraction, and explored it. And exploring still, because every relationship should be doing. I am happy that they are getting along, appear happy, and hope they can always find themselves together. And forever, whatever their forever might be. ❤
Calvin, thank you so much. I know you’ve been here for a long time almost since the beginning I can’t explain how much I appreciate this comment and you’re able to notice certain things ❤️❤️❤️ I truly appreciate you.
Hi Nick and Mike... Finally we meet Mike...you both look as a lovely couple .... Both are very attractive and good vibes... Mike looks younger than I thought... so keep it up !!! Blessings and hugs Carlos (Canada)
Bro ... u r such a lucky person. Bec when u enter this video, ur loving bf brushed up ur shirt and made u perfect look. This is called real love ... god bless u both forever. ❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much guys really helpful to hear about different stages that you are at professionally, financially etc.Gives us hope to know that other people go through similar experiences. Best wishes from across the pond
Thanks for this insightful video! I am myself in an age-gap relationship (14 years difference). In my case, I’m the youngest but I have the best financial situation and pay almost everything, but I’m cool with it! It would’ve been interesting to talk about the sexual part of an age-gap relationship without going into too much detail 🤣
I'm single right now, but I'm interested in learning how people in age-gap relationships stay together. I'm not sure how I came across this video, but I'm glad I did. Your story was amazing, and I learned a lot from it. I'm hoping that if I can find someone who isn't the same age as me, I'll at least have an idea of what to expect and how to deal with the challenges, trials, and pains that come with being in an age-gap relationship. I'm subscribing to your channel so I can hear more stories from you.
Mike, you really do look very young and I'm not just saying this to be nice! I'm 63 and also think I'm young for my age. Thank you both for being so open with your audience. A lot of what you described also happens with straight couples. Relationships in general have their challenges. You two look great together by the way. And Nick, you are so charming. God bless you guys. Much love from Spain ❤
Awfully sweet. Interesting the suspicion of being gold digger. Thieving comes from deprivation. There is nothing to suggest Nick has that issue. Theres a generous soul💜
Have you mentioned to the people who disagree with it that it has absolutely nothing to do with them. It astounds me how many people think they are entitled to judge other peoples lives. Its your wonderful life guys!! Its great to know that they don't need to be in it
for myself personally, the only issue with a significant age difference between (same-sex) partners is a risk imbalance. an older partner bears a much greater risk of being left precisely at a time when he is most in need of companionship but no longer has options he once had due to an advancing old age, while a younger partner is still in his relative youth or prime and could easily pick up the pieces and move on. while partners being more or less in the same age group is definitely no guarantee of a relationship longevity, one's chances of being tossed overboard would, on average, be lesser.
Love you guys. I like the polarity of Mike’s mature and masculine personality versus Nick’s playful and easy-going personality. I can sense good chemistry. My relationship is similar, although interestingly in reverse. I am 29 and my partner (also called Nick) is 44. Despite being the younger one, I am more like Mike and he is just a big kid at heart.
Age gap here too. He is almost 21 years younger. Luckily there was no judgement from any family on either side...at least not to our face. His mother is only a couple of years older than me but has been totally loving and accepting.
Lol, Nick is the one feeling you Mike, I'm sure you don't feel sixty. The problems are all very common in same age relationships as well. I think the money one can be intimidating for the one earning less, I've been there, even if your partner doesn't feel that way, you do. I think you are both approaching it in a healthy way and doing well. ❤️
Congrats, you two! 🎉💑 The vibe between you is undeniable, and you both look fantastic together! Nick, those legs are definitely showing off all the hard work! 💪 And Mike, 60? No way, more like 50! I’ve seen 60, and you are absolutely not it. Looking sharp and feeling fab-that’s what it’s all about! 😎 Keep rocking it!
Mike looks great! Easily 10 years younger than his actual age. He's taking good care of himself, which is wonderful for the younger partner. I'm in an age-gap relationship (24 year gap) of twenty years, and my husband has had some health issues in his sixties. It's a good thing when the older partner cares for their health.
Wishing you both everything of the best as you grow in your relationship. May it only go from good, better to best!! Keep on loving each other despite challenges. Life's a journey and treasure every moment of it. Keep safe with the approaching hurricane and looking forward to your next clip. Warmest greetings from South Africa. 😊♥️🇿🇦
My experience with an older guy is that some of them are similar to younger guys. Sadly some of them are obsessed with being in the gay society and not being their own individual. I had a guy that was ashamed to take me out in public except for at night and he was older than I was. I think you can be in gay clicks at any age. I'm sure there are some wonderfully mature older gay that are available, but you just have to be in the right social group to meet them.
I’ve been with my age gap partner for 17 years, there is a 15 year age gap between us, I’m the older one and my younger man is actually more mature, funny how things workout!
Yo de un pequeño pueblo de Buenos Aires 32 años, mi novio vive en otra ciudad,el 40 años, solo podemos darnos el lujo de vernos los fin de semana , a veces ni siquiera ya que debo trabajar para terminar mi casa , sin embargo ya vamos 3 años de relación y la cosa fluye , tenemos proyectos en común y estamos muy contentos 😊
I found this timely and interesting. I have met and developing a very nice relationship with a much younger man. He is actually younger than my adult children. I'm getting push back from my kids, especially my sons, about this. I think my greatest concern is for him because if nature rules and we stay together, he will be the one who will be alone again. I've had to let that be his decision.
@@Fitzgarce hey I’m glad you found the channel and I appreciate the comment. I wish you the best of luck if you guys get along in the chemistry is there I think your kids will come around especially if you’re happy. 😊❤️
The scariest part about big age gap is that there is a bigger chance that the older guy may pass on first. This leaves the younger partner all alone. Depressing. On another note, it made the happy, healthy years together far more precious.
Yes, this is very true and a reality but in any relationship, anybody could pass away at any time in normally someone dies first and leaves the other person feeling sad so it’s definitely a tough one. Enjoy the moment while you have it.❤️
I think you guy's are great together age is only a number and love is real. That's all that should matter. I wish you and Mike all the best and Mike looks really good I wouldn't have thought he was 60.😘😘
Hey, what a small world! That’s where Mike’s from shoot us an email at AuthenNick@gmail.com with your picture so we remember who you are. lol 😂 sorry bad memory
Brovo, brovo, what a handsome couple. Very impressive and true to life. It would wonderful to hear some more intimate details of the inner dynamics of the relationship. As for the naysayers Love is blind, love conquers all. Some kisses might be nice next time.
I enjoyed this. Thank you for sharing. P.s. You guys make a very cute couple And it looks very normal to me… but that could be because I’m from a big city so love comes in many varieties there… nothing shocking see you two together though in my eyes. Just a beautiful couple
Tolerance, patience, don´t think about money if I put more than you and not be jealous. People belong to no one...........From SPAIN,,,i WISH YOU luck..
40 years together here and wasn’t always easy but so worth it. We are 14 years apart. I was 19 and he was 33 when we got together. Mike you look amazing. Woof❤
Age gap of 11 years, the only bummer is that my partner has Parkinson’s and it’s getting very challenging to continue with the amount of care that increases monthly.
I'm a single man, but I think the age gap was not a barrier to a couple to be together. The important things in relationship is trustworthy, support each other, kindness, and attentions. If you love someone, tell them. Age is just a number guys! Come on! When my dad was married my mom, he's just 28, and my mom was 34. And now they're still together since 1997.
I used to date an older man, but we broke up because of the money thing. He wanted to pay for everything and I couldn't accept that. I will never be a sugar baby, so it didn't work. He told me I was being silly, but I've always been independent and the fact that he had more money made me extremely uncomfortable, it felt like I was on unbalanced territory. He had more power than me in a sense, I felt like I had to go along with everything, because I couldn't keep up in that sense. I was like 24 at the time and he was a stablished 48 year old man. Don't know if someone has felt like that.
Youre both handsome and sexy. I've always had a thing for men older than myself, men in their 40s 50s, even when I was in my early 20s. The perception of money power certainly was a key thing to overcome or prove myself. My second ex is in his late 70s now. I have to say now I'm happy to be able to treat him and his much younger bf to overseas trips multiple times over the years. The really difficult thing for me is that although I just turned 58 now, I'm still attracted to men who are in their 40s 50s, who of course mostly aren't interested in men my age. As I grow older somehow my taste for men at a certain age range hasn't evolved lol
Sometimes I forget that my husband is 12 years older than me. I’m 39 and he is 51. I’m almost as old as he was when we met. He had just turned 40. Took me a while to get him to grow a beard as he didn’t like that it was more grey than just a goatee. Now, his beard is pretty grey and some white with no dark color. I’m getting just a few visible grey hairs in my beard now. I sometimes wonder if people realize we are a couple when we are out. When we went to Alaska last year for a month we had several times where they apologized about not having two beds and then quickly said or maybe I didn’t get that wrong. They for the most part don’t care in Alaska, which I was surprised.
Aweee how long have you guys been together? And ya I wouldn’t think the people in Alaska would care to much considering it’s such a touristy place they probably see a lot and want people to have a good time to come back and recommend them
11 Years so far. 5 years married. The first 3 years were long distance, but only like 1-1.5 hours drive away. Still, it was difficult to have the time to visit as it was the busiest that I ever have been those first years. The rest living together and even moving across the United States from OH to OR and leaving most of my family/friends behind.
Alaska had high same sex marriage support even way back in the late 90s apparently. So, I don’t think it’s tourism alone. The only place we had some uncertainty is this guy that was telling us about all these “fishing spots”. Like we were there to fish, which could be a homosexual couple doing that too, but we were there to whale watch mostly. Almost all the smaller trips were couples.
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age gap gay couple here too...21 year gap...35 year relationship/marriage, now 85 and 64. Many aches and pains but basically both healthy. Older was super worried about gap at first, younger was not. Younger had big midlife anxiety in late 40's and 50's and was very promiscuous, older stuck with it and did not give an ultimatum. Lived apart for several times for couple of years, mostly due to jobs...actually helped in maintaining relationship as we could get a break from each other. Now, younger looking at retirement and assisting older in final years, older concerned about leaving the younger alone after passing. So many changes over the years, many experiences, property, animals.
Mike was super cute in the video...clearly uncomfortable about having the camera on him, nervously played with feet, but a good sport.
21 yr difference with us too - almost 34 yrs together. 59&80. Definitely life changes in last couple years
We've been together 11 years, and we're having an amazing life together! We're lucky that we have a very supportive family and friends. It sounds like you guys are really working at making things work :)
Thank you guys ❤️🌈💯 11 years is amazing 🤩 so happy for you
I lost my husband of 33 years on 7/10/24 it's very recent and raw still for me. I've been approached by men socially younger than me I'm 62 well preserved lol and these men are younger in their 30s and 40s i was flattered but let them down kindly and they were very sweet and understanding. I'm attracted to men of all ages but the age going forward will be a factor so I enjoy hearing your perspectives about on your relationship it's inspiring for when I'm ready to invest into a new relationship if ever. Your both lucky to have found each other loves never easy but it's worth it, build your life memories together, my memories keep me going. God bless and be well.
Thanks guys. There are only 3 years difference in my partner and me. Many of the same concerns but we handle them similarly.
After 36+ years and many changes we are still there for each other. Life is good, and best wishes to both of you. Just always remember mind set and determination will always prevail over everything else.
Well said! 💯💯💯💯🌈❤️ thank you
MIKE is very handsome.
Mike does NOT Look Old At All !
He looks wordly, sophisticated, intelligent, humorous & charming in his own comfortable,laid-back comfortsble in his own skin kind of way.
He is!! He’s so damn handsome 🥵
@@PhilipManhattan haha 🤣 your so salty it’s ok
As a gay man, marred w/2 sons and dated younger men, I’m familiar with your situation. Appears you have things worked out. Your husband and I (in our 60’s) are direct and no longer care what people think. Most couples don’t make the same amount of money and your husband understands that. You’re in your 30’s and are where you should be in maturity. Live and enjoy. As they say in CA-it’s all good.
This was a very interesting video. TBH I don’t think I could do it. My exhusband was only 7 years older than me. Even with that, he did earn significantly more than me and we split things 60/40. This allowed me to afford things that I couldn’t usually afford. It didn’t bother me and now he pays me alimony and that’s also fine. Also we went to 70 countries and we got the bed thing a lot, just like you guys, you just deal with it. We even had once an obviously gay guy in Peru at a Hilton make a big deal about it. We got told all the time that we were brothers, even though we don’t look anything alike. You guys seem to make each other happy and I do wish you all the best and just keep enjoying each other. My family lives in the Villages, so hopefully everyone is ok with the Hurricane, stay safe!
You both seem genuine and sincere. Obviously there's a great connection between you both.
I'm an unapologetic oldie chaser. I just find them so handsome! I can't help it! haha
This video just came up in my feed at random. My husband and I have 11 years difference. We’ve been married 11 years in Dec. it’s refreshing to see age gap relationships presented in a positive light. The channel name fits. The vid felt authentic. I look forward to watching more vids of your and Mike’s life experiences. Wishing you both the best.
Hey thanks so much for watching ❤️😊 and how long have you and your husband been together? Check out some of our travel vlogs
age doesn't matter, mike obvious takes good care himself. Look at him he is stunning!
Great having Mike come on the show!!! Mike does NOT look 60!!!! Very young looking!!!
I believe that an age gap relationship is a good thing!!!
Nick, get out of your head!!!! People will ALWAYS talk!!! Do what you can when you can!!! Mike seems quite alright with that arrangement!! Do not put EXTRA pressure on yourself!!! You do not need it and ya'lls relationship does not need it!!!
I failed to mention the Grinder app photo of Mike, he was looking damn handsome!!! Love the hairy chest!!! Yes, Nick, love your hairy chest also!!!!
I think seeing you two together on the couch and Pearl laying between you two, ya'll have a loving relationship!!! Keep up the excellent work!!! Love you guys!!! Peace ✌️
I’m only replying because I love these guys! Your connection is strong and makes this video authentic. Thank you for sharing your part and we look forward to your future content. 🤗
Thank you for the love and support! ❤️
I am so happy being single these days. Fun to watch other relationship dynamics to remind me of how lucky I am!❤
Would not even attempt a relationship with a "recovering" person. More power to you if you have the strength to do it and God bless! 29 years living with an alcoholic who ultimately succumbed to the disease...stuck it out and didn't abandon him; even to the end...love makes you do the strangest things...miss him so much; even after 14 years...
I love you guys together. Live your best life!
I hope you all get to experience what we did. Despite our 14-year age difference, I’m the younger one, and over time, as my career progressed and my partner moved towards retirement, our financial contributions shifted. But at this point in our relationship, it no longer matters, as everything goes into our joint account and we share it all equally.
I think the percentage is the way to go. Like Mike said he doesn’t want to sit in coach he wants you there with him. Gold diggers have a whole different life on the side. Their own friends, activities and they usually disappear for a few days with a vague story. Gold diggers have no guilt, embarrassment and definitely no shame at being a user. The relatives, don’t let them bother you it’s really not about them regarding your relationship. Oh I knew you’re being your real self in your videos because you’re so kind and true
Thank you James ❤️🌈
Excelent video. I could tell from previous videos that Mike doesnt like being on the spot. Can you please thank him (and you) for the effort of filming this one? It helps a lot. I myself am 31 and i drawn mostly to guys older than me. Experiences like yours make me feel validated and less lonely. Thank you.
Hey, thank you so much for the comment ❤️ you’re right Mike does not like being on the spot lol but definitely getting better
I just discovered your channel and as a guy who’s also in an age gap relationship (26 and 44) and dealing with addiction myself, I feel like I found this channel for a good reason. Thanks for just sharing your storyand experiences, look forward to see what you do in the future❤
Hey thanks so much for the comment ❤️💯 definitely check out my 8 part series if you haven’t about my entire drug addiction and coming out story - Much Love brother
i love how the conversation flow naturally between both of you . More video like this please its really relaxing
To watch and hear
Thank you! Will do! ❤️
wow.. their chemistry is incredible. Thank you for sharing this incredible unconditional love between the two of you! I feel like I am headed into a similar situation.
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Nick- I loved your age gap relationship video. My name is Andrew I am 61 years old. My partners name is Matthew he is now 23 this January will celebrate 4 years together. We talked for 6 months before we even meet, we dated long distance for 1 year, I was seeing someone and had a full life. The beginning of our second year he said he was NOT seeing anyone else. I had a thousand reasons to not go “all in” with Matthew, just like you mentioned in the video. But I wanted to, I loved him. I was just scared. So after some soul searching and a little bit of what the hell! We became boyfriends. That same year he came on several trips with me. It was amazing, he moved in with me 2 years ago this coming November and our life together has been pretty amazing. Yes like all the things you said in your video are 100% - I wanted to thank you both. I will watch more of your videos to catch up.
Andrew, thank you so much for sharing your story! You and Matthew are amazing. ❤️
@@AuthenNick we are very happy - Thank you again for you channel
@@shutupallready your welcome 🤗
Awww, Mike taking care of you Nick😊❤
Iam 16 years older than my bf. It was love at first sight. We plan to wed next October.
I couldn't have a gap bigger than 10 years. Congrats to the two of you, anyway. Glad that people are different and are able to live their lives the way they want to.
❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you
I’m in an age gap relationship and I appreciate you two doing this video. I am 12 years my husband’s senior.
Yes, Mike is a hottie and looks far younger than 60 years old
Hahaha he’s gonna love to hear that ❤️
Liked the video so much that I just subscribed!
First, let me start by saying that, as an 'older' gay man, your video gives me hope of still finding my soul mate.
I love how the two of you seem to truly accept and respect one another's differences while focusing on (and celebrating ) the many positives in your relationship. You're both truly lucky to have found one another but you seem to know that already.
Secondly, let me also say that, speaking solely for myself, I i am especially glad to see two gay men who don't fit the 'stereotypical' definitions of what gay men are supposed to look and sound like. One if my 'problems' is that although I am a gay man, I'm still just a regular guy... meaning that being gay isn't the ONE THING by which I define myself. It's a part of who I am, but I don't make it THE thing by which I define myself as a human being. I'm also naturally masculine, which is not meant to cast any aspersions on my more-effeminate brethren as I have just as much love and respect for them as for anyone else. But as a 'masculine' gay man I have found that I often find myself feeling a bit out of place when I am in the company of other gay men. For example, one of the things I love is to do my own automotive mechanical work on my cars whenever I can. Yet I also can decorate a home like nobody's business too! But, unfortunately, because I am what i consider to be just a 'regular' guy, I find that this is often an impediment to meeting other men because I'm so often perceived as being straight.
Anyway, I particularly enjoyed watching your video as it appears to me that you are two regular guys who also happen to be gay - to which I can strongly relate. And I especially like the candid way in which you both discuss your relationship issues in a way that makes your message universally relatable - regardless of one's sexual orientation.
Looking forward to your future videos. Hoping that Helene and Milton were kind to you guys!
Keep up the great work.
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Thank you so much for this ❤️❤️❤️
The older dude here definitely looks his age, and he has a hot young stud for a boyfriend. So it is possible. Good luck. Hope burns eternal.
Why is it so difficult for people to just simply wish happiness for people without throwing in their brand of negative personal judgement about other people lives. Community, but with plenty of gay shade.
I knew the biggest thing people would automatically assume is Nick is a gold digger. But I have been noticing how age gap relationships work for quite sometime now. And I understand that they are usually the same 50-50 life as any gay couple lives.
Now, I know that Nick had his past issues and clearly wasn’t making money to travel all over Asia as they did. And I noticed the places they stayed were 5 Star, 4 Star minimum. So obviously Nick wasn’t affording this from what I think I know about him. But I also know that Nick is a very honest person when it’s important to be honest.
Now, I won’t count any time under the addiction period. Because drugs clearly distorts reality in a way that isn’t necessarily conducive. This is the fair thing to do to eliminate this period and not use to it decide the character of a person.
But I noticed how Mike appeared to have an open mind about these issues. And it appeared that Nike felt lucky to have such an understanding individual in his life. Some people can’t imagine how that feels. I’ve been there in my past. Not drug related, but a different flaw of mine that isn’t important here.
Nick is a committed type of person that, if anyone was not so quick to judge a person, could see him as the person he is actually. Mike is a beautiful soul that knew Nick from the past, had an attraction, and explored it. And exploring still, because every relationship should be doing.
I am happy that they are getting along, appear happy, and hope they can always find themselves together. And forever, whatever their forever might be.
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Calvin, thank you so much. I know you’ve been here for a long time almost since the beginning I can’t explain how much I appreciate this comment and you’re able to notice certain things ❤️❤️❤️ I truly appreciate you.
@@AuthenNick And you too are appreciated, Nick. Wishing you and Mike all the very best.
why do they look related is my question... eerie
@@111_23 lol so both handsome 🤔….😂
Hi Nick and Mike...
Finally we meet Mike...you both look as a lovely couple ....
Both are very attractive and good vibes...
Mike looks younger than I thought... so keep it up !!!
Blessings and hugs
Carlos
(Canada)
😊 thank you
Bro ... u r such a lucky person. Bec when u enter this video, ur loving bf brushed up ur shirt and made u perfect look. This is called real love ... god bless u both forever. ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much 😀 I know he is truly amazing ❤️
Thanks so much guys really helpful to hear about different stages that you are at professionally, financially etc.Gives us hope to know that other people go through similar experiences. Best wishes from across the pond
I'm so happy for both of you and absolutely admire your courage and love. Keep loving and sharing ❤
Thank you so much!!
Nothing but love and respect for the both of you!
Thank you for being brave 🤗
I dunno if you guys know how many doors you’ve opened,
Thank you ❤
I do think Mike looks much younger than his age. You both look great! Love the energy you guys exchange with each other.
Thank you so much ❤️ appreciate the love
Great video me and my husband have a 18 year age gap and have experienced some of what you went through. Thanks for sharing
Thanks for sharing your story, it's nice to know we're not alone! ❤️
Thanks letting us know about Mike. You guys are lucky.
Yes we are thank you so much 😊
Thanks for this insightful video! I am myself in an age-gap relationship (14 years difference). In my case, I’m the youngest but I have the best financial situation and pay almost everything, but I’m cool with it!
It would’ve been interesting to talk about the sexual part of an age-gap relationship without going into too much detail 🤣
I'm single right now, but I'm interested in learning how people in age-gap relationships stay together. I'm not sure how I came across this video, but I'm glad I did. Your story was amazing, and I learned a lot from it. I'm hoping that if I can find someone who isn't the same age as me, I'll at least have an idea of what to expect and how to deal with the challenges, trials, and pains that come with being in an age-gap relationship. I'm subscribing to your channel so I can hear more stories from you.
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️ glad it helped
Mike, you really do look very young and I'm not just saying this to be nice! I'm 63 and also think I'm young for my age. Thank you both for being so open with your audience. A lot of what you described also happens with straight couples. Relationships in general have their challenges. You two look great together by the way. And Nick, you are so charming. God bless you guys. Much love from Spain ❤
Thanks Liz ❤️❤️❤️
I think the best thing is you both have similar interests like travel and want to live in the same location. That helps a lot.
Thank you 😊 and yes I agree 🌈❤️
Perfect couple! thx for making this video with mike, nick. ❤
Awfully sweet. Interesting the suspicion of being gold digger. Thieving comes from deprivation. There is nothing to suggest Nick has that issue. Theres a generous soul💜
Have you mentioned to the people who disagree with it that it has absolutely nothing to do with them. It astounds me how many people think they are entitled to judge other peoples lives. Its your wonderful life guys!! Its great to know that they don't need to be in it
Omg exactly ❤️thank you for this and the support
Thank you Nick for yours and Mike’s dynamic relationship.
It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. I married a man 13 years older and 19 years later we have survived the ebbs and flows of the relationship.
You guys are great. Mike looks awesome! Safe travels, and good weather too
for myself personally, the only issue with a significant age difference between (same-sex) partners is a risk imbalance. an older partner bears a much greater risk of being left precisely at a time when he is most in need of companionship but no longer has options he once had due to an advancing old age, while a younger partner is still in his relative youth or prime and could easily pick up the pieces and move on. while partners being more or less in the same age group is definitely no guarantee of a relationship longevity, one's chances of being tossed overboard would, on average, be lesser.
Love you guys. I like the polarity of Mike’s mature and masculine personality versus Nick’s playful and easy-going personality. I can sense good chemistry.
My relationship is similar, although interestingly in reverse. I am 29 and my partner (also called Nick) is 44. Despite being the younger one, I am more like Mike and he is just a big kid at heart.
Age gap here too. He is almost 21 years younger. Luckily there was no judgement from any family on either side...at least not to our face. His mother is only a couple of years older than me but has been totally loving and accepting.
You guys are awesome. I'm 21 and gay. Thanks for sharing.
Your welcome thanks for commenting
Thank you for sharing your lives and experiences. You both are honest and inspirational. ❤❤❤
Thank you so much! We appreciate it ❤️
Lol, Nick is the one feeling you Mike, I'm sure you don't feel sixty. The problems are all very common in same age relationships as well. I think the money one can be intimidating for the one earning less, I've been there, even if your partner doesn't feel that way, you do. I think you are both approaching it in a healthy way and doing well. ❤️
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Congrats, you two! 🎉💑 The vibe between you is undeniable, and you both look fantastic together! Nick, those legs are definitely showing off all the hard work! 💪 And Mike, 60? No way, more like 50! I’ve seen 60, and you are absolutely not it. Looking sharp and feeling fab-that’s what it’s all about! 😎 Keep rocking it!
Thank you so much!! ❤️❤️❤️
Mike looks great! Easily 10 years younger than his actual age.
He's taking good care of himself, which is wonderful for the younger partner. I'm in an age-gap relationship (24 year gap) of twenty years, and my husband has had some health issues in his sixties. It's a good thing when the older partner cares for their health.
You guys are such a nice n positive couple!! I like how Mike takes care of you nick ❤
Bravo well done. I'm in, let's go!
Yayyyy 🌈❤️ thank you
Wishing you both everything of the best as you grow in your relationship. May it only go from good, better to best!! Keep on loving each other despite challenges. Life's a journey and treasure every moment of it. Keep safe with the approaching hurricane and looking forward to your next clip. Warmest greetings from South Africa. 😊♥️🇿🇦
Thank you so much I definitely want to visit South Africa someday
Married to 29 years my junior. Dated 6 years before we got married. Still figuring things out.
My experience with an older guy is that some of them are similar to younger guys. Sadly some of them are obsessed with being in the gay society and not being their own individual. I had a guy that was ashamed to take me out in public except for at night and he was older than I was. I think you can be in gay clicks at any age. I'm sure there are some wonderfully mature older gay that are available, but you just have to be in the right social group to meet them.
Wish I can find someone as well. Still have the hope to find the one, it doesn't matter if it is only behind the door.
Nice getting to know video. Hope you guys weather the storm okay. I'm in Pinellas county, things are too good pretty rough on Thursday.
Thank you so much stay safe with the storm 🙏
I’ve been with my age gap partner for 17 years, there is a 15 year age gap between us, I’m the older one and my younger man is actually more mature, funny how things workout!
THIS WAS GREAT. LOVE
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Yo de un pequeño pueblo de Buenos Aires 32 años, mi novio vive en otra ciudad,el 40 años, solo podemos darnos el lujo de vernos los fin de semana , a veces ni siquiera ya que debo trabajar para terminar mi casa , sin embargo ya vamos 3 años de relación y la cosa fluye , tenemos proyectos en común y estamos muy contentos 😊
I found this timely and interesting. I have met and developing a very nice relationship with a much younger man. He is actually younger than my adult children. I'm getting push back from my kids, especially my sons, about this. I think my greatest concern is for him because if nature rules and we stay together, he will be the one who will be alone again. I've had to let that be his decision.
@@Fitzgarce hey I’m glad you found the channel and I appreciate the comment. I wish you the best of luck if you guys get along in the chemistry is there I think your kids will come around especially if you’re happy. 😊❤️
The scariest part about big age gap is that there is a bigger chance that the older guy may pass on first. This leaves the younger partner all alone. Depressing.
On another note, it made the happy, healthy years together far more precious.
Yes, this is very true and a reality but in any relationship, anybody could pass away at any time in normally someone dies first and leaves the other person feeling sad so it’s definitely a tough one. Enjoy the moment while you have it.❤️
Yes, we old people tend to think we are closer to death. But tomorrow is promised to no one
I think you guy's are great together age is only a number and love is real. That's all that should matter. I wish you and Mike all the best and Mike looks really good I wouldn't have thought he was 60.😘😘
Hey! What a nice surprise coming across this video. I met you guys in Wilton Manors the weekend of 4th of July (I am the guy from Gahanna)
Hey, what a small world! That’s where Mike’s from shoot us an email at AuthenNick@gmail.com with your picture so we remember who you are.
lol 😂 sorry bad memory
I really Love this couple. They are so cool 😎Mike really looks fantastic and young. Love you guys energy. Thank you for your channel. God bless
Thanks so much!!❤️
@@AuthenNick you're welcome
God bless you Gays 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🧿🧿🧿✝️✝️✝️
You guys are great and I can’t wait for your next video!❤❤❤
Thank you so much!!
Brovo, brovo, what a handsome couple. Very impressive and true to life. It would wonderful to hear some more intimate details of the inner dynamics of the relationship. As for the naysayers Love is blind, love conquers all. Some kisses might be nice next time.
More to come! ❤️
Nice too see you both you look a picture of happiness What age gap ! A very handsome couple
I enjoyed this. Thank you for sharing.
P.s. You guys make a very cute couple And it looks very normal to me… but that could be because I’m from a big city so love comes in many varieties there… nothing shocking see you two together though in my eyes. Just a beautiful couple
Aweeeee thank you ❤️🌈👬🏻
Mike looks SO YOUNG and attractive! He must be 23-26yrs old AT LEAST! 🥰
Tolerance, patience, don´t think about money if I put more than you and not be jealous. People belong to no one...........From SPAIN,,,i WISH YOU luck..
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
40 years together here and wasn’t always easy but so worth it. We are 14 years apart. I was 19 and he was 33 when we got together. Mike you look amazing. Woof❤
Yayyy congrats guys 🌈❤️
@@AuthenNick he is 73 now and I’m 59 and holding. lol. Been a Nick fan for a little more than two years now. Keep being fantastic.
I’m in a 18 year age gap where I’m the younger… ❤ love from Canada
Heyyy that’s awesome ❤️ how long you guys been together?
You guys make such a gorgeous couple!
Omg Mike is my dream man! Very hawwwwt!
I know right 🥵 ❤️
hi guys , you both adorable, enjoy your lives to the fullest. mwahhhh!!!
My late partner and I were 18 yrs apart and it only became an issue in his last three years of life!
both soooo handsome!!
You just have a new subscriber. ❤ U both,
Yay! Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Age gap of 11 years, the only bummer is that my partner has Parkinson’s and it’s getting very challenging to continue with the amount of care that increases monthly.
Ughhh I’m sorry 😞 it’s gotta be tough ❤️
The precious puppy 😍
Gorgeous couple. Stay happy guys.
thanks for the video love you guys and your dog you guys really help me out as a bi man with autism i look up to you guys
I'm a single man, but I think the age gap was not a barrier to a couple to be together. The important things in relationship is trustworthy, support each other, kindness, and attentions. If you love someone, tell them. Age is just a number guys! Come on! When my dad was married my mom, he's just 28, and my mom was 34. And now they're still together since 1997.
This was a very good video ❤❤
@@RichNDNGuy thank you
I used to date an older man, but we broke up because of the money thing. He wanted to pay for everything and I couldn't accept that. I will never be a sugar baby, so it didn't work. He told me I was being silly, but I've always been independent and the fact that he had more money made me extremely uncomfortable, it felt like I was on unbalanced territory. He had more power than me in a sense, I felt like I had to go along with everything, because I couldn't keep up in that sense. I was like 24 at the time and he was a stablished 48 year old man. Don't know if someone has felt like that.
I totally get what you mean it definitely is a big thing I dealt with and working on ❤️
15:21 "we're shooting a video "
The AC fixer: 😳
I'd be like, "can I come?" 😂
Youre both handsome and sexy. I've always had a thing for men older than myself, men in their 40s 50s, even when I was in my early 20s. The perception of money power certainly was a key thing to overcome or prove myself. My second ex is in his late 70s now. I have to say now I'm happy to be able to treat him and his much younger bf to overseas trips multiple times over the years. The really difficult thing for me is that although I just turned 58 now, I'm still attracted to men who are in their 40s 50s, who of course mostly aren't interested in men my age. As I grow older somehow my taste for men at a certain age range hasn't evolved lol
Very interesting I was curious about that if the age range attraction would change as you age. 🤔❤️
Mike is giving alpha daddy energy. Totally get why a younger guy would fall for him. He's really hot.
Sometimes I forget that my husband is 12 years older than me. I’m 39 and he is 51. I’m almost as old as he was when we met. He had just turned 40. Took me a while to get him to grow a beard as he didn’t like that it was more grey than just a goatee. Now, his beard is pretty grey and some white with no dark color. I’m getting just a few visible grey hairs in my beard now. I sometimes wonder if people realize we are a couple when we are out. When we went to Alaska last year for a month we had several times where they apologized about not having two beds and then quickly said or maybe I didn’t get that wrong. They for the most part don’t care in Alaska, which I was surprised.
Aweee how long have you guys been together? And ya I wouldn’t think the people in Alaska would care to much considering it’s such a touristy place they probably see a lot and want people to have a good time to come back and recommend them
11 Years so far. 5 years married. The first 3 years were long distance, but only like 1-1.5 hours drive away. Still, it was difficult to have the time to visit as it was the busiest that I ever have been those first years. The rest living together and even moving across the United States from OH to OR and leaving most of my family/friends behind.
Alaska had high same sex marriage support even way back in the late 90s apparently. So, I don’t think it’s tourism alone. The only place we had some uncertainty is this guy that was telling us about all these “fishing spots”. Like we were there to fish, which could be a homosexual couple doing that too, but we were there to whale watch mostly. Almost all the smaller trips were couples.
Great video, and cute dog! 🐶
Thank you very much! ❤️❤️❤️
Omg! Y'all are so cute 🥰
20:55 I can see Nick's tempted to kiss Mike