I'm a nurse AND a cancer survivor. One important tip to anyone: ALWAYS ask for printed copies of every test result, scan or other imaging report, and pathology report. You can also ask your hospital for copies of scans on a CD so that the next doc can view (with their own eyes) and imaging. Keep all your results together, and if you have a patient portal, download everything to your own computer so it's easily accessible for the next doc. Learning to take control of your cancer journey is not only important, but minimizes the feeling of helplessness. Keep track of the names and dates of everyone you speak to on the phone or at appointments. Wishing you all the very best, and a cancer-free outcome!
This is such such huge advice, because I had stage 3 cervical cells twice after my last two pregnancies. This was quite advanced I had laser colonoscopy then due to another issue to do with my ovary, I had a full hysterectomy. Truthfully this was more serious than I thought at the time, but I don’t feel it was ever at a life threatening levels although at the time it was taken very seriously especially as it was creeping up to my womb. The level is so important because if it is stage 1 pre cancerous it can sometimes be a watch and wait and can sometimes clear itself,
I'm glad u ok & u get though all trials. I just have diagnos cervical cancer stage 1.doc said need to surgery and and am scared,I did not have MRI yet..dont know what to do should I go for surgery?
Can I just say that I started watching your videos when I was recovering from bone cancer. I'm now 30 and I have two children. Your baby videos gave me so much advice, grace, and encouragement. I am praying for you. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable thing.
No this is Not Ok Not Acceptable. Your # 1 Job is to work w/ your Insurance until you have a COMPETENT Oncologist who treats you as a Cancer Patient who Needs Immediate Attention.
I'm a cervical cancer survivor, now a radiation therapist, because of my own cancer walk. YOU GOT THIS! Praying for your health and strength throughout this journey! ❤
I just watched Hank Green and Grace Helbig go through their own cancers, and they both said "If you can, make cancer your job. It really is a full-time job to manage it." Set aside as many responsibilities you can to give yourself some space to manage this. I'm so sorry our healthcare system is making this your responsibility... You are such a rock star, and you will get to the end of this! Take as much time as you need/can. We're here for you!!
While I completely agree with the sentiment in theory, it's a lot easier to "make cancer your job" when you have enough money to not need to do an actual job. The impact of financial privilege of the experience of being sick cannot be overstated, especially somewhere like the USA where illness is expensive and financial barriers, like varying levels of health insurance coverage, limit accessibility
I am so sorry the medical system has failed you so far Jess, but I'm glad to hear you have gotten back on track by advocating for yourself. I am a medical professional, and cancer is always a big deal unless the oncologist says otherwise. Sending all the prayers and good vibes your way that it is very small/ already gone, but hopefully you get some answers very soon!
Jess, you and your videos singlehandly saved me when I had an unexpected pregnancy in 2019; I finally felt like I had someone to walk through motherhood with. My daughter is 4 now, and thriving, and I attribute a lot of it to you! While I can never repay that favor, know that I (and many, many others) wish you nothing but the best in your recovery, and we are sending love and hugs from around the world. ❤
I just saw this and my heart sank 🩷 I'm so sorry Jess. I've been watching your videos and listening to your podcast for 3 years since I became a mom and you've been such a big influence & positive voice in my life. Thank you for your honesty, vulnerability, and bravery in sharing this news & journey. I will be praying for you and your family as you walk through this together. 🙏🏼 Much love from Canada 🇨🇦
All the Love from 🇨🇦 You’ve helped me get thru the first 8 months of motherhood, and helped me know when it was time to reach out for help. I actually shed some tears telling my partner about this video, they just came up 🤷🏻♀️🥺 Then I took your advice to heart, and will be looking after my uterine health better too (just had a wonky CT scan with bulky this and swollen that) - I booked a follow up PAP. Love you Jess, and all the other mothers and RUclips followers reading this. 🙏🏻❤️
I’m usually a silent watcher on RUclips. But I wanted to say I’m currently 18 weeks pregnant with my first and even though I’ve been watching your videos for a long time your still the motherhood content I turn to. I will be praying for you often. It’s amazing how even in dark moments you still shine so bright.
Girl I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m actually a cervical cancer survivor myself and I’m sending you tons of love and support. You GOT this. I had stage 1 and they removed a part of my cervix but enough to get the cancer but I should 🤞🏽 hopefully be able to still conceive. May you get through this will grace and ease. Don’t be afraid. You GOT this. Your oncologist will send you to get a PET scan so they can confirm where the cancer is and if it’s local or spread to lymph nodes (God willing no). This is the process they go through to stage you. You will get through this. I promise. It is the scariest thing I’ve been through so you’re not alone sister. It’s scary. You will survive this.
I have never heard someone describe navigating our healthcare system so beautifully as you have. I’ve lived with a chronic Leukemia for 14 years and I have heard and experienced it all, although I’m baffled at whatever took you so long to get an appointment with an Onc, holy-moly! It IS scary and no one tells you that a class is needed for how to be a cancer patient AND advocate for yourself! I have found my cancer center social worker has been a life-saver for me.🌸
Speaking pure healing over you in Jesus mighty and powerful name; rebuking all sickness, disease and imbalance in the body. We speak total restoration and anointing over your entire being. Blessing your life with new amazing health. A long happy life and a powerful impact through this.
Oh Jess. I’ve been a silent follower since my first kiddo and I have so so valued your honest, your compassion, and your “companionship” through motherhood. This IS a big deal. I’m so sorry. Praying for helpful and compassionate doctors going forward and for the right people to surround you and support you. ❤️
I’m so so sorry you’re going through this. Nothing is worse than not knowing. I had my hysterectomy last year after getting diagnosed with cervical cancer. It was a 3 year long journey stemming from an abnormal pap smear when I was pregnant. You helped me so much when I became a mom, no one is tougher than a mom - you’ll get through this bump in the road. Sending you all the love!
Ugh I am so sorry you’re going through all this. As a former oncology nurse who is now taking time to be home with my babies, this is disheartening to hear. You have every right to feel frustrated with the system and the care that you’ve so far received. I truly hope you get in to see an oncologist soon because unfortunately that is the only way you’ll get the answers you need in regard to staging and potential progression. Sending prayers and well wishes your way ❤
This video is gut wrenching. I can hear the anxiety, fear, and just massive amount of emotions pouring out. And I am seriously going to be praying for you tonight. You are so incredibly strong, beautiful and inspiring just all around as a woman. I am so so sorry this has been a huge pain in the butt as far as dealing with the poor communication and confusing information. It’s all a lot. God has got this, he knows every hair on your head, he knows the days before they come. You are His and He is yours. Xoxo 💗🙏🏼
How incredibly frustrating. 😔 I am so so sorry you’re not only dealing with the scary diagnosis with a lack of clarity but then a major failure of the healthcare system on top of it. I can’t imagine how difficult it has been for you to hold such uneasy half-knowledge of your own health for so long. I pray everyone can put themselves in your shoes and understand the gravity of this to help you get into someone who will be a huge supporter and advocate for you in the spots you can’t reach alone. Sending so much love and support your way and praying for healing of your mind and body ❤
Jess 💛I am so frustrated and sorry. Thank you for sharing your (aggravating, unfair, not okay) journey navigating the healthcare and insurance system so far. I am praying for you. You're a light to so many women who are also praying and sending you love.
It sounds like she may have had Medicaid or some government sponsored insurance because I have experienced the same with Medicaid. You call the insurance to see a doctor and they give you a list of three doctors that are approved under your insurance and then you call the doctors and they say they don’t accept your insurance or the number is disconnected or the doctor isn’t accepting new patients…. Long story short, I wind up paying out of pocket for some of my medical needs just because my insurance is so confusing and crappy that I feel like I’d rather just pay a fortune and rack up debt than not be medically treated correctly.
I am so sorry for how frustrating all of this has been! But as a health care professional, I am grateful for you sharing this experience in this detail because we don't really see that side of it. It makes me want to do better for my patients.
Wow Jessica, I was stunned to see your posting about your cancer dx. I watched your channel faithfully when my daughter was expecting our grandson, who BTW turns 4yrs this Valentine’s day. I learned so much from you which helped me be a better grandmother and mother to my daughter. I’m a retired nurse who worked for 46 yrs in the clinical setting. I will be 76yrs old in couple weeks so first, I’m giving you a great big hug , and validating your every concern. You need a patient advocate to help you navigate this mixed up health care system. Unfortunately for now you will your own best advocate. Get a notebook and get your records so they will be in one place. Make copies because you may need to hand them over at your Dr visits , or portions of them. Keep a timeline of when it started and who you talked to. What Insurance coverage denied you procedures or treatment. Time is of the essence!!! There’s no such thing as a “little bit of cancer” You are a young woman with 3 beautiful kids. I hope you meet the right Dr who does the right thing. You may need to loose your ovaries but if your cancer spreads to your ovaries you will never know till thats too late ( symptoms are hard to detect) I may be sounding harsh but I learned a long time ago to say what is true not necessarily what the patient wants to hear. Please keep us informed on this unexpected journey . I hope the comments you receive from this are positive. You need constructive support and ideas. It’s good for people to share their experiences, be kind and positive, and to the point. I will keep you and your family in my prayers,wishing you all the best!
I was diagnosed with cervical cancer in 2017. I completely understand how you are feeling. I ended having a hysterectomy but I kept my ovaries. I had micro invasive adenocarcinoma. My doctor didn’t know if I was going to need chemo and radiation until after I had my hysterectomy. Luckily the cancer didn’t reach my lymph nodes and I didn’t need chemo and radiation. I would join a support group for cervical cancer survivors. I found a couple of groups on Facebook. It’s good to talk to others who have or going through what you are through. I also ended up going to therapy to help my process what I had gone through.
I’ve watched you for 5 years now since I got pregnant with my baby and you’ve helped me in more ways than you could imagine. I hope that this is easy and just a perspective change. I am praying for you and your family. Thank you for being a light for mother’s who are doing their best.
Oh jess, I'm sorry our healthcare system is giving you such a hard time. Great job advocating for yourself with doctors/ insurance! What you're going through is scary and you shouldn't have to fight so hard to have your medical needs met. I've learned so much from your videos (despite not having children of my own yet) and I hope this situation is just a bump in the road of the long beautiful life you're meant to have
This breaks my heart. You are such a force of nature, and a positive influence not only on my view of how to approach motherhood but life as a whole. I've always admired the way you radiate kindness and warmth and everything you say feels like an encouraging hug. We need people like you around, so know you have all of our love through this. ❤
I’m only half way through watching and just tearing up from the insanity and incompetence of insurance companies and how this could impact your health. It impacts your mental and physical health to go through this horrible treatment. It reminds me of my c-section to prevent a NICU stay and then the hospital refusal to let me OBGYN perform the surgery and then the hospital pediatrician pushing for NICU stay and unnecessary tests and work and insurance denying claims for months and months. No. Just no. You have cancer. You need every minute to fight it. You and the entire US deserve more. Thank you for your vulnerability ❤
Hey Jess, I am a cervical cancer survivor and a mother. I was diagnosed when I was just 7 weeks postpartum, so it was so so hard on my body and mind. Stay strong and push through it. Cancer doesn't mean death! As for medical system failing you - consider consulting in another contry if you are open to it, private hospitals are effective and not that expensive in some parts of the world. I will pray for you. 🙏
Oh Jess, I am so sorry! How frustrating the medical system is 😭 I can’t get over your positivity and laughter through this…that will carry you through! ❤
Jess I watched sooo many of your videos during my pregnancy with my daughter in 2021. I so appreciated how “real” you were with your mental health, mom challenges, and willingness to share your experiences. I HATE to hear you have cancer. I am so sorry. And that it has been a tough process with getting treatment. That sucks!!! You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I have had multiple family members with cancer. And it sucks no matter what stage or severity. Please try to take time for as much holistic self care as possible. All my best wishes for you in this journey. Please keep us posted as you can. ❤
Oh noooo. I was just telling my friends about how much I’ve loved your videos for years (I am in my 20s and not a mom but find you super comforting). You are such a shiny, incredible person and I am sending you and the entire family lots of hugs and positivity❤️❤️We all love you so much.
You are so calm collected and positive. I'm in shock how well you have taken this information and how unprofessional the system is where you live. I'm praying for clarity and recovery for you 🙏🏼💖
Jess! I am so so sorry. You deserve the opposite of the experience you are having! You are such a light in this world with the most beautiful heart and you deserve all the most beautiful, best, most amazing support and care possible ! It was just painful hearing how the care you have gotten so far has been so far away from what you give and what you deserve! I am praying for nothing but the most beautiful, best care, experiences, and outcomes from here on out. You deserve all the love in the world.
You have given a wealth of knowledge to so many people on this app, me being one. And I just want to send my sympathies that you have been let down by the system and are going through this. We are so fortunate for the NHS here in the uk. I am so sorry the world is not showing you the urgency you deserve x
Hi Jess, I’ve been a subscriber for a number of years but I don’t think I’ve ever commented. You are such a positive light and even talking about a major personal issue not knowing the extent of the diagnosis, you do it with grace and calm and clarity. I’m from Australia where our healthcare system is amazing, so I feel for you that you are having to chase the answers and the help rather than it coming to you. I would love to be kept in the loop on YT on how your journey progresses, I wish nothing but health on you and your family ❤
You are such a beautiful light and this must be such an intense thing to face. I'm so so sorry! The American healthcare system is absolutely atrocious. I, along with countless others, have been absolutely tossed around. I have cried so many times having to advocate for myself between so many Drs and the insurance and then getting bills I wasn't expected. I'm so sorry. I feel for you. Our healthcare system is so so bad.
It’s makes me so sad that you’ve had to jump through all these hoops… I can’t imagine how frustrating and scary this must feel. You’ve held my hand through motherhood, and have given me so much via your channel. All my love is being sent your way 🤍
A few years ago I was really struggling and going through a hard phase in life. One thing that gave me hope was watching your videos. Now in this phase of your life, I will be here with prayer, cheering you on! I hope you can feel the love and prayers I am sending.
So sorry you are go8ng through this,I was diagnosed late 2022 surgery and chemo done already. Stage 4 ovarian total hyst. So appreciative to be inCanada! ❤❤❤
I've been following you since Wilson was a baby - I actually named my own son Wilson when he was born in 2022. I'm sending you prayers and happy thoughts and sincere hopes that our broken medical system gets its stuff together to help you jump over this hurdle and move on with your life. Keep smiling and laughing and snuggling babies. This, too, shall pass.
Sending you so much light, love, energy, peace, hugs 💜 I’m sorry you’ve been a victim of the horrible medical system. It’s not fair! Thank you for trusting us with this very hard information. I truly appreciate you for all the amazing things you’ve done, created, helped others with, your existence has been such a beautiful gift to this world. I’ve followed you for a long time. I wasn’t able to children (lost twins in 2005), but I still adore you & your channel. ❤
Praying for you Jess!! Been here since you started this channel! I’ve seen your faithfulness in your walk with the Lord! He will continue to walk by your side. This did not took Him by surprise. ❤
I'm in remission 3 years 3 months stage 1a, serous carcinoma...i experienced the journey alone during the pandemic...stay strong, hopeful , I'll be praying for you...you can do this
Oh my gosh! I’m so sorry you’re going through this! I can’t believe Gods timing with your release of this video though. I’m going in for a LEEP procedure on Friday and everybody keeps telling me it’s no big deal and probably nothing and I just want somebody to acknowledge the fact that I have every right to be afraid because these things are scary. Again I’m so sorry that you’re going through this and I’ll be praying for you and your family!
Oh Jessica, what a frustrating experience. Thank you so much for sharing with us in such a brave, transparent and honest way. I admire this so much about you and your videos are always such an encouragement to me, so thank you 🤍 praying for you and your family 🙏🏾
Keeping you and your family in my prayers. Our healthcare system is so messed up :( You are a bright ray on RUclips and I am so grateful for the community you've created!
I am so sorry to hear about the diagnosis. You’re such a positive and uplifting person and it is so heartbreaking to know you’re on this journey. Even if it’s an “easy” treatment, I imagine the anxiety you feel is debilitating at times. I will be praying for you and your family as you move forward.
Jess.. thank you for being so open and sharing this with us. You don't owe us anything but you have such love for the people you love and care about, as well as your fans. I am praying for you Jess, we are with you.
I had a cervical cancer scare recently. Waiting for results had me practically immobile. I do have a new perspective. Although I didn’t talk about this with the bravery you have. You’re incredibly tough and strong.
Jess, I’m so sorry you’ve had to go thru all this. This is absolutely NOT how things should work. Cancer is serious, regardless of the type or stage. The fact that all these physicians and medical staff are discounting the severity of your diagnosis is disheartening. I’ve gone thru a breast cancer diagnosis and treatment the past year and have learned that you have to advocate for yourself. It’s like these medical offices and doctors think you know what to do and who to call. It’s like damnit I’ve never had cancer before, I don’t know where the hell to even start. Insurance is the biggest PITA too. I went thru a handful of appeals myself until it went to external appeals and then I got approved! Stay strong and don’t give up. You’re worth it!!
Sweet, Jessica ❤️ My husband is a year into his cancer diagnosis.I share that to say first hand cancer is scary. I am so sorry you and your family have to walk thru this. I’m sorry your medical journey has been so ridiculous with the communication and personnel mishaps. I have put you on my prayer list and will keep you there. You are not alone. ❤
Hi Jess, I sent a message on the FB group with some information I've learned through my journey with cancer but just want to say youre doing amazing. This must be such a shock and an emotional roller coaster and im so sorry you're having to navigate this. Unfortunately the hospitals often have no bedside manner and can be pretty awful to deal with at times. Thankfully i didnt need to deal with insurance in thd UK which sounds like an added and unnecessary challenge to an already stressful situation. I hope youll find support from other areas (mine were friends and a wonderful reflexologist trained in treating cancer patients who checked in with me, listened to me and just gave me a sense of calm and care i didnt get through the hospital). In fact many times i felt fighting the hospital was worse than fighting the disease and it was exhausting and anxiety inducing. Being a mom was what i really struggled with. The guilt of wanting to be there for my young son but not being completely in control of that. I learned a lot of unfortunatw truths about the cancer industry during my research which made it difficult to navigate the best ways forward. But i achieved PCR and am healthy and well 2 years on and im sure you will have just as positive an outcome. I just want to say youre strong, you matter, your feelings matter and never stop advocating for yourself ❤
Firstly, I am so sorry you have received this diagnosis and had such a stressful experience with trying to get treatment. I am sending you much love and praying for a full recovery for you. I am listening to you with such shock by your treatment from the healthcare providers and especially your insurance provider. I know it takes energy, but I hope you make official complaints as how you have been treated is not right. Thank you for everything, sending you much love. What a horrible shock for you and your loved ones. Please know you are loved and your kind energy is appreciated and needed in this world. xxxx
Praying for you, Jess! 🫶🏻🙌🏻 thank you for being vulnerable with your audience when you have no obligation to. This is super personal and brave of you to invite people in on your journey, just like when you were going through a difficult time when Eloise was small. Your stories of overcoming have helped and encouraged me as a young wife and mom! Grateful for you and praying for your healing and overcoming 🫶🏻🙏🏻
Oh Jess my heart is bleeding for you and your family. I saw your thumbnail and wanted to vomit bc you are just such a ray of sunshine and a safe space on the internet. I feel it in my bones that you are going to be ok. I am so so utterly sorry you have to deal with this. Please keep us updated when you are ready and have more information. ❤❤❤❤❤
I’m so sorry to hear about all of the chaos 😭😭 sending you healing and well wishes to you and your family - I also recently was diagnosed with cancer and am planning on getting my stomach removed - WE GOT THIS 💪💪💪
I’m so sorry about this Jess. Please document everything you go through, you don’t have to share but document everything!! This is an issue so many people, especially women go through. Im really rooting for you and I’m so sorry the system is so broken. I used to work in healthcare and I’m so familiar with the system
This is my first video of yours I have come across. I’m so sorry for all the frustration with insurance and medical providers. (I’m only halfway through the video) but I hope that you get that care and compassion you need and desire at the oncologist office. I worked oncology for 5 years as an RN. All of our team was wonderful and *normally* oncologist and the rest of the staff are angels and truly love and care for their patients!
First of all, you look like a young Jenny Garth:) Secondly, you are so real. It’s refreshing. Thanks for sharing the beginning, and hopefully short, cancer journey with us. So sorry for all of the mishaps and waiting you have been through. Keep smiling and keep advocating for yourself. You’ve got this!🤗
I’m so sorry. I started watching your videos when I was experiencing postpartum depression. You made me feel less alone in the world. At the time I didn’t know anyone who had gone through it. Also, have been let down by our medical system which is why I go as natural as possible these days including having a home birth for my second baby. Anyways, I just wanted to say thank you for being so honest with the world and for sharing your story. You’ve helped more people than you know. I’m praying for you.
Wow! What a nightmare with those doctors. That is frustrating to even hear about and I can’t imagine how you are feeling living through it while simultaneously trying to mom through the holidays. You have always been such a light to people - especially new moms when they are going through the thick of it. I pray that you have support that overflows right now. Also praying for healing and that you have the “scratch it out with a fingernail” stage . ❤
Jess. I’m so so sorry for the go around. It just feels wrong! I am praying right now for divine appointments in the medical field . That you would feel held by God and advocated for going forward. Thank you for all the ways you encourage us all. Praying for the same encouragement for you
Aww Jess, I started watching you when Wilson was a baby, and you really helped me as a mum from when I just had 1 and didn’t know what to do, and that what I was feeling was normal, and not wrong. Please, start a fund raiser or something. I think your community would be more than happy to bless you. ♥️
This makes me so sad! you are the voice I needed when getting through my intense postpartum experience. You have had such a profound and beautiful impact on my life, I am so grateful for you.
I work for an insurance company and this is SO frustrating to hear. It sounds like the type of plan you have requires referrals for a lot of things. I would call your insurance carrier to see if they have a case manager for oncology patients to help you due to the difficulty you are had in coordinating your own care. It doesn’t hurt to ask. I’m so sorry you’re going thru this as early detection is always encouraged but like you said , it’s he’s not to feel like you’re being penalized for it and set aside as “not a big deal”. Hang in there and keep advocating for yourself. You’re doing great and you are a model in patience with this process. **Squeeze hugs to you**
I myself am currently waiting on results from my cervical biopsies and am a mess. I can only imagine all of the emotions you are feeling. Thank you for taking us on this journey with you as I haven’t been able to find a lot out there on this topic. Praying for you strength and peace ❤
I am so sorry to hear this and so sorry to hear the slow speed you’re receiving help in. This is unacceptable. I was diagnosed with CIN4 (precancerous cells) and told it was a matter of months before I had ‘official’ cervical cancer. This was after my very first smear which I didn’t avoid and went to right away as a ripe early 20 year old. Had a lot of my cervix removed and told “we think we got everything, come back in 5 years” like what!? I was also told I might need a hysterectomy and might not be able to have kids etc etc but it all worked out in the end. The difference to me is I need surgeries during pregnancy to put something in place to keep my cervix closed when pregnant and it’s now ‘incompetent’ and I nearly had my son at 22 weeks. I’ll be thinking about you lots ❤
Hi Jess, your videos really helped me when I was a first time mom. They made me feel really seen and comforted. I am so sorry you're going through this both health wise and because of the insurance situation. That is horrible. Thank you for sharing. Praying for your recovery and strength in dealing with all the health care craziness.
Hi Jess, I randomly came across your videos and subscribed thinking I would come back to watch when I am in a similar stage in life. I am a single, full-time working professional/plus recently graduated from night school student and I have never been married, have no children; only adopted nieces and nephews. The few videos I have been able to watch have been so relatable and filled with such grace and wisdom that I feel like we would totally be friends if I knew you on a personal level. Normally, I do not see your videos in my feed probably because I do not watch them very often/the algorithm etc. but I think I saw this video by divine intervention. I am so sorry that you are going through this right now, especially in light of your lovely family. Because I saw this, I will definitely be praying for you. I have another friend who also was diagnosed with cancer that I have been praying for so I will definitely cover you both! You are a strong woman and I am sure that you're an amazing mom and wife! Please take as much time as you need to have treatment, heal, etc. because you being here on this planet is so rewarding and so much more beneficial than what you do here on YT (which is truly amazing btw). You come first! We are here for you and in the meantime please take care and do not lose hope in the midst of this situation! Take it one day at a time.
I am so sorry and have appreciated your channel as I have navigated motherhood. I hope you know we are all with you and are grateful you are sharing your experience to learn from you. Sending so much love!
Jess, You are always the one to hold us with open arms. I hope you will now let us be the ones to hold you. This must be so scary but know that we are all here for you, surrounding you, and lifting you and your family in prayer. You are so beautiful inside and out and so very brave. Your feelings are valid - praying it’s just a “sprinkle” as you called it and please keep us posted. Much love ❤️
Hi Jess! I started watching you when I found out I was pregnant before having my miscarriage. I have been following you through RUclips and IG. I can’t say I didn’t share a tear, we don’t know each other but following you and your family I feel like I do! 😅 I will be praying for you and your recovery! You will see your babies grow up and you will be there to be an amazing grandmother. Believe that God already healed you ❤ hugs
This is our healthcare system in the greatest country in the world. It's disgusting. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. Wishing you all the best and so many prayers coming your way. Keep smiling.
WOW- I can’t believe you still have energy to laugh about it, May God Bless you, and guide you during this terrifying journey. I am ABSOLUTELY APPALLED at the way you have been treated since your diagnosis. It’s awful to have so little support from the health insurance people. You would think that they would make it more feasible for you to start your treatment ASAP- that way it would be less costly in the long run. I wish you God speed on this new journey.
I’m so sorry the medical/insurance systems are so bad. I hope things start to go smoother for you ❤️ As a mother to 3 small children also I can only imagine the scenarios playing out in your head xx Sending all the healthy, healing vibes your way now and always
My heart sank when I saw the title of the video. I'm so sorry you are going through this and that the medical system is failing you. You are so strong, I know you will get through this. I'm praying for you and your family ❤
I've been watching your videos since before I was pregnant (my daughter is two now). I will be praying for your healing, recovery and for your family. 💗
Ugh Jess the medical system is so messed up since Covid I’ve experienced that myself, I’m so so so sorry you’re going through this right now. I will be praying and I know you will take this and make it positive! You have a HUGE support system and they will have your back all the way. I’m so sorry people are minimizing this that’s so not ok… I can imagine being in your shoes id want to shake any and all of the professionals who said something like that to me. PRAYNG they get you in asap and it is quick and easy! Stay positive and keep advocating for yourself…. Don’t take no for an answer Mama! ❤️ you’ve got this!!!
Wow. I started watching your videos when I was pregnant with my first and now I’m on my 4th pregnancy..I haven’t watched in a while but I was like wait I need to watch this cause this is my friend. I’m so sorry and I will pray for you and especially for the comfort of your heart and for healing❤
My grandmother survived cervical cancer in her 20s after having 5 kids. She's got liver cancer now but she's in her 90s and lived up til recently cancer free. I'm praying for you
I don’t know if you remember me but we talked on the phone once, and that was such a gift to me. It still is. What a wild goose chase you’ve been on, I’m so sorry that the medical system has failed you in so many ways. That is unjust and invalidating. I am praying for you and sending you love from afar!! ❤❤❤
Good grief!! I am so sorry you went through all of that!!! I had cancer a few years ago and can’t imagine going through all of that on top of the scary journey of cancer. Praying for you Jess! Praying God will heal your body and help work out every detail. 🩷
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I'm a nurse AND a cancer survivor. One important tip to anyone: ALWAYS ask for printed copies of every test result, scan or other imaging report, and pathology report. You can also ask your hospital for copies of scans on a CD so that the next doc can view (with their own eyes) and imaging. Keep all your results together, and if you have a patient portal, download everything to your own computer so it's easily accessible for the next doc. Learning to take control of your cancer journey is not only important, but minimizes the feeling of helplessness. Keep track of the names and dates of everyone you speak to on the phone or at appointments. Wishing you all the very best, and a cancer-free outcome!
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Wow this is such good advice. Thanks for your insight and work as a nurse ❤️
This is such such huge advice, because I had stage 3 cervical cells twice after my last two pregnancies.
This was quite advanced I had laser colonoscopy then due to another issue to do with my ovary, I had a full hysterectomy. Truthfully this was more serious than I thought at the time, but I don’t feel it was ever at a life threatening levels although at the time it was taken very seriously especially as it was creeping up to my womb.
The level is so important because if it is stage 1 pre cancerous it can sometimes be a watch and wait and can sometimes clear itself,
YESSSSSSS THE BEST ADVICE. A love one of mine has cancer and keeping up with data is impossible.
Thank you.
I had Cervical Cancer at 28 years old . I had 2 kids already and got a partial Hysterectomy. I have been Cancer free for 34 years.
Thank you for sharing your testimony! It brings some positive vibes for us going through it right now!
Yes indeed.
Stage of ur cancer ?
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I'm glad u ok & u get though all trials. I just have diagnos cervical cancer stage 1.doc said need to surgery and and am scared,I did not have MRI yet..dont know what to do should I go for surgery?
I've never felt second hand frustration this strongly before. Love you Jess
Thanks so much *MR OBALAR* on RUclips for curing me from Herpes, keep saving lives.❤.
Can I just say that I started watching your videos when I was recovering from bone cancer. I'm now 30 and I have two children. Your baby videos gave me so much advice, grace, and encouragement. I am praying for you. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable thing.
Wow thank you! This is so encouraging to hear. ❤️ So happy you are well!
No this is Not Ok Not Acceptable. Your # 1 Job is to work w/ your Insurance until you have a COMPETENT Oncologist who treats you as a Cancer Patient who Needs Immediate Attention.
So glad to hear that you recovered from the bone cancer! I know that’s a difficult diagnosis.
I'm a cervical cancer survivor, now a radiation therapist, because of my own cancer walk. YOU GOT THIS! Praying for your health and strength throughout this journey! ❤
Thanks so much *MR OBALAR* on RUclips for curing me from Herpes, keep saving lives.❤..
I just watched Hank Green and Grace Helbig go through their own cancers, and they both said "If you can, make cancer your job. It really is a full-time job to manage it."
Set aside as many responsibilities you can to give yourself some space to manage this. I'm so sorry our healthcare system is making this your responsibility... You are such a rock star, and you will get to the end of this! Take as much time as you need/can. We're here for you!!
While I completely agree with the sentiment in theory, it's a lot easier to "make cancer your job" when you have enough money to not need to do an actual job. The impact of financial privilege of the experience of being sick cannot be overstated, especially somewhere like the USA where illness is expensive and financial barriers, like varying levels of health insurance coverage, limit accessibility
I am so sorry the medical system has failed you so far Jess, but I'm glad to hear you have gotten back on track by advocating for yourself. I am a medical professional, and cancer is always a big deal unless the oncologist says otherwise. Sending all the prayers and good vibes your way that it is very small/ already gone, but hopefully you get some answers very soon!
Jess, you and your videos singlehandly saved me when I had an unexpected pregnancy in 2019; I finally felt like I had someone to walk through motherhood with. My daughter is 4 now, and thriving, and I attribute a lot of it to you! While I can never repay that favor, know that I (and many, many others) wish you nothing but the best in your recovery, and we are sending love and hugs from around the world. ❤
Thanks so much *MR OBALAR* on RUclips for curing me from Herpes, keep saving lives.❤..
Jess I am so sorry for everything you’ve had to go through with this 😣🥺 I’m praying for you and your family and I’m sending you love rn 🙏🏻🫶🏻🤍
I just saw this and my heart sank 🩷 I'm so sorry Jess. I've been watching your videos and listening to your podcast for 3 years since I became a mom and you've been such a big influence & positive voice in my life. Thank you for your honesty, vulnerability, and bravery in sharing this news & journey. I will be praying for you and your family as you walk through this together. 🙏🏼 Much love from Canada 🇨🇦
Thank you so much 🥹🥹
All the Love from 🇨🇦 You’ve helped me get thru the first 8 months of motherhood, and helped me know when it was time to reach out for help. I actually shed some tears telling my partner about this video, they just came up 🤷🏻♀️🥺 Then I took your advice to heart, and will be looking after my uterine health better too (just had a wonky CT scan with bulky this and swollen that) - I booked a follow up PAP. Love you Jess, and all the other mothers and RUclips followers reading this. 🙏🏻❤️
Thanks so much *MR OBALAR* on RUclips for curing me from Herpes, keep saving lives.❤..
I’m usually a silent watcher on RUclips. But I wanted to say I’m currently 18 weeks pregnant with my first and even though I’ve been watching your videos for a long time your still the motherhood content I turn to. I will be praying for you often. It’s amazing how even in dark moments you still shine so bright.
Girl I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m actually a cervical cancer survivor myself and I’m sending you tons of love and support. You GOT this. I had stage 1 and they removed a part of my cervix but enough to get the cancer but I should 🤞🏽 hopefully be able to still conceive. May you get through this will grace and ease. Don’t be afraid. You GOT this. Your oncologist will send you to get a PET scan so they can confirm where the cancer is and if it’s local or spread to lymph nodes (God willing no). This is the process they go through to stage you. You will get through this. I promise. It is the scariest thing I’ve been through so you’re not alone sister. It’s scary. You will survive this.
I have never heard someone describe navigating our healthcare system so beautifully as you have. I’ve lived with a chronic Leukemia for 14 years and I have heard and experienced it all, although I’m baffled at whatever took you so long to get an appointment with an Onc, holy-moly! It IS scary and no one tells you that a class is needed for how to be a cancer patient AND advocate for yourself! I have found my cancer center social worker has been a life-saver for me.🌸
Speaking pure healing over you in Jesus mighty and powerful name; rebuking all sickness, disease and imbalance in the body. We speak total restoration and anointing over your entire being. Blessing your life with new amazing health. A long happy life and a powerful impact through this.
Oh Jess. I’ve been a silent follower since my first kiddo and I have so so valued your honest, your compassion, and your “companionship” through motherhood. This IS a big deal. I’m so sorry. Praying for helpful and compassionate doctors going forward and for the right people to surround you and support you. ❤️
I’m so so sorry you’re going through this. Nothing is worse than not knowing. I had my hysterectomy last year after getting diagnosed with cervical cancer. It was a 3 year long journey stemming from an abnormal pap smear when I was pregnant. You helped me so much when I became a mom, no one is tougher than a mom - you’ll get through this bump in the road. Sending you all the love!
You are my favorite mother. You've made me a better one. Praying and thinking for you.
Ugh I am so sorry you’re going through all this. As a former oncology nurse who is now taking time to be home with my babies, this is disheartening to hear. You have every right to feel frustrated with the system and the care that you’ve so far received. I truly hope you get in to see an oncologist soon because unfortunately that is the only way you’ll get the answers you need in regard to staging and potential progression. Sending prayers and well wishes your way ❤
This video is gut wrenching. I can hear the anxiety, fear, and just massive amount of emotions pouring out. And I am seriously going to be praying for you tonight. You are so incredibly strong, beautiful and inspiring just all around as a woman. I am so so sorry this has been a huge pain in the butt as far as dealing with the poor communication and confusing information. It’s all a lot. God has got this, he knows every hair on your head, he knows the days before they come. You are His and He is yours. Xoxo 💗🙏🏼
How incredibly frustrating. 😔 I am so so sorry you’re not only dealing with the scary diagnosis with a lack of clarity but then a major failure of the healthcare system on top of it. I can’t imagine how difficult it has been for you to hold such uneasy half-knowledge of your own health for so long. I pray everyone can put themselves in your shoes and understand the gravity of this to help you get into someone who will be a huge supporter and advocate for you in the spots you can’t reach alone. Sending so much love and support your way and praying for healing of your mind and body ❤
Jess 💛I am so frustrated and sorry. Thank you for sharing your (aggravating, unfair, not okay) journey navigating the healthcare and insurance system so far. I am praying for you. You're a light to so many women who are also praying and sending you love.
It sounds like she may have had Medicaid or some government sponsored insurance because I have experienced the same with Medicaid. You call the insurance to see a doctor and they give you a list of three doctors that are approved under your insurance and then you call the doctors and they say they don’t accept your insurance or the number is disconnected or the doctor isn’t accepting new patients…. Long story short, I wind up paying out of pocket for some of my medical needs just because my insurance is so confusing and crappy that I feel like I’d rather just pay a fortune and rack up debt than not be medically treated correctly.
I am so sorry for how frustrating all of this has been! But as a health care professional, I am grateful for you sharing this experience in this detail because we don't really see that side of it. It makes me want to do better for my patients.
I'll tell everyone about you *MR OBALAR* coming across your RUclips channel was a blessing, I'm free from hpv, victory at last
Wow Jessica, I was stunned to see your posting about your cancer dx. I watched your channel faithfully when my daughter was expecting our grandson, who BTW turns 4yrs this Valentine’s day. I learned so much from you which helped me be a better grandmother and mother to my daughter. I’m a retired nurse who worked for 46 yrs in the clinical setting. I will be 76yrs old in couple weeks so first, I’m giving you a great big hug , and validating your every concern. You need a patient advocate to help you navigate this mixed up health care system. Unfortunately for now you will your own best advocate. Get a notebook and get your records so they will be in one place. Make copies because you may need to hand them over at your Dr visits , or portions of them. Keep a timeline of when it started and who you talked to. What Insurance coverage denied you procedures or treatment. Time is of the essence!!! There’s no such thing as a “little bit of cancer” You are a young woman with 3 beautiful kids. I hope you meet the right Dr who does the right thing. You may need to loose your ovaries but if your cancer spreads to your ovaries you will never know till
thats too late ( symptoms are hard to detect) I may be sounding harsh but I learned a long time ago to say
what is true not necessarily what the patient wants to hear. Please keep us informed on this unexpected
journey . I hope the comments you receive from this are positive. You need constructive support and ideas. It’s good for people to share their experiences, be kind and positive, and to the point. I will keep you and your family in my prayers,wishing you all the best!
I was diagnosed with cervical cancer in 2017. I completely understand how you are feeling. I ended having a hysterectomy but I kept my ovaries. I had micro invasive adenocarcinoma. My doctor didn’t know if I was going to need chemo and radiation until after I had my hysterectomy. Luckily the cancer didn’t reach my lymph nodes and I didn’t need chemo and radiation. I would join a support group for cervical cancer survivors. I found a couple of groups on Facebook. It’s good to talk to others who have or going through what you are through. I also ended up going to therapy to help my process what I had gone through.
I’ve watched you for 5 years now since I got pregnant with my baby and you’ve helped me in more ways than you could imagine. I hope that this is easy and just a perspective change. I am praying for you and your family. Thank you for being a light for mother’s who are doing their best.
Oh jess, I'm sorry our healthcare system is giving you such a hard time. Great job advocating for yourself with doctors/ insurance! What you're going through is scary and you shouldn't have to fight so hard to have your medical needs met. I've learned so much from your videos (despite not having children of my own yet) and I hope this situation is just a bump in the road of the long beautiful life you're meant to have
This breaks my heart. You are such a force of nature, and a positive influence not only on my view of how to approach motherhood but life as a whole. I've always admired the way you radiate kindness and warmth and everything you say feels like an encouraging hug. We need people like you around, so know you have all of our love through this. ❤
I’m only half way through watching and just tearing up from the insanity and incompetence of insurance companies and how this could impact your health. It impacts your mental and physical health to go through this horrible treatment. It reminds me of my c-section to prevent a NICU stay and then the hospital refusal to let me OBGYN perform the surgery and then the hospital pediatrician pushing for NICU stay and unnecessary tests and work and insurance denying claims for months and months. No. Just no. You have cancer. You need every minute to fight it. You and the entire US deserve more. Thank you for your vulnerability ❤
Hey Jess, I am a cervical cancer survivor and a mother. I was diagnosed when I was just 7 weeks postpartum, so it was so so hard on my body and mind. Stay strong and push through it. Cancer doesn't mean death! As for medical system failing you - consider consulting in another contry if you are open to it, private hospitals are effective and not that expensive in some parts of the world. I will pray for you. 🙏
Oh Jess, I am so sorry! How frustrating the medical system is 😭 I can’t get over your positivity and laughter through this…that will carry you through! ❤
Jess I watched sooo many of your videos during my pregnancy with my daughter in 2021. I so appreciated how “real” you were with your mental health, mom challenges, and willingness to share your experiences.
I HATE to hear you have cancer. I am so sorry. And that it has been a tough process with getting treatment. That sucks!!!
You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I have had multiple family members with cancer. And it sucks no matter what stage or severity.
Please try to take time for as much holistic self care as possible. All my best wishes for you in this journey. Please keep us posted as you can. ❤
I’m sorry you haven’t been supported. You are such a lovely person and I’m adding you to my prayer list. Lots of love your way!
Oh noooo. I was just telling my friends about how much I’ve loved your videos for years (I am in my 20s and not a mom but find you super comforting). You are such a shiny, incredible person and I am sending you and the entire family lots of hugs and positivity❤️❤️We all love you so much.
You are so calm collected and positive. I'm in shock how well you have taken this information and how unprofessional the system is where you live. I'm praying for clarity and recovery for you 🙏🏼💖
Jess! I am so so sorry. You deserve the opposite of the experience you are having! You are such a light in this world with the most beautiful heart and you deserve all the most beautiful, best, most amazing support and care possible ! It was just painful hearing how the care you have gotten so far has been so far away from what you give and what you deserve! I am praying for nothing but the most beautiful, best care, experiences, and outcomes from here on out. You deserve all the love in the world.
You have given a wealth of knowledge to so many people on this app, me being one. And I just want to send my sympathies that you have been let down by the system and are going through this. We are so fortunate for the NHS here in the uk. I am so sorry the world is not showing you the urgency you deserve x
I'll tell everyone about you *MR OBALAR* coming across your RUclips channel was a blessing,,I'm free from hpv, victory at last
Hi Jess, I’ve been a subscriber for a number of years but I don’t think I’ve ever commented.
You are such a positive light and even talking about a major personal issue not knowing the extent of the diagnosis, you do it with grace and calm and clarity. I’m from Australia where our healthcare system is amazing, so I feel for you that you are having to chase the answers and the help rather than it coming to you.
I would love to be kept in the loop on YT on how your journey progresses, I wish nothing but health on you and your family ❤
You are such a beautiful light and this must be such an intense thing to face. I'm so so sorry! The American healthcare system is absolutely atrocious. I, along with countless others, have been absolutely tossed around. I have cried so many times having to advocate for myself between so many Drs and the insurance and then getting bills I wasn't expected. I'm so sorry. I feel for you. Our healthcare system is so so bad.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. We’re all here for you ❤
I am 72, had cervical cancer at the age of 40. Had to have a full hysterectomy, tests came back fine. Sending lots of love and positive vibes 💖
It’s makes me so sad that you’ve had to jump through all these hoops… I can’t imagine how frustrating and scary this must feel. You’ve held my hand through motherhood, and have given me so much via your channel. All my love is being sent your way 🤍
A few years ago I was really struggling and going through a hard phase in life. One thing that gave me hope was watching your videos. Now in this phase of your life, I will be here with prayer, cheering you on! I hope you can feel the love and prayers I am sending.
So sorry you are go8ng through this,I was diagnosed late 2022 surgery and chemo done already. Stage 4 ovarian total hyst. So appreciative to be inCanada! ❤❤❤
I've been following you since Wilson was a baby - I actually named my own son Wilson when he was born in 2022. I'm sending you prayers and happy thoughts and sincere hopes that our broken medical system gets its stuff together to help you jump over this hurdle and move on with your life. Keep smiling and laughing and snuggling babies. This, too, shall pass.
Sending you so much light, love, energy, peace, hugs 💜 I’m sorry you’ve been a victim of the horrible medical system. It’s not fair! Thank you for trusting us with this very hard information. I truly appreciate you for all the amazing things you’ve done, created, helped others with, your existence has been such a beautiful gift to this world. I’ve followed you for a long time. I wasn’t able to children (lost twins in 2005), but I still adore you & your channel. ❤
Praying for you Jess!! Been here since you started this channel! I’ve seen your faithfulness in your walk with the Lord! He will continue to walk by your side. This did not took Him by surprise. ❤
I had a hysterectomy (LSH) for different reasons and it was THE BEST decision I’ve ever made!! ❤️❤️
I'm in remission 3 years 3 months stage 1a, serous carcinoma...i experienced the journey alone during the pandemic...stay strong, hopeful , I'll be praying for you...you can do this
Oh my gosh! I’m so sorry you’re going through this! I can’t believe Gods timing with your release of this video though. I’m going in for a LEEP procedure on Friday and everybody keeps telling me it’s no big deal and probably nothing and I just want somebody to acknowledge the fact that I have every right to be afraid because these things are scary. Again I’m so sorry that you’re going through this and I’ll be praying for you and your family!
Oh Jessica, what a frustrating experience. Thank you so much for sharing with us in such a brave, transparent and honest way. I admire this so much about you and your videos are always such an encouragement to me, so thank you 🤍 praying for you and your family 🙏🏾
Keeping you and your family in my prayers. Our healthcare system is so messed up :(
You are a bright ray on RUclips and I am so grateful for the community you've created!
This is absolutely heartbreaking that you are going through this 💔 I am so sorry. Sending you hugs, prayers, and light 💛
I am so sorry to hear about the diagnosis. You’re such a positive and uplifting person and it is so heartbreaking to know you’re on this journey. Even if it’s an “easy” treatment, I imagine the anxiety you feel is debilitating at times. I will be praying for you and your family as you move forward.
Jess.. thank you for being so open and sharing this with us. You don't owe us anything but you have such love for the people you love and care about, as well as your fans. I am praying for you Jess, we are with you.
I had a cervical cancer scare recently. Waiting for results had me practically immobile. I do have a new perspective. Although I didn’t talk about this with the bravery you have. You’re incredibly tough and strong.
Jess, I’m so sorry you’ve had to go thru all this. This is absolutely NOT how things should work. Cancer is serious, regardless of the type or stage. The fact that all these physicians and medical staff are discounting the severity of your diagnosis is disheartening. I’ve gone thru a breast cancer diagnosis and treatment the past year and have learned that you have to advocate for yourself. It’s like these medical offices and doctors think you know what to do and who to call. It’s like damnit I’ve never had cancer before, I don’t know where the hell to even start. Insurance is the biggest PITA too. I went thru a handful of appeals myself until it went to external appeals and then I got approved! Stay strong and don’t give up. You’re worth it!!
May you know and feel His joy in this time of ‘unsettleness” and fear. Praying for you and your family. 🙏🏻✝️🕊️
Sweet, Jessica ❤️ My husband is a year into his cancer diagnosis.I share that to say first hand cancer is scary. I am so sorry you and your family have to walk thru this. I’m sorry your medical journey has been so ridiculous with the communication and personnel mishaps. I have put you on my prayer list and will keep you there. You are not alone. ❤
Hi Jess,
I sent a message on the FB group with some information I've learned through my journey with cancer but just want to say youre doing amazing.
This must be such a shock and an emotional roller coaster and im so sorry you're having to navigate this.
Unfortunately the hospitals often have no bedside manner and can be pretty awful to deal with at times. Thankfully i didnt need to deal with insurance in thd UK which sounds like an added and unnecessary challenge to an already stressful situation.
I hope youll find support from other areas (mine were friends and a wonderful reflexologist trained in treating cancer patients who checked in with me, listened to me and just gave me a sense of calm and care i didnt get through the hospital).
In fact many times i felt fighting the hospital was worse than fighting the disease and it was exhausting and anxiety inducing.
Being a mom was what i really struggled with. The guilt of wanting to be there for my young son but not being completely in control of that.
I learned a lot of unfortunatw truths about the cancer industry during my research which made it difficult to navigate the best ways forward. But i achieved PCR and am healthy and well 2 years on and im sure you will have just as positive an outcome.
I just want to say youre strong, you matter, your feelings matter and never stop advocating for yourself ❤
Firstly, I am so sorry you have received this diagnosis and had such a stressful experience with trying to get treatment. I am sending you much love and praying for a full recovery for you. I am listening to you with such shock by your treatment from the healthcare providers and especially your insurance provider. I know it takes energy, but I hope you make official complaints as how you have been treated is not right. Thank you for everything, sending you much love. What a horrible shock for you and your loved ones. Please know you are loved and your kind energy is appreciated and needed in this world. xxxx
Praying for you, Jess! 🫶🏻🙌🏻 thank you for being vulnerable with your audience when you have no obligation to. This is super personal and brave of you to invite people in on your journey, just like when you were going through a difficult time when Eloise was small.
Your stories of overcoming have helped and encouraged me as a young wife and mom! Grateful for you and praying for your healing and overcoming 🫶🏻🙏🏻
Oh Jess my heart is bleeding for you and your family. I saw your thumbnail and wanted to vomit bc you are just such a ray of sunshine and a safe space on the internet. I feel it in my bones that you are going to be ok. I am so so utterly sorry you have to deal with this. Please keep us updated when you are ready and have more information. ❤❤❤❤❤
I’m so sorry to hear about all of the chaos 😭😭 sending you healing and well wishes to you and your family - I also recently was diagnosed with cancer and am planning on getting my stomach removed - WE GOT THIS 💪💪💪
I’m so sorry about this Jess. Please document everything you go through, you don’t have to share but document everything!! This is an issue so many people, especially women go through. Im really rooting for you and I’m so sorry the system is so broken. I used to work in healthcare and I’m so familiar with the system
This is my first video of yours I have come across. I’m so sorry for all the frustration with insurance and medical providers. (I’m only halfway through the video) but I hope that you get that care and compassion you need and desire at the oncologist office. I worked oncology for 5 years as an RN. All of our team was wonderful and *normally* oncologist and the rest of the staff are angels and truly love and care for their patients!
First of all, you look like a young Jenny Garth:)
Secondly, you are so real. It’s refreshing. Thanks for sharing the beginning, and hopefully short, cancer journey with us. So sorry for all of the mishaps and waiting you have been through. Keep smiling and keep advocating for yourself. You’ve got this!🤗
My heart sank reading the title. Praying that God opens doors for you to get the treatment you need and deserve. Sending you love 💕🙏🏽✨
I’m so sorry. I started watching your videos when I was experiencing postpartum depression. You made me feel less alone in the world. At the time I didn’t know anyone who had gone through it. Also, have been let down by our medical system which is why I go as natural as possible these days including having a home birth for my second baby. Anyways, I just wanted to say thank you for being so honest with the world and for sharing your story. You’ve helped more people than you know. I’m praying for you.
Wow! What a nightmare with those doctors. That is frustrating to even hear about and I can’t imagine how you are feeling living through it while simultaneously trying to mom through the holidays.
You have always been such a light to people - especially new moms when they are going through the thick of it. I pray that you have support that overflows right now. Also praying for healing and that you have the “scratch it out with a fingernail” stage . ❤
Jess I've been watching you since before I had children and now I have two. We all love and support you so much ❤
Covering you in prayer Jess! You are loved ❤
Jess.
I’m so so sorry for the go around. It just feels wrong! I am praying right now for divine appointments in the medical field . That you would feel held by God and advocated for going forward. Thank you for all the ways you encourage us all. Praying for the same encouragement for you
Aww Jess, I started watching you when Wilson was a baby, and you really helped me as a mum from when I just had 1 and didn’t know what to do, and that what I was feeling was normal, and not wrong. Please, start a fund raiser or something. I think your community would be more than happy to bless you. ♥️
This makes me so sad! you are the voice I needed when getting through my intense postpartum experience. You have had such a profound and beautiful impact on my life, I am so grateful for you.
I work for an insurance company and this is SO frustrating to hear. It sounds like the type of plan you have requires referrals for a lot of things. I would call your insurance carrier to see if they have a case manager for oncology patients to help you due to the difficulty you are had in coordinating your own care. It doesn’t hurt to ask.
I’m so sorry you’re going thru this as early detection is always encouraged but like you said , it’s he’s not to feel like you’re being penalized for it and set aside as “not a big deal”. Hang in there and keep advocating for yourself. You’re doing great and you are a model in patience with this process. **Squeeze hugs to you**
I have been watching for YEARS and you have helped me tremendously. I am so sorry Jess. Praying for you and your family 🤍
I myself am currently waiting on results from my cervical biopsies and am a mess. I can only imagine all of the emotions you are feeling. Thank you for taking us on this journey with you as I haven’t been able to find a lot out there on this topic. Praying for you strength and peace ❤
I am so sorry to hear this and so sorry to hear the slow speed you’re receiving help in. This is unacceptable.
I was diagnosed with CIN4 (precancerous cells) and told it was a matter of months before I had ‘official’ cervical cancer. This was after my very first smear which I didn’t avoid and went to right away as a ripe early 20 year old.
Had a lot of my cervix removed and told “we think we got everything, come back in 5 years” like what!?
I was also told I might need a hysterectomy and might not be able to have kids etc etc but it all worked out in the end. The difference to me is I need surgeries during pregnancy to put something in place to keep my cervix closed when pregnant and it’s now ‘incompetent’ and I nearly had my son at 22 weeks.
I’ll be thinking about you lots ❤
Hi Jess, your videos really helped me when I was a first time mom. They made me feel really seen and comforted. I am so sorry you're going through this both health wise and because of the insurance situation. That is horrible. Thank you for sharing. Praying for your recovery and strength in dealing with all the health care craziness.
New sub. I found out I have cervical cancer 5 months ago and an on my second chemo treatment now. Stage 3. Wishing all the best for you.
Hi Jess, I randomly came across your videos and subscribed thinking I would come back to watch when I am in a similar stage in life. I am a single, full-time working professional/plus recently graduated from night school student and I have never been married, have no children; only adopted nieces and nephews. The few videos I have been able to watch have been so relatable and filled with such grace and wisdom that I feel like we would totally be friends if I knew you on a personal level. Normally, I do not see your videos in my feed probably because I do not watch them very often/the algorithm etc. but I think I saw this video by divine intervention. I am so sorry that you are going through this right now, especially in light of your lovely family. Because I saw this, I will definitely be praying for you. I have another friend who also was diagnosed with cancer that I have been praying for so I will definitely cover you both! You are a strong woman and I am sure that you're an amazing mom and wife! Please take as much time as you need to have treatment, heal, etc. because you being here on this planet is so rewarding and so much more beneficial than what you do here on YT (which is truly amazing btw). You come first! We are here for you and in the meantime please take care and do not lose hope in the midst of this situation! Take it one day at a time.
I am so sorry and have appreciated your channel as I have navigated motherhood. I hope you know we are all with you and are grateful you are sharing your experience to learn from you. Sending so much love!
I am a cancer survivor and a nurse practitioner. 🙏🏽Prayers Going Up for You. Please advocate aggressively for yourself. ❤
Jess,
You are always the one to hold us with open arms. I hope you will now let us be the ones to hold you. This must be so scary but know that we are all here for you, surrounding you, and lifting you and your family in prayer.
You are so beautiful inside and out and so very brave.
Your feelings are valid - praying it’s just a “sprinkle” as you called it and please keep us posted.
Much love ❤️
Hi Jess! I started watching you when I found out I was pregnant before having my miscarriage. I have been following you through RUclips and IG. I can’t say I didn’t share a tear, we don’t know each other but following you and your family I feel like I do! 😅 I will be praying for you and your recovery! You will see your babies grow up and you will be there to be an amazing grandmother. Believe that God already healed you ❤ hugs
This is our healthcare system in the greatest country in the world. It's disgusting. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. Wishing you all the best and so many prayers coming your way. Keep smiling.
WOW- I can’t believe you still have energy to laugh about it, May God Bless you, and guide you during this terrifying journey. I am ABSOLUTELY APPALLED at the way you have been treated since your diagnosis. It’s awful to have so little support from the health insurance people. You would think that they would make it more feasible for you to start your treatment ASAP- that way it would be less costly in the long run.
I wish you God speed on this new journey.
I’m so sorry the medical/insurance systems are so bad. I hope things start to go smoother for you ❤️ As a mother to 3 small children also I can only imagine the scenarios playing out in your head xx Sending all the healthy, healing vibes your way now and always
My heart sank when I saw the title of the video. I'm so sorry you are going through this and that the medical system is failing you. You are so strong, I know you will get through this. I'm praying for you and your family ❤
I've been watching your videos since before I was pregnant (my daughter is two now).
I will be praying for your healing, recovery and for your family. 💗
Thank you for being there for us through the years, please make the next year is all about YOU.
Ugh Jess the medical system is so messed up since Covid I’ve experienced that myself, I’m so so so sorry you’re going through this right now. I will be praying and I know you will take this and make it positive! You have a HUGE support system and they will have your back all the way. I’m so sorry people are minimizing this that’s so not ok… I can imagine being in your shoes id want to shake any and all of the professionals who said something like that to me. PRAYNG they get you in asap and it is quick and easy! Stay positive and keep advocating for yourself…. Don’t take no for an answer Mama! ❤️ you’ve got this!!!
Wow. I started watching your videos when I was pregnant with my first and now I’m on my 4th pregnancy..I haven’t watched in a while but I was like wait I need to watch this cause this is my friend. I’m so sorry and I will pray for you and especially for the comfort of your heart and for healing❤
Geeeeeesh that must be so frustrating having to wait for answers like that! I’m so sorry Jess, you will be in my prayers.
May the right doctor show up on your path and guide you with empathy and care through this 🙏 We will be walking along side you and supporting you ❤
My grandmother survived cervical cancer in her 20s after having 5 kids. She's got liver cancer now but she's in her 90s and lived up til recently cancer free. I'm praying for you
I don’t know if you remember me but we talked on the phone once, and that was such a gift to me. It still is. What a wild goose chase you’ve been on, I’m so sorry that the medical system has failed you in so many ways. That is unjust and invalidating. I am praying for you and sending you love from afar!! ❤❤❤
Good grief!! I am so sorry you went through all of that!!! I had cancer a few years ago and can’t imagine going through all of that on top of the scary journey of cancer. Praying for you Jess! Praying God will heal your body and help work out every detail. 🩷