Old Gays Look Back At Their Past Relationships
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
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My heart breaks at every implication of their partners passing around the 80s-90s...
AIDS decade before treatment was discovered. Such a pity.
I know really sad
Absolutely
The AIDs epidemic might be the reason because of their partners dying since the 80s to the early 90s was the time where AIDs were killing a lot of LGBTQ+ people and people in general. It was a really bad time for the LGBTQ+ community. There was even quilts made to honor the people who died during that time. I think the quilts are in Washington D.C. but I don’t know. It wasn’t a long time ago but it’s not well known.
I know 😥😥😥
" i rather not talk about it "
Bill: lots of personal questions
I just love them
"Was that traumatic for you?" 🤣🤣 Bill is too much
Bill: did you not know how to read.
I love Bill!!!
@@ernatrambulo no tea no shade
Was it another MAYN?
"couldn't you read?"
im crying why is that so funny
@Dylan You read my mind
rosalina fire lol
I let out such an ugly laugh
rosalina fire 😂😂😂
Right! The first two on the left kept throwing subtle shade. 😂
Jessay hasn't aged a day I swear, he even looks younger now
Good black don't crack, sista.
You know what they say, black don't crack
Black really don’t crack
I swearrrrr🗣🗣
Especially with the beard, loving it.
I love Bill! He seems like THE sweetest sweetheart ever! 22 years alone😭 somebody love this man already
I lost my last 20 year "husband" in 2012...I'm ready to not be alone. I'd take Billy in a heartbeat, sweet man.
22 years really isn't that long. I've been alone my whole life, 62 now, apart from a brief 'thing' in my early twenties - so basically 40 years.
I know! He's SO sweet and I bet if he got on a social networking site for older gay men, he just might find a special someone! 💜
nichotto hey
I love him , in a platonic way 😂😂
“i’ve been all alone in the world now for 22 years”
yooo old gays where are you at!! why you doing bill dirty?!
y old tho? there are people in their 20s that would find Bill attractive.
Matviey Goldstein maybe i was hasty when considering an age apologies
below.average ABSOLUTELY!!
Bill support squad 🔥🔥🔥
True watching these Bill is a wonderful person. He needs love too! Someone get Bill a man!
The first guy's relationship ending because of class difference got me - that shit is real
smileyface702 hell ya it’s real
totally related to it
Being there a couple of times. Most rich guys want one thing only from you: sex! No matter how well he treats you, it usually doesn't survive the 3rd date when he starts to send you messages about why it's time to stop seeing you. And after a couple of months, you hear he's in a serious relationship with someone of the same social class. At least I had some fun enjoying all the pampering.
WHewww DO I GOT SOME EXPERIENCE IN THAT REALM
@@chimeradarkoverlordrosanna1846 share your story ;3
Jessey lived through both racism and homophobia, now that’s a king for real for real 😍✊🏾
Yessssssss
Too bad both of those things still exist... but obviously not as bad.
@@matthewcase6641 I beg to differ.
@@marckid93 depends where you live 🤷♂️
Matthew Case it's everywhere.
I'm simple. I see old gays in the title and I click.
i did too lol it's cute
Same ❤ I love these men
Hi there 🤩🤩😍😍😍
Same here
🙏❤️😁😍
So sad to hear how many of them died before they could reach an old age. We as a community have lost so many strong men and great stories to AIDS, it's truly a shame what could have been and how many rolemodels we still would have left.
I lived it and I tell the love of my life I love him everyday. Even though he's in heaven now and I can feel the connection and bond. ❤
Stripties You have NEVER lied! I lost my Uncle Steven during the epidemic. I often wonder what he could’ve taught me in my experience.
Brent Foster that’s so crazy, my uncle who was also named Steve lost his life due to AIDs. I didn’t get to know him since he died when I was a toddler but I was always drawn to his stuff. My family kept a lot of his furniture and his chess set! Everything of his I always felt a deep connection to. Now that I’m much older and out of the closet it’s nice knowing how he helped me grow with being comfortable with myself even in death
@@nope9745 Do you ever feel the presence of a helpful spirit that can't be explained ? It may be your uncle Steve on the other side. 🏳️🌈
I was still a kid when my theater director died of what they were calling "gay cancer" at the time. I was so dumb I commented on his new hairdoo when looking back it was obviously a wig because he lost all his hair. He was a sweet man and didn't deserve to die so young.
"I've been all alone in the world 22 years now." Same, born in '97...
Harleylover14 hahahahahahaha
Lol the future of most of us millennials. Is harder to find a partner today than back then.
Huhhhh..... Tell me about it 23 years.... lol they keep saying that theres a alot of fish in the sea but damn that's such a lie. Not even one fish bother looking at you 😣
SAME
10 years for me, and I'm done with partners. Had one for 25 years; we parted ways on our 25th anniversary. I never realized how happy I could be, being alone. For once my heart has stopped breaking.
I had three great loves in my life, first one I was 15. I went on to marry the mother of my children divorced 1983.., met Chris we were together till 2001 when he passed. I am now 78 my first love came back into my life, 63yrs since we last met. We had both thought about the other. Result we are now engaged and intend to marry soon.
I wish y'all a happy rest of ur life, it's amazing you guys found eachother again 💕
That's so beautiful! Congratulations!
That's beautiful 💕 may God keep blessing you all 💕
Love this ❤️❤️ hope you guys are happy ✨✨
❤ congratulations
it really breaks my heart to hear that their former partners passed in the 80s-90s.
Ishmael Moh really??!!?!!
@@ishmaelm1932 Thank you Captain Obvious
Ishmael Moh wow great observation 👏🙄
@@cassie7959 outstanding observation*
Ishmael Moh
Any sex can bring aids. Gay, straight, asshole, vagina, blowjobs. Don’t be so fucking dense.
"What are your thoughts on romantic relationships?"
"Oh I think they're wonderful if you can get one."
Best way to start off the video
ahhhWAE a mood
Well that's some truth.
My sincerest condolences to all the former partners mentioned/shown who have sadly passed on...rest easy, sweet angels.
Indeed.
Bittersweet that was the end of most of the stories - but I'd hope they'd appreciate the "in memoriam shout-out" they just got.
It’s so lovely when Bill looks at and focuses his attention on whoever’s speaking. He’s such a sweetheart. I’m sad that he’s been alone for 22yrs but glad that he has his 3 friends with him.❤️
He doesnt use cellphones :)
@@LuaBarbosa01 That didn't even cross my mind but wow yes your probably right!
“id rather not say”
“WAS IT ANOTHER *MAN?* “
Or another woman, maybe he liked both
Old people don’t give a fuck 💀💀
Littraly me when my friends are sad
mAya SquAw lmao girllll you’re embarrassing yourself
mAya SquAw actually there are women who don’t mind getting with bi men
"We went to a place called " The Cauldron"
Everyone else: "ohhhhhhhhhhh"
Me: wtf the cauldron was probably lit
....yeeeessss, it was.....; )
Sounds like a lot of urine, so i don’t know about that
@@collagecult ...ummmm, more like....Crisco....tee hee.... ; )
Guess what I did first thing after this video? Googled that shit. Wiki can confirm the bathtub urination.
Urin and drugs
“He taught me I was a good person”, oh Jessay that one of the most powerful and precious things! ❤️
Bill: "He looks very uninhibited"
Jessay: "He looks drunk."
Jessay hitting the nail on the head.
Title: “Old Gays”
Jessay: Looks like he’s in his early 40’s
Right !!!
Draculaaa he’s 65 girl. Can’t even tell
He looks younger than my parents, they're 48..
40~50 years old in gay years is pretty old considering the 80s nearly wiped away a whole generation of gays
HeY JESSAAAAAYYYY
Shows presumably old black and white pic*
Interviewer: how did you guys meet?
Jessay: online.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
💀
@Goose Bumps Maybe it was the camera they used. You could still be using inconvenient but functional old cameras that have monochrome colors, like playing an og Gameboy in this day and age.
@Goose Bumps Oh, I think I didn't catch that on my first read, sorry
Jessay, "you know, the internet's been around for a while" 😂
Even if it's a black and white picture we can see it's not so old, probably around late 90's-early 2000's.
Pops on the far left was WILD “was your partners death traumatic for you?” -DUDE lmao
Sid 😭😭😭
"no, it was fine..."
"Yes :')"
"I would rather not talk about it..."
"Was it another MAYN?"
Savage
Bill makes me want to cry because he’s just such an adorable sweetheart omg
Please leave my mom alone
my loneliness is killing me sorry it’s too late now👉👈😰
Omg that means my mom's just like me now thank you girl🥰
Miran wants tea np 🥵 she was a little stanky tho ngl 💀💅
Is that kagehina 😏
As a straight guy i don’t know why im watching this but im glad i did.
Gerbo Smizzy you don’t need a certain sexuality to enjoy human stories!
Catherine Padilla i mean who said it doesn’t make straight guys uncomfortable? You do need a sexuality to enjoy certain stories.
When you coming out
36epc idk lets ask your mom
The same reason why we've been watching heteros talking about their lives, loves, hates, divorces, problems, so on..
"You couldn't read?"
I cackled so hard I woke my cat
"Daddy Zeus is against cruelty to animals." I'm laughing so hard. However, he is correct. BDSM should be safe, sane and consensual while animal testing is not.
I also just have to laugh about the (assumedly unintended) pun of him being suspended for rope mischief. xD Bahahahahahaha
Thank you. I never came across a cow asking to be turned into a burger.
Mick: He had really interesting tastes and so I let him do IT to me.
Bill: *snicker*
That was my favourite part. Bill is hilarious.
I read this comment as it happened in the video😱😂
I wish I could double like this.
"He had very interesting taste in what he liked to do , so i let him do it to me " 😁😂 iconic
Not to mention he NEVER said no! Not even once! That's crazy! Mick is a super freak and we didn't even know it.
Cancelledkay
I had the strangest internal experience as I realized Mick essentially had a Daddy Dom
😧 I just got the joke 😭😂😂
BILL and JESSAY reaction to the whole rope story and relating it to other events and details makes me laugh my ass out.
"I really liked his rope series"
"Apparently so did the football team"
LMFAOOO
They're cute, sensitive and genuine people with no fear of talking about their true feelings or emotions, a beautiful example of non-toxic masculinity, the world needs more people like you guys ❤
"COULDNT U READ?" ABAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA BILL OMG
They are delighful and funny, aren't they?
@@AloutkaKazawa yessss they are!!
hilarious....hahhahahhaha
That was so cute bc u could tell he was serious 😂
Wahahahahha
They all lost relationships. It hit me like a train on the tracks to really stop and think about how many gay men perished in the 1980s and 90s. As someone who has only been diagnosed relatively recently with HIV, it makes me both bitterly sad for those who lost lived ones during this time, but also immensely grateful that I live in a day where because of incredibly effective Antiretroviral therapy, I will live a normal and full life.
Bless you. 💖
Yes you will Jacob! 👏🏾🙏🏾 ❤
@@ClaireDeLuna09 thank you
@@jovan628 ❤❤
Excuse my question but how did you catched it? And how are you after hearing this, that surely must have been a shock!
It actually makes me tear up when they mention partners dying between 1989-1999
Yeah that was my thoughts too, the era was a scary time. Sad
Im guessing AIDS
@@richardarsenault1471 Yes we were there to see it from a small virus called AIDS. 🏳️🌈
Kaleb H frr do you know how long i will be crying when they announce their death one day??!
Ohh AIDS right? I hadn’t realised that, how sad
It’s sad hearing how most of these guys relationships aren’t currently together due to their partner dying. Makes me realize they have seen it all and been through a lot. Makes me feel young.
"We went to a place called The Cauldron"
Everyone else: OOOOHHHHHHHHHH
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4:03
i dont know what the cauldron is, but i want to see a doc about it now LOL
This made me cry SO ugly. I love listening to their stories. Every single one of them is just teeming with love & light.
Producer: what are your thoughts on a romantic relationship
My guy: “I think they’re wonderful if you can get one”
😂😂I’m dead
Same!
Well that’s true, better to not be in one then be in a toxic or difficult relationship.
The great thing about the truth is that it’s simple 😅
Bill´s story was pretty tragic, I want to hug him and let him know he's loved by a lot of people. ❤️
"Why did he tie'em up with he didnt do anything with'em" has me dead
He saw the film 'Rope'
🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The others laughing while Mick was explaining his story is the kind of friendship I aspire to have
“We used to go to a place called the cauldron”
Everyone: *ohhhhhhhh* 😂
😂😂😂
That was my fav 😂😂
I could see Jessay’s selectivity with his words. You know he’s had a tremendous amount of life experience and still thinks about it to this day, good and bad. I adore him 💕
“It wasn’t on camera”
“Good”
Lmfaooo the shade
LOL, Mick was trying to moonwalk over him having a sugardaddy lol they all picked up on that
“We went to a place called The Cauldron”
*ohhhhhhhhh*
Bill is so cute, he laughed like a teen when the last guy was talking about his sex life.
He said "he taught me". I thought he said "he topped me" 😂
DUDE SAME
LOL I heard that too
Why not both? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂
Me Too! 😂
The guy in the checkered shirt has been alone for 23 years wow. I want to give him a hug
Bill 🙃
@47 47 what.... He's gay
@47 47
you read the title right ? you know what gay is ?
@47 47 Tasteless
I have a feeling he needs more than a hug... 😉
Where's the old lesbians? I miss those cute bishes :(
still busy fingering
They're boring as shit --ANGRY AND NO SENSE OF HUMOR.
They must be too busy playing softball, getting in jealous bar fights, and hating men to make videos.
@@shavinmccrotch9435 Wtfs wrong with you dude
cara c I’m fine, thanks. 😚
Bill: Where were you？
Jassey:In the backyard
Bill:ahmmm..
Jassey:Ahh..In Los Angeles 😂
HAHAHAHA
this makes me wonder if after i die someone will keep thinking about how much of an impact i left in their life.
That's deep!
That's a very self absorbed statement,
@@BobbyManford ... It is but there's nothing wrong with that.
@@BobbyManford , it's more so an insecure statement. plenty of people don't realize the positive impact they've had on others, and wonder if they'll be forgotten in death.
Booby Manfanny Don't see how. We all want someone to remember us because then we'd know that our lives really meant something. That means we touched them. Life is only about what we leave behind. Where is the vanity and selfishness in that?
"You should watch his films"
"I like the rope series" ahsjshsijw I died 😂
But where do I find those films?
“-The Cauldron”
*knowing Ooohhhs*
Mick got a better sex life than me in my entire life.
Denady T. - hey baby
Well, he was in porn.
Denady T. That’s why he’s so mega chill
the only straight I am is a straight up bitch damn boy, what did you type? 👀
@the only straight I am is a straight up bitch yo what? His tapes are online?
I cried so hard. My dad just passed away. Couldn't imagine how my mom feels right now and in the next few decades.
I think Bill has the most romantic love story. His face reflects the pure affection who makes everybody feel loved and peace when around him. I hope you're always health and blissful, Mister Bill. ❤
"that's not on film, it wasn't done on camera"
-.....good
IM CACKCLINGSGSJSGJS
"It's just a different look you had"
"Yeah, it's called looove"
I love this man he's adorable!
I mean I would date Bill in a heartbeat he's such a sweetheart. Also the irony of grindr presenting a video exploring meaningful relationships.
Couldn't you read?! 😂
Love you guys! ^^
Gay or straight...I'm sure everyone can relate to the loves of their lives . Love is universal ❤
mick is the daddiest of all by having those muscles at his age i-
Jumaing Jafa Yeah Mick is sexy
Mick is hot and I'm not homosexual
“He was very much a father figure”
Me: so you’re saying he was your daddy?
Oh my god lol
UHAHAJAHAHSJAHHA
😂😂😂🙌🙌
Daddy Zeus*
More about gay men and their relationships and less drag stars and pop celebrities please. This was great.
i wanna take these men out for drinks!
what's wrong with drag stars tho?
James Ru YES PLEASE. More reality less fanatical people.
I don't think there's anything wrong with drag queens.
He’s not saying that there is anything wrong with drag queens he’s just saying he doesn’t want to see lots of stuff about them 24/7.
The guys giggling while the last guy shared his fond memories of his lover was funny.😆 They look like they had a blast listening to each other’s stories. 😘
Somebody get bill a husband! He’s so damn adorable😩❤️
I volunteer as tribute! I’m 18 so maybe not his type but I wouldn’t mind.
1:47 TAKE CARE OF THIS CINNAMON ROLL, HUG HIM, LOVE HIM AND GIVE HIM TWO SAUCES IN EVERY DESSERT
BILL IS SUCH A CUTIE. Bill being so genuinely curious, asking Jessay makes him such a good interviewer!!
black dont crack...jessay looks 20-30 yrs younger then all of em!!!!
Hes younger than all of them 😑😑😑😑😑ofcourse hes gonna look younger
Black people age so well, you guys are so lucky
@@krtdhi7007 No, Mick is the youngest according to the comments.
@@zucchinigreen He's about 3 years younger than Jessay
It's sad their lovers died so early in life. I love watching these men talk in this series. They're SO fascinating & relatable.
If someone told me they had tied up the entire football team I would be scared for my life
loving the buckley picture 😍
Harriet Ekpo ah thank you, I absolutely adore him! :)
Me, a young gay watching this: *proud pride noises*
4:55 oh that’s nice. .. oh Jesus robert
5:58 WHY IS BILL ME IN EVERY SERIOUS SITUATIONS😭💀
Bill looking like he's about to have a heart attack laughing so much. adorable.
4:11 LOVE his reaction to Robert's urine-filled bathtub story. Hilarious.
Bill be my grandpa please, no, Y'ALL BE MY GRANDPA PLEASE
"it wasn't done on camera"
"good for you"
No one:
Zeus: ties up the whole football team
As a gay person, this people really inspired me to be who i am. And im proud of it.
Your grandchildren will be very proud of you. Oh wait. How does it feel to be the end of your lineage.
@@orpheus1662 We are here and we are queer. Cope and seethe
@@justsomeguy335 still doesn’t change the fact that when you are 85 years Old man. You will look around and see other old men having great time with their grand kids all while you spent your life sleeping under another man.
@@orpheus1662 wouldn't you feel iconic and proud being the last of the descendant
@@orpheus1662 there's other forms like adoption and surrocy fucking idiot
"He had a thing for rope." , "I like the rope series."
My gard....His face even had a 'That's Normal' look when he said those things....
I can't even look at him without laughing now....
Can I hug you guys? I have a gay friend, and growing old alone is one of the things that he is afraid of. While I can offer him friendship for life, I know he'd still want to be with someone special forever.
Nice to see Bill back!
give him my phone number lol
@@jrRim You're so young lol.
I really hope they all stay good friends. especially Bill and Jessay! they feed off each other’s energy so well!
The black guy don't age, he's goals
He's like a hot teddy bear. I mean that as a total compliment.
black dont crack
as a gay person this makes me so happy. looking forward to see more of these lovely people!
1:56
He felt a flood of emotions seeing that picture
When he said that his Lover died last 1993, a tear suddenly fell through my left eye for no reason. It just feels like I felt his pain. BTW, I was born year 2000 so can't relate but they all deserve to be loved.
"We went to the cauldron"
-in sync- "OOOOOOOOH"
My favorites are Bill, and Jessay, I would go partying with them if they were younger, Mick would be the type to give good advice, and Robert would be the one you go to for a bedtime story.
When I seen “Grindr presents” I screamed 💀 idk why
Same....
when he said he died 30 years ago made me realize how long ago that must have been and how old bill is now
FAVS ARE BACK!!
“A place called The Cauldron.”
Everyone: “OOOOOOOH”
Also Robert reminds me of Sir Patrick Stewart (Professor X/Jean-Luc Picard)
I wanted to comment this! Haha
It absolutely breaks my heart how many of their stories end in the person dying too young.
so zeus was a major daddy.... (with a killer movado watch) rest softly, Sir
When I looked at the picture I instantly thought Freddie Mercury!
Mustache and cats. I see what you mean!
I understand why that cliché struck you too
He was bisexual Fred Mercury was sexy I would have sucked his lips and kissed his ass all day
I thought that too!
Jessay looks simply GORGEOUS.
I had a hard time watching this one. Totally broke my heart that all of them lost their loves 😢
I’m tearing up. It’s so sweet they all shared their stories and I feel for them that so many of their partners aren’t with us now.