I have cervical cancer.
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On November 17th I was diagnosed with micro invasive cervical cancer and will be needing a hysterectomy. Here is the update as of now. ❤️ Thank you for being so wonderfully supportive.
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I had Cervical Cancer at 28 years old . I had 2 kids already and got a partial Hysterectomy. I have been Cancer free for 34 years.
Thank you for sharing your testimony! It brings some positive vibes for us going through it right now!
Yes indeed.
Stage of ur cancer ?
@@KrishnakrupaKrishnakrupa-ut7hp Stage 1
I'm glad u ok & u get though all trials. I just have diagnos cervical cancer stage 1.doc said need to surgery and and am scared,I did not have MRI yet..dont know what to do should I go for surgery?
I'm a nurse AND a cancer survivor. One important tip to anyone: ALWAYS ask for printed copies of every test result, scan or other imaging report, and pathology report. You can also ask your hospital for copies of scans on a CD so that the next doc can view (with their own eyes) and imaging. Keep all your results together, and if you have a patient portal, download everything to your own computer so it's easily accessible for the next doc. Learning to take control of your cancer journey is not only important, but minimizes the feeling of helplessness. Keep track of the names and dates of everyone you speak to on the phone or at appointments. Wishing you all the very best, and a cancer-free outcome!
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Wow this is such good advice. Thanks for your insight and work as a nurse ❤️
This is such such huge advice, because I had stage 3 cervical cells twice after my last two pregnancies.
This was quite advanced I had laser colonoscopy then due to another issue to do with my ovary, I had a full hysterectomy. Truthfully this was more serious than I thought at the time, but I don’t feel it was ever at a life threatening levels although at the time it was taken very seriously especially as it was creeping up to my womb.
The level is so important because if it is stage 1 pre cancerous it can sometimes be a watch and wait and can sometimes clear itself,
YESSSSSSS THE BEST ADVICE. A love one of mine has cancer and keeping up with data is impossible.
Thank you.
I've never felt second hand frustration this strongly before. Love you Jess
Can I just say that I started watching your videos when I was recovering from bone cancer. I'm now 30 and I have two children. Your baby videos gave me so much advice, grace, and encouragement. I am praying for you. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable thing.
Wow thank you! This is so encouraging to hear. ❤️ So happy you are well!
No this is Not Ok Not Acceptable. Your # 1 Job is to work w/ your Insurance until you have a COMPETENT Oncologist who treats you as a Cancer Patient who Needs Immediate Attention.
So glad to hear that you recovered from the bone cancer! I know that’s a difficult diagnosis.
I'm a cervical cancer survivor, now a radiation therapist, because of my own cancer walk. YOU GOT THIS! Praying for your health and strength throughout this journey! ❤
I just watched Hank Green and Grace Helbig go through their own cancers, and they both said "If you can, make cancer your job. It really is a full-time job to manage it."
Set aside as many responsibilities you can to give yourself some space to manage this. I'm so sorry our healthcare system is making this your responsibility... You are such a rock star, and you will get to the end of this! Take as much time as you need/can. We're here for you!!
While I completely agree with the sentiment in theory, it's a lot easier to "make cancer your job" when you have enough money to not need to do an actual job. The impact of financial privilege of the experience of being sick cannot be overstated, especially somewhere like the USA where illness is expensive and financial barriers, like varying levels of health insurance coverage, limit accessibility
Jess I am so sorry for everything you’ve had to go through with this 😣🥺 I’m praying for you and your family and I’m sending you love rn 🙏🏻🫶🏻🤍
I just saw this and my heart sank 🩷 I'm so sorry Jess. I've been watching your videos and listening to your podcast for 3 years since I became a mom and you've been such a big influence & positive voice in my life. Thank you for your honesty, vulnerability, and bravery in sharing this news & journey. I will be praying for you and your family as you walk through this together. 🙏🏼 Much love from Canada 🇨🇦
Thank you so much 🥹🥹
All the Love from 🇨🇦 You’ve helped me get thru the first 8 months of motherhood, and helped me know when it was time to reach out for help. I actually shed some tears telling my partner about this video, they just came up 🤷🏻♀️🥺 Then I took your advice to heart, and will be looking after my uterine health better too (just had a wonky CT scan with bulky this and swollen that) - I booked a follow up PAP. Love you Jess, and all the other mothers and RUclips followers reading this. 🙏🏻❤️
I am so sorry the medical system has failed you so far Jess, but I'm glad to hear you have gotten back on track by advocating for yourself. I am a medical professional, and cancer is always a big deal unless the oncologist says otherwise. Sending all the prayers and good vibes your way that it is very small/ already gone, but hopefully you get some answers very soon!
Jess, you and your videos singlehandly saved me when I had an unexpected pregnancy in 2019; I finally felt like I had someone to walk through motherhood with. My daughter is 4 now, and thriving, and I attribute a lot of it to you! While I can never repay that favor, know that I (and many, many others) wish you nothing but the best in your recovery, and we are sending love and hugs from around the world. ❤
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. We’re all here for you ❤
So much support and love being sent your way!
I’m so sorry you are going through this. Sending love and wishing you a speedy recovery!
My heart goes out to you and your family, Jess! Lots of love and good luck!
Ugh I'm so, so sorry you're going through all of this Jess. Praying for you and sending so much love!
Sending you so much love, Jess!
Praying for you and your family!
Ugh you’re such a light even through something as scary as this. So much love coming your way my friend.
You will get through this. You are in my prayers. Please keep us posted.
Omg I love your energy!! You got this no matter what!! Sending prayers your way! 🙏🏼
Covering you in prayer Jess! You are loved ❤
My heart goes out to you. I can't even imagine the frustration. You're not alone ❤
I am so sorry you’re going through this. It absolutely is scary and I hope you get the care and attention you need and are surrounded with people and doctors who support you! ❤️ Prayers are being sent your way!
Sending you love and healing.
You will heal Jess. Thank you for sharing with us.
I’m so sorry! I’m praying for your recovery.
So sorry to hear this news, sending lots of positive vibes, please keep us posted ❤
Oh Jess, I am so sorry the way you’ve been treated through this scary time. I’m sending you lots of love 💗
So very sorry for what you are going thru. Sending you lots of warm thoughts and hugs!
Wow I’m sorry. I hope you continue to feel supported through this community and your people. Praying for you. ❤
Sending prayers and love your way Jess ! My heart is with you 🥺❤️, you're doing great mama !!❤❤❤❤
So much love to you, praying for you and your family 💗💗💗
I’m so sorry for you…I will be praying for you and sending you good vibes! You are not alone 🙏
Hi Jess, I randomly came across your videos and subscribed thinking I would come back to watch when I am in a similar stage in life. I am a single, full-time working professional/plus recently graduated from night school student and I have never been married, have no children; only adopted nieces and nephews. The few videos I have been able to watch have been so relatable and filled with such grace and wisdom that I feel like we would totally be friends if I knew you on a personal level. Normally, I do not see your videos in my feed probably because I do not watch them very often/the algorithm etc. but I think I saw this video by divine intervention. I am so sorry that you are going through this right now, especially in light of your lovely family. Because I saw this, I will definitely be praying for you. I have another friend who also was diagnosed with cancer that I have been praying for so I will definitely cover you both! You are a strong woman and I am sure that you're an amazing mom and wife! Please take as much time as you need to have treatment, heal, etc. because you being here on this planet is so rewarding and so much more beneficial than what you do here on YT (which is truly amazing btw). You come first! We are here for you and in the meantime please take care and do not lose hope in the midst of this situation! Take it one day at a time.
Praying for you Jess, you were a ray of hope and comfort to me when i first became a mum ❤
I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve had to go through Jess 💜 lifting you up in prayer. This must be a really frightening time, yet you still shine so brightly. Praying you get the help and support you need soon and for recovery and healing 🙏🏼 thank you for sharing your journey with us.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Praying for you and your family, Jess ❤🩹
Thank you for sharing your journey with us and being so candid. Thinking of you as you go through this crazy time 😢
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It's so frustating! I hope that from now on you have all the help and support you need from your doctors!!! Sending love and wishing you a speedy recovery!
Oh Jess. I’ve been a silent follower since my first kiddo and I have so so valued your honest, your compassion, and your “companionship” through motherhood. This IS a big deal. I’m so sorry. Praying for helpful and compassionate doctors going forward and for the right people to surround you and support you. ❤️
I watched the moment I got the notification for the video. I have been following and watching your videos since right before you had Wilson. You have been such a positive influence all these years, and still continue to be! You are such a genuine, kind hearted person. Thank you for sharing all that you do and thank you for opening up to your online community. I can’t imagine how scary this is for you and your family. Hang in there Jess, I’ll be praying for you!
I'm so sorry! Praying for you ❤️
Loving on you through the screen. Impressed you were able to get through this explanation with so much pep and grace, I’d just cry out of frustration. I’m so sorry. You are truly a teacher and guide to your core because you’re still giving us advice while you’re in the thick of hardship. We will be holding your hand in spirit through it all. ❤
Sending you so much light, love, energy, peace, hugs 💜 I’m sorry you’ve been a victim of the horrible medical system. It’s not fair! Thank you for trusting us with this very hard information. I truly appreciate you for all the amazing things you’ve done, created, helped others with, your existence has been such a beautiful gift to this world. I’ve followed you for a long time. I wasn’t able to children (lost twins in 2005), but I still adore you & your channel. ❤
Aw Jess, I am so sorry, friend. I am praying for you so fiercely right now. Thank you for sharing and I will be praying for you.
You have helped so many and been such an inspiration. Thank you for everything you do for us. The way you are vulnerable and so strong. You will be in my prayers. 💞
love you Jess. You are an amazing human and such an inspiration to many women. We are so proud of you!!
I am so sorry to hear about the diagnosis. You’re such a positive and uplifting person and it is so heartbreaking to know you’re on this journey. Even if it’s an “easy” treatment, I imagine the anxiety you feel is debilitating at times. I will be praying for you and your family as you move forward.
I hate this so much for you! You've always been such a bright spot to so many moms and you've helped so many of us through postpartum and hard times. Sending you all the prayers, good vibes, and hugs.
Praying for you Jess! For peace of mind, breakthroughs with doctors and insurance as well as healing. ❤️
Woah. I’m so sorry this process isn’t going smoothly. I’m praying that you are able to get connected to the best possible doctors and that your insurance will provide what you need it to. I cannot fathom the amount of emotions you’re experiencing right now. You are so strong to share this with us. It must have been tough to do. Know that you are loved by this community and that we are here to listen when you want to talk about it. ❤
Jess, I am so very sorry. Hugely enjoy your videos, sending you and your family so much love
Sending prayers your way! Your videos really helped me through the anxiety of pregnancy; I’m very grateful for the way you’ve shared your motherhood journey. I’m so angry on your behalf at the healthcare system. I hope the community you’ve built gets you through this in the way you’ve helped others.
I can only image how hard this is to go through! Ugh! I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this and not getting answers. I have faith that you will get through this and it will be “easy” to remove and you can get past this!! Keep us posted 💗💗
I am so sorry and have appreciated your channel as I have navigated motherhood. I hope you know we are all with you and are grateful you are sharing your experience to learn from you. Sending so much love!
This is hard. I am sorry that you are going through all of this. Thank you for being so real in everything. Your strength to share ALL of journey(for the benefit of serving others) is truly inspiring. Prayed for you this morning.
I have never heard someone describe navigating our healthcare system so beautifully as you have. I’ve lived with a chronic Leukemia for 14 years and I have heard and experienced it all, although I’m baffled at whatever took you so long to get an appointment with an Onc, holy-moly! It IS scary and no one tells you that a class is needed for how to be a cancer patient AND advocate for yourself! I have found my cancer center social worker has been a life-saver for me.🌸
I am sorry you have had to go through all this! God bless and protect you and your family💕💕💕
Praying for you, Jess! 🫶🏻🙌🏻 thank you for being vulnerable with your audience when you have no obligation to. This is super personal and brave of you to invite people in on your journey, just like when you were going through a difficult time when Eloise was small.
Your stories of overcoming have helped and encouraged me as a young wife and mom! Grateful for you and praying for your healing and overcoming 🫶🏻🙏🏻
Good luck, Jess! You are so amazing!
I am SO sorry to hear this. I’ve followed you for a long time and I absolutely love your content. I cannot believe what I’m reading and watching! 😢 you are so brave and strong, you are an inspiration. Thank you much for sharing your journey and I hope you get the all clear soon! All the best for you and your family xx
I’m so sorry to hear this and how bad your treatment has been so far! You’re amazing for still having a smile on your face, I’ve followed since you had Wilson and you’ve helped me through some dark times. Praying for you, thank you for continuing to encourage us and keeping us involved.
Thank you for being there for us through the years, please make the next year is all about YOU.
This breaks my heart. You are such a force of nature, and a positive influence not only on my view of how to approach motherhood but life as a whole. I've always admired the way you radiate kindness and warmth and everything you say feels like an encouraging hug. We need people like you around, so know you have all of our love through this. ❤
I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Sending you love.
I am so grateful for you Jess... thank you for being open and honest. Cancer sucks :(
Your voice is a wake up call to many. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for much for sharing the raw experience. You definitely helped me. I Love your content. I am praying for this whole experience to get better.
I'm so sorry for you and your family. It sounds awful.
I'm in awe of your positivity and approach to this. ❤
I can't imagine the frustration you have gone through with your health care system. I hope it turns around soon and you find yourself a good supporting team xxx
Sending you all the prayers. You’ve got me through more than 3 years of motherhood. I’m so sorry the medical system has failed you. It has failed a lot of us and it’s so much to handle. Sending you all the positive vibes ❤
Thank you for sharing. I'm so sorry for everything you've been going through, particularly with the health care system. As an Ob, it breaks my heart how many hoops you had to jump through to get the care you needed. I'm praying for and thinking of you in your journey and I'm confident you will thrive and be cured by surgery. I'm so grateful that you're encouraging women to advocate for their health and stay up on their routine cervical cancer screening.
I have been watching for YEARS and you have helped me tremendously. I am so sorry Jess. Praying for you and your family 🤍
It’s makes me so sad that you’ve had to jump through all these hoops… I can’t imagine how frustrating and scary this must feel. You’ve held my hand through motherhood, and have given me so much via your channel. All my love is being sent your way 🤍
Thanks so much for sharing Jess. So sorry about the mess in the medical system. Praying for you❤❤❤
I’m so sorry the medical/insurance systems are so bad. I hope things start to go smoother for you ❤️ As a mother to 3 small children also I can only imagine the scenarios playing out in your head xx Sending all the healthy, healing vibes your way now and always
Urg, Jessica. This IS super hard, but I know with your beautiful spirit,you'll meet this head on and you'll get through. Thank you for including all of us - your "out there in the world" Friends. You're so beautiful and strong and brave. I'm really hoping for all the best for you and will keep you in my prayers , love Kerry in Australia
Oh man Jess! I am so sorry to hear this news! Been watching you since Wilson was born, as my son is also the same age and now we are on #2 and I still go back to your videos. You've also helped me seek out mental health support when I was really struggling. I'm so sorry to hear things have not been going smoothly, that's so frustrating and I hope things set themselves right very soon! You are such a special person, and a genuine, loving becon of hope for so many. We are thinking of you and hoping for the best. Love you, Jess ❤️
I’m sorry you haven’t been supported. You are such a lovely person and I’m adding you to my prayer list. Lots of love your way!
Thank you for the courage to share this with us.
Praying for you ❤ You have made a huge impact on my life, I started following you when I had my first baby. Very good mothers club is my favorite online boutique and what you do for mamas in your community and with your videos is amazing ❤ You are strong, you are powerful, you will beat this ❤
I'm so sorry you're going through all of this :( having to experience all the back and forth with a terrible healthcare system is the worst. I've been following your channel since my first born and your energy has always been so helpful and kind. I hope you receive the same care back that you deserve! Best of luck and good health to you and your family❤
Ugh! That all sounds so rough! Thank you for being so open about your story, and I will be praying for you. You were such a comfort to me when my newborn was in the NICU. I first found your videos when you gave birth to Jules and it was the biggest gift to hear another mama going through so much of what I was feeling. Sending lots of ❤ and sorry to hear about all the drama with getting the medical care you need! 🙏
Jess,
You are always the one to hold us with open arms. I hope you will now let us be the ones to hold you. This must be so scary but know that we are all here for you, surrounding you, and lifting you and your family in prayer.
You are so beautiful inside and out and so very brave.
Your feelings are valid - praying it’s just a “sprinkle” as you called it and please keep us posted.
Much love ❤️
Sending you love and praying for you Jess❤
My kids are 2 & 3 and your videos are by a long way the ones that most resonate and have helped me practically and emotionally, so just wanted to say a huge thank you for the honest support, content and community you have provided, I'm so sorry to hear this news but sending love, strength and positive vibes from across the Atlantic
Jess, I've never commented on a youtube video before but I've been a long time watcher of your videos and I want to say, I'm sorry you're going through this, you are such a strong person and I have no doubt you will persevere through this difficult time, and thank you for sharing your life with us. You are an inspiration to so, so many people. Take care for now. x
I’ve been watching your videos since I was pregnant with my now almost 2 and a half year old. You’ve taught me so much and have even been so encouraging and influential. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable, sensitive thing with us and you are in my prayers and thoughts. I believe in you and know you are so strong and you have so many supporters. Love you Jess- truly ♥️ you are such a light
Love you so much friend!! I’m praying that it gets better and that you get the care that you need ❤️❤️
You are soooo full of kindness and compassion. So brave. Cancer is so scary what ever "faze" its at. Sending love and strength.
Jess, this makes me so sad! You have been such a positive person who keeps it real for the mamas out there and super loving!!! I wish you didn’t have to go through this, you deserve so much happiness. Love you and praying for you and your family!!!!!!!
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’ve been watching for 4+ yrs now even before I became a mom myself and your videos helped and encouraged me so much. As someone who’s on the other side of a cancer diagnosis I can tell you unfortunately there’s a lot of back and forth involved. I had a dr tell me my breast cancer was idiopathic for a yr 😮💨. Keep pushing on and keep fighting even when you’re tired and giving up feels easier. You will come out of the other side with perspective and it will change you. Praying for your swift recovery and ability to get in to see your oncologist pretty soon 🙏🏽. Wishing you all the best.
So sorry you’re going through this and I hope you can get the answers you need and the correct treatment. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I watched your videos taking care of babies years ago when I was a teen having severe baby fever and I am now married and pregnant and came back to your channel to prepare for my little one. Was not expecting to see this video :( I really hope everything will work out for the best for you. You have inspired and helped so many people throughout the years and we are all here to support you ❤
Girl I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m actually a cervical cancer survivor myself and I’m sending you tons of love and support. You GOT this. I had stage 1 and they removed a part of my cervix but enough to get the cancer but I should 🤞🏽 hopefully be able to still conceive. May you get through this will grace and ease. Don’t be afraid. You GOT this. Your oncologist will send you to get a PET scan so they can confirm where the cancer is and if it’s local or spread to lymph nodes (God willing no). This is the process they go through to stage you. You will get through this. I promise. It is the scariest thing I’ve been through so you’re not alone sister. It’s scary. You will survive this.
Sending you all the love and light that you so beautifully share with others!
Hi Jess, I’ve been a subscriber for a number of years but I don’t think I’ve ever commented.
You are such a positive light and even talking about a major personal issue not knowing the extent of the diagnosis, you do it with grace and calm and clarity. I’m from Australia where our healthcare system is amazing, so I feel for you that you are having to chase the answers and the help rather than it coming to you.
I would love to be kept in the loop on YT on how your journey progresses, I wish nothing but health on you and your family ❤
Praying for you, Jess!
This makes me so sad! you are the voice I needed when getting through my intense postpartum experience. You have had such a profound and beautiful impact on my life, I am so grateful for you.
Jess.. thank you for being so open and sharing this with us. You don't owe us anything but you have such love for the people you love and care about, as well as your fans. I am praying for you Jess, we are with you.
I am so sorry that this has happened Jess. It couldn't be happening to a nicer person! I really hope that all the necessary medical people step up and give you the help that you need. Sending positive vibes your way
A few years ago I was really struggling and going through a hard phase in life. One thing that gave me hope was watching your videos. Now in this phase of your life, I will be here with prayer, cheering you on! I hope you can feel the love and prayers I am sending.
I am so sorry to listen to this. I’m so sad that you’ve had such a horrible time with the health care system. You are such a brave and strong mama. I’m sending you lots of love and strength. ❤
Ack, I'm so sorry Jess! I hope you have the best care from now on - and that unbelievably crappy experience before is behind you! I can't imagine how scary this must be, but hope you are now surrounded by care and what you need to get you through. You have helped me through hard times with your beautiful spirit, I send you and your family love and courage (and hopefully highly competent health care providers!) ❤